I’m plus size and pregnant 😊 I’m almost 29 weeks and I’ve had a wonderful and blessed pregnancy. I’ve lost around 17 pounds & I have tested negative for GD. I had no morning sickness whatsoever either. I’m so grateful!
I am so jealous! Plus size, but I find out how far along I am this month.... and my throat is rawwwwwwwwwww from morning sickness..... 😷😷😷 My least favorite symptom so far, but still very grateful for the opportunity to carry life 😍😍😍
I am late but i was plus size and pregnant 300 pounds plus. I lost 30 pounds during the course of my pregnancy. I had my daughter at 39 weeks due to at the end my blood pressure was fluctuating. I had a great pregnancy just a rude ob. My birth experience was beautiful. My daughter is now a very happy and active 9 month old.
Monique S I love hearing this. I just learned I was pregnant a few weeks ago and am TERRIFIED because I’m 320. I love hearing my birth can be happy and healthy and not as scary as everything is saying it is. 💙
Monique S Congrats!! I’m trying but having trouble conceiving. I’m 217 but I was 243 and I lost weight during my planing to conceive. Doctor put me on metaformin.
you have no idea, how much relief and calmness your comment has given me. im 200 plus pounds and in my 2nd month.... prior to reading ur comment, i was so scared and worried too about putting my child's health in danger.. but now its like my faith and confidence had been restored.. than you all of you and may God bless us all.
This video made me tear up and i am not pregnant yet. I am feeling so lost and alone and scared. I have no one around me to talk to or ask question since all my friends who are pregnant or have been pregnant are not big girls at all... i feel discouraged. Anyway your video is helping me feel a little less alone... 😢
Marie-Andrée Fréchette girl, I’m going through the same thing. Both of my sisters in-laws just had their first babies. My mother passed away a few years ago and I don’t have many friends or anybody that I would want to share my pregnancy concerns with. I wish you the best!!! Something that I am going to take away from this video is the fact that our bodies are capable of creating happy healthy babies just like everyone else. I’m going to work on not resenting my body. I’m going to appreciate it and proudly carry this little miracle inside of me.
I will b ur friend cuz i kno how being alone feel...even tho i have one child already im working on #2...n ima plus size mama too😍...good luck for da both of us...u can add me on fb @glamorouz tie tie or Instagram @Prettytie89
I can relate I've been trying to get pregnantI just got engaged I am overweight and my doctor said it would not be healthy for me to get pregnant and on top of all that my periods are unregular I feel broken some days like is it ever going to happen to me and my ever going to be a mom and everybody is getting pregnant around me and I have to act happy 😭😭
I am so grateful for this video :) I feel so ashamed of my belly and now that its growing at 18 weeks, I'm having an incredibly hard to time embracing the baby bump versus all those ladies all over instagram flashing their beautiful bellies. I'm trying to get more comfortable with it. Thank you for putting good vibes out there for us plus size girls
Vanessa Ramirez really 🥺I weight 254 and I’m trying to get pregnant but my period is not regular..what do u think is the problem please help me out I really want to have a kid that’s one of my wish 😔😔😔💔
Liliana Carino hey, I’m plus size due to my thyroid, and I also have irregular periods. I counted from my expected period based on my irregular period 14 days. Always start from when your period is suppose to start down by 14 days as that’s when ovulation is suppose to occur. Then I started a week before to a week or two after twice a week since a sperm can last 5 days in a women’s cervix. I am 17 weeks, I been trying naturally for 1 year but did some google research and got pregnant a couple months later. I’m just sharing my personal experience that worked for me.
I can't thank you enough for sharing these tips. I am 34 and plus size and was so worried. Plus there aren't enough videos for new TTC'ers about plus size pregnancy. Hoping for a miracle soon. Three months of TTCing with no luck. Crossing fingers.
Hey, 34 and plus size and I have PCOS and endometriosis. We started TTC in April and found out I'm pregnant on Saturday (August). We prayed and fasted alot, and I lost 30 lbs and tried to live as natural as possible meaning Organic food when can and all natural soaps, deodorant and moisturizers/oils. Hope this helps- baby dust for you! Be patient you're next.
I’m so worried that I can’t get pregnant! I just turn 34 today (september 11) and we don’t have the conditions to have a baby right now, but my mother in law keeps saying that she is really worried about me not be able to get pregnant because I’m overweight and « not getting younger » as she said. Know I don’t think about anything else 😩 I feel so much pressure from society, that’s overwhelming.
I've been trying for 13 yesrs.years. I found out I was pregnant last week. I'm still in shock and so thankful. I pray you get pregnant soon. I know how you feel because my husband had a vasectomy prior to me meeting him. (He had it reversed 13 years ago)
I’m so happy I found this video. I’m plus size and currently 26 weeks pregnant! I’ve had no complications and had a pretty smooth pregnancy except for morning sickness in my first few weeks. I met my midwife for the first time yesterday and it was such a negative experience, she fat shamed me like no one ever has before I was devastated my baby is healthy and I’m healthy except for my weight. I can’t stop thinking about her comments and it’s really getting me down 😭
Shame on her! I'm sooo sorry you experienced that, that's horrible. I'm dreading that happening to me 😞 . I just found out I was pregnant, I'm 5'2 230lbs. So im considered obesit
I NEEDED THIS! I’m starting to lose weight currently at 343. And I just found out that I’m 4-5 weeks pregnant. I’m going to see an OB on Thursday and I’m TERRIFIED. This helps a LOT. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! 💕
How long were you trying? I'm 34yrs old 5'2 & 300lbs. I'm going to the gym few days a week but not enough because I work long hours. I had 2 children 15yrs ago, and been trying for 2 months now to get pregnant but I'm afraid that I'm weigh too much to get pregnant, I'm not sure... I wish I knew more women my weight trying to get pregnant.
I am so glad I came across your page!!! It is so hard to find good resources about plus sized pregnancy, that are not completely negative!! Thank you so much for this! I am 23 weeks, plus size, and have had (to me) a surprisingly healthy pregnancy. I was convinced something would go wrong due to my size and everything I had read, but here we are more than half way and I have had zero complications!! :)
Thank you! Thank you! I was told since I was plus size that I would have to have a C-Section by one doctor. I saw another and he said “No matter your size or when you deliver vaginal birth is ALWAYS the first choice!” It felt nice to know I was in the right office! #10weeks
Yes, that's what our bodies were designed to do. I think a lot of the time women are told it's taking to long we have to rush this with pitocin. I wish sometimes the nurses and doctors would just slow down and go with the flow. With my daughter I went in to get induced and I was already in labor so I went back home for like 10hrs or so. With my son I waited till I was like 4cm dilated before going in. I just think in the US it's all about money and convince for the doctor. They want to get u in and out and have u home by that 3rd day
So I found your videos like 2 years ago while starting our ttc journey. We are finally pregnant with one that seems to want to stay(edit for update: we are expecting twins!). We have had 2 miscarriages since November 2019 but I'm so worried about being sad because I wont be showing that I'm pregnant and just look fatter than normal. :(
Plus-size first time mom here, I lost 15 pound in the first trimester while on nausea meds for a few weeks. That part was tough but things are getting better now that I’m in the second trimester.
This video makes me feel better while my fiance and i are ttc. Im 23 and 260lbs, last time i was at the DR i wasnt pre diabetic or have any health issues due from my weight, i have a perfect bp, good sugar, etc. Only medical issue i deal with is IBS. Thank you for making this video
Thank you for this. I had my yearly in early January and mentioned to my OBGYN that we were getting married at the end of January and we’re going to start trying. I came back in to get my birth control out right after my wedding. Both times she didn’t say anything to me about my weight and the possible complications. I’m upset she wasn’t more forward with me but I’m also glad she isn’t making a huge deal out of it. I think I am pregnant (still early) but I am just now discovering all the risks involved and wish I was more prepared. This video made me feel a little better, so THANK YOU❤️
I'm also plus size and I'm 32 weeks pregnant. My husband and I are so blessed to soon be parents to a baby girl. After trying and detoxifying my body from the implant it took approximately 3/4 months but prior to the detoxification we went with a gynecologist to check that both me and my husband were ok to conceive. Beyond blessed for our health care staff that guided us into the right path💜
If it makes any of you feel better, I was within my healthy weight range when I got pregnant and I'm having a very rough pregnancy. 7 months in. Sickness, all aches, threatend miscarriage. Some women just carry babies easier than others. So don't assume it'll be a hard pregnancy just bc youre big. It depends on the woman, not their size.
This video is so informative! There are so many negative videos saying lose weight before pregnancy and listing all the side effects of an obese pregnancy. But there are few videos that show how to manage a plus size pregnancy, so thank you! 😊
I’m plus size and 6 weeks now. All i can hear all around me is «you can miscarry». It really scares mee!! My bloodsugar was normal and i got pregnant our first try.
