It made me so sad when Abbie said “people will think I don’t take care of our kids” just because Matt is an involved father. As a once single mom who did EVERYTHING, now to have a husband that helps so much and shares the load, it’s SO nice to have the help, but I still do so much, and I KNOW Abbie does too! I absolutely love how you both normalize BOTH parents sharing the load, working together, and being considerate of each other! You both are doing amazing and you’re great role models!❤
@@brxannamxchelle5987and she had a c-section right? I had an easy vaginal delivery but unfortunately I had a perineal tear with complications that took more than 12 weeks to fully heal and it was hell! I can’t imagine having 2 kids to take care of while recovering from major surgery! My husband was at work all day and I have no family nearby so with just one baby it was still a major struggle. If dad is there and able to help, he better help. That’s literally his job as a dad. People need to stop acting like mom has to do everything by herself or she’s lazy or a bad mom. It’s so toxic. As a culture, we need to normalize dads being equally responsible and capable involved parents whenever possible.
Matt does this on purpose. The 5% of the time he has the kids he films so it looks like he’s doing more of the work. I bet you 95% of the time Abby has the kids. It’s all an ego thing for Matt and what narcissists do. He gets to feel good, Abby feels down and relies on him more
Yeah it is, but YOU try being patient when you're THAT tired all the time and constantly on the verge of an emotional breakdown. This attitude is NOT normal, trust me.
My dauther was a constant crier. It's so hard to deal with, you feel like you're the only person on earth who has a baby so difficult but you're not alone. Hang in there guys, we're cheering you on and keep you in our thoughts. ❤😊
I agree my daughter was the same it was colic once you figure out what's causing it less colicky baby and as much as we love them when it's a colicky baby it effects you because your so drained and tired because they don't sleep and cry a lot my daughter would be up every hour and a half n by the time I fell asleep after she fell asleep I was dying of no sleep
My hat goes off to anyone who has a crier and made it through . It must be so hard. I had a couple of nights where nothing would soothe my son and I was in a state. The fact people get shamed for it is disgraceful don't judge ask how you can help or don't even ask make a fee lovely dinners and take them over.
this is seriously bringing back traumatic memories of the sleep deprivation I experienced bringing home a new baby with reflux the weekend Covid quarantine started. I also had a two year old and was doing it all alone 24/7 because my husband was traveling for work. Being a parent of two little ones is NO JOKE when it goes on an on with no end in site. I'm so happy you have each other and supportive parents foe everyone's mental health
They get sooo much hate for no reason. I'm sure they love to read comments like yours. Even if you think they've heard it many times before, continue to share the love! ❤
@@babyydollloo I can’t even think of anything negative anyone could say about them! That’s terrible. I agree, let’s continue to share the love! Thanks for your comment!
This man is how every man should be not just as a dad but more importantly to the girl he is with/mother to his child. I love how supportive he is towards his wife and a lot more “men” need to take notes on that.
Am incredibly lucky to have a husband just like Matt, or should I say, even better ( maybe am biased lol) but he's really an amazing dad and husband. He does the night shift daily and also helps with naps during weekends and even during weekdays when he's not super busy with wfh. With my first born, he was also in charge of the night shifts, sitting on the sofa with our baby in his arms because he was a contact sleeper and would only sleep like that. I was also incredibly lucky back then to be able to enjoy my nights. They are true gems. Sometimes I think that I don't deserve him!
I don’t deserve him? !!!! Sorry Lady,but to be parents should be the same work for mom and for dad!! Parents are two persons,aren’t they? I am 70 years old,and happy to see,that it’s getting better for women today..because once,women had to do all,and the « daddy »means:she should be happy she stays at home…. Yes it was so… very hard for us
As a new mum I absolutely LOVED this video !!! I've watched so many "Day in the life" vids with newborns and it made me think my own life was so chaotic lol. It seemed like they have newborns who dont even cry because of what they choose to show. I only have 1 but this was so so relateable. "What's the plan for the day?" "survive!" absolutely!!!
Your baby isn't different to any other kid! They sound EXACTLY like mine. Every waking moment was spent crying. I thought my baby hated me! haha. it will pass!! We're at the 6 week mark now and already babygirl has improved tenfold. If there's one think that saved us it's Colactase!!! Please try it. It's drops that you put in breastmilk/formula to reduce lactose content. She's like a differrent baby now.
Our oldest just turned 2 so we just got out of the 2 under 2 stage! It is so hard but you got this. One thing my mom told me that helped me a lot -- if your toddler is happy in his crib when he wakes up, it is totally ok to let him hang out in there for a bit! The independent time can be good for them and it gives you a minute to breathe sometimes
Yes! I was just about to comment this. We're still in the 2 under 2 stage and there's nothing wrong with giving your babies some time to themselves in their crib. 😊
Ok, no offense but why are you jumping right up to get the oldest boy up the minute he even wiggles? Theres no need. He is perfectly old enough to learn that if he wakes up before a certain time, lets say 7:30 a.m. then he can learn to occupy hinself for a bit while mom and Dad catch a few more winks. I taught my kids this. It was really sweet when they got older and i started noticing them teaching the young ones how to play quietly while mom and dad got anotĥer 30 Minutes or so.
I learned this a several months ago and it was the best advice. Baby practice skills that they learned at other times. I offered two small soft dolls after 12m and I get at least an extra hour sometimes lol
Girl! You did it ALL! Carried those babies for how long?! Don’t be so hard on yourself. You are amazing! Providing food and so much more. You’re doing incredible Abby! 💕
Abby’s ‘That doesn’t seem right 🤨🥱😪’ response in the car is such a mood of early motherhood. The frankness, confusion & exhaustion. You’re both doing such an amazing job! My son was a Velcro baby that screamed to high heavens during those early weeks (he’s now a Velcro toddler but thankfully the screaming has stopped lol) so I can relate to this and how hard it can be (beautiful but hard). You’re so lucky to have your parents around to help support you both through this phase. And what a special time for them with their grandkids 🥲
I'm obsessed with Abbys energy in this. Its so new mom with 2 under 2 and i love it. The chaotic energy is exactly what it feels like! (I also have 2 under 2)
Matt and Abby you’re like my favorite couple on the internet. You don’t portray toxic positivity by staging videos or even your podcast, but are showing the real deal while setting up appropriate boundaries. I don’t need to know what goes on behind closed doors but also aren’t shy by saying that you struggle at times. I’m a social worker and have done papers on the impact of social media on youth. You would be the ones under the positive impact section. Thanks for keeping in real for everyone
Our daughter was exactly like Auggie as a newborn. As soon as she hit 8 weeks and started seeing colours, she became more ok with her surroundings, happier and calmer day by day. She is now 7 months and the most friendly and active baby I have ever seen. Auggie is going to adjust. You're doing a great job, the hard days go by and your children could not have better parents to walk them through life❤
Not mine! Everyone kept saying it'll get better by 6 months. NOPE! Substantially worse! Turns out she had an undiagnosed tongue-tie that I had to fight to get diagnosed and treated at the rather old age of 18 months. She also has life threatening food allergies. And she's Autistic. She didn't start sleeping through the night until she was around 6 YEARS and even then has several very difficult nights every month. And she has lots of crying meltdowns almost daily, so many triggers. I eliminate and reduce the triggers that I can, but life is extra hard with Autism even with the best accommodations. So yeah... for some of us the crying and sleep issues never end.
