Hi Guys... I've been making content like this since 2015 and I want to thank all of my supporters. Especially the ones who have been there from day one.
For real man Gah damn getting off work and ya be bringing that bitching? Getdafuqon outta here bish. Sponge and lubriderm is more reliable than gash with some bitchy Koontz anyhow right now. The lady speaks facts to the core, and for that we see and appreciate your help with the mancouncil and our current predicament we find men embattled with.
Divorced 10 years. No matter how much I may want a partner to love, support, and share with, I will never let that someone destroy the peace and contentment I have now.
Yep. Nailed it. 53, athletic and successful. Relationships in years gone by were good. But the last 10 years I just got completely sick of the shit. I checked out and life got about 50x more peaceful.
I gave up and walked away decades ago. Long before MGTOW. I was just too short and ugly to garner anything but negative attention from women. I learned to be happy alone. I have lots of friends and I'm very successful. Today it's bitter-sweet to learn that so many other men are coming to the same conclusion.
Mannn I'm 6ft, ex college football athlete with a great job and business - I'm getting no play either, hitting some eastern countries this year but I'm pretty much done dating in the US
I have similar experience, i dont compete because i know i will come last, it was hard to come to that realisation at first, but it has been a few years, now i dont even bother looking at a woman. I dont blame woman tho, the ideal is just too far out of reach
I recently walked away from a female that was like that, she was argumentative and stubborn. I have more money, better job, my own house and car. She doesn't even have a drivers license. Don't let people who are beneath you walk all over you... you are the prize and if they don't act like it ditch them.
My last relationship was toxic and miserable. When we broke up and divorced, I was pretty sad. Then about two weeks later I had forgotten how good I had it when I was single. Freedom no liabilities and free of accusing me of looking at other women. No hypocrisy and negative crap
All your money spent on you,. Everything was in the same place you left it when you got home. Spoiling yourself instead of spoiling someone else. No more paying for 2 of everything, Discovering you have all this extra money all the time.
Once upon a time, a Prince asked a beautiful Princess, Will you marry me? The Princess said, No!!! And the Prince lived happily ever after and dived whenever he wanted and rode motorcycles and banged skinny long-legged big-titted chicks and hunted and fished and raced cars and went to naked bars and dated women half his age and drank whiskey, beer and Captain Morgan and never heard *****ing shit from women and never paid child support or alimony and banged cheerleaders and kept his house and guns and ate spam and potato chips and beans and blew enormous farts and never got cheated on while he was at work and all his friends and family thought he was as frikin cool as hell and he had tons of money in the bank and left the toilet seat up. The end.
No lies spoken! I've pretty much given up on dating at this point and I've been like this for a while after too many hangups, impossible expections, and disappointments. It's absolute trash to try and date in this day and age. I'll continue on my way on my own path.
No man should ever marry. Its a doctrine of the STATE. So they can save on paying single mothers BENEFITS. This should have registered in most men's brains by now. Unfortunately most men are ruled by the WRONG head....
I'm impressed. No gaslighting, no apologia, no excuses, no narrative, no bias. Just an honest, realistic assessment taking into account men's HUMANITY and actually shows compassion. Good for you, Olivia Alexa. Now can we have another 100 million like you please?
I remember this one girl who disguised herself as a man just to see what men go through on a daily basis, and she was traumatised by what us guys go through everyday that she actually ended up unaliving herself
She was actually a trans, it was not just a costume. She wrote a book a was trashed by feminists because it was going against "men have it so good and are so privileged" narrative.
Nora was not trans. She actively reviled her male mask. The cognitive dissonance she suffered from actually believing feminism was so severe that she opted to kill herself. As a lesbian, she just could not trust a woman again after she saw their hearts.
@@daze507 She was a Lesbian who saw something she didn't understand took extraordinary measures toward understanding it. I am sick to fucking death of EVERYTHING needing to be "trans". Norah Vincent played a role as a man to understand how men live. She was a Lesbian married to another woman. She was not "trans" and to call her that devalues everything she did.
We tired, I met a Filipina months ago, she became my fiance and I bought us a place in the Philippines 🇵🇭 I gave up on American women after my ex. Now ? I'm much happier. American women and this whole country need to change if you want men to stay.
🗣️🔊Thank TMH! 👉🏾! Pls send for more. These weak, co dependent females don’t speak for the rest of us Bw! Every time you leave many Bw are cheering to NO MORE, LIES! NO MORE CHEATING! NO MORE MENTAL ABUSE EMOTIONAL ABUSE, RAPE, WEED,ALCOHOL, PROMISCUITY, HEADACHES…😂SHUCKS, 😂I’M SO HAPPY I’M…YUPPY! 😑Pleasse send for the rest of these CREEPS! 🙏🏾 TY SIR!!
In my mid 20s I drove a taxi cab as a side job & had a pimp & his girls I used to pick up. He told me "Dont mess with women that dont mess with you" At the time I didnt understand what he meant, so I asked him to explain. He said "Just be your best, be cool & make sure many women see you". Of all the women that see me, some will want to know more while others wont see me at all. Give your attention to the women looking AT YOU!
The problem with that advice is that you also get predatory women seeking you out. So it's not just about focusing on women who give you attention, but also knowing which ones are genuine. Rollo tomasi calls this having genuine desire. Women who want to have your babies, instead of just babies
Agreed. Women also hate being rejected so it's funny to see the lengths they will go to to get you if you show no interest. I had one time when I chose one out of six women and the one I picked didn't like me but the other five all were super interested. Funny how it works.😅
@@clintpot8521 yea the ones I've rejected had a meltdown. They felt so entitled it was actually crazy. All the so called entitled men you hear about their stories are nothing compared to real world evidence and stories ove heard of women rejected
As I mentioned in a different comment, the mess in this society did NOT happen by accident and the 2 things you mentioned are big weapons in the arsenal of the architects of the N.W.O.
WOW. I am a 75 year old white AUSTRALIAN man and have rarely heard such wisdom and truth. Girl, you are 100% right. Even "strong" men need to feel appreciated. Thank you for what you are doing ! ! !
When a ship is sinking like the Titanic you never hear any arguments against "women and children first." Feminists don't want equality then. They want first dibs on that rescue boat. Suddenly women realize the biological difference between a man and a woman.
Could not be anymore true! I'm so done hearing dating coaches say dating apps are essential when they aren't and men still struggle! Society is clearly out of touch in terms of men...the real men and yet you get women asking "where all the good men have gone?" We are still here, you just didn't care about the struggles we deal with and that we don't want another battle, but a place of nurture and solace. Ladies, wake up!
They just don't see us bro were invisible to them so we to do better for ourselves to be successful and be the best version of ourselves that we be and go where were wanted and needed
Women don't want a nice guy. They never did. They want a bad boy to abuse them. They say they want a nice guy but this is just them lying to themselves. Millions of nice guys everywhere who would like to date and these women ignore them. They only want to sleep around with bad boys. They only want to marry a man with high status. They're all looking for that 6'6" washboard billionaire Brad Pitt. He's already married, to someone younger and hotter. Fact.
Im done. My son raised , graduated college and independent. Im finished with the constant compromise, drama and bs in relationships. I'd rather be by myself at this point. I've found i love being by myself and enjoy the solitude.
This is definitely why I've been single for my entire life. At the age of 48, I've seen women never give me any kind of reciprocity, any kind of love and appreciation back to me, when I've given all that I could back to them...Therefore why I've never been in a real relationship....from the looks of it, I haven't missed out on much at all....
@Ronald McDonald Junior 🤡 yeah thanks for your support. But the same could be said for the good women out there. They never gravitated toward me. So I figured the hell with it.
Do not be fooled by her nice words. Read my comment. Think about this, "A woman will not date a man that lives with his mother. But will date a man that lives with his wife.
