00:00 INTRO 00:31 10 They are more knowledgeable than loud people 01:21 09 They are not shy; they know when to talk 02:18 08 Has a strong sense of self-discipline than anyone 03:16 07 You’ll never read what’s going on in their minds 04:10 06 Tends to learn and grasp things quickly 05:06 05 They are not weak; they hate wasting their energy 06:15 04 Quiet people are more determined 07:25 03 It is hard to fool a quiet person 08:20 02 They are weird in their ways 09:12 01 If you treat them negatively, they will let you taste your own medicine Do You Have Topics In Mind? Comment Below... Share This Video Right NOW: ua-cam.com/video/9UbbCxJC3kk/v-deo.html -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Thanks for Watching! DROP A LIKE, SHARE, Click the SUBSCRIBE Button and HIT the notification bell so you won't miss anything! Any Topic In Mind? We will be glad to make them for You! SUBSCRIBE to our CHANNEL NOW 👉👉👉 bit.ly/2NfQyrK Help Our Channel Reach Awareness Share it With your Friends and Family. -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Videos You May Also Like: 10 THINGS INTROVERTS WILL NEVER SAY ua-cam.com/video/IsKaq71Kr-I/v-deo.html 10 THINGS INTROVERTS EXTREMELY HATE ua-cam.com/video/aww1a6xCWHM/v-deo.html 10 REASONS WHY INTROVERTS ARE DANGEROUS ua-cam.com/video/1qnpPvku8t0/v-deo.html 10 CRAZY THINGS INTROVERTS DO ua-cam.com/video/HGtqtxJK5hY/v-deo.html 10 WAYS HOW INTROVERTS INTIMIDATE PEOPLE ua-cam.com/video/c4Mb1HMmN9s/v-deo.html
I am a quiet person..I'm neither weird ..shy or lonely..I just have a low tolerance for liars..bores and stupidity...I believe knowledge is one thing no one can ever take from you..I believe honesty is vital to conversation and I believe my life and future is private and my choice..I cannot be intimidated and can spot deceit a mile away..and have no problem walking away from those who are destructive..
your other problem is that you assume everyone is like that even when you don't know them. basically you don't trust anyone. i'm not going to say you're paraniod because it would be ironic of me to call someone out on being judgment while being judgemental myself but most quiet people i have met had a terrible outlook on the world.
@@prophecybydefault4708 ha ha ha ..judgemental is a perfect description of you.(.your words) I am wise enough to give others the respect to prove themselves..I'm hardly paranoid or mentally ill..each person is judged on their own merit ..I don't have a horrible out look I'm happy its those like you I choose to avoid..
Ima keep it short but I have my own reasons not trust anyone either. So yeah person who say we have terrible outlook in world , yet told us not to judge them ? Okay lol I can smell hypocrisy.
I'm a quiet person. People don't understand that I can read them and sense when they are being genuine or out right rude. I've had times when people comment and say I'm being too quiet. My answer has been I'm observing or have nothing to say. I definitely do relate to this video.
I am also a quiet person, i was born premature and spent my first 2 months alone in an incubator. I really think this defined my and made me quiet and happy to be alone
I'm a quiet person too. I've had people ask outright, "Why don't you talk?" I always think that's an intrusive, personal question to ask someone. How do you answer that?. I don't feel that I owe anyone an explanation about it. If you want a conversation with me, start one. If you don't, fine.
You can loads about other people by being quiet; and listening; and looking. Sometimes chatty people let things out, that can be used against them at a latter date. My ex boss use to say stay quiet, look, listen; and learn. Good advice.😂😂😂😮
100% correct! The introvert in me can always see thru peoples BS and read them for who they really are. I prefer being being observant, direct and to the point and dont waste time talking senseless BS. “Be aware of the quiet ones, they are the ones who actually think. The smarter you get, the less you speak”. - KEANU REEVES
Absolutely nothing wrong with being able to see through people's bullshit it's a blessing to me I get a kick out of it and watch others fail with their own actions because they don't listen to me
Youre the main story. keep it that way until they learn to focus on their own life,until then their energy wasted wrong place. Or the hardcore mode : Just leave.
Throughout high school certain people seemed annoyed & would often say outright that I never speak to them(had no reason to), So I avoided speaking to those people entirely 😂
I'm a quiet person and like my peace and quiet at home,takes a lot to piss me off and a silent observer,but when I lose my temper I lose it bigtime,then look out.
The unfortunate part about us quite people is that we will always be misunderstood. People just label us and act like we’re the plaque. It’s like they get off on it.
Most of the points here do apply to quiet person like me. Only additional personality is that I am aggressive and also very direct/blunt. Push me too far and I will show you how aggressive and hostile I am. So don't test my patience.
I'm kinda both. I prefer to be a quiet person, prefer my own company, am a loner, however in this world that we all live in today, there are times you HAVE to speak up for yourself, or you will end up being a doormat for everybody to walk all over you and take advantage of you in every way possible. I have found this out being a introverted, and quiet person who prefers his own company and does my work best alone. There comes a time to say and tell others, enough is enough and you have to stand your ground.
Being an introvert myself, it's definitely tough dealing with people sometimes. People are too judgemental, it makes me sick to the core. Keep in mind, introverts are still capable of socializing. So whoever it is, piss off and stop judging others for being themselves. Basically, don't be a damn prick.
Some time back, I saw a couple of urban thugs demand an Asian kid give up his seat on the subway. Asian kid meekly gets up and gives them his seat without a word and goes to sit down next to an elderly white lady across from me. As the Asian kid is sitting back down, I saw the black rubber grips of a T-handle push knife tucked into that Asian kid's belt under his shirt... That incident could have resulted in two dead thugs if that Asian kid had chosen another route, but he didn't.
Moreover, that Asian kid has a .357 hammerless snubbie tucked under his belt, a sig p365 on his 8:00, another sig p365 on his 5:00, a Glock 42 on an ankle holster left leg, a fixed blade strapped on his right leg, an automatic folder on his back pocket (and of course the push dagger), a Glock G19x chamber loaded with Critical Duty on a 17 rounder magazine left side shoulder holster, 2 extra 19 rounder magazines loaded with FMJs on the right shoulder magazine pouches, and last but not the least a Glock 26 Gen 5 for magazine interchangeability with the 19x. And a nice book. Me: “Come home son! Told you not to take the subway- take the bus.”
