Its crazy that some ppl in the society blames young women for being pregnant and not having boundaries and let men be away with it like they are some 7 yr old kids and were the only one being young and naive Edit: idk why yall are here justifying the men's side and saying its the fault of women too(though i agree) but this is not what im talking abt. Why some of you are fighting on whos fault it is. I'm just mad how some ppl in the society only blames women, and i'm saying this because i had seen many scenarios like this where ppl blames women for being pregnant but not the men. And if y'all also think that its the women fault 'only', then get your head check at some ment_l hospital.
Facts Men want to be leaders and have authority but then they go and blame the women below them It really doesn't make sense It goes men, women, children, right? In emergencies you safe children first, then women, then men And children have to listen to their mothers and the mothers have to listen to their husbands..? Yet when a man has *** with a woman, the woman gets blamed. It really doesn't make sense
Agreed. It seems like no matter what, it's always the woman's fault in the eyes of society and it really sucks. A woman gets harassed? It's her fault. A woman gets assaulted? It's her fault. A woman gets pregnant? It's her fault. The men always get away with everything or only get a slap on the wrist at most and the women get blamed and shamed for everything instead. It makes me sick and then people, the majority of which are men, have the never to claim that misogyny doesn't exist and that women have it better and easier than men, but still like to whine and play victim according to them. I hate it here.
Their acting was phenomenal because I almost forgot they weren't the actual people in this situation. For the actual woman, I hope her nightmares go away and get sent to him instead.
It's based on a real life story. Who is crazy enough to come and do it live? They won't get any peaceful life after shooting. It's more like someone provided a real life script and then it was adapted.
@@poojadas3102 Such people may do it. The girl can do it to publicly shame her exboyfriend. The exboyfriend may do it in an attempt to relieve of the guilt he has. In the US, we used to have the Jerry Springers Show which was crazier than this.
She deserves some good drama roles, so much emotion, i don't know what bad thing she imagined so that she can cry like that, but congrats for this mini drama.
I had a Korean lover back in 1989 I got pregnant by him right away. He was working here in the US. When I got pregnant, he was very happy and he went back to Seoul because he said he had work to do there and he was sending me baby clothes and writing to me. I had the baby and when he came back, the baby was maybe 10 months old and then I got pregnant by him again. This time, he went back to Seoul and I never heard from him again. Our 2 sons were born in 1990 and 1991. They are now 34 and 35. They have their own families , but they never knew their father. He Completely abandoned me and the worst part about it is that they both look just like him.
Yeah the worst thing a man can do is abandon a woman he got pregnant. Also I have a friend who had her baby not too long ago and her bd abandoned her and he still won’t see the baby. Just goes to show that a lot of these niggas really ain’t shit.
That acting was wild. My chest was burning and it became hard to breathe. In the end I cried myself to bed. It‘s a horrible feeling to be left alone by the only person you thought you could trust.
Trust me, you will never want to experience it. The pain of being neglected while being pregnant then miscarriage the only hope you have because of that person you trusted and loved so much is unmatch. That's the slow torture you have to live for the rest of your life.
This is a very intelligent and caring way of handling this: instead of sensationalizing the real ppl, you guys employed actors. Brilliant! The story also broke my heart 🥺
Wow, the acting was so convincing that you would believe they were the actual couple and not a scene based on a true story...BRAVO got me cursing the dude out as if he was actually the dude who abandoned her and she was so good I even felt my emotions burning inside. Someone sign her up IMMEDIATELY! ! !
Brilliant performance by these two young actors dealing with such a sensitive subject. This should be shown to 17 and 18 scholars, maybe the reality of unwanted teenage pregnancy might hit home.
You're telling me that it's just an acting??????? Holy shit!!! cast them in a drama already, especially the girl...it was so realistic that i almost believed that she suffered all of these untill i read the comment section 😭
She convinced me to subscribe to this channel. I felt the pain in her voice, eyes, face expressions and her body language. I thought it was true and to read the comments that it is a skit from a true story, it breaks my heart even more. Please be kind to yourself and give yourself the love you deserve. Hopefully the real couple that experienced this finds happiness and move forward so they can begin to heal from this tragic situation. So many people out there are going through this at a young age and it’s not an easy decision for either party.
Okay so here’s what I’m thinking, they initially filmed this with the actual people. But these people didn’t want it to be put up as it was too emotional or some other personal reason. So Giggle decided to play their interaction out with actors and that’s why it’s based off of a true story. What y’all think?
I understand why he told her to abort. They were 18, having a child at that age, especially in SK would’ve ruined their lives, I can understand and even sympathise. The fact that he ran, he ghosted her and ran is inexcusable. As she said, she was only 18 as well, she had to deal with it on her own, the abortion, the loneliness, the fear, deal with the disapproval of society/school etc, all on her own, with no help, then 10 years later he comes not to apologise but to throw money at her, for what? Forgiveness? Make himself feel better? It certainly wasn’t for her. I’m glad she walked away. Nobody needs such cowardly and toxic people in their life.
why do you think its only South Korea thats bad dude?? come to India, if you get pregnant early before marriage, no-one is gonna appreciate that here too!! also, teen pregnancies shouldn't be supported anywhere. its pregnant teens who should be supported. if you understand the basic difference also, honestly no one is wrong in this video!!