I love that you all keep it real! My now 7 month old boy cried all the time for 3 months. It was overwhelming and it seemed like everyone else’s newborn was “quiet.” My boy has just been so much more in-tuned with the world around him. He’s observant, and he literally reads your soul. I think he cried so much because he’s a little wizard and all of his knowledge made him colicky. The crying stopped at 3 months ….it gets better for sure!
This is such a cute way to explain this! This might have been my daughter's explanation, she was a crier and still is but she does not take to everyone so I follow her lead she's an empath for sure.
This has to be the most refreshing video for parents to see. The actual real side of parenting that is so often made to look so manageable and easy. Thank you guys for sharing this ❤
What’s even more tear jerking, Matt is when you blink and they are graduating from school! When you look back you just wonder how did they grow up so fast! I believe that while you are raising them you’re so busy with their needs, your spouse, your work, your life that time just slips right out of your fingertips and boom grown children! When I was a new mom my mom told me something that’s now one of the most profound statements…. When they are young they step on your toes but when they are grown they step on your heart! Of course I knew it all back then (not) and I thought Neva… ever not my lil men… well fast forward to after they graduated and I learned a lesson in saying “Neva would my son do such a thing” haha it happens! As a mama bear I always wanted to protect my lil cubs but guess what they grow up and think they know everything too!! Haha Guess I’m just saying enjoy every lil minute bcuz it truly goes to fast! Love all of you and prayers for y’all! ❤️
My kids' high school does a slide show during the graduation ceremony. Makes me cry, every time. We live in a small town, so I have seen all their classmates grow from K-12!
I love how raw and real you two are. You inspire people and you’re so wholesome. Watching this video made me tear up and text my boyfriend that I love him in the middle of an argument. Just because seeing other people be kind and loving with each other at such an exhausting time of life. It does get better, you’ve got this. I was a single mom of five with 3 under 1 🤦♀️ trust me when I say it gets better and you guys are wonderful parents. I’m sorry but I’ve been a silent follower for a long time but also listening to your podcasts to get me through 10 hr shifts at work and I can’t explain how your energy and rawness just help up beat my day. So listening to them makes me feel like we’re long lost friends and finally made me comfortable enough to comment. I wish you lots of rest and the happiest of memories with your beautiful family! P.s. Abby you are even more gorgeous today than the first video I saw years ago, being a mother and wife is just beautiful on you!!
My favorite part of this whole video is how not only that they keep things so real and are so pure but they don’t exploit their children and keep their face hidden for privacy.I love how they are still trying to keep this a couples channel and not a miney hungry family chanel! Keep up the amazing content guys!
My Mum had 3 under 3 before I came along once they were all off at school. Enjoy the ride. You are great partners and it shows the love you have for your children and each other. 👩❤️👨👶👦💕 When you get a moment to take a breath, you will be able to look back on these posts and see how your two grew and developed. 💕
I remember when Matt got so much hate on TT for not being involved enough and now Abbie is being paranoid that people might think she's not taking care for her baby... For that alone you guys are the strongest people I know. I can't imagine having to take care for two kids while you're in your twenties and also being so public about it and everything in your lives. Like even not having kids and just trying to keep a healthy marriage is hard... Or even being alone and trying not to get depressed, wake up and get dressed is sometimes hard. LIFE IS HARD. Imagine having people tell you you're not doing a great job... It's heartbreaking. I'm here to tell you all you're doing a wonderfull job. You make me want to have babies... Going through so much struggle but being surrounded with an abundance of love is so inspiring, brings tears to my eyes... 🥺
My grandparents had two kids under 1, my aunt was born in January, and my dad in December of the same year. This video is just a reminder to pay respect to them because damn, you really need patience and nerves to deal with this everyday. Respect and support to all parents out there, nobody actually knows how much you struggle, and you certainly dont get enough credit for being so amazing! ❤
In 2020 i had a 4 year old, 14 month old and a newborn. My husband was a dairy farmer and would leave for work at 3am... and ontop of caring for my 3 children i also had to feed over 200 baby calves. Honestly the first few months were so hard because it was just us, no help from family. Now here we are 2023 with a 7, 4 and 3 year old.. and i think back 2020 and i dont know how we did it. But we did. You and Abbey are amazing parents, Griffin and August are so lucky to have you guys as their parents. ❤️
I think its so cute how excited matt was for the date night! he kept mentioning it throughout the day and I think it was so cute how excited he was to spend 1 on 1 time with Abby since becoming a dad
you guys are seriously the most incredible, hardworking parents and I look up to y’all so much. even though we can’t see them, from what we CAN see your boys are the cutest and hopefully they’ll grow up to be just as hardworking as you both🥰
You guys got this. You are doing a great job. My mom had 4 under 3 and did most of it by herself as my dad was a long haul truck driver. One day you will look back on all this and wonder where the time went!!
Such great parents, Matt I love your enthusiasm through the night and Abbie taking over in the morning. You still manage to let us have a peak in, could watch yous all day you are really nice people ❤
This was so beautiful to watch…all of the team work between you two and it’s so real! I had 2 under 2 as well…my son (the oldest) had a milk-protein allergy where he displayed colic-like symptoms…he could NOT be soothed. I had to cut dairy and soy from my diet, that is when he finally slept better and was no longer fussy and almost inconsolable. I didn’t find this out though until he was 3 months so it was tough. My daughter displayed similar symptoms when I brought her home so I just cut all dairy and soy when she was 4 days old. They both grew out of it by 6 months! Life gets easier and I love what Matt says about not having it any other way!! They will have the most incredible bond❤️ My daughter and son are now 6 and 8 and they’re the best of friends! 😊
And? Idk why people keep talking shit like they shit on other parents all the time. They never said they had it harder than anyone else like what's with everyone being so godamn negative
@@leahalford5769 they don’t shit on their parents at ALL!! They are very grateful and I’m glad they have the support. I’m just saying most parents don’t have this much support and make it happen with normal jobs and without two grandparents.
I really love that you guys aren’t exploiting your kids and showing their faces!!!❤️ I had a belief that all family channels needed to end but you guys are definitely making something positive without exploitation.
As a mum of 3u3, completely understand the juggle of life with new babies while having older babies that still need so much from you and feeling like your in Groundhog Day whilst also not wanting the time to go by so fast. I’m new to watching you guys and love how supportive you are of each other. You’re both doing an incredible job.
I had 3 under 3. My husband worked on the road. I was fortunate that all three took to demand feeding during the day, so by 8 pm, they would go right to bed and sleep until 5 am. Social media puts extreme pressure on new parents today to be perfect. It's good to show that parenting is not easy for everyone. The fact that you don't have jobs and you still struggle helps others see that they are not alone.