As a quiet one, the bare minimum I ask from others is to talk to me in a civil manner with no judgment of my quietness or just respect me. But even with that simplest request for bare minimum, a lot still fail.
People who talk achieve nothing. I let my actions speak for myself. If someone is consistently talking about themself and being the victim are a source of annoyance. After politely asking them to change the subject and continue to talk over me, I will not respond and give clear signals that I am not listening and they are essentially wasting my time.
One thing that’s always plagued me is people talking over me. That’s a very quick way to loose my respect and interest. Do it 2 or 3 times and I’m gone. I find that when people do that, they aren’t bringing much to the conversation anyway. By all means, say your piece first you important fool, then shut up and hear me out or piss off and bother someone else.
I am also an introvert. I don't like socialising where hypocrisy is quite visible. I don't care for social niceties or social ceremonies. Treating each other with sincerity, kindness and fairness is enough. And I don't expect thanks if I do any kindness to others. If they say thanks I am happy. If they don't, I don't mind unless they are very ungrateful people who pays back goodness with evil. I get uncomfortable when people say thank you again and again. I hate superficiality. But I like funny acts that flows freely without being forced upon to do them. We all make a fool of ourselves sometimes. We all make mistakes. And those not a problem to me unless one were to deny those were not mistakes or foolish acts. I hate people who suppresses others with their superior status and wealth. I like giving ideas to those unfortunate to fight back. While I don't like paying back in the same coin, i don't like to see evil doers get away with their evil deeds. I like exposing their deeds and their hypocrisy. For me, right is right and wrong is wrong no matter who is doing it. There is no bridge between right and wrong. I don't like flattery. Those who flatter me for no good reason makes themselves very cheap. If anyone is able to compliment for a merit, I value that person for his intelligence and sincerity. Deception can work on me once because I usually give others the benefit of the doubt but once they are discovered, that person is no longer in my book no matter what he may do in future. I value loyalty. If I get like-minded friends, I'll probably die fighting to the death even though I fore knew we will be defeated. It will be a shame for me to live when my friends had died for me. Winning and losing is a part of life. I don't care about the result so long as I could give my best for the job. Scolding by bosses for the loss or defeat is not going to do any damage to my self esteem. I know I am not the best. But I also know that I can defeat the best guy in some areas. After all, I don't live to please superiors or to be subservient to them. I live for myself to do as I want. I am looked upon as a misfit in social circles which I don't mind at all. And I like being peculiar and independent. I can sit alone in the corner of the room with full of people if I have a mobile phone or an interesting magazine to pass time or I can just sit there observing the hypocrisy of people resolving not to behave like them. But if I see another awkward person, I'll offer him my company. I am a boring person because I don't contribute much in a lively social gathering. And if I get another introvert, I can promise that we can have a good time without talking much. Hardly a word or two may be spoken in 10 minutes but we can still enjoy each other's company sitting together and watching the nature. I like witty jokes and sharing of ideas. I don't envy others for their smartness, talents. They should be given due recognition for their merit.
People often associates quietness with mental illness. I am quiet, but it's hard for people to label me, and talk to me as if I have mental problems. I enjoy the challenge when people try to figure me out.
I mean in other way it's not wrong too. Cause if we don't talk much. We might be bad in small talk too. I'm not talking about all introverts but some of them
I'm quiet, some people I've meet been lucky I just walked away from their BS in the past. More easy going now older but still avoid people much as possible. Was only shy at school but that was a long long time ago.
100% me. People think they know me, then I throw them for a loop and they're left flabbergasted. And I've been accused of being to quiet, but I'd much rather observe than gab.
Thanks for this video I can truly relate because am an introvert and what you are saying is very true ..I have had someone say how I don't respond to people and act on somethings is fear ,weakness and running away from that which I should be attacking or fighting to beat but I just listened to that person and left because I was like I wish you knew better who I am..Our strength as introverts is what people describe as weakness 😂😂..we are deeper than that thank God .
Great vid . I’m quiet in general especially when people who talk too much . I find it hard to get a sentence in and must raise my voice to not get interrupted . Those who talk too much about nothing and repeat themselves over and over drains me ! I’m so exhausted after a while - I tune them out ! I have a bit of social anxiety which doesn’t help plus can be shy if I don’t feel welcome . Thank goodness I have the option to not be around blabbers haha
I am also one of the more quiet guys... the only exception is when I hit the stage with my band. I play the rhythm guitar and provide backing vocals in a Rockband. But at work I am one of the "Outcasts"
I'm one of the quiet ones. One of my requests to others would be to stop attempting to read what's on our minds and guess our next move. That's really intrusive. Thanks.
I agree with this whole heartedly. I'm quiet, I don't like blubbering and I'm not afraid to tell the blubberer to get to the point. I've also been told I can tell people a story, they're waiting for me to carry on but I've finished.
I’m so glad I’m a introvert screw the loud people I get straight to the point and I don’t sugar coat shit I am shy n lonely but I’m not a dam stupid person
So very true. I also have rarely cried or got loud with anyone. But there are a few people who have and still cannot completely understand how they had to eat their own medicine. They remain puzzled wondering what happened between them and myself.
Enneagram Five personality falls into this category. Fives, introverts, quiet people... whatever you want to call us make some of the best friends because we are active listeners. We may not be sympathetic, but we tend to be very empathetic (huge difference). However, if a friend betrays or does a Five wrong, that person has lost a very precious gift of a friend forever because a Five, introvert, quiet person... whatever you want to call them are very tight with who to trust. They would rather have one trusted friend then dozens of friends. I'm one such person. I can count on one hand of the only trusted friends I have and still have fingers left over.
