Boys will be boys || Kdrama Multifandom [TW]
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The comment section with girls telling their stories just tells us that there isn't a single girl who hasn't been faced Eve teasing or any kind of harrassment in her life
I am here but who knows how long it will last
@@no.7915 take care cause i know how it feels
You're right some girls are just not yet been through that😶
I haven’t faced and such harsh harassment but I was bullied for being fat in grade 4 (it was the funny kind of bullying not this extreme, torturous high school bullying they show in kdramas, and we were all mindless children so it doesn’t rlly matter)
But who knows what could happen in the future, it’s scary.
@@TheGreatWallOfJapan_me too 🥺
My friend was once passing all dressed through an alley alone during the day , a guy on a bike rushed pass her and started passing weird remarks and even touched her. She started abusing him as soon as the guy heard it he rushed back towards her and tried to hit her , she ran away with so much difficulty. So I was just wondering what should a girl do in such situations cause obviously men are more physically strong , if we abuse them or hit them due to their horrible actions God knows what they will do in return
Firstly, so sry that happened to ur frnd...hope she's alr now and secondly I don't agree with u on that..I mean fighting back is still better than doing nothing and just standing there helpless waiting for that sh!t to happen.. I believe in acting smart, you analyze the situation and see if you can fight or flight cuz it's either of one or in some situations act manipulativly.. it all depends on the situation but either way doing something is still better than doing nothing.
@@yeetlixx9740 exactly , I too know that that's why I was commenting because ever since my friend told me her story I feel so afraid walking alone in the street or in market . I actually really wanna know what to do in these situations because I'm neither a taekwondo fighter nor a boxer , I'm just an average girl. Plus my sister always tells me horrible stories regarding boys at her university . She told me how they make fun of their girlfriends in their absence and how they annoy and verbally harass them (while saying that was a joke no need to get sensitive) Seriously I wish I knew how to smartly act in such situations without getting physically hurt.
@@ryuzaki6908 I pray for those of you who are going through hard times I suggest maybe learning a couple moves on UA-cam and praying for God to save us🙏🏽
The last thing you said is not true, men are not physically OR mentally strong.
@@ryuzaki6908 I would suggest praying to God. He understands you are going through a hard time though you may not believe in him I would still suggest giving it a shot because I know that he has been there during the tough times. You don't need to do anything special I'd suggest talking to him like a friend. If you don't want to then I'll pray for you instead. 🙏🏽 God bless! I really pray things go better for you!!
fortunately, i have never been harassed, assaulted or bullied and i hope i never will be, but reading all these stories made me so angry. stay safe everyone, and know that it is NOT YOUR FAULT.
Are you really young or still early teen?
Cause that's quite impossible if you are a woman.
Or maybe you didn't noticed.
I am not trying to be rude.
@@daizyayesha5553 im an early teen but i hope its because it really hasnt happened before. maybe i havent noticed but i believe my country is quite safe, but no offence was taken.
Don’t worry I was in a school I joined 2 bad girls and I was the only one nice they were bullying my friend harmony and I didn’t say anything I started to cry I wiped my tears and then I just Get the point I wanted to be in a new school ii miss harmony I hoped she is ok also heaven and Cardashian are the strongest girl I can’t save harmony from them my life is MISERABLE 😖😭😭
@@daizyayesha5553 it’s not impossible if you live in a society with respectful boys, and even if they’re not respectful they try to be because of the values they’ve been taught growing up. As someone in an international school, this kind of shit doesn’t really happen here. The boys don’t even look at the girls.
I hope it stays like that forever, sounds like you were raised in a safe environment surrounded by good people. I pray that it stays that way bc I do not wish what happened to me to others. I do not wish any type of trauma to the next person
As someone who was physically harassed and then treated as the bully and because I couldn't just suck it up to quietly deal with it by the teachers and nearly the whole school this hits really deep. All because the bastard was rugby player and I'm just a nobody. I never forgave any of them. My mother was the only person who stood up for me because I couldn't take it anymore
Im sorry for that, but I believe in you, you will show him one day who you really are
Wow your school is literally trash they wouldn't discipline someone because it made the school "look good". I hope you're staying and don't have to go through that again. Shouldn't have to go through that at all. If the school would just do their job. I hope you're staying safe and healing.
This edit is like a motivation to all that girls and women who are scared to walk by themselves to home at night, who is scared that some guy might touch them in an awful manner....
I always supported girls power and if one day a guy touches me like that then I am gonna beat the shit out of it no matter how much I get hurt. Those shameless brats who think they can control women should get a lesson
it? 😂
I'm not one of these men but i am confident even the average guy has some fighting expierence unless they lived a peaceful life could beat you up to a bloody pulp i do not mean this to be rude but i assure u there's a reason why men and women have to fight their own gender in mma and stuff.
Same sis
@@noche5241 but it's better to go down fighting
@@noche5241 thats why i always carry scisors in my bag always im ready To go that far with a stupid brat who think he can TOUCH me or beat me up I ll poke his eyes out
The first time i was traveling to a bus i sat alone in a seat of two. A boy came and sat beside me . After some time he started elbowing me in my chest.
I didn't felt it initially because as I was wearing a fur coat.
Then he started putting legs close to mine .
He told me if i could come with him in the last seats of the bus where his other freinds are.
I was so shocked and felt really scared when he did put his hands on my thighs .
I was shivering due to fear. Again he tried touching my chest through his elbow.
It was then my fear converted into anger.
I punched him so hard , that i sure it had left him a bruise.
He then got up from the seat and then not came back throughout the ride.
