coming back home from an exchange year | regrets & advice

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  • @andyfox1979
    @andyfox1979 Рік тому +118

    The hardest part for me about returning home was that nobody had any idea what I experienced and largely nobody really cares.

    • @aliciafuchstrantidis
      @aliciafuchstrantidis  Рік тому +10

      true. I hope you were able to find other exchange students that could relate to what you experienced too, it really helped me.

    • @lemonlemon5984
      @lemonlemon5984 Рік тому +1

      because u have experience that not all everyone have :)))

  • @elizabeth_jross
    @elizabeth_jross 2 роки тому +41

    I got back from my exchange year in Germany around five months ago. This literally summarizes exactly how I've been feeling. It feels like it was a dream and never happened, but it actually did. It's crazy. It's been rough to try to get used to America again, but it's slowly getting better. This video is exactly how it feels to return to your home country!!

  • @Queensverdant
    @Queensverdant 2 роки тому +20

    thank you for this video, you hit the point when you said that nobody can relate to your experience except for other exchange students. I came back to Germany this summer after a year in Canada and felt about the same as you

  • @mae2880_
    @mae2880_ 6 місяців тому +3

    I came back to my home country yesterday from Texas and it is like you said probably the hardest thing i had to experience in my life. I’m trying to move on but it is so hard to go back to a life that’s not yours anymore. 💔you’re video really helped me realize I’m not alone in this situation, thank you 🙏🏼

    • @aliciafuchstrantidis
      @aliciafuchstrantidis  6 місяців тому

      I’m happy I could help!❤️ I promise it’ll get better as time passes

  • @chiaraaa23
    @chiaraaa23 Рік тому +7

    Tsym for this video, I just came back from my exchange semester in Germany and it is so difficult to process everything rn. I'm relieved that I'm not the only one to feel this way

  • @Almerayo
    @Almerayo 9 днів тому

    I came back from Korea about 3 days ago and it has been really hard getting adapted to my home country and my old life again. Everything feels weird, and I feel like even though I can talk about my experience with friends and family they can't really understand how an amazing experience it was, and also I feel like they get sick of hearing me talking about all the good stuff in Korea.
    I hope it gets better with time but I am sure that I will be back.

  • @theajohnson8423
    @theajohnson8423 3 місяці тому

    Thank you, this was a comforting watch. I’ve been feeling really lonely since coming back from study abroad

  • @danaasher2591
    @danaasher2591 2 роки тому +8

    Really good and truthful video....a "MUST" see video for all exchange students. Ever thought about writing a book...or a screenplay about your experiences?

  • @gayauzivert9221
    @gayauzivert9221 Рік тому

    I’m at the first month of exchange year in Germany (I’m from Italy), and I’m already thinking about when the life that I will have built here will be gone…. and I’m also afraid of not being able to realise that I’m just not living a dream… but I want to be positive ☺️🙏🏽😭

  • @alexpalmer7196
    @alexpalmer7196 5 місяців тому +2

    AND I AM LITERALLY GOING TO HOUSTON TEXAS WITH THE FLEX PROGRAM AS WELL

  • @sina13_
    @sina13_ Місяць тому

    I came home a week ago from just 3 months in Canada and I never expected it to be THIS hard to leave. I wanted to extend but it just wasn't possible and now I kind of regret not trying it harder. I still feel a little lost and alone because I just miss my host family and everyone there so much. I feel like this urge to come to visit in summer because I don't want to wait 2 years, but maybe it's also a way to distract myself from the fact that I have to start my normal life back here in Germany again. I think I should just be happy that it happend and that I had the opportunity but I just wanna go back so bad. My fear is that the people there will forget me because I was just there for a few months..
    Thank you for the video! Are you still in Contact with the people you met on exchange?

