This is the reason that EVERY Narcissist does and will cheat!

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  • Опубліковано 17 вер 2024
  • Why all narcs cheat

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  • @roxanne2977
    @roxanne2977 4 місяці тому +19

    They thrive off dysfunction. You’re right on as usual!

  • @jesusknowsallaboutit409
    @jesusknowsallaboutit409 4 місяці тому +26

    😢👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽The Narc Looks for a:
    ~ Person with low or no self esteem
    ~ Person w/o boundaries
    ~ Person who's already broken
    ~ Person who they can get over on
    ~ Person that they can cheat on and and take them back
    ~ Person who will give them chance after chance after chance - 10th, 11th, 100tb chance
    ~ Person who will still celebrate them even after they have hurt the person
    Praying for God to grant us grace and give us strength to continue to see and accept what we've allowed, but trusting God to do the change in us from the inside out!
    We are strong!!! 💪🏽💪🏽

  • @likahartzenberg-tn9wd
    @likahartzenberg-tn9wd 4 місяці тому +31

    I hope people take Hario's teachings serious, iv been walking a road with this man, Hario, for 2andhalf years. He is send by God YAHWEH and if you havent taken Hario serious yet, make time. You will gain, get educated and heal *******

  • @darricnail
    @darricnail 4 місяці тому +21

    This man tells a lot of truth. I’m thankful for his wisdom over the last 4yrs.

  • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
    @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 4 місяці тому +12

    Yep! This is why they struggle so much in the end especially if it’s a long term relationship because they KNOW you can take their abuse and they aren’t sure the new person last as long as you did…. Narcs are freaking out when they end a relationship with a longterm partner…. The anxiety is real. Watching them is like watching a made man having a break down. This is why they do so many things to you because they are literally having a mental breakdown which leads them to doing ANYTHING to get your attention…. ANYTHING! Narcissist number one requirement is not having boundaries and not being aware of it… 🙁❤️🙏

  • @elnorareddick615
    @elnorareddick615 4 місяці тому +12

    Wow… I can’t believe I’ve spent almost 40 years and so many 🚩

    • @kenzieel
      @kenzieel 3 місяці тому

      My mom left my dad…she was with him off and on due to him leaving and cheating all the time. Now he’s trying to go back…after about 10 years gone. I didn’t even know anything about a narcissist…this is a new term and revelation. I only learned after my recent relationship with a narcissist, then I realized my dad was a narcissist….wow!

  • @OnlymeTeeTee
    @OnlymeTeeTee 4 місяці тому +5

    100% correct …they all do .Always looking for the next high! They also continuously try to go back to the same men or women! ❤❤

  • @monarene44
    @monarene44 4 місяці тому +5

    Serial predators gotta be predatory.

    • @KimFuller-fh5bw
      @KimFuller-fh5bw 3 місяці тому

      I was 19 when I began dating my ex. The girl he betrayed me for was 2 years behind me and they were friends before we dated.

  • @WoW-S9105
    @WoW-S9105 4 місяці тому +8

    How disgustingly truthful, this is…🤮

  • @Stephanie-ss9oe
    @Stephanie-ss9oe 4 місяці тому +3

    My last words to the narc "You coming into my life was a blessing. You blessed me with the awareness of how very little I must think of myself and for that I thank you."

  • @patricebeene646
    @patricebeene646 4 місяці тому +6

    BAM!!! FACTS!!!

  • @franconaHayes
    @franconaHayes 4 місяці тому +3

    Please my people hear what he's saying we have to start with our kids teaching them early on love your self because if not you will get what he's teaching. right on real black man I so do agree keep preaching🙏💯💯💯.

  • @Librarian322
    @Librarian322 4 місяці тому +2

    You know we say these narcs aren’t human. Or They are- but they are so messed up as a result of their reaction to their childhood trauma. We had it too trauma - but for whatever reason we care too much and they -not any- ! I appreciate all you do Hario educating and making it easier for us to understand! It is sad that these folks leave a wake of destruction and sit in church . When they down at the alter-what are they praying- the 3 people they were either this week! The destruction they leave behind and they do not seem to be a respecter of persons either. 😢

    • @zenapowell6701
      @zenapowell6701 4 місяці тому

      Good evening! Maybe they're looking for the next 3 or 4 new supplies! WOW! Continued Blessings...❤️🙏

  • @KimFuller-fh5bw
    @KimFuller-fh5bw 3 місяці тому +1

    All we argued about were about boundaries. He tested my boundaries left and right and ultimately betrayed me by doing the very thing I told him not to do with a smirk on his face.