There is nothing to understand here, 18 years mean legal major age in many Countries and usually the 18 year old is capable of understanding the consequences of downing their pants but he choosed to do only to escape and run away right in the time of consequences co-ward if he really worried about his family he should have choosen to close his things in pant tight.
She is 100000% correct. He should beg for forgiveness for the rest of his life. He owes her his life . 5:45 If he is sorry, he should pay her a million dollars. Seriously.
Well being sorry is one thing but giving one million dollars is completely different thing. She is not raising the child. So it's not like he needed to give money for child support. It may sound rude but he doesn't owe her money. Yeah i am not saying that what he did was correct but I would be disappointed if she accepted money from him. I would lose my sympathy for her in that case cause i would feel that she was doing all this just for the money.
@DolceMar56 cause he left her. They where probably dating when this happened she was insulted and he got nothing he did nothing. She covered for all the expenses of the abortion he just left. He does owe her an apology. He was scared.? What about her. He has no excuse
The fact that i thought this was real. But this made me cry😭 This was such GREAT acting! I can feel the pain in her sobs. The guy also did very great! ❤
@@gollum.writes thank you it was a really long time ago and I have children now that are grown, but if this happened to one of them, my heart would shatter because it’s not easy and it’s loneliest thing. I’m OK I truly am but my heart breaks when girls have to go through this, especially by themselves
"I still hear the crying sound of our baby in my dreams" this line broke something in me which will never heal😢 All those innocent mothers who would have raised their kids but couldnt... may God grand yall the best place in paradise..... I'm kinda scared meeting the wrong partner cuz people like him still exist :(
I unfortunately tried to break up with a boyfriend and he wasn't having it and that night he beat and left me with a gift. I kept that gift and she's still with me to this day! She's married and has 2 beautiful boys and I'm so glad that I never thought of ending that life. I worked and went thru it all alone. I never hid anything from my dear sweet girl and she thanks me every year that she becomes a year older that I gave her life! things happen when you have no moral guidance and you have to face up to it! Live and learn and don't blame or regret just move on!
I think its not too much about the lost child, but rather how little signifiance she is to him. Everything is about himself, his future, his parent, but not a single thought about her. Her words were definitely to make him feel guilty, because technically you dont hear the sound of a crying baby, but the sound of a baby's heartbeat would be more believable. She would have expected him to appear torn and sloppy from guilt, but he came back GLOWING. I think that definitely sets her off. But its a recontruction, so im just saying 😄
Tbh she was making him feel guilty. It's not that he is not wrong but there's no way she would be that sad for a unwanted baby even after 10 yrs. And abortion is only possible before the development of the heart so there's literally no way she can hear the baby's heartbeat, not to say anything about baby's cry. It's just absurd.Just like you said it's all about how little significant she was to him that he can easily abandon her in that condition. Again there's nothing he can do after 10 yrs. It's all over, for better or worse. Throwing money isn't a solution.
He really seems full of it.. I hope she can heal with someone else and I hope he comes to understand what he did back then and what he did now.. before he can move on also
@@lamma746unfortunately he'll probably never change don't get me wrong people can change but it's the fact that they don't want to that's the most devastating part...
Oh lord, that broke my heart. I can't imagine how many teenage girls go through this every day around the world. I've been crying for 10 minutes, thinking about all those who are abandoned alone by their family and their girlfriend after this.
Oh my goodness, I was wondering if this was real. I was about to say a counselor should have been present to mediate the situation because both persons are in pain. My heart broke for both of them. I was also about to say this should have been done privately, but thankfully this is a reenactment. Phew. Well done to the actors. You got me good. I just really hope the parties this is based on get the help and counseling needed, or else this will destroy and eat their souls. I really wish the best for both parties. I feel so bad for the young lady and what she went through at school and the daily torment. After years of watching Iyanla Vanzant helping families and people in situations like this, I can't help but pray they face the emotions and hurt, but come out healed or on the journey to healing. I hurts my heart seeing people so broken. You just want to embrace them and let them know, it is going to be okay.
It doesn’t matter whether it’s the truth or just acting; it’s still a good lesson for teenagers (16-20) to avoid doing things they might regret. It’s important to control yourself and your feelings.
Wowwww..... Bravo to these young actors. The way they embraced the people they are portraying had me heartbroken & in tears for the young lady. I didn't think I was going to stay after reading that this was reconstructed ... but these two pulled me in completely. This hit close to home since I too was in the same position. However, I was the one to run ... I refused to allow my parents to dictate my life decisions for me. I didn't care one way or the other if the father stayed with me or not... which he didn't. Later I found out he was engaged to someone in the Philippines & although heartbreaking at the age of 17, he became another piece of male trash in my life. However, unfortunately.. some countries are different & I'm sure it was devastating for this young lady to go through that emotional crisis alone. Abortions not only hurt physically ... but above all Emotionally. It is something that you live with for the rest of your life. I hope this young lady that they were portraying is doing well and enjoying the happiness she deserves. As for the young man ... well... I pity him not. If you can't stand up and take responsibility of a life you created ... or at least being there for her while she went through what HE wanted her to do .. than he is in the same pile of trash.