I felt so disgusted and felt scared that what he could have done as he had his friends with him .
But after then i realised it's only you who could make you feel protected. It's only you who will be your own Hero.
This makes me rage IM SO GLAD YOU DEFENDED YOURSELF cause the only person that gonna protect you is YOU
digusting. hope you are feeling better and glad that you can stand up for yourself!
I'm so sorry this happened to you. You did so well defending yourself, and even if there are more in numbers you did well showing you can protect yourself. I hope you never face this again, but just in case make sure to always have your phone ready to phone emergency services if you ever feel in danger.
Thank you guys , you words gave me so much warmness , even if we are stranger's if felt like I have somebody to speak to ❣️
I am overwhelmed by the response and emotional support I have received from so many people
OH MY GODNESS TOU ARE AMAZING!!! I'M SUPER PROUD OF YOU, I WOULD BE SHAKING UNABLE TO DO ANYTHING!!! YOU ARE A HERO FOR PUNCHING HIM LIKE THAT, WELL DONE DEAR!!! ♡♡♡♡
Me and my friend were walking around the streets (we live in a small town) when a car drove past us with 4-5 guys who were yelling at us. I don’t remember exactly what they yelled, but i know it made me uncomfortable. The same car drove past us multiple times and yelled at us each time. I remember for the first time in my life, i was scared of walking home, and i had lived in that town ever since i was born. I was also 13 or 14 at the time. My friend said they looked a bit older, but i couldn’t really tell.
I hope you’re ok now…
Yell back.. you don't get it.. you accept positive attention but sometimes if it is done by the person you dislike, you hate it. Positive comes with negative. Delete negative, positive reduces too. Can't help nature. Balanced
If someone tries to harm you, JUST BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF HIM
@@emergence8217 could you suggest what should we yell back like my brain goes blank at situations like that I would get this feeling that I want to curse them out
@@stayhappy9866 first , don't let some random comments bother you. Means you need to work on your psyche. It's weak.
Second, don't yell if there was a chance of physical threat. This orginal comment shows it will be a dangerous situation even for men and not gender specific. Just keep walking and ignore but without attitude, or it will escalate.
Third, If it was a winnable confrontation , yell something about his mother. It will make all dudes mad. I doubt UA-cam allows me to post it.
I remember this one time I was walking back home from my soon to be high school (I went there for an orientation). While I was walking home, there was this car with about 3-4 ppl in it, and they catcalled me. Mind you, I was wearing jeans, a tank top, and a crop top OVER the tank top. The guys looked like they were all about 18-20 or something, and I was just 14. This just shows that IT DOESN'T MATTER WHATEVER YOU WEAR- you'll still get catcalled and you'll still be uncomfortable.
Bro, same thing happened to me when I was going to tuition, same I was also wearing a simple Jeans and top and in top of that a jacket (as it was winter) I did not even wore anything revealing at all 🤦♀️
The same thing happened with me when i was walking my dog (wearing jeans and long-sleeve) I felt so disgusted 😭
It never happens because of clothes....I really feel so disgusted when people say it's all because of the clothes literally it is so irritating to hear this this line
I was wearing full sleeve top and jeans (not damaged one) and i never put makeup in my whole life but still i got touched by the man the on my chest and it's the worst feeling idk how i cover my body that those mfs never been able to saw my body...
A few secs into the video had me shocked to the core. I've been watching kdramas for a long time but I never knew that they have addressed so many social issues over the years. I would like to commend the actors who played in the roles of the perpetrators because those scenes made me cry. Honestly, I teared up, from rage & a feeling of injustice. Throughout the video I felt like I would beat the life out of these scumbags so they can never be in a position again to repeat their crimes. When, the scenes of the women fighting back came, I got goosebumps. I still think, these perpetrators deserve way more punishment than they received. I absolutely loved your edit. You brought out my innermost emotions so well. Well done.
I remember when I was still a teenager, I was buying something in a sari-sari store then suddenly a group of boys approached me. One of the boys asked me before if I could be his girlfriend but i didn't pay attention to him because I'm still in elementary that time wtf?! I know some of them because we live in the same barangay, but that time I'm really scared because I was the only one buying on the store. They suddenly cornered me and I felt someone touching my butt, I don't know what to do, so I just stay quiet the whole time, when the tindera hand me the item I was buying I ran as fast as I can. After that, I got traumatized with boys. No one knows about this because I'm a reserved person and I don't like my family to get into trouble. : (( Sorry for my grammar, I'm not good at expressing myself in English.
this sounds so horrifying, in such situations i think its always best to be loud and try to get into a place with lots of people so that if some one tries to misbehave with you, you could easily teach those bastards a lesson.
@@mokshadakrishna7883 especially if theres someone around, id just fuckin scream or yell to get your hands off my fuckin ass. Being loud usually scares them off even if no ones around
Thanks for sharing sis ...you are strong and hope you will shine brightly
when I was in elementary, I was SA'ed by my neighbor ( he's 19 ). He also threatened me, and tried to switch the story, and blamed me. When I was in high school, I opened up to my older sister, I confessed to her that I was SA'ed, and it's just sad when she also confessed that she was assaulted by the same person when she's also in elementary.
It was too late when we found out that he's a pedophile.
I have never told this to anyone, but when I was thirteen my first cousin who was 25 or 26 harassed me for almost a year. I was so young that I didn't even now what was happening with me. He used to slap me and scare me. But as I grew older he stopped. But the horrible memories never left me especially when I left my home for higher studies. The impact was so extreme that I'm still sensitive to human touch. I never told this to anyone to save my family from breaking down. I thought I was the one at fault. Sometimes culprits are much more near than we thought. Be safe.