Love this! Very honest. We have a 1 month old (our first) and I've started following you guys religiously since I was pregnant with him! So nice to see that you guys go through it just like the rest of us. You guys are great parents! 🖤
You guys are doing great in keeping your sons face hidden and still showing your day which is pretty much always around them. Hopefully you can do a fully furnished house tour too since now you have furnished all your rooms. More love to you guys, keep striving❤❤
I love watching you guys grow as a family. ❤ thank you for being so thankful for the cards you were dealt! Our little family has been trying for years for our second but God has different plans. You guys are rocking it as parents of 2 under 2!! Abby every time you cry, you make me cry!! 🤣
I really love the way you guys have incorporated your kids into your channel without being a family vlog channel. Like I have no idea what Griffin’s face or what Auggie looks like and that’s amazing! Good job Mat and Abby, y’all are doing this whole parenting instead of family channel really well!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@elizabethunger9190 I choose to just view present stuff i’m sure you can find anyone’s face if you really tried but it’s good that they changed the behavior
Awesome vid guys :) Our son was how Auggie seems as a newborn. All screaming all the time, and no colic. He's 3.5 now and I wish we were a bit more patient with him when he was that little but parenting is a learning process. Thanks for finding time to make content in between the mom&dad life.
Our first son had just turned 2 the week our twin boys had just come home from the NICU. It was a very stressful and exhausting time but also such a joy and a blessing. I thank God each and every day I had a husband like this to be there and help through the sleepless nights and early mornings. The oldest turns 6 next month and the twins just turned 4. Time goes so fast, you both are doing amazing ❤
This is amazing. Our kids are also 13 months apart. My youngest is now 4 months old and I can’t believe how fast and busy the days are. You guys are so blessed to tag team. My husband is working all the time so I do mostly by myself and it is very draining.
Keep pushing through mama! That was my story (kids are 14 months apart) and it was so hard at first. They are now 4 and almost 3 and it’s so so so much easier! The beginning is the hardest part. ❤
Hearing Auggie gives me ptsd from the newborn stage with my twin girls 😂 my prayers are with you. The newborn stage is rough! And you guys are doing it all with a 1 yr old in tow! You guys are rockin it!! Keep staying positive! Love watching you guys! As a fellow Arizionaian i laughed when Matt said 87° was chilly 🤣 😆
My husband and I currently have two beautiful sons. They were both screamers too lol. Makes those first few months tough. Hang in there, it gets so much better! Mine are 2 and 9 months now and they're such a joy and the best of friends. What a blessing from God! It's funny how quickly you forget the hard times, we're already excited for another beautiful soul and personality to add to our family.
There is nothing wrong with August! I felt so bad hearing Matt talk about the comparisons at the end. My son was a VELCRO baby too! Constantly wanted to be held and would scream and cry if he wasn’t. And he only wanted me, so my husband could hardly help. Other parents, with babies that didn’t do this, would judge me and say I held him too much. I’m sure you can imagine what I wanted to do/say to them 😂 comfort and nurture him like you’re doing. The baby wraps are amazing because they free your hands to do other things. You guys got this 💪🏻👍🏻
I know, it's truly a blessing having family to help out, I sure wish I did. My husband works full-time and I stay at home with our 8 kids. But I love it 😊
I just want y'all to know how amazing you both are! Thank you for sharing your stories with us and lives and your content is amazing! The podcast is also amazing as well! Thank you for being you! ❤😊 and I loved your outro! "Stay spicy this season" 😂❤
I love watching you two as parents because it shows the true side of parenting that most people don't see and i am soaking in as much info from you guys and how y'all are both trying to help each other and make sure your kids are taking care of as well it warms my heart and as a soon to be first time mother I just love watching yall❤
This is amazing, momma to a 3yr old and 10month old. My husband is amazing and involved just like Matt, it’s truly the biggest blessing. However the sheer overwhelm the first 2-3 months on momma is incomprehensible. Your doing a great job!
Hey guys, just wanted to send good vibes and congratulate you on the amazing work you both do, as parents and content creators. I'm 22 and don't even know if I wanna have kids, but I enjoy your videos and the podcast so much, I feel like I learn a lot ❤
Take your time until you know for sure. I am 28, I want kids but I haven't found the right partner. We will be okay no matter what we choose. Sending good vibes to you from Uganda.
I want to send you some good vibes for leaving such a sweet comment. In a world where so many only speak up in order to tear others down, it’s nice that there are still those who want to lift others up with their words.
I feel you two. Mine are 13 months apart too. My second one had collic starting at 3 months till 9 mo. He would scream from 6pm to midnight every evening. My husband didn't hear them after he fell asleep. I was a nurse and worked shifts,so I didn't sleep many nights. They were in the same room and woke up every 2 hours, just to stir and start to cry. They were on opposite hours of course, so I didn't sleep. Enjoy these days, they go by fast.( thank god).
That is the best teamwork I have ever seen between mom and dad!!!! You guys are doing great ❤❤❤❤❤ 2 under 2 is no joke but worth it all 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 you got this dudes 🥰❤️❤️❤️
I love watching you two. They grow so fast, live each day to it's fullest. Beautiful family. Thanks for allowing us to share in these precious moments with you.
The days definitely go by fast 😢 from one parent to another.... being a parent is a job itself ❤ you guys are doing amazing...this coming from a mom of 6 with the 2 youngest exactly the same ages as yours😊
Friendly tip: we found with both of our kids that if they are not getting into her by 7pm they were over tired and it made everything so much harder and they would wake even earlier in the morning thus continuing the cycle of being tired. Moving bedtime up to 7pm might be worth a try.
I’m about to have my second in a few weeks whom I found out I was pregnant with when my daughter was only 5 months old. It’s super reassuring to see videos like this and to see you guys are also parents of 2 under 2 💛
Our babies that are 14 months apart are now 2 and 1 years old! It gets better! I loved how well you show the rawness of raising these babes. This made me go back and watch all our videos of our early days adapting to two under two+
Most of the time it’s not normal for a baby to scream constantly. If they are screaming in this way then their bodies are trying to alert us of an issue. With Augie I would highly highly recommend first getting him checked by a pediatric dentist for a lip and tongue tie and if he has it to get them severed ASAP. It causes extra air to enter the belly when eating resulting in very painful gas. It could also be acid reflux which can be remedied through the help of a pediatrician. It could also be from birth trauma- a chiropractic adjustment can be SUPER helpful for crying babies. Speaking from experience😊 Also with breast feeding I would completely eliminate all dairy consumed by Abby if you haven’t already. There are proteins in dairy that come through breast milk and babies do not have the enzymes needed to properly digest it resulting in really painful gas bubbles and abdominal cramping. Hope this helps y’all. Much love ❤️
To be fair they're basically in maternity leave right now. I get what you're saying but this is also probably a lighter workload than they normally have, whether we see it directly or not
Yes my husband was a truck driver when I was a new mom and left the house at like 3 am. He helped the most he could but it would have been a huge safety hazard for him to take care of a baby in the middle of the night.