She is CRAZY her acting is PERFECT she embodies her character so well and I would be completely fooled by her if I didn’t know this was based off of a true story
I’m shocked that they’re actors. Girl has me bawling. I hope that the people that this story was based on were able to find healing and move on in their lives.
While listening i started to cry for her. It is not easy for her to feel this heartbreaking. But this guy should do something else for her. I dont know what but he should not be ghosted again. She is a women. A bravery woman. If had a chance to speak that guy. I would say don't leave her alone. Plz don't do that again.
Well-acted and very intense scene. I am sure many women go through this. Men can walk away but women can't. Our society excuses men starting with "boys will be boys." Women are blamed and told they are at fault.
That man has absolutely no empathy, it literally hurts to watch. I just feel so bad for that woman that went through all of that alone... He's such a scumbag...
People like that man never feel remorse. How could you abandon a young mother? With no financial help or anything! Some people are so outrageous and only think about their future, not the ones their impacting!
Such a painful experience for the young Lady and a trauma so hard to get over. I hope she heals and learn to forgive herself and move on. Both of them need to forgive themselves. Life happens and no matter the challenges we face, we must teach ourselves to keep living and winning 💪. Much Love❤ from this friend CHARITY from NIGERIA. Peace ✌️ and Love 💕
I'm living a message to the women who would relate to this story. Stay strong. Keep on living. And move forward. And to the single moms who continued to live with children after suffering from this kind of men, I'm so proud of you.
I think we all cried.. the woman is such a good actress that really felt emotion.. those ppl really exist in all country this situation happens more than what y think it's.. devastating
she didn't need you 10 years ago, so she doesn't need you now. you failed to be there when she needed you, how shameless to show up after how much she has been trying to heal. that's how i feel, but i know that that shamelessness and bravery from his end is what both needed to start recovering from this trauma. people make mistakes, some bigger than others. i hope both get to heal with time ❤.
It’s understandable that the girl is still hurting. Forgiveness can be a long and difficult process . But I really hope she will be stronger as days goes by and then find the strength to heal and move forward .
- For this whole time I freaking thought this was real ! The girl expressed those feelings so truly that made me feel like crying...She's amazing but I can't imagine how much pain that real woman had to suffered from ! It's really heartbreaking....
I knew from a few moments at the start that this is acting, obviously because of the dialog, and their act.. But, the girl suddenly get immersed in her character at the end. Good job
This made my cry, because so many men like this are out there. So fucking many. Some women do get the child and are overwhelmed because they have to work, household, child raising on there own. The others get an abortion and have to deal with this. It hurts. I hope, that some men who watch this, will finally open up there eyes and change their mindset. Often unfortunately, they say it is too much to ask and it is their life. But meanwhile, women need to suffer the consequences of there actions. It's like an old tale. The woman in the video did it correctly, do not forgive him. He only got there to make him feel better, not anyone else.
I cried so much relating to this girl, except for the ten years later part. God bless the girl with deep and true healing from God in the blood of Lord Jesus Christ I pray🙏🏼🕊
I feel so awful for the real girl that had to go through this. In some way also, I feel bad for the guy too. Some people have overbearing parents that want their children to have a different life than they did either to profit off of them or to live vicariously through the children. I think that if the guy didn't have any pressure from his parents, he probably would have supported the girl instead of telling her to abort their baby. Overall, it's a sad story for both of them. It could have been so different if things were for them.
I’m sure this one of the many true stories out there. Women who are reading this, please know your worth because if you don’t, he will tell you how much you are worth. Unfortunately, there are too many men like this piece of 💩and coward in this world. Love yourself and put yourself first and always. You are love and you are worth it❤❤.
This was tough to watch 💔😭 I hope she finds a way to cope with this loss and hardship I wish I could give her a hug and be there for her. Hope she finds the support she needs in someone someday soon 😢
I know they are actors but the story is real so even though they are actors someone somewhere still went threw this exact same situation and it's sad that anyone would ever go threw something like this 😔
It's so sad how easily men throw around "you should get an abortion." Like it's easy, like it won't affect anyone. And then to not be there for her. This is so sad.
I cried for the girl - because this is a reenactment of a true story, this story has probably happened to so many girls and women. And to not have anyone to lean on when you're scared, your body is hurting, and always wondering if it was the right decision... I couldn't imagine how torturous that would be.
@nswag2706 if she appreciate it if she hugs Me back if not the best thing I could do I will pray for her 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 she will thanks me later if I was very sad or crying she will be there for me we never know 🙏🏼
In situations like this, the man only only cares about how he thinks he looks in this situation. I hope for all women in these situations thrive and finds love in themselves and family.
