Nope. I disagree. I feel like the guy was in the wrong for coming dressed like that. Out of context. No preamble. Just a wedding I must go in full uniform. Can you give a good reason why it would be a good idea for him to come dressed like that?
@@Splexsychiick The full dress uniform is the most formal uniform in the military. Weddings are amongst the few occasions where they are allowed to be worn.
the marine should have gotten permission to wear the blues uniform. its not a military wedding and he should have showed up in a suit with a lapel pin. i will never wear my uniform to my nieces wedding. i have a retired marine lapel pin i was awarded when i retired.
Well speaking as a United States 🇺🇸 Marine. I wore my dress blues to my sister in laws wedding years ago. And everything was fine, no one was offended and all was well! So I will take the side of my Marine brother on this one! The average person has no idea what you have to go through to earn the United States Marine dress blues! OOHRAH
@@ryanwashington7884 I live right here by the back gate of camp pendelton...those men go thru so much grueling excercise its incredible !!! These people just have no respect for their military or themselves for that matter..my dad was a 30 year veteran of korea and 4 tours in vietnam and came back in one piece...his helicopter crashed all his men perished and he kept focus and trudged on to get the rest !!! Nothing but respect do i give our military and especially the marine corp !!!
He did not overshadow the bride. She did it herself. This wedding will always be remembered as the wedding where the bride kicked out the Marine. No one at the wedding will recallect anything about the day but that. I bet they are not still married.
The retired vet has to live with the embarrassing of going to a wedding in full uniform for no reason. He had no reason to be in full uniform. It's the bride and grooms event so if they wanted him gone it's their right and they shouldn't feel bad for it.
@@augustuslunasol10thapostle they didn't specify not to wear a costume but everyone seemed to know not to do that. Ya know social norms and etiquette. Maybe the guy was special and or doesnt go out often so doesn't realize these kind of things. Still...when in doubt ask. Whenever there is a dress code people ask what's ok and what's not ok especially when not sure. His fault he made an oopsy. I don't think the bride was immature for having him removed. I think it was kind of rude of her to do so especially if he had to travel to come to the event but she did what she did probably under emotional duress. It's a very special day and he put a damper on it. As well all can agree since it was her event/special day she could kick out whomever she wanted.
@Based Serb not having anything else to wear isn't a valid excuse. When there is a dress code for an event when in doubt ask for permission or confirmation your outfit is ok. Nothing wrong with doing that. If they really wanted him there they would have told him yes to come like that or tell him to come in jeans /something else. Now an up an above step some people do is buy their beloved guest an outfit to wear. If not just don't show up. The wife kicked him out and the husband allowed it. I can only speculate on their relationship with the man.
@@augustuslunasol10thapostle he wouldn't even have a clue. On what your talking about. He probably never even served Day One in the Cub Scouts. His closets to serving? Is playing Call of Duty and eating Hot Pockets! LoL They will never know? What we Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen, Marines and Coast Guard. Have done to keep our Nation Safe.
I became a Marine Nov 1983. I have NEVER been turned away for wearing my BLUES to a wedding. This bridezilla needs a reality check. The bride is always the wedding focus. The Marine's appearance takes nothing away from it. While the Marine may get some attention in uniform, it is only partial as everyone is always present to appreciate the bride and groom.
The bride was definitely in the wrong. You don't kick somebody out of your wedding just for wearing a uniform. I don't care how "distracting" it is. She's just a bridezilla in my opinion. I feel bad for the groom.
@@thamas_420 lmao did you smoke before coming up with that reply? The dude is out of the service and has zero requirements to wear his dress blues as a civi.
@@davidscott1340 he has zero requirement to ware any other clothes, the woman didn’t have a problem with the clothes only the attention that came with it, she is a narcissist for only caring about herself and not people who have done far better things than she has ever done or is going to do.
@@thamas_420 he wore it for attention. IDGAF about the bride. I'm tired of thirsty vets wanting attention for being in the service. Signing up to be a boot for an expansionist global force doesn't make you a hero. It makes you a redcoat.
I don't. So what if he did what you claim. He had no good reason to come dressed like that. No reason at all. Just because someone is a 'hero' doesn't mean they can do what they want without care of others. Proper wedding etiquette dictates you don't outshine the wedding couple.
@@codyjohnson7195 did the US marine Corp pay for this wedding? Did the bride and groom tell him to wear full uniform? Did someone in military tell him to wear full uniform? The answer is no. He had the option to wear it and he had the option not to. He chose the wrong one and got kicked out.
@@Splexsychiick yes and he did nothing wrong by wearing his uniform. Sure it's their right to kick him out but the way most see it, the wife shouldn't have married him in the first place if she had such a problem with his uniform and pride.
@@Splexsychiick I was in the Marine Corps and I would not have worn my dress uniform unless I was in the wedding and was asked to. That being said I could never be happy with someone who takes themselves that seriously that they would kick someone out of a wedding for wearing it.
I wore my Army Dress Blues for my first wedding in 1993, and so did my best man. My bride's grandmother made a big fuss asking me not to. My bride had no problem with it. But when our marriage fell apart just 42 days later, my bride's grandmotehr who was the instigator of our separation listed that as one of the reasons why I was now separated, my insistence on doing things MY way.