What ? Thats literally normal..This comment makes no sense .. most people wake up and plan their day lol thats how life works.. wether thats having to get the kids ready and off to daycare/school so the parents go to work or one parent goes to work while the other parent does whats on the list to get done for that day like groceries,Appointments, house work etc. How else are you suppose to plan and get shit done if you dont wake up and do it😂 .. sure it might not go as planned but everyone has a list and a plan of things that need to be done for the day.. thats legit basic life with and without kids.
You guys are so composed. I remember not being able to take a shower til my husband came home with only one child. You guys are a great parent partners!
A husband that helps, live-in parents, a nice home, and tech-friendly baby stuff like rockers/bassinets, yeah you guys will be fine lol. Wish that would have been my experience. Trust me, you both have it good. Beautiful babies💙💙
I listen to your music in the sun spiring and he is so talented keep making your music and your wonderful parents I’ve never seen a video where it’s real and not planned
I remember these days very well! My kids are now teen/adult age but damn I remember it like it was last week! 😂 You two are doing amazingly well and I admire the team work.
You are adorable parents! As a mom of 5 and grandma of 13, I just have one suggestion… instead of telling the kids they are “good,” say something character building instead of having them have to be “good,” Like, “ Griffin, you are such a smart little dude, eating healthy food!” Or, “Griffin, let’s go to sleep so you can grow big and strong!”
After not being able to conceive for years, my hubby and I decided to look into adoption. We did this for three years. In early 2021, we adopted our beautiful baby boy, then a month and a half later found out I was pregnant and had been for four months. Keep in mind, we had a newborn baby to look after. Our second baby was born a month premature so both my son and daughter are almost 4 months apart. The first year was really tough for me and my husband but we are very thankful to have two beautiful babies. During the first couple months after my pregnancy, I met a lot of amazing women who were in similar situations whether it be having to under two under two like yours Matt and Abby to having premature twins. People like them have really helped me adapt to the situations. And following Matt and Abby‘s story has made me feel less alone.
you guys are such great parents!! OMG, i love the way you talk to them! Matt is the best dad!! you both work together really well together! can't wait to see what you guys post next!
The early day's are sooo tough and this video brings back soo many memories. There is 15 momths between my 2 children and my goodness it was hard initially but its so so so rewarding to have them so close.Keep going guys xxx
We have 2 children who are 11 months apart! They were planned, if you can believe that! I identify with you and this vlog. You have my best wishes as you both stumble sleepless through this season of your life! You’re 2 boys are beautiful and you are both amazing, hands-on parents. Keep on keeping on! 🤗
Ngl even though theres difficult parts watching this makes me want my own kid for real. I look to u guys as a guideline so when i have my kid i wanna be a good parent. U guys are so sweet and genuine ❤
Matt is such a great videographer! This is talent! You both should be so proud of everything you’ve accomplished at one of the hardest times in parenting!
You’ve got this guys, through all the crying, crazy nights and sleepless nights, one day you’ll be wishing you had it all over again, it gets better as they get older and older and then in a beat of a moment, they don’t need you anymore to be doing all the things you’re doing for them, one thing for sure, you’re very blessed to have Abby’s parents living with you to fall back on when times get so overwhelming and You Think you can’t go on anymore. I absolutely Loved How Real this video was, so many sugar coat having a baby when in reality it’s Not Easy having 2 under 2, they’ll be best friends once you get over the hurdle of them both being babies. Sleep when they sleep and don’t put too much pressure on yourselves about the little things in Life. Blessings from Australia 🇦🇺💙💙💙🩷 #boymumhere
My sister had 5 kids under 5 and it was murder, she had twins, after her first and she just kept getting pregnant. but luckily for her, her hubby was a good man and a good dad, so they tag teamed just like you guys are doing with your boys, and now the kids are all adults and are super close. Trust me, it will work out well in the end. It's hell for the first few months while you all adjust to the new routine but it will even out after a while. God bless you both and your beautiful boys. Have a great week.
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It made me so sad when Abbie said “people will think I don’t take care of our kids” just because Matt is an involved father. As a once single mom who did EVERYTHING, now to have a husband that helps so much and shares the load, it’s SO nice to have the help, but I still do so much, and I KNOW Abbie does too! I absolutely love how you both normalize BOTH parents sharing the load, working together, and being considerate of each other! You both are doing amazing and you’re great role models!❤
And she’s still recovering!! People don’t seem to realize how hard having a baby is on the body
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@@brxannamxchelle5987and she had a c-section right? I had an easy vaginal delivery but unfortunately I had a perineal tear with complications that took more than 12 weeks to fully heal and it was hell! I can’t imagine having 2 kids to take care of while recovering from major surgery! My husband was at work all day and I have no family nearby so with just one baby it was still a major struggle. If dad is there and able to help, he better help. That’s literally his job as a dad. People need to stop acting like mom has to do everything by herself or she’s lazy or a bad mom. It’s so toxic. As a culture, we need to normalize dads being equally responsible and capable involved parents whenever possible.
Matt does this on purpose. The 5% of the time he has the kids he films so it looks like he’s doing more of the work. I bet you 95% of the time Abby has the kids. It’s all an ego thing for Matt and what narcissists do. He gets to feel good, Abby feels down and relies on him more
Couldn't agree more with you!
I love how you are so polite to Griffin when you speak to him. Saying “thank you for being patient” was a great thing to say
Yeah it is, but YOU try being patient when you're THAT tired all the time and constantly on the verge of an emotional breakdown. This attitude is NOT normal, trust me.
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@@estherthomas8872 Then what would you suggest he do differently? Should he be concerned?
Parenting is a TEAM sport. Thanks guys for being a positive example for those who don't have one in their lives! ❤
My dauther was a constant crier. It's so hard to deal with, you feel like you're the only person on earth who has a baby so difficult but you're not alone. Hang in there guys, we're cheering you on and keep you in our thoughts. ❤😊
So true! And honestly, a lot of parents don’t want to admit that they have a “crier.” So it makes you feel so much more alone.
I agree my daughter was the same it was colic once you figure out what's causing it less colicky baby and as much as we love them when it's a colicky baby it effects you because your so drained and tired because they don't sleep and cry a lot my daughter would be up every hour and a half n by the time I fell asleep after she fell asleep I was dying of no sleep
My hat goes off to anyone who has a crier and made it through . It must be so hard. I had a couple of nights where nothing would soothe my son and I was in a state. The fact people get shamed for it is disgraceful don't judge ask how you can help or don't even ask make a fee lovely dinners and take them over.
this is seriously bringing back traumatic memories of the sleep deprivation I experienced bringing home a new baby with reflux the weekend Covid quarantine started. I also had a two year old and was doing it all alone 24/7 because my husband was traveling for work. Being a parent of two little ones is NO JOKE when it goes on an on with no end in site. I'm so happy you have each other and supportive parents foe everyone's mental health
I know you’ve heard this a million times, but you are both such incredible parents. Beautiful to see!❤
They get sooo much hate for no reason. I'm sure they love to read comments like yours. Even if you think they've heard it many times before, continue to share the love! ❤
@@babyydollloo I can’t even think of anything negative anyone could say about them! That’s terrible. I agree, let’s continue to share the love! Thanks for your comment!
