I am not very good at articulating how i feel because talking about how I feel is so foreign to me, but I just wanted to say THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart for sharing all of your personal stories, your kind words, your love, support and words of encouragement. I will never be able to thank you enough for the amount of light that you are all shining on this dark cloud that has been over me the last while. I have been sobbing reading all of your comments and feel so grateful to have you all as part of my family. I wish I could personally thank and hug all of you.. I have no idea what i did to ever deserve the kindness that you are all showering on me but i will be forever and ever grateful. Sending so much love to every single one of you.
U are soooooook beautiful inside out ,enshallah u will have a baby trust me I know someone who had a baby after 15 years and it was a surprise to them , when the right time comes it will happen please stay positive everything happens for a reason and u r a beautiful woman ❤️
I was diagnosed with infertility. I felt just as you. Then over 5 years since husband and I started trying to conceive, I became pregnant. No fertility treatment. Life is full of surprises and miracles, have faith! When it happens you will be a great mother. ❤
@@Virgoloveee I didn't do anything different. My son was conceived during a rare moment that I was naturally fertile. It's been 2 years since he was born and I haven't become pregnant since.
🥺 ive been trying to conceive for 20 years, never achieved a pregnancy and still holding on to hope at the age of nearly 41. May God bless all those desperate for a baby 💞
My cousin been trying for over 10 years and to mark their 10th anniversary, they are currently expecting their first born 🥰🥰 i pray to Allah, every women who is TTC will be bless with a baby. Aamin Ya Rabb
I wish everyone has this realization. Too many people intrude one's private life and push their opinions/judge. Let's all be respectful of each other and just be sensitive of each other's feelings and the world will be a better place.
Same here. My extended family & in laws keep questioning when we will have kids & if I have a problem that I don't have kids yet. It hurts. So I definitely will join in
This is literally why I hate when people ask “why don’t you have a baby yet?”. It’s such a common question in my Slavic culture. You don’t know if the person has been trying to conceive and is failing or they just don’t want a kid right now/ever! Stop asking this damn question!! It’s none of your business. Stay strong Farah ❤️ take care of yourself and your mental health.
I totally agree I was asked that during a time I was in the middle of an ectopic pregnancy. People just don't consider these things. People should really stop asking that question like seriously. Farrah keep your head up my friend⚘
As a child my mother taught me that it was rude/impolite to ask someone when they were having kid's as you don't know whether that person has been trying to conceive with no success or has recently lost a child eg. Had a miscarriage. I'm always grateful my mum taught me this from a child age.
Watching this after your pregnancy announcement. You described just how I feel. Trying for over 3 years now & nothing. I’ve been so depressed lately over it. But seeing you finally getting your miracle makes my heart so happy. Congratulations beautiful, you’re going to be an amazing mother.
I have been trying for about 3 years and nothing.. My husband already has kids, so when he told me he wanted a baby I was the happiest, I have always wanted to be a mom, I helped raise my siblings, and now my stepchildren. I honestly want to adopt or something, but I understand the emptiness in you, feeling you can't do it. Hope it happens for you guys! ❤🥺
@@karianajamieson I just want to make my husband a daddy & the fact that I can’t right now just breaks my heart every single day 😞 I pray it happens for you too!
@@karianajamieson sister read surah maryam I swear this worked wonders for me I was reading religiously after every namaaz and when I had time to read or even listen subhanallah I have 4 now mashallah. Just remember to have tawakal and you will have it all xxx let me know how it goes xx
I'm a woman and I absolutely agree. A woman's worth as a human being has nothing to do with her fertility and capability to produce a child. But it's sad and heartbreaking that we live in a society where people feel it's okay to question a woman about her barren nest. That's very unfair and a personal question. A woman can be fertile and not want to reproduce. If she and her partner/husband have decided on not having kids then it's nobody's damn business to question them or the woman any further.
this comment is SO important! i was literally told that women who don’t have kids (even by choice) are “useless and incomplete” and it doesn’t matter how successful/happy/content they are……it makes me so upset to think that a lot of people think like that.
Em X yep Ive heard this too. Ive also been told a man who marries a woman who cant have kids has the right to leave her and remarry another woman. As if not being able to have a kid only falls on the woman’s shoulders...
My parents were trying to have a second kid for 11 years. Finally they got a heartbeat, but instead their were 2 heartbeats. I’m currently 14 years old with my twin sister 😌
@@tlazo But they simply react out of instinct though, an animal is not going to say or do mean things just because they can and are safe behind their screens, if you get what I'm saying
@@highlyfavoredMG I shouldn't even dignify this with a response, but I have time, so.. Does it say I hate humans or am I not grateful for most of them, no. But will I prefer animals who react out of instinct over humans who can be so mean without even a reason why and say mean things on the internet they probably wouldn't dare to say standing in front of you and do messed up things to eachother, yes I will
@@SorayaUnlimited animals don’t react over instinct if it’s an emotional situation. They are fully capable of processing emotions and comforting each other in times of needs. This is the reason why I’m vegetarian going to be vegan because I know how intelligent and caring animals can be for eachother🌱
Dearest Farah, watching this felt all too familiar. My husband and I tried for 6 years. We too went through that same struggle. In Asian families it can be so hard. So many people spoke about us, people got pregnant and wouldn't tell us because they would think we were jinxed. Please do not give up, I know Sal and you will be blessed with your own children. After 6 years of trying we were referred for IVF. I finally let go and stopped being hard on myself, I relaxed and thought to myself if it happens, it happens. Then a month before IVF I suddenly got pregnant I couldn't believe it. I am now the happy Mama of 3 beautiful children. So do not give up hope. I will pray for you I know God is capable. Sending you lots of love xxx
I have a similar story. My husband and I tried for 5 years. We were ready for treatment. I waitet for my period to start injections, but the period didn't come, I was pregnant. I couldn't believe it either. Now I have my child in my arms. And so will you. Don't give up hope, there are sooo many people who struggle with fertility. That's when I learned that I will never ask someone again, when they will have kids oder if they even want to,because those questions hurt so much. People,who have no problems with fertility, they don't understand,how hard it is. So don't give up, you will get pregnant.
This line is everything - “ I finally let go and stopped being hard on myself, I relaxed and thought to myself if it happens, it happens” Let go and trust God that it will happen when He wills it ❤️
I am so over women judging women over every single little thing. “She’s too fat, too skinny, too pale, too dark, too tall, too short” and the “are you gonna keep having babies?” to the “why aren’t you having babies?” SO OVER IT! You get nothing out of ripping every other woman apart. It just shows how much ugliness you have inside. And to Farah and every other women out there dealing with this type of issue: my heart goes out to all of you. Life doesn’t always work the way we want it to and it sometimes seems unfair. I personally, am the type that has to be in control of everything but I have been forced many times to just let go. And those times where I have pushed and pushed and have no strength left is when I realize that I must let go and let God and the universe do its will. And not only letting go physically(of control) but also mentally and emotionally. Allowing myself to be open and accepting of whatever it is that God has for me...even if it’s not what I had planned or envisioned. Happiness sometimes ends up being not what we thought it’d look like. Farah, feel out every emotion. Don’t pay mind to other people’s opinions. Do whatever you can and what’s in your reach to achieve your goal but do it with a healthy mind, heart and soul. I hope you heal soon and wish you happiness.
My mother gave me the best advice ever when me and my husband were trying to get pregnant. She said “Mija, you need to stop stressing over it. You need to relax. The reason you are having difficulty is because your body is reacting to your stress level.” Once I stopped stressing, I was able to conceive. So, I say to you beautiful Farahdhukai, stop stressing and feeding into these stupid people and their comments. Find your zen space and let go of the negativity. You will find peace and the babies will come💕💕. Que Dios le bendiga!!!!!💕💕💕💕💕
Did you even watch this video? Do you have any idea how many people have heard that line and failed to get pregnant? Phrases like that are literally pouring salt in an open wound.
I can understand that you’re coming from a good place by saying this but the reality is that “not stressing” is not going to magically make someone who doesn’t ovulate, ovulate; or someone who doesn’t produce mature sperm, produce mature sperm. Sometimes there are actual physiological issues that can only be corrected through medical intervention. I’ve tried “not stressing” for over 8 years and here I am having to go through IUI’s with donor sperm because my husband does not produce sperm. Please refrain from telling someone going through infertility that they need to stop stressing.
My parents tried to have a child for more then 5 years and when they succeeded my mum had a miscarriage but two years later she found out that she is pregnant with me and well here I'm 19 years old writing this don't loose hope and even if you can't have kids of your own thin about adopting one
I’m so sorry to hear this, sometime after contraception it can take long to have your fertility back, also I have been advised that keeping ur feet up with ur back on a pillow for 15 mint right after intercourses helps ( and it does really help )
Just want to state something we as women forget; it’s not always our “fault” people never look to the man as the issue so be kind to yourselves ladies.
I agree, but what does it matter? Who cares who is "at fault" ?? No one chooses to be infertile... placing blame on anyone for not being able to concieve when they want to is horrible.
Starlight Glow Bc women internalize and it’s not always our bodies but that’s where doctors start. At least they did with me. All the test all the appointments and finally they looked at my husband’s health and found the issue lied within him. I had torn myself apart thinking it was something I did or I waited to long.
