Why You Should Never Mess With A Quiet Person (INTROVERTS!)

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  • Why You Should Never Mess With A Quiet Person (INTROVERTS!). Quiet people got misunderstood for how they interact with their environment. Their silence is often linked and perceived as shyness or weird loneliness; little did they know that these kinds of people are more peculiar than those extroverts or loud ones.
    It may feel threatening, but a quiet person knows their limits too. Always remember that before they had enough of your negative energy, they were once calm and forgiving. But if you are already doing too much, they can expose your darkest attitude by filling you with sarcasm and pissing you off. Quiet people are very mysterious, and it is challenging to guess what is on their minds.
    Quiet people are very puzzling, and it is challenging to guess what is on their minds. They do not like to experience miserable treatment from other people because they are kind enough. Therefore, how they treat you is based on how you communicate and interact with them. They will do the same treatment and make you realize how horrible you were until your remorse consumes you. Additionally, if you respect them, they will treat you with respect too. However, if you do not respect them, do not expect something good in return.
    All of us have different personal qualities; we can be either extroverts or introverts, and that’s what makes us who we are. Our reaction to a particular situation depends on how we perceive it. Indeed, it is imperative to understand and weigh situations properly if we are not familiar with the qualities of other people. Now that all are made clear about why you should never mess with a quiet person, would you still like to mess with them or choose to be kind?
    00:00 INTRO
    00:31 10 They are more knowledgeable than loud people
    01:21 09 They are not shy; they know when to talk
    02:18 08 Has a strong sense of self-discipline than anyone
    03:16 07 You’ll never read what’s going on in their minds
    04:10 06 Tends to learn and grasp things quickly
    05:06 05 They are not weak; they hate wasting their energy
    06:15 04 Quiet people are more determined
    07:25 03 It is hard to fool a quiet person
    08:20 02 They are weird in their ways
    09:12 01 If you treat them negatively, they will let you taste your own medicine
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  • @essentialliving7862
    @essentialliving7862  Рік тому +71

    00:00 INTRO
    00:31 10 They are more knowledgeable than loud people
    01:21 09 They are not shy; they know when to talk
    02:18 08 Has a strong sense of self-discipline than anyone
    03:16 07 You’ll never read what’s going on in their minds
    04:10 06 Tends to learn and grasp things quickly
    05:06 05 They are not weak; they hate wasting their energy
    06:15 04 Quiet people are more determined
    07:25 03 It is hard to fool a quiet person
    08:20 02 They are weird in their ways
    09:12 01 If you treat them negatively, they will let you taste your own medicine
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    • @eldorta
      @eldorta Рік тому +1

      Christ! I relate to all of them.

    • @natherahkarim7146
      @natherahkarim7146 Рік тому

      Ygdiamtulahygamatberacun

    • @rosewint7203
      @rosewint7203 Рік тому

      You are speaking about me because l'm a very quiet person and mouse of what u say that's how l'm

  • @mariankeller5852
    @mariankeller5852 Рік тому +553

    I am a quiet person..I'm neither weird ..shy or lonely..I just have a low tolerance for liars..bores and stupidity...I believe knowledge is one thing no one can ever take from you..I believe honesty is vital to conversation and I believe my life and future is private and my choice..I cannot be intimidated and can spot deceit a mile away..and have no problem walking away from those who are destructive..

    • @prophecybydefault4708
      @prophecybydefault4708 Рік тому +12

      your other problem is that you assume everyone is like that even when you don't know them.
      basically you don't trust anyone.
      i'm not going to say you're paraniod because it would be ironic of me to call someone out on being judgment while being judgemental myself but most quiet people i have met had a terrible outlook on the world.

    • @mariankeller5852
      @mariankeller5852 Рік тому +44

      @@prophecybydefault4708 ha ha ha ..judgemental is a perfect description of you.(.your words) I am wise enough to give others the respect to prove themselves..I'm hardly paranoid or mentally ill..each person is judged on their own merit ..I don't have a horrible out look
      I'm happy its those like you I choose to avoid..

    • @prophecybydefault4708
      @prophecybydefault4708 Рік тому +6

      @@mariankeller5852 you are also prideful apparently...

    • @JayXDagger
      @JayXDagger Рік тому +17

      Ima keep it short but I have my own reasons not trust anyone either. So yeah person who say we have terrible outlook in world , yet told us not to judge them ? Okay lol I can smell hypocrisy.

    • @JayXDagger
      @JayXDagger Рік тому +24

      @@mariankeller5852 and I agree with your statement 100%, Im fed up with narcissist people.

  • @dalewalker5845
    @dalewalker5845 Рік тому +169

    I'm quiet and people think I'm a jerk. And they talk crap about me But, I just ignore them to piss them off even more.

    • @apsarasgaming1663
      @apsarasgaming1663 Рік тому +8

      🤣

    • @eugene531
      @eugene531 Рік тому +25

      The funny thing is, they're stressing their self out talking shit to you, while you're casually enjoying the life 😂

    • @lakerfan8297
      @lakerfan8297 Рік тому +3

      Sounds like me 🤣🤣

    • @karma9007
      @karma9007 Рік тому +7

      Youre the main story. keep it that way until they learn to focus on their own life,until then their energy wasted wrong place. Or the hardcore mode : Just leave.