Ahh yes my second pregnancy I was able to get a Jamba Juice with the correct amount of sugar and drink that instead-it was obviously so much better! Love your tip about using your pregnancy to connect and appreciate your body.❤️❤️
I started off 195lbs when I got pregnant and I thought to myself "Oh no I've never been 200lbs before but it's going to happen now." I did really great with weight gain in my 1st and 2nd trimester. Only put on like 10lbs and everyone said how great I looked. People actually told me I looked prettier and thinner then before pregnancy. I got a test done for the gestational diabetes and don't have it. But now in my third trimester I feel like the scale keeps going up on me and I'm afraid my doctors will be upset. I have to go for regular stress testing to make sure baby is okay. Third trimester is hard. I just feel big and swollen all over. I'm excited to have my baby and get back into good shape. 👍I never had the issue with my stomach because my body type is pear and I didn't have much of a belly before pregnancy. Not sure if anyone can relate
I was 130 when I got married. I have since gained 100lb+ w covid and my second pregnancy being very difficult. I'm pregnant again and just saw my ob, a woman I've seen since before I was married. When I talked to her about my weight she said "you look good" when I was concerned about my body not being ready to carry a baby again... she allayed my concerns of possibly losing my baby by saying "to not be too hard on myself" I am very blessed to have this woman. I guess I just wanted to brag on her for a momen.. there are good Dr's out there. When you find one, hold on to them. I literally just followed her to her new practice, because she's that important to me.
Plus size I lost 40lbs at the beginning never gained 1lb I'm 36weeks and this is my first I was well over 230 and I'm only 5'2" all my doctor talked about was me being plus size but everything is fine no problems at all passed my glucose test I have no pains she kept telling me he will come early well I'm still pregnant and nothing so yes I agree everyone is different now my doctor tell me I'm the best one she has I'm skipping appointments because she said I'm doing so good I have ultrasound every week since 31 weeks and he is perfect
I’m plus and pregnant First time this is my fourth pregnancy my son is 20 and my daughters are 15 and 12 and I am now 42. I really needed this and I love the way you talk you are so sweet
These are definitely some good points. This is my third pregnancy but my first plus size and pregnant and I’ve been extra self conscious since I found out I was pregnant a few weeks ago to the point that I already feel like I’m blown up! Thanks for this video
I needed this video so bad. Thank you 🙏🏼 for this information. I am 23 260lbs with PCOS. But everything else is normal and struggling to get pregnant. Went to see a GYNO for fertility help. And it’s not working out. I’m being judge for trying to get pregnant. I’m being told I’ll be diabetic and will have preeclampsia if I were to fall pregnant. I cried at my appointment and was judged. So I definitely needed this video ❤
I’m plus size and pregnant. I am 264 pounds and 12 weeks. I pray for a healthy pregnancy. I have pcos and was told I’d never have anymore children after my daughter who is turning 11 next month. I am high risk and I am terrified of losing this one. So far things are good. I had a ultrasound yesterday and saw a good heartbeat on monitor but they couldn’t find it with Doppler so doc said it’s okay that sometimes this early you may not hear it yet but she assured me the baby is fine and has heartbeat. I go in this following Tuesday for another ultrasound in the ultrasound building so I am excited. The ultrasound you get in the ultrasound building is a lot better the ones in doctor office are small portable ones and harder to see. I really need some prayers.
You’re terrified but not enough to try a strict diet before getting pregnant. Be honest: you are obese and no one can even ask you to diet and lose weight. Not even your babies. That is being selfish.
I love the discussion in these comments in addition to this video! I think it's so important to be open and consider all the options, especially while pregnant! Health is a constant experience that is personal for everyone. I have found a way healthier lifestyle by focusing on experiencing my body rather than perceiving it through the eyes of the other people.
Thank you, this was very helpful 😊 I was normal weight with my 1st pregnancy but gained 45lbs. My 2nd pregnancy I was active, healthy and healthy weight. I gained around 35lbs. This is now my 3rd pregnancy and I had gained a good bit of weight during the pandemic, stress eating, military move, so I was overweight bordering the obese bmi. On my first prenatal appointment I did not feel good about where I was. I skipped a period and ovulated exactly 1 month late. I told the midwife but they went off of the last menstrual cycle. When I called to get an ultrasound for dating they told me that I was too far along and should just wait for my 20week ultrasound. The next prenatal appointment the midwife measured my uterus and said that I was actually measuring 2-3weeks further than the menstrual cycle and that I should schedule my 20week ultrasound appointment. I have never been treated like this or left feeling so confused in my medical care. I decided since I couldn't get in to see them for an ultrasound that I'd just pay for one out in town. The ultrasound person there told me I was measuring around 12-13 weeks, which was accurate based on the ovulation date I had. I felt like I was being treated worse and judged based on my starting weight. Also I don't have much confidence in the medical providers that I am seeing. This is not my first pregnancy and in both of my previous pregnancies they dated my pregnancy using blood work, and an ultrasound in the office. Never did i get the run around or get talked down to like this. It was also the way she talked to me about being obese. And how she said it was too late for me to lose the weight like I disappointed her. I am looking around for a new provider, but I'm nervous that this is just how they'll treat me. Maybe I'm better off staying away from medical providers, skip a few prenatal appointments. It seems like all they do is check my weight, remind me of my weight, check my BP and tell me that I'm at increased risk of pre-eclampsia and GD. I have had 2 very healthy pregnancies and I lose all the baby weight and then some after baby arrives through breastfeeding and just running around being a parent. After prenatal appointments I feel so ashamed and keep myself going on 2 small meals a day and trying to stay full by drinking water. Once I hit the 2nd trimester I have been feeling starved and have wild cravings. I never had cravings with my other pregnancies, I feel bad that I'm not enjoying this pregnancy as much as my previous ones. It's been hard though. My midwife only wants me to gain 20lbs (pregnancy weight) and I've already gained 7lbs at 16weeks.
I'm 196 lbs and 24 weeks right now. Before I got pregnant I was 230 lbs. I've had hypermesis gravardium the entire pregnancy and it hasn't tapered off. I'm exhausted constantly and sleeping 12-14 hours a day. The baby's kicking started last week and it's been so scary to feel the movements inside my belly. I'm so scared of all the aches and pains I'm having I hate pregnancy! Also my Doctor and OBGYN have talked down to me the entire pregnancy like I'm too fat to give birth and be a mother. Happy and healthy pregnancies ladies. May you feel like yourself soon 🥰
I'm 14 weeks but on the same track as you. I started at 230 and I'm down to 207, I initially lost very quickly but now with medication kinda working I seem to be losing about a pound a week even going into 2nd trimester.
I recently found out that I’m pregnant and I know I’m overweight for my height and it started to worry me bc I started losing weight! And haven’t really gained any and I’m in my second trimester but hearing you say my body takes what the baby needs makes me feel so much better!
In my situation, I can’t really choose my doctor but ALL my appointments have been based on my weight (BMI over 30) even though my baby and myself are “healthy.” Quote on quote because I know I’m overweight. I’ve only gained 5 pounds (27 weeks) and all my glucose tests have come out negative. I feel so alone when it comes to advocating for myself because I have this feeling of “making excuses” for myself as a plus size pregnant woman. I want my next appointment to work for me and I hope I can up for myself this time.
Thank you for this video! Not enough videos celebrating plus size pregnancy. I am currently almost 9 weeks pregnant with my surprise first baby ❤️ Just one thing to add. Prepare for an internal ultrasound. I knew it was a possibility but the reality hit kind of hard in the moment the doctor asked me to remove my pants 😂. As soon as you see your little miracle on the screen all embarrassment goes away.
Thank you so much for this video I just got a letter in the mail stating that due to me being obese and older I'm high risk and I guess the wording is what took me by surprise I was already very self-conscious about it but you know what I am going to embrace who I am because the Lord says that I am fearfully and wonderfully made and I don't care what society says anymore for many years I've kept myself contain because I didn't want to step outside the box and be judged you know what but I'm not letting anyone Judge Me Not doctor's got a new one and I know I'm going to have a beautiful healthy baby and I think I have only father advance for that and I'm going to teach my baby to be a fighter no matter what size you are what color you are what people tell you you should feel about yourself have a strong sense of self and go with love and everything will be perfectly fine thank you for this amazing video you really touched my heart
Thanks for posting this video. I’m 283 and I’m 33. Currently 14 weeks with my third. This pregnancy has been hard but even harder when I went to OB that automatically put me on high risk. She told me I quote your fat and your going to have a hard pregnancy. I switched to a different OB best decision I ever made. Don’t be afraid to speak up for yourself. Being plus size isn’t bad.
But being plus size (obese) IS bad on us, heavy on our organs, harder breathing, insulin resistance, higher risk of diabetes, sleep apnea, heart disease, cancers, etc. I'm trying to eat as healthy as I can with this pregnancy so it can not only be easier on me, so my hormones don't go out of wack and I don't lose the baby, so he or she won't have problems, etc.
Thank you so so so much for this. I’m newly pregnant and big, and I really needed other plus size women to reassure me. I’ve been so fearful. Thank you.
