Autism and Haircuts: Be Prepared because You Never Know What to Expect

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  • Опубліковано 4 лип 2024
  • Haircuts can be a huge nightmare. I never thought Gabe would be able to get past his fear and anxiety. After years of practice Gabe has now been able to sit through an entire haircut and seem happy. He sat for the whole time he was having his hair cut by Lilly! This was Gabe's third haircut by Lilly!
    Hairdresser: Lilly Nizer
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 104

  • @seang2012
    @seang2012 3 дні тому +42

    Any long term Gabe fan knows how fast his hair grows!

    • @ataridc
      @ataridc 2 дні тому +1

      please have gabe do a taste of various sardine cans

    • @watermelonwishes4193
      @watermelonwishes4193 День тому +2

      ​@@ataridc Go taste them yourself. 🐟

  • @debrahanko3978
    @debrahanko3978 2 дні тому +13

    Thank you Gabe for letting us come along. Looking awesome!! ❤

  • @millrythe100
    @millrythe100 3 дні тому +30

    It’s obvious to me why Gabe was so well-behaved. The hairdresser is super super cute and Gabe certainly likes the girls

    • @hyperthoughts29
      @hyperthoughts29 21 годину тому +1

      Lmao 🤣😂 I thought the same thing and was happy to open the comments and saw this lol oh Gabe 😂

  • @kathybasilico5686
    @kathybasilico5686 3 дні тому +18

    I like how the hairdresser talked to Gabe.. she took time to make sure Gabe felt comfortable. His hair grows fast. My grandsons hair grows quickly too. He has to have it cut monthly. Gabe you look great. Long island Kathy

  • @alenatieken6126
    @alenatieken6126 2 дні тому +7

    Love how she treats him like she would anybody else cutting and just gabbing at the same time i think Gabe appreciates that! And you look awesome as usuall my good buddy ♥

    • @mariaducie-wu8lm
      @mariaducie-wu8lm 2 дні тому +1

      Why wouldnt she treat him like anybody else? Gabe youre a great looking young fella, with much love from Irela d ❤❤❤

  • @SFVGIRL
    @SFVGIRL 2 дні тому +10

    Gabe is such a handsome young man. Very intelligent, too. ❤

  • @QGuides
    @QGuides День тому +3

    This young man has a gravity to him that is inexplicable. I don’t see him in my timeline often, but when I do, it takes my breath away.

  • @WhiskeyNeat92
    @WhiskeyNeat92 3 дні тому +22

    I can’t get over how his gaze always gives me the impression that he’s like WTF mom… tf you making me do this for” 😅😅😅😅😅

    • @SFVGIRL
      @SFVGIRL 2 дні тому +3

      I mean, I always hated haircuts. The process. 😂

    • @shellylavigne5913
      @shellylavigne5913 2 дні тому +1

      I know it’s hard, but saying Good job is too juvenile for his age. It’s better to bc say… Gabe, you’re sitting so patiently, or Gabe, nice sitting so still. It explains the GOOD JOB. Good job what???

  • @mjsps51
    @mjsps51 День тому +2

    He did so well. Seems like he actually likes it. He is so beautiful.

  • @cammiebrecht6028
    @cammiebrecht6028 3 дні тому +15

    Such a handsome young man!!!! And hats off to Lilly!! It takes a special person to work with our amazing kiddos on the spectrum, and she has the knack! Gabe feels comfortable, and that means everything!! Nice job, Gabe!! Nice job, Lilly!!!!

  • @spicycheesegaming8390
    @spicycheesegaming8390 3 дні тому +17

    God bless him, hope he has a great future ahead of him 🙏 ❤️ 💙 🙌 😊 ♥️ 😊😊❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @Canyon_K
    @Canyon_K 3 дні тому +7

    We love you Gabe and appreciate you letting us into your life!!

  • @sandrarios4636
    @sandrarios4636 2 дні тому +5

    He can be a model

  • @CJ-gi7iv
    @CJ-gi7iv 2 дні тому +5

    Gabe growing to be a very handsome young man.❤❤️❤️

  • @NIICKA8810
    @NIICKA8810 3 дні тому +7

    Love that. True growth. My brother, now 24, cuts his own hair 😅

  • @Tonya-fz4er
    @Tonya-fz4er 2 дні тому +8

    When you look into the camera Gabe, I can see a conversation in your eyes! ❤😊

    • @charleenhuval4287
      @charleenhuval4287 2 дні тому

      Yes indeed Gabe, your eyes 👀 are your Soul Essence.
      We are assured you have so much enrichment to share.

  • @robertpate7161
    @robertpate7161 День тому +1

    He is like looking into the face of a angel, peaceful and innocent. Very nice young man.

  • @minagirl7
    @minagirl7 3 дні тому +6

    Good job, Gabe! You have amazing hair!🤩

  • @margaretzeaiter8955
    @margaretzeaiter8955 19 годин тому

    Gabe is such a beautiful soul. There’s an “old person” wisdom that shows in his eyes.