    • @Lungoose
      @Lungoose Рік тому +3

      Throughout high school certain people seemed annoyed & would often say outright that I never speak to them(had no reason to), So I avoided speaking to those people entirely 😂

  • @randyhankison1036
    @randyhankison1036 Рік тому +57

    I'm a quiet person and like my peace and quiet at home,takes a lot to piss me off and a silent observer,but when I lose my temper I lose it bigtime,then look out.

    • @robertcamble3543
      @robertcamble3543 Рік тому +5

      Same here. I'm quiet & more likely to pay attention to what comes out of people's mouth .

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 10 місяців тому +1

      Because when you piss one of those people off you better be prepared for the battle

  • @carlosc.9294
    @carlosc.9294 Рік тому +115

    100% correct! The introvert in me can always see thru peoples BS and read them for who they really are. I prefer being being observant, direct and to the point and dont waste time talking senseless BS. “Be aware of the quiet ones, they are the ones who actually think. The smarter you get, the less you speak”. - KEANU REEVES

    • @jonathanbaker7854
      @jonathanbaker7854 Рік тому +3

      Your right. Very true and correct.ℹ️💯✅❤️👌🏿👍🏿✝️🙏🏿📖🗡🥷☯️😎

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 10 місяців тому +3

      Absolutely nothing wrong with being able to see through people's bullshit it's a blessing to me I get a kick out of it and watch others fail with their own actions because they don't listen to me

  • @patriciaherlevi6217
    @patriciaherlevi6217 Рік тому +55

    I prefer the company of quiet people. I don't like loud people who talk too much and say nothing important.

    • @ay-tj7pj
      @ay-tj7pj 9 місяців тому +2

      Yeah loud people usually are toxic...I like quiet people, they are nice.

  • @Helpishope
    @Helpishope Рік тому +173

    I'm a quiet person. People don't understand that I can read them and sense when they are being genuine or out right rude. I've had times when people comment and say I'm being too quiet. My answer has been I'm observing or have nothing to say. I definitely do relate to this video.

    • @josephsullivan775
      @josephsullivan775 Рік тому +5

      I am also a quiet person, i was born premature and spent my first 2 months alone in an incubator. I really think this defined my and made me quiet and happy to be alone

    • @Helpishope
      @Helpishope Рік тому +5

      @@josephsullivan775 It's good that you survived. Hope you are doing well other than the feeling.

    • @denisesurber8176
      @denisesurber8176 Рік тому +10

      I'm a quiet person too. I've had people ask outright, "Why don't you talk?" I always think that's an intrusive, personal question to ask someone. How do you answer that?. I don't feel that I owe anyone an explanation about it. If you want a conversation with me, start one. If you don't, fine.

    • @josephsullivan775
      @josephsullivan775 Рік тому +5

      @@Helpishope thank you for your kind comment, I'm in my 70s now i never married and i still live alone and i am fine with that, thanks again

    • @cherylspandley8270
      @cherylspandley8270 Рік тому +3

      You can loads about other people by being quiet; and listening; and looking. Sometimes chatty people let things out, that can be used against them at a latter date. My ex boss use to say stay quiet, look, listen; and learn. Good advice.😂😂😂😮

  • @saunsiaraybroussard9967
    @saunsiaraybroussard9967 Рік тому +19

    This is 100% me! Its sad how people think that introverts are boring and rude! Its fact that nobody should mess with us!

    • @michaelremillard2215
      @michaelremillard2215 10 місяців тому

      And don't ever touch or destroy anything of mine that doesn't belong to you.🤬

  • @darkhero2114
    @darkhero2114 Рік тому +45

    Being an introvert myself, it's definitely tough dealing with people sometimes. People are too judgemental, it makes me sick to the core. Keep in mind, introverts are still capable of socializing.
    So whoever it is, piss off and stop judging others for being themselves. Basically, don't be a damn prick.

  • @rainriver1281
    @rainriver1281 Рік тому +172

    The unfortunate part about us quite people is that we will always be misunderstood. People just label us and act like we’re the plaque. It’s like they get off on it.

    • @ryannoland8792
      @ryannoland8792 Рік тому +2

      Yet your talking now

    • @rainriver1281
      @rainriver1281 Рік тому +29

      @@ryannoland8792 No! I wrote. Typing and talking are two different things.

    • @shadow7361
      @shadow7361 Рік тому +13

      Did you learn anything from the video? Just because we’re quiet, doesn’t mean we’re afraid to talk.

    • @danbasta3677
      @danbasta3677 Рік тому +3

      That is very true, as this has happened to me in the past.

    • @danbasta3677
      @danbasta3677 Рік тому +5

      ​@@rainriver1281 I quite agree with you and your responce.

  • @milliefromdablock6336
    @milliefromdablock6336 Рік тому +17

    Loud people don’t shut up long enough to LEARN anything. I really dislike people who are loud and never stop talking.