Matt is so energetic. So much energy! It is an advantage of being a young parent. Good job!
This man is how every man should be not just as a dad but more importantly to the girl he is with/mother to his child. I love how supportive he is towards his wife and a lot more “men” need to take notes on that.
I've never seen this level of dad involvement. Nice job guys❤
Am incredibly lucky to have a husband just like Matt, or should I say, even better ( maybe am biased lol) but he's really an amazing dad and husband. He does the night shift daily and also helps with naps during weekends and even during weekdays when he's not super busy with wfh. With my first born, he was also in charge of the night shifts, sitting on the sofa with our baby in his arms because he was a contact sleeper and would only sleep like that. I was also incredibly lucky back then to be able to enjoy my nights. They are true gems. Sometimes I think that I don't deserve him!
Also lucky that his job is UA-cam. So there’s that luxury to help out
I don’t deserve him? !!!!
Sorry Lady,but to be parents should be the same work for mom and for dad!! Parents are two persons,aren’t they?
I am 70 years old,and happy to see,that it’s getting better for women today..because once,women had to do all,and the « daddy »means:she should be happy she stays at home….
Yes it was so… very hard for us
Abby looks like the most loving mother ever and it’s so heartwarming to watch
As a new mum I absolutely LOVED this video !!! I've watched so many "Day in the life" vids with newborns and it made me think my own life was so chaotic lol. It seemed like they have newborns who dont even cry because of what they choose to show. I only have 1 but this was so so relateable. "What's the plan for the day?" "survive!" absolutely!!!
Your baby isn't different to any other kid! They sound EXACTLY like mine. Every waking moment was spent crying. I thought my baby hated me! haha. it will pass!! We're at the 6 week mark now and already babygirl has improved tenfold. If there's one think that saved us it's Colactase!!! Please try it. It's drops that you put in breastmilk/formula to reduce lactose content. She's like a differrent baby now.
honestly you barely get to see the real side of parenting on social media it’s always like a fake and planned video so keep making these videos!! ❤
I agree. One of the best parts of this channel is the reality.
Yessssssssssssssss
Love keeping it real with you all
Yessss everyone likes to sugar coat it and act like we all dont call our kids little buttholes after they scream for hours
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@@MattandAbbyone question why don't you show there faces any more? Or is it not no purpose
Our oldest just turned 2 so we just got out of the 2 under 2 stage! It is so hard but you got this. One thing my mom told me that helped me a lot -- if your toddler is happy in his crib when he wakes up, it is totally ok to let him hang out in there for a bit! The independent time can be good for them and it gives you a minute to breathe sometimes
Yes! I was just about to comment this. We're still in the 2 under 2 stage and there's nothing wrong with giving your babies some time to themselves in their crib. 😊
Ok, no offense but why are you jumping right up to get the oldest boy up the minute he even wiggles? Theres no need. He is perfectly old enough to learn that if he wakes up before a certain time, lets say 7:30 a.m. then he can learn to occupy hinself for a bit while mom and Dad catch a few more winks. I taught my kids this. It was really sweet when they got older and i started noticing them teaching the young ones how to play quietly while mom and dad got anotĥer 30 Minutes or so.
yesssss!!!! this was so helpful for me too.
User..... what sweet kids
I learned this a several months ago and it was the best advice. Baby practice skills that they learned at other times. I offered two small soft dolls after 12m and I get at least an extra hour sometimes lol
Girl! You did it ALL! Carried those babies for how long?! Don’t be so hard on yourself. You are amazing! Providing food and so much more. You’re doing incredible Abby! 💕
Its called owning and taking care of children as a momma
Abby’s ‘That doesn’t seem right 🤨🥱😪’ response in the car is such a mood of early motherhood. The frankness, confusion & exhaustion. You’re both doing such an amazing job! My son was a Velcro baby that screamed to high heavens during those early weeks (he’s now a Velcro toddler but thankfully the screaming has stopped lol) so I can relate to this and how hard it can be (beautiful but hard). You’re so lucky to have your parents around to help support you both through this phase. And what a special time for them with their grandkids 🥲
I'm obsessed with Abbys energy in this. Its so new mom with 2 under 2 and i love it. The chaotic energy is exactly what it feels like! (I also have 2 under 2)
Matt and Abby you’re like my favorite couple on the internet. You don’t portray toxic positivity by staging videos or even your podcast, but are showing the real deal while setting up appropriate boundaries. I don’t need to know what goes on behind closed doors but also aren’t shy by saying that you struggle at times. I’m a social worker and have done papers on the impact of social media on youth. You would be the ones under the positive impact section. Thanks for keeping in real for everyone
Our daughter was exactly like Auggie as a newborn. As soon as she hit 8 weeks and started seeing colours, she became more ok with her surroundings, happier and calmer day by day. She is now 7 months and the most friendly and active baby I have ever seen. Auggie is going to adjust. You're doing a great job, the hard days go by and your children could not have better parents to walk them through life❤
Omg same! My son was exactly like that. And by 3 months old he was sleeping through the night 😊
Not mine! Everyone kept saying it'll get better by 6 months. NOPE! Substantially worse! Turns out she had an undiagnosed tongue-tie that I had to fight to get diagnosed and treated at the rather old age of 18 months. She also has life threatening food allergies. And she's Autistic. She didn't start sleeping through the night until she was around 6 YEARS and even then has several very difficult nights every month. And she has lots of crying meltdowns almost daily, so many triggers. I eliminate and reduce the triggers that I can, but life is extra hard with Autism even with the best accommodations. So yeah... for some of us the crying and sleep issues never end.
I love that you all keep it real! My now 7 month old boy cried all the time for 3 months. It was overwhelming and it seemed like everyone else’s newborn was “quiet.” My boy has just been so much more in-tuned with the world around him. He’s observant, and he literally reads your soul. I think he cried so much because he’s a little wizard and all of his knowledge made him colicky. The crying stopped at 3 months ….it gets better for sure!
This is such a cute way to explain this! This might have been my daughter's explanation, she was a crier and still is but she does not take to everyone so I follow her lead she's an empath for sure.
This has to be the most refreshing video for parents to see. The actual real side of parenting that is so often made to look so manageable and easy. Thank you guys for sharing this ❤
Honestly I love that you guys show the real side to parenting. Round of applause ❤
You guys do a great job of including the kids without showing them. Awesome transition.
YES 🎉
What’s even more tear jerking, Matt is when you blink and they are graduating from school! When you look back you just wonder how did they grow up so fast! I believe that while you are raising them you’re so busy with their needs, your spouse, your work, your life that time just slips right out of your fingertips and boom grown children! When I was a new mom my mom told me something that’s now one of the most profound statements…. When they are young they step on your toes but when they are grown they step on your heart! Of course I knew it all back then (not) and I thought Neva… ever not my lil men… well fast forward to after they graduated and I learned a lesson in saying “Neva would my son do such a thing” haha it happens! As a mama bear I always wanted to protect my lil cubs but guess what they grow up and think they know everything too!! Haha Guess I’m just saying enjoy every lil minute bcuz it truly goes to fast! Love all of you and prayers for y’all! ❤️
This is so true❤
My kids' high school does a slide show during the graduation ceremony. Makes me cry, every time. We live in a small town, so I have seen all their classmates grow from K-12!