Thanks for this video! Hubby and I are TTC baby #2. I am plus size and had a totally healthy and normal pregnancy and delivery with my first. I was labeled high risk simply because of my weight (unsure if that’s common or not). Toward the end they wanted to do an extra ultrasound because they were concerned the baby would be too big (🙄), despite me telling them I was born at 8lb and my husband around 7lb. I knew she wasn’t too big as I carried her around every day. And alas my daughter was born a healthy 8lb 3oz. I loved proving them wrong. 🙃😉
I’m plus size and never had diabetes with ether of my pregnancies. My office will test everyone twice for it wether your plus size or not. I hate those awful sugar drinks lol. My midwife tells everyone that you should keep weight gain under 35 pounds. My doctors office and midwife are supportive. I had one super awful/traumatizing labor and one super amazing labor. I’m glad I had a team I trusted for both. You never know what’s gonna happen going into it.
Nicole Smith-Wilson I’m plus size and with my first pregnancy I never got test. I’m pregnant with my second child and nothing has been mentioned for the test. Wondering if they are gonna ask me.....
@@nskhanom2965 Hi! I am 334 pounds and I discovered yesterday that I am pregnant. Two doctors recommended me to stop the pregnancy since there is high risk of death. Both said same thing. They were both in different clinics. I went to both ER's since I feel desperate and don't know what to do. Would you share your story please? Thank you.
Because it's the truth. Overweight pregnancy is high risk and dangerous for both baby and mother. Wouldn't you want to give your child a healthy start in life?
I lost weight both times I was pregnant. But my pregnancy made me vegetarian or something. Well no. I can eat meat just not dark meat. Dark meat like beef, made me sick just smelling it.
This video is so helpful. I’m plus sized (220) and my husband and I want to get pregnant. My doctor says I’m perfectly healthy enough for pregnancy but I have anxiety and it seems so scary!
THANK YOU so much for this video! I'm plus size and my husband and I are ttc our first baby. It's still a really confusing world, but I feel at ease now.
I went from 126lb to 200 lb with my oldest son, who's now 19 years old. Before I was pregnant with my 2nd son I started at 185 then went up to 230lb. He's 7 years old now, and I haven't lost the weight, but now I'm 255 lbs despite trying to modify diet and exercise. Found out a couple of months ago, my cortisol levels are off, and progesterone is low. I started topical progesterone, and now, this month, I'm 6 days late! I'm Panicking because I'm 39 years old and now morbidly obese. I'm scared I'll die giving birth, but I don't want an abortion and can't do adoption. I'm just praying it's my hormones or even perimenopause starting... even though that scares the hell out of me too 😞😓😩 Also I was on norethindrone birth control since my youngest was born in 2015 but just stopped it back in September. Stupid me 🤦♀️
It is possible to have perfectly healthy pregnancy while plus size, though complications do exist for some no matter their weight. Every pregnancy and woman is different. I'm expecting my 6th baby in 10 years, and have slowly increased weight with each one. So I have been plus size with the last 3. My 4th and 5th were born on or near due date vaginally without a single complication (just like my first 3 when I was within normal weight range), same with this baby so far. I'm 26 weeks and no complications, just more tired each pregnancy (I have also breastfed each baby 18 months or more meaning nursing through first trimester) and bit more pubic pain each time. Though a girdle/support belt or wrap help immensely with the pubic bone pain.
I'm 5 weeks and 17.. Honestly, I'm terrified because I think my blood pressure is already high but not too high. I've been drinking plenty of water and everything but I'm scared things might turn out badly
Thank you so much for your video.i am 6 weeks pregnant and plus size. Hope my pregnancy will be easier than I thought. This video gave me lot of confidence.thank you so much once again.
I’ve had 2 miscarriage and my doctors says I should lose weight before I try again .. when she confirmed my pregnancy she told me straight up you can not gain more than 10lbs or imma have to put you in a diet 😞she said obesity triggers miscarriage.
11 weeks pregnant after trying for a while. 2 years ago I was 300lb and I’m now 220. I feel more self conscious now the never before and I’m terrified of gaining the weight back.
my doctor told me that there’s a 1 hr and 3 hr glucose test. the one hour test you can eat but they advice you not to eat any carbs or sugar and the 3 hr test you have to fast and for at least 12 hrs before
Plus size and pregnant with baby #3. So terrified of weight gain this time for some reason. I gained about 50# with baby 1, and only 20# with baby 2. This baby I'm shooting to maintain/lose weight as baby grows. I'm much more active with this pregnancy.
Im also plus weight 84 kg n my height 5.3 age 30 dr said lose weight thn u got pragnant i taked many ivf 4 month continiously n taking medicine also 4 getting pragnant now im on diet but still waiting for pragnancy plz help me wat to do.... im so worried
I'm 34yrs old about to be 35, 5'4 and weigh 300lbs. I been on IUD for 14yrs, I been with out IUD for 2 months. Im working out for 30mins at the gym and not over eating. Is anyone around the same category as me? How long did it take you to get pregnant? Ty
Really appreciate this video. Before actively trying to conceive it was brought up by my doctor to try to lose weight before MD visit to hey IUD removed (which I didn't) so I've had a bit of anxiety of hoping we have a healthy pregnancy when it happens
This is my 3rd baby and I’m plus size but I’ve never gained weight doing any of my pregnancies. With my second daughter I was so stressed out due to me just losing my mom and the doctors telling me I’m starving my child I was really trying my hardest.
I’m so insecure about my body I’m currently 6months pregnant and don’t look pregnant at all, I just want to say I really like what you had to say & thanks so much for posting 😊
I’m 30 weeks and most of the time I don’t feel like I look pregnant either. It sucks bc I’m basically almost due and no one can even tell so if I bring it up ppl are like “wooow how far are you” or “do you know what you’re having yet” when I’m already far along and I’ve BEEN knowing. I’ve only gained 2 pounds since I’ve been pregnant so maybe that’s why but at the same time I’m not gonna gain a bunch of weight on purpose just to maybe “look” pregnant. I hate being pregnant I feel like my experience is not what I expected at all 😢
I’m 24 weeks, and it just looks like the fat in my stomach is pushed forward, but I don’t look really pregnant. It’s a little disheartening to not look pregnant by this point.
Thanks for this video! I'm about 250 lbs and my husband and I have been TTC for 6 years. I am always somewhat worried about being plus size and pregnant even though I've seen much heavier women in pregnancy that are fine. I really hope we concieve soon.
I'm 32yrs old 5'2 230lbs, so considered obesit. My husband and I have been trying for well over 10 years to conceive. I just found I was pregnant! Still early, my period isnt due until Wednesday, 2 more days.. I'm definitely nervous, at my age being overweight with my first baby. But I'm also very hopeful and blessed, never thought this day would come. I'm pray this lil bean sticks and carries to full term healthy and strong! GOD BLESS! Sending u lots of baby dust
This is very informative. I am 4 weeks and i am a bigger women. Im 226 and im just normally a bigger women. And i was worried about this pregnancy and what i need to know for me and my future baby.
I was 215. But because I'm 5"8' I held it well. Got pregnant, but had a miscarriage. We tried again and was successful. But the weight I gained from the previous pregnancy (230) was never shed off. I started off much higher and now I'm 253. I'm trying my best to eat right. Its just I'm on my bed rest and was asked to take it slow. Although I'm eating healthy, I'm still gaining alot and it's scary. This video made me not feel alone. Thank you for this❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love this video, you are so real and helps my confident. there are many plus sizd and pregnant videos out there now, but yours I really love! Thank you so much! Now that I am 35 going on 36, I was trying to find videos on plus sized and "geriatric". I can not find any, but I see many commenters who were/are ttc and, at the time of the comments were weirdly all 34 (so they are my age now just about), so one, i hope for the best and don't let people put you down about your age now that you crossed the magical border age, So, two: if anyone of you did get pregnant, congrats! and.. do you have any advice or things to say about being plus sized and geriatric? I have my 3rd at home pregnancy test positive, I am looking into a doctor for my first appointment, so any advice or information, I would love. I am nervous, but also, because of this video, I am trying to be as positive as possible, but balancing the risks of also being older is getting in my head. Love you all!! Best of luck and all good vibes!
What no one told me was that bigger girls can’t always get an epidural! Mine wouldn’t work cause he couldn’t get the right spot due to to much fat where he puts the needle. Was quite the shock for me
Is it normal to have cramps like menstrual cramps? I am almost 7 weeks. I am freaking out. Even thought they told is normal to have cramps but does it las this long? I am so excited for my baby, cant wait for my angel to arrive next year. Is just i am little scared right now. If i have to be extra careful
In my country where the normal is XS my first pregnancy was very stressful due to how i was treated. (Overall my pregnancy was heavenly). Now I am pregnant again and i am even bigger than before, we are so happy that we are pregnant but I am so scared of how i will be treated. Last pregnancy I came in and i was around 8 weeks and the nurse said “Oh my, well you’re not going to have a bigger belly than this.” I was 75kg (165lbs) and 163cm(5’3) ish. OF COURSE I GOT BIGGER. But my insecure 19 year old mind really believed this nurse and Inwas so anxious about seeing doctors after that meeting when my belly grew bigger. I am a much stronger person today and I will definitely not tolerate that today but god,…I am still so nervous and so scared about what they will say. Today I am 209lbs which is morbidly obese here, and I really really hope they will treat me like a human. New city and new location so hopefully they are better here..