  • @marygoodman9530
    @marygoodman9530 Рік тому +36

    I love introverts 💯💯💯 They are not followers they love to think for themselves and making their own decisions 💯💗💯

  • @danielliew7960
    @danielliew7960 Рік тому +67

    Most of the points here do apply to quiet person like me. Only additional personality is that I am aggressive and also very direct/blunt. Push me too far and I will show you how aggressive and hostile I am. So don't test my patience.

  • @firefoxwizard86
    @firefoxwizard86 Рік тому +6

    "The most dangerous person is the one who listens, thinks, and observes." - Bruce Lee 🐉

  • @normanschmidt8389
    @normanschmidt8389 Рік тому +41

    Quiet people need love too.

  • @BlueSkyCountry
    @BlueSkyCountry Рік тому +56

    Some time back, I saw a couple of urban thugs demand an Asian kid give up his seat on the subway. Asian kid meekly gets up and gives them his seat without a word and goes to sit down next to an elderly white lady across from me. As the Asian kid is sitting back down, I saw the black rubber grips of a T-handle push knife tucked into that Asian kid's belt under his shirt... That incident could have resulted in two dead thugs if that Asian kid had chosen another route, but he didn't.

    • @SHAHABUDDINKHAN719
      @SHAHABUDDINKHAN719 Рік тому +6

      Those Thugs never Faced An INDIAN Gunda like us
      If i was there i show them who is boss

    • @BlueSkyCountry
      @BlueSkyCountry Рік тому +1

      @@SHAHABUDDINKHAN719 👍👍👍

    • @PMB119
      @PMB119 Рік тому

      Moreover, that Asian kid has a .357 hammerless snubbie tucked under his belt, a sig p365 on his 8:00, another sig p365 on his 5:00, a Glock 42 on an ankle holster left leg, a fixed blade strapped on his right leg, an automatic folder on his back pocket (and of course the push dagger), a Glock G19x chamber loaded with Critical Duty on a 17 rounder magazine left side shoulder holster, 2 extra 19 rounder magazines loaded with FMJs on the right shoulder magazine pouches, and last but not the least a Glock 26 Gen 5 for magazine interchangeability with the 19x.
      And a nice book.
      Me: “Come home son! Told you not to take the subway- take the bus.”

    • @dantefernandodantezambrano7910
      @dantefernandodantezambrano7910 Рік тому +1

      First of all, that kid shouldn't have given up his seat to such thugs. If their name isn't written on; why should I give it away, then.

    • @rebeccafrost5542
      @rebeccafrost5542 Рік тому +3

      If the good reason to give up seat is unknown to some at least Asian kid is Smart 🤓.

  • @danbasta3677
    @danbasta3677 Рік тому +42

    I'm kinda both. I prefer to be a quiet person, prefer my own company, am a loner, however in this world that we all live in today, there are times you HAVE to speak up for yourself, or you will end up being a doormat for everybody to walk all over you and take advantage of you in every way possible. I have found this out being a introverted, and quiet person who prefers his own company and does my work best alone. There comes a time to say and tell others, enough is enough and you have to stand your ground.

    • @Aleyna_304
      @Aleyna_304 Рік тому +3

      True that. Been there, done that.

    • @jaya.0069
      @jaya.0069 Рік тому

      Much like me Brother!

  • @justthink8952
    @justthink8952 Рік тому +25

    I am also an introvert. I don't like socialising where hypocrisy is quite visible. I don't care for social niceties or social ceremonies. Treating each other with sincerity, kindness and fairness is enough.
    And I don't expect thanks if I do any kindness to others. If they say thanks I am happy. If they don't, I don't mind unless they are very ungrateful people who pays back goodness with evil. I get uncomfortable when people say thank you again and again.
    I hate superficiality. But I like funny acts that flows freely without being forced upon to do them. We all make a fool of ourselves sometimes. We all make mistakes. And those not a problem to me unless one were to deny those were not mistakes or foolish acts.
    I hate people who suppresses others with their superior status and wealth. I like giving ideas to those unfortunate to fight back. While I don't like paying back in the same coin, i don't like to see evil doers get away with their evil deeds. I like exposing their deeds and their hypocrisy.
    For me, right is right and wrong is wrong no matter who is doing it. There is no bridge between right and wrong.
    I don't like flattery. Those who flatter me for no good reason makes themselves very cheap. If anyone is able to compliment for a merit, I value that person for his intelligence and sincerity.
    Deception can work on me once because I usually give others the benefit of the doubt but once they are discovered, that person is no longer in my book no matter what he may do in future.
    I value loyalty. If I get like-minded friends, I'll probably die fighting to the death even though I fore knew we will be defeated. It will be a shame for me to live when my friends had died for me.
    Winning and losing is a part of life. I don't care about the result so long as I could give my best for the job. Scolding by bosses for the loss or defeat is not going to do any damage to my self esteem. I know I am not the best. But I also know that I can defeat the best guy in some areas. After all, I don't live to please superiors or to be subservient to them. I live for myself to do as I want.
    I am looked upon as a misfit in social circles which I don't mind at all. And I like being peculiar and independent. I can sit alone in the corner of the room with full of people if I have a mobile phone or an interesting magazine to pass time or I can just sit there observing the hypocrisy of people resolving not to behave like them. But if I see another awkward person, I'll offer him my company.
    I am a boring person because I don't contribute much in a lively social gathering. And if I get another introvert, I can promise that we can have a good time without talking much. Hardly a word or two may be spoken in 10 minutes but we can still enjoy each other's company sitting together and watching the nature.
    I like witty jokes and sharing of ideas. I don't envy others for their smartness, talents. They should be given due recognition for their merit.