* 본 영상은 실제 사연을 바탕으로 재구성했습니다.
This video was directed based on a real story
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What's the name of the male actor? You didn't provide any details about his social media accounts...
I’m such a dumb foreigner, I thought this was real.
She’s a powerful actress.
He looks like a K-Pop idol.
"I’m such a dumb foreigner" what an unusual thing to say
@@aiishataal I know. No disrespect intended to anybody else, though. ❤️
same dude ı just start cursing the guy thinking it was real
@@denal2463 🤣🤣🤣
Unaware doesn't mean dumb ,my friend
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Holy crap! Sign these 2 up in an Agency especially the girl! She's got potential. Well done!
I got u 💀
Hii please don’t use Holy with these words (sh... cra.... etc)
@@Y2Klover143 huh?
@@Y2Klover143 Are u high?
@@Y2Klover143 Are you slow?
Its crazy that some ppl in the society blames young women for being pregnant and not having boundaries and let men be away with it like they are some 7 yr old kids and were the only one being young and naive
Edit: idk why yall are here justifying the men's side and saying its the fault of women too(though i agree) but this is not what im talking abt. Why some of you are fighting on whos fault it is. I'm just mad how some ppl in the society only blames women, and i'm saying this because i had seen many scenarios like this where ppl blames women for being pregnant but not the men. And if y'all also think that its the women fault 'only', then get your head check at some ment_l hospital.
Facts
Men want to be leaders and have authority but then they go and blame the women below them
It really doesn't make sense
It goes men, women, children, right?
In emergencies you safe children first, then women, then men
And children have to listen to their mothers and the mothers have to listen to their husbands..? Yet when a man has *** with a woman, the woman gets blamed.
It really doesn't make sense
It is crazy
Agreed. It seems like no matter what, it's always the woman's fault in the eyes of society and it really sucks.
A woman gets harassed? It's her fault. A woman gets assaulted? It's her fault. A woman gets pregnant? It's her fault.
The men always get away with everything or only get a slap on the wrist at most and the women get blamed and shamed for everything instead.
It makes me sick and then people, the majority of which are men, have the never to claim that misogyny doesn't exist and that women have it better and easier than men, but still like to whine and play victim according to them. I hate it here.
It's crazy that you saw the whole video and didn't notice they were actors 😅
@@focabox5594 ik this is all planned and but its crazy that you don't know that what I'm talking about is whole society not this particular video.
Their acting was phenomenal because I almost forgot they weren't the actual people in this situation. For the actual woman, I hope her nightmares go away and get sent to him instead.
Wait this isn’t real
@@Skzlove2018 it is it happened in real life but not to them they're just acting it out
Exactly the same feelings as mine
They use actors to hide the real people identity so that their faces can be protected
Really... now I'm not going to watch.
Why not use the actual people that it happened to, I mean, they will not be acting but show their real feelings
This acting is absolutely unreal😢😢. I feel so bad for the girl that actually happened to her, society can be so cruel. This made me cry so so much.
Is this video fake?
@@offline_trina well duh
I think they're acting out a real story that happened to someone else 🥺😢 but it's so emotional @@offline_trina
@@offline_trina Technically they're actors acting out a real story so not fake just not the people who wen't through it.
She had an abortion, and it affected both their lives. Society did not do that.
Wait...this was acting? I thought it was a real story! That girl really got me. She took that role and immersed herself so well.
It's based on a real life story. Who is crazy enough to come and do it live? They won't get any peaceful life after shooting.
It's more like someone provided a real life script and then it was adapted.
@@poojadas3102 Such people may do it. The girl can do it to publicly shame her exboyfriend. The exboyfriend may do it in an attempt to relieve of the guilt he has. In the US, we used to have the Jerry Springers Show which was crazier than this.
@BrianLiamson Jerry springer was also fake though just like maury
Why guy's lips red
@@slevinlindsay3624maybe a tint
She deserves some good drama roles, so much emotion, i don't know what bad thing she imagined so that she can cry like that, but congrats for this mini drama.
It's easy to imagine how much a girl went .
Thx because I was thinking about if it's really not drama 😢
Wait this wasn’t real?
@@Jun-o2020they're actors but the story is real
For real tho! She ate that up
I had a Korean lover back in 1989 I got pregnant by him right away. He was working here in the US. When I got pregnant, he was very happy and he went back to Seoul because he said he had work to do there and he was sending me baby clothes and writing to me. I had the baby and when he came back, the baby was maybe 10 months old and then I got pregnant by him again. This time, he went back to Seoul and I never heard from him again. Our 2 sons were born in 1990 and 1991. They are now 34 and 35. They have their own families , but they never knew their father. He Completely abandoned me and the worst part about it is that they both look just like him.
You sure he didn't lose his life or something?
@@atewegift3926 I often thought about that through the years too. That is a big possibility.
Yeah the worst thing a man can do is abandon a woman he got pregnant. Also I have a friend who had her baby not too long ago and her bd abandoned her and he still won’t see the baby. Just goes to show that a lot of these niggas really ain’t shit.
oh..