@@rosebud4467 I don't think KNO was placing blame on either of them for not being able to conceive, nor pointing fingers on whose fault it is. Woman's worst critics are other woman or themselves, it can drive a woman to fall into a deep depression, she clearly blames herself, she is sad, empty and feels broken, she has been going through this for 3 years and she has obviously been going through this alone (she feels alone, her words). She's going through a lot and social media obviously hasn't helped her situation. But I agree with KNO its not always the women's reproductive organs that are at fault, sometimes the issue lies on the man, but yes even if it were the woman's body that wasn't able to conceive that doesn't make it "her" fault, she hasn't done anything purposely (that we know) that has prevented them from being able to conceive. We do not know her situation/story 100%, but it sounds like they should both get tested so they can get to the bottom of the problem, and maybe some marriage counseling wouldn't hurt, she is in too much pain and doesn't sound like she is happily married either.
My parents tried for 10 years. They had 3 miscarriages and were told they would never be able to conceive. They prayed so hard and then I was born! And after 2 years my sister as well. Never lose your hope💕
This is tough to watch so I can’t even imagine what it’s like to be going through it. Praying and hoping so hard for you that your hearts desire will come to pass. 🙏🏾
2:40 “every month.. for 3 years you hope something is going to happen...” and staying positive... I think someone is cutting onions near me.. I felt it. I really felt it. 😭
The number of people watching this is insane. I would like to make a suggestion to all; why don’t we ALL make a sincere prayer from the HEART for this beautiful soul. Surely the prayer of at least 1 of the MILLIONS that will be viewing this will be heard. Do not underestimate the power of prayer. So much love for you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Awww take me long time to get pregnant by my 2 daughter you need change your diet you need drink a lot tea that make you calm high cortisol make us difficult de be pregnant I have to cut sugar and flour basically be come vegetarian and only eat fish and eggs not milk not cheese I used drink apple cider vinegar then 3 months after I got pregnant same thing happen when I have my son not caffeine also
Mama you’re so gorgeousssss this ones who send you a mean comments is a hater don’t let this get to your heart for 3 that hates you is 1000 who loves you and admire you 🥰
Love that you had the courage to speak about this, let alone publicly. You are love, strength, and inspiration. I hope people have understood that kindness carries us forward and kept the comments positive. Thank you for sharing.
shin m keep your negative comments to yourself. What ever decision she chooses to make is her choice what is the need for you to say such negative things
@@safahqureshi7862 I'm just stating the facts. Have u ever heard of What people think and say about u is none of ur business. If she chooses to make her money off social media so she she should b ready to face social criticisms as well as popularity.
My mom tried to get pregnant for 12 years and the doctors told her she wouldn’t be a mom. When she gave up from trying to get pregnant... I showed up in her life ❤️ I know that great things are about to happen in your life. Sending you a hug from Portugal 😘
Exactly.. same thing happened to my mom.. she has endometriosis.. after 11 years she finally got pregnant and here I am. I think you should let everything happen at the time that it's supposed to happen.. let lose a little.. let it be.. and the least expected moment you'll get pregnant.. not everything has to be mecanic and planned.. unexpected things are just the bestest..
Ive been with my partner for 9 years and i got pregnant in 5 years all these thoughts went through my head until one day i was like okay god whenever you're ready to make me a mom ill be waiting . Now i have 2 blessings .
You just made me cry for something I haven't experienced. I am single and I could feel the pain in your voice. You are just perfect. Sometimes things don't go well in lifs. I am 24 now but when I was 14, I lost my eyesight completely when I woke up the next morning. I was perfectly alright before that and I am blind with my right wye eversince and it hurts so muxh to see people being able to see clearly but you don't have to be sad because Allah will reward you soon. Don't be sad, love you. ❤
They just want attention, and always why people are being so f***** mean all of us are still human , some with fame and some not some with money and some not life is that no one is perfect no one
I definitely agree with what you're saying people hide behind their screens and say terrible things about people that know. But I definitely appreciate the comments you're awesome I wish there were more people like you in the world. Take care and God-bless good bye.
Hi Farah, I lost 6, 4 misscarriages I buried 2 one fullterm. I can truly relate... Giving birth to my daughter knowing she wasnt alive was so hard 4 days of labour she was stillborn but still born, holding my baby girl in my arms with no cry just silent that silence that I knew I could not take her home broke me. Many days I sat in the mortuary holding her asking why... So many questions and emotions ran through my mind throughout the years of trying and losing I too was so so broken BUT finally in 2017 I gave birth to my miracle son at 6 months weighing 1IB.4 the size of my hand he was on life support and in hospital for so long but he made it .... now he is my proof to say to you it will happen beautiful maybe not in the timing we want but please will you never lose vision and hope you too will get your blessing. God is able and amazing x
This’s heartbreaking! You’ll have children inShaAllah it can happen anytime, don’t let the comment gets to you and your man should not be saying that I can’t wait stuff, it’s not good when men saying I want a son or can’t wait for a child cuz it makes women feel guilty and it’s not about that it’s about the love and determination that person has for you. You’re young it’ll happen I knew people whom waited longer then have children. Sending you love ❤️❤️🙏🏿
My love, I’m so, so sorry you’ve been going through this for 3 years in silence. I’m sorry you’ve been feeling alone. We are all here for you. It’s okay to cry ♥️ Take your time with healing, there’s no deadline. We love you beautiful. I’ll be making a lot of dua for you and your husband. Sending lots of love your way ♥️
I had a friend that thought she couldn't get pregnant. After 10 years, she and her husband thought they couldn't get pregnant. Then......out of no where, she had a beautiful baby girl.
@@IamJustMe1234 We have a different perspectives and I didn't get that from her video that these were the type of comments that hurt her. If she posts and confirms that then I'll be sure to take it down but not because of someone else's erroneous interpretation. Thanks for your concern though.
Same here, praying for children and the uncertainty is weighing heavy on ones heart especially when all your friends and loved ones are getting married and having babies
If there will be a God this nice young woman here would already have a child.. If God would bless someone with a kid. Than people like her would have a kid and not people who are abusing their kids or something
Don't know where to post this but I have to say it.... When Farah said Desi families don't talk about feelings.. "you have anxiety? Just drink some milk and pray." BRUH, I laughed SO hard. My Dad was Punjabi and that was his answer for everything. Milk. Just milk. Headache? "Did you drink milk today?" Feel tired? "Drink milk, you need energy." After an argument where I cried, "Okay bacha, go, go, wash your face and I'll warm up some milk, okay? Chulo, go." Farah, I love you dude. It's so good to see some representation on UA-cam
Look at God farah, his timing is always perfect. I’m guessing within a month or 2 after this video you found out that he accepted our prayers. Continue to say alhamdulilah ❤️
Don’t stop trying! My sister tried for 9 years and finally had a beautiful baby boy after about a year of fertility treatments. You’re such a beautiful person Farah, you deserve a beautiful family and I know you and your husband will have an amazing family. Don’t give up, and please I know it’s hard to stop thinking of yourself as less of a woman because you’re having trouble conceiving but know that is not true! You’re amazing and I will pray for you and your family.
She is and not because she's now with child. She was and is loved, worthy and adequate even when she was struggling with fertility. 😊. No one's worth or value is in how fertile they are but simply because they are created in the image of God.
It took my husband and me 8 years, and when he finally join the army so I can have a treatment I got pregnant with a girl before he left for training we will pray for you, you stay strong, we now have another 2 years old boy 💗💗💗💗
Don’t loose hope, Allah is Al-wahab which means he is the giver of everything! So keep on asking and stay hopeful, he won’t let you down! Nothing is impossible. Sending you lots of love!❤️
At the age of 20, I had my first of many ovarian surgeries. I was told I was infertile. I have PCOS and endometriosis. Last year, I met my person. I had given up that dream of motherhood... I’m 36 and raised my niece who is now almost 17. Without trying, being on birth control and taking option B, I got pregnant. Imagine my shock. Imagine my doctors shock. I’m due 11/09. The last thing one should ever lose is hope.
I was in the same position thinking I couldn’t until I gave up and I’m now 6 1/2 months pregnant - watching your story makes me so emotional with these hormones 😭 // I’m so happy for you these tears you’re crying now better be tears of joy girl embrace it you will be an amazing mother !!!
@@daliamejia7532 There's a difference. Our own personal information are always bound to be out to either friends or relatives, so point is to either be an influencer or person close to us, let us not be so meddling in their private affairs
My cousin tried to have kids for 8 years. She desired a child so hard that I saw her with my own eyes crying to God for a baby. She has two babies now, a boy and a girl. Don’t give up, keep trying!
@@elcuhhh2140 it's a child, not a puppy. Idk i feel like pregnancy and child birth and starting a biological family is different. *i was adopted. First of 4 in a combined family of 7. So i get that, too.
Dont know if this is insensitive but I dont understand why women get so overly emotional about this. Theres always adoption or IVF. But Im not really fussed about having kids so I guess I cant relate. Also kids ruin relationships and people’s lives. I know a lot of miserable people with kids.