I know lots of married couples and every so often, I'll see them at their house for a few minutes for whatever reason and they can't even hide their animosity for each other for 2 f***ing minutes! With all the innate differences, different hormones, societal conditioning, etc. it's miracle men and women don't kill each other off. It is like they are 2 different species. The powers that be would probably prefer that this information was not being broadcast. As long as men and women are fighting, they are distracted. Just what the N.W.O. ordered.......literally.
In 2013 I had checked out of relationships for alot of the reasons mentioned. And I remember telling my female friends back then, just wait til the rest of the men catch up. 10 yrs later, they caught up en masse.
A genuine woman that emphathises with the struggles that us men go through. What a rare breed! The world would be a better place if there were more women like Olivia.
You hit the nail on the head when you said “complementary” - men and women have different and opposite strengths and weaknesses that complement each other and when put together can form a great union based on teamwork, collaboration and shared experience. Trying to be the same or compete all the time just misses the point. This is wisdom that is thousands of years old but that modern society, in its endless arrogance, thinks is outdated.
My ex said “yeah you skateboard and play guitar and love arcades but what will you actually provide for me?” She wanted someone who was a provider. Never did she once mention that she was gonna put in the same effort
Very well said. Social media has played a big role in the decline of personal interaction. I can’t help but think that nothing will change, unless there’s a major societal collapse or some type of calamity.
It's not like London is going to be swallowed up and dumped into the North Sea is it? If you want to know what the source of the problems in western society are, you have to go to the source of the problems in western society.
I haven’t felt like a free or respected man since my ex filed into family court 13 years ago. I quit dating for several years, came back and went 3 for 3 on garbage women so I’m back to single and free. Might get a little lonely from time to time but it sure beats out the other options for peace and sanctity in life
@@DanceArchives24 amen I can vouch for that as single lady homeowner. If you know how to use your tradition skills then you can survive without partner no matter what gender! Stop using OF income standard, it will never work!
Happy until they hit the wall. I’ve seen lots of videos where women are crying because they’re lonely and saying all that big talk was just that. That’s why they become cat ladies. Loneliness. Men on the other hand do fine alone. We find peace and strength when it’s not being syphoned by another person. Men and women are different and not just physically. Women are emotional and needy. They like that attention and they want it without giving anything up
@@firefly44220 Not really bc most women know that they r better off alone than in a relationship that doesnt serve them. Yall can keep believing this crap if u want to. But women who know their worth would rather die than to settle for a man she knows she deserves better than. Yall can believe these panderers if u want to and BET the women who are scared, are the desperate ones. Theyll take any man just to say that they have one.
@@firefly44220 Being "lonely" and being alone arent the same thing. Desperate women cant make the distinction but women who know their worth and what they bring to a relationship definitely CAN & do. Also, Ive seen many women who shdv have hit this supposed "wall" yall keep talking abt but thats only for women who dnt take care of themselves or who've allowed men to suck the life out of them. And I love how yall try to act like men dont hit the wall, and yall hit it HARD. We arent attracted to that, just like yall arent. Real women dont want no beer belly having, no prospect having, no money having, uneducated man who cant even change a tire.
Eloquent, articulate and clever. I am 65 year old English man with a son in his late twenties and he would agree with everything you say. His description of himself is average looks, height and intelligence. He is 5 feet 11 inches and has a 2nd class uni degree. He and most of his friends have completely given up on trying to get a girlfriend. He said the constant and sometimes humiliating rejection is sole destroying. To have at least some intimate relations with a woman they have travelled to Amsterdam on several occasions and paid to be with an escort. However there is some hope, he started writing to a girl from Cambodia where the girls seem to have a more traditional values. Anyway both my wife and I hope that he will find someone.
A woman really doesn't want to know what a man truly needs from her. That would take her to listen and be accountable. Most women are horrible at this there for it will be a never-ending battle, but the ones who understands this gets the ring 💍 In every relationship, you have to compromise but as a man, you should never compromise your good character to fit her wants.
compramise what that nonsense i am a woman for 1 if your in love with someone its for who they are if the mans had a hard day help him relax listen to him but absolutely not the man shouldnt have to compromise anything at all thats just ridiculous sorry
@ann marie Sim I said a man or a woman, for that matter, shouldn't compromise themselves to fit anyone's narrative. Hugh difference! You weren't listening.
She is speaking nothing but truth. Back in the day Men we’re the prize, women knew this as well. Hence when they saw a man worth his salt, decent job, decent looks, they jumped right to him and acted feminine, cooked, cleaned, raised the kids. In this newer age women were lied to about chasing careers and being more masculine then men and think they are better then men. Hence, the ramifications of that are evident.
Nothing would be here if men didn't invent it, build it, maintain it. We're the hard-working, honest and caring creators of this modern-convenience world we are supposed to be enjoying.... We've done so much over how many millennia to find ways to make a woman's life easier. Sure, not every woman is a bad apple but there seems to be far too many nowadays. What does the modern woman bring besides hair nails and perky t-t-? Very little it seems, Unless of course you like a lot of bullshit blame-shifting self-centred drama
@@jowho9992 If that were true, there wouldn't be so many disenfranchised men who have checked out of relationships. Men stopped being the prize the moment the sexual revolution went in full swing and women became so full of themselves that they decided to go into direct competition with men, resulting in the straight up man-bashing we have today.
If she truly has been making this type of content since 2015, then I will give her credit. Most of these women who make these types of videos, didn't start making them until they realized the me-too movement wasn't working out in their favor and decided to be chameleons, acting like they understand what men go through.
its not just the men who go through this also i did i am a woman i watched my mum and dad , then had real nasty pieces of work and i have never been married but as much as 1 ex boyfreind tried he failed to end me i am still standing and i know some women are bad for that too so yeah i hear you stay strong guys is all i can say as thats what i am doing
I just had an argument last night about team dynamics in a relationship. I said in every situation a team has to have a leader. As soon as i said the words leader, supervisor or submit. the women got upset. I wasn't saying that a woman always has to follow a man because in some cases she can lead too I couldn't get the words out that if everyone did what they wanted it would be chaos. Now i feel like that my role is not respected
Married twice, divorced twice. It is so wonderful to come home and not have jitters wondering what kind of BS argument, or shit testing is waiting for me. The peace of knowing that when I get home, I'm not going to be ambushed. Peace of mind, is priceless and no woman is worth sacrificing it.
This woman is a Queen worth Fighting For and we are all apart of her Army. Her words alone are empowering. Makes me want to pick up my shield and sword and fight what ever opposition standing in her way. If we had 3 billion more women like her, this planet and society would be brilliantly balanced
A billion is more than enough . She's just like angel on earth . It's so hard to hear such a things from women this day her husband is so lucky and hope he acknowledge value of this woman as precious gift from God
You calling her a "queen" and saying we're a part of HER army are two huge red flags and reasons why so many of us are disrespected and not taken seriously. While it's definitely truth to our women in this society having issues in being the feminine beings they were meant to be and follow our lead, the VAST majority of those issues are due to attitudes and mindsets like this comment that shows a man in his feminine and putting a WOMAN in the leadership position smh. It's a woman's job to serve and respect a man, but she can't do that if a man doesn't first give her something worth serving and respecting. Accountability runs on both sides of the coin my guy, and as the leaders and kings we want to be seen as, it's up to us to set the example by taking that accountability and responsibility unto ourselves first. #Order.
Olivia, you are one of the few that gets it. You are a gem for understanding everything. Omg. I can't believe how you get it right everything single time!!!!