@@pragmaticskeptic looking back on it now, the people I should have talked to was her sister, and her brothers, and her mother too. The problem was I had gotten earfuls from the grandmotehr telling how devious they all were and they were all spies for her mother who was going to find out everything she could about my money and steal it, so every time I was round her mother and sister, I felt like I had to be wary. he sister once tried to palm be her telephone number but the grandmotehr saw it and made me give it back. THat should have been a red flag. And really I could have found out her number from Information. It might have been an eye opener, and we might have not even got married in the first place.
If you understand what jealous is then she has every right to be. That asshole was virtue signaling at her wedding. The day isn't about a fucking boot for the us government.
I hope everyone left the wedding after that. You have to be on a new level of jealousy to make a Marine leave your wedding because he’s getting more attention than you.
He had no reason to go to the wedding dressed like that. None what so ever. Context matters and that guy was being a tool. Looking for any opportunity to relive his glory days. Only a prick would do something like this at a wedding. Etiquette dictate you don't try to upstage the wedding couple. Its rude. How she and the groom felt was more important than him wanting to show off his shiny metals.
Served 8 yrs in US Marine Corp and I think I feel Sorry for the New Husband had to go home with her,I bet that they will not stay Maryed for short time
Sounds like she was Butt Hurt because someone that served our country for our freedoms stole her attention. She should have asked for a picture with him and thanked him for protecting our ways of life to make her day possible in my opinion.
Black tie optional ... ok, this was a formal occasion if it is black tie. Therefore, the Marine was following the dress code for the wedding. Bride needs to grow up and get over herself.
Notice to the groom: You might wanna pull the ejection handle and bail out out. Cause the day you start looking better than she does, she gonna ask you to leave.
She that it was immature for him to wear his dress blues. She she does the most immature thing she could do. I feel sorry for her new husband. That marriage will be a living hell for him.
When I got married two years ago, one of my buddies he is a 🇺🇸 US Marine, I invited him and I told him to wear his service dress at our wedding. My bride who is my wife now, she didn’t mind for the contrary she feel honored as well as me. As part of the ceremony he escorted my bride to my father in law and then to the altar it was a beautiful and memorable wedding. He even stay afterwards at the reception. Everybody was impressed with him as well. But regardless nobody was bother or offended. They were honored to have somebody like him around us. I take the side of the this US Marine soldier and thank you for your service. Semper Fi. God Bless. PS: For that wedding I feel sorry for the groom and for the guests there were there attending there. As for the bride, learn about the culture of the US Marines Corps and US Armed forces so you can learn and understand what everybody goes through and what they have to do to achieve even their Service Dress Uniform. Education is the key of success. God bless.
You said it well, I served in the Air Force securing nuclear weapons, the investigation the FBI does on you to even think of making such a position is so deep, Anyone thinking being in a military uniform is easy should go ahead and enlist and complete basic military training, then come talk about it!!!! I would be honored to have a Marine in my wedding!!!!
He earned the right to wear that uniform and the corps tell's him where to not wear and wear his uniform. No mention if the ignorant bride ask any women who were prettier or who could dance better was asked to leave. Here's a thought!,,,, maybe the groom was rhe one with the issue and she asked because he didn't have the guts. In that case she is going to have to have his trousers altered
At the funeral of my beloved wife, our grandson wore his Marine Blues uniform. He wore it, not to gain attention, but to honor his grandmother. It added dignity to a very sad event.
It's not just some black tie event. It's a wedding. You don't wear *full* uniform at someone's wedding just because you feel like it. Its rude and disrespectful. You wear it if they ask you to or if they tell you it's ok. Even if the bride or grooms is a former soldier it would still be weird because they chose not to wear their uniform for their ceremony. Don't take someone's special day to show off all your shiney medals. It's a prick move. Etiquette dictate that you do not try to upstage the bride and groom.
I understand this women's point, as he didn't inform the bride. Although not asked to leave a wedding in my Army ASU (Blues), it irked my cousin's wedding.
Well he should be allowed to wear dress blues there because he earned the title of a Marine. The bride wants to put others down because he attracted more attention? No, so if Lady GaGa or a famous celebrity comes to her wedding, the bride kicks them out? Doesn’t make any sense, if anything and you want attention to all be on you, it’s like inviting only homeless people so no one’s attention is on them and it’s all on you.
I have 6 of them from the Air Force and you can bet I earned them, she would have been washed out the first day of Basic Training because the Drill Instructors do get ALL of the attention!!!!
My childhood friend and his bride INSISTED I show up to their wedding in my Class A's. I was going to wear just slacks and a sports coat which I changed into before I went to the reception. When I arrived at the church people in the parking lot thought I was in a foreign military because they had never seen a standard paratrooper Class A setup. Realizing I may be a distraction I sat in the back away from everyone. When I arrived at the reception I was surprised at how many people were disappointed that I wasn't wearing the uniform. That woman was the definition of "Bridezilla/Narcissist". My sympathies to her husband.....