    • @donezkusemba525
      @donezkusemba525 6 місяців тому +1

      That‘s 100% me!! Your comment is more accurate than the Video itself!

  • @angiebissette1355
    @angiebissette1355 10 місяців тому +5

    I am a quiet person. Not shy or weak but just quiet and prefer to keep to myself. Bullies will always get the shock of their lives. and back off.

  • @organicmechanic5150
    @organicmechanic5150 Рік тому +54

    People who talk achieve nothing. I let my actions speak for myself. If someone is consistently talking about themself and being the victim are a source of annoyance. After politely asking them to change the subject and continue to talk over me, I will not respond and give clear signals that I am not listening and they are essentially wasting my time.

    • @A.Peacock
      @A.Peacock Рік тому +3

      Yea you can make a promise with your words but words doesn't get the job done.

    • @organicmechanic5150
      @organicmechanic5150 Рік тому +5

      @@A.Peacock amen to that. As the old adage says "actions speak louder than words".

    • @yesdeere1376
      @yesdeere1376 Рік тому +2

      One thing that’s always plagued me is people talking over me. That’s a very quick way to loose my respect and interest. Do it 2 or 3 times and I’m gone. I find that when people do that, they aren’t bringing much to the conversation anyway. By all means, say your piece first you important fool, then shut up and hear me out or piss off and bother someone else.

    • @karma9007
      @karma9007 Рік тому

      @@yesdeere1376 Change from 2-3 times to one time Im gone.

  • @xx2175
    @xx2175 Рік тому +22

    People often associates quietness with mental illness. I am quiet, but it's hard for people to label me, and talk to me as if I have mental problems. I enjoy the challenge when people try to figure me out.

    • @MaRgEd.ZamaSU
      @MaRgEd.ZamaSU 11 місяців тому +1

      I mean in other way it's not wrong too. Cause if we don't talk much. We might be bad in small talk too. I'm not talking about all introverts but some of them

  • @catsu5695
    @catsu5695 7 місяців тому +2

    As a quiet one, the bare minimum I ask from others is to talk to me in a civil manner with no judgment of my quietness or just respect me. But even with that simplest request for bare minimum, a lot still fail.

  • @sugarandspice2136
    @sugarandspice2136 Рік тому +10

    I'm this kind of person in the workplace and it drives people CRAZY 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @doreenbanda3495
    @doreenbanda3495 Рік тому +9

    I like being alone, working alone,pets bring peace in my heart, exploring in nature but people think am weird but I call it peace😌😌🤗

  • @DJKetel322
    @DJKetel322 Рік тому +20

    You never know what im thinking

    • @SHAHABUDDINKHAN719
      @SHAHABUDDINKHAN719 Рік тому +1

      I can
      I have few Quite friends i can sense there moods i used to understand quite people

    • @edpurcell7322
      @edpurcell7322 Рік тому

      Same here, but it's what annoys people the most. Many people think we are serial killers or dangerous. Nothing could be farther from the truth!

  • @Cyberwolf9999
    @Cyberwolf9999 Рік тому +6

    I was labeled as haughty, but i was so bored and irratated by most kids in school. They were so immature

  • @elizabethanderton-rg2gd
    @elizabethanderton-rg2gd Рік тому +9

    Im a quiet person, considered 'socially awkward'. But dont mess around, ill put you in your place in as little as 3 words.

  • @EmmanuelDavid75
    @EmmanuelDavid75 Рік тому +6

    Thanks for the video,but there's nothing weird about an introvert they are simply just unique.

  • @Spike-qh2bb
    @Spike-qh2bb Рік тому +12

    I'm quiet, some people I've meet been lucky I just walked away from their BS in the past.
    More easy going now older but still avoid people much as possible.
    Was only shy at school but that was a long long time ago.

  • @guitarmama06
    @guitarmama06 Рік тому +6

    100% me. People think they know me, then I throw them for a loop and they're left flabbergasted. And I've been accused of being to quiet, but I'd much rather observe than gab.

  • @mikefromct5415
    @mikefromct5415 Рік тому +9

    Yeah i am a introvert but if you treat me negative i will give you a taste of your own medicine for sure !

  • @lydiaikamba3081
    @lydiaikamba3081 Рік тому +20

    Thanks for this video I can truly relate because am an introvert and what you are saying is very true ..I have had someone say how I don't respond to people and act on somethings is fear ,weakness and running away from that which I should be attacking or fighting to beat but I just listened to that person and left because I was like I wish you knew better who I am..Our strength as introverts is what people describe as weakness 😂😂..we are deeper than that thank God .

