The guest’s subject is fascinating. The host is much less interesting and in my view would benefit from developing his listening, interview skills. There are far too many interviewers on UA-cam channels who turn any given guest’s subject in to an opportunity to present their own story.
@@OleSays0370 This is a late comment but i really enjoyed this interview, i think this commenter is being unnecessarily harsh on you. You didn't interrupt her or bang on about your own stuff that wasn't related to the subject. More questions could have been asked but not a bad interview at all, a very good convo.
@@_jovial Thank you for your feedback. It has always been my "job" as I see it, to provide a platform for the people I interview to get their message out there. I offer my comments as a way of perhaps making it more "common place" (?) so as to make the viewer not feel this is some esoteric philosophizing. I haven't done one in a while and am hoping to launch a new series. It will just be me, but trying to provide simple helpful thoughts. Take care and thanks again for your comments.
@@OleSays0370personally, I loved that you shared your own story also, it makes the whole interview a bit more conversational and real. I have watched too many interviews where it is a rigid answer and question format. You did great.
The worst is when fathers sexualize their daughters instead of telling them how to be strong and brave. Uncle was no different. He abandons his family for another lover in another country and she calls us for money. Don't tell me I cannot understand Cantonese when all you've done is tell me How un-American I am, and how un-Chinese I am. I wish not every statement I make is one in which you tell me you're going to call law enforcement on me, because you don't give a shit about me. I hate existing. I really do. I do not care what other people say about being a "coward" I've never been a COWARD. I bleeping hate people and their agendas. The world is an evil place. Now he's dying and expects us to care? You've never been with us! You abandoned us!
I am so sorry to hear of your pain. I hope that you can find a therapist you can relate to and work through your issues. Take care = there is always hope!
Dr. Susan E. Schwartz is such a wonderful speaker, I gain so much every time I hear her. Much appreciation for a meaningful conversation.
Thank you for your comment!
Thank you for this enriching and important work and interview
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thank you. Very validating.
I never saw my father in my life.
I am sorry to hear. I hope you have been able to work through any issues you have from this unfortunate life experience.
The guest’s subject is fascinating. The host is much less interesting and in my view would benefit from developing his listening, interview skills. There are far too many interviewers on UA-cam channels who turn any given guest’s subject in to an opportunity to present their own story.
Thanks for the feedback - I will work on my interviewing skills. Did you look at any of the other interviews?
@@OleSays0370 This is a late comment but i really enjoyed this interview, i think this commenter is being unnecessarily harsh on you. You didn't interrupt her or bang on about your own stuff that wasn't related to the subject. More questions could have been asked but not a bad interview at all, a very good convo.
@@_jovial Thank you for your feedback. It has always been my "job" as I see it, to provide a platform for the people I interview to get their message out there. I offer my comments as a way of perhaps making it more "common place" (?) so as to make the viewer not feel this is some esoteric philosophizing. I haven't done one in a while and am hoping to launch a new series. It will just be me, but trying to provide simple helpful thoughts. Take care and thanks again for your comments.
@@OleSays0370personally, I loved that you shared your own story also, it makes the whole interview a bit more conversational and real. I have watched too many interviews where it is a rigid answer and question format. You did great.
The worst is when fathers sexualize their daughters instead of telling them how to be strong and brave. Uncle was no different. He abandons his family for another lover in another country and she calls us for money. Don't tell me I cannot understand Cantonese when all you've done is tell me How un-American I am, and how un-Chinese I am. I wish not every statement I make is one in which you tell me you're going to call law enforcement on me, because you don't give a shit about me. I hate existing. I really do. I do not care what other people say about being a "coward" I've never been a COWARD. I bleeping hate people and their agendas. The world is an evil place. Now he's dying and expects us to care? You've never been with us! You abandoned us!
I am so sorry to hear of your pain. I hope that you can find a therapist you can relate to and work through your issues. Take care = there is always hope!