@@ye23. hey I'm 23 and can't have kids. I found out at 20. It sucks. I don't even know if I wanted kids but its knowing I can't do what my body is built to do hurts. I don't think about it now because I don't want to end up like this girl crying in the video. But it hurts knowing pregnancy is either impossible or life threatening. Its a natural biological feeling women get. And yes IVF and adoption but its not the same. Some women want a bio child and not being able to HURTS!
@@ye23. I never wanted kids until 3 years ago when I was diagnosed with fibroids. I have had 2 surgeries. Now breaking up with someone I love because he already has 2 kids and I want one. Feelings change.... there's no control over emotions. I can't talk to anyone about it because my family and friends are practical people....my mum has already mentioned adoption.....it's not that easy. Adopted kids in the eyes of the government are not 💯 your kids....I am only coping because had experienced bad depression years before and learned from that and know travel helps...being stuck indoors is not letting me cope. Right now need to get away. I spend time talking about going to the beach. I might change my mind but now that I am single feel less pressure.
You are beautiful and ty for making this video ppl need to hear that they are not the only ones going through such mental distress. You are now expecting and blessed.
It’s so humbling reading this video. You never know what other people don’t have or what people really struggle with. God bless you and your pregnancy journey! It’s not over yet, don’t lose hope ❤️
I've never been able to have children and I'm 46....its been the hardest thing ever to go through because as women we were designed and engineered to reproduce. I feel like a failure and that I'm broken. I know your pain Farah. Dont be too hard on yourself. I'm here if you want to talk ever
YOU ARE SO BRAVE for posting this, & I applaud you for speaking out! We had 60 negative tests, 5 years of trying before we got our miracle positive test! Please don't give up hope!
I’m grateful for you making this video. I needed this, you are not alone and congrats on the wonderful new blessing you guys are about to embark on.💓✨ & all negative things, BYE FELICIA. We don’t need that energy.
This video made me cry, I felt your hurt so much, even tho I haven’t been trying for 3 years, I have been trying for over a year and half now and nothing, I feel the same way so unable. But I wish you so many blessings, I pray you can one day have a baby🥺❤️
Its deplorable... and its jealousy I'm afraid. She is so pure and beautiful and those insecure in themselves feel the need to tear her down. Its upset me so much watching this. My daughter is 12 and does you tube videos.. but we had to remove her channel because people were bullying her because shes beautiful and talented. It devastated her because she had 200,000 followers almost. If full grown adults attack a child online who is merely singing then nothing surprises me
People depict on the outside what’s going on inside if themselves. If anything it’s just a damn shame on those monsters. Farah is so real and down to earth, and some people are just so full of ugliness 😞
could be the ppl who posted those mean comment. But could be ppl who are showing that this is not acceptable from other ppl to interfere in her life (like you know the sad button in fb) am i making sense ?
Hey hun, it took me well over 2 years of trying to get pregnant. I got referred to a great doctor at mount Sinai's fertility clinic. It took a year but we were lucky to finally get pregnant. I think your in Toronto too, so maybe you could check them out. Your not alone hun and I hope with all my heart you have all the babies you want. You deserve everything you wish for big hugs.
Thank you for sharing your heart with us. This must have been really hard to make. I hope that a burden has been lifted off of you and that the outpour of love and support gives you some comfort. You are not alone. You are so brave and admired! ❤️
I applaud you for posting this👏🏾. This is you releasing everything you’ve been walking with and carrying on your back and in your heart for the past few years. With every release comes a good thing. Don’t lose hope. I’m no expert but I am a firm believer in the less you think about it the quicker it shall come. So instead of saying we’re trying it let’s try just let the love making happen naturally on its own. Stay strong 💪🏾
I’m so sorry to hear this, sometime after contraception it can take long to have your fertility back, also I have been advised that keeping ur feet up with ur back on a pillow for 15 mint right after intercourses helps ( and it does really help )
Hi, Farah we going through tough times in life. But I pray that you able to your goal come true,and pray the the peace of God cover you like a blanket and start feeling hopeful and your faith arise like never before. God Bless You 🙏🙏❤️❤️
This just broke my heart! I can relate and it made me cry. Every single word you said I feel like I've said it. I wish you all the best and will keep you in my prayers. Just don't lose hope. I know it's hard because of everything you've been through but don't lose faith. 🙏
My husband and I wanted children so bad. It ate me up inside. We tried since I was 20. I'm now I'm 33. We still do not have children. When I tell you, I know it hurts, I mean it. As a woman, you feel " We are supposed to be able to have children". I felt useless. I had to MAKE myself, move on. It was destroying me and started to affect the way I was treating my husband. I just said to myself " Nicole, if it happens it happens". And unfortunately it never did. I promise you it will get better. You are not alone. I'm sending you lots of love & good vibes to you & your husband. We would have adopted, but it was thousands. If you are in a position to adopt, think about it. There is a child out there, who would love you forever. I hope you read this. I just wanted to share my genuine feelings. If you wanted to message me, for support, I'm here. Please take care. Lots of love Nicole ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Girl this touched me too. 😢 I can’t even imagine what you are all going through. I pray and hope that you all are blessed with a family be that your own children or living and taking care of another child who is in need of a family 💕
It breaks my heart to see someone wanting to hav a child and care for him so badly... When people like myka stauffer just gave away her baby boy.. I hope u feel better soon...sometimes God has better plans for all of us. ♥️♥️
It’s so hard to talk about infertility. My only dream in life was to be a mom and wife but after 6 yrs of trying we have not gotten pregnant. It’s a very lonely, very heartbreaking place to be. So thank u for sharing your story, u are not alone! ❤️
Same...i married for 4 years now..my husb had two kids and married before we both meet..after he divorced we both had relationship..we trying so hard to get pregnent..but my husb so undersanding..he never said anything..he just said..if we can get babies its blessing if not maybe god had plan for us to dating longer..sometimes when my friends pregnent..i broke down..he said im so stupid..because care about that..its make me more broken.because he was so nice and im not deserve him..he said if one day we still didnt get own babies..maybe he gonna adopt one girl..maybe..but not now
JayMMXII You aren’t alone either! My husband and I tried for 7 years to get a baby and we finally got one when my son turned 11. Keep going! Don’t ever give up! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
The fact that she had to write in the description box “pls be kind” fully broke me🥺we love you Farah and I pray Allah gives you strength and happiness. Ameen ❤️ you’re in my prayers.🤲🏻
Bless you and everyone who’s going thru the same situation ! I can’t even imagine being it this situation ! Sending a lot of love ! I read once, “we are able to be strong as we need to, even tho we don’t feel like we are! “ good things will come maybe it’s not the time yet :) but I’ll all come to us even in ways we didn’t expected it!. I’m not married yet but i hope I’m blessed to have a companion as you have!
I feel your pain my sweet sister, i have been trying to get pregnant for almost 20 years now. May Allah answer our dua❤ May Allah give us a healthy baby soon Ameen❤
Thank you for sharing your feelings with your community, you are so strong! ❤️ My parents tried for almost 6 years, having different treatments, IVF, miscarriages etc. Then I came along naturally and healthy, so don't ever loose hope, I'm sure your dream will come true! 💕
This is why you do not EVER comment on a woman’s appearance or make assumptions about whether she is pregnant or not. Other people’s lives are nobody else’s business and are absolutely not there to be analysed and scrutinised. We don’t know what others are going through behind the scenes and I find it sickening how people think they can say things like this. Keeping you in my prayers ❤️
@@jayekaye6641 You're so funny. You literally have a public playlist of naked 'millennials' on your channel named 'horn'. You're a joke. Stop hating and go watch your soft porn.
Sweet girl, can I just tell you that this video touched my heart soooo deeply. In 2016 my husband and I got pregnant with our first child. Our dreams had come true, and just as soon as we started celebrating, I lost the baby. At 7 weeks. I was more heartbroken than I had ever been. My husband reassured me that when my body was healed we would start trying again. Well, we tried for 3 years. 3 years. With the 3rd anniversary of our miscarriage coming up I was feeling SO incredibly sad. Every month we got negative tests and I felt so alone. All my friends were having kids. Even friends who didnt want kids were getting pregnant. It was so incredibly hard. My husband and I kept trying. You and Sal NEED to stay strong. Stay positive. Talk to your body and tell it that you love it and that you cant wait for it to be a home for your sweet little baby that you WILL have. 3 years after trying and trying and trying my husband and I were finally successful! It was a miracle. When I look back on our miscarriage I just know that things weren't right for us then. STAY. POSITIVE. BABE. It will happen. Relax and when you least expect it a miracle will evolve. I love you, Farah! I always have. I'm a big fan and I will pray and send all the baby dust to you and your husband. ❤❤❤❤❤🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸
Hey just curious, did you do anything to ensure you had a successful pregnancy? Been trying with no luck after 2 miscarriages, so all ears if you have any tips to ensure a successful pregnancy..sending good vibes to everyone trying for a baby xxx
@@candylover1991 I prayed. And prayed. I also ate very healthy and tried to stay active without over exerting myself. I'm so sorry you had had to go through two miscarriages. Even though I have my baby now, that worry just never goes away. Right up until i was 38 weeks pregnant and delivered, i worried. I remained positive, though. Our bodies are amazing and when it's right you will have your sweet little miracle. Goodluck and baby dust ❤🌸❤🌸❤
My prayers are lifted to God to bless you and hubby to conceive. Don't give up trying. My husband and I tried to get pregnant and after 4 years we gave birth to a beautiful daughter. We tried for 6 more years for a second child. God blessed us with only one because he passed away from Sickle Cell Anemia. I was crushed, but everything was/is in God's hands. A friend of mine was so depressed because her and hubby weren't able to get pregnant. We prayed, cried, and prayed again. They adopted a beautiful little girl and are amazing parents. After 12 years, not trying to get pregnant, just enjoying each other she became pregnant. They gave birth to a beautiful healthy baby boy. God knows your prayers, desires, and pain. Don't give up sweetie! I will continue to lift you in prayer. Hugs, love, and prayers🙏🏽❤️💐
I know exactly how you feel and know what you’re going through. It makes it even harder when every one you know is pregnant and having kids and it still hasn’t happened for you and your spouse. It gets hard but we’ll be blessed one day with a child. Don’t give up and don’t let it make you sad because you will be a great mom it’s just taking a little bit longer.