This is a great topic that you don’t hear about that often! I had that issue when they measured my fundal height. And I wanted to say “duhhh! How is my belly (which has always been chubby) measure the same as a woman who had a flat belly before pregnancy!” They sent me for an extra infrasound just to be safe and we’re all good as I suspected. The most annoying issue has been trying to find plus size maternity clothing, there are a few places online, but not much offered in stores!
I loved this. I’m so scared because I’m so huge and diabetes and high blood pressure runs in my family. & my doctor definitely did judge me off the jump and I’ll be switching. Thank you
I know this video is a bit older however this is my first pregnancy where I have been plus sized... First pregnancy in 14 years... My concern is when will I be able to hear baby boys heartbeat on the Doppler? I'm currently 13 weeks pregnant and weigh 247 at 5'7" tall I dzo have GD and high blood pressure and just wondering if I'll hear my baby at my appointment in a few days I have had several ultrasounds and heard it but was told by a friend I won't hear it til closer to 20 weeks ....that makes me nervous and sad since with my girls I heard at 11 weeks.... Idk this video was amazing thanks for all your kindness and support 😊
You’re video is awesome! Thank you. Always seeing ladies who are not plus size make videos! Nice to see a friendly face! My partner and I have been together a little over 3 years. And have been having unprotected relations for 2 ish years. We haven’t been trying all that time until recently. It’s been 4 months and I’m still not pregnant. I don’t understand why. I’ve had every test done on me. My periods have been regular for about 8 months now. Which is very surprising. And we do the deed all the time. I’m just so sad and I cry all the time. I’m losing hope. Everyone around me is having kids and or getting married. I really cannot take it no more. And I don’t have no one to talk to besides my partner. But he doesn’t really understand! I’m plus size. 32 years old. I’m lost. I don’t know what to do. I know it’s not long for trying. But it does get frustrating. I know other ladies have been trying more longer then months. I’m sorry if this sounds winey. Much respect to those who have a long journey!
@@amarie_love8923 Sadly, no. Just wasn’t meant to be. We are also no longer together. I am now a single person and currently attending school to help better my life. Chose a different path for life now. Also I think I’m premenopausal now. Hot flashes galore. 🥵🥵🥵 Parenthood just wasn’t in the cards.
My fiancé and I have been trying for about 6 months now and I’ve had one daughter 5 years ago,.. I hate telling anyone we’re trying because everyone always says “loose weight you’ll get pregnant right away” it makes me feel so horrible😔
i'm sorry you are going through this right now. a close friend of mine has been told that she can't have children. it upset her for many years.. then she started having symptoms, she thought she was really sick, got really freaked out. turns out she was pregnant! now she already has 3 children, all very healthy and the pregnancies went well too, although she was around 120 kg, at a hight of 160cm, which is considered obese in medical perspective. don't lose hope, just try to not stress and have fun in life
Ashley Garcia everyone tells me to lose weight myself I’m 5 foot 4 and I weigh 220 I hate it but I’ve struggled with my weight since I was little no matter what I do but all my friends have been small during their pregnancies so I’m worried I won’t get pregnant unless I lose weight
Don't always listen to everyone that says lose weight and you will get pregnant. I am 280 pounds, my husband and I have been trying for 5 years and I never got pregnant once. I found out after being referred to a fertility clinic around year 3 that I have 1 completely blocked fallopian tube and 1 tube that is narrow and weak and my chances of conceiving naturally are slim to none even if I was 120 pounds. So lose weight and just relax would not have helped me. Lose weight if you want to for health, but if your not getting pregnant make sure you find a doctor that will listen to you and really investigate what is going on beyond your weight.
Im 10 weeks pregnant i havent had bad morning sickness only nausea and headaches. My ob told me its bad to lose weight when pregnant because of causing low or high blood pressure
Both my pregnancies were perfect and wonderful and actually very easy! I am super happy though that after a twin loss a few years ago, I knew the weight was certainly a factor. If you are on a low carb diet consistently, your chance of failing the 1 hour test is very good. You can talk with your doctor about refusing the glucose test and just monitoring your blood sugar levels like a diabetic for a week. Next month I will be 35 and I will be TTC pretty soon, as I have since November lost 80 pounds and am within 20 pounds of my goal weight. I now have age as another factor against me, but I have a great doctor I trust in my corner who is willing to work with me.
I have a 40 BMI , 5ft 3 in 230 lbs for all 4 of my babies I didn't have or get diabetes. My friend who lived with me during her pregnancy ended up having it & she is a foot shorter & 60lbs lighter than me. It was hard for her because she is Latina& had to cut out all the yummy carbs. I really missed making all the tamales she couldn't eat anymore
I started at 170, I'm 190 and at 17 weeks. I've sat down and I only eat 1950 calories bc the 2120 for my second trimester had me gain 9 pounds in a week n a half. Its frustrating.. Now I focus on nutrition v.s calories and I feel better than I have in forever and I am not going to look at the scale any longer. If I am eating nutrient rich foods then it shouldn't matter right?
I’m plus size and pregnant 😊 I’m almost 29 weeks and I’ve had a wonderful and blessed pregnancy. I’ve lost around 17 pounds & I have tested negative for GD. I had no morning sickness whatsoever either. I’m so grateful!
I am so jealous! Plus size, but I find out how far along I am this month.... and my throat is rawwwwwwwwwww from morning sickness..... 😷😷😷 My least favorite symptom so far, but still very grateful for the opportunity to carry life 😍😍😍
How did u manage to lose weight like that
Please I need to know how you loose 17 pounds???
Hope Locke congrats! How long did it take you to conceive?
Yes how did you lose those pounds 😩
I am late but i was plus size and pregnant 300 pounds plus. I lost 30 pounds during the course of my pregnancy. I had my daughter at 39 weeks due to at the end my blood pressure was fluctuating. I had a great pregnancy just a rude ob. My birth experience was beautiful. My daughter is now a very happy and active 9 month old.
Monique S I love hearing this. I just learned I was pregnant a few weeks ago and am TERRIFIED because I’m 320. I love hearing my birth can be happy and healthy and not as scary as everything is saying it is. 💙
What did you do to lose weight dring your pregnancy
I had a healthy pregnancy, no GD, no issues with BP. I was 340ish
Monique S Congrats!! I’m trying but having trouble conceiving. I’m 217 but I was 243 and I lost weight during my planing to conceive. Doctor put me on metaformin.
you have no idea, how much relief and calmness your comment has given me. im 200 plus pounds and in my 2nd month.... prior to reading ur comment, i was so scared and worried too about putting my child's health in danger.. but now its like my faith and confidence had been restored.. than you all of you and may God bless us all.
This video made me tear up and i am not pregnant yet. I am feeling so lost and alone and scared. I have no one around me to talk to or ask question since all my friends who are pregnant or have been pregnant are not big girls at all... i feel discouraged. Anyway your video is helping me feel a little less alone... 😢
Marie-Andrée Fréchette I know that feeling ! 💔
Marie-Andrée Fréchette girl, I’m going through the same thing. Both of my sisters in-laws just had their first babies.
My mother passed away a few years ago and I don’t have many friends or anybody that I would want to share my pregnancy concerns with.
I wish you the best!!!
Something that I am going to take away from this video is the fact that our bodies are capable of creating happy healthy babies just like everyone else. I’m going to work on not resenting my body.
I’m going to appreciate it and proudly carry this little miracle inside of me.
I will b ur friend cuz i kno how being alone feel...even tho i have one child already im working on #2...n ima plus size mama too😍...good luck for da both of us...u can add me on fb @glamorouz tie tie or Instagram @Prettytie89
I can so relate smh...
I can relate I've been trying to get pregnantI just got engaged I am overweight and my doctor said it would not be healthy for me to get pregnant and on top of all that my periods are unregular I feel broken some days like is it ever going to happen to me and my ever going to be a mom and everybody is getting pregnant around me and I have to act happy 😭😭
I am so grateful for this video :) I feel so ashamed of my belly and now that its growing at 18 weeks, I'm having an incredibly hard to time embracing the baby bump versus all those ladies all over instagram flashing their beautiful bellies. I'm trying to get more comfortable with it. Thank you for putting good vibes out there for us plus size girls
So happy I found your video. 10 weeks pregnant and I'm plus size. I have my first sonogram tomorrow 😊😊
How did it go
Congrats!
Vanessa Ramirez really 🥺I weight 254 and I’m trying to get pregnant but my period is not regular..what do u think is the problem please help me out I really want to have a kid that’s one of my wish 😔😔😔💔
@@lilianacarino2339 check yr thyroid stay active to help regulate period
Liliana Carino hey, I’m plus size due to my thyroid, and I also have irregular periods. I counted from my expected period based on my irregular period 14 days. Always start from when your period is suppose to start down by 14 days as that’s when ovulation is suppose to occur. Then I started a week before to a week or two after twice a week since a sperm can last 5 days in a women’s cervix. I am 17 weeks, I been trying naturally for 1 year but did some google research and got pregnant a couple months later. I’m just sharing my personal experience that worked for me.