I gotta say Matt has to be the most involved Dad ever! So much energy and patience.
I love how raw and real you two are. You inspire people and you’re so wholesome. Watching this video made me tear up and text my boyfriend that I love him in the middle of an argument. Just because seeing other people be kind and loving with each other at such an exhausting time of life. It does get better, you’ve got this. I was a single mom of five with 3 under 1 🤦♀️ trust me when I say it gets better and you guys are wonderful parents. I’m sorry but I’ve been a silent follower for a long time but also listening to your podcasts to get me through 10 hr shifts at work and I can’t explain how your energy and rawness just help up beat my day. So listening to them makes me feel like we’re long lost friends and finally made me comfortable enough to comment. I wish you lots of rest and the happiest of memories with your beautiful family! P.s. Abby you are even more gorgeous today than the first video I saw years ago, being a mother and wife is just beautiful on you!!
So happy to see you all ❤ Yes: gameplan "Survive" sounds right. And soon. Life changed again. You do this chapter like champions! 🙌🥰
My favorite part of this whole video is how not only that they keep things so real and are so pure but they don’t exploit their children and keep their face hidden for privacy.I love how they are still trying to keep this a couples channel and not a miney hungry family chanel! Keep up the amazing content guys!
Because they got called out by DCP and didn't want him to keep making videos about them. 🤣
Everyone is getting called out. Pedos are getting on to the vlogs and it’s crazy scary!
I am a single parent of 2, not even my life was this hectic. I was blessed to have kids who slept through the night.
My Mum had 3 under 3 before I came along once they were all off at school. Enjoy the ride. You are great partners and it shows the love you have for your children and each other. 👩❤️👨👶👦💕
When you get a moment to take a breath, you will be able to look back on these posts and see how your two grew and developed. 💕
I remember when Matt got so much hate on TT for not being involved enough and now Abbie is being paranoid that people might think she's not taking care for her baby... For that alone you guys are the strongest people I know. I can't imagine having to take care for two kids while you're in your twenties and also being so public about it and everything in your lives. Like even not having kids and just trying to keep a healthy marriage is hard... Or even being alone and trying not to get depressed, wake up and get dressed is sometimes hard. LIFE IS HARD. Imagine having people tell you you're not doing a great job... It's heartbreaking. I'm here to tell you all you're doing a wonderfull job. You make me want to have babies... Going through so much struggle but being surrounded with an abundance of love is so inspiring, brings tears to my eyes... 🥺
My grandparents had two kids under 1, my aunt was born in January, and my dad in December of the same year. This video is just a reminder to pay respect to them because damn, you really need patience and nerves to deal with this everyday. Respect and support to all parents out there, nobody actually knows how much you struggle, and you certainly dont get enough credit for being so amazing! ❤
In 2020 i had a 4 year old, 14 month old and a newborn. My husband was a dairy farmer and would leave for work at 3am... and ontop of caring for my 3 children i also had to feed over 200 baby calves. Honestly the first few months were so hard because it was just us, no help from family. Now here we are 2023 with a 7, 4 and 3 year old.. and i think back 2020 and i dont know how we did it. But we did.
You and Abbey are amazing parents, Griffin and August are so lucky to have you guys as their parents. ❤️
I think its so cute how excited matt was for the date night! he kept mentioning it throughout the day and I think it was so cute how excited he was to spend 1 on 1 time with Abby since becoming a dad
you guys are seriously the most incredible, hardworking parents and I look up to y’all so much. even though we can’t see them, from what we CAN see your boys are the cutest and hopefully they’ll grow up to be just as hardworking as you both🥰
This is incredible to see the partnership and the splitting up of responsibilities and letting one or the other sleep. It's the only way to survive
My daughter wanted to be held ALL THE TIME!! She’s 22 now, and still loves lots of hugs so that’s a good thing. 😂
You guys got this. You are doing a great job. My mom had 4 under 3 and did most of it by herself as my dad was a long haul truck driver. One day you will look back on all this and wonder where the time went!!
Seeing Matt and Griffins relationship fills me with joy, you two are amazing parents
Such great parents, Matt I love your enthusiasm through the night and Abbie taking over in the morning. You still manage to let us have a peak in, could watch yous all day you are really nice people ❤
This was so beautiful to watch…all of the team work between you two and it’s so real! I had 2 under 2 as well…my son (the oldest) had a milk-protein allergy where he displayed colic-like symptoms…he could NOT be soothed. I had to cut dairy and soy from my diet, that is when he finally slept better and was no longer fussy and almost inconsolable. I didn’t find this out though until he was 3 months so it was tough. My daughter displayed similar symptoms when I brought her home so I just cut all dairy and soy when she was 4 days old. They both grew out of it by 6 months!
Life gets easier and I love what Matt says about not having it any other way!! They will have the most incredible bond❤️ My daughter and son are now 6 and 8 and they’re the best of friends! 😊
This just shows how hard it is to parent and they both don’t have typical 9-5 jobs and they have two other adults who help regularly… 😮
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Yes but don’t let that scare you. People adjust and it’s worth it.
And? Idk why people keep talking shit like they shit on other parents all the time. They never said they had it harder than anyone else like what's with everyone being so godamn negative
@@leahalford5769 they don’t shit on their parents at ALL!! They are very grateful and I’m glad they have the support. I’m just saying most parents don’t have this much support and make it happen with normal jobs and without two grandparents.
@@leahalford5769YOURE SO REAL FOR THAT ITS ACTUALLY SO ANNOYING
I really love that you guys aren’t exploiting your kids and showing their faces!!!❤️ I had a belief that all family channels needed to end but you guys are definitely making something positive without exploitation.
just because their faces aren't shown doesnt mean they're not exploited.
@@patriciagray60 I agree but it’s in the right direction.
When did they stop showing griffins face? You can easily scroll back and see him when he’s younger. Just curious not judging
@@kmackblackI am pretty sure that it’s when August was born but I’m not exactly sure
Matt and Abby always put in as much effort as possible even with 2 under 2 ❤❤❤❤
As a mum of 3u3, completely understand the juggle of life with new babies while having older babies that still need so much from you and feeling like your in Groundhog Day whilst also not wanting the time to go by so fast. I’m new to watching you guys and love how supportive you are of each other. You’re both doing an incredible job.
I had 3 under 3. My husband worked on the road. I was fortunate that all three took to demand feeding during the day, so by 8 pm, they would go right to bed and sleep until 5 am.
Social media puts extreme pressure on new parents today to be perfect. It's good to show that parenting is not easy for everyone.
The fact that you don't have jobs and you still struggle helps others see that they are not alone.