With everything that devil dog has went through for our country, and she has the audacity to kick him out. So disrespectful. She should be honored to have a United States Marine attend her wedding, let alone where his snazzy well-earned dress blues.
If I was at a wedding and I would see them ask him to leave I would leave.......and she could enjoy her day that he and others like him protected......
Lol what!? How do you see both sides? How was the Marine being "immature." Lol. Sounds like the bride is immature and needs to come down to reality. That's insane. There is no "seeing both sides" to this... in my opinion.
Well I see it this way, I can choose to put the effort to put on my dress blues and risk getting attention or allow the bride to have the 100 percent attention by not putting on my uniform. I wouldn't put my uniform on for anybodys wedding. Its her day, let it be, who gives a f*ck. But yes it was a little immature she kinda shined a bad light on herself.
@@silence227B why should you be worried about drawing any attention to yourself? That's the point I'm trying to make....well that and how could a person be so petty/self-conscious/attention seeking to think that a person in their dress uniform takes the spotlight away from them? Lol. If I were the groom, I would've ran for the hills after witnessing that.
@@rodneygreenway982 lol ur right about that, it raises alot of red flags. I would say its more like if I knew the person was petty I would do what I can as to not step on her toes. But at the same time I wouldn't accociate with someone so thin skinned, but now a days it seems its unavoidable so I've some what accepted that I will need to cater to their "needs".
Civilians realize that we go to balls every year, right? The "squared away" military ball, is more formal than most people experience in life. You look and have to look like a million dollars, or you get rolled up by higher ups. Then you factor in the Marines, and the standards go even higher than the Army with dress standards.....after all....Marines are known for two things. Being the prettiest person in the room And eating crayons Hooah? ;)
@@rachmae4180 let's flip it. Just like how you were appalled at how some people came dressed informally the bride was appalled he came dressed in full uniform. No context. No preamble. Just full uniforms with medals etc at a wedding. That's inappropriate...and she didn't want it in her event. An event she and the groom worked hard to prepare and pay for. Rude for her to embarrass him like that but rude of him to come dressed like that.
@@jeremymartin9241 >.> When's the last time you heard a Marine calling other Marines crayon eaters? Army tanker here, through and throughout. Silly Marine...
@@Splexsychiick What if he couldn't afford to rent a suit? Or if the wedding was last second and no stores near him had suits to rent within that time frame 🤷♀️. I can see where the SGT was saying that, if it's not a military event and he didn't get permission from the couple. But I feel like there were a lot of factors involved in this story that we don't get to hear, as we only get to hear it from the brides POV. It is her big day and she should be happy, but I also feel like if people adored her from the beginning, she wouldn't have had to worry about a marine stealing the spot light. And she drew more attention to the marine after she kicked him out. They probably weren't even paying a lick of attention honestly. Looking at a uniform gets boring after a while, NGL
Full Dress is for military functions. I was taught that Mess Dress is for social occasions. Mind you, USMC Mess Dress has more bling than she could possibly handle.
I’m not very familiar in the wedding or military scene but why wear your uniform to someone’s wedding in the first place? It just doesn’t seem like appropriate attire for that kind of occasion to me.
The USMC Dress Blues in function, are for a black tie event in civilian standards. The wedding was a black tie event, so the Marine was not wrong in the technical sense of wearing his uniform. Bride just got real jealous.
@@brucetumpalan6399 ....I disagree. He was wrong in the technical sense and in the 'lets use common sense way'. No one asked him to come in full uniform. No one told him it would be ok. It's a wedding not just some black tie event. Only time it would be ok is if they had told him it's ok to dress in full uniform. Yes the bride was jealous. Etiquette dictates you don't upstage the bride and groom.
@@brucetumpalan6399 it’s not a military event man. Total boot move. Like showing up to high school graduation in your dress blues. Just, wrong time and place. Common sense.
@@WinPPham Is a funeral a military event? How about a parade? Military event? A graduation? A dance? A Ball? Everyone of these could or could not be a military event and yet they are all authorized uniform wear. Your OPINION doesn't change that.
A simple solution that completely avoids the "wear/don't wear" debate, just ASK the couple. It's THEIR wedding after all. Nothing wrong with appreciating military service, but that's not what the event is about, just ask and avoid the entire debate in the first place, why is something as simple as TALKING so hard for people? Geez...
He had no right to be dressed like that. It was a private none military event. A wedding. There was no reason for him to come dressed like that. If the bride wanted him in full uniform they would have said so. I've seen weddings with military friends and family dressed in full uniform. He should have asked if it would have been ok (he didnt). Since it's a private event...a wedding they had every right to kick him out of it for what ever reason they felt was just. Its rude to upstage the bride and groom on their wedding day.