I can't thank you enough for sharing these tips. I am 34 and plus size and was so worried. Plus there aren't enough videos for new TTC'ers about plus size pregnancy. Hoping for a miracle soon. Three months of TTCing with no luck. Crossing fingers.
Hey, 34 and plus size and I have PCOS and endometriosis. We started TTC in April and found out I'm pregnant on Saturday (August). We prayed and fasted alot, and I lost 30 lbs and tried to live as natural as possible meaning Organic food when can and all natural soaps, deodorant and moisturizers/oils. Hope this helps- baby dust for you! Be patient you're next.
I’m so worried that I can’t get pregnant! I just turn 34 today (september 11) and we don’t have the conditions to have a baby right now, but my mother in law keeps saying that she is really worried about me not be able to get pregnant because I’m overweight and « not getting younger » as she said.
Know I don’t think about anything else 😩 I feel so much pressure from society, that’s overwhelming.
Deborah she stepping over the line with those comments. I would just tell her where to go. That’s so rude of hers
It’s nice to hear the real talk about plus sized pregnancies. Thanks for putting yourself out there :)
Please pray that we conceive soon been trying for a while now
MyWhiteCoatJourney MD crossing my fingers
Me too
I've been trying for 13 yesrs.years. I found out I was pregnant last week. I'm still in shock and so thankful. I pray you get pregnant soon. I know how you feel because my husband had a vasectomy prior to me meeting him. (He had it reversed 13 years ago)
Have you conceived? Or should I still be praying 🙏?
Amen. The lord will answer your prayers. I know the wait feels endless but he will provide if it is his will. He did for me after months of trying 💕
I’m so happy I found this video. I’m plus size and currently 26 weeks pregnant! I’ve had no complications and had a pretty smooth pregnancy except for morning sickness in my first few weeks. I met my midwife for the first time yesterday and it was such a negative experience, she fat shamed me like no one ever has before I was devastated my baby is healthy and I’m healthy except for my weight. I can’t stop thinking about her comments and it’s really getting me down 😭
Shame on her! I'm sooo sorry you experienced that, that's horrible.
I'm dreading that happening to me 😞 . I just found out I was pregnant, I'm 5'2 230lbs. So im considered obesit
@@amarie_love8923 you’ll be fine! Had my baby Friday and she’s healthy and happy. Good luck 🤞🏻
@@emilykate6769 awww. Congrats! Blessings to u and yours
Sorry that you went through that
I’m so sorry you had to deal with that 😥
I NEEDED THIS! I’m starting to lose weight currently at 343. And I just found out that I’m 4-5 weeks pregnant. I’m going to see an OB on Thursday and I’m TERRIFIED. This helps a LOT. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! 💕
Congrats!
Very luck yay
Congrats! Hope all went well!!
Congrats love I just found out I’m pregnant also……
How long were you trying? I'm 34yrs old 5'2 & 300lbs. I'm going to the gym few days a week but not enough because I work long hours.
I had 2 children 15yrs ago, and been trying for 2 months now to get pregnant but I'm afraid that I'm weigh too much to get pregnant, I'm not sure... I wish I knew more women my weight trying to get pregnant.
I am so glad I came across your page!!! It is so hard to find good resources about plus sized pregnancy, that are not completely negative!! Thank you so much for this! I am 23 weeks, plus size, and have had (to me) a surprisingly healthy pregnancy. I was convinced something would go wrong due to my size and everything I had read, but here we are more than half way and I have had zero complications!! :)
Thank you! Thank you! I was told since I was plus size that I would have to have a C-Section by one doctor. I saw another and he said “No matter your size or when you deliver vaginal birth is ALWAYS the first choice!” It felt nice to know I was in the right office! #10weeks
Exactlyyyyy. Some drs already are biased before we walk in. Thats why its so good to change drs.
Yes, that's what our bodies were designed to do. I think a lot of the time women are told it's taking to long we have to rush this with pitocin. I wish sometimes the nurses and doctors would just slow down and go with the flow. With my daughter I went in to get induced and I was already in labor so I went back home for like 10hrs or so. With my son I waited till I was like 4cm dilated before going in. I just think in the US it's all about money and convince for the doctor. They want to get u in and out and have u home by that 3rd day
So I found your videos like 2 years ago while starting our ttc journey. We are finally pregnant with one that seems to want to stay(edit for update: we are expecting twins!). We have had 2 miscarriages since November 2019 but I'm so worried about being sad because I wont be showing that I'm pregnant and just look fatter than normal. :(
Hope your pregnancy went well with your twins!
Plus-size first time mom here, I lost 15 pound in the first trimester while on nausea meds for a few weeks. That part was tough but things are getting better now that I’m in the second trimester.
How do you manage to weight loss during first trimester?please share
@@shaina5648 nausea, and vomiting was the cause of weight loss.
This video makes me feel better while my fiance and i are ttc. Im 23 and 260lbs, last time i was at the DR i wasnt pre diabetic or have any health issues due from my weight, i have a perfect bp, good sugar, etc. Only medical issue i deal with is IBS. Thank you for making this video
Thank you for this. I had my yearly in early January and mentioned to my OBGYN that we were getting married at the end of January and we’re going to start trying. I came back in to get my birth control out right after my wedding. Both times she didn’t say anything to me about my weight and the possible complications. I’m upset she wasn’t more forward with me but I’m also glad she isn’t making a huge deal out of it. I think I am pregnant (still early) but I am just now discovering all the risks involved and wish I was more prepared. This video made me feel a little better, so THANK YOU❤️
Thank you this is really relieving , I just found out Im pregnant and I'm closer to the 270 range so this is very helpful
I'm also plus size and I'm 32 weeks pregnant. My husband and I are so blessed to soon be parents to a baby girl. After trying and detoxifying my body from the implant it took approximately 3/4 months but prior to the detoxification we went with a gynecologist to check that both me and my husband were ok to conceive. Beyond blessed for our health care staff that guided us into the right path💜
I've been so paranoid about getting pregnant at my size cause I haven't loss the weight my gyn suggested. So thanks for making this video.
Selena Edwards dame here.
I'm 188 and a size 16. I'm trying to loose the weight myself . I don't want to have health problems etc
If it makes any of you feel better, I was within my healthy weight range when I got pregnant and I'm having a very rough pregnancy. 7 months in. Sickness, all aches, threatend miscarriage. Some women just carry babies easier than others. So don't assume it'll be a hard pregnancy just bc youre big. It depends on the woman, not their size.
I agree. This is exactly the point I made in the video if you were able to watch until the end. :)
@@CreatinginChaos can u please put this onto a dvd as my birthday gift
This video is so informative! There are so many negative videos saying lose weight before pregnancy and listing all the side effects of an obese pregnancy. But there are few videos that show how to manage a plus size pregnancy, so thank you! 😊
I’m plus size and 6 weeks now. All i can hear all around me is «you can miscarry». It really scares mee!! My bloodsugar was normal and i got pregnant our first try.
Congratulations on your sweet babe! I would definitely try to surround yourself with as many positive stories as possible.
Ahh yes my second pregnancy I was able to get a Jamba Juice with the correct amount of sugar and drink that instead-it was obviously so much better! Love your tip about using your pregnancy to connect and appreciate your body.❤️❤️
I started off 195lbs when I got pregnant and I thought to myself "Oh no I've never been 200lbs before but it's going to happen now." I did really great with weight gain in my 1st and 2nd trimester. Only put on like 10lbs and everyone said how great I looked. People actually told me I looked prettier and thinner then before pregnancy. I got a test done for the gestational diabetes and don't have it. But now in my third trimester I feel like the scale keeps going up on me and I'm afraid my doctors will be upset. I have to go for regular stress testing to make sure baby is okay. Third trimester is hard. I just feel big and swollen all over. I'm excited to have my baby and get back into good shape. 👍I never had the issue with my stomach because my body type is pear and I didn't have much of a belly before pregnancy. Not sure if anyone can relate
Me too I’ve always been 183 and I’ve been eating like crazy and I’m scared when I get to 200 I don’t even want to weigh myself
Me too!!! I’m so scared 😩😩😩
I was 130 when I got married. I have since gained 100lb+ w covid and my second pregnancy being very difficult. I'm pregnant again and just saw my ob, a woman I've seen since before I was married. When I talked to her about my weight she said "you look good" when I was concerned about my body not being ready to carry a baby again... she allayed my concerns of possibly losing my baby by saying "to not be too hard on myself" I am very blessed to have this woman. I guess I just wanted to brag on her for a momen.. there are good Dr's out there. When you find one, hold on to them. I literally just followed her to her new practice, because she's that important to me.
Plus size I lost 40lbs at the beginning never gained 1lb I'm 36weeks and this is my first I was well over 230 and I'm only 5'2" all my doctor talked about was me being plus size but everything is fine no problems at all passed my glucose test I have no pains she kept telling me he will come early well I'm still pregnant and nothing so yes I agree everyone is different now my doctor tell me I'm the best one she has I'm skipping appointments because she said I'm doing so good I have ultrasound every week since 31 weeks and he is perfect
latisha adams do you didn’t gain any weight during your pregnancy?