At almost 70 years and many relationships to learn from, I concluded that most women expect their life to resemble what used to only be seen in daytime soap operas. DRAMA!!!!!!! Now they see it in movies and sitcoms instead, but it's still the same...EXCITEMENT AND DRAMA!!! Then when they get into a normal relationship to them it's just boring. Yes, going to work every day to pay the bills and put food on the table might be boring, but it's necessary. If you want excitement and drama every day, consider starting a life of crime. I heard prison has lots of drama and excitement!
Olivia as black man thank you so much it is soooooo wholesome and a great blessing to know their are women like u that exist and understand us your platform is a ministry trust me men have platforms and finding wives across seas. Seriously I was surprised to see men from other race in America going through the same thing.
@@furiousangel6508 No not being a simp only praising God for her um also this is all scriptures what she is saying As a black man who's 47 I've seen too many of our sisters who want to be marry need help.
@Derrick Hill you ARE being a S.I.M.P. Olivia Alexa is a bee dub in your mind? No, sir. She's p.r. p.r.'s h8t you, me and every other ni&&a on the planet. See, that's your problem....letting others come into our space and dictate terms. Btw, there's zero cure for our wham except walking away....that's it.
My wife expressed gratitude once, that I remember, while she lived. After she died and had the opportunity to speak to me through a medium, the first and most intense thing she communicated was gratitude. I suggest to women that you express gratitude more often alive.
You’re right I am absolutely done with everything no matter how beautiful a woman is it doesn’t phase me at all , no one’s got decent anymore I want a woman who doesn’t involve herself in hookup culture
Love the part "a man wants his woman to be a place of solace and refuge". You are right. I have a low income job. It doesnt make me rich but it is what provides my necessities. Most women will not understand the risks involved on doing this job but they expect men to have a 8 to 10 or maybe a million figure job so that they can take what they want from men.
OLIVIA HAS A VERY UNIQUE APPROACH TO MENS UNDERSTANDING OF HOW HIS LIFE WORKS IN HARMONY WITH HIS LIFESTYLE. THIS WOMEN IS DEFINITELY IN TOUCH WITH MEN. SHE IS A WOMEN THAT LEADS BY EXAMPLE AND HER WISDOM PROCEEDS HER.
OLIVIA, YOU HAVE MY OPEN EAR. WE CAN DIALOGUE WHEN APPROPRIATE. THE TOPIC OF DISCUSSION WILL BE INTERESTING AND DEEP THOUGHTS WILL BE ENGAGED OF YOUR CHOOSING.
If a woman is going through rough times... She can be saved by a good man. If a man is going through rough times... The only one who can save him is himself.
You got this 100% correct, and spoke it intelligently and beautifully. This has actually been happening since the 1980's, and it needs to stop. Thank you for speaking the truth about it.
I agree 1000 percent! You didn't just hit the nail on the head but drove it through the plank. My opinion is that home is not supposed to be another battlefield after a crappy day but a refuge for both. Yes, there will be argument s . But not a place where you are constantly on edge!
Bravo Olivia! YOU are exactly the type of woman that most men are looking for! We aren’t looking for slaves, we aren’t looking for housekeepers. We are looking for PARTNERS! We’re looking for the Ying for our Yang! God bless you! Stay strong!
@@juggman604 fair enough! My ire is pointed at them, not you. I take my "sucker" comment back. I just get tired of seeing dudes fall for the same trick time and again.
You are quite literally…the savior of all women lol didn’t even think women were even capable of thinking across the aisle like this. Neither do my friends, bravo, Olivia 👏🏻 you are dropping bombs 💣
I am a company CEO, go to body building gymn every morning, have a sports car and so on. I've been betrayed, lied, cheated on so much that I completely stopped dating. I didn't get fooled into marriage but still... Imagine this: the last girl was 24 old... by myself I found out she "forgot" to mention me that she had a child from fooling around years earlier. Two months later, I found out (again, by myself, she didn't tell anything) she had *another* child. From a second man, of course. Last but not least, I also found out she was bloodsucking my money because she brought in mainland Spain (thousands miles from us) her illegal inmigrants parents and was sending them the money. When confronted with all of this, she dumped me and *BLAMED* me. Because she *SHALL* be the victim. Always.
Or this woman is so full of wisdom, thank you I just had an old flame reach out to me Sunday she doesn't seem to understand I'm through with you she brings literally nothing to the table. Because of the advice I get from women like you my eyes were opened.
How are you so enlightened ? Thank you. Most of us truly just want to be good guys and competent providers. Hearing constantly now that we are toxic simply because we were born male and having to apologize daily for the bad deeds of people we’ve never met has run it’s course. Many of us simply want to just be left alone now because loneliness, as much as it sucks, is still the better alternative.
That was presented like a school class presentation in front of your peers. The question is how many women will be made aware of this and heed it and be willing to change. It would be extremely beneficial if this also reached a platform that women specifically accessed so they can learn from it. Having said that, change can't be made unless those women that need to make are willing to. I respect your honesty and awareness.
I'm willing to bet that none of the women who act this way will make a change and heed this warning until it is too late and life has passed them by. The worldwide population is going to decrease because so many men have checked out and refuse to take the extreme risk of entering a relationship with women, let alone consider marrying them. If our population doesn't outright collapse, it's going to dip severely.
Thank you very much for this. It is one thing for another man to articulate the thoughts we have as men. But it is another thing for a woman to articulate the thoughts we have as men. Thank you for hearing us, really appreciate the love and support.
Facts. Im 30. I had my heart broken because I simped in the past. But then I learned. And I improved myself physically, mentally, emotionally, & financially. Now, I don't even look for girls. If I meet one, I meet one. It kinda sucks for girls because that's 1 less well-rounded put-together man on the market. But I don't NEED a girl to be happy. At work, I give them zero attention. I'll be cordial, but im always indifferent. I've had decent looking girls bring me coffee's, lunches, bake me cookies, but I was never into them. Im not gonna settle. I'm 6'1", in decent shape, funny, good talker, nice smile, got a house & I know female nature. If I find one I really really like, she hit the jackpot. 💯 (Atleast that's how I see it)
You have to not care if a women talks to you or is interested in you. Go to a bar and tell your buddy you don’t want to meet any women and if you mean that and truly don’t, women will approach and approach and approach. The woman I’m with for 15 years wanted to leave me several times. Each time I said ok, if you are that upset and want to leave go ahead. I’ll help you. She usually leaves and comes by on Saturday to start moving out. I just say hey. How are you? She says you’re an a-hole and I’m moving out. I just say you if that’s what you want to do you can move out, that isn’t my preference but you are free to go at any time. We will both find someone else soon. It almost worked out. Now when I say that I truly believe what I just said and am good with however it turns out. Usually after 5 - 10 minutes of silence or I’m getting yelled at, she flips and we make up. Did that about 5 times and it doesn’t happen anymore. Now she makes fun of me when I do something stupid and we laugh about it! Win-win
Thank you so much for this analysis. It was spot on!! A few things Is like to add: Paternity Fraud Over 90% of alimony paid by men to women. 0 Reproductive Rights for men Overwhelming # of Casulaties in War are Men We're the most homeless The most incarcerated Jailed for Child Support Arrears I could go on. But thank you for the acknowledgment. 🙏🏾😑🙏🏾
So eloquent and articulate…..Heck you spoke a couple words that went over my head!! Anyway, Olivia keep doing your thing Queen. Whoever is your man, he got him a REAL ONE!! 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Finally, a woman who sees and understands the road we have to walk and the road we have walked. We have always been the guardians of society, the providers, the builders, the inventors. But we can no longer serve and work out tails off, and in many cases, give our lives for a society who no longer values us, to women who tells us they don't need us and they can do it all. And that the very qualities that define us are toxic. If burn it has to, then let it burn.