I am a quiet person who loves knowledge Sometimes I wonder why my close friends choose the relationships they do I try to warn them in a kind way. My observation is normally spot on
I am a vintage introvert. I needed answers to every question when I was a kid. It didn’t take long before I learned that my parents didn’t have many answers to my questions. That’s why I tore everything apart and put it back together as a kid, just because I had to know how that thing worked. I spent so much time alone, I learned how to paint, sculpt and play several instruments, beginning with the guitar, but expanding to many other instruments over the years. I have spent my life making a living based on those skills. I prefer to spend time alone because I can entertain myself easily. Like most introverts, I am a night owl. It has only been in recent years that the “night owl gene”, as it’s named, was discovered. It has been found to be a genetic trait passed down from a parent. My mother was a night owl and I am the only one out of four siblings that got the night owl gene. I get along better with other introverts because I find them deeper, well versed in a wide array of subjects and highly intelligent. Extroverts tend to only know whatever it is they do for a job and don’t have much to say outside of that. I am a dangerous person to mess with, because like most introverts, I am chess player, and not just the game of chess, but everything in life is like a chess game to me. I am always up for a challenge, never surrender and never stop learning. This will allow me to always be six steps ahead of the extrovert. A lot more goes on in the head of an introvert than extroverts realize. We spend hours and hours solving problems and we invite challenge and don’t fear it.
I’m a quiet person and find it easy to read people. There have been times when I’ve had people being rude, mocking me…I’ve had friends ask how I know and suggest I’ve got it wrong, simply because they haven’t noticed. Us quiet people observe more and can read peoples body language. I can pick up on peoples feelings, too.
Yeah that's right because I like to sit back and watch how people react to each other and I can see right through most of them and this is so much fun I just can't can't get enough of it, because they remind of watching a soap opera like, days of our lives on a regular basis instead of being on a TV show it's hilarious
We need a show based on everyday people who are the biggest joke in life ohh yeah that's right they call it the biggest losers but not the weight loss program instead it would focus more on the biggest losers in the world and do some video of people who don't have any chance in life and aren't going anywhere
Yup that’s me, I don’t talk much but I observe my surroundings everytime I go out. Most people think I’m just weird when I just look around but in reality I’m observing everyone.
Being shy and quiet is fine, im both i just dont like the feeling of being talked down to because I don't talk much. I don't mind having a boss or bosses at jobs, just dont talk down to me or others.
They have invisible soldiers/angels to stand for them to argue / fight their rights because they live inside the tiny circle, thats how strong they are...
As a quiet person I can confirm this is true. And never forget the quiet ones for we will make you a fool. *chuckles darkly like a little child*. You will never know our nature.
I am a quiet person but love to watch and hear other people. One boss told me that when I do talk, people really listen. My son refers to me as an outgoing shy person. People seem drawn to me and will share more personal info than they intend to do. Yes, I am an enigma.
As an introvert I have learned that 98% of the time all people want is a listening ear. They are more than capable of working through their problem and often already know what they must do but just need to get how they're feeling off of their chest.
I'm a quiet person. A young man once called me retarded because of my being thus. But, I was able to inteleculalize the situation with him eventually looking childish.
I admire the mam who composed these traits of quiet problem. He is so very correct in every aspect and I can relate to most of the statements. I actually didn't listen to all these facts about my own character before I listened to these facts. Thank you for sharing these great thoughts. Has helped me accept myself more.
I am also a very quiet person in childhood not because I am shy but Because I don't like to talk much. I stay away from blabbering, stupid things, etc . But people never try to understand a quiet person. My teachers, parents and friends always scold me for being a quiet girl. Thank you for this
To sometimes find one's purpose in life it is important to find your life's challenge. Mine was "To find my ears before I search for words" This isn't just about listening to others but also searching for and learning how to collate information properly. I had always been a quiet person, always wanting to learn and observe and even counter my own thoughts to make sure I knew "The other side" I would often get frustrated at the loud people or the more charismatic even tried to act like it for a bit but it was exhaustive when I was a younger person. I learned to embrace my quietness, to learn to be a "mentor", to work with people. Quiet people know a lot about themselves, they are "the quiet achievers". Being quiet you have to get used to surprising people and other people can take that in many ways. Some may challenge you because you're not the one that usually speaks up or shows off, it's not the best course of action to instinctively want to destroy them with your "truth bombs" but at the same time you need to be able to be assertive just enough to not be stepped on. If you can achieve that people will ask for your input and more importantly, listen when you actually do open your mouth.
I'm quiet as I don't really like talking in general and I have a slight problem with communicating as I have autism(high functioning), but unfortunately I'm quiet to the point people always see me as a target to mess with, as I'm not really the best looking either. I'm a little sensitive, so my feelings most definitely get hurt(easily), but when I have enough, hell actually breaks loose. Why can't people just leave us alone? Lol
As the quiet one my friends warn people if they see them trying to wind me up telling them not to go down that road then they stand back and wait to see how I will react if their advice is ignored
I'm a quiet person but surrounded by a loud family. I like being by myself and listening to conversations but oh no! My sister keeps trying to force me to socialise and talk when I don't want to and that just irritates me.
There was an young owl, who lived in an oak. The more he saw, the less he spoke. The less he spoke, the more he heard. Thus grew to be a wise old bird.
My ex friend got pissy at me everytime, because I was always carefree and nothing fazed me (according to her), so in her mind I didn't have any problems. Which was hilarious to me. I just learned quickly that she didn't care about my problems and always talked about herself when I tried to vent, so I just stopped wasting time. I love to observe people.
I am seen as a quiet person but I do talk! I am friendly and outgoing. I am an introvert and am happy with my own company. I have a hit of company at work but have no desire to take the relationships outside of work though I do text one member of staff. I do not invest in superficial relationships . I know of people who have friends who they do not confide in and they know very little about each other after years of acquaintance and wonder how that is possible as are friends not people who you share with? They hide their past if they feel that the friendship would end if it were known and even their present problems. What alot of time spent not being yourself. Of course it is not all friendships but as an introvert to have one friendship that is reciprocal and open is worth more than a dozen casual friendships . We are seen as a pushover and timid and that is a mistake. I think we are good listeners and deep thinkers thinking before we speak and reflecting on what is said. Are there quiet extroverts possibly not.