@@augustuslunasol10thapostle I feel like people like you don't often get invited to these sort of social events. I guess it would be the bride and groom fault as well if someone showed up in a bird suit. It's not like they told guest _not_ to wear a bird suit. It's common sense. Social norms, etiquette and all that jazz. Common sense ain't always common I suppose. Not like he was the only marine or military man at the event...yet he was the only one decked out. Yet it doesn't ring off to you that he was the problem. He had no good reason to come dressed like that. None what's so ever. Not having anything else to wear isn't even a good excuse.
i was invited to a friends wedding,,,,mentioned that i only had my dress greens....groom was fine with it....bride was happy as well.....but maitron of honor was furious....and it wasnt her wedding....she told me to leave...never saw bride or groom at the wedding.....both were upset....told them who told me to leave....well...im sure you can figure what happened next.....but the bride made it clear it was her wedding...not the maitron of honors
The bride is a narcissist and selfish .She should have been honoured to have a Marine veteran there
Yeah!
Nope. I disagree. I feel like the guy was in the wrong for coming dressed like that. Out of context. No preamble. Just a wedding I must go in full uniform. Can you give a good reason why it would be a good idea for him to come dressed like that?
@@Splexsychiick
He is proud of his service and may have given up a lot in that service. In years gone by this would not have been an issue.
@@Splexsychiick The full dress uniform is the most formal uniform in the military. Weddings are amongst the few occasions where they are allowed to be worn.
@@supremecaffeine2633 so you think he was right to dress like that? That it was appropriate attire for that specific wedding... 🙄
she thought it was immature, she needs to take a very long look in the mirror
That Marriage will not last long.
the marine should have gotten permission to wear the blues uniform. its not a military wedding and he should have showed up in a suit with a lapel pin. i will never wear my uniform to my nieces wedding. i have a retired marine lapel pin i was awarded when i retired.
@@UNKNOWN-le2tu Negative. Read the rules, grunt.
@@leek5890 im a marine and i would never wear my blues uniform to a wedding without asking first.
@@UNKNOWN-le2tu respect for being respectful
I feel sorry for the husband. He'll have to live with her for the rest of his life LOL
No they don't have to stay Married remember there's a high divorce rate here in America happens every day
@@lesliemillni4921 she'll get half of his stuff then receive alimony and child support. fantastic
@@russell2890 not if he buries her someplace, cement no one will miss her.
@@lesliemillni4921 damn. that escalated quickly
@@russell2890 It's the thought that count, haha
Hell yeah, marines being the center of attention, OORAH!!!
Rah
ANY RIFLEMAN WEARING HIS UNIFORM IS GOING TO GET THE LADIES TO FLUSH... Even a old nasty pickle suit. MAYBE, that was the issue!
The USN has HM so that even The USMC can have heroes.... lol
Semper fyckin' Fi, Buddy!
The bride _did_ say Black Tie was optional... Since Dress Blues are equivalent, she damn well asked for it.
After Green Berets
She’s mad that she wasn’t getting attention
So
AZ - I guess it was a really special day for her but That guy earned the right to wear the uniform he fought for our country and went threw boot camp
Kylie Rowan it’s selfish and narcissistic and histrionic
Loki 2020 Joker Can I not tell the truth.
@@behindyou6427 I agree with you.
God help the new husband.
I don't even see what he sees in her
@@Aviationgeek21 excuse the husband, for he had a little too much to drink
Well speaking as a United States 🇺🇸 Marine. I wore my dress blues to my sister in laws wedding years ago. And everything was fine, no one was offended and all was well! So I will take the side of my Marine brother on this one! The average person has no idea what you have to go through to earn the United States Marine dress blues! OOHRAH
Awww big shit , 12 weeks so what. Running, and jumping and shit, so what.
@@richardrykard3246 You should look up videos on what U.S. Marine Corps Boot Camp training is like before you comment !!!
Sounds like someone received an ELS and couldn't meet the requirements.
@@ryanwashington7884
I live right here by the back gate of camp pendelton...those men go thru so much grueling excercise its incredible !!! These people just have no respect for their military or themselves for that matter..my dad was a 30 year veteran of korea and 4 tours in vietnam and came back in one piece...his helicopter crashed all his men perished and he kept focus and trudged on to get the rest !!! Nothing but respect do i give our military and especially the marine corp !!!
Seriously bruh 😎 Semper Fi brother
That’s just so damn selfish of her. The wedding is about two people and she wanted it to be alllllll about her
Last I checked she wasn't marrying the marine. I disagree about kicking him out, but her frustration isn't unwarranted.
He did not overshadow the bride. She did it herself. This wedding will always be remembered as the wedding where the bride kicked out the Marine. No one at the wedding will recallect anything about the day but that. I bet they are not still married.
The retired vet has to live with the embarrassing of going to a wedding in full uniform for no reason. He had no reason to be in full uniform. It's the bride and grooms event so if they wanted him gone it's their right and they shouldn't feel bad for it.
@@Splexsychiick embarrassment? I dont see any shame or embarrassment in wearing a uniform to a formal event.
@@augustuslunasol10thapostle they didn't specify not to wear a costume but everyone seemed to know not to do that. Ya know social norms and etiquette. Maybe the guy was special and or doesnt go out often so doesn't realize these kind of things. Still...when in doubt ask. Whenever there is a dress code people ask what's ok and what's not ok especially when not sure. His fault he made an oopsy. I don't think the bride was immature for having him removed. I think it was kind of rude of her to do so especially if he had to travel to come to the event but she did what she did probably under emotional duress. It's a very special day and he put a damper on it. As well all can agree since it was her event/special day she could kick out whomever she wanted.