Olivia, As long as there are women out there like you, we aren't done. I personally have just learned over the years not to have ANY EXPECTATIONS when it comes to the lady your with! That's certainly not a great answer/conclusion, but it helps when you have children. You learn as a man after some years to just "Do Without," focusing on them because you know they're the ones who truly love you, "NO Matter How Flawed You Are!" You make them the center of your 🌎 focusing on their wants and needs prioritizing them.... I never envisioned things being this way at the beginning, and certainly not after having years vested, but it is what it is and you get wore down. You simply just get tired. It's no longer a challenge and yearning to want to conquer finding love and common ground along the way between the two of you anymore. You just get off sort of in your own zone and again, start directing your focus on those who really love and appreciate you ....Their hearts, (The Kids) become the focal points of all your efforts. That's all that mattered to me.
Man she ain’t lying. I couldn’t believe how much I found myself competing when I was in a relationship. Like wtf is this all about. Women want to be men sooooo bad. They’ll deny it but that’s what society has pushed. It’s almost no benefit for a man to be in a relationship now and that’s super sad to think about. You can get sex anywhere and often times you’ll get more sex single vs being in a relationship because they end up using that as leverage in a relationship as well. It’s virtually no reason to be in one now.
Blessings Sister! I would add to the discussion but in truth there's nothing, absolutely nothing else that needs to be said! Thank You! Many Continuous Blessings For Your Communicative Contributions To The Solution. Bless You🌻! Your Brother!
I don't know whether or not I agree with everything you say, but one key phrase you make stands out, and should be considered by every young woman: "Unrealistic expectations".
So true and there used to be a saying that woman love the idea of molding a man or changing a man’s ways. I think we as men now have the power to influence and change the way woman think, we just have lead by example and do right by the woman we with. Great video👍🏾
No one could have said it better. Your efforts are more than just a drop in the bucket it is appreciated and well needed in this spiritual war we're in. It's gonna take women, black women of your intellect to break through the barriers that black men have been pushed aside and taken for granted, to a point where modern women won't even listen to.
I went my own way long time ago before heard about MGTOW, I'm 34 now, my life is peacefully and calm, never want to come back to the dating market again!!!
Hi Guys... I've been making content like this since 2015 and I want to thank all of my supporters. Especially the ones who have been there from day one.
Thx for what you do. You are beautiful. Bless you.
Thank you for understanding 💯
Definitely good to hear a woman speak the truth. I’m sure your husband know he got 1 out a million 💯
Thank you for your voice❤
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“A man wants his woman to be a place of solace and refuge, not another battle to have to fight” 💯 🎯 👏
For real man
Gah damn getting off work and ya be bringing that bitching?
Getdafuqon outta here bish.
Sponge and lubriderm is more reliable than gash with some bitchy Koontz anyhow right now.
The lady speaks facts to the core, and for that we see and appreciate your help with the mancouncil and our current predicament we find men embattled with.
Exactly!
Preach 🗣️🗣️
SAY IT AGAIN, BRODAH ✊ ✊ ✊
🗣️let the church ⛪️ say amen 🙏🏿
Divorced 10 years. No matter how much I may want a partner to love, support, and share with, I will never let that someone destroy the peace and contentment I have now.
Hear hear!!!
you shouldnt have to its just not right
Hell yeah! Divorced the same and enjoying peace, quiet and solitude ❤.
& you never let a woman destroy your inner peace
Once you get Divorce there is never go back
Yep. Nailed it. 53, athletic and successful. Relationships in years gone by were good. But the last 10 years I just got completely sick of the shit. I checked out and life got about 50x more peaceful.
I gave up and walked away decades ago. Long before MGTOW. I was just too short and ugly to garner anything but negative attention from women. I learned to be happy alone. I have lots of friends and I'm very successful. Today it's bitter-sweet to learn that so many other men are coming to the same conclusion.
The world is big my man. Over 195 countries....
You dodged the bullet there , at least you kept your money and your sanity outstanding 👍
Look, I am 6"2, in the good-looking area, never struggled to get any wman and I did exactly the same...
Mannn I'm 6ft, ex college football athlete with a great job and business - I'm getting no play either, hitting some eastern countries this year but I'm pretty much done dating in the US
I have similar experience, i dont compete because i know i will come last, it was hard to come to that realisation at first, but it has been a few years, now i dont even bother looking at a woman. I dont blame woman tho, the ideal is just too far out of reach
It’s nice to see someone who notices our struggle
Lol she always did, quit sympathizing
agreed unfortunately this isn't something you see every day
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@@PremiumUserUltra you seem miserable n yo comment was unnecessary shorty move around
We're not struggling, we're stress free now
It's true. We men are done. As for me, I'm simply sick of women's toxic masculinity. Thank you, Olivia.
I recently walked away from a female that was like that, she was argumentative and stubborn. I have more money, better job, my own house and car. She doesn't even have a drivers license.
Don't let people who are beneath you walk all over you... you are the prize and if they don't act like it ditch them.
@@BillClinton228that's right
@@BillClinton228 I would rather my girlfriend/wife have driver license. If i'm every on a road trip I don't want to be driving the whole time.
My last relationship was toxic and miserable. When we broke up and divorced, I was pretty sad. Then about two weeks later I had forgotten how good I had it when I was single. Freedom no liabilities
and free of accusing me of looking at other women. No hypocrisy and negative crap
All your money spent on you,. Everything was in the same place you left it when you got home. Spoiling yourself instead of spoiling someone else. No more paying for 2 of everything, Discovering you have all this extra money all the time.
THIS was echoed in my situation. Same damn thing.
@@TheFriendlyPsychopath So true, so true.
KAVEEER ALMIGHTY GOD 🙏--🙏🙏--🙏
Once upon a time, a Prince asked a beautiful Princess, Will you marry me? The Princess said, No!!!
And the Prince lived happily ever after and dived whenever he wanted and rode motorcycles and banged skinny long-legged big-titted chicks and hunted and fished and raced cars and went to naked bars and dated women half his age and drank whiskey, beer and Captain Morgan and never heard *****ing shit from women and never paid child support or alimony and banged cheerleaders and kept his house and guns and ate spam and potato chips and beans and blew enormous farts and never got cheated on while he was at work and all his friends and family thought he was as frikin cool as hell and he had tons of money in the bank and left the toilet seat up.
The end.
No lies spoken! I've pretty much given up on dating at this point and I've been like this for a while after too many hangups, impossible expections, and disappointments. It's absolute trash to try and date in this day and age. I'll continue on my way on my own path.
I have also Bro, because all The women I actually date or have dated.
Doesn't seem to Value My Worth.
✈🚢
@@Da_Lyrical_Prophet I feel u bro I have the same experience.
So true and we sick and tired of being sick and tired.
True
My grandma once asked me why I haven’t remarried. I told her I couldn’t afford it. She said afford a wedding? I said no, the divorce. 😂
😂👏
Well played sir. Well played.
She probably dropped her false teeth after that.
@@davidbolhanever. she a woman after all 😂
I feel the older someone is the less likely they are to remarry. You had a grandma still living so I'm guessing your were still kind of young.
No man should ever marry. Its a doctrine of the STATE. So they can save on paying single mothers BENEFITS. This should have registered in most men's brains by now. Unfortunately most men are ruled by the WRONG head....
I’ve been single for 20+ years after my divorce and I’ve never been happier. There’s no going back for me.
DON'T GIVE UP U ONLY NEED 1⁉️
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@@robertcadogan7483 It only takes one that is hellbent on destroying you as well.
I feel the same brother be happy wit u I am
Shut up and get back on the plantation. RIGHT NOW! LET"S GO!
“Men are tired of being gaslit” Preach sister!!!