There's a reason why God gave us two ears 👂 and one mouth. People should listen more than they speak, but do they noooo. They rather talk 👄 about a bunch of BS that you really don't want to hear.
The quiet ones are the ones you have to watch. Never a truer saying. All too often, quietness is taken as a sign of weakness. Big mistake, especially in a work situation, I've had a few people fired who have messed with me!
Yes, weakness may be a manipulators intial thought with a quiet person, however they may quickly find out differently, as many quiet people are often the scariest when they've had enough, and then people cannot back off fast enough, because when a quiet person starts spouting off you know there's really something wrong, and that they've reallllly had enough! So in a way, being quiet has it's advantages.
@@jodizellmer994 I would suggest to go hardcore mode, is call people out immediately no wait. Because some people gonna think they get away with it,in fact not a tiny bit.
Im also a quite man don't care much for people who bum themselves up especially when they say how good they are at fighting because I'm quiet sometimes in the past they try and push my buttons most of the time i let it go but when they go to far the colour drains out they face when I start fighting back i have been trained in boxing and takwondo and karate then i get left alone Alec from Scotland
Quiet people are introspective and good listeners. They also have good manners. Noisy people who talk a load of rubbish grate the soul and don't believe a word they say. They are just trying to impress and as shallow as a puddle.
Quiet people can give you the " death stare " and then ........ they quietly fade away . It's a secret art of farting your way out of situations and later talk to your friends how you could have made the loud guy pay but your overwhelming powers are so vast and well known troughout the 9 realms it's better not to speak of it with normal mortals . So you did nothing while the bully beat up your little sister . You go oooh quiet one .
that is profiling them to be the First to suspect as the Murder, thief, first to retaliate in damaging someone's property. Saying a quiet person is like laying in a bed of Nails. So the person who is accused of murdering the college students was the first to suspect, being quiet, awkward. Then you start to go on to describe a quiet person as an INFJ. so what are they really?
I observe and study, assessing, calculating, plans within plans. I rarely speak in public, only when it's absolutely necessary. People make the mistake that i'm not listening, i already grasped the situation and already know how to handle it.
As a quiet person, i like to live and work in quiet places. Loud people and worse still loud music realy irritate me. How can you work at your best in a noisy eviroment?
As a quiet person, introvert, I watch you more than you know , I listen to your jibber jabber, I find out who you are pretty quick, but I don't speak much about myself, but when I have something to say you better believe I will tell you what the hell is on my mind, most of the time it takes you off your rocker,
I am a quite person. Due to the fact I like to sit back an observe and read the room full of people first. I do this to see how people treat other's and watch what they say. This let's me know how they will potentially treat me or if their personality meshes with mine or , are they full of b's.
Love your channel bro. Of all the vids like 'Psych2Go you nailed it most. That certainly hit home for me as it vehemently relates to me everything in your description how silent people function. After watching this vid you boosted my confidence experientially..Ty Ty Ty and Ty again and again. Thank You!!
I'm a quiet person as well, and agree with some of what is said. The only thing I disagree with is I'm not a dangerous quiet person. With family or strangers.
Your missing what he is saying as a Quiet 🤐🤫 Guy I'm not Dangerous in Fact I'm very nice around my Family. But if pushed I can be as Dangerous as the Next Guy . The Advantage I have over others is I'm because I'm Quiet 🤫 when I do Snap you won't see 🙈 it Coming . Won a Lot of Fights that way because they Never saw 🪚 it coming . I mean it's Like Patrick Swayze said in Roadhouse the Loud Ones looking or a Fight ain't as Dangerous as the Quiet 🤐🤫 Ones Expecting a Fight .
@@robertrodriguez787 Very well said! As you pointed out, with quiet people when they've finally had enough and snap, you don't see it coming, that's why they're refered to as dangerous or scary.
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00:31 10 They are more knowledgeable than loud people
01:21 09 They are not shy; they know when to talk
02:18 08 Has a strong sense of self-discipline than anyone
03:16 07 You’ll never read what’s going on in their minds
04:10 06 Tends to learn and grasp things quickly
05:06 05 They are not weak; they hate wasting their energy
06:15 04 Quiet people are more determined
07:25 03 It is hard to fool a quiet person
08:20 02 They are weird in their ways
09:12 01 If you treat them negatively, they will let you taste your own medicine
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Christ! I relate to all of them.
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You are speaking about me because l'm a very quiet person and mouse of what u say that's how l'm
I am a quiet person..I'm neither weird ..shy or lonely..I just have a low tolerance for liars..bores and stupidity...I believe knowledge is one thing no one can ever take from you..I believe honesty is vital to conversation and I believe my life and future is private and my choice..I cannot be intimidated and can spot deceit a mile away..and have no problem walking away from those who are destructive..
your other problem is that you assume everyone is like that even when you don't know them.
basically you don't trust anyone.
i'm not going to say you're paraniod because it would be ironic of me to call someone out on being judgment while being judgemental myself but most quiet people i have met had a terrible outlook on the world.
@@prophecybydefault4708 ha ha ha ..judgemental is a perfect description of you.(.your words) I am wise enough to give others the respect to prove themselves..I'm hardly paranoid or mentally ill..each person is judged on their own merit ..I don't have a horrible out look
I'm happy its those like you I choose to avoid..
@@mariankeller5852 you are also prideful apparently...
Ima keep it short but I have my own reasons not trust anyone either. So yeah person who say we have terrible outlook in world , yet told us not to judge them ? Okay lol I can smell hypocrisy.
@@mariankeller5852 and I agree with your statement 100%, Im fed up with narcissist people.
I'm a quiet person. People don't understand that I can read them and sense when they are being genuine or out right rude. I've had times when people comment and say I'm being too quiet. My answer has been I'm observing or have nothing to say. I definitely do relate to this video.
I am also a quiet person, i was born premature and spent my first 2 months alone in an incubator. I really think this defined my and made me quiet and happy to be alone
@@josephsullivan775 It's good that you survived. Hope you are doing well other than the feeling.