Did you try looking for him? Maybe something bad happened?
This made me cry I feel so bad for the girl, she lost her baby.. and now is meeting her ex after 10 years… it’s just so heartbreaking
Girl, this isn't real. They are actors
@@focabox5594 but its based on a real story...
@@focabox5594 And that's why this is impressive lol they fooled people with their acting
@@focabox5594😂😂
@@focabox5594 I’m just saying jeez..
That acting was wild. My chest was burning and it became hard to breathe. In the end I cried myself to bed. It‘s a horrible feeling to be left alone by the only person you thought you could trust.
Trust me, you will never want to experience it. The pain of being neglected while being pregnant then miscarriage the only hope you have because of that person you trusted and loved so much is unmatch. That's the slow torture you have to live for the rest of your life.
I can't believe this is a skit. I can't stop crying. She is so skilled!!
It's a skit but based on a real story
Her acting is soo good .. I literally felt the pain as if I am the one suffering . This really made me cry
This is a very intelligent and caring way of handling this: instead of sensationalizing the real ppl, you guys employed actors. Brilliant! The story also broke my heart 🥺
dang the actress did it like she lost her own baby... wow!
It's a real story not scripted.
@@estephaniekaren6849this is acting but it’s a real story, just not between them
@@estephaniekaren6849Yes it is but they are acting it out
why did i think they were real and not actors? lmaoo
@@Hdjejdjdndk Doesn't excuse that the story of it happening did happen
Wow, the acting was so convincing that you would believe they were the actual couple and not a scene based on a true story...BRAVO got me cursing the dude out as if he was actually the dude who abandoned her and she was so good I even felt my emotions burning inside. Someone sign her up IMMEDIATELY! ! !
damn bruhh the girl's acting is just....it left me speechless
Brilliant performance by these two young actors dealing with such a sensitive subject. This should be shown to 17 and 18 scholars, maybe the reality of unwanted teenage pregnancy might hit home.
You're telling me that it's just an acting??????? Holy shit!!! cast them in a drama already, especially the girl...it was so realistic that i almost believed that she suffered all of these untill i read the comment section 😭
Please don’t use Holy with these words (shi.... cra.... etc)
@@Y2Klover143 holy crap why?
Me too I believed it too. TBH She is a great actor
@@ak_slumber lmaoo
@@Y2Klover143not everybody’s religious pookie!
Yall, this made me cry. How could someone do that to another person? I couldn't imagine how traumatic that must be. I hope she is doing okay.
Their acting was so real that at first I thought they were a real former couple. One of the most realistic actings about a serious topic.
8:06 was the best acting! I’m speechless👁️👄👁️
The actress really did so well. The emotion got me.
She convinced me to subscribe to this channel. I felt the pain in her voice, eyes, face expressions and her body language. I thought it was true and to read the comments that it is a skit from a true story, it breaks my heart even more. Please be kind to yourself and give yourself the love you deserve. Hopefully the real couple that experienced this finds happiness and move forward so they can begin to heal from this tragic situation. So many people out there are going through this at a young age and it’s not an easy decision for either party.
I saw the title, was about to be pissed, and then breathed a sigh of relief when I saw the comments saying that they're just acting
She made me cry ..
She deserves to be in big drama roles
The acting is rlly on point tho
And the guy looks good! As an actor, he has a promising career in front of him...
😂😂😂Giggle does not respect us. I knew within the 1st minute that this is scripted.
@@LadySunshine866well if you read the pinned comment it says “based on a true story”
@@TI-R-ed yeah it's a true story but they acted that's what people are saying
Okay so here’s what I’m thinking, they initially filmed this with the actual people. But these people didn’t want it to be put up as it was too emotional or some other personal reason. So Giggle decided to play their interaction out with actors and that’s why it’s based off of a true story. What y’all think?
This was a whole K-short story drama.... Goodness I was invested!!
This is based on a true story.
This is actually based on a true story my friend 😢things like that are heartbreaking
I understand why he told her to abort. They were 18, having a child at that age, especially in SK would’ve ruined their lives, I can understand and even sympathise. The fact that he ran, he ghosted her and ran is inexcusable. As she said, she was only 18 as well, she had to deal with it on her own, the abortion, the loneliness, the fear, deal with the disapproval of society/school etc, all on her own, with no help, then 10 years later he comes not to apologise but to throw money at her, for what? Forgiveness? Make himself feel better? It certainly wasn’t for her. I’m glad she walked away. Nobody needs such cowardly and toxic people in their life.
why do you think its only South Korea thats bad dude?? come to India, if you get pregnant early before marriage, no-one is gonna appreciate that here too!! also, teen pregnancies shouldn't be supported anywhere. its pregnant teens who should be supported. if you understand the basic difference
also, honestly no one is wrong in this video!!
abortion is illegal in SK.
@@MultiDarkAngel91 no it's pure legal
There is nothing to understand here, 18 years mean legal major age in many Countries and usually the 18 year old is capable of understanding the consequences of downing their pants but he choosed to do only to escape and run away right in the time of consequences co-ward if he really worried about his family he should have choosen to close his things in pant tight.