& being disrespected to
I am tired of putting up with their bullsh*t and being disrespected
@@christianbenn316 Yes
@@no_country_for_real_men the same is for us
@@micheladerry5681 we ALL KNOW that's not true. Tell your propaganda to one of your jezebel sisters
I'm impressed. No gaslighting, no apologia, no excuses, no narrative, no bias. Just an honest, realistic assessment taking into account men's HUMANITY and actually shows compassion. Good for you, Olivia Alexa. Now can we have another 100 million like you please?
What challenge would life be if all women were subservient?..
I like sassy strong women. They give the best head.
I remember this one girl who disguised herself as a man just to see what men go through on a daily basis, and she was traumatised by what us guys go through everyday that she actually ended up unaliving herself
She was actually a trans, it was not just a costume. She wrote a book a was trashed by feminists because it was going against "men have it so good and are so privileged" narrative.
Nora was not trans. She actively reviled her male mask. The cognitive dissonance she suffered from actually believing feminism was so severe that she opted to kill herself. As a lesbian, she just could not trust a woman again after she saw their hearts.
Yep! She WAS a feminist but not after being disguised as man . . . She had some great things to say also
@@daze507 She was a Lesbian who saw something she didn't understand took extraordinary measures toward understanding it. I am sick to fucking death of EVERYTHING needing to be "trans". Norah Vincent played a role as a man to understand how men live. She was a Lesbian married to another woman. She was not "trans" and to call her that devalues everything she did.
@@lorzon In that case I was misinformed.
We tired, I met a Filipina months ago, she became my fiance and I bought us a place in the Philippines 🇵🇭 I gave up on American women after my ex. Now ? I'm much happier. American women and this whole country need to change if you want men to stay.
Facts
Congratulations Brother Dwayne.....I'm so happy for you sir. May GOD forever bless and prosper you and your wife & family always!!!
🗣️🔊Thank TMH! 👉🏾! Pls send for more. These weak, co dependent females don’t speak for the rest of us Bw! Every time you leave many Bw are cheering to NO MORE, LIES! NO MORE CHEATING! NO MORE MENTAL ABUSE EMOTIONAL ABUSE, RAPE, WEED,ALCOHOL, PROMISCUITY, HEADACHES…😂SHUCKS, 😂I’M SO HAPPY I’M…YUPPY! 😑Pleasse send for the rest of these CREEPS! 🙏🏾 TY SIR!!
OH! CONGRATULATIONS 🎉
Yep ! Pretty Much DONE ! 😳. Rude - Disrespectful - Ungrateful - Dishonest 🧐
You are 100% correct. I'm happily married but find myself just being turned off by younger women's attitude. They don't even look attractive to me!
All that makeup...ugh.
See. 😒👉🏾💩That’s the problem right there. What you worried about them 👀 for if already got you a good woman at home?!?!!! 🧐
@@sandycheeks1580 I may be on a diet, but I can still look at the menu. No problem here... Stay in your lane
@@craigpierce7996 best comeback ever
In my mid 20s I drove a taxi cab as a side job & had a pimp & his girls I used to pick up. He told me "Dont mess with women that dont mess with you" At the time I didnt understand what he meant, so I asked him to explain. He said "Just be your best, be cool & make sure many women see you". Of all the women that see me, some will want to know more while others wont see me at all. Give your attention to the women looking AT YOU!
Sound advice.
The problem with that advice is that you also get predatory women seeking you out. So it's not just about focusing on women who give you attention, but also knowing which ones are genuine. Rollo tomasi calls this having genuine desire. Women who want to have your babies, instead of just babies
Agreed. Women also hate being rejected so it's funny to see the lengths they will go to to get you if you show no interest. I had one time when I chose one out of six women and the one I picked didn't like me but the other five all were super interested. Funny how it works.😅
Real shit. 💯 You’ll know who really Fuck wit you and who don’t.
@@clintpot8521 yea the ones I've rejected had a meltdown. They felt so entitled it was actually crazy. All the so called entitled men you hear about their stories are nothing compared to real world evidence and stories ove heard of women rejected
Thank you for putting this out there. It’s refreshing to hear a woman stand up for traditional values.
its good ure a man to say this...
@@micheladerry5681 we don't care what you think.
Yeah, this girl and Pearl Daily are preaching from he same book, it seems.
She nailed it with Social Media validation & Social Safety Net.
Big time!
As I mentioned in a different comment, the mess in this society did NOT happen by accident and the 2 things you mentioned are big weapons in the arsenal of the architects of the N.W.O.
Social media is da devil
Yep it's the Welfare System, your kids belong to the government, you have no power or control over it.
@@marksavage1744 Yep depopulation agenda among others. Women thinking their goddesses and men giving up means they won't have kids.
Life must be changing. A woman that finally sees the truth
The "Sisterhood" will call her a "pick me" and many men will call her the "Trojan Horse" Enjoy your cats.
The chameleons are out in full force.
@@stuartkynoch7289
This material was not written from the first-person perspective, so it's obviously been sourced.
WOW. I am a 75 year old white AUSTRALIAN man and have rarely heard such wisdom and truth. Girl, you are 100% right. Even "strong" men need to feel appreciated. Thank you for what you are doing ! ! !
😂She 100% grifting. And you’re falling for it!!!😂
Olivia you've been dropping a lot of gems about issues in relationships and it's so teachable.
STOP S.I.M.P.ing
KAVEEER ALMIGHTY GOD 🙏--🙏🙏--🙏
When a ship is sinking like the Titanic you never hear any arguments against "women and children first." Feminists don't want equality then. They want first dibs on that rescue boat. Suddenly women realize the biological difference between a man and a woman.
Could not be anymore true! I'm so done hearing dating coaches say dating apps are essential when they aren't and men still struggle! Society is clearly out of touch in terms of men...the real men and yet you get women asking "where all the good men have gone?" We are still here, you just didn't care about the struggles we deal with and that we don't want another battle, but a place of nurture and solace. Ladies, wake up!
They just don't see us bro were invisible to them so we to do better for ourselves to be successful and be the best version of ourselves that we be and go where were wanted and needed
@@rickster7373 I agree most men are invisible to women. When they do see guys on their level they push past them in persuit of Chad and Tyrone.
preach bro preach!! 👏🏿
Women don't want a nice guy. They never did. They want a bad boy to abuse them.
They say they want a nice guy but this is just them lying to themselves. Millions of nice guys everywhere who would like to date and these women ignore them.
They only want to sleep around with bad boys.
They only want to marry a man with high status. They're all looking for that 6'6" washboard billionaire Brad Pitt. He's already married, to someone younger and hotter. Fact.
Women created the dating culture that they complain about entirely on their own..
Im done. My son raised , graduated college and independent. Im finished with the constant compromise, drama and bs in relationships. I'd rather be by myself at this point. I've found i love being by myself and enjoy the solitude.
This is definitely why I've been single for my entire life. At the age of 48, I've seen women never give me any kind of reciprocity, any kind of love and appreciation back to me, when I've given all that I could back to them...Therefore why I've never been in a real relationship....from the looks of it, I haven't missed out on much at all....
@Ronald McDonald Junior 🤡 yeah thanks for your support. But the same could be said for the good women out there. They never gravitated toward me. So I figured the hell with it.
Do not be fooled by her nice words. Read my comment. Think about this, "A woman will not date a man that lives with his mother. But will date a man that lives with his wife.
Don't play with snakes
I know lots of married couples and every so often, I'll see them at their house for a few minutes for whatever reason and they can't even hide their animosity for each other for 2 f***ing minutes!
With all the innate differences, different hormones, societal conditioning, etc. it's miracle men and women don't kill each other off. It is like they are 2 different species. The powers that be would probably prefer that this information was not being broadcast. As long as men and women are fighting, they are distracted. Just what the N.W.O. ordered.......literally.