I'm pretty struggling with dangerous thoughts what should I do. Please let me know something I can do.
The best things in such cases is to talk to ur fam. However much uncomfortable that is, no matter if it is breaking ur fam, u still have to tell them abt this. Trust me, go to ur mom or dad, tell them this. Talk to them and tell them that it wasn't ur fault as u were too young. If u r scared, talk to someone else first. Maybe, ur sis or ur friend. But, do talk. It helps the trauma to lessen. Trust me, I did that too. I told my bro first and then he explained my parents. If u think that ur parents wud be angry, then it is n9thing like that..They will surely undertand u. After u have sorted that out, go to a therapist. Therapy will help u very much. It will take sometime to fully recover from it, but once u do, u will feel amazing my friend. So trust me and speak to ur close ones. You r brave an I believe u will do it🙂
It's not your fault and I believe you and I hope that horrendous human be judged by what he did you. Are you in therapy or something to help your mental health, that kind of abuses are complex and in psychology they can help, I hope you can set free your life and live without that traumas and pain anymore.
@@gopalgramopadhye108 Thanks so much for your kind words
@@cherrylovepotionAnira Thanks for your kindness. I'm struggling with anxiety and gonna start therapy soon
@@jashanpreetkaur3549 I wish you the best for you in therapy, you take one great step with it.
Watching this digusts me, i know its all fake but shit like this happens every single day. As a guy that is best friends with a girl. Shes told me shes scared to walk by herself without me or her family. It makes me sick that some ppl cant be even slightly respectful
Then why you watch it then.
I really liked that it showed women standing up for themselves rather than men stepping in.
The video was hard to watch for me but it was even harder scrolling to the comments section and reading hundreds of girls/women saying "I remember" and "One time," recounting their own stories.
Many women don't fight because that's the natural freeze instinct when faced with danger from a stronger human who can do more severe harm. Men even 'revenge' in their weak male egos adding the possibility of more severe harm, so many women choose the 'lesser evil'.
Weak make is projection from who are hyper sensitive Easley offered and protest and pass laws on their egos
My bestie once told me that his cousin harrassed her .He was touching her waist and her hand in a very wrong manner at a family function but she didn't tell her family .But when he came again he again did the same thing and she slapped him on his face and after that slap whenever he came in front of her he was so embarassed ,After hearing this story I was both proud and angry at her .I was proud of her that she slapped him. But I was angry at her that she didn't tell her family. I want to tell every girl here that if something like this happens to you please tell your family immediately .I know it is hard but you have to do it ....Stand up for urself Queens !!!
I am so proud of her sis she did the right thing 👍🏻
Sometimes parents are worse people than what we expects them, it could be possible that her parent might accuse her for being delusional and slapped him for nothing. Sometimes but highly likely since some parents like to blame their child more than other's child.
My parents are like that and I believe it is not always good to tell parents about it.
Bestie I know you've got good intentions but sometimes hiding it from your family is the best thing one can. Most conservative families only victim blame and make matters worse for the person going through. I'd say confide in someone who will stick by your side, help you overcome this and believe you. Not someone who will either not believe in you, believe you but ask you to not take any action because it's a matter of your family's "honor" or straight up blame you because boys will be boys and you must've done something 😊
THIS IS SO UNDERRATED and omg i was so furious watching this lol. GREAT VIDEO!!♡♡
same lmao
I still remember this one time i was travelling. An old man probably in his 60s came sat next to me. While i was peacefully sitting and minding my own business, i noticed that he placed his hands on my thighs, i thought it was alright since he looked a bit tired. But then his hands started to slip in my inner thighs around my private part. I was so scared that i couldn't understand what to do. I got up and changed my place when he didnt stop caressing my inner thighs for a while. I was just 10 years old.
Sorry that happened to you. I hope you stay very safe.
@@paniniprincess5211 thanks for the concern. i hope you stay safe too
10 years old??? i hope youre okay now :( thats a very young age to be experiencing that, stay safe!
@@astridity7030 yes, I'm quite well now. Thanks for the concern, hope you stay safe too!
Seriously....this world I'd just....hell no matter what is the criminals agr aur the victims age....what matters is that you! You are the one who can get the shit out of these f*ckin' monsters hope ur alright now
I remember I was in high school and this guy repeatly bullied me until one day I had enough and spilled coke on him and he went over to me because everyone laughed and he punched me in the eye no one helped me everyone continued laughing and mocking me.
It proves how people are sometimes
I am so sorry for what you went through... you are so strong and brave. Sharing your story it takes a lot of courage as it does that you stood up against injustice. Hope you are ok, you can achieve great things even I don't know you I know you can. Sending you my love 💜.
you deserve it. you were the first to physically harm him and got in return
One time I went to McDonald’s with my brother and his friend and a guy who my brother friend knew started being horrible to me for no reason so I stared shouting at him and then he grabbed his friends coke and threw it at me and the coke was full and it was the large one and ye
Last year during summer I was ten and I was wearing shorts so all of my siblings and me went to play outside then the neighbor behind us came out to play and when he did he slapped my butt and I sat there frozen and went inside to tell but when I did my parents said you shouldn't wear shorts like that you were asking for and my brothers were there to and countiued playing with him for weeks and told me to stop being dramatic and apologize to him and I just cried and he still lives behind us
When you go to school talk to a teacher you trust and tell them everything EVERYTHING that happens and happened .I'm so sorry this happened to you and I'm sorry you don't have the right people around you .I'm here to tell you that we are all with you and you did nothing wrong no matter what it's never your fault and it never was.We have each other's back
That is awful . U had every right to be angry .and if u ever see that boy again u give him a real peace of your mind.