Everything happens for a reason, their is no such thing that is "inexcusable" in this world
She is 100000% correct. He should beg for forgiveness for the rest of his life. He owes her his life . 5:45 If he is sorry, he should pay her a million dollars. Seriously.
For the abortion??
Both were responsible!! She was in as well
Where is the kid??? Seven feet underground!!!
Why the fight then??
Well being sorry is one thing but giving one million dollars is completely different thing. She is not raising the child. So it's not like he needed to give money for child support. It may sound rude but he doesn't owe her money. Yeah i am not saying that what he did was correct but I would be disappointed if she accepted money from him. I would lose my sympathy for her in that case cause i would feel that she was doing all this just for the money.
@DolceMar56 cause he left her. They where probably dating when this happened she was insulted and he got nothing he did nothing. She covered for all the expenses of the abortion he just left. He does owe her an apology. He was scared.? What about her. He has no excuse
Mad , the only thing he did was hv Seggs . She choose to abort , she could hv just kept if she wanted it so much
I love these adults just sit and talk, most ppl would stand up and start fighting and things like that.
Coz this is very serious topic
@Xixe566 yes i know, that's why im saying that these adult don't start fighting, they sit calm and talk..
Bro people do that, why you acting surprise like, obviously everyone is not the same and so what if they did fight they have freaking feelings. Gosh
@KarizmaJohnson-qr2lp do u know what i mean by 'most' ? I don't think u do
@@michalbakon582 you're talking like it's a bad thing. What if the girl was fighting? Would it be wrong.
The fact that i thought this was real. But this made me cry😭 This was such GREAT acting! I can feel the pain in her sobs. The guy also did very great! ❤
Crying on a random Thursday over some random people on the internet was not on my list today 😭😭
It was not on mine either because it brought back memories that I had put away, but I am glad that she finally got to say something😢
@@stefaniekern2916 oh I'm sorry, hope you feel better soon ^^
@@gollum.writes thank you it was a really long time ago and I have children now that are grown, but if this happened to one of them, my heart would shatter because it’s not easy and it’s loneliest thing. I’m OK I truly am but my heart breaks when girls have to go through this, especially by themselves
This is obviously staged. They’re acting
@@Sofia-ui9nl i know, but it's based on a real story
Hope younger generations watch this so they will realize what consequences of their wrong choices
Someone needs to cast these two in a drama because damn they got me here crying! 😭😭😭
"I still hear the crying sound of our baby in my dreams" this line broke something in me which will never heal😢 All those innocent mothers who would have raised their kids but couldnt... may God grand yall the best place in paradise..... I'm kinda scared meeting the wrong partner cuz people like him still exist :(
The girl broke my heart. It's sad that this isn't just a one shot -- this happens far too often.
The acting was so realistic😭 … The way she portrayed that character and the emotions!!!
Feels like watching drama..
I unfortunately tried to break up with a boyfriend and he wasn't having it and that night he beat and left me with a gift. I kept that gift and she's still with me to this day! She's married and has 2 beautiful boys and I'm so glad that I never thought of ending that life. I worked and went thru it all alone. I never hid anything from my dear sweet girl and she thanks me every year that she becomes a year older that I gave her life! things happen when you have no moral guidance and you have to face up to it! Live and learn and don't blame or regret just move on!
That is some amazing acting right there. They should both be commended for their art.
their acting looks so real though..i can feel the emotion
She owned that character
I think its not too much about the lost child, but rather how little signifiance she is to him.
Everything is about himself, his future, his parent, but not a single thought about her.
Her words were definitely to make him feel guilty, because technically you dont hear the sound of a crying baby, but the sound of a baby's heartbeat would be more believable.
She would have expected him to appear torn and sloppy from guilt, but he came back GLOWING. I think that definitely sets her off.
But its a recontruction, so im just saying 😄
Tbh she was making him feel guilty. It's not that he is not wrong but there's no way she would be that sad for a unwanted baby even after 10 yrs. And abortion is only possible before the development of the heart so there's literally no way she can hear the baby's heartbeat, not to say anything about baby's cry. It's just absurd.Just like you said it's all about how little significant she was to him that he can easily abandon her in that condition. Again there's nothing he can do after 10 yrs. It's all over, for better or worse. Throwing money isn't a solution.
He really seems full of it.. I hope she can heal with someone else and I hope he comes to understand what he did back then and what he did now.. before he can move on also
@@lamma746unfortunately he'll probably never change don't get me wrong people can change but it's the fact that they don't want to that's the most devastating part...
@@gossip_girl_xoxo2003he’s an ACTOR.
@@gossip_girl_xoxo2003Change is inevitable whether the person wants to or not
This is just a skit so I guess we’ll never know what really happened because I’m pretty sure some details were kept out because they were too personal
That guy is so incredibly handsome, someone cast him.
Oh lord, that broke my heart. I can't imagine how many teenage girls go through this every day around the world. I've been crying for 10 minutes, thinking about all those who are abandoned alone by their family and their girlfriend after this.