@@sweetland1001 A woman will date a man that lives with his mother. Just depends on the man. I seen it with my own eyes more than once.
NO! I will never leave my wife and daughter. There are good women out there
In 2013 I had checked out of relationships for alot of the reasons mentioned. And I remember telling my female friends back then, just wait til the rest of the men catch up. 10 yrs later, they caught up en masse.
Yeah I wish I caught up right after high school
#meeto
@@monkeynomics8995 Right?? The new Me Too. Lol
@@DC-cz2sr Hey, at least you learned. Everyone reaches their points at different times💪🏾💪🏾
A genuine woman that emphathises with the struggles that us men go through. What a rare breed! The world would be a better place if there were more women like Olivia.
hi i am one of those women who know
Sadly though, 95% of women are NOTHING like her.
You hit the nail on the head when you said “complementary” - men and women have different and opposite strengths and weaknesses that complement each other and when put together can form a great union based on teamwork, collaboration and shared experience. Trying to be the same or compete all the time just misses the point. This is wisdom that is thousands of years old but that modern society, in its endless arrogance, thinks is outdated.
This women tells nothing but the absolute truth.....
My ex said “yeah you skateboard and play guitar and love arcades but what will you actually provide for me?” She wanted someone who was a provider. Never did she once mention that she was gonna put in the same effort
@Ronald McDonald Junior 🤡 felt
get a job tho fr
@@rooksman64 just had my 7 year anniversary at my current job today🤘🏻 I also finished college in December. You were saying something? 🗿
@@Frosty.Fingers but do you have a girl? lol
I told my "'Wife-2-Be'" that I was a lousy provider - she married me anyway (That was 1983) ✊ 🎉 . . .
Very well said. Social media has played a big role in the decline of personal interaction. I can’t help but think that nothing will change, unless there’s a major societal collapse or some type of calamity.
A catastrophic natural disaster will remind women just how chaotic life can be without good men.
It's not like London is going to be swallowed up and dumped into the North Sea is it?
If you want to know what the source of the problems in western society are, you have to go to the source of the problems in western society.
SHE SPEAKS SO WELL! PROTECTION IS A MUST!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💯💯💯💯
Npc comment
no.... protection must be earned. If your "bar of protection" is so low then you deserve to be cannon fodder!
I haven’t felt like a free or respected man since my ex filed into family court 13 years ago. I quit dating for several years, came back and went 3 for 3 on garbage women so I’m back to single and free. Might get a little lonely from time to time but it sure beats out the other options for peace and sanctity in life
I could listen to this lady all day long, eloquent, intelligent and calm. What a woman!
She’s FIGHTS FOR US MEN! Support and protect her at ALL costs. ❤
Lmao this woman is pandering. I havent met ONE woman, online or in real life, who is scared. Most women Ive come in contact with r happy being single.
@@DanceArchives24 amen I can vouch for that as single lady homeowner. If you know how to use your tradition skills then you can survive without partner no matter what gender! Stop using OF income standard, it will never work!
Happy until they hit the wall. I’ve seen lots of videos where women are crying because they’re lonely and saying all that big talk was just that. That’s why they become cat ladies. Loneliness. Men on the other hand do fine alone. We find peace and strength when it’s not being syphoned by another person. Men and women are different and not just physically. Women are emotional and needy. They like that attention and they want it without giving anything up
@@firefly44220 Not really bc most women know that they r better off alone than in a relationship that doesnt serve them. Yall can keep believing this crap if u want to. But women who know their worth would rather die than to settle for a man she knows she deserves better than. Yall can believe these panderers if u want to and BET the women who are scared, are the desperate ones. Theyll take any man just to say that they have one.
@@firefly44220 Being "lonely" and being alone arent the same thing. Desperate women cant make the distinction but women who know their worth and what they bring to a relationship definitely CAN & do. Also, Ive seen many women who shdv have hit this supposed "wall" yall keep talking abt but thats only for women who dnt take care of themselves or who've allowed men to suck the life out of them. And I love how yall try to act like men dont hit the wall, and yall hit it HARD. We arent attracted to that, just like yall arent. Real women dont want no beer belly having, no prospect having, no money having, uneducated man who cant even change a tire.
The world needs more women like her.
More grifters?
@@gordan2423 😂
@@gordan2423 exactly my first thought. Beat me to it. Well played sir.
@@Tony-mf9jp 👍
@@gordan2423Doesn't make what she says in this video less true.
Eloquent, articulate and clever. I am 65 year old English man with a son in his late twenties and he would agree with everything you say. His description of himself is average looks, height and intelligence. He is 5 feet 11 inches and has a 2nd class uni degree. He and most of his friends have completely given up on trying to get a girlfriend. He said the constant and sometimes humiliating rejection is sole destroying. To have at least some intimate relations with a woman they have travelled to Amsterdam on several occasions and paid to be with an escort. However there is some hope, he started writing to a girl from Cambodia where the girls seem to have a more traditional values. Anyway both my wife and I hope that he will find someone.
Just filed for a divorce, praying for strength. I still love her, We just can’t and won’t be together anymore
Do what you have to do regardless brother. You git this!
Life goes on 👍
@@leopoldorangel1575 FACTS!
Forget her....
Welcome to the club bro live and prosperity
A woman really doesn't want to know what a man truly needs from her. That would take her to listen and be accountable. Most women are horrible at this there for it will be a never-ending battle, but the ones who understands this gets the ring 💍
In every relationship, you have to compromise but as a man, you should never compromise your good character to fit her wants.
compramise what that nonsense i am a woman for 1 if your in love with someone its for who they are if the mans had a hard day help him relax listen to him but absolutely not the man shouldnt have to compromise anything at all thats just ridiculous sorry
@ann marie Sim
I said a man or a woman, for that matter, shouldn't compromise themselves to fit anyone's narrative. Hugh difference! You weren't listening.
She is speaking nothing but truth. Back in the day Men we’re the prize, women knew this as well. Hence when they saw a man worth his salt, decent job, decent looks, they jumped right to him and acted feminine, cooked, cleaned, raised the kids. In this newer age women were lied to about chasing careers and being more masculine then men and think they are better then men. Hence, the ramifications of that are evident.
....you're just learning how boomers work.
Give it a few years; we've been dealing with them for decades.
We Are Still The Prize.
@@jowho9992
You're no prize.
You can have those feral government kids on your own.
You're on your way to the wall.
Nothing would be here if men didn't invent it, build it, maintain it. We're the hard-working, honest and caring creators of this modern-convenience world we are supposed to be enjoying.... We've done so much over how many millennia to find ways to make a woman's life easier. Sure, not every woman is a bad apple but there seems to be far too many nowadays. What does the modern woman bring besides hair nails and perky t-t-? Very little it seems, Unless of course you like a lot of bullshit blame-shifting self-centred drama
@@jowho9992 If that were true, there wouldn't be so many disenfranchised men who have checked out of relationships. Men stopped being the prize the moment the sexual revolution went in full swing and women became so full of themselves that they decided to go into direct competition with men, resulting in the straight up man-bashing we have today.
If she truly has been making this type of content since 2015, then I will give her credit. Most of these women who make these types of videos, didn't start making them until they realized the me-too movement wasn't working out in their favor and decided to be chameleons, acting like they understand what men go through.
Yep. Bingo.
its not just the men who go through this also i did i am a woman i watched my mum and dad , then had real nasty pieces of work and i have never been married but as much as 1 ex boyfreind tried he failed to end me i am still standing and i know some women are bad for that too so yeah i hear you stay strong guys is all i can say as thats what i am doing
@@annmariesim1405respect to you
@@annmariesim1405 hey guys we found her! the "yea but this one time" girl! go, tell the others!