don't be afraid to face him and bring out your true self....
we all women have a fire spirit inside us that some people don't know. If a women gets angry then no one can stop her so don't be reliable on anyone and give that jerk a lesson
Girl!!!!.. I feel like you are too young to take step by yourself.. You should tell some adult who is trustworthy and understands you.. Or I think you could even use a helpline no. If available in your country..telling the cops will be difficult but if it happens again and you dont have any other choice so you should take help of cops at some point.. You have to gather courage
@@deeyamehrotra711 thanks for the advice
me and my bestie, were taking pics on the beach and our parents were behind us far sitting on a bench, chatting.
and some group of men came in walked by in front of us and whistled and went in their own way, while we just got disgusted, and when they went, we just ran to our parents, and sat their.
we're actually just in 7th and 8th grade, but our height is of a normal college goin' sudent. we really hated that experience till now and ran out of there immediately.
This is so inpowering we honesty need more vids like these.
I am a 16 yr old girl and something similar happened to my best friend last year.... there was an old man who was in her house like her grandpa or some? Idk that day my bestie and me were sitting in living room she was sitting on a couch and I was sitting at the dining table both are close so we were chatting about random stuff and stopped and were searching about something on our phone's and that old man first looked around and made sure there was no one in the living room he didn't see me as I was on last chair
And what he did was enough for me to hate him
He went straight up to my bestie and she said nthng because he was standing there and looking around.... few secs later he touched her private area and I sensed before hand something was going to happen so I had turned on the camera and recorded the video of him touching her inappropriately. After few minutes he went away and sat back on other couch which was far away from us and started reading newspaper like nothing happened.
I stopped recording and as I looked at my bestie I can clearly remember her face how she had frozen there mouth open totally shooked to her core
She made eye contact with me and ran fast to bathroom and cried for an hour...... my blood was boiling a lot I wanted to kick him and slap him but couldn't as he is same age as my grandfather and we can not raise our hands on our elders but that disgusted me
I told about this to her brother and mother and even showed the video they were angry too we later showed that video to her dad and I felt bad for him he wasn't expecting his dad to be like this he felt ashamed of his dad and that old man's wife was disappointed too and didn't talk to him
They all confronted about it to him but he didn't seem to care and that sucks
I imagined if I hadn't got that feeling of something bad happening would have they believed me and my bestie?
About my bestie she hates him too and whenever he visits her house she never leaves the bedroom And her mom and family are supporting her and covering her up
Happy that my bestie didn't change
If u see anything happening to a girl which u feel is inappropriate help her
I am so sorry for what happened to your friend... gotta say though that you are so strong and brave, you did well. I hope your friend is doing ok now, wish you both the best.
@@onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000 tysm 💖 gratefully she's the same mischievous girl 💓
@@aloise6575 I'm glad to hear that 💜
As a person who has not been through any of this but still knows how it feels to just want to punch someone so badly but just can't, because you're a "Woman" . These stories scares me so much and makes me burn in anger. My comment section is free to talk out anonymously if you want to. If you're going through this, talk it out with someone you trust. Like your friends or any family members. We, in the comments, are always here💕💕
Woman? Then how you didn't face any of these? Actually I thought it was pretty common
@@daizyayesha5553 I don't go out at night or much at day because it actually when I think about it once happened to me, (A guy almost assault3d me for idk what sh*t)but it doesn't happen much in my area so yeah haven't been through much.
1-2 years ago, new students came to our class. one of them tried to approach me by writing a "love letter" to me the first day he came. I tried to get away from him but he was putting me in a difficult situation. He always followed me after I left school. In such situations, my friend helped me a lot.
It's even darker irl.
My god protect us from evil & from being one♡
I was sexually abused by my grandfather not my own but my family when I was just 8 years old. And then of course I faced misbehaviours from men when I walk in public. Even their thoughts are disgusting I promise I’ll teach my son to be respectful even in his thoughts. Cuz thoughts leads to action and every man shld train their minds instead of spitting bulshit like that’s normal that’s how boys are !!! No that’s not normal change ur damn mind and eyes !!! Hugs to my lovely ladies it’s never ur mistake and it
will
Never be ur mistake 🫂🫂🫂❤️❤️❤️.
Good thing there's always those pockets of good characters both made and female in these dramas that help the femal/male lead.
I remember one time when it was our martial arts sir's birthday...he treated us all in a pizza store...he was not much older than me maybe 3-4 years...so after we all ate he asked me if i wanted to go on a religious place with him...we both came on individual vehicles...but he insisted me to go on one...i agreed because i trusted him like alot...we were on my vehicle...it was cold and he wasn't wearing some warm clothes so he insisted me to drive and i agreed for that too but when he sat behind me...he hugged me from back ..i was uncomfortable but couldn't say anything...i asked him for the route but he told me some long route ..during the drive he kept caressing my boobs...i feel pathetic for not doing anything at that time and it still haunts me and disgusts me
You shouldn't feel disgusted that man is disgusting for TOUCHING YOU. I hope you stop blaming yourself and I hope you heal.
I would beat the living day lights of him.it seriously made me angry u have to go through that .I m so sorry
Boys should know their places 🙄
Ikrrrr
@@butnamjoongunshot2510 yeass 🙄
Yeah right ...