Im 40 and Ive been trying for 3 year. I went through IVF 2 cycles, 2 miscarriages. I needed to take a break to gather my strength back. Thank you for being strong and speaking your truth. Your strength will return.
Hi everyone it's the holy month of ramadan right now and I urge you who are fasting/muslim please make dua for Farah and all couples who are struggling with infertility in the world. So many couples are dealing with this at the moment so please make prayers❤🙏🤲
I just been crying for the exact same reason. And hearing u speak about it made me feel just a little better, knowing I m not the only one going through this. Hope u get through this sis x
Im so sorry you've been going through so much. And to those who have been so rude and ugly towards you, are immature and don't understand the consequences it puts on the people they direct mean comments towards. You will grow and just remember, it doesn't necessarily mean you aren't a mum if the child isn't of you and your husband's blood. Being a mum means loving and nurturing a little one who needs that sort of support and connection from someone. You're so strong and I admire you so much for going through all of this. You are beautiful and so amazing. Keep on waking up each day and stay positive! You will get through this
"When you grow up in a desi household, your feelings aren't really at the forefront of conversation" The hard truth right here. Talking about these things openly is how things will change. Thank you for your courage Farah.
Farah I tried for more than 10 years to have a child and I had 3 miscarriages. And last year the beginning of the year I fasted and prayed to God that if children is not in his plans for me to at least help my be the best aunt I could be. 4 weeks later I found out I was pregnant. I was so scared I was gonna miscarry again. But in Oct of 2019 I gave birth to a beautiful boy. Farah enjoy your marriage, your travels, your family because one day you will be a mom. My dream was always to be a mom too. So I know how you are feeling. And I am overweight I always have been. And i looked like i had 4 kids when i had none. And I was bullied on social media by women all the time. But in looked to God and started focusing on what I do have. YOU ARE GOING TO BE A GREAT MOM!!!
Kaysha Rivera i just have tears in my eyes of reading your story. God bless you and your beautiful child 💕 there is always hope and i pray for God to give Farah also a beautiful family❤️
Asking somone about pregnancy is a Personal Question, that SHOULD NOT be asked about or commented on. Let that person bring it up. We need to be more respectful and loving people.
I agree! It’s so sad that in our culture it’s apparently appropriate to comment on childless marriages or gaining weight, not being married etc so many things I disagree with. I hope all of these comments give her strength.
@@mrsjpunt3924 I totally agree. Every time someone sees me they always say "oh you've gained weight, not taking care of your health, etc". Mind you, I'm not overweight. I'm small (5 feet flat) so weight fluctuations are more apparent. I get offended every time but somehow manage to reply civilly (though at night I toss and turn wishing I could tell people off for eyeing my weight when in fact they've been overweight for years and I don't do what they do because it makes people feel bad).
It's really hard when they ask you are you pregnant? When are you going to have a baby? They don't think that maybe you have been trying and you just can't. It's the family, friends, and just anyone who you are talking to😣 Just because we are married we had to have a kid and when I gained weight they began saying that maybe I'm pregnant and didn't want to say it
I am not very good at articulating how i feel because talking about how I feel is so foreign to me, but I just wanted to say THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart for sharing all of your personal stories, your kind words, your love, support and words of encouragement. I will never be able to thank you enough for the amount of light that you are all shining on this dark cloud that has been over me the last while. I have been sobbing reading all of your comments and feel so grateful to have you all as part of my family. I wish I could personally thank and hug all of you.. I have no idea what i did to ever deserve the kindness that you are all showering on me but i will be forever and ever grateful. Sending so much love to every single one of you.
Everything will be okay❤️ you are not alone
My duas are with you
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Just know we love you right back 💘💘 and it will happen at God's given time...
U are soooooook beautiful inside out ,enshallah u will have a baby trust me I know someone who had a baby after 15 years and it was a surprise to them , when the right time comes it will happen please stay positive everything happens for a reason and u r a beautiful woman ❤️
Who came to this video after watching farah pregnancy announcement miracles do happens just believe in them ❤️💓💓💓🤗🤗🤗⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
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Me ... My question is ... did she know she was pregnant in this video 🤔 Congrats Farah & Sal ❤️
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@@shewygirl I don’t think so...
So happy for u may x
Who is here after finding out Farah is now pregnant 🤰🏻 😍♥️
Me
Meeeeee🤩💃💃
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I was diagnosed with infertility. I felt just as you. Then over 5 years since husband and I started trying to conceive, I became pregnant. No fertility treatment. Life is full of surprises and miracles, have faith! When it happens you will be a great mother. ❤
Did you do anything different? Congrats 🥰😍
@@Virgoloveee possibly
@@Virgoloveee I didn't do anything different. My son was conceived during a rare moment that I was naturally fertile. It's been 2 years since he was born and I haven't become pregnant since.
@@Virgoloveee And thank you! ❤
And now... farah IS pregnant!!!! What a miracle ❤️❤️
My uncle and aunt have been trying for 14 years and now they expecting with their first child. Keep faith.
Allhumdullilah ❤️ Allah is great ❤️
Really? 👀
Alhumdolilah ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Never forget this: you're never less of a woman just because you can't have children.
Ahh agree😍😍
So true! Unfortunately, lots of cultures regard you as less of a woman if you are infertile.
@@Indiasplace I'm not sure whether to leave my infertile wife or not
This is true however sometimes other people communicate in various ways that you aren't a woman unless you have kid's.
🥺 ive been trying to conceive for 20 years, never achieved a pregnancy and still holding on to hope at the age of nearly 41.
May God bless all those desperate for a baby 💞
Halima Hussain Andoussi 💕
Ameen. May Allah bless you sis.
Insha Allah ❤️
Plz try hijama on your stomach inshallah that will work
Praying you are blessed with a child soon!!
“He gives the childless woman a family, making her a happy mother. Praise the Lord!”
Psalms 113:9
Amen
She’s Muslim
@@xoxohayaati doesn't matter! we can still pray for eachother.
@@rosali2554 this is the good side of humanity 😄
Amen!
My cousin been trying for over 10 years and to mark their 10th anniversary, they are currently expecting their first born 🥰🥰 i pray to Allah, every women who is TTC will be bless with a baby. Aamin Ya Rabb
Ameen
Amin 💗
How old are they, if you don't mind me asking? I've been trying for a while. And I feel like at 40 now it may be too late 😥
@@wonderfulbeautiful9389 my cousin is approaching 40. ☺️ She is 38 this year.
I came back to say, this is the exact reason why I don’t ask why people don’t have children. You never know a person’s struggle.
Same
True.
respect you girl !
Very true
I wish everyone has this realization. Too many people intrude one's private life and push their opinions/judge. Let's all be respectful of each other and just be sensitive of each other's feelings and the world will be a better place.
I seriously want to fight those of you who feel like it's ok to bully her. She's the sweetest woman on UA-cam!
ill help on that fight.people need to mind their business
Same here. My extended family & in laws keep questioning when we will have kids & if I have a problem that I don't have kids yet. It hurts. So I definitely will join in
I’ll join you I hate when people try to involve in celebrities personal life!
I'll join you. I'm preparing to give a beat-down!
Agree!!
This is literally why I hate when people ask “why don’t you have a baby yet?”. It’s such a common question in my Slavic culture. You don’t know if the person has been trying to conceive and is failing or they just don’t want a kid right now/ever! Stop asking this damn question!! It’s none of your business.
Stay strong Farah ❤️ take care of yourself and your mental health.
I was asked that by a nurse last week......
Alex Miller that’s unacceptable especially being in healthcare, the nurse should know better. People need to learn to mind their business.
@@ellanest Yeah she didn't just ask either, she hounded as to whyyyyyyy on earth I didn't have children and wouldn't want any.
I totally agree I was asked that during a time I was in the middle of an ectopic pregnancy. People just don't consider these things. People should really stop asking that question like seriously. Farrah keep your head up my friend⚘
As a child my mother taught me that it was rude/impolite to ask someone when they were having kid's as you don't know whether that person has been trying to conceive with no success or has recently lost a child eg. Had a miscarriage. I'm always grateful my mum taught me this from a child age.