How did you lose the weight?
latisha adams I was wondering if I would gain or lose. I’m 217 and haven’t been able to get preggo but I’ve lost 25 lbs ttc.
That doc learned she was not God!
Can you give any tips on what you did?
I’m plus and pregnant First time this is my fourth pregnancy my son is 20 and my daughters are 15 and 12 and I am now 42. I really needed this and I love the way you talk you are so sweet
I'm 24 weeks with my first child & plus size , I haven't had any worries so far & I pray it stays this way
I Had a Still Born At 29 Weeks 😔😔👣👼🏽💙
@@naturallyreece_ my condolences. I'm sorry for your loss 😔
@@nikkimartin7448 Thank You 😔😔
I am 22 weeks today.. and im +size to..
Wishing for more video’s About plussize pregnancy 😩
I have a 1 year old rainbow baby 🥰❤️
These are definitely some good points. This is my third pregnancy but my first plus size and pregnant and I’ve been extra self conscious since I found out I was pregnant a few weeks ago to the point that I already feel like I’m blown up! Thanks for this video
Thanks for helping me feel more empowered and not the shame that I have been feeling for being a bigger gal and pregnant.
I needed this video so bad. Thank you 🙏🏼 for this information. I am 23 260lbs with PCOS. But everything else is normal and struggling to get pregnant. Went to see a GYNO for fertility help. And it’s not working out. I’m being judge for trying to get pregnant. I’m being told I’ll be diabetic and will have preeclampsia if I were to fall pregnant. I cried at my appointment and was judged. So I definitely needed this video ❤
You're not. You're perfect. These doctors are not God. I'll be praying for you...KEEP TRYING TO GET YOUR BABY!
This is such a positive video! I was plus size and pregnant with my first as well :)
I’m plus size and pregnant. I am 264 pounds and 12 weeks. I pray for a healthy pregnancy. I have pcos and was told I’d never have anymore children after my daughter who is turning 11 next month. I am high risk and I am terrified of losing this one. So far things are good. I had a ultrasound yesterday and saw a good heartbeat on monitor but they couldn’t find it with Doppler so doc said it’s okay that sometimes this early you may not hear it yet but she assured me the baby is fine and has heartbeat. I go in this following Tuesday for another ultrasound in the ultrasound building so I am excited. The ultrasound you get in the ultrasound building is a lot better the ones in doctor office are small portable ones and harder to see. I really need some prayers.
You’re terrified but not enough to try a strict diet before getting pregnant.
Be honest: you are obese and no one can even ask you to diet and lose weight.
Not even your babies.
That is being selfish.
I love the discussion in these comments in addition to this video! I think it's so important to be open and consider all the options, especially while pregnant! Health is a constant experience that is personal for everyone. I have found a way healthier lifestyle by focusing on experiencing my body rather than perceiving it through the eyes of the other people.
Thank you, this was very helpful 😊
I was normal weight with my 1st pregnancy but gained 45lbs.
My 2nd pregnancy I was active, healthy and healthy weight. I gained around 35lbs.
This is now my 3rd pregnancy and I had gained a good bit of weight during the pandemic, stress eating, military move, so I was overweight bordering the obese bmi. On my first prenatal appointment I did not feel good about where I was.
I skipped a period and ovulated exactly 1 month late. I told the midwife but they went off of the last menstrual cycle. When I called to get an ultrasound for dating they told me that I was too far along and should just wait for my 20week ultrasound. The next prenatal appointment the midwife measured my uterus and said that I was actually measuring 2-3weeks further than the menstrual cycle and that I should schedule my 20week ultrasound appointment.
I have never been treated like this or left feeling so confused in my medical care. I decided since I couldn't get in to see them for an ultrasound that I'd just pay for one out in town. The ultrasound person there told me I was measuring around 12-13 weeks, which was accurate based on the ovulation date I had.
I felt like I was being treated worse and judged based on my starting weight. Also I don't have much confidence in the medical providers that I am seeing.
This is not my first pregnancy and in both of my previous pregnancies they dated my pregnancy using blood work, and an ultrasound in the office. Never did i get the run around or get talked down to like this. It was also the way she talked to me about being obese. And how she said it was too late for me to lose the weight like I disappointed her.
I am looking around for a new provider, but I'm nervous that this is just how they'll treat me. Maybe I'm better off staying away from medical providers, skip a few prenatal appointments. It seems like all they do is check my weight, remind me of my weight, check my BP and tell me that I'm at increased risk of pre-eclampsia and GD.
I have had 2 very healthy pregnancies and I lose all the baby weight and then some after baby arrives through breastfeeding and just running around being a parent.
After prenatal appointments I feel so ashamed and keep myself going on 2 small meals a day and trying to stay full by drinking water. Once I hit the 2nd trimester I have been feeling starved and have wild cravings. I never had cravings with my other pregnancies, I feel bad that I'm not enjoying this pregnancy as much as my previous ones. It's been hard though.
My midwife only wants me to gain 20lbs (pregnancy weight) and I've already gained 7lbs at 16weeks.
I’m sorry you’ve been treated like that. I pray all went well with your delivery and you and your baby are healthy! That’s what matters!
I'm 196 lbs and 24 weeks right now. Before I got pregnant I was 230 lbs. I've had hypermesis gravardium the entire pregnancy and it hasn't tapered off. I'm exhausted constantly and sleeping 12-14 hours a day. The baby's kicking started last week and it's been so scary to feel the movements inside my belly. I'm so scared of all the aches and pains I'm having I hate pregnancy!
Also my Doctor and OBGYN have talked down to me the entire pregnancy like I'm too fat to give birth and be a mother.
Happy and healthy pregnancies ladies. May you feel like yourself soon 🥰
I'm 14 weeks but on the same track as you. I started at 230 and I'm down to 207, I initially lost very quickly but now with medication kinda working I seem to be losing about a pound a week even going into 2nd trimester.
I'm 31yrs old, 5'2 230lbs. I just found out I'm pregnant, I'm so nervous for my First appointment. Being judged and put down due to my weight
I recently found out that I’m pregnant and I know I’m overweight for my height and it started to worry me bc I started losing weight! And haven’t really gained any and I’m in my second trimester but hearing you say my body takes what the baby needs makes me feel so much better!
Dont worry about losing. I only gained 15 my whole pregnancy then dropped 25 after delivery :)
In my situation, I can’t really choose my doctor but ALL my appointments have been based on my weight (BMI over 30) even though my baby and myself are “healthy.” Quote on quote because I know I’m overweight. I’ve only gained 5 pounds (27 weeks) and all my glucose tests have come out negative. I feel so alone when it comes to advocating for myself because I have this feeling of “making excuses” for myself as a plus size pregnant woman. I want my next appointment to work for me and I hope I can up for myself this time.
Thank you for this video! Not enough videos celebrating plus size pregnancy. I am currently almost 9 weeks pregnant with my surprise first baby ❤️ Just one thing to add. Prepare for an internal ultrasound. I knew it was a possibility but the reality hit kind of hard in the moment the doctor asked me to remove my pants 😂. As soon as you see your little miracle on the screen all embarrassment goes away.
The first ultra sound is always Trans vaginal until the baby gets bigger later on in the pregnancy.
Thank you so much for this video I just got a letter in the mail stating that due to me being obese and older I'm high risk and I guess the wording is what took me by surprise I was already very self-conscious about it but you know what I am going to embrace who I am because the Lord says that I am fearfully and wonderfully made and I don't care what society says anymore for many years I've kept myself contain because I didn't want to step outside the box and be judged you know what but I'm not letting anyone Judge Me Not doctor's got a new one and I know I'm going to have a beautiful healthy baby and I think I have only father advance for that and I'm going to teach my baby to be a fighter no matter what size you are what color you are what people tell you you should feel about yourself have a strong sense of self and go with love and everything will be perfectly fine thank you for this amazing video you really touched my heart
This is so helpful. Thank you esp for that last bit but honestly it’s all so good💕🥺
Thanks for posting this video. I’m 283 and I’m 33. Currently 14 weeks with my third. This pregnancy has been hard but even harder when I went to OB that automatically put me on high risk. She told me I quote your fat and your going to have a hard pregnancy. I switched to a different OB best decision I ever made. Don’t be afraid to speak up for yourself. Being plus size isn’t bad.
Yesss good for you. My drs had me going to specialist for absolutely no reason. Dont be afraid to tell them "NO"
It increases risk and isn't optimal. But that is insane to tell a pregnant woman. You can be honest and helpful
But being plus size (obese) IS bad on us, heavy on our organs, harder breathing, insulin resistance, higher risk of diabetes, sleep apnea, heart disease, cancers, etc. I'm trying to eat as healthy as I can with this pregnancy so it can not only be easier on me, so my hormones don't go out of wack and I don't lose the baby, so he or she won't have problems, etc.
I needed this. I'm 288 and me and I'm trying to get pregnant and I'm worrying that I'm too big to be getting pregnant.