Once I was coming back from my tuition classes . It was dark ....some guy was behind me .he was literally following me and saying things to me ...then I stop there ...I turned and beat his ass off .I got to know he teased many other girls in the area . But after I bet him .He used to tease girls in public but no one stopped him .after I bet him .I never seen him again....
I learned something that YOU ARE THE ONE WHO CAN SAVE YOURSELF. FIGHT BACK !!
A few years ago I was 8 or 7 I had an uncle whenever I used to meet him his touch felt weird but I said its okay and once I was out w my mom in the market was wearing a shirt and pants and a guy was constantly staring at me I felt so uncomfy I told my mom she said you shouldnt have wore that I was like Wtf and last but not the least I had a cousin he was prob 10 or 11 smth and I was 6 he used to touch me in places and used to say to my brother and his siblings to go away by a work or smth and the fact I am not even a teen yet and I have faced all of this..
Girl don't feel weak. Fight for yourself and tell us mom that people will rape mah body not my dress( sorry if u feel I disrespected it mom but I didnt cos u should speak to your mom about that) I didn't experienced this but I have phobia after reading and watching rape , sexual harassment .I feel awkward when I pass through a man alone I know and also one day I just lie to mah mom the shop is closed cos there is 2 boys in the way of that shop
@@idgafabouthumns8359 Tysm This made me strong even my realtives are unsafe and the fact my cousin's father is the same uncle
@@niaxae I'm glad anyway wt' s it age now?
@@idgafabouthumns8359 my or the cousin's?
@@niaxae your I don't want that one's name
You know what pisses me off the most, the fact that when man harass a women and then have the audacity to look at her and be like she wouldn’t dare say anything or hit me bc she would be look down on and when she does take action they are shocked and get mad for some reason
It was the middle of the day. I was fully clothed (even though clothes don't matter in a situation like this. Even if you wear revealing clothes that doesn't give people the right to do as they please. Wear whatever the hell you want to wear, people should leave you alone and keep their dirty fingers to themselves). I was on my way to a dentist appointment. Literally 200 meters away from the front door of my dentist a guy raised his arm, asked for help and came over to me. At first he asked for the direction to a certain place in town. I told him where to go, but instead of leaving he just started asking me private questions like are you from here, how old are you etc. I told him that I had this important appointment I had to attend and tried to leave when suddenly he grabbed my phone (I had it in my hand) and asked for my number and social media. I took my phone out of his hands and he started touching me on my back down to my butt. I immediately leave after that and just speed walked to my dentist because I saw that he was following me. As soon as I stepped inside the room I had a breakdown. The good thing is the people working there are all women. They helped me calm down and sent someone to go with me to my bus station and she didn't leave my side until I was inside that bus. Really hated my skin after this. I can never wear that outfit again.
" Boys will be boys but girls have to become ladies "
- someone on the
internet
Why to generalise whole gender as boys will be boys, they will always harrase girls, all men are dogs. There are so many good guys why don't you see the good one why don't you appreciate good ones always point out wrong one yes I agree as a male there are some creppy guys but there are also so many gentleman guys if you say boys will be boys they won't become men then genuine boys also comes under wrong category even don't forget your father is also a man a boy the country army who protect us, when the country is in need also a man a boy I'm just saying there are good guys too so don't generalize whole gender appreciate the good ones. every gender has some good and bad people not all women are good ones and not all men are good ones women also has good and bad people same goes with men too
I was in a fast food shop with my friend in summer and a creepy drunk man was looking at us weirdly with a smirk (we were wearing shorts and crop tops) and he kept telling us to not pay for our food so that he will. We kept rejecting his offer politely and avoided his gaze but as we left the shop he followed us. Luckily we saw him and started running and he lost us.
God knows what we could have been through...
If a women says no. Then you have to understand that "No means NO!" even if it's her own boyfriend or her husband.
Even if men says no then you have to understand that no means no even if it's his girlfriend or his wife don't you know even boys gets raped and sexually abused consent should from both genders not from only women. This world is total of mess girl!!!
@@xyzpqr Yes I do agree with u. I just commented only about womens or girls bcoz as u can see the video is about them. But ur pov is also right. Literally want this all to stop and let everyone live their life peacefully.
@@xyzpqr btw Are you a boy or man? Because it do seems likes that when you took stand for mens too. It's okay if you don't wanna tell :)
@@coco-zv9gn I am 23 years old man
all these girls are so strong I would never be able to do that but this is very inspirational
It will get more hard if you have surroundings and parents like "girls have to compromise, they are boys you are girl "
Why we always have to compromise why just why
In my high school ( I am 14 ) the teachers called some artists to draw on the walls for kids
And there for the first time a boy who look at me creepily everyday I just ignored it bcoz he didn't do anything to me
Today I go to school too early and no one was there and there he was paining on the walls and when I got there he left
I put my bag on the chair and was going out, when he and his friend was standing in the corridors
One in the left and he was in the right and I got almost a small space to go. I didn't told anything to them and just passed but then the boy give me a disgusting smirk like he was waiting for it. I didn't give a fuck to him but after I got out I was super scared and after that I didn't tell anything to anyone
I don't know how to handle this
( I have the next school on Monday)
Are you okay? It's been a year....