@Based Serb not having anything else to wear isn't a valid excuse. When there is a dress code for an event when in doubt ask for permission or confirmation your outfit is ok. Nothing wrong with doing that. If they really wanted him there they would have told him yes to come like that or tell him to come in jeans /something else. Now an up an above step some people do is buy their beloved guest an outfit to wear. If not just don't show up. The wife kicked him out and the husband allowed it. I can only speculate on their relationship with the man.
@@augustuslunasol10thapostle he wouldn't even have a clue. On what your talking about. He probably never even served Day One in the Cub Scouts. His closets to serving? Is playing Call of Duty and eating Hot Pockets! LoL They will never know? What we Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen, Marines and Coast Guard. Have done to keep our Nation Safe.
I became a Marine Nov 1983. I have NEVER been turned away for wearing my BLUES to a wedding. This bridezilla needs a reality check. The bride is always the wedding focus. The Marine's appearance takes nothing away from it. While the Marine may get some attention in uniform, it is only partial as everyone is always present to appreciate the bride and groom.
She kicked out the nicest dressed person there
The bride was definitely in the wrong. You don't kick somebody out of your wedding just for wearing a uniform. I don't care how "distracting" it is. She's just a bridezilla in my opinion. I feel bad for the groom.
The wedding is about the couple. You don't go to a wedding and stand out like that. He did it for attention.
@@davidscott1340 he might have done it for many reasons but the last reason a vet would do it for was attention.
@@thamas_420 lmao did you smoke before coming up with that reply? The dude is out of the service and has zero requirements to wear his dress blues as a civi.
@@davidscott1340 he has zero requirement to ware any other clothes, the woman didn’t have a problem with the clothes only the attention that came with it, she is a narcissist for only caring about herself and not people who have done far better things than she has ever done or is going to do.
@@thamas_420 he wore it for attention. IDGAF about the bride. I'm tired of thirsty vets wanting attention for being in the service. Signing up to be a boot for an expansionist global force doesn't make you a hero. It makes you a redcoat.
She is the one that is immature. She is as completely out of line, that man fought for her and she just craped all over him, I feel sorry for him
I don't. So what if he did what you claim. He had no good reason to come dressed like that. No reason at all. Just because someone is a 'hero' doesn't mean they can do what they want without care of others. Proper wedding etiquette dictates you don't outshine the wedding couple.
@@Splexsychiick Bru U.S. Marine Corp dress code states that a marine has the option to wear his formal uniform at a wedding.
@@codyjohnson7195 did the US marine Corp pay for this wedding? Did the bride and groom tell him to wear full uniform? Did someone in military tell him to wear full uniform? The answer is no. He had the option to wear it and he had the option not to. He chose the wrong one and got kicked out.
@@Splexsychiick yes and he did nothing wrong by wearing his uniform. Sure it's their right to kick him out but the way most see it, the wife shouldn't have married him in the first place if she had such a problem with his uniform and pride.
@@Splexsychiick I was in the Marine Corps and I would not have worn my dress uniform unless I was in the wedding and was asked to. That being said I could never be happy with someone who takes themselves that seriously that they would kick someone out of a wedding for wearing it.
I wore my Army Dress Blues for my first wedding in 1993, and so did my best man. My bride's grandmother made a big fuss asking me not to. My bride had no problem with it. But when our marriage fell apart just 42 days later, my bride's grandmotehr who was the instigator of our separation listed that as one of the reasons why I was now separated, my insistence on doing things MY way.
You dodged a bullet, they should have been nothing but proud of you .. carry on
You are lucky you escaped, and I love the USMC.
@@pragmaticskeptic looking back on it now, the people I should have talked to was her sister, and her brothers, and her mother too. The problem was I had gotten earfuls from the grandmotehr telling how devious they all were and they were all spies for her mother who was going to find out everything she could about my money and steal it, so every time I was round her mother and sister, I felt like I had to be wary. he sister once tried to palm be her telephone number but the grandmotehr saw it and made me give it back. THat should have been a red flag. And really I could have found out her number from Information. It might have been an eye opener, and we might have not even got married in the first place.
Makes me sick
She should have been honored. Marines wear the Formals on very rare occasions.
I am Canadian Man and like the anchor said Nothing better then Military Uniforms at a wedding, and the Blues is wonderful, jealous chick
If you understand what jealous is then she has every right to be. That asshole was virtue signaling at her wedding. The day isn't about a fucking boot for the us government.
@@davidscott1340 man I wish I could be a miserable piece of shit my whole life just like you.
Marine dress blues have been dropping panties since 1775. Don't hate, it's unbecoming. Semper Fi!😎
Not now that people understand that 22 years of middle eastern oil wars do nothing but make fat cats fatter.
Rah brother
Groom should have walked out the dor as well.
I can see her point but her decision to exclude him demonstrates her lack of self confidence and myopic world view.