I'm a quiet person too. I've had people ask outright, "Why don't you talk?" I always think that's an intrusive, personal question to ask someone. How do you answer that?. I don't feel that I owe anyone an explanation about it. If you want a conversation with me, start one. If you don't, fine.
@@Helpishope thank you for your kind comment, I'm in my 70s now i never married and i still live alone and i am fine with that, thanks again
You can loads about other people by being quiet; and listening; and looking. Sometimes chatty people let things out, that can be used against them at a latter date. My ex boss use to say stay quiet, look, listen; and learn. Good advice.😂😂😂😮
100% correct! The introvert in me can always see thru peoples BS and read them for who they really are. I prefer being being observant, direct and to the point and dont waste time talking senseless BS. “Be aware of the quiet ones, they are the ones who actually think. The smarter you get, the less you speak”. - KEANU REEVES
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Absolutely nothing wrong with being able to see through people's bullshit it's a blessing to me I get a kick out of it and watch others fail with their own actions because they don't listen to me
I'm quiet and people think I'm a jerk. And they talk crap about me But, I just ignore them to piss them off even more.
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The funny thing is, they're stressing their self out talking shit to you, while you're casually enjoying the life 😂
Sounds like me 🤣🤣
Youre the main story. keep it that way until they learn to focus on their own life,until then their energy wasted wrong place. Or the hardcore mode : Just leave.
Throughout high school certain people seemed annoyed & would often say outright that I never speak to them(had no reason to), So I avoided speaking to those people entirely 😂
I'm a quiet person and like my peace and quiet at home,takes a lot to piss me off and a silent observer,but when I lose my temper I lose it bigtime,then look out.
Same here. I'm quiet & more likely to pay attention to what comes out of people's mouth .
Because when you piss one of those people off you better be prepared for the battle
I prefer the company of quiet people. I don't like loud people who talk too much and say nothing important.
Yeah loud people usually are toxic...I like quiet people, they are nice.
This is 100% me! Its sad how people think that introverts are boring and rude! Its fact that nobody should mess with us!
And don't ever touch or destroy anything of mine that doesn't belong to you.🤬
The unfortunate part about us quite people is that we will always be misunderstood. People just label us and act like we’re the plaque. It’s like they get off on it.
Yet your talking now
@@ryannoland8792 No! I wrote. Typing and talking are two different things.
Did you learn anything from the video? Just because we’re quiet, doesn’t mean we’re afraid to talk.
That is very true, as this has happened to me in the past.
@@rainriver1281 I quite agree with you and your responce.
Most of the points here do apply to quiet person like me. Only additional personality is that I am aggressive and also very direct/blunt. Push me too far and I will show you how aggressive and hostile I am. So don't test my patience.
Think I,m in love with you. Ya right on.❤❤.
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Me too
I'm kinda both. I prefer to be a quiet person, prefer my own company, am a loner, however in this world that we all live in today, there are times you HAVE to speak up for yourself, or you will end up being a doormat for everybody to walk all over you and take advantage of you in every way possible. I have found this out being a introverted, and quiet person who prefers his own company and does my work best alone. There comes a time to say and tell others, enough is enough and you have to stand your ground.
True that. Been there, done that.
Much like me Brother!
Being an introvert myself, it's definitely tough dealing with people sometimes. People are too judgemental, it makes me sick to the core. Keep in mind, introverts are still capable of socializing.
So whoever it is, piss off and stop judging others for being themselves. Basically, don't be a damn prick.
Some time back, I saw a couple of urban thugs demand an Asian kid give up his seat on the subway. Asian kid meekly gets up and gives them his seat without a word and goes to sit down next to an elderly white lady across from me. As the Asian kid is sitting back down, I saw the black rubber grips of a T-handle push knife tucked into that Asian kid's belt under his shirt... That incident could have resulted in two dead thugs if that Asian kid had chosen another route, but he didn't.
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Moreover, that Asian kid has a .357 hammerless snubbie tucked under his belt, a sig p365 on his 8:00, another sig p365 on his 5:00, a Glock 42 on an ankle holster left leg, a fixed blade strapped on his right leg, an automatic folder on his back pocket (and of course the push dagger), a Glock G19x chamber loaded with Critical Duty on a 17 rounder magazine left side shoulder holster, 2 extra 19 rounder magazines loaded with FMJs on the right shoulder magazine pouches, and last but not the least a Glock 26 Gen 5 for magazine interchangeability with the 19x.
And a nice book.
Me: “Come home son! Told you not to take the subway- take the bus.”
First of all, that kid shouldn't have given up his seat to such thugs. If their name isn't written on; why should I give it away, then.
How does race have anything to do with quietness?
As a quiet one, the bare minimum I ask from others is to talk to me in a civil manner with no judgment of my quietness or just respect me. But even with that simplest request for bare minimum, a lot still fail.
I love introverts 💯💯💯 They are not followers they love to think for themselves and making their own decisions 💯💗💯
Absolutely right.
Told this my sister, she wants to tell thats a problem.
People who talk achieve nothing. I let my actions speak for myself. If someone is consistently talking about themself and being the victim are a source of annoyance. After politely asking them to change the subject and continue to talk over me, I will not respond and give clear signals that I am not listening and they are essentially wasting my time.
Yea you can make a promise with your words but words doesn't get the job done.
@@A.Peacock amen to that. As the old adage says "actions speak louder than words".
One thing that’s always plagued me is people talking over me. That’s a very quick way to loose my respect and interest. Do it 2 or 3 times and I’m gone. I find that when people do that, they aren’t bringing much to the conversation anyway. By all means, say your piece first you important fool, then shut up and hear me out or piss off and bother someone else.
@@yesdeere1376 Change from 2-3 times to one time Im gone.
You never know what im thinking
Same here, but it's what annoys people the most. Many people think we are serial killers or dangerous. Nothing could be farther from the truth!
I am a quiet person. Not shy or weak but just quiet and prefer to keep to myself. Bullies will always get the shock of their lives. and back off.
Quiet people need love too.
Agreed that we do
And they will reward reciprocally.