The welfare system and society and weak betas are the reason women are the way they are
Seriously all the pressure is on the men
Oh my, Olivia you hit the nail on the head. It's not going to end well for society.
I just had an argument last night about team dynamics in a relationship. I said in every situation a team has to have a leader. As soon as i said the words leader, supervisor or submit. the women got upset. I wasn't saying that a woman always has to follow a man because in some cases she can lead too I couldn't get the words out that if everyone did what they wanted it would be chaos. Now i feel like that my role is not respected
One more thing, I like how you don't wear a lot of makeup. Your natural beauty shows.
Married twice, divorced twice. It is so wonderful to come home and not have jitters wondering what kind of BS argument, or shit testing is waiting for me. The peace of knowing that when I get home, I'm not going to be ambushed. Peace of mind, is priceless and no woman is worth sacrificing it.
This woman is a Queen worth Fighting For and we are all apart of her Army. Her words alone are empowering. Makes me want to pick up my shield and sword and fight what ever opposition standing in her way. If we had 3 billion more women like her, this planet and society would be brilliantly balanced
A billion is more than enough . She's just like angel on earth . It's so hard to hear such a things from women this day her husband is so lucky and hope he acknowledge value of this woman as precious gift from God
Big Facts
You calling her a "queen" and saying we're a part of HER army are two huge red flags and reasons why so many of us are disrespected and not taken seriously. While it's definitely truth to our women in this society having issues in being the feminine beings they were meant to be and follow our lead, the VAST majority of those issues are due to attitudes and mindsets like this comment that shows a man in his feminine and putting a WOMAN in the leadership position smh. It's a woman's job to serve and respect a man, but she can't do that if a man doesn't first give her something worth serving and respecting. Accountability runs on both sides of the coin my guy, and as the leaders and kings we want to be seen as, it's up to us to set the example by taking that accountability and responsibility unto ourselves first. #Order.
White knight lmaooo
There are no queens
Olivia, you are one of the few that gets it. You are a gem for understanding everything. Omg. I can't believe how you get it right everything single time!!!!
Whoever raised this women did a phenomenal, fantastic, outstanding job! Now this is a real queen!
no, they didn't. Her family doesn't like the black dudes that she dates. Stop S.I.M.P.ing
💯💯💯💯
Come on, she’s just repeating what Kevin Samuels and all the other personalities in the manoshpere have been saying for the last bunch of years….
@@miker1721 give credit where it's due come on now! As foolish and confused as these women out here are! Come on now!
@@guestphone3345 remember, they ALL are Chameleons……
At almost 70 years and many relationships to learn from, I concluded that most women expect their life to resemble what used to only be seen in daytime soap operas. DRAMA!!!!!!! Now they see it in movies and sitcoms instead, but it's still the same...EXCITEMENT AND DRAMA!!! Then when they get into a normal relationship to them it's just boring. Yes, going to work every day to pay the bills and put food on the table might be boring, but it's necessary. If you want excitement and drama every day, consider starting a life of crime. I heard prison has lots of drama and excitement!
Olivia as black man thank you so much it is soooooo wholesome and a great blessing to know their are women like u that exist and understand us your platform is a ministry trust me men have platforms and finding wives across seas. Seriously I was surprised to see men from other race in America going through the same thing.
Ikrr she’s great
It NOT black men, it all men of culture are in trouble with masculinity
Derrick Hill
as a different black man I'm asking you to wake up. She's grifting. She's telling you exactly what you want to hear.
Stop S.I.M.P.ing
@@furiousangel6508
No not being a simp only praising God for her um also this is all scriptures what she is saying As a black man who's 47 I've seen too many of our sisters who want to be marry need help.
@Derrick Hill
you ARE being a S.I.M.P.
Olivia Alexa is a bee dub in your mind? No, sir. She's p.r. p.r.'s h8t you, me and every other ni&&a on the planet. See, that's your problem....letting others come into our space and dictate terms. Btw, there's zero cure for our wham except walking away....that's it.
Only down to earth women can open the eyes of the delusional ones and keep em accountable,faster!!!
Keep spitting facts Ms. Olivia
My wife expressed gratitude once, that I remember, while she lived. After she died and had the opportunity to speak to me through a medium, the first and most intense thing she communicated was gratitude. I suggest to women that you express gratitude more often alive.
You’re right I am absolutely done with everything no matter how beautiful a woman is it doesn’t phase me at all , no one’s got decent anymore I want a woman who doesn’t involve herself in hookup culture
Good luck finding one. Its more sensible to hope for a flying elephant waiting at your door.
@@idnoble2004 I am pure I will find a pure woman
Me too i barely participated in hookup culture i tried and sucked at it felt like there was something wrong with me but I realize that was protection
@@garthyahudahandrews8504 it is a blessing in disguise brother we havnt missed out on anything and good people do come your way when u least expect it
Love the part "a man wants his woman to be a place of solace and refuge". You are right.
I have a low income job. It doesnt make me rich but it is what provides my necessities. Most women will not understand the risks involved on doing this job but they expect men to have a 8 to 10 or maybe a million figure job so that they can take what they want from men.
maybe u met stupid women.
Congratulations, lots of people can point out the wrong way of doing things, but few can describe the right way like you did.
OLIVIA HAS A VERY UNIQUE APPROACH TO MENS UNDERSTANDING OF HOW HIS LIFE WORKS IN HARMONY WITH HIS LIFESTYLE. THIS WOMEN IS DEFINITELY IN TOUCH WITH MEN. SHE IS A WOMEN THAT LEADS BY EXAMPLE AND HER WISDOM PROCEEDS HER.
OLIVIA, YOU HAVE MY OPEN EAR. WE CAN DIALOGUE WHEN APPROPRIATE. THE TOPIC OF DISCUSSION WILL BE INTERESTING AND DEEP THOUGHTS WILL BE ENGAGED OF YOUR CHOOSING.
If a woman is going through rough times... She can be saved by a good man. If a man is going through rough times... The only one who can save him is himself.
Facts! She's a RARE💎. These type of women are who Proverbs 31 describes. They are a hard find. But once you find them you cherish them.
@@uyb_lando_newsreviews if you ever find one. She might be a one of one
Facts 💯 %
No lies detected at all. Keep bringing that truth, Liv.
You got this 100% correct, and spoke it intelligently and beautifully. This has actually been happening since the 1980's, and it needs to stop. Thank you for speaking the truth about it.
This woman is a treasure we must protect her she dropping facts
No she can get rekt
I agree 1000 percent! You didn't just hit the nail on the head but drove it through the plank. My opinion is that home is not supposed to be another battlefield after a crappy day but a refuge for both. Yes, there will be argument s . But not a place where you are constantly on edge!
Bravo Olivia!
YOU are exactly the type of woman that most men are looking for!
We aren’t looking for slaves, we aren’t looking for housekeepers.
We are looking for PARTNERS! We’re looking for the Ying for our Yang!
God bless you! Stay strong!
Salute to Olivia being men’s advocate 💯
she's NOT Mens' advocate. Wake up!
@@juggman604
what do you think I mean.....kid?
It's not latin.....it's english. She's NOT an advocate for men....stop being a sucker......kid
@@juggman604
as they all do. They say the right things to gain subscribers which boosts their income.
great job being a sucker!!!
@@juggman604
fair enough!
My ire is pointed at them, not you. I take my "sucker" comment back.
I just get tired of seeing dudes fall for the same trick time and again.