  • @alexblue6991
    @alexblue6991 Рік тому +4

    Im also a quite man don't care much for people who bum themselves up especially when they say how good they are at fighting because I'm quiet sometimes in the past they try and push my buttons most of the time i let it go but when they go to far the colour drains out they face when I start fighting back i have been trained in boxing and takwondo and karate then i get left alone Alec from Scotland

  • @Pokerface-tr1ds
    @Pokerface-tr1ds Рік тому +9

    I am also one of the more quiet guys... the only exception is when I hit the stage with my band. I play the rhythm guitar and provide backing vocals in a Rockband. But at work I am one of the "Outcasts"

  • @twrourke6557
    @twrourke6557 Рік тому +4

    Being shy and quiet is fine, im both i just dont like the feeling of being talked down to because I don't talk much. I don't mind having a boss or bosses at jobs, just dont talk down to me or others.

  • @robertrodriguez787
    @robertrodriguez787 Рік тому +7

    As a Quiet 🤐🤫 Guy I don't talk much because I'm more of a Listener .

  • @caroleekeith2823
    @caroleekeith2823 Рік тому +3

    There was an young owl, who lived in an oak.
    The more he saw, the less he spoke.
    The less he spoke, the more he heard. Thus grew to be a wise old bird.

  • @luthermcgee3767
    @luthermcgee3767 Рік тому +5

    I'm a quiet person. A young man once called me retarded because of my being thus. But, I was able to inteleculalize the situation with him eventually looking childish.

  • @phillipgomez3545
    @phillipgomez3545 Рік тому +10

    Enneagram Five personality falls into this category. Fives, introverts, quiet people... whatever you want to call us make some of the best friends because we are active listeners. We may not be sympathetic, but we tend to be very empathetic (huge difference). However, if a friend betrays or does a Five wrong, that person has lost a very precious gift of a friend forever because a Five, introvert, quiet person... whatever you want to call them are very tight with who to trust. They would rather have one trusted friend then dozens of friends. I'm one such person. I can count on one hand of the only trusted friends I have and still have fingers left over.

    • @justthink8952
      @justthink8952 Рік тому +1

      Me too. My friends are still close friends even after not talking to each other for months.

  • @jawariakhan9786
    @jawariakhan9786 Рік тому +13

    As a quiet person I can confirm this is true. And never forget the quiet ones for we will make you a fool. *chuckles darkly like a little child*. You will never know our nature.

  • @lilray7210
    @lilray7210 Рік тому +12

    There's a reason why God gave us two ears 👂 and one mouth. People should listen more than they speak, but do they noooo. They rather talk 👄 about a bunch of BS that you really don't want to hear.

  • @norbertpecheq3427
    @norbertpecheq3427 11 місяців тому +2

    One old proverb:"Beware of three things- Storm on sea,night without moonshine and wrath of quiet man..!"

  • @OnlytheStrongSurvive416
    @OnlytheStrongSurvive416 Рік тому +3

    This is so on point. I am quiet person and at 7:29 that is true, it is very tough for anyone to fool me because I remember and track details.

  • @msprecious3498
    @msprecious3498 Рік тому +8

    Great vid . I’m quiet in general especially when people who talk too much . I find it hard to get a sentence in and must raise my voice to not get interrupted . Those who talk too much about nothing and repeat themselves over and over drains me ! I’m so exhausted after a while - I tune them out ! I have a bit of social anxiety which doesn’t help plus can be shy if I don’t feel welcome . Thank goodness I have the option to not be around blabbers haha

  • @josephyandal9028
    @josephyandal9028 Рік тому +3

    They have invisible soldiers/angels to stand for them to argue / fight their rights because they live inside the tiny circle, thats how strong they are...

  • @Esiaa
    @Esiaa Рік тому +11

    My ex friend got pissy at me everytime, because I was always carefree and nothing fazed me (according to her), so in her mind I didn't have any problems. Which was hilarious to me. I just learned quickly that she didn't care about my problems and always talked about herself when I tried to vent, so I just stopped wasting time. I love to observe people.

    • @Cognazzo95
      @Cognazzo95 Рік тому

      Narcissists are the real danger

  • @K3NN3DY_101
    @K3NN3DY_101 Рік тому +9

    I'm quiet as I don't really like talking in general and I have a slight problem with communicating as I have autism(high functioning), but unfortunately I'm quiet to the point people always see me as a target to mess with, as I'm not really the best looking either. I'm a little sensitive, so my feelings most definitely get hurt(easily), but when I have enough, hell actually breaks loose. Why can't people just leave us alone? Lol

    • @Matthewjs33
      @Matthewjs33 Рік тому +3

      They mess with you to build up their own fragile self esteem. Just remember how miserable people like that are deep down.