Loud people don’t shut up long enough to LEARN anything. I really dislike people who are loud and never stop talking.
I am also an introvert. I don't like socialising where hypocrisy is quite visible. I don't care for social niceties or social ceremonies. Treating each other with sincerity, kindness and fairness is enough.
And I don't expect thanks if I do any kindness to others. If they say thanks I am happy. If they don't, I don't mind unless they are very ungrateful people who pays back goodness with evil. I get uncomfortable when people say thank you again and again.
I hate superficiality. But I like funny acts that flows freely without being forced upon to do them. We all make a fool of ourselves sometimes. We all make mistakes. And those not a problem to me unless one were to deny those were not mistakes or foolish acts.
I hate people who suppresses others with their superior status and wealth. I like giving ideas to those unfortunate to fight back. While I don't like paying back in the same coin, i don't like to see evil doers get away with their evil deeds. I like exposing their deeds and their hypocrisy.
For me, right is right and wrong is wrong no matter who is doing it. There is no bridge between right and wrong.
I don't like flattery. Those who flatter me for no good reason makes themselves very cheap. If anyone is able to compliment for a merit, I value that person for his intelligence and sincerity.
Deception can work on me once because I usually give others the benefit of the doubt but once they are discovered, that person is no longer in my book no matter what he may do in future.
I value loyalty. If I get like-minded friends, I'll probably die fighting to the death even though I fore knew we will be defeated. It will be a shame for me to live when my friends had died for me.
Winning and losing is a part of life. I don't care about the result so long as I could give my best for the job. Scolding by bosses for the loss or defeat is not going to do any damage to my self esteem. I know I am not the best. But I also know that I can defeat the best guy in some areas. After all, I don't live to please superiors or to be subservient to them. I live for myself to do as I want.
I am looked upon as a misfit in social circles which I don't mind at all. And I like being peculiar and independent. I can sit alone in the corner of the room with full of people if I have a mobile phone or an interesting magazine to pass time or I can just sit there observing the hypocrisy of people resolving not to behave like them. But if I see another awkward person, I'll offer him my company.
I am a boring person because I don't contribute much in a lively social gathering. And if I get another introvert, I can promise that we can have a good time without talking much. Hardly a word or two may be spoken in 10 minutes but we can still enjoy each other's company sitting together and watching the nature.
I like witty jokes and sharing of ideas. I don't envy others for their smartness, talents. They should be given due recognition for their merit.
That‘s 100% me!! Your comment is more accurate than the Video itself!
People often associates quietness with mental illness. I am quiet, but it's hard for people to label me, and talk to me as if I have mental problems. I enjoy the challenge when people try to figure me out.
I mean in other way it's not wrong too. Cause if we don't talk much. We might be bad in small talk too. I'm not talking about all introverts but some of them
Thanks for the video,but there's nothing weird about an introvert they are simply just unique.
I like being alone, working alone,pets bring peace in my heart, exploring in nature but people think am weird but I call it peace😌😌🤗
I'm quiet, some people I've meet been lucky I just walked away from their BS in the past.
More easy going now older but still avoid people much as possible.
Was only shy at school but that was a long long time ago.
"The most dangerous person is the one who listens, thinks, and observes." - Bruce Lee 🐉
100% me. People think they know me, then I throw them for a loop and they're left flabbergasted. And I've been accused of being to quiet, but I'd much rather observe than gab.
Thanks for this video I can truly relate because am an introvert and what you are saying is very true ..I have had someone say how I don't respond to people and act on somethings is fear ,weakness and running away from that which I should be attacking or fighting to beat but I just listened to that person and left because I was like I wish you knew better who I am..Our strength as introverts is what people describe as weakness 😂😂..we are deeper than that thank God .
With you all the way.
Great vid . I’m quiet in general especially when people who talk too much . I find it hard to get a sentence in and must raise my voice to not get interrupted . Those who talk too much about nothing and repeat themselves over and over drains me ! I’m so exhausted after a while - I tune them out ! I have a bit of social anxiety which doesn’t help plus can be shy if I don’t feel welcome . Thank goodness I have the option to not be around blabbers haha
I am also one of the more quiet guys... the only exception is when I hit the stage with my band. I play the rhythm guitar and provide backing vocals in a Rockband. But at work I am one of the "Outcasts"
I'm this kind of person in the workplace and it drives people CRAZY 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was labeled as haughty, but i was so bored and irratated by most kids in school. They were so immature
I'm one of the quiet ones. One of my requests to others would be to stop attempting to read what's on our minds and guess our next move. That's really intrusive. Thanks.
This is so on point. I am quiet person and at 7:29 that is true, it is very tough for anyone to fool me because I remember and track details.
Im a quiet person, considered 'socially awkward'. But dont mess around, ill put you in your place in as little as 3 words.
I agree with this whole heartedly. I'm quiet, I don't like blubbering and I'm not afraid to tell the blubberer to get to the point. I've also been told I can tell people a story, they're waiting for me to carry on but I've finished.
I’m so glad I’m a introvert screw the loud people I get straight to the point and I don’t sugar coat shit I am shy n lonely but I’m not a dam stupid person
Yes! Always treat as you would like to be treated.
So very true.
I also have rarely cried or got loud with anyone.
But there are a few people who have and still cannot completely understand how they had to eat their own medicine.
They remain puzzled wondering what happened between them and myself.
Enneagram Five personality falls into this category. Fives, introverts, quiet people... whatever you want to call us make some of the best friends because we are active listeners. We may not be sympathetic, but we tend to be very empathetic (huge difference). However, if a friend betrays or does a Five wrong, that person has lost a very precious gift of a friend forever because a Five, introvert, quiet person... whatever you want to call them are very tight with who to trust. They would rather have one trusted friend then dozens of friends. I'm one such person. I can count on one hand of the only trusted friends I have and still have fingers left over.
Me too. My friends are still close friends even after not talking to each other for months.
One old proverb:"Beware of three things- Storm on sea,night without moonshine and wrath of quiet man..!"
I am a quiet person who loves knowledge
Sometimes I wonder why my close friends choose the relationships they do
I try to warn them in a kind way.