You are quite literally…the savior of all women lol didn’t even think women were even capable of thinking across the aisle like this. Neither do my friends, bravo, Olivia 👏🏻 you are dropping bombs 💣
I am a company CEO, go to body building gymn every morning, have a sports car and so on. I've been betrayed, lied, cheated on so much that I completely stopped dating. I didn't get fooled into marriage but still... Imagine this: the last girl was 24 old... by myself I found out she "forgot" to mention me that she had a child from fooling around years earlier. Two months later, I found out (again, by myself, she didn't tell anything) she had *another* child. From a second man, of course. Last but not least, I also found out she was bloodsucking my money because she brought in mainland Spain (thousands miles from us) her illegal inmigrants parents and was sending them the money.
When confronted with all of this, she dumped me and *BLAMED* me. Because she *SHALL* be the victim. Always.
Or this woman is so full of wisdom, thank you I just had an old flame reach out to me Sunday she doesn't seem to understand I'm through with you she brings literally nothing to the table. Because of the advice I get from women like you my eyes were opened.
Great video. One of the better essays on the male-female "dynamic" in this country.
How are you so enlightened ? Thank you. Most of us truly just want to be good guys and competent providers. Hearing constantly now that we are toxic simply because we were born male and having to apologize daily for the bad deeds of people we’ve never met has run it’s course. Many of us simply want to just be left alone now because loneliness, as much as it sucks, is still the better alternative.
That was presented like a school class presentation in front of your peers. The question is how many women will be made aware of this and heed it and be willing to change. It would be extremely beneficial if this also reached a platform that women specifically accessed so they can learn from it. Having said that, change can't be made unless those women that need to make are willing to. I respect your honesty and awareness.
I'm willing to bet that none of the women who act this way will make a change and heed this warning until it is too late and life has passed them by. The worldwide population is going to decrease because so many men have checked out and refuse to take the extreme risk of entering a relationship with women, let alone consider marrying them. If our population doesn't outright collapse, it's going to dip severely.
Thank you very much for this. It is one thing for another man to articulate the thoughts we have as men. But it is another thing for a woman to articulate the thoughts we have as men. Thank you for hearing us, really appreciate the love and support.
Love that women like this still exist! Gives me hope for the future!
Put a ring on it and plant some seeds then.
Put your money where your mouth is.
Empowering words from a woman who cares about us men. Very refreshing. 😊
I’m not used to hearing this from a woman. I just subscribed. My mind is blown. Finally someone sees. I’ve given up on dating years ago.
Facts. Im 30. I had my heart broken because I simped in the past. But then I learned. And I improved myself physically, mentally, emotionally, & financially. Now, I don't even look for girls. If I meet one, I meet one. It kinda sucks for girls because that's 1 less well-rounded put-together man on the market. But I don't NEED a girl to be happy. At work, I give them zero attention. I'll be cordial, but im always indifferent. I've had decent looking girls bring me coffee's, lunches, bake me cookies, but I was never into them. Im not gonna settle. I'm 6'1", in decent shape, funny, good talker, nice smile, got a house & I know female nature. If I find one I really really like, she hit the jackpot. 💯 (Atleast that's how I see it)
You’re not alone
Good on you.
We are on the same path bro. #MGTOW
You have to not care if a women talks to you or is interested in you. Go to a bar and tell your buddy you don’t want to meet any women and if you mean that and truly don’t, women will approach and approach and approach. The woman I’m with for 15 years wanted to leave me several times. Each time I said ok, if you are that upset and want to leave go ahead. I’ll help you. She usually leaves and comes by on Saturday to start moving out. I just say hey. How are you? She says you’re an a-hole and I’m moving out. I just say you if that’s what you want to do you can move out, that isn’t my preference but you are free to go at any time. We will both find someone else soon. It almost worked out. Now when I say that I truly believe what I just said and am good with however it turns out. Usually after 5 - 10 minutes of silence or I’m getting yelled at, she flips and we make up. Did that about 5 times and it doesn’t happen anymore. Now she makes fun of me when I do something stupid and we laugh about it! Win-win
Exactly 👍
Thank you so much for this analysis.
It was spot on!!
A few things Is like to add:
Paternity Fraud
Over 90% of alimony paid by men to women.
0 Reproductive Rights for men
Overwhelming # of Casulaties in War are Men
We're the most homeless
The most incarcerated
Jailed for Child Support Arrears
I could go on.
But thank you for the acknowledgment.
🙏🏾😑🙏🏾
I always pray for every man going through any of what you mentioned to get through it💙💙
“…a beautiful complementary synergy…” Keep preaching that!
Let's get this gem to a million subscribers
So eloquent and articulate…..Heck you spoke a couple words that went over my head!! Anyway, Olivia keep doing your thing Queen. Whoever is your man, he got him a REAL ONE!! 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Finally, a woman who sees and understands the road we have to walk and the road we have walked. We have always been the guardians of society, the providers, the builders, the inventors. But we can no longer serve and work out tails off, and in many cases, give our lives for a society who no longer values us, to women who tells us they don't need us and they can do it all. And that the very qualities that define us are toxic. If burn it has to, then let it burn.
Olivia,
As long as there are women out there like you, we aren't done.
I personally have just learned over the years not to have ANY EXPECTATIONS when it comes to the lady your with!
That's certainly not a great answer/conclusion, but it helps when you have children. You learn as a man after some years to just "Do Without," focusing on them because you know they're the ones who truly love you, "NO Matter How Flawed You Are!" You make them the center of your 🌎 focusing on their wants and needs prioritizing them....
I never envisioned things being this way at the beginning, and certainly not after having years vested, but it is what it is and you get wore down. You simply just get tired.
It's no longer a challenge and yearning to want to conquer finding love and common ground along the way between the two of you anymore. You just get off sort of in your own zone and again, start directing your focus on those who really love and appreciate you
....Their hearts, (The Kids) become the focal points of all your efforts. That's all that mattered to me.
Facts! Well done Olivia. You're doing well.
It's actually very simply. Being with someone has to be less stressful than being along.
Amen, preach.
Protect this woman at all costs. Preach! 🙏
Im glad you are aware of this issue. Much love girl
Man she ain’t lying. I couldn’t believe how much I found myself competing when I was in a relationship. Like wtf is this all about. Women want to be men sooooo bad. They’ll deny it but that’s what society has pushed. It’s almost no benefit for a man to be in a relationship now and that’s super sad to think about. You can get sex anywhere and often times you’ll get more sex single vs being in a relationship because they end up using that as leverage in a relationship as well. It’s virtually no reason to be in one now.
Talk that ISH!!👏👏👏
Facts 💯 Things are about to change on a major scale.
I'm sick of women in general. Most "want it all" and are very delusional. You have nailed it again. Thanks.
Women today say men are not neccessary
is only stay with mens
I'm 100 percent done. The ingratitude is off the charts,,,,my back is not a doormat, drizzle drizzle
Blessings Sister! I would add to the discussion but in truth there's nothing, absolutely nothing else that needs to be said! Thank You! Many Continuous Blessings For Your Communicative Contributions To The Solution. Bless You🌻! Your Brother!
It's nice to know there are women like you out there. Max truth !
I don't know whether or not I agree with everything you say, but one key phrase you make stands out, and should be considered by every young woman: "Unrealistic expectations".
So true and there used to be a saying that woman love the idea of molding a man or changing a man’s ways. I think we as men now have the power to influence and change the way woman think, we just have lead by example and do right by the woman we with. Great video👍🏾
No one could have said it better. Your efforts are more than just a drop in the bucket it is appreciated and well needed in this spiritual war we're in. It's gonna take women, black women of your intellect to break through the barriers that black men have been pushed aside and taken for granted, to a point where modern women won't even listen to.
Protect Olivia At All Cost 💯
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 PREACH!!!! PREACH!!!!
I went my own way long time ago before heard about MGTOW, I'm 34 now, my life is peacefully and calm, never want to come back to the dating market again!!!
This is nothin' but FACTS!!! Appreciate Olivia 💯