  • @warpedgenius5182
    @warpedgenius5182 Рік тому +3

    1 silence is not a weakness it is a strength you dont hear them you dont know where they are at!!!!! dont piss one off lol

  • @RoarOfWolverine
    @RoarOfWolverine 9 місяців тому +1

    I am a vintage introvert. I needed answers to every question when I was a kid. It didn’t take long before I learned that my parents didn’t have many answers to my questions. That’s why I tore everything apart and put it back together as a kid, just because I had to know how that thing worked.
    I spent so much time alone, I learned how to paint, sculpt and play several instruments, beginning with the guitar, but expanding to many other instruments over the years. I have spent my life making a living based on those skills. I prefer to spend time alone because I can entertain myself easily.
    Like most introverts, I am a night owl. It has only been in recent years that the “night owl gene”, as it’s named, was discovered. It has been found to be a genetic trait passed down from a parent. My mother was a night owl and I am the only one out of four siblings that got the night owl gene.
    I get along better with other introverts because I find them deeper, well versed in a wide array of subjects and highly intelligent. Extroverts tend to only know whatever it is they do for a job and don’t have much to say outside of that.
    I am a dangerous person to mess with, because like most introverts, I am chess player, and not just the game of chess, but everything in life is like a chess game to me. I am always up for a challenge, never surrender and never stop learning. This will allow me to always be six steps ahead of the extrovert. A lot more goes on in the head of an introvert than extroverts realize. We spend hours and hours solving problems and we invite challenge and don’t fear it.

  • @hotsauce1646
    @hotsauce1646 Рік тому +3

    Quiet people can give you the " death stare " and then ........ they quietly fade away . It's a secret art of farting your way out of situations and later talk to your friends how you could have made the loud guy pay but your overwhelming powers are so vast and well known troughout the 9 realms it's better not to speak of it with normal mortals . So you did nothing while the bully beat up your little sister . You go oooh quiet one .

  • @smbpretoria2782
    @smbpretoria2782 Рік тому +2

    In my experience (the quiet one), people like me are always gossiped about.

  • @debelix
    @debelix Рік тому +6

    I always say: The Dog that barks don't bite!

  • @titchs9098
    @titchs9098 11 місяців тому +6

    I’m a quiet person and find it easy to read people. There have been times when I’ve had people being rude, mocking me…I’ve had friends ask how I know and suggest I’ve got it wrong, simply because they haven’t noticed. Us quiet people observe more and can read peoples body language. I can pick up on peoples feelings, too.

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 10 місяців тому

      Yeah that's right because I like to sit back and watch how people react to each other and I can see right through most of them and this is so much fun I just can't can't get enough of it, because they remind of watching a soap opera like, days of our lives on a regular basis instead of being on a TV show it's hilarious

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 10 місяців тому

      We need a show based on everyday people who are the biggest joke in life ohh yeah that's right they call it the biggest losers but not the weight loss program instead it would focus more on the biggest losers in the world and do some video of people who don't have any chance in life and aren't going anywhere

    • @Cusp_of_magic
      @Cusp_of_magic 2 години тому

      Yes, they think you don't know or can't pick up on their bs. It's too easy for us to know what's going on. People think we're clueless🤦🏾‍♀️.

  • @lynetteowens946
    @lynetteowens946 Рік тому +3

    I agree with this whole heartedly. I'm quiet, I don't like blubbering and I'm not afraid to tell the blubberer to get to the point. I've also been told I can tell people a story, they're waiting for me to carry on but I've finished.

  • @user-mg9vu9tc8i
    @user-mg9vu9tc8i Рік тому +1

    Yes! Always treat as you would like to be treated.

  • @jeffreydotson4842
    @jeffreydotson4842 Рік тому +3

    As an introvert I have learned that 98% of the time all people want is a listening ear. They are more than capable of working through their problem and often already know what they must do but just need to get how they're feeling off of their chest.

  • @Rich_H_1972
    @Rich_H_1972 Рік тому +2

    "Better to remain quiet than to speak and remove all doubt".

  • @derry3344ii
    @derry3344ii Рік тому +4

    I am a quiet person who loves knowledge
    Sometimes I wonder why my close friends choose the relationships they do
    I try to warn them in a kind way.
    My observation is normally spot on

  • @hazelelmore7060
    @hazelelmore7060 Рік тому +16

    Quiet people are introspective and good listeners. They also have good manners. Noisy people who talk a load of rubbish grate the soul and don't believe a word they say. They are just trying to impress and as shallow as a puddle.

    • @EWAMILENAP
      @EWAMILENAP Рік тому

      True. Loud people who talk constantly are very draining to the brain.

  • @Seyone030
    @Seyone030 Рік тому +2

    As a quiet person i love this video

  • @lisanidog8178
    @lisanidog8178 Рік тому +6

    And you never mess with an empath. We know what you’re all about and you don’t have to say a word.

  • @templetondesiree8663
    @templetondesiree8663 Рік тому +1

    I admire the mam who composed these traits of quiet problem. He is so very correct in every aspect and I can relate to most of the statements. I actually didn't listen to all these facts about my own character before I listened to these facts.
    Thank you for sharing these great thoughts. Has helped me accept myself more.

  • @ambikapriyadarshini3489
    @ambikapriyadarshini3489 Рік тому +7

    I am also a very quiet person in childhood not because I am shy but Because I don't like to talk much. I stay away from blabbering, stupid things, etc
    . But people never try to understand a quiet person. My teachers, parents and friends always scold me for being a quiet girl. Thank you for this

  • @glenffe23
    @glenffe23 Рік тому +8

    Albert Einstein says silent type are smart ..

  • @LivingEpicness1
    @LivingEpicness1 Рік тому +2

    I'm a quiet person but surrounded by a loud family. I like being by myself and listening to conversations but oh no! My sister keeps trying to force me to socialise and talk when I don't want to and that just irritates me.