Love this! Very honest. We have a 1 month old (our first) and I've started following you guys religiously since I was pregnant with him! So nice to see that you guys go through it just like the rest of us. You guys are great parents! 🖤
You guys are doing great in keeping your sons face hidden and still showing your day which is pretty much always around them. Hopefully you can do a fully furnished house tour too since now you have furnished all your rooms. More love to you guys, keep striving❤❤
My son Spencer was just like Auggie. By the time he hit 4-5 months old, the crying subsided and he became the most chill kid ever. You're doing great!
Oh I hope this happens with my four month old 😰
I found having my hand on his tummy helps
I love watching you guys grow as a family. ❤ thank you for being so thankful for the cards you were dealt! Our little family has been trying for years for our second but God has different plans. You guys are rocking it as parents of 2 under 2!! Abby every time you cry, you make me cry!! 🤣
Honestly yall are super stars. Being parents is hard but having 2 that young. Yall are amazing! Don’t give up, it’s just a season ❤
I really love the way you guys have incorporated your kids into your channel without being a family vlog channel. Like I have no idea what Griffin’s face or what Auggie looks like and that’s amazing! Good job Mat and Abby, y’all are doing this whole parenting instead of family channel really well!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
They actually used to show Griffin often but now they don’t. Totally respect that but if you watch older videos you’ll see Griffin.
@@elizabethunger9190 I choose to just view present stuff i’m sure you can find anyone’s face if you really tried but it’s good that they changed the behavior
They just posted the newborns face days ago while holding him dangerously for views in shorts.
Awesome vid guys :) Our son was how Auggie seems as a newborn. All screaming all the time, and no colic. He's 3.5 now and I wish we were a bit more patient with him when he was that little but parenting is a learning process. Thanks for finding time to make content in between the mom&dad life.
I don’t even have kids and this made me exhausted! Props to you guys you’re doing incredible
I got 2 under 1. This is legit
Our first son had just turned 2 the week our twin boys had just come home from the NICU. It was a very stressful and exhausting time but also such a joy and a blessing. I thank God each and every day I had a husband like this to be there and help through the sleepless nights and early mornings. The oldest turns 6 next month and the twins just turned 4. Time goes so fast, you both are doing amazing ❤
This is amazing. Our kids are also 13 months apart. My youngest is now 4 months old and I can’t believe how fast and busy the days are. You guys are so blessed to tag team. My husband is working all the time so I do mostly by myself and it is very draining.
Keep pushing through mama! That was my story (kids are 14 months apart) and it was so hard at first. They are now 4 and almost 3 and it’s so so so much easier! The beginning is the hardest part. ❤
You guys are doing a great job as parents to 2 under 2. It can be really stressful and you are handling it so well❤
Hearing Auggie gives me ptsd from the newborn stage with my twin girls 😂 my prayers are with you. The newborn stage is rough! And you guys are doing it all with a 1 yr old in tow! You guys are rockin it!! Keep staying positive! Love watching you guys!
As a fellow Arizionaian i laughed when Matt said 87° was chilly 🤣 😆
My husband and I currently have two beautiful sons. They were both screamers too lol. Makes those first few months tough. Hang in there, it gets so much better! Mine are 2 and 9 months now and they're such a joy and the best of friends. What a blessing from God! It's funny how quickly you forget the hard times, we're already excited for another beautiful soul and personality to add to our family.
You guys are doing such an amazing job! I could feel the tiredness through the video! Sending so much support and love ❤️
They are going to be teens before you know it..... honestly it hurts when they start to get friends etc but it's all about being parents
There is nothing wrong with August! I felt so bad hearing Matt talk about the comparisons at the end. My son was a VELCRO baby too! Constantly wanted to be held and would scream and cry if he wasn’t. And he only wanted me, so my husband could hardly help. Other parents, with babies that didn’t do this, would judge me and say I held him too much. I’m sure you can imagine what I wanted to do/say to them 😂 comfort and nurture him like you’re doing. The baby wraps are amazing because they free your hands to do other things. You guys got this 💪🏻👍🏻
Imagine Matt work a 9-5 and the grandparents not be around to help, like the rest of the world
Ikr lol I don’t have a village I do it all on my own.
@@madiArabellaI did too ! There are two of them and no job
You know, everyone lives an individual path where they made choices that took them down that road. Envy & judgment don’t help your own journey out.
Which rest of the world. Most of the world have their grandparents. Or someone to help.😂 atleast africa does😅
I know, it's truly a blessing having family to help out, I sure wish I did. My husband works full-time and I stay at home with our 8 kids. But I love it 😊
This is by far the best realistic “day in the life” with two little ones. Thank you guys for sharing ❤ love your content!!
I just want y'all to know how amazing you both are! Thank you for sharing your stories with us and lives and your content is amazing! The podcast is also amazing as well! Thank you for being you! ❤😊 and I loved your outro! "Stay spicy this season" 😂❤
I love watching you two as parents because it shows the true side of parenting that most people don't see and i am soaking in as much info from you guys and how y'all are both trying to help each other and make sure your kids are taking care of as well it warms my heart and as a soon to be first time mother I just love watching yall❤
This is amazing, momma to a 3yr old and 10month old. My husband is amazing and involved just like Matt, it’s truly the biggest blessing. However the sheer overwhelm the first 2-3 months on momma is incomprehensible. Your doing a great job!
Hey guys, just wanted to send good vibes and congratulate you on the amazing work you both do, as parents and content creators. I'm 22 and don't even know if I wanna have kids, but I enjoy your videos and the podcast so much, I feel like I learn a lot ❤
Take your time until you know for sure. I am 28, I want kids but I haven't found the right partner. We will be okay no matter what we choose. Sending good vibes to you from Uganda.
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I want to send you some good vibes for leaving such a sweet comment. In a world where so many only speak up in order to tear others down, it’s nice that there are still those who want to lift others up with their words.
I feel you two. Mine are 13 months apart too. My second one had collic starting at 3 months till 9 mo. He would scream from 6pm to midnight every evening. My husband didn't hear them after he fell asleep. I was a nurse and worked shifts,so I didn't sleep many nights. They were in the same room and woke up every 2 hours, just to stir and start to cry. They were on opposite hours of course, so I didn't sleep. Enjoy these days, they go by fast.( thank god).
Im glad you guys can show what parenting actually looks like and it’s not all planned. Y’all are awsome
That is the best teamwork I have ever seen between mom and dad!!!! You guys are doing great ❤❤❤❤❤ 2 under 2 is no joke but worth it all 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 you got this dudes 🥰❤️❤️❤️
I love watching you two. They grow so fast, live each day to it's fullest. Beautiful family. Thanks for allowing us to share in these precious moments with you.
The days definitely go by fast 😢 from one parent to another.... being a parent is a job itself ❤ you guys are doing amazing...this coming from a mom of 6 with the 2 youngest exactly the same ages as yours😊
Friendly tip: we found with both of our kids that if they are not getting into her by 7pm they were over tired and it made everything so much harder and they would wake even earlier in the morning thus continuing the cycle of being tired. Moving bedtime up to 7pm might be worth a try.
