Personally, I wouldn't let my SO go out 1 on 1 to eat with the opposite sex, ESPECIALLY if I don't know said person well enough to trust them. To me, there are just so many implications from that situation (speaking from experience) where I'd better off not have to deal with the potential drama and bs. If they want to hang out, then go ahead, but I certainly will raise my concerns and discomfort. I'm not gonna stop them, though. It's not up to me to decide. Just personal boundaries, and it's up to SO to respect them or not. Wonder if I just come off as immature and insecure or protective and reasonable.
@@ashle9034 i wouldn't say reasonable. More like realistic an relatable for an average human. If your SO going to eat with some one it's not the fact of event matters, but their intentions, your trust and understanding of situation and context involved (including country an culture). Because obviously, it is not a standard situation. Also gender matters, because worst case scenarios are drasticly different for man and woman. For example, i can't imagine myself, sending my wife for a meal with a guy i don't know and trust personally. It's just a question of safety. I trust her as my partner 100%, but i do not belive in her ability to defend herself against physical danger or violence. If i was a woman, it would be easier for me to send my husband for a meal in similar situation. So i can kinda agree with Lize on her answer. But obviously it requires exceptional trust, emotional intelligence and understanding that can only be applied to less than 0,1% of couples. It is totally unicorn zone, but it is not completly impossible.
![[ENG SUB] Lize traumatised by sudden Battle Royale【Project Winter/NIJISANJI】](/img/n.gif)
Lize my beloved
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As expected pf the graphite staring goddess
Hmm, I don't know that reference...
@@ogbear_wut Lize likes to stare at pavement for some reason
@@NamePending9 lol is that so. I've learned something new today XD
Personally, I wouldn't let my SO go out 1 on 1 to eat with the opposite sex, ESPECIALLY if I don't know said person well enough to trust them. To me, there are just so many implications from that situation (speaking from experience) where I'd better off not have to deal with the potential drama and bs. If they want to hang out, then go ahead, but I certainly will raise my concerns and discomfort. I'm not gonna stop them, though. It's not up to me to decide. Just personal boundaries, and it's up to SO to respect them or not.
Wonder if I just come off as immature and insecure or protective and reasonable.
I think your line is very reasonable. =)
It's simply that Lize's line is atypical, which is one reason why I made a clip of it.
@ogbear_wut Well, I'm glad I come off as reasonable lol, and yeah, Lize made me do a double take 💀
@@ashle9034 i wouldn't say reasonable. More like realistic an relatable for an average human. If your SO going to eat with some one it's not the fact of event matters, but their intentions, your trust and understanding of situation and context involved (including country an culture). Because obviously, it is not a standard situation.
Also gender matters, because worst case scenarios are drasticly different for man and woman. For example, i can't imagine myself, sending my wife for a meal with a guy i don't know and trust personally. It's just a question of safety. I trust her as my partner 100%, but i do not belive in her ability to defend herself against physical danger or violence.
If i was a woman, it would be easier for me to send my husband for a meal in similar situation. So i can kinda agree with Lize on her answer. But obviously it requires exceptional trust, emotional intelligence and understanding that can only be applied to less than 0,1% of couples. It is totally unicorn zone, but it is not completly impossible.