  • @raymondmoore2707
    @raymondmoore2707 11 місяців тому +2

    Most people annoy me just by being alive. It usually gets worse from there

  • @kevthedynamo
    @kevthedynamo Рік тому +24

    The quiet ones are the ones you have to watch. Never a truer saying. All too often, quietness is taken as a sign of weakness. Big mistake, especially in a work situation, I've had a few people fired who have messed with me!

    • @jodizellmer994
      @jodizellmer994 Рік тому +6

      Yes, weakness may be a manipulators intial thought with a quiet person, however they may quickly find out differently, as many quiet people are often the scariest when they've had enough, and then people cannot back off fast enough, because when a quiet person starts spouting off you know there's really something wrong, and that they've reallllly had enough! So in a way, being quiet has it's advantages.

    • @karma9007
      @karma9007 Рік тому

      @@jodizellmer994 I would suggest to go hardcore mode, is call people out immediately no wait. Because some people gonna think they get away with it,in fact not a tiny bit.

  • @coltonn31
    @coltonn31 Рік тому +5

    You know ur the quiet one when about every 6 months someone asks why you're so quiet.

  • @Ranger_Zero
    @Ranger_Zero Рік тому +1

    Every time I try to be quiet I come off extremely rude which I am not. I usually talk and be quiet. One day I said today is going to be my quiet day and bam I was called an asshole when I was very happy and quiet. Quiet is good but other people don’t know how to perceive you. So it can lead to problems in different environments.

  • @dianewilliams9729
    @dianewilliams9729 Рік тому +2

    I am a quiet person but love to watch and hear other people. One boss told me that when I do talk, people really listen. My son refers to me as an outgoing shy person. People seem drawn to me and will share more personal info than they intend to do. Yes, I am an enigma.

  • @sudiptabrahma2631
    @sudiptabrahma2631 Рік тому +5

    Thanks for correct information.

  • @MegaJackpinesavage
    @MegaJackpinesavage Рік тому +2

    These days you'd do well not to mess with ANYBODY.

  • @clouudii_Cx
    @clouudii_Cx Рік тому +3

    I am a quite person. Due to the fact I like to sit back an observe and read the room full of people first. I do this to see how people treat other's and watch what they say. This let's me know how they will potentially treat me or if their personality meshes with mine or , are they full of b's.

  • @YOKIMY2000
    @YOKIMY2000 11 місяців тому +2

    Yup that’s me, I don’t talk much but I observe my surroundings everytime I go out. Most people think I’m just weird when I just look around but in reality I’m observing everyone.

  • @ezekielmoorejr3145
    @ezekielmoorejr3145 Рік тому +3

    I am a introvert and I tend to be reserved as to who I converse with and share ideas with ,the books of wisdom tell us only a fool offers knowledge where its not wanted. With that being said the world is full of fools!

  • @Blisken81
    @Blisken81 Рік тому +2

    I am a quiet person and i have the feeling I no longer fit into this world. I am tired about be asked why are so quiet why you not say something.

  • @tammy7482
    @tammy7482 Рік тому +3

    Well I'm having a hard time people. I am quiet and shy but I do see through people and yes people think they know what is on my mind but they have no idea. I started coming out and speaking up since I was a child i remember watching and listening. I am 100% included in this video. I am strange to everyone and my limits have been put to the test and im not taking it well. I can spot a phony person as my family is phony i don't like being told I'm crazy or delusional depressed etc. I started having seizures about 10 yrs ago in the past few weeks I had 2 at home back to back then 1 in the ambulance and another one in the er. So now im being told its all in my freaking head who the heck wants seizures. I don't because I can't remember a thing afterwards especially this past time it was different i don't have health insurance so I can't go to the drs the er will only treat you the best they can i found out since my divorce after 34 years that insurance definitely gets you better care in the er.but being different didn't cause my seizures 😢

  • @janetashbrook5614
    @janetashbrook5614 Рік тому +2

    I am seen as a quiet person but I do talk! I am friendly and outgoing. I am an introvert and am happy with my own company. I have a hit of company at work but have no desire to take the relationships outside of work though I do text one member of staff. I do not invest in superficial relationships . I know of people who have friends who they do not confide in and they know very little about each other after years of acquaintance and wonder how that is possible as are friends not people who you share with? They hide their past if they feel that the friendship would end if it were known and even their present problems. What alot of time spent not being yourself. Of course it is not all friendships but as an introvert to have one friendship that is reciprocal and open is worth more than a dozen casual friendships . We are seen as a pushover and timid and that is a mistake. I think we are good listeners and deep thinkers thinking before we speak and reflecting on what is said. Are there quiet extroverts possibly not.

  • @princesslightning5447
    @princesslightning5447 8 місяців тому +4

    I’m so glad I’m a introvert screw the loud people I get straight to the point and I don’t sugar coat shit I am shy n lonely but I’m not a dam stupid person

  • @lewis7315
    @lewis7315 Рік тому +2

    One of Robert Heinleins many famous quotes... "Don't mess with a small man because he will kill you."
    Since the small quiet person cant stop a large bully any other way, he may likely decide a bullet is the best answer...