I disagree.
She prolly big nasty
@@Splexsychiick nicely elaborate reply, really conveys a meaningful response with great depth and forethought.
@@platinumsky845 thank you
What a spoiled rotten child. I really feel sorry for the groom, he should of left with the Marine, and so should of the rest of the group.
A bride with issues!
I hope everyone left the wedding after that.
You have to be on a new level of jealousy to make a Marine leave your wedding because he’s getting more attention than you.
Groom standing to the side trying to get drunk quickly after he saw his future flash before him...poor slob. 😂
People who serve our country is more important then a wedding . Sorry to say
Someone elses wedding is not the place to be showing it off though
@@anonacct4676 Still no reason to kick out a man who served our country. All because you weren't the center of attention at that moment?
He had no reason to go to the wedding dressed like that. None what so ever. Context matters and that guy was being a tool. Looking for any opportunity to relive his glory days. Only a prick would do something like this at a wedding. Etiquette dictate you don't try to upstage the wedding couple. Its rude. How she and the groom felt was more important than him wanting to show off his shiny metals.
Cryptic Cyclone This is America and he has freedom
@@kylierowan1714 this is youtube
As a veteran, if I had been part of the wedding party, or just an attendee, I would have left also.
Served 8 yrs in US Marine Corp and I think I feel Sorry for the New Husband had to go home with her,I bet that they will not stay Maryed for short time
The husband should have thought twice before saying Ido to her.
Yes, the bride is not only wrong but a narcissist.
Yea but he went through blood sweat and tears to where that uniform
Bride should be ashamed of herself.
I would have considered calling it off as the groom. Kind of a red flag...Bride too insecure.
He was proud of his service and somebody I call names was not proud of his service.
The bride was jealous that he looked better than her husband lol.
Sounds like she was Butt Hurt because someone that served our country for our freedoms stole her attention. She should have asked for a picture with him and thanked him for protecting our ways of life to make her day possible in my opinion.
Bet the marriage is already over.
Wow my lil brother is wearing one of those he's just 19 he's always been living life fast.
My Semper Fi to your little brother. HoooRahhh Marine!
@@764144344 *Oohrah
@@jjustjoking2116 No, its hoorah
@@franciscofranco8943 thanks for the correction
@@franciscofranco8943 oohrah is a Marine term hoorah is army. Know the difference
The only real victim in this entire ordeal is the new husband. RIP.
The bride is self absorbed. It shouldn't have happened to anyone in the service.
Black tie optional ... ok, this was a formal occasion if it is black tie. Therefore, the Marine was following the dress code for the wedding. Bride needs to grow up and get over herself.
Agreed. He was wearing exactly what he should be. Bride was being an unreasoning witch. Shame on her.
He could have wore an even fancier uniform. The Evening Dress uniform. Pretty snazzy dress blues.
Notice to the groom:
You might wanna pull the ejection handle and bail out out. Cause the day you start looking better than she does, she gonna ask you to leave.
She wouldn’t be having that wedding if that marine along with other veterans out there didn’t fight for their life
She should have been proud
A vet should never have to be treated this way...........
This poor man married a narcissist.
She that it was immature for him to wear his dress blues. She she does the most immature thing she could do. I feel sorry for her new husband. That marriage will be a living hell for him.
She should be ashamed of herself for kicking him out of the wedding. Grow up lady because it's because of our military that you can get married.
Huh I kinda see both points but he earned the right to wear that uniform and fought for our country and went threw boot camp
When I got married two years ago, one of my buddies he is a 🇺🇸 US Marine, I invited him and I told him to wear his service dress at our wedding. My bride who is my wife now, she didn’t mind for the contrary she feel honored as well as me. As part of the ceremony he escorted my bride to my father in law and then to the altar it was a beautiful and memorable wedding. He even stay afterwards at the reception. Everybody was impressed with him as well. But regardless nobody was bother or offended. They were honored to have somebody like him around us. I take the side of the this US Marine soldier and thank you for your service. Semper Fi. God Bless.
PS: For that wedding I feel sorry for the groom and for the guests there were there attending there. As for the bride, learn about the culture of the US Marines Corps and US Armed forces so you can learn and understand what everybody goes through and what they have to do to achieve even their Service Dress Uniform. Education is the key of success. God bless.
You said it well, I served in the Air Force securing nuclear weapons, the investigation the FBI does on you to even think of making such a position is so deep, Anyone thinking being in a military uniform is easy should go ahead and enlist and complete basic military training, then come talk about it!!!! I would be honored to have a Marine in my wedding!!!!
“You either die a hero or live long enough to see yourself become the villain.”
He earned the right to wear that uniform and the corps tell's him where to not wear and wear his uniform. No mention if the ignorant bride ask any women who were prettier or who could dance better was asked to leave. Here's a thought!,,,, maybe the groom was rhe one with the issue and she asked because he didn't have the guts. In that case she is going to have to have his trousers altered
It's their wedding and the day is THEIRS
At the funeral of my beloved wife, our grandson wore his Marine Blues uniform. He wore it, not to gain attention, but to honor his grandmother. It added dignity to a very sad event.