Thank you so so so much for this. I’m newly pregnant and big, and I really needed other plus size women to reassure me. I’ve been so fearful. Thank you.
Thanks for this video! Hubby and I are TTC baby #2. I am plus size and had a totally healthy and normal pregnancy and delivery with my first. I was labeled high risk simply because of my weight (unsure if that’s common or not). Toward the end they wanted to do an extra ultrasound because they were concerned the baby would be too big (🙄), despite me telling them I was born at 8lb and my husband around 7lb. I knew she wasn’t too big as I carried her around every day. And alas my daughter was born a healthy 8lb 3oz. I loved proving them wrong. 🙃😉
I’m plus size and never had diabetes with ether of my pregnancies. My office will test everyone twice for it wether your plus size or not. I hate those awful sugar drinks lol. My midwife tells everyone that you should keep weight gain under 35 pounds. My doctors office and midwife are supportive. I had one super awful/traumatizing labor and one super amazing labor. I’m glad I had a team I trusted for both. You never know what’s gonna happen going into it.
Nicole Smith-Wilson I’m plus size and with my first pregnancy I never got test. I’m pregnant with my second child and nothing has been mentioned for the test. Wondering if they are gonna ask me.....
I'm plus size and I'm having complications but like you said depends person to person some won't have any issues some won't
Absolutely. Everyone is different. Thanks for watching mama! Sending prayers to you and your sweet babe!
Thank u for taking the shame out and breaking the stereotypes THANK U
Am plus size and everyone tells me I must loose weight before I get pregnant,it's really disheartening
Everyone said same to me d.w . But I'm pregnant. I'm huge trust me lol
@@nskhanom2965 Hi! I am 334 pounds and I discovered yesterday that I am pregnant. Two doctors recommended me to stop the pregnancy since there is high risk of death. Both said same thing. They were both in different clinics. I went to both ER's since I feel desperate and don't know what to do. Would you share your story please? Thank you.
Because it's the truth. Overweight pregnancy is high risk and dangerous for both baby and mother. Wouldn't you want to give your child a healthy start in life?
Your negative mom shaming comments will not be tolerated. My community is a safe space. Be positive or get blocked.
@@valentinacabrera3187 what did you decide to do if I may ask
I lost weight both times I was pregnant. But my pregnancy made me vegetarian or something. Well no. I can eat meat just not dark meat. Dark meat like beef, made me sick just smelling it.
This video is so helpful. I’m plus sized (220) and my husband and I want to get pregnant. My doctor says I’m perfectly healthy enough for pregnancy but I have anxiety and it seems so scary!
I’m so glad I found your video! You have such a positive and upbeat way of sharing information. Thank you so much for sharing.
THANK YOU so much for this video! I'm plus size and my husband and I are ttc our first baby. It's still a really confusing world, but I feel at ease now.
I love this video! It really helped answer some questions I had!
I LOVE this video! It's making me feel so much better! I'm a big girl and ttc. You're right, learn to advocate for yourself!
I have 2 beautiful kiddos now 💜
Iam 90 kgs expecting my baby. 2nd mnth pregnancy is it ok?? Iam vry worried about my weight
I went from 126lb to 200 lb with my oldest son, who's now 19 years old.
Before I was pregnant with my 2nd son I started at 185 then went up to 230lb. He's 7 years old now, and I haven't lost the weight, but now I'm 255 lbs despite trying to modify diet and exercise.
Found out a couple of months ago, my cortisol levels are off, and progesterone is low. I started topical progesterone, and now, this month, I'm 6 days late! I'm Panicking because I'm 39 years old and now morbidly obese. I'm scared I'll die giving birth, but I don't want an abortion and can't do adoption.
I'm just praying it's my hormones or even perimenopause starting... even though that scares the hell out of me too 😞😓😩
Also I was on norethindrone birth control since my youngest was born in 2015 but just stopped it back in September. Stupid me 🤦♀️
Good luck mama!
Just wondering, if you're comfortable sharing, what your pre pregnancy weight and height was
Hiiroxanne I agree
Thank you for providing this information.
It is possible to have perfectly healthy pregnancy while plus size, though complications do exist for some no matter their weight. Every pregnancy and woman is different. I'm expecting my 6th baby in 10 years, and have slowly increased weight with each one. So I have been plus size with the last 3. My 4th and 5th were born on or near due date vaginally without a single complication (just like my first 3 when I was within normal weight range), same with this baby so far. I'm 26 weeks and no complications, just more tired each pregnancy (I have also breastfed each baby 18 months or more meaning nursing through first trimester) and bit more pubic pain each time. Though a girdle/support belt or wrap help immensely with the pubic bone pain.
I'm 5 weeks and 17.. Honestly, I'm terrified because I think my blood pressure is already high but not too high. I've been drinking plenty of water and everything but I'm scared things might turn out badly
How did it go for you? I’m 4 weeks and 18 and super worried things aren’t going to go well.
Thank you so much for your video.i am 6 weeks pregnant and plus size. Hope my pregnancy will be easier than I thought. This video gave me lot of confidence.thank you so much once again.
I’ve had 2 miscarriage and my doctors says I should lose weight before I try again .. when she confirmed my pregnancy she told me straight up you can not gain more than 10lbs or imma have to put you in a diet 😞she said obesity triggers miscarriage.
Thanks for this video. The world needs more of this!
I am 33 but I am still waiting to get pregnant but I can’t pregnant so please can you help me. How I can get pregnant please?
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11 weeks pregnant after trying for a while. 2 years ago I was 300lb and I’m now 220. I feel more self conscious now the never before and I’m terrified of gaining the weight back.
my doctor told me that there’s a 1 hr and 3 hr glucose test. the one hour test you can eat but they advice you not to eat any carbs or sugar and the 3 hr test you have to fast and for at least 12 hrs before
Plus size and pregnant with baby #3. So terrified of weight gain this time for some reason. I gained about 50# with baby 1, and only 20# with baby 2. This baby I'm shooting to maintain/lose weight as baby grows. I'm much more active with this pregnancy.
Thank you!!! This was so helpful. I will come back for more questions
Im also plus weight 84 kg n my height 5.3 age 30 dr said lose weight thn u got pragnant i taked many ivf 4 month continiously n taking medicine also 4 getting pragnant now im on diet but still waiting for pragnancy plz help me wat to do.... im so worried
I'm 34yrs old about to be 35, 5'4 and weigh 300lbs. I been on IUD for 14yrs, I been with out IUD for 2 months. Im working out for 30mins at the gym and not over eating. Is anyone around the same category as me? How long did it take you to get pregnant? Ty
Really appreciate this video. Before actively trying to conceive it was brought up by my doctor to try to lose weight before MD visit to hey IUD removed (which I didn't) so I've had a bit of anxiety of hoping we have a healthy pregnancy when it happens
I’m a big girl and I’m 12 weeks pregnant and not showing yet when will I start showing
This is my 3rd baby and I’m plus size but I’ve never gained weight doing any of my pregnancies. With my second daughter I was so stressed out due to me just losing my mom and the doctors telling me I’m starving my child I was really trying my hardest.
I’m so insecure about my body I’m currently 6months pregnant and don’t look pregnant at all, I just want to say I really like what you had to say & thanks so much for posting 😊
I’m 30 weeks and most of the time I don’t feel like I look pregnant either. It sucks bc I’m basically almost due and no one can even tell so if I bring it up ppl are like “wooow how far are you” or “do you know what you’re having yet” when I’m already far along and I’ve BEEN knowing. I’ve only gained 2 pounds since I’ve been pregnant so maybe that’s why but at the same time I’m not gonna gain a bunch of weight on purpose just to maybe “look” pregnant. I hate being pregnant I feel like my experience is not what I expected at all 😢
I’m 24 weeks, and it just looks like the fat in my stomach is pushed forward, but I don’t look really pregnant. It’s a little disheartening to not look pregnant by this point.
Thanks for this video! I'm about 250 lbs and my husband and I have been TTC for 6 years. I am always somewhat worried about being plus size and pregnant even though I've seen much heavier women in pregnancy that are fine. I really hope we concieve soon.
I'm 32yrs old 5'2 230lbs, so considered obesit. My husband and I have been trying for well over 10 years to conceive. I just found I was pregnant! Still early, my period isnt due until Wednesday, 2 more days..
I'm definitely nervous, at my age being overweight with my first baby. But I'm also very hopeful and blessed, never thought this day would come. I'm pray this lil bean sticks and carries to full term healthy and strong!
GOD BLESS! Sending u lots of baby dust
Do you ovulation test to track? Or take prenatals?
@@amarie_love8923 yes
@@amarie_love8923 I am so excited for you please lmk how ur pregnancy progresses u deserve this so much!
@@amarie_love8923 and I'm turning 28 this month 5'4 height
This is very informative. I am 4 weeks and i am a bigger women. Im 226 and im just normally a bigger women. And i was worried about this pregnancy and what i need to know for me and my future baby.