Watching this after your pregnancy announcement. You described just how I feel. Trying for over 3 years now & nothing. I’ve been so depressed lately over it. But seeing you finally getting your miracle makes my heart so happy. Congratulations beautiful, you’re going to be an amazing mother.
I’m gong on a yr of trying and I feel so depressed. I can’t imagine 3+ yrs. I hope and pray all women TTC get their miracle
Sister read surah maryam subhanallah it worked for me
I have been trying for about 3 years and nothing.. My husband already has kids, so when he told me he wanted a baby I was the happiest, I have always wanted to be a mom, I helped raise my siblings, and now my stepchildren. I honestly want to adopt or something, but I understand the emptiness in you, feeling you can't do it.
Hope it happens for you guys! ❤🥺
@@karianajamieson I just want to make my husband a daddy & the fact that I can’t right now just breaks my heart every single day 😞 I pray it happens for you too!
@@karianajamieson sister read surah maryam I swear this worked wonders for me I was reading religiously after every namaaz and when I had time to read or even listen subhanallah I have 4 now mashallah. Just remember to have tawakal and you will have it all xxx let me know how it goes xx
Your worth does not lie in your ability to have biological children
🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤❤🙌🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤❤🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤❤If there is one comment you read Farah, let this be the one!
I'm a woman and I absolutely agree. A woman's worth as a human being has nothing to do with her fertility and capability to produce a child. But it's sad and heartbreaking that we live in a society where people feel it's okay to question a woman about her barren nest. That's very unfair and a personal question. A woman can be fertile and not want to reproduce. If she and her partner/husband have decided on not having kids then it's nobody's damn business to question them or the woman any further.
this comment is SO important! i was literally told that women who don’t have kids (even by choice) are “useless and incomplete” and it doesn’t matter how successful/happy/content they are……it makes me so upset to think that a lot of people think like that.
Em X yep Ive heard this too. Ive also been told a man who marries a woman who cant have kids has the right to leave her and remarry another woman. As if not being able to have a kid only falls on the woman’s shoulders...
As someone who is adopted and who cannot have biological children, reading this comment means a lot for so many different reasons.
My parents were trying to have a second kid for 11 years. Finally they got a heartbeat, but instead their were 2 heartbeats. I’m currently 14 years old with my twin sister 😌
Gay
zoey sanchez you dad shoulda been gay
Will Smiff I hope your infertile
@Will Smiff looooooooooooooooooooool
@Will Smiff I mean like what ....you are no one to give a certificate
This is why I like animals over humans, people can be so cruel..
Animals can ve cruel as well
Than I hope an animal will take care of you if you ever get sick.Or be your doctor nurses etc...
@@tlazo But they simply react out of instinct though, an animal is not going to say or do mean things just because they can and are safe behind their screens, if you get what I'm saying
@@highlyfavoredMG I shouldn't even dignify this with a response, but I have time, so.. Does it say I hate humans or am I not grateful for most of them, no. But will I prefer animals who react out of instinct over humans who can be so mean without even a reason why and say mean things on the internet they probably wouldn't dare to say standing in front of you and do messed up things to eachother, yes I will
@@SorayaUnlimited animals don’t react over instinct if it’s an emotional situation. They are fully capable of processing emotions and comforting each other in times of needs. This is the reason why I’m vegetarian going to be vegan because I know how intelligent and caring animals can be for eachother🌱
Dearest Farah, watching this felt all too familiar. My husband and I tried for 6 years. We too went through that same struggle. In Asian families it can be so hard. So many people spoke about us, people got pregnant and wouldn't tell us because they would think we were jinxed. Please do not give up, I know Sal and you will be blessed with your own children. After 6 years of trying we were referred for IVF. I finally let go and stopped being hard on myself, I relaxed and thought to myself if it happens, it happens. Then a month before IVF I suddenly got pregnant I couldn't believe it. I am now the happy Mama of 3 beautiful children. So do not give up hope. I will pray for you I know God is capable. Sending you lots of love xxx
I have a similar story. My husband and I tried for 5 years. We were ready for treatment. I waitet for my period to start injections, but the period didn't come, I was pregnant. I couldn't believe it either. Now I have my child in my arms. And so will you. Don't give up hope, there are sooo many people who struggle with fertility. That's when I learned that I will never ask someone again, when they will have kids oder if they even want to,because those questions hurt so much. People,who have no problems with fertility, they don't understand,how hard it is.
So don't give up, you will get pregnant.
This line is everything - “ I finally let go and stopped being hard on myself, I relaxed and thought to myself if it happens, it happens”
Let go and trust God that it will happen when He wills it ❤️
@@emank8137 Amen
are they twins?
NEVER.EVER. Tell a woman she’s less or tell a couple “so when are y’all having a baby”
I am so over women judging women over every single little thing. “She’s too fat, too skinny, too pale, too dark, too tall, too short” and the “are you gonna keep having babies?” to the “why aren’t you having babies?” SO OVER IT! You get nothing out of ripping every other woman apart. It just shows how much ugliness you have inside.
And to Farah and every other women out there dealing with this type of issue: my heart goes out to all of you.
Life doesn’t always work the way we want it to and it sometimes seems unfair.
I personally, am the type that has to be in control of everything but I have been forced many times to just let go. And those times where I have pushed and pushed and have no strength left is when I realize that I must let go and let God and the universe do its will.
And not only letting go physically(of control) but also mentally and emotionally. Allowing myself to be open and accepting of whatever it is that God has for me...even if it’s not what I had planned or envisioned. Happiness sometimes ends up being not what we thought it’d look like.
Farah, feel out every emotion. Don’t pay mind to other people’s opinions. Do whatever you can and what’s in your reach to achieve your goal but do it with a healthy mind, heart and soul.
I hope you heal soon and wish you happiness.
Wow thank you, we need more people like in our lives
dzcr people are rude
Often I suspect it's not women, but men making nasty comments.
My mother gave me the best advice ever when me and my husband were trying to get pregnant. She said “Mija, you need to stop stressing over it. You need to relax. The reason you are having difficulty is because your body is reacting to your stress level.” Once I stopped stressing, I was able to conceive. So, I say to you beautiful Farahdhukai, stop stressing and feeding into these stupid people and their comments. Find your zen space and let go of the negativity. You will find peace and the babies will come💕💕. Que Dios le bendiga!!!!!💕💕💕💕💕
Same happened to me
Amen 🙏🏽
Did you even watch this video?
Do you have any idea how many people have heard that line and failed to get pregnant?
Phrases like that are literally pouring salt in an open wound.
@@rosebud4467 do you have a better suggestion? If so let us know!
I can understand that you’re coming from a good place by saying this but the reality is that “not stressing” is not going to magically make someone who doesn’t ovulate, ovulate; or someone who doesn’t produce mature sperm, produce mature sperm. Sometimes there are actual physiological issues that can only be corrected through medical intervention. I’ve tried “not stressing” for over 8 years and here I am having to go through IUI’s with donor sperm because my husband does not produce sperm. Please refrain from telling someone going through infertility that they need to stop stressing.
OMG I come from the future and guess what? YOU ARE PREGNANT!!
May Allah bless you both ❤❤❤
My parents tried to have a child for more then 5 years and when they succeeded my mum had a miscarriage but two years later she found out that she is pregnant with me and well here I'm 19 years old writing this don't loose hope and even if you can't have kids of your own thin about adopting one
I’m so sorry to hear this, sometime after contraception it can take long to have your fertility back, also I have been advised that keeping ur feet up with ur back on a pillow for 15 mint right after intercourses helps ( and it does really help )
As a Muslim we are in Ramadan and I it is 2 am morning and I just prayed for you to be a mom amin
I did too, for her and every women out there who can't have kids
Pray for me to get married please
@@zuzu6483
me too and have kids inshallah🤲🏽❤️
Khaoula RMB amen
Same!
Watching again this after your pregnancy announcement... I can’t explain how happy I am for you and Sal. M A 😍❤️
Just want to state something we as women forget; it’s not always our “fault” people never look to the man as the issue so be kind to yourselves ladies.
I agree, but what does it matter?
Who cares who is "at fault" ??
No one chooses to be infertile... placing blame on anyone for not being able to concieve when they want to is horrible.
Starlight Glow Bc women internalize and it’s not always our bodies but that’s where doctors start. At least they did with me. All the test all the appointments and finally they looked at my husband’s health and found the issue lied within him. I had torn myself apart thinking it was something I did or I waited to long.
@@rosebud4467 I don't think KNO was placing blame on either of them for not being able to conceive, nor pointing fingers on whose fault it is. Woman's worst critics are other woman or themselves, it can drive a woman to fall into a deep depression, she clearly blames herself, she is sad, empty and feels broken, she has been going through this for 3 years and she has obviously been going through this alone (she feels alone, her words). She's going through a lot and social media obviously hasn't helped her situation. But I agree with KNO its not always the women's reproductive organs that are at fault, sometimes the issue lies on the man, but yes even if it were the woman's body that wasn't able to conceive that doesn't make it "her" fault, she hasn't done anything purposely (that we know) that has prevented them from being able to conceive. We do not know her situation/story 100%, but it sounds like they should both get tested so they can get to the bottom of the problem, and maybe some marriage counseling wouldn't hurt, she is in too much pain and doesn't sound like she is happily married either.