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO WE HAVE TO FIGHT UNTIL THE END DON'T GIVE UP I KNOW ITS SO HARD BUT WE CAN'T GIVE UP, LIFE IS UNFAIR BUT FOR THE FUTURE GENERATION WE CAN NOT GIVE UP LEARN HOW TO FIGHT DON'T ANY OF THEM HURTING YOU MENTALY OR PHYSICALY YOU CAN DO IT
I KNOW RIGHT WE ARE ALMOST ALL CRYING RIGHT NOW BUT ITS GOING TO BE OKAY
This was so good and plus thanks for telling me the names of these drams I was bored so I’m just gonna go watch all of these-
The edit is gold🥰🥰
Amazing video & perfect song I love it GirlPower 👏👏✊🥰🥰🌻
Wonderful editing and awesome song chosen
It's amazing!
waaah such nice edits. please make more
This is so inspiring
Whatever happened yesterday could have gotten worse and it is the fact that I thought about that...makes me scared for every human in this world no matter what gender. One day, I want to change it if not me than anyone else but it has to change because it is suffocating like a pin pricking a balloon. That one moment sucks the life out of you forever if you are not strong enough to fight it.
To be honest it is just something sad and it makes me cry reading all this comments realizing that this does happen that women have to experience this daily and when you want to talk and say your experience the society is like be quiet whenever you try to open the topic they are like nope skip that topic like it is something to be shameful of when you didn't do anything wrong the person that harassed you did hope everyone that did something to hurt a women and she couldn't talk hope those people rot in hell
I’m so tired of boys telling me to “chill.” I can’t even walk in the hallway without a boy putting his hands on my shoulder. Boys hug me without permission and I cant take it anymore. They keep telling me to wear tighter clothes so they can see my figure better.
I wouldn't take that, if they try to touch you you should've slapped them
I wouldn't let that go , it's your body u decide who is allowed to touch it or not, I hope you can stand up for yourself
@@Alisha-qi3oc I'm also anti social and like to be touch especially by girls yet they treat me like I'm the problem
@@smartass0124 im sorry I don't understand what you mean by that you like to be touch but then they treat you like your the problem im sorry i dont get what u mean by that could please specify
Me and my mom were going to our uncle's house on our way there we have to pass through a dark alley I was just walking and a bike rushed near me and the dude on that bike he touched my butt and drove in full speed I screamed out off horror ,I told my mom and she cursed and was so angry .I felt disgusted with myself for months after that . When we reached to our uncle's house I was in a disturbed state so my aunts asked me and comforted me that everything is going to be okay. I was fourteen or fifteen at that Time
I LOVE THIS
When i was in 10th class i also faced this problems. A guy always passed comments and whenever he saw me he sings vulgar songs and sometimes he stalked me. Then i said everything to mom but after that he never did that. And this is a one incident but this type of incidents happened so many times with me. But I'm not afraid of them i always gave them what they deserve. When a guy tried to touch my friend's body and i saw that so i was got so angry so i slapped him.
(Sorry for grammar mistakes actually I'm not really good in English )
I am sorry for what you went through... hope you are ok.
@@onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000 yes I'm okay actually these incidents make us more strong...
@@taetae_editz I understand, stay safe, wish you the best.
these videos leave me sobbing
From the ages 10-12 i was assaulted by my stepbrother. He would record what he did, and threatened me if I told anyone. I told my mother the day before my 12th birthday, worst birthday ever, he even assaulted me that night. I ran to the bathroom, him banging on the door for 10 minutes. After a year of therapy I still have nightmares about it. To whoever might be going through this please speak up before its too late.
Are you okay now?
@@12th_Boards still have nightmares but mostly
I'm so sorry to hear that😭 hope you move on from that trauma
I love this , how can people romance violence and harassment like is not ok
remember me when you get famous ✨
I really like this edit Soo much , and this edit is true , girls have been in stuff that is horrible , I wish all the best for all the girls who have been treated like sh!t
This vid made me remember those memories made me disgusted every time that I'll remember it. I remember, going home from school. It's already 6 pm. I ride in a jeepney. The man beside me starts touching me. It was raining so I'm wearing a big jacket. I'm small and scared. I tried to move away but the jeep was full. I feel suffocated by what he was doing to me. Smirking like a maniac. The worst part was people in front of us saw everything. But they just looked away. Because of fear even if I'm not at my destination I stop the jeepney and go down. But because I was going down to the jeep that man touch my butt. And whistled. Every time I think about it. I feel like throwing up. Especially remembering those people who just looked away even though they saw how that man molested me. I thought that was the last time I'll experience that. But I experienced the worst. My ex forced me. Every time and I feel disgusted with myself because of that. He'll always say. "You love me so give to me want I want." I was naive to believe that is love. Isn't. Love is respect. It brings a lot of trauma to me. Until now. So to the other girls out there always take care and don't trust too much. This world, we are living in is too cruel. You need to be brave to survive. And I wish I was brave enough to fight those demons. Don't be like me who stayed silent. Fight! And if you see other girls or even boys being harassed please choose to help them. Don't be a bystander like those people who just watched me being harassed. You'll end up worst than those maniac/perverts people by just watching others misery.
Lots of love and power to everyone sharing their stories in the comments ❤
OMG this made me cry so hard no girl should be treated this way😭😭😭😭
No PERSON should be treated this way
That's why I don't haven't watched many kdramas yet. I'm afraid a lot of this kind of situations appear, cause I suffer a lot with them.