To clarify as both babies and toddlers they needed to be asleep by 7. Our 4 year (almost 5 year old) still goes to bed at 7pm.
I’m about to have my second in a few weeks whom I found out I was pregnant with when my daughter was only 5 months old. It’s super reassuring to see videos like this and to see you guys are also parents of 2 under 2 💛
Congratulations lizzie🎉❤️
Our babies that are 14 months apart are now 2 and 1 years old! It gets better! I loved how well you show the rawness of raising these babes. This made me go back and watch all our videos of our early days adapting to two under two+
Ah yes! Our daughters are 14 months apart so just turned 3 and almost 2. It’s amazing, they play over her nonstop and enjoy the same things
Most of the time it’s not normal for a baby to scream constantly. If they are screaming in this way then their bodies are trying to alert us of an issue.
With Augie I would highly highly recommend first getting him checked by a pediatric dentist for a lip and tongue tie and if he has it to get them severed ASAP. It causes extra air to enter the belly when eating resulting in very painful gas.
It could also be acid reflux which can be remedied through the help of a pediatrician.
It could also be from birth trauma- a chiropractic adjustment can be SUPER helpful for crying babies. Speaking from experience😊
Also with breast feeding I would completely eliminate all dairy consumed by Abby if you haven’t already. There are proteins in dairy that come through breast milk and babies do not have the enzymes needed to properly digest it resulting in really painful gas bubbles and abdominal cramping.
Hope this helps y’all. Much love ❤️
i honestly think there doing such a great job. Matt and Abby are posting for us even though they have so much going on.♥
Must be nice to wake up and THEN plan your day. I hope these two appreciate how really lucky they are
To be fair they're basically in maternity leave right now. I get what you're saying but this is also probably a lighter workload than they normally have, whether we see it directly or not
Yes my husband was a truck driver when I was a new mom and left the house at like 3 am. He helped the most he could but it would have been a huge safety hazard for him to take care of a baby in the middle of the night.
What kind of comment is this 😂 Chill.
What ? Thats literally normal..This comment makes no sense .. most people wake up and plan their day lol thats how life works.. wether thats having to get the kids ready and off to daycare/school so the parents go to work or one parent goes to work while the other parent does whats on the list to get done for that day like groceries,Appointments, house work etc. How else are you suppose to plan and get shit done if you dont wake up and do it😂 .. sure it might not go as planned but everyone has a list and a plan of things that need to be done for the day.. thats legit basic life with and without kids.
@@kaylzz91 no, it's not normal. Most people have jobs and other responsibilities
You guys are so composed. I remember not being able to take a shower til my husband came home with only one child. You guys are a great parent partners!
You guys are amazing. So happy to see both parents working together in taking care of their babies. You are real. I love it.
I remember this all too well. It's also a blur on how fast it went by. Keep up the great work. ❤🎉
Our youngest 2 are 15 months apart. It was definitely a challenge when they were younger but so rewarding. Hang in there!
A husband that helps, live-in parents, a nice home, and tech-friendly baby stuff like rockers/bassinets, yeah you guys will be fine lol. Wish that would have been my experience. Trust me, you both have it good. Beautiful babies💙💙
A husband that -helps- does his part as a father
Hi loves, what a challenging season of life, yet so rewarding and beautiful to capture! Thank you for sharing genuine content
I listen to your music in the sun spiring and he is so talented keep making your music and your wonderful parents I’ve never seen a video where it’s real and not planned
I did this all PLUS homeschool with zero help. My husband works until 6 pm. It’s what we all used to do.
Finally feel seen as a parent of 2 under 2 - thank you for sharing ❤️❤️
I remember these days very well! My kids are now teen/adult age but damn I remember it like it was last week! 😂
You two are doing amazingly well and I admire the team work.
You are adorable parents! As a mom of 5 and grandma of 13, I just have one suggestion… instead of telling the kids they are “good,” say something character building instead of having them have to be “good,” Like, “ Griffin, you are such a smart little dude, eating healthy food!” Or, “Griffin, let’s go to sleep so you can grow big and strong!”
After not being able to conceive for years, my hubby and I decided to look into adoption. We did this for three years. In early 2021, we adopted our beautiful baby boy, then a month and a half later found out I was pregnant and had been for four months. Keep in mind, we had a newborn baby to look after. Our second baby was born a month premature so both my son and daughter are almost 4 months apart. The first year was really tough for me and my husband but we are very thankful to have two beautiful babies. During the first couple months after my pregnancy, I met a lot of amazing women who were in similar situations whether it be having to under two under two like yours Matt and Abby to having premature twins. People like them have really helped me adapt to the situations. And following Matt and Abby‘s story has made me feel less alone.
you guys are such great parents!! OMG, i love the way you talk to them! Matt is the best dad!! you both work together really well together! can't wait to see what you guys post next!
The early day's are sooo tough and this video brings back soo many memories. There is 15 momths between my 2 children and my goodness it was hard initially but its so so so rewarding to have them so close.Keep going guys xxx
you guys are doing an amazing job!! you got this!!!
Our fourth baby was a tough one like Auggie. You are doing great and it does get better!!! Hang in there!
i like how you guys are like .. “it’s ONLY 90 right now” that’s SOOO hot where i’m from 😂 80 is hot where im from
We have 2 children who are 11 months apart! They were planned, if you can believe that! I identify with you and this vlog. You have my best wishes as you both stumble sleepless through this season of your life! You’re 2 boys are beautiful and you are both amazing, hands-on parents. Keep on keeping on! 🤗
Ngl even though theres difficult parts watching this makes me want my own kid for real. I look to u guys as a guideline so when i have my kid i wanna be a good parent. U guys are so sweet and genuine ❤
Matt is such a great videographer! This is talent!
You both should be so proud of everything you’ve accomplished at one of the hardest times in parenting!
You’ve got this guys, through all the crying, crazy nights and sleepless nights, one day you’ll be wishing you had it all over again, it gets better as they get older and older and then in a beat of a moment, they don’t need you anymore to be doing all the things you’re doing for them, one thing for sure, you’re very blessed to have Abby’s parents living with you to fall back on when times get so overwhelming and You Think you can’t go on anymore. I absolutely Loved How Real this video was, so many sugar coat having a baby when in reality it’s Not Easy having 2 under 2, they’ll be best friends once you get over the hurdle of them both being babies. Sleep when they sleep and don’t put too much pressure on yourselves about the little things in Life. Blessings from Australia 🇦🇺💙💙💙🩷 #boymumhere
The next time I have baby fever, I'm just going to watch this video... 😂😂😂 I remember these days. I don't miss them!
My sister had 5 kids under 5 and it was murder, she had twins, after her first and she just kept getting pregnant. but luckily for her, her hubby was a good man and a good dad, so they tag teamed just like you guys are doing with your boys, and now the kids are all adults and are super close. Trust me, it will work out well in the end. It's hell for the first few months while you all adjust to the new routine but it will even out after a while. God bless you both and your beautiful boys. Have a great week.