Girl, don’t EVER be sorry or apologetic for how you’re feeling, ever.
My parents tried for 10 years. They had 3 miscarriages and were told they would never be able to conceive. They prayed so hard and then I was born! And after 2 years my sister as well. Never lose your hope💕
This is tough to watch so I can’t even imagine what it’s like to be going through it. Praying and hoping so hard for you that your hearts desire will come to pass. 🙏🏾
2:40 “every month.. for 3 years you hope something is going to happen...” and staying positive... I think someone is cutting onions near me.. I felt it. I really felt it. 😭
The number of people watching this is insane. I would like to make a suggestion to all; why don’t we ALL make a sincere prayer from the HEART for this beautiful soul. Surely the prayer of at least 1 of the MILLIONS that will be viewing this will be heard. Do not underestimate the power of prayer. So much love for you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I did my part !! Be happy dear !!
I did my part too. Love the idea.❤❤❤
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This broke my heart. My mom had me after 7 years of trying so don't give up hope. Sending love and prayers your way. ❤️
And my mum 10 years my sisters are 44,34 and I’m 30.
Awww take me long time to get pregnant by my 2 daughter you need change your diet you need drink a lot tea that make you calm high cortisol make us difficult de be pregnant I have to cut sugar and flour basically be come vegetarian and only eat fish and eggs not milk not cheese I used drink apple cider vinegar then 3 months after I got pregnant same thing happen when I have my son not caffeine also
Mama you’re so gorgeousssss this ones who send you a mean comments is a hater don’t let this get to your heart for 3 that hates you is 1000 who loves you and admire you 🥰
"And Allah is going to give you and you will be satisfied." Al Qur'an surah ad-duhaa (5) Just have faith in him & fill your heart with patience 🙏🏻
Love that you had the courage to speak about this, let alone publicly. You are love, strength, and inspiration.
I hope people have understood that kindness carries us forward and kept the comments positive. Thank you for sharing.
Not having a child doesn't make you any less of a women. There is so much love to give to so many unwanted kids.
Exactly . Shes desi shel act like she wana adopt n all for public but the truth is she never will.
shin m keep your negative comments to yourself. What ever decision she chooses to make is her choice what is the need for you to say such negative things
@@safahqureshi7862 I'm just stating the facts. Have u ever heard of What people think and say about u is none of ur business. If she chooses to make her money off social media so she she should b ready to face social criticisms as well as popularity.
shin m And your so ready to criticise her right? Imagine the pain she’s going thru and have a little sympathy
Adopting will never be the same as having your own flesh and blood, not a popular opinion but it’s true
My mom tried to get pregnant for 12 years and the doctors told her she wouldn’t be a mom. When she gave up from trying to get pregnant... I showed up in her life ❤️ I know that great things are about to happen in your life. Sending you a hug from Portugal 😘
Exactly.. same thing happened to my mom.. she has endometriosis.. after 11 years she finally got pregnant and here I am. I think you should let everything happen at the time that it's supposed to happen.. let lose a little.. let it be.. and the least expected moment you'll get pregnant.. not everything has to be mecanic and planned.. unexpected things are just the bestest..
How old was she?
Sonia M she started with 23 and got pregnant at the age of 35!
@@soniam2690 36 when she had me..
@@SaraMargaridaMusic Pretty much the same
Ive been with my partner for 9 years and i got pregnant in 5 years all these thoughts went through my head until one day i was like okay god whenever you're ready to make me a mom ill be waiting . Now i have 2 blessings .
You just made me cry for something I haven't experienced. I am single and I could feel the pain in your voice. You are just perfect. Sometimes things don't go well in lifs. I am 24 now but when I was 14, I lost my eyesight completely when I woke up the next morning. I was perfectly alright before that and I am blind with my right wye eversince and it hurts so muxh to see people being able to see clearly but you don't have to be sad because Allah will reward you soon. Don't be sad, love you. ❤
What kinda monsters are leaving comments like this? Other adult women are saying this to her, who raised some of y’all?
They are probably jealous of her and so they attack with hate.
Tiffany Marie I was just thinking exact that!
They just want attention, and always why people are being so f***** mean all of us are still human , some with fame and some not some with money and some not life is that no one is perfect no one
I definitely agree with what you're saying people hide behind their screens and say terrible things about people that know. But I definitely appreciate the comments you're awesome I wish there were more people like you in the world. Take care and God-bless good bye.
Indeed they are monsters. I am so appalled that people can be so heartless!
Hi Farah, I lost 6, 4 misscarriages I buried 2 one fullterm. I can truly relate... Giving birth to my daughter knowing she wasnt alive was so hard 4 days of labour she was stillborn but still born, holding my baby girl in my arms with no cry just silent that silence that I knew I could not take her home broke me. Many days I sat in the mortuary holding her asking why... So many questions and emotions ran through my mind throughout the years of trying and losing I too was so so broken BUT finally in 2017 I gave birth to my miracle son at 6 months weighing 1IB.4 the size of my hand he was on life support and in hospital for so long but he made it .... now he is my proof to say to you it will happen beautiful maybe not in the timing we want but please will you never lose vision and hope you too will get your blessing. God is able and amazing x
Krisina Jagpal Amen ! Praise God 🙏
love you sister ♥️
beautiful strong faith.
God bless you🙏
you are a superhuman superpowerful and THE supermom. Know that
This’s heartbreaking! You’ll have children inShaAllah it can happen anytime, don’t let the comment gets to you and your man should not be saying that I can’t wait stuff, it’s not good when men saying I want a son or can’t wait for a child cuz it makes women feel guilty and it’s not about that it’s about the love and determination that person has for you. You’re young it’ll happen I knew people whom waited longer then have children. Sending you love ❤️❤️🙏🏿
My love, I’m so, so sorry you’ve been going through this for 3 years in silence. I’m sorry you’ve been feeling alone. We are all here for you. It’s okay to cry ♥️ Take your time with healing, there’s no deadline. We love you beautiful. I’ll be making a lot of dua for you and your husband. Sending lots of love your way ♥️
I had a friend that thought she couldn't get pregnant. After 10 years, she and her husband thought they couldn't get pregnant. Then......out of no where, she had a beautiful baby girl.
I know this was with all good intentions and hope for her, but it's comments like this that hurt in a different way as she said.
@@IamJustMe1234 We have a different perspectives and I didn't get that from her video that these were the type of comments that hurt her. If she posts and confirms that then I'll be sure to take it down but not because of someone else's erroneous interpretation. Thanks for your concern though.
May God bless any person reading this who wants the blessing of a child 💗💗💗
Amen! I recieve it. God's timing is always perfect🙌🏽💜
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Same here, praying for children and the uncertainty is weighing heavy on ones heart especially when all your friends and loved ones are getting married and having babies
If there will be a God this nice young woman here would already have a child.. If God would bless someone with a kid. Than people like her would have a kid and not people who are abusing their kids or something
AND NOW SHES PREGNANT ALHAMDULILLAH. So happy for you and Sal
Don't know where to post this but I have to say it.... When Farah said Desi families don't talk about feelings.. "you have anxiety? Just drink some milk and pray." BRUH, I laughed SO hard. My Dad was Punjabi and that was his answer for everything. Milk. Just milk. Headache? "Did you drink milk today?" Feel tired? "Drink milk, you need energy." After an argument where I cried, "Okay bacha, go, go, wash your face and I'll warm up some milk, okay? Chulo, go." Farah, I love you dude. It's so good to see some representation on UA-cam
Look at God farah, his timing is always perfect. I’m guessing within a month or 2 after this video you found out that he accepted our prayers. Continue to say alhamdulilah ❤️
Don’t stop trying! My sister tried for 9 years and finally had a beautiful baby boy after about a year of fertility treatments. You’re such a beautiful person Farah, you deserve a beautiful family and I know you and your husband will have an amazing family. Don’t give up, and please I know it’s hard to stop thinking of yourself as less of a woman because you’re having trouble conceiving but know that is not true! You’re amazing and I will pray for you and your family.
Joanny Diez thank you for this
I’m so happy to be here right now after the announcement 😩♥️🤍♥️🌸♥️🤍♥️☺️ You are loved, worthy and ADEQUATE
She is and not because she's now with child. She was and is loved, worthy and adequate even when she was struggling with fertility. 😊. No one's worth or value is in how fertile they are but simply because they are created in the image of God.
It took my husband and me 8 years, and when he finally join the army so I can have a treatment I got pregnant with a girl before he left for training we will pray for you, you stay strong, we now have another 2 years old boy 💗💗💗💗
Don’t loose hope, Allah is Al-wahab which means he is the giver of everything! So keep on asking and stay hopeful, he won’t let you down! Nothing is impossible. Sending you lots of love!❤️
Warda Sheikh amen
At the age of 20, I had my first of many ovarian surgeries. I was told I was infertile. I have PCOS and endometriosis. Last year, I met my person. I had given up that dream of motherhood... I’m 36 and raised my niece who is now almost 17.