I got up with a same incident,this happened during my middle school days once I was going to school from home while taking a bus due to rush i got push near a grown man ,he started to touch my hand when i was holding the handle and once the croud started getting more dense he pressed my breast so hard that hurt like hell i couldn't come out of that even , i didn't know what to do at that time but now I've grew up courage to face these perverts
By my school driver,my landlord when I was five...this must be the reason masculine men disgust me till date. I literally can't pass a path that boys are gathered without feeling scared
The last clip gave me goosebumps
nobody know about it, when I was 9 years old my mom got seriously ill and my father had to take care o her so he sent me to live with his close friend whom my mother considers as her brother during the weekend. At night he sexually harassed while his daughter and wife were in the next room, I was so scared when he felt satisfied he threatened me that if i tell anyone about it he will kill my parents. i didn't know what to do, i felt like it was my fault this happened to me. sometimes i still do i keep have dark and suicidal thoughts and still havent been able to muster up the courage to tell my parents, but still i hope one day i would be able to do and win against my demons
I’m so so so sorry beautiful ❤️ just know it wasn’t ur fault ur so strong 💖
are you okay now?
A lot of these drama I found really cheesy but these scenes specifically really opened a conversation on how relevant it is to be sexually harassed or be talked to like a s*x object. South Korean Law has always been hard for victims who try to get justice against there perpetrator but were let down by the legal system.
These scenes are enough for girls to talk about what happened to them even if they get let down they won’t stop trying to get justice. Nowadays K-dramas are becoming more aware of issues surrounding SA, harassment, mental health, abuse, bullying, suicide, and r*pe. To create a change you must start a conversation and understand the mentality of it.
Underrated AF
Perfect
no , cause this is the best edit
unlike irl when you're in this kind of position it's really scary, when this happened to me i didn't know what to do so at first i just acted like it didn't happen, also bcs they said it was an accident but i figured it wasn't when he did it again but up until now i still remember how his friends laugh and made jokes. they only stopped when I told them I'd tell on my father
In my old school boys would say my name in a very flirty way (I didn’t think anything of it at first since I identified as gay at the time and I thought they were just joking around) then it would be like weird flirty jokes (they did this to all the girls in our class Btw) then I overheard them talking about me and they said along the lines “and she’s Russian too so you know😏” (I was the only half Russian kid on our year) and I was so disgusted that they thought about me like that all cuz of my ethnicity, another instance was I was just minding my own business in a game (we were all on voice chat) and then a bunch of guys started following me and saying my name in a moaning voice (I told them to stop cuz I was uncomfortable but they wouldn’t so I tried to get away from them as fast as I could and they knew I was a minor and they all sounded like 16-18 years older) I’ve really only started to join with girls when I’m in the game and all this happened around the same time 🙁
Not all boys can be boys some boys can be angels
Best example: our lovely boys BTS
That's outside, you don't know any stranger in the world. I guess they are good. But we don't know for sure.
@@daizyayesha5553 Don't think that I am bitching you or something get to know them first
@@BTS-875 Hello girl?? You only know about their life which is on camera but they have their own personal life..... We actually don't know if they are bad / good in person......I'm sure that every men has a devil inside....not only bts everyone...We don't know their true side...Even these days parents are harassing their own children and your talking about bts?? This is the sad reality of our world...being a good person and having a pretty face doesn't mean that they are fully innocent....We are living in a cruel world......
I am not saying that bts are bad but you dont know what's behind the camera
Your father is the best example your country army people is the best example there are lot of good guys who are good. even not all women are good there are good and bad people in every gender I think you don't know even boys gets raped and sexually abused this world is completely mess there are good, bad people everywhere
Whatever bad has happened to someone I hope it never happen again 🙏❤️😔
I was 6 when i first experienced inappropriate touch. I was coming back from school with my brother who is 1 year younger than me.The path was narrow so one has to go forward than other. Two people can't walk side by side.A boy came that time and went so close to me and he touched my boobs.I was so young and i couldn’t understand. I felt so awful and strange i looked at him again.He glanced at me and just left.After coming home,i told my mom and aunt they were shocked.They said "Why didn’t you shout that time when he touched you!?" I said,"I didn’t understand what he did!"Then i cried like maniac.
God i can't remember how many times I've gone through this shit and the worst part of it is that it started when i was just 10 or 11 yrs ols and it still happens the difference is this timw i know how to shut them amd make boundaries before i didn't. It's so fucking tiring being a woman u never know who actually wants u or just wants ir body, all of these traumas made it so hard for me to ever like a guy my whole life I've been just disgusted and annoyed by guys. I wanna fall in love be happy but at the same time I'm too scared to let anyone in.
When i was 14 i had a bus trip at night with my parents to go somewhere. eventually everybody slept and i have some difficulty to sleep whenever i am ravelling. an unknown old guy came and started touching me i yanked his hand away. so he went he tried this 4 to 5 times and i have had enough of him. i told my mum to get up but she was very sleepy so it was of no use. the next moment he came i slapped him right away and he glared at me like he would eat me.but was nothing able to do. i was saved that day but what about daily? why people teach the victims and not teach and punish real bastards? it could be both boys and girls they both are being harasses. then why just teach girls teach boys too.. both boys and girls should know life is hard please stop doing it it breaks us. and maybe its just one case there are many i have faced and still facing. but i got bolder but what about those who are goiing through these?
I am so sorry for what you went through... you are so strong and brave... sharing your story it takes a lot of courage. I hope you are doing ok.
@@onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000 yep i am doing pretty well and hope you are good too😊💜
@@priyanshisahni3341 I'm glad to hear that 💜
As a boy I'm sorry for your bad experience, yes I agree with you that we should teach the boys how to give respect towards women and we should also teach girls to respect boys. Now a days many boys fear to help girls in public whenever the girl is trouble because of the fear of getting into false case yes now days some women using there rights in wrong way which leads to innocent guy to go into jail do you know in our country 60 percentage rape cases are false cases there are so many guys who undergone into false rape case and went into jail for 6 years or 10 or even 20 or even death but after proven the guy is innocent the girl who kept false case on that guy Will not get any punishment just gets fine of 2000 or 3000 ruppes and even boys gets raped or sexually abused . Do you there is some case like a boy and girl was there is relationship for 8 years eventually they broke up the boy moves on but the girl files a false case on him being sexually harrased her these type of cases are many. now a days we even seeing more because of the fake feminism
Damn this is sad but true I remember my first time being cat called was only 12 years old like tf and it was properly messed up and I didn't even realise it at the time
well since everyone is sharing their own stories I want to share mine too, there have been many incidences but I will tell some of them..