  • @k13legitgaming14U
    @k13legitgaming14U Рік тому +2

    Love your channel bro. Of all the vids like 'Psych2Go you nailed it most. That certainly hit home for me as it vehemently relates to me everything in your description how silent people function. After watching this vid you boosted my confidence experientially..Ty Ty Ty and Ty again and again. Thank You!!

  • @ekaetebassey5403
    @ekaetebassey5403 Рік тому +2

    You've nailed it. Well done.

  • @solarseren
    @solarseren Рік тому +1

    Yk what I hate the most? It’s when people say “Go out, talk, make some friends.” “Why do you never talk?”
    I don’t talk because either: 1. I don’t like you or 2. I’m too tired to do so
    I have argued with someone I never knew before, and I can do it again. Just stop saying “I never talk” because there is a 8 in 10 chance you will hear my voice. And to my friends, I’m a literal menace so you can’t really say I don’t talk to *anyone* 🤷‍♀️

  • @chrismcevoy2503
    @chrismcevoy2503 Рік тому +5

    I’m not shy I know when to talk.

  • @ddizon-uw6cu
    @ddizon-uw6cu Рік тому +3

    let's face it, loud people are not only annoying, they also tend to be a waste of time and space

  • @LaSheii-cw7iz
    @LaSheii-cw7iz Рік тому +1

    My best friend aways tell to the new group of people that I don't talk a lot, but when I do it's worth to listen 🤣🤣

  • @tusk242
    @tusk242 Рік тому +2

    that is profiling them to be the First to suspect as the Murder, thief, first to retaliate in damaging someone's property. Saying a quiet person is like laying in a bed of Nails. So the person who is accused of murdering the college students was the first to suspect, being quiet, awkward. Then you start to go on to describe a quiet person as an INFJ. so what are they really?

  • @catsu5695
    @catsu5695 7 місяців тому +1

    I'm one of the quiet ones. One of my requests to others would be to stop attempting to read what's on our minds and guess our next move. That's really intrusive. Thanks.

  • @dantefernandodantezambrano7910

    I think the main thing with quiet people is that they kind of work out their Angel and their Demon simultaneously. Their Eros & Thanatos qualities are better-developed than others. That's why messing with them (quiet ones) is like willingly injuring oneself.

    • @karma9007
      @karma9007 Рік тому

      Miserable people wanna try,knows deep down theyre damaged. The Disgusting part is acting happy in front of people and being fake,Worst than that is no self identity.

  • @Woodman26
    @Woodman26 Рік тому +1

    You, So Nailed this, and, as an Empath, this is Knowledge to, and For me..;);)..Thank you..

  • @JadeRepayeStarchild1964
    @JadeRepayeStarchild1964 11 місяців тому +2

    So very true.
    I also have rarely cried or got loud with anyone.
    But there are a few people who have and still cannot completely understand how they had to eat their own medicine.
    They remain puzzled wondering what happened between them and myself.

  • @lisanidog8178
    @lisanidog8178 Рік тому +4

    I’m a quiet person and an empath.

  • @johncassles7481
    @johncassles7481 10 місяців тому +1

    I can't foresee a situation where I would want to mess with a quiet person anyway. It is a bit perverse to mess with some one who is not messing with you.

  • @haroldtandy5559
    @haroldtandy5559 Рік тому

    One of the best videos I have ever seen!!!

  • @littleladyscave376
    @littleladyscave376 Рік тому +4

    I prefer to be quiet and alone. I never draw attention.

  • @majestic.feminine
    @majestic.feminine Рік тому +5

    Beautifuly summarized.

  • @peterblair6489
    @peterblair6489 Рік тому +3

    I know why. We're smart, and hold grudges for a long time. I've got a couple from childhood I'm still waiting for revenge for.

  • @mylindacasbarro777
    @mylindacasbarro777 Рік тому +1

    I chose to be kind and then…observe people and their actions. I laugh only when it is funny.❤😊

  • @michaleeuwe
    @michaleeuwe Рік тому +1

    Very good informative video, in some things I recognize myself.

  • @jeremiahthomas2050
    @jeremiahthomas2050 Рік тому +16

    I'm a quiet person as well, and agree with some of what is said. The only thing I disagree with is I'm not a dangerous quiet person. With family or strangers.

    • @robertrodriguez787
      @robertrodriguez787 Рік тому +2

      Your missing what he is saying as a Quiet 🤐🤫 Guy I'm not Dangerous in Fact I'm very nice around my Family. But if pushed I can be as Dangerous as the Next Guy . The Advantage I have over others is I'm because I'm Quiet 🤫 when I do Snap you won't see 🙈 it Coming . Won a Lot of Fights that way because they Never saw 🪚 it coming . I mean it's Like Patrick Swayze said in Roadhouse the Loud Ones looking or a Fight ain't as Dangerous as the Quiet 🤐🤫 Ones Expecting a Fight .

    • @jeremiahthomas2050
      @jeremiahthomas2050 Рік тому

      You mean sucker punching?

    • @jodizellmer994
      @jodizellmer994 Рік тому

      ​@@robertrodriguez787 Very well said! As you pointed out, with quiet people when they've finally had enough and snap, you don't see it coming, that's why they're refered to as dangerous or scary.