Without trying, being on birth control and taking option B, I got pregnant. Imagine my shock. Imagine my doctors shock. I’m due 11/09. The last thing one should ever lose is hope.
Kelly M God is good ❤️
Congratulations ♥️♥️
Congratulations what is option B I suffer from pcos
That is so good. Congratulations!
What is option b
I was in the same position thinking I couldn’t until I gave up and I’m now 6 1/2 months pregnant - watching your story makes me so emotional with these hormones 😭 // I’m so happy for you these tears you’re crying now better be tears of joy girl embrace it you will be an amazing mother !!!
we as society really need to mind our business, especially when something is private.
But she is putting her business out there
@@daliamejia7532 There's a difference. Our own personal information are always bound to be out to either friends or relatives, so point is to either be an influencer or person close to us, let us not be so meddling in their private affairs
My cousin tried to have kids for 8 years. She desired a child so hard that I saw her with my own eyes crying to God for a baby. She has two babies now, a boy and a girl. Don’t give up, keep trying!
God is good
Idk why people want to get pregnant I mean adopting is better it saves a child in need and gives them a home
@@elcuhhh2140 it's a child, not a puppy. Idk i feel like pregnancy and child birth and starting a biological family is different.
*i was adopted. First of 4 in a combined family of 7. So i get that, too.
You're not less as a woman without a kid, never feel inadequate. But trust in his process & timing! Never lose hope..
Dont know if this is insensitive but I dont understand why women get so overly emotional about this. Theres always adoption or IVF. But Im not really fussed about having kids so I guess I cant relate. Also kids ruin relationships and people’s lives. I know a lot of miserable people with kids.
CookieDough she seems to have a huge platform so I hope and pray for her that anything is possible. I truly don’t believe money is a problem here..
Tell that to the trans community that LOVES using infertal women as an example-
@@ye23. hey I'm 23 and can't have kids. I found out at 20. It sucks. I don't even know if I wanted kids but its knowing I can't do what my body is built to do hurts.
I don't think about it now because I don't want to end up like this girl crying in the video. But it hurts knowing pregnancy is either impossible or life threatening.
Its a natural biological feeling women get. And yes IVF and adoption but its not the same. Some women want a bio child and not being able to HURTS!
@@ye23. I never wanted kids until 3 years ago when I was diagnosed with fibroids. I have had 2 surgeries. Now breaking up with someone I love because he already has 2 kids and I want one. Feelings change.... there's no control over emotions. I can't talk to anyone about it because my family and friends are practical people....my mum has already mentioned adoption.....it's not that easy. Adopted kids in the eyes of the government are not 💯 your kids....I am only coping because had experienced bad depression years before and learned from that and know travel helps...being stuck indoors is not letting me cope. Right now need to get away. I spend time talking about going to the beach. I might change my mind but now that I am single feel less pressure.
You are beautiful and ty for making this video ppl need to hear that they are not the only ones going through such mental distress. You are now expecting and blessed.
It’s so humbling reading this video. You never know what other people don’t have or what people really struggle with. God bless you and your pregnancy journey! It’s not over yet, don’t lose hope ❤️
I've never been able to have children and I'm 46....its been the hardest thing ever to go through because as women we were designed and engineered to reproduce. I feel like a failure and that I'm broken. I know your pain Farah. Dont be too hard on yourself. I'm here if you want to talk ever
Don’t be sad .. everything has a reason :). Have faith in god. You are alive and god has sent you here for a purpose ❤️.
You are not broken.
YOU ARE SO BRAVE for posting this, & I applaud you for speaking out! We had 60 negative tests, 5 years of trying before we got our miracle positive test! Please don't give up hope!
be strong stop stress out please you will have babies God will bless you with boy and girl.
Me and my husband We have 7 years and nothing!
@@giselleburton don't give up hope ever x
Sending lots of prayers x
@@yasmeenhussain2721 thank you 🙏💕
I’m grateful for you making this video. I needed this, you are not alone and congrats on the wonderful new blessing you guys are about to embark on.💓✨
& all negative things, BYE FELICIA. We don’t need that energy.
This video made me cry, I felt your hurt so much, even tho I haven’t been trying for 3 years, I have been trying for over a year and half now and nothing, I feel the same way so unable. But I wish you so many blessings, I pray you can one day have a baby🥺❤️
I don’t even know those who press dislike have a heart.
StillStella literally what I thought
They problaby do it because they don´t like the situation they´re going through.
Its deplorable... and its jealousy I'm afraid. She is so pure and beautiful and those insecure in themselves feel the need to tear her down. Its upset me so much watching this.
My daughter is 12 and does you tube videos.. but we had to remove her channel because people were bullying her because shes beautiful and talented. It devastated her because she had 200,000 followers almost. If full grown adults attack a child online who is merely singing then nothing surprises me
People depict on the outside what’s going on inside if themselves. If anything it’s just a damn shame on those monsters. Farah is so real and down to earth, and some people are just so full of ugliness 😞
could be the ppl who posted those mean comment.
But could be ppl who are showing that this is not acceptable from other ppl to interfere in her life (like you know the sad button in fb) am i making sense ?
Hey hun, it took me well over 2 years of trying to get pregnant. I got referred to a great doctor at mount Sinai's fertility clinic. It took a year but we were lucky to finally get pregnant. I think your in Toronto too, so maybe you could check them out. Your not alone hun and I hope with all my heart you have all the babies you want. You deserve everything you wish for big hugs.
Thank you for sharing your heart with us. This must have been really hard to make. I hope that a burden has been lifted off of you and that the outpour of love and support gives you some comfort. You are not alone. You are so brave and admired! ❤️
I applaud you for posting this👏🏾. This is you releasing everything you’ve been walking with and carrying on your back and in your heart for the past few years. With every release comes a good thing. Don’t lose hope. I’m no expert but I am a firm believer in the less you think about it the quicker it shall come. So instead of saying we’re trying it let’s try just let the love making happen naturally on its own. Stay strong 💪🏾
Honestly, whoever disliked this video can’t have a heart...
I'm thinking maybe it's the topic they disliked
I’m so sorry to hear this, sometime after contraception it can take long to have your fertility back, also I have been advised that keeping ur feet up with ur back on a pillow for 15 mint right after intercourses helps ( and it does really help )
Hi, Farah we going through tough times in life. But I pray that you able to your goal come true,and pray the the peace of God cover you like a blanket and start feeling hopeful and your faith arise like never before. God Bless You 🙏🙏❤️❤️
Chrissy R if someone doesn’t like the topic they could just stop watching the video :)
THIS IS NO ONE’S BUSINESS! People don’t know boundaries. I feel so bad
This just broke my heart! I can relate and it made me cry. Every single word you said I feel like I've said it. I wish you all the best and will keep you in my prayers. Just don't lose hope. I know it's hard because of everything you've been through but don't lose faith. 🙏
Im so hurted and shocked strangers talk like this about other peoples like this! I hope they feel ashamed for their disgusting actions 💔
My husband and I wanted children so bad. It ate me up inside. We tried since I was 20. I'm now I'm 33. We still do not have children.
When I tell you, I know it hurts, I mean it. As a woman, you feel " We are supposed to be able to have children". I felt useless. I had to MAKE myself, move on. It was destroying me and started to affect the way I was treating my husband. I just said to myself " Nicole, if it happens it happens". And unfortunately it never did. I promise you it will get better. You are not alone. I'm sending you lots of love & good vibes to you & your husband. We would have adopted, but it was thousands. If you are in a position to adopt, think about it. There is a child out there, who would love you forever.
I hope you read this. I just wanted to share my genuine feelings. If you wanted to message me, for support, I'm here. Please take care. Lots of love
Nicole ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Your beautiful words deeply touched my heart ❤
Girl this touched me too. 😢 I can’t even imagine what you are all going through. I pray and hope that you all are blessed with a family be that your own children or living and taking care of another child who is in need of a family 💕
Keep going it's not late yet
May God bless you
She’s the kindest sweetest person yet people are so rude? I’m speechless.
Laura Watson because misery wants company unfortunately :/
Jennifer Moreno I really want her to be happy now...I hope her life becomes easier n she achieves what she desires n deserves💜
God bless you girly, I’ll be keeping you in my prayers❤️
It breaks my heart to see someone wanting to hav a child and care for him so badly... When people like myka stauffer just gave away her baby boy.. I hope u feel better soon...sometimes God has better plans for all of us. ♥️♥️
It’s so hard to talk about infertility. My only dream in life was to be a mom and wife but after 6 yrs of trying we have not gotten pregnant. It’s a very lonely, very heartbreaking place to be. So thank u for sharing your story, u are not alone! ❤️
Same...i married for 4 years now..my husb had two kids and married before we both meet..after he divorced we both had relationship..we trying so hard to get pregnent..but my husb so undersanding..he never said anything..he just said..if we can get babies its blessing if not maybe god had plan for us to dating longer..sometimes when my friends pregnent..i broke down..he said im so stupid..because care about that..its make me more broken.because he was so nice and im not deserve him..he said if one day we still didnt get own babies..maybe he gonna adopt one girl..maybe..but not now
JayMMXII You aren’t alone either! My husband and I tried for 7 years to get a baby and we finally got one when my son turned 11. Keep going! Don’t ever give up! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
May GOD BLESS YOU never loose faith ❤️
Sela Sanchez thank u 😊
Don’t loose hope! My parents tried to have a kid for 8 years before I was born. Please be strong, lots of love to you ❤️
I'm sending you love and big hugs I believe in you you're going to be able to have one one day❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Praying for you! God’s going to bless you, you watch and see. I understand what you are going through. Stay strong and stay in faith!