My observation is normally spot on
I am a vintage introvert. I needed answers to every question when I was a kid. It didn’t take long before I learned that my parents didn’t have many answers to my questions. That’s why I tore everything apart and put it back together as a kid, just because I had to know how that thing worked.
I spent so much time alone, I learned how to paint, sculpt and play several instruments, beginning with the guitar, but expanding to many other instruments over the years. I have spent my life making a living based on those skills. I prefer to spend time alone because I can entertain myself easily.
Like most introverts, I am a night owl. It has only been in recent years that the “night owl gene”, as it’s named, was discovered. It has been found to be a genetic trait passed down from a parent. My mother was a night owl and I am the only one out of four siblings that got the night owl gene.
I get along better with other introverts because I find them deeper, well versed in a wide array of subjects and highly intelligent. Extroverts tend to only know whatever it is they do for a job and don’t have much to say outside of that.
I am a dangerous person to mess with, because like most introverts, I am chess player, and not just the game of chess, but everything in life is like a chess game to me. I am always up for a challenge, never surrender and never stop learning. This will allow me to always be six steps ahead of the extrovert. A lot more goes on in the head of an introvert than extroverts realize. We spend hours and hours solving problems and we invite challenge and don’t fear it.
I’m a quiet person and find it easy to read people. There have been times when I’ve had people being rude, mocking me…I’ve had friends ask how I know and suggest I’ve got it wrong, simply because they haven’t noticed. Us quiet people observe more and can read peoples body language. I can pick up on peoples feelings, too.
Yeah that's right because I like to sit back and watch how people react to each other and I can see right through most of them and this is so much fun I just can't can't get enough of it, because they remind of watching a soap opera like, days of our lives on a regular basis instead of being on a TV show it's hilarious
We need a show based on everyday people who are the biggest joke in life ohh yeah that's right they call it the biggest losers but not the weight loss program instead it would focus more on the biggest losers in the world and do some video of people who don't have any chance in life and aren't going anywhere
Yes, they think you don't know or can't pick up on their bs. It's too easy for us to know what's going on. People think we're clueless🤦🏾♀️.
Thanks for correct information.
Yeah i am a introvert but if you treat me negative i will give you a taste of your own medicine for sure !
Yup that’s me, I don’t talk much but I observe my surroundings everytime I go out. Most people think I’m just weird when I just look around but in reality I’m observing everyone.
Being shy and quiet is fine, im both i just dont like the feeling of being talked down to because I don't talk much. I don't mind having a boss or bosses at jobs, just dont talk down to me or others.
You've nailed it. Well done.
They have invisible soldiers/angels to stand for them to argue / fight their rights because they live inside the tiny circle, thats how strong they are...
Beautifuly summarized.
As a quiet person I can confirm this is true. And never forget the quiet ones for we will make you a fool. *chuckles darkly like a little child*. You will never know our nature.
I am a quiet person but love to watch and hear other people. One boss told me that when I do talk, people really listen. My son refers to me as an outgoing shy person. People seem drawn to me and will share more personal info than they intend to do. Yes, I am an enigma.
As an introvert I have learned that 98% of the time all people want is a listening ear. They are more than capable of working through their problem and often already know what they must do but just need to get how they're feeling off of their chest.
I'm a quiet person. A young man once called me retarded because of my being thus. But, I was able to inteleculalize the situation with him eventually looking childish.
I admire the mam who composed these traits of quiet problem. He is so very correct in every aspect and I can relate to most of the statements. I actually didn't listen to all these facts about my own character before I listened to these facts.
Thank you for sharing these great thoughts. Has helped me accept myself more.
I am also a very quiet person in childhood not because I am shy but Because I don't like to talk much. I stay away from blabbering, stupid things, etc
. But people never try to understand a quiet person. My teachers, parents and friends always scold me for being a quiet girl. Thank you for this
To sometimes find one's purpose in life it is important to find your life's challenge. Mine was "To find my ears before I search for words" This isn't just about listening to others but also searching for and learning how to collate information properly. I had always been a quiet person, always wanting to learn and observe and even counter my own thoughts to make sure I knew "The other side" I would often get frustrated at the loud people or the more charismatic even tried to act like it for a bit but it was exhaustive when I was a younger person. I learned to embrace my quietness, to learn to be a "mentor", to work with people. Quiet people know a lot about themselves, they are "the quiet achievers". Being quiet you have to get used to surprising people and other people can take that in many ways. Some may challenge you because you're not the one that usually speaks up or shows off, it's not the best course of action to instinctively want to destroy them with your "truth bombs" but at the same time you need to be able to be assertive just enough to not be stepped on. If you can achieve that people will ask for your input and more importantly, listen when you actually do open your mouth.
let's face it, loud people are not only annoying, they also tend to be a waste of time and space
This guy KNOWS WHAT HE IS TALKING ABOUT. He hit the nail on the head. Like I said,, I M N AMBIVERT...
I am a quiet person and i have the feeling I no longer fit into this world. I am tired about be asked why are so quiet why you not say something.
I'm quiet as I don't really like talking in general and I have a slight problem with communicating as I have autism(high functioning), but unfortunately I'm quiet to the point people always see me as a target to mess with, as I'm not really the best looking either. I'm a little sensitive, so my feelings most definitely get hurt(easily), but when I have enough, hell actually breaks loose. Why can't people just leave us alone? Lol
They mess with you to build up their own fragile self esteem. Just remember how miserable people like that are deep down.
As the quiet one my friends warn people if they see them trying to wind me up telling them not to go down that road then they stand back and wait to see how I will react if their advice is ignored
You, So Nailed this, and, as an Empath, this is Knowledge to, and For me..;);)..Thank you..
I'm a quiet person but surrounded by a loud family. I like being by myself and listening to conversations but oh no! My sister keeps trying to force me to socialise and talk when I don't want to and that just irritates me.
There was an young owl, who lived in an oak.
The more he saw, the less he spoke.
The less he spoke, the more he heard. Thus grew to be a wise old bird.