If he didn't get a wedding invitation, why was he there? As long as I've known, invitations are sent out to attend weddings.
So, a women desperate for attention kicked out an honest to God marine from her wedding, and had the nerve to call _him_ immature?
Military wear their formal uniform to black tie events. That’s how it is. Few bad for whoever married this woman
It's not just some black tie event. It's a wedding. You don't wear *full* uniform at someone's wedding just because you feel like it. Its rude and disrespectful. You wear it if they ask you to or if they tell you it's ok. Even if the bride or grooms is a former soldier it would still be weird because they chose not to wear their uniform for their ceremony. Don't take someone's special day to show off all your shiney medals. It's a prick move. Etiquette dictate that you do not try to upstage the bride and groom.
Don’t be a fucking boot. It’s not a military event. Time and place matters.
So disrespectful. I’m 15 and I want to join the army/marines or the AF when I’m 17
The groom should be terrified where this marriage is headed.
Why are you surprised the "internet is divided"? Lots of Pajama Boys on the Web....and Karens.
They are just so jealous, cause his Marine uniform is very attractive, and it can beat any civilian outfit out there, OORAH Devil Dog, Semper Fi!!
Everything a good citizen should do.Thank them and take pictures.
Fuck off you bootlicker piece of shit!
I would never wear any of my uniforms outside of a military event. I stay humble
Everyone should have left the wedding.
I understand this women's point, as he didn't inform the bride. Although not asked to leave a wedding in my Army ASU (Blues), it irked my cousin's wedding.
Well he should be allowed to wear dress blues there because he earned the title of a Marine. The bride wants to put others down because he attracted more attention? No, so if Lady GaGa or a famous celebrity comes to her wedding, the bride kicks them out? Doesn’t make any sense, if anything and you want attention to all be on you, it’s like inviting only homeless people so no one’s attention is on them and it’s all on you.
What is she 6 years old needing all that attention?
For most soldiers, the class A uniform is the first and only suit they own. Maybe rent a suit for an event like this.
She could have gotten medals too if she would have signed up for the military 😎
I have 6 of them from the Air Force and you can bet I earned them, she would have been washed out the first day of Basic Training because the Drill Instructors do get ALL of the attention!!!!
My father is a Marine he’s a Corporal. This is unacceptable.
My childhood friend and his bride INSISTED I show up to their wedding in my Class A's. I was going to wear just slacks and a sports coat which I changed into before I went to the reception. When I arrived at the church people in the parking lot thought I was in a foreign military because they had never seen a standard paratrooper Class A setup. Realizing I may be a distraction I sat in the back away from everyone. When I arrived at the reception I was surprised at how many people were disappointed that I wasn't wearing the uniform.
That woman was the definition of "Bridezilla/Narcissist". My sympathies to her husband.....
Husband should have left her at the alter
An entire generation of American veterans from Vietnam could not wear a uniform in civilian society without being derided.
With everything that devil dog has went through for our country, and she has the audacity to kick him out. So disrespectful. She should be honored to have a United States Marine attend her wedding, let alone where his snazzy well-earned dress blues.
Would've left her at the Alter. If I was the Groom.
If I was at a wedding and I would see them ask him to leave I would leave.......and she could enjoy her day that he and others like him protected......
If I was the husband I would have yelled "I DON'T!"
I can see both sides of the argument
How?
Lol what!? How do you see both sides? How was the Marine being "immature." Lol. Sounds like the bride is immature and needs to come down to reality. That's insane. There is no "seeing both sides" to this... in my opinion.
Well I see it this way, I can choose to put the effort to put on my dress blues and risk getting attention or allow the bride to have the 100 percent attention by not putting on my uniform. I wouldn't put my uniform on for anybodys wedding. Its her day, let it be, who gives a f*ck. But yes it was a little immature she kinda shined a bad light on herself.
@@silence227B why should you be worried about drawing any attention to yourself? That's the point I'm trying to make....well that and how could a person be so petty/self-conscious/attention seeking to think that a person in their dress uniform takes the spotlight away from them? Lol. If I were the groom, I would've ran for the hills after witnessing that.
@@rodneygreenway982 lol ur right about that, it raises alot of red flags. I would say its more like if I knew the person was petty I would do what I can as to not step on her toes. But at the same time I wouldn't accociate with someone so thin skinned, but now a days it seems its unavoidable so I've some what accepted that I will need to cater to their "needs".
Civilians realize that we go to balls every year, right? The "squared away" military ball, is more formal than most people experience in life. You look and have to look like a million dollars, or you get rolled up by higher ups.
Then you factor in the Marines, and the standards go even higher than the Army with dress standards.....after all....Marines are known for two things.
Being the prettiest person in the room
And eating crayons
Hooah? ;)
@@rachmae4180 let's flip it. Just like how you were appalled at how some people came dressed informally the bride was appalled he came dressed in full uniform. No context. No preamble. Just full uniforms with medals etc at a wedding. That's inappropriate...and she didn't want it in her event. An event she and the groom worked hard to prepare and pay for. Rude for her to embarrass him like that but rude of him to come dressed like that.