1) Around an year or 1 1/2 ago, I was travelling on a bus with my mother, it was a journey of 2-3 hours.. it was an early bus and I was pretty sleepy so I unconsciously slept and my mother too for the same reason(was sitting on the front seat, the one just beside the door and my mother's seat was just behind mine).. I was 12 at the time but I looked 16-17 and tall but definitely looked very young. the bus ticket collector who seemed to be descent, sat beside my while I was asleep.. He was forcibly touching his legs to mine and his hand and elbows to mine.. Because of this I woke up and coincidently my mum too and wasting no seconds she called me to her seat.. It was early and 90% people in the bus were men,, didn't really do anything cause, and also I had not really realized much or you can say my brain wasn't working.. still regret not doing anything!
2) The second one took place around 2-3 years ago.. I had just got off my bicycle in front of a bakery.. was wearing a mini frock.. At the same time, a small truck passed by with 15-20 men and I swear to god literally all of them stared at my legs(I was an open one don't know what you call them) and I am telling you it was horrible..
for context I am an Indian and people(men) here are absolutely horrible, I live in a pretty developed city but you see! and also I am not allowed to wear anything short anymore(my family is not conservative) for my own safety and cherry on top, I can not really adjust long clothes cause they make me uncomfortable... yep it ends here
this is not even a big incident cause i have faced a lot much..
one day we were in in our school bus like everyday and i was not getting a seat then a boy from the last seat who was just like my brother comment '' come here sit on on (his friend's) lap'' i just didn't say anything assuming it as a joke but swear if something like this happens ever again i am not going to shut my mouth even in the tiniest
i am a feminist.
I am sorry for what you went through... I hope you are ok.
I have been through this three times and didn't did anything about it.
One day I was coming home from the shop it was early in the morning no one was around one dude came to me with his member out asking me to help him with his scooty I acted as if I didn't saw it and went away holding a stone then cried on my way home. Second time in a bus the guy sitting next to me kept touching my thighs at Frist I thought it was a mistake but no and yet I didn't did anything. Third time I was with my seniors and my sister (older) they started complimenting me for wearing a saari or a full covered dress my sister told me to not to react and I didn't but I had a smile on my face. For a matter of fact I was scared all those times and hated myself for not doing something about it.
I don't know why but i cried watching it 🥺, it is the reality of the world, i also don't know what to say or how to react to such types of jerk 😶
I was 11 I am a Muslim so at that time I daily practice my holy book(Quran) so a teacher used to come my home and teach me and my little brother Quran so one day as usual he was teaching me and my brother and he always sit between my brother and me so he told my brother to get some water for him after then when my brother goes his hands went to my tigh and then to my private part and when my brother came he suddenly removes his hands, he told my brother to bring water 2 to 3 time and everytime he do that to me and I was a kid I don't even know how to react I was freezed at that moment I was just so fucked up and after he left I didn't tell anyone then at night I was traveling with my mother and grandma and then I say I don't want to study Quran then she said why but I didn't tell her after we reach home she asked me then I told her everything she was so angry and next day she fired him
Firing alone isnt enough. He's a Quran teacher like he's teaching THE Quran and no parent will think of anything worse when they are entrusting their kids with him. You guys should report him or spread this info that he did this. This is not a slander or back bite. If your experience is real which I'm not doubting then pls do others a favor too you'll not earn a sin for slander or for rumor. You could be saving others by doing this. God knows if he's teaching other kids and what else he could do to them. If he's in that neighborhood let the aunties or other people know about it.
Last year around Christmas I was with my parents walking around and unknowingly a guy touched me (I was 12 then), since I was around 11 boys and men started to cat call me when I was walking, this don't only happen to a few women. Every woman or girl in this world delt or is dealing with this issue. I sometimes wonder if it would ever stop, but apparently not.
Guys plz not not only females deal with this issue men and boys are also faced with this.
(Sorry for my horrible English)
I was on my jogging routine at morning on the road, then theres a drunk old man tried to hug me in from front. Glad theres people around but still i feel uncomfortable. After that, on my way back home a mid maybe 30s man with motorbike said "Yo you have big b***s" and do small thing between his pants -if u know, u know.
Seriously i feel not safe to go outside alone anymore 😭
Today only some guys from outside shouted at our school's bus in a very filthy way and all the girls were sitting at that side ,we were disgusted
I was like…… DAMNN!!✨😮💨
If they treat you like a doll, Be Annabelle
-Unknown
This was sad get beautiful💔❤
The amount of stories in the comment section tho. I am surprised.
Just listen all the girls who's gonna be ladies some day, u need a job to make ur life more secured
Most of the women these days are nailing it.Yet I wanna make this point...
Never twice kdrama edit plsee nxt video ! Waitinggg
Drama _ never twice 💜✨
J'ai pleuré mes meilleurs larmes😭
This feels so hurtful
Powerful feminism
This is actually reallynsad because stuff exactly like this happens on a daily basis
Men never realized that most of the girls never able to complete their dreams because they are not allowed to go outside because of them
made my day lmao