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Key word here is old..ok?❤️
My ex friend got pissy at me everytime, because I was always carefree and nothing fazed me (according to her), so in her mind I didn't have any problems. Which was hilarious to me. I just learned quickly that she didn't care about my problems and always talked about herself when I tried to vent, so I just stopped wasting time. I love to observe people.
Narcissists are the real danger
You are exactly right! No one can really figure me out! I’m very difficult, and that’s for a purpose!
Yep… the most dangerous people are silent.
"Better to remain quiet than to speak and remove all doubt".
You quoted this wrong...
I am seen as a quiet person but I do talk! I am friendly and outgoing. I am an introvert and am happy with my own company. I have a hit of company at work but have no desire to take the relationships outside of work though I do text one member of staff. I do not invest in superficial relationships . I know of people who have friends who they do not confide in and they know very little about each other after years of acquaintance and wonder how that is possible as are friends not people who you share with? They hide their past if they feel that the friendship would end if it were known and even their present problems. What alot of time spent not being yourself. Of course it is not all friendships but as an introvert to have one friendship that is reciprocal and open is worth more than a dozen casual friendships . We are seen as a pushover and timid and that is a mistake. I think we are good listeners and deep thinkers thinking before we speak and reflecting on what is said. Are there quiet extroverts possibly not.
I totally agree with all the points. The last one was my favorite one though.
There's a reason why God gave us two ears 👂 and one mouth. People should listen more than they speak, but do they noooo. They rather talk 👄 about a bunch of BS that you really don't want to hear.
As a Quiet 🤐🤫 Guy I don't talk much because I'm more of a Listener .
The quiet ones are the ones you have to watch. Never a truer saying. All too often, quietness is taken as a sign of weakness. Big mistake, especially in a work situation, I've had a few people fired who have messed with me!
Yes, weakness may be a manipulators intial thought with a quiet person, however they may quickly find out differently, as many quiet people are often the scariest when they've had enough, and then people cannot back off fast enough, because when a quiet person starts spouting off you know there's really something wrong, and that they've reallllly had enough! So in a way, being quiet has it's advantages.
@@jodizellmer994 I would suggest to go hardcore mode, is call people out immediately no wait. Because some people gonna think they get away with it,in fact not a tiny bit.
As a quiet person i love this video
Im also a quite man don't care much for people who bum themselves up especially when they say how good they are at fighting because I'm quiet sometimes in the past they try and push my buttons most of the time i let it go but when they go to far the colour drains out they face when I start fighting back i have been trained in boxing and takwondo and karate then i get left alone Alec from Scotland
Very good informative video, in some things I recognize myself.
I always say: The Dog that barks don't bite!
We also appreciate no judgements. It gets old fast.
Quiet people are introspective and good listeners. They also have good manners. Noisy people who talk a load of rubbish grate the soul and don't believe a word they say. They are just trying to impress and as shallow as a puddle.
True. Loud people who talk constantly are very draining to the brain.
Most people annoy me just by being alive. It usually gets worse from there
Great lesson
Outstanding !
Quiet people can give you the " death stare " and then ........ they quietly fade away . It's a secret art of farting your way out of situations and later talk to your friends how you could have made the loud guy pay but your overwhelming powers are so vast and well known troughout the 9 realms it's better not to speak of it with normal mortals . So you did nothing while the bully beat up your little sister . You go oooh quiet one .
that is profiling them to be the First to suspect as the Murder, thief, first to retaliate in damaging someone's property. Saying a quiet person is like laying in a bed of Nails. So the person who is accused of murdering the college students was the first to suspect, being quiet, awkward. Then you start to go on to describe a quiet person as an INFJ. so what are they really?
I observe and study, assessing, calculating, plans within plans.
I rarely speak in public, only when it's absolutely necessary.
People make the mistake that i'm not listening, i already grasped the situation and already know how to handle it.
As a quiet person, i like to live and work in quiet places.
Loud people and worse still loud music realy irritate me.
How can you work at your best in a noisy eviroment?
Good points 👍
One of the best videos I have ever seen!!!
In my experience (the quiet one), people like me are always gossiped about.
I'm impressed since it's on point
As a quiet person, introvert, I watch you more than you know , I listen to your jibber jabber, I find out who you are pretty quick, but I don't speak much about myself, but when I have something to say you better believe I will tell you what the hell is on my mind, most of the time it takes you off your rocker,
Brilliant and deadly accurate
I don't know if you interviewed an introvert but,you hit the right point!!😃😃
And you never mess with an empath. We know what you’re all about and you don’t have to say a word.
🎯 Bingo! Their energy speaks volumes before they even open their mouth.
@@I-Am-Prosperous-I-Am-Grateful you betcha!
I am a quite person. Due to the fact I like to sit back an observe and read the room full of people first. I do this to see how people treat other's and watch what they say. This let's me know how they will potentially treat me or if their personality meshes with mine or , are they full of b's.
Love your channel bro. Of all the vids like 'Psych2Go you nailed it most. That certainly hit home for me as it vehemently relates to me everything in your description how silent people function. After watching this vid you boosted my confidence experientially..Ty Ty Ty and Ty again and again. Thank You!!
You know ur the quiet one when about every 6 months someone asks why you're so quiet.
I'm a quiet person as well, and agree with some of what is said. The only thing I disagree with is I'm not a dangerous quiet person. With family or strangers.
Your missing what he is saying as a Quiet 🤐🤫 Guy I'm not Dangerous in Fact I'm very nice around my Family. But if pushed I can be as Dangerous as the Next Guy . The Advantage I have over others is I'm because I'm Quiet 🤫 when I do Snap you won't see 🙈 it Coming . Won a Lot of Fights that way because they Never saw 🪚 it coming . I mean it's Like Patrick Swayze said in Roadhouse the Loud Ones looking or a Fight ain't as Dangerous as the Quiet 🤐🤫 Ones Expecting a Fight .
You mean sucker punching?
@@robertrodriguez787 Very well said! As you pointed out, with quiet people when they've finally had enough and snap, you don't see it coming, that's why they're refered to as dangerous or scary.