  • @esmelouise9046
    @esmelouise9046 4 місяці тому +2

    IF YOU FIND URSELF ASKING “AM I THE NARC” ASK URSELF THIS…..DID U KNOW WHAT U WERE DOING?

  • @kieshaspady4923
    @kieshaspady4923 4 місяці тому +4

    Enough Said Powerful Message 💯 it's good to learn something new every day thank You Hario

  • @esmelouise9046
    @esmelouise9046 4 місяці тому +1

    ITS NOT THE INTELLIGENCE ITS THE INTENT

  • @LindaRose-wy8se
    @LindaRose-wy8se 4 місяці тому +2

    Good night Hario truth sometimes hurts but needed. ❤

  • @TamaraSamuel-tl3xl
    @TamaraSamuel-tl3xl 4 місяці тому +4

    Thank you for couching me I be looking at your videos for 3 weeks and it help me a lot thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏

  • @patricebeene646
    @patricebeene646 4 місяці тому +3

    TEACH PREACH!!

  • @RS-ww8jo
    @RS-ww8jo 4 місяці тому +2

    Hey Hario
    It’s been awhile. Glad you are still out there helping everybody. I healed 5 years and ran into another narc he was a friend. Seen the red flags jumping out at me. Lessons learned protected me. I have to thank you and other Utube help for helping me learn. Listen everybody learning will help save you from getting caught up with another. Listen to Hario and you will learn and be able to protect yourself. Keep on doing the great job Hario ! God bless you 🤗🙏🏼👍

  • @angielaprade3649
    @angielaprade3649 4 місяці тому +1

    When you are healed and whole you see the signs right away.

  • @WoW-S9105
    @WoW-S9105 4 місяці тому +5

    Well this makes me positively nauseous 🤮

  • @ladyvirgo013
    @ladyvirgo013 4 місяці тому

    Truth 💣 bombs. Spot on coach ❤ We Win

  • @jesusknowsallaboutit409
    @jesusknowsallaboutit409 4 місяці тому +2

    Oh my goodness.... I see why I attract the same type of guy!!! 🥺🥺🥺

  • @SuperReasonabledoubt
    @SuperReasonabledoubt 3 місяці тому

    Two tongue serpents.. Demonic spirits
    . Lizards ... boundaries shouldn't be necessary..

  • @karenflowers4079
    @karenflowers4079 4 місяці тому +1

    Very good Hario. I shared the video

  • @morettarodgers2003
    @morettarodgers2003 4 місяці тому +3

    I received this message with gladness thank you hario.

  • @patricebeene646
    @patricebeene646 4 місяці тому +4

    Good evening Hario

  • @jeannettekyleschiarimalfor9434
    @jeannettekyleschiarimalfor9434 4 місяці тому

    TATTERED HEAD AUNTEE
    JUST HELPED YOUR 100K
    CONGRATULATIONS ❤
    GOD
    BLESS

  • @WoW-S9105
    @WoW-S9105 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you, just reminded me of something pivotal

  • @feliciabennett2729
    @feliciabennett2729 4 місяці тому

    Tell the truth 💯

  • @caz306
    @caz306 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for message ❤🎉 Just what I needed to hear.

  • @KanikaNewsome-pj6jb
    @KanikaNewsome-pj6jb 4 місяці тому

    Always on point

  • @J.O.561
    @J.O.561 4 місяці тому +3

    👑 HariO!! 👏🏾🔥🔥

  • @ElisaForHealing
    @ElisaForHealing 4 місяці тому +3

    Hey Hario!❤

  • @emmjay9190
    @emmjay9190 4 місяці тому +3

    This video!!! 🔥🔥

  • @KanikaNewsome-pj6jb
    @KanikaNewsome-pj6jb 4 місяці тому

    Thank you!🙏🏾

  • @ladybird491
    @ladybird491 Місяць тому

    Some damn narc cheat on me now and i am going ham on them, we physically fighting. I decided to not even go for another committed relationship, i am sick of rhe game and people too fake, too many damn narcs now