It's all scripted
@@URFAVGURL_ZAIZAI elle parle d'un fait reel la
@@URFAVGURL_ZAIZAIYe but it happens in real life, i get sexualized all the time and i agree that A SORRY can't fix those problems and traumas.
@@URFAVGURL_ZAIZAIbased on a real story
@@leonafani22 oh I thought this was scripted cuz some said it -
I want to see her in the next kdrama she would for sure kill her role.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Oh my goodness, I was wondering if this was real.
I was about to say a counselor should have been present to mediate the situation because both persons are in pain.
My heart broke for both of them.
I was also about to say this should have been done privately, but thankfully this is a reenactment. Phew.
Well done to the actors. You got me good.
I just really hope the parties this is based on get the help and counseling needed, or else this will destroy and eat their souls.
I really wish the best for both parties. I feel so bad for the young lady and what she went through at school and the daily torment.
After years of watching Iyanla Vanzant helping families and people in situations like this, I can't help but pray they face the emotions and hurt, but come out healed or on the journey to healing.
I hurts my heart seeing people so broken. You just want to embrace them and let them know, it is going to be okay.
It doesn’t matter whether it’s the truth or just acting; it’s still a good lesson for teenagers (16-20) to avoid doing things they might regret. It’s important to control yourself and your feelings.
Wowwww..... Bravo to these young actors.
The way they embraced the people they are portraying had me heartbroken & in tears for the young lady.
I didn't think I was going to stay after reading that this was reconstructed ... but these two pulled me in completely.
This hit close to home since I too was in the same position. However, I was the one to run ... I refused to allow my parents to dictate my life decisions for me. I didn't care one way or the other if the father stayed with me or not... which he didn't. Later I found out he was engaged to someone in the Philippines & although heartbreaking at the age of 17, he became another piece of male trash in my life.
However, unfortunately.. some countries are different & I'm sure it was devastating for this young lady to go through that emotional crisis alone. Abortions not only hurt physically ... but above all Emotionally. It is something that you live with for the rest of your life.
I hope this young lady that they were portraying is doing well and enjoying the happiness she deserves.
As for the young man ... well... I pity him not. If you can't stand up and take responsibility of a life you created ... or at least being there for her while she went through what HE wanted her to do .. than he is in the same pile of trash.
She is CRAZY her acting is PERFECT she embodies her character so well and I would be completely fooled by her if I didn’t know this was based off of a true story
Great acting had me believing it was the real couple.☹️
😂😂
Wow, the girl’s true story she is so strong and sending love, strength and support towards that girl ❤
i truly feel bad for the girl she doesnt deserve this pain i couldve seen in her eyes she looked very upset.
Wel... aren't you glad that she's just an actress then? lol
@@rkhandlestill happen every day everywhere
@@Corapaslemagasin but don’t feel bad for this specific actress
this almost feels real damn giggle u hire really good actors
And to think someone that self centered and despicable went into medical care. I wouldn't trust them with my care if they were like this.
Unfortunately most of them have god complexes...
I’m shocked that they’re actors. Girl has me bawling. I hope that the people that this story was based on were able to find healing and move on in their lives.
While listening i started to cry for her. It is not easy for her to feel this heartbreaking. But this guy should do something else for her. I dont know what but he should not be ghosted again. She is a women. A bravery woman. If had a chance to speak that guy. I would say don't leave her alone. Plz don't do that again.
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She needs a contract I can imagine the real person that send the story how relieved she must felt seeing this and finally getting it out 😢
Well-acted and very intense scene. I am sure many women go through this. Men can walk away but women can't. Our society excuses men starting with "boys will be boys." Women are blamed and told they are at fault.
That man has absolutely no empathy, it literally hurts to watch. I just feel so bad for that woman that went through all of that alone... He's such a scumbag...
Yeah it’s crazy how he didn’t care about how she and the baby felt I would have still stayed no matter what my parents said.
Woahhhhh that acting was fucking impeccable!! This happens so often thank you for showing this xx
Give her an actress contract rn
This actually broke my heart as a woman and a mother myself I feel so sad for the woman who had to really go through this alone
The acting is so real i am crying society is too cruel for girls 😢
She’s so strong ❤ he doesn’t deserve her anyway
People like that man never feel remorse. How could you abandon a young mother? With no financial help or anything! Some people are so outrageous and only think about their future, not the ones their impacting!
Still women fault for having sex with no protection.
Such a painful experience for the young Lady and a trauma so hard to get over. I hope she heals and learn to forgive herself and move on. Both of them need to forgive themselves. Life happens and no matter the challenges we face, we must teach ourselves to keep living and winning 💪.
Much Love❤ from this friend CHARITY from NIGERIA. Peace ✌️ and Love 💕
I'm living a message to the women who would relate to this story.
Stay strong. Keep on living. And move forward.
And to the single moms who continued to live with children after suffering from this kind of men, I'm so proud of you.