*more formal than most people in the last 30 years experience
What Marine says Hooah? I damn sure don't. OOH RAH maybe.
@@jeremymartin9241 >.> When's the last time you heard a Marine calling other Marines crayon eaters? Army tanker here, through and throughout. Silly Marine...
@@Splexsychiick What if he couldn't afford to rent a suit? Or if the wedding was last second and no stores near him had suits to rent within that time frame 🤷♀️. I can see where the SGT was saying that, if it's not a military event and he didn't get permission from the couple. But I feel like there were a lot of factors involved in this story that we don't get to hear, as we only get to hear it from the brides POV. It is her big day and she should be happy, but I also feel like if people adored her from the beginning, she wouldn't have had to worry about a marine stealing the spot light. And she drew more attention to the marine after she kicked him out. They probably weren't even paying a lick of attention honestly. Looking at a uniform gets boring after a while, NGL
Black tie optional means Formal strongly encouraged.
Nope! She needs to get over herself!
Ladies love a man in uniform
It’s probably the only formal dress he owns! Why bother buying a suit when you have one of those?
OKAY KAREN
Full Dress is for military functions. I was taught that Mess Dress is for social occasions. Mind you, USMC Mess Dress has more bling than she could possibly handle.
That was a disgrace!! Ooh rah to that marine,God bless you brother....
I’m not very familiar in the wedding or military scene but why wear your uniform to someone’s wedding in the first place? It just doesn’t seem like appropriate attire for that kind of occasion to me.
The USMC Dress Blues in function, are for a black tie event in civilian standards. The wedding was a black tie event, so the Marine was not wrong in the technical sense of wearing his uniform. Bride just got real jealous.
@@brucetumpalan6399 ....I disagree. He was wrong in the technical sense and in the 'lets use common sense way'. No one asked him to come in full uniform. No one told him it would be ok. It's a wedding not just some black tie event. Only time it would be ok is if they had told him it's ok to dress in full uniform. Yes the bride was jealous. Etiquette dictates you don't upstage the bride and groom.
@@brucetumpalan6399 it’s not a military event man. Total boot move. Like showing up to high school graduation in your dress blues. Just, wrong time and place. Common sense.
@@WinPPham Is a funeral a military event? How about a parade? Military event? A graduation? A dance? A Ball? Everyone of these could or could not be a military event and yet they are all authorized uniform wear. Your OPINION doesn't change that.
Is he's mad about his service .
The bottom line is it was immature of her to ask him to leave.
THIS IS STILL AMERICA!!! I'LL WEAR WHAT I WANT!!! HOPE HE TOOK BACK HIS GIFT.
Go figure a woman upset a man taking her spot light. The husband should of walked out
A simple solution that completely avoids the "wear/don't wear" debate, just ASK the couple. It's THEIR wedding after all. Nothing wrong with appreciating military service, but that's not what the event is about, just ask and avoid the entire debate in the first place, why is something as simple as TALKING so hard for people? Geez...
The bride was/is the immature person in this situation.
I am an Army Vet. That is total BS.
Im not American and Im nauseous from level of disrespect toward US military service members
I agree that the marine had a right to be in uniform. Would this bridezilla have felt differently if it was a woman in military uniform?
He had no right to be dressed like that. It was a private none military event. A wedding. There was no reason for him to come dressed like that. If the bride wanted him in full uniform they would have said so. I've seen weddings with military friends and family dressed in full uniform. He should have asked if it would have been ok (he didnt). Since it's a private event...a wedding they had every right to kick him out of it for what ever reason they felt was just. Its rude to upstage the bride and groom on their wedding day.
@@Splexsychiick he did have a right to be dressed like that. Sure they also have a right to kick him out but the way I see they're just jealous
@@augustuslunasol10thapostle I feel like people like you don't often get invited to these sort of social events. I guess it would be the bride and groom fault as well if someone showed up in a bird suit. It's not like they told guest _not_ to wear a bird suit. It's common sense. Social norms, etiquette and all that jazz. Common sense ain't always common I suppose. Not like he was the only marine or military man at the event...yet he was the only one decked out. Yet it doesn't ring off to you that he was the problem. He had no good reason to come dressed like that. None what's so ever. Not having anything else to wear isn't even a good excuse.
@@ProGamerKid2000 you say jealous as if that's a bad thing. Do you even know what it means?
@@Splexsychiick ok macho internet tough guy I bet you get invited to this stuff all the time dont ya? You must be a really fun person to be around.
Nice take KENS 5 news crew! Agreed.
How disgusting
Just returning from Vietnam in 1970, as the groom I was married IN MY USAF DRESS UNIFORM. My new wife like it.
i was invited to a friends wedding,,,,mentioned that i only had my dress greens....groom was fine with it....bride was happy as well.....but maitron of honor was furious....and it wasnt her wedding....she told me to leave...never saw bride or groom at the wedding.....both were upset....told them who told me to leave....well...im sure you can figure what happened next.....but the bride made it clear it was her wedding...not the maitron of honors
You never show up the bride. That's been a rule for centuries.