  • @sofiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
    @sofiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii 3 дні тому +6

    Good job Gabe 💕 ur so amazing

  • @brendakay5531
    @brendakay5531 3 дні тому +6

    Beautifully. Speakin. Through jos eyes. Awesome cut. Great job and touch

  • @charleenhuval4287
    @charleenhuval4287 2 дні тому +5

    He’s growing into a handsome, intelligent young man. BRAVO MOMS & extended loving family!

  • @Direct-Current
    @Direct-Current 3 дні тому +4

    HOUSTON ADORES YOU GABE AND YOUR PARENTS! JUST THOUGHT YOU OUGHT TO KNOW. YOUR HAIR LOOKS FANTASTIC TOO!.. HEY GABE.. STAY BLESSED BRUH!. KEEP THE VIDS COMIN, YOUR TEACHING ALL OF US THINGS THAT ARE SO IMPORTANT FOR US TO HELP OTHERS AND FOR US TO UNDERSTAND. MOST OF ALL.. YOU SHOW HOW TO LOVE. XOXO

  • @rainbowbrite83
    @rainbowbrite83 3 дні тому +6

    My autistic son is not a fan of haircuts. So we are on a “long” hair journey lol. Gabe you look fantastic!!!

    • @virginiaconnor8350
      @virginiaconnor8350 3 дні тому +1

      Would it help to have him watch Gabe having a haircut and explain that Gabe is autistic too? Gabe is so patient and handsome!

    • @rainbowbrite83
      @rainbowbrite83 3 дні тому +1

      @@virginiaconnor8350 maybe! I’ll try it, thanks for the suggestion

  • @Nothanks-q5f
    @Nothanks-q5f 3 дні тому +8

    He got so tall ❤

    • @MelaninCosplay
      @MelaninCosplay 3 дні тому +3

      I was just saying the same thing. I haven't watched in a while and I was like, "He's grown!"

  • @kagomegrrl21
    @kagomegrrl21 2 дні тому +2

    Love the hair dresser showing him and taking her time to make sure he is ok. Go gabe

  • @susanadelosangelesfriantme9623
    @susanadelosangelesfriantme9623 3 дні тому +5

    Yo Amó a este precioso Angel ❤❤❤😊😊

  • @davidcopperfield-notthemag397
    @davidcopperfield-notthemag397 2 дні тому +18

    I don't think the hairdresser is cutting enough off. Gabe looks much more handsome without those heavy bangs. Better when his handsome face shows! ✂️✂️✂️

  • @Zee_Zg
    @Zee_Zg 2 дні тому +2

    Well done, Gabe ❤❤❤ And I love you hair a bit longer, I'm glad they didn't give you a short haircut 😊❤️❤️❤️

  • @larry11656
    @larry11656 2 дні тому +3

    Gabe has beautiful thick hair. Enjoy it, buddy, while it lasts. Mine is gone now and it was as thick as yours.

  • @ACollectionOfBookmarks
    @ACollectionOfBookmarks 2 дні тому +2

    Gabe you did wonderfully

  • @MinkaSchlossberger4ever
    @MinkaSchlossberger4ever 2 години тому

    Gabe looks awesome!...abd he was patient and kind!!! Have a beautyful summer, dear Gabe!!!❤

  • @lilybag4826
    @lilybag4826 2 дні тому +2

    Love for gabe. God bless him. 💜💜💜

  • @mrs.b6719
    @mrs.b6719 2 дні тому +2

    It's a wonderful day when one of your videos pops up in my feed 🎉❤
    Gabe looks handsome as ever 😍 and super cool there just chilling for the haircut 💇‍♂️ 😎
    Looking goooood!!!😊

  • @joycebrown6079
    @joycebrown6079 2 дні тому +2

    Gabe is so handsome, awesome hair!! 🙌🏼😎

  • @Sam-zu5mr
    @Sam-zu5mr 19 годин тому

    He handled that better than I would. It's like the dentist. Some people like sitting in a chair being messed with, others (such as myself) DO NOT!

  • @sandrapereira-qu6jz
    @sandrapereira-qu6jz 2 дні тому +2

    I love you Gabe!!!!

  • @harvestmoon_autumnsky
    @harvestmoon_autumnsky 14 годин тому

    Gabe and my son are the same age. He's off to high school in the fall too. My son is pretty high functioning but haircuts were one thing he could not to without screaming bloody murder and even throwing up. Finally he can sit still for it. I was so proud of Gabe and proud of my son for the growth they achieve.

  • @MurphyFarm2014
    @MurphyFarm2014 2 дні тому +2

    You're so patient Gabe ❤fr CB NS 🇨🇦

  • @Lynne-703
    @Lynne-703 3 дні тому +3

    Has he always been so tolerant of haircuts? Our grandson is 3 and is nonverbal with autism. Haircuts are a dreaded event here….. forget bringing clippers out!! He basically gives the hairdresser a workout because he will not sit and she has to follow him around and trim his hair. I love your videos and love Gabes progress. You are wonderful mothers and are blessed with such a beautiful son❤

  • @evelynbohm
    @evelynbohm День тому +1

    Beautiful boy❤️
    No need to play music over them. It is nice to hear the talking and snipping, with the occasional chatting from Gabe💖

  • @michellecarrillo4923
    @michellecarrillo4923 3 дні тому