  • @ZOELIFE23-365
    @ZOELIFE23-365 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for this thank you 🙏❤

  • @ZOELIFE23-365
    @ZOELIFE23-365 4 місяці тому

    Wow!!! that really hit me right now I was Insecure I didn't know who I was i was blind out here. You're speaking Facts Sir God bless you❤

  • @11216mel
    @11216mel 4 місяці тому +1

    True story

  • @tynicole1513
    @tynicole1513 4 місяці тому

    Hario!!! ❤just checking in. I changed my screen name, but this is Ty Nicole lol

  • @yungkaos3500
    @yungkaos3500 4 місяці тому

    great videos as always boss man 🔥

  • @zenapowell6701
    @zenapowell6701 4 місяці тому

    Good evening Hario! I pray that all is well with you and your loved ones. From my experience, everything you said is on point. Thanks for sharing and validating everything that is in my mind after dealing with my ex narcissist. Have a wonderful evening. Continued Blessings! ❤❤️

  • @ladybird491
    @ladybird491 Місяць тому

    No such thing as a loyal narc

  • @leveticus1461
    @leveticus1461 3 місяці тому

    I disagree. It's not about confidence, at least in my experience with dealing with narcissists in my family. It's the empathy you have for them.

  • @frankdavf4599
    @frankdavf4599 3 місяці тому

    Thnx Mr Hairo

  • @kimberlyartis6515
    @kimberlyartis6515 4 місяці тому +2

    Narc looking for the perfect Fool, looks don't matter, anyone will do,..if a tree said: Hello it's now supply,. love @ first leaf...

  • @Kia-v2p
    @Kia-v2p 3 місяці тому

    He use my trauma as his story line sad as married man he wants feed off my pain nope ignore him and his wife she’s just as bad as him

  • @crystalclimenhage7159
    @crystalclimenhage7159 4 місяці тому

    Jesse Meester from 90 day fiancee is a narcissist and we don't know of him cheating

  • @Cucurigu813
    @Cucurigu813 4 місяці тому

    Super

  • @christinaclc423
    @christinaclc423 4 місяці тому +3

    Hello hario

  • @feliciabennett2729
    @feliciabennett2729 4 місяці тому

    They know Fo Sho

  • @LordIzonubware1111
    @LordIzonubware1111 4 місяці тому +1

    I have the most informative life experience with A narcissist Husband it’s insane and I the Empath did not break me but left me to suffer and die alone but I resurrected myself and need to get help to share my true life story 2:47

  • @lucybarreto8516
    @lucybarreto8516 4 місяці тому +2

    Hi hario.. 👋

  • @pysq8
    @pysq8 2 місяці тому

    🔥

  • @Nika94777
    @Nika94777 4 місяці тому

    💯 TRUE

  • @williamwashington4633
    @williamwashington4633 4 місяці тому +2

    HARIO what’s up

  • @konangal16
    @konangal16 4 місяці тому

    Kindly put a video on how long a narcs victim/new supply will survive with him appx?

  • @azailialankster657
    @azailialankster657 4 місяці тому

    ❤ Hario

  • @michaeltaylor9096
    @michaeltaylor9096 4 місяці тому

    FACTS

  • @elizabethg.7873
    @elizabethg.7873 4 місяці тому +1

    💯🙏🏼💕

  • @valuvalbates9618
    @valuvalbates9618 4 місяці тому

    Keep it real

  • @esmelouise9046
    @esmelouise9046 4 місяці тому

    IF U ASKIN IF U THE NARC ASK URSELF THIS, DID YOU ACCUSE OTHERS OF WHAT YOU ARE DOING IN A WAY WHERE YOU CANT BE CALLED OUT?

  • @KassieP-sf6nz
    @KassieP-sf6nz 4 місяці тому +3

    All narcissists don't cheat you have to be more specific some don't even like sex yes they may talk or flirt with other people behind your back without sleeping with them. Are you speaking from your experience? I have been doing research on this and watch lots of shows with narcissist lie detector tests most of them get caught cheating but pass the no sex part

    • @harioovadtop2827
      @harioovadtop2827  3 місяці тому

      If the narcissist didn’t cheat, how did they gaslight you? What makes you think it was a narcissist?

  • @beanzthecomedian
    @beanzthecomedian 4 місяці тому

    Is this a cult? This man is teaching hate