I was 215. But because I'm 5"8' I held it well. Got pregnant, but had a miscarriage. We tried again and was successful. But the weight I gained from the previous pregnancy (230) was never shed off. I started off much higher and now I'm 253. I'm trying my best to eat right. Its just I'm on my bed rest and was asked to take it slow. Although I'm eating healthy, I'm still gaining alot and it's scary. This video made me not feel alone. Thank you for this❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Try Keto.
Zero carbs, zero sugar.
70 kgs overweight, and I really prayed to get pregnant 🙏😭
I love this video, you are so real and helps my confident. there are many plus sizd and pregnant videos out there now, but yours I really love! Thank you so much!
Now that I am 35 going on 36, I was trying to find videos on plus sized and "geriatric". I can not find any, but I see many commenters who were/are ttc and, at the time of the comments were weirdly all 34 (so they are my age now just about), so one, i hope for the best and don't let people put you down about your age now that you crossed the magical border age, So, two: if anyone of you did get pregnant, congrats! and.. do you have any advice or things to say about being plus sized and geriatric? I have my 3rd at home pregnancy test positive, I am looking into a doctor for my first appointment, so any advice or information, I would love. I am nervous, but also, because of this video, I am trying to be as positive as possible, but balancing the risks of also being older is getting in my head.
Love you all!! Best of luck and all good vibes!
that last point was super important, thank you
Thank you for this. Very inspiring ❤!
What no one told me was that bigger girls can’t always get an epidural! Mine wouldn’t work cause he couldn’t get the right spot due to to much fat where he puts the needle. Was quite the shock for me
I think you just had a shitty anesthesiologist.
Is it normal to have cramps like menstrual cramps? I am almost 7 weeks. I am freaking out. Even thought they told is normal to have cramps but does it las this long? I am so excited for my baby, cant wait for my angel to arrive next year. Is just i am little scared right now. If i have to be extra careful
I know this video was made years but I'm glad to have found this at 40weeks and feeling frustrated and so tired but hungry at the same time
In my country where the normal is XS my first pregnancy was very stressful due to how i was treated. (Overall my pregnancy was heavenly). Now I am pregnant again and i am even bigger than before, we are so happy that we are pregnant but I am so scared of how i will be treated.
Last pregnancy I came in and i was around 8 weeks and the nurse said “Oh my, well you’re not going to have a bigger belly than this.” I was 75kg (165lbs) and 163cm(5’3) ish. OF COURSE I GOT BIGGER. But my insecure 19 year old mind really believed this nurse and Inwas so anxious about seeing doctors after that meeting when my belly grew bigger.
I am a much stronger person today and I will definitely not tolerate that today but god,…I am still so nervous and so scared about what they will say. Today I am 209lbs which is morbidly obese here, and I really really hope they will treat me like a human. New city and new location so hopefully they are better here..
This is an excellent video - you are so friendly and encouraging and the tips you give are great
Thank You so much for this video i feel so insecure about being plus size and pregnant but this has been helpful
I have a BMI of 39 and I’m 30 weeks pregnant and don’t have gestational diabetes luckily
That's awesome! Gestational diabetes is a placenta problem, not necessarily a weight connection. But yay for healthy pregnancy!
Oh I never that thank you ❤️
This is a great topic that you don’t hear about that often! I had that issue when they measured my fundal height. And I wanted to say “duhhh! How is my belly (which has always been chubby) measure the same as a woman who had a flat belly before pregnancy!” They sent me for an extra infrasound just to be safe and we’re all good as I suspected. The most annoying issue has been trying to find plus size maternity clothing, there are a few places online, but not much offered in stores!
I loved this. I’m so scared because I’m so huge and diabetes and high blood pressure runs in my family. & my doctor definitely did judge me off the jump and I’ll be switching. Thank you
Hi. How is it going? I am 334 pounds and discovered yesterday that I am pregnant. Doctors have said very bad things and I am terrified.
@@valentinacabrera3187 same here. I am pregnant, very big and worried
I know this video is a bit older however this is my first pregnancy where I have been plus sized... First pregnancy in 14 years... My concern is when will I be able to hear baby boys heartbeat on the Doppler? I'm currently 13 weeks pregnant and weigh 247 at 5'7" tall I dzo have GD and high blood pressure and just wondering if I'll hear my baby at my appointment in a few days I have had several ultrasounds and heard it but was told by a friend I won't hear it til closer to 20 weeks ....that makes me nervous and sad since with my girls I heard at 11 weeks.... Idk this video was amazing thanks for all your kindness and support 😊
You’re video is awesome! Thank you. Always seeing ladies who are not plus size make videos! Nice to see a friendly face!
My partner and I have been together a little over 3 years. And have been having unprotected relations for 2 ish years. We haven’t been trying all that time until recently. It’s been 4 months and I’m still not pregnant. I don’t understand why. I’ve had every test done on me. My periods have been regular for about 8 months now. Which is very surprising. And we do the deed all the time.
I’m just so sad and I cry all the time. I’m losing hope. Everyone around me is having kids and or getting married. I really cannot take it no more. And I don’t have no one to talk to besides my partner. But he doesn’t really understand!
I’m plus size. 32 years old. I’m lost. I don’t know what to do. I know it’s not long for trying. But it does get frustrating. I know other ladies have been trying more longer then months.
I’m sorry if this sounds winey. Much respect to those who have a long journey!
Hi. I was just wondering if you conceived? 🙂
How is it going, currently in the same issues, I have faith everything will go well.
How is it going, currently in the same issues, I have faith everything will go well.
@@amarie_love8923
Sadly, no. Just wasn’t meant to be. We are also no longer together. I am now a single person and currently attending school to help better my life. Chose a different path for life now. Also I think I’m premenopausal now. Hot flashes galore. 🥵🥵🥵
Parenthood just wasn’t in the cards.
I am plus size pregnant and i get too nervous when i find some changes.. Suddenly my left side is paining continuously what it is?
It’s because you are obese.
It’s selfish to get pregnant before losing the weight.
You obese women aren’t thinking about the baby.
My fiancé and I have been trying for about 6 months now and I’ve had one daughter 5 years ago,.. I hate telling anyone we’re trying because everyone always says “loose weight you’ll get pregnant right away” it makes me feel so horrible😔
i'm sorry you are going through this right now. a close friend of mine has been told that she can't have children. it upset her for many years.. then she started having symptoms, she thought she was really sick, got really freaked out. turns out she was pregnant! now she already has 3 children, all very healthy and the pregnancies went well too, although she was around 120 kg, at a hight of 160cm, which is considered obese in medical perspective. don't lose hope, just try to not stress and have fun in life
Ashley Garcia everyone tells me to lose weight myself I’m 5 foot 4 and I weigh 220 I hate it but I’ve struggled with my weight since I was little no matter what I do but all my friends have been small during their pregnancies so I’m worried I won’t get pregnant unless I lose weight
Don't always listen to everyone that says lose weight and you will get pregnant. I am 280 pounds, my husband and I have been trying for 5 years and I never got pregnant once. I found out after being referred to a fertility clinic around year 3 that I have 1 completely blocked fallopian tube and 1 tube that is narrow and weak and my chances of conceiving naturally are slim to none even if I was 120 pounds. So lose weight and just relax would not have helped me. Lose weight if you want to for health, but if your not getting pregnant make sure you find a doctor that will listen to you and really investigate what is going on beyond your weight.
Update. I had a son and he just turned 8 months!💙 (Also I didn’t end up losing weight beforehand, ironically I lost 30 lbs DURING the pregnancy)
I'm a plus size pregnant ma'am... I'm 2months preggy... And I thanks God for this ..
How did you birth your baby? Is it caesar or normal?
Im 10 weeks pregnant i havent had bad morning sickness only nausea and headaches. My ob told me its bad to lose weight when pregnant because of causing low or high blood pressure
Both my pregnancies were perfect and wonderful and actually very easy! I am super happy though that after a twin loss a few years ago, I knew the weight was certainly a factor. If you are on a low carb diet consistently, your chance of failing the 1 hour test is very good. You can talk with your doctor about refusing the glucose test and just monitoring your blood sugar levels like a diabetic for a week. Next month I will be 35 and I will be TTC pretty soon, as I have since November lost 80 pounds and am within 20 pounds of my goal weight. I now have age as another factor against me, but I have a great doctor I trust in my corner who is willing to work with me.
Congrats on TTC soon! Fingers crossed and lots of baby dust your way!
I have a 40 BMI , 5ft 3 in 230 lbs for all 4 of my babies I didn't have or get diabetes. My friend who lived with me during her pregnancy ended up having it & she is a foot shorter & 60lbs lighter than me. It was hard for her because she is Latina& had to cut out all the yummy carbs. I really missed making all the tamales she couldn't eat anymore
Her bmi would have been higher than yours because of her height about 45
I started at 170, I'm 190 and at 17 weeks. I've sat down and I only eat 1950 calories bc the 2120 for my second trimester had me gain 9 pounds in a week n a half. Its frustrating.. Now I focus on nutrition v.s calories and I feel better than I have in forever and I am not going to look at the scale any longer. If I am eating nutrient rich foods then it shouldn't matter right?