  • @alexpalmer7196
    @alexpalmer7196 5 місяців тому

    IM LEAVING FOR MY EXCHANGE YEAR TO TEXAS IN TWO DAYS

  • @sebastianmacclemmy6460
    @sebastianmacclemmy6460 Рік тому +1

    Hey, great video. I’m an exchange student right now at UPenn. I live in Mexico and school here is so much better, I have met so many people, and feel much more alive than I did in my home university (it sucks, honestly). Rn I’m thinking of extending my exchange period, but I would need to pay for next semester’s tuition (I’m currently paying my home university’s tuition which is much less expensive). I fortunately can pay for the semester, but I do not know if it’s worth it (I won’t be getting a degree here) I have to decide and I am so anxious. What are your thoughts? Thanks in advance

    • @aliciafuchstrantidis
      @aliciafuchstrantidis  Рік тому +1

      Hello! I think that you should extend your exchange period, because if you’re able to pay for the tuition I definitely think you should, because it seems to make you really happy and it’s a great college where you’re getting a lot of experience that’s going to look good on your resume even if you don’t get a degree. I payed for my whole exchange year as well even though I didn’t get a degree and it was the best decision of my life and has been beneficial for my life afterwards as well.

  • @Emily.0730
    @Emily.0730 2 роки тому +3

    would you suggest going with EF, if yes then how much did yours cost if you dont mind me asking?

    • @aliciafuchstrantidis
      @aliciafuchstrantidis  2 роки тому +1

      hii, yes I definitely recommend them! they are always there for you and have many years of experience. expect the program fee to be over 10 000 euro

    • @Emily.0730
      @Emily.0730 2 роки тому

      @@aliciafuchstrantidis okkk tysm

  • @elsalovefors
    @elsalovefors 10 місяців тому

    Jag åker hem om ungefär 3,5 månader. Jag saknar Sverige väldigt mycket. Men samtidigt känner jag mig inte riktigt redo att gå tillbaka till mitt gamla liv. Jag kommer ha hela sommaren att vänja mig med Sverige igen men jag är väldigt rädd för hur jag kommer känna mig.

    • @aliciafuchstrantidis
      @aliciafuchstrantidis  10 місяців тому +1

      Jag förstår dig helt, det kommer bli svårt men du kommer klara det!!

  • @lemonlemon5984
    @lemonlemon5984 Рік тому

    how you do to maintain your relationship with your international friends?

    • @aliciafuchstrantidis
      @aliciafuchstrantidis  Рік тому

      Hi! To be honest I’m not the best at it, but I keep up with them through social media and sometimes FaceTime

    • @lemonlemon5984
      @lemonlemon5984 Рік тому

      @@aliciafuchstrantidis so good, I'm also traveling exchange, about 2 months left, I'm confuse between coming back home and extend the period, can you suggest me?

    • @aliciafuchstrantidis
      @aliciafuchstrantidis  Рік тому

      I would extend the period if I was you but I obviously don’t know your situation so do what feels right for you:)

    • @lemonlemon5984
      @lemonlemon5984 Рік тому

      @@aliciafuchstrantidis about the furture, the semester in the country home university, the graduate and other plans, I think come back home and prepare for a comeback in the furture is more reasonable :)))

    • @eatjinskookie7156
      @eatjinskookie7156 Рік тому

      @@lemonlemon5984I’m assuming you’re there now, how’s it going for you may I ask

  • @katinkabachtengberg366
    @katinkabachtengberg366 2 роки тому +2

    Which organization did you go to the us with? :)

    • @aliciafuchstrantidis
      @aliciafuchstrantidis  2 роки тому +1

      EF and personally I had a great experience with them!

    • @katinkabachtengberg366
      @katinkabachtengberg366 2 роки тому

      @@aliciafuchstrantidis that’s great! I wad thinking of going with EF, but I was really scared because I have heard a lot of bad things about them

    • @aliciafuchstrantidis
      @aliciafuchstrantidis  2 роки тому

      yeah I’ve heard a lot of nightmare stories about them as well. unfortunately I think it’s just all about luck and I bet every company has negative parts too.

  • @dana-lo4xr
    @dana-lo4xr 3 місяці тому

    Did you retake your school year after the exchange? That’s something I’m really scared for

    • @aliciafuchstrantidis
      @aliciafuchstrantidis  3 місяці тому

      Yes I did! It was totally fine, nothing to be afraid of:)

    • @dana-lo4xr
      @dana-lo4xr 3 місяці тому

      @@aliciafuchstrantidis but is it like that for every exchange student or only when u choose easy subjects?

    • @aliciafuchstrantidis
      @aliciafuchstrantidis  3 місяці тому

      It depends on your country!