I think we all cried.. the woman is such a good actress that really felt emotion.. those ppl really exist in all country this situation happens more than what y think it's.. devastating
she didn't need you 10 years ago, so she doesn't need you now. you failed to be there when she needed you, how shameless to show up after how much she has been trying to heal.
that's how i feel, but i know that that shamelessness and bravery from his end is what both needed to start recovering from this trauma. people make mistakes, some bigger than others. i hope both get to heal with time ❤.
It’s understandable that the girl is still hurting. Forgiveness can be a long and difficult process . But I really hope she will be stronger as days goes by and then find the strength to heal and move forward .
That was acting
She might forgive, but not forget: the guilt remains of committing a crime( the silent cry of the baby..." Mom, please don't kill me")
- For this whole time I freaking thought this was real ! The girl expressed those feelings so truly that made me feel like crying...She's amazing but I can't imagine how much pain that real woman had to suffered from ! It's really heartbreaking....
It takes two...to be responsible....& most of the time: the male ignores/ avoids the fact.
I knew from a few moments at the start that this is acting, obviously because of the dialog, and their act.. But, the girl suddenly get immersed in her character at the end. Good job
bro i didnt know it was actors till i read the comments 😭 they did a really good job
THIS WAS ACTING?! i tried so hard not to compliment them both bcs i thought they were the real ex couple. But their amazing 😭😭
This made my cry, because so many men like this are out there. So fucking many. Some women do get the child and are overwhelmed because they have to work, household, child raising on there own. The others get an abortion and have to deal with this. It hurts. I hope, that some men who watch this, will finally open up there eyes and change their mindset. Often unfortunately, they say it is too much to ask and it is their life. But meanwhile, women need to suffer the consequences of there actions. It's like an old tale. The woman in the video did it correctly, do not forgive him. He only got there to make him feel better, not anyone else.
How abt just use contraception better .
The actress made ne cry. She is fabulous. Oh, the part of the hearing their baby cry every night, she got me! Talented!
I cried so much relating to this girl, except for the ten years later part.
God bless the girl with deep and true healing from God in the blood of Lord Jesus Christ I pray🙏🏼🕊
The actress is crazy good, i hope she’ll have a part for a kdrama
this is scripted obv bt noic acting guys😢
It's mentioned so yes 😂
no they are acting out the real story because the real ppl did not want to show their faces
It’s a real story not the true people
I feel so awful for the real girl that had to go through this. In some way also, I feel bad for the guy too. Some people have overbearing parents that want their children to have a different life than they did either to profit off of them or to live vicariously through the children. I think that if the guy didn't have any pressure from his parents, he probably would have supported the girl instead of telling her to abort their baby. Overall, it's a sad story for both of them. It could have been so different if things were for them.
I’m sure this one of the many true stories out there. Women who are reading this, please know your worth because if you don’t, he will tell you how much you are worth. Unfortunately, there are too many men like this piece of 💩and coward in this world. Love yourself and put yourself first and always. You are love and you are worth it❤❤.
Thank you. ❤
This was tough to watch 💔😭 I hope she finds a way to cope with this loss and hardship I wish I could give her a hug and be there for her. Hope she finds the support she needs in someone someday soon 😢
They're actors
I know they are actors but the story is real so even though they are actors someone somewhere still went threw this exact same situation and it's sad that anyone would ever go threw something like this 😔
It's so sad how easily men throw around "you should get an abortion." Like it's easy, like it won't affect anyone. And then to not be there for her. This is so sad.
Why is not easy?
@@AtrotiousAnti oh I don't know maybe the thought of killing your own child is frightening
I cried for the girl - because this is a reenactment of a true story, this story has probably happened to so many girls and women. And to not have anyone to lean on when you're scared, your body is hurting, and always wondering if it was the right decision... I couldn't imagine how torturous that would be.
YALL THEY ARE JUST ACTING (and they clearly did a good job!)
"This video was directed based on a real story."
@@jungersrulesThe people in the video, are they actors or the real people?
Actors @@Alleviate-z9x
@@Alleviate-z9xthey are actors but this is based on real story
This is real kid, I feel so sorry for that women.
Omg thats was surreal, the acting was on point, and you could really feel the emotion
I wanna give the girl a hug 🫂 🤗 i dont want her to.cry ❤❤❤❤ shame on the guy
If you hug a girl she would probably cry for help
@nswag2706 if she appreciate it if she hugs Me back if not the best thing I could do I will pray for her 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 she will thanks me later if I was very sad or crying she will be there for me we never know 🙏🏼
I feel like I was watching a drama but I was right. The acting was amazing!
Shameless. ..i am.m happy she didn't forgive him
If this is just a portrayal based on a true story, the girl is amazing...great actress...
Dayum the acting of girl 😍
In situations like this, the man only only cares about how he thinks he looks in this situation. I hope for all women in these situations thrive and finds love in themselves and family.
she cried her eyes out and I feel it in my core but dang the "giggle" logo on the upper right kinda ruins the mood ya know :/
damn, i swear im literally going to start an acting agency for them, the emotions damn