Thank you for your bravery and willingness to share this with us. I just love you! I pray for you and everyone who wants to be a mother.
The fact that she had to write in the description box “pls be kind” fully broke me🥺we love you Farah and I pray Allah gives you strength and happiness. Ameen ❤️ you’re in my prayers.🤲🏻
babblegammm _xox ameen
ameen🤲🏼
God bless Farah only in the Lord we can find strength. He has a purpose for each one of us.
The AlvEz FAmily well said! We love you Farrah 💕
Amen 🙏. He does, he will make a way where there's seems to be no way.
Bless you and everyone who’s going thru the same situation ! I can’t even imagine being it this situation ! Sending a lot of love ! I read once, “we are able to be strong as we need to, even tho we don’t feel like we are! “ good things will come maybe it’s not the time yet :) but I’ll all come to us even in ways we didn’t expected it!. I’m not married yet but i hope I’m blessed to have a companion as you have!
Oh love, my heart goes out to you 😭 prayers and hopes for your dreams of being a mom come true
In this holy month, you’re in my dua! Love you x
I feel your pain my sweet sister, i have been trying to get pregnant for almost 20 years now. May Allah answer our dua❤
May Allah give us a healthy baby soon Ameen❤
Aaameeen
Keep trying sister! May God grant you your heart desires
Ameen.
Ameen
Ya Msaharni inshallah ameen
I'm so happy for you.. Knowing you're pregnant! God bless you with tons of happiness and good health 😁
Thank you for sharing your feelings with your community, you are so strong! ❤️ My parents tried for almost 6 years, having different treatments, IVF, miscarriages etc. Then I came along naturally and healthy, so don't ever loose hope, I'm sure your dream will come true! 💕
This is why you do not EVER comment on a woman’s appearance or make assumptions about whether she is pregnant or not. Other people’s lives are nobody else’s business and are absolutely not there to be analysed and scrutinised. We don’t know what others are going through behind the scenes and I find it sickening how people think they can say things like this. Keeping you in my prayers ❤️
Agreed. Not only it is extremely rude it is also very not classy/elegant.
It everyone's business when you decide to put a video UA-cam.Just another self absorbed millennial
@@jayekaye6641 You're so funny. You literally have a public playlist of naked 'millennials' on your channel named 'horn'. You're a joke. Stop hating and go watch your soft porn.
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@@simballa660 Are you okay? You should see someone professional, something is clearly going on with you.
Sweet girl, can I just tell you that this video touched my heart soooo deeply. In 2016 my husband and I got pregnant with our first child. Our dreams had come true, and just as soon as we started celebrating, I lost the baby. At 7 weeks. I was more heartbroken than I had ever been. My husband reassured me that when my body was healed we would start trying again. Well, we tried for 3 years. 3 years. With the 3rd anniversary of our miscarriage coming up I was feeling SO incredibly sad. Every month we got negative tests and I felt so alone. All my friends were having kids. Even friends who didnt want kids were getting pregnant. It was so incredibly hard.
My husband and I kept trying. You and Sal NEED to stay strong. Stay positive. Talk to your body and tell it that you love it and that you cant wait for it to be a home for your sweet little baby that you WILL have.
3 years after trying and trying and trying my husband and I were finally successful! It was a miracle. When I look back on our miscarriage I just know that things weren't right for us then. STAY. POSITIVE. BABE. It will happen. Relax and when you least expect it a miracle will evolve.
I love you, Farah! I always have. I'm a big fan and I will pray and send all the baby dust to you and your husband.
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Hey just curious, did you do anything to ensure you had a successful pregnancy? Been trying with no luck after 2 miscarriages, so all ears if you have any tips to ensure a successful pregnancy..sending good vibes to everyone trying for a baby xxx
@@candylover1991 I prayed. And prayed. I also ate very healthy and tried to stay active without over exerting myself. I'm so sorry you had had to go through two miscarriages. Even though I have my baby now, that worry just never goes away. Right up until i was 38 weeks pregnant and delivered, i worried. I remained positive, though. Our bodies are amazing and when it's right you will have your sweet little miracle. Goodluck and baby dust ❤🌸❤🌸❤
@@candylover1991 any luck on getting pregnant
My prayers are lifted to God to bless you and hubby to conceive. Don't give up trying. My husband and I tried to get pregnant and after 4 years we gave birth to a beautiful daughter. We tried for 6 more years for a second child. God blessed us with only one because he passed away from Sickle Cell Anemia. I was crushed, but everything was/is in God's hands. A friend of mine was so depressed because her and hubby weren't able to get pregnant. We prayed, cried, and prayed again. They adopted a beautiful little girl and are amazing parents. After 12 years, not trying to get pregnant, just enjoying each other she became pregnant. They gave birth to a beautiful healthy baby boy. God knows your prayers, desires, and pain. Don't give up sweetie! I will continue to lift you in prayer. Hugs, love, and prayers🙏🏽❤️💐
I know exactly how you feel and know what you’re going through. It makes it even harder when every one you know is pregnant and having kids and it still hasn’t happened for you and your spouse. It gets hard but we’ll be blessed one day with a child. Don’t give up and don’t let it make you sad because you will be a great mom it’s just taking a little bit longer.
Im 40 and Ive been trying for 3 year. I went through IVF 2 cycles, 2 miscarriages. I needed to take a break to gather my strength back.
Thank you for being strong and speaking your truth. Your strength will return.
Hi everyone it's the holy month of ramadan right now and I urge you who are fasting/muslim please make dua for Farah and all couples who are struggling with infertility in the world. So many couples are dealing with this at the moment so please make prayers❤🙏🤲
I just been crying for the exact same reason. And hearing u speak about it made me feel just a little better, knowing I m not the only one going through this. Hope u get through this sis x
Im so sorry you've been going through so much. And to those who have been so rude and ugly towards you, are immature and don't understand the consequences it puts on the people they direct mean comments towards.
You will grow and just remember, it doesn't necessarily mean you aren't a mum if the child isn't of you and your husband's blood. Being a mum means loving and nurturing a little one who needs that sort of support and connection from someone. You're so strong and I admire you so much for going through all of this. You are beautiful and so amazing. Keep on waking up each day and stay positive! You will get through this
Okay whom ever insulted her and made her feel so inadequate needs to get kicked in the throat. God has timing no doubt please do not give up ❤️
Valine Ogoti 👏👏👏👏👏
"When you grow up in a desi household, your feelings aren't really at the forefront of conversation" The hard truth right here. Talking about these things openly is how things will change. Thank you for your courage Farah.
OMG people are ruthless! Mental health is serious guys....be fkn kind!!!!!!!!
Thank you for posting this video. this really needed some awareness.
Farah I tried for more than 10 years to have a child and I had 3 miscarriages. And last year the beginning of the year I fasted and prayed to God that if children is not in his plans for me to at least help my be the best aunt I could be. 4 weeks later I found out I was pregnant. I was so scared I was gonna miscarry again. But in Oct of 2019 I gave birth to a beautiful boy. Farah enjoy your marriage, your travels, your family because one day you will be a mom. My dream was always to be a mom too. So I know how you are feeling. And I am overweight I always have been. And i looked like i had 4 kids when i had none. And I was bullied on social media by women all the time. But in looked to God and started focusing on what I do have. YOU ARE GOING TO BE A GREAT MOM!!!
Kaysha Rivera i just have tears in my eyes of reading your story. God bless you and your beautiful child 💕 there is always hope and i pray for God to give Farah also a beautiful family❤️
@Your Don hey don't you know about "Say good or be silent"?!
try to be respectful people it won't hurt you
Your Don what a Keyboard warrior. Do you like getting attention for writing shit?
Asking somone about pregnancy is a Personal Question, that SHOULD NOT be asked about or commented on. Let that person bring it up. We need to be more respectful and loving people.
I agree! It’s so sad that in our culture it’s apparently appropriate to comment on childless marriages or gaining weight, not being married etc so many things I disagree with. I hope all of these comments give her strength.
@@mrsjpunt3924 I totally agree. Every time someone sees me they always say "oh you've gained weight, not taking care of your health, etc". Mind you, I'm not overweight. I'm small (5 feet flat) so weight fluctuations are more apparent. I get offended every time but somehow manage to reply civilly (though at night I toss and turn wishing I could tell people off for eyeing my weight when in fact they've been overweight for years and I don't do what they do because it makes people feel bad).
It's really hard when they ask you are you pregnant? When are you going to have a baby? They don't think that maybe you have been trying and you just can't. It's the family, friends, and just anyone who you are talking to😣 Just because we are married we had to have a kid and when I gained weight they began saying that maybe I'm pregnant and didn't want to say it
I had my baby 3 months ago after 5 years of marriage. Dont give up dear ❤❤❤
I understand this on every level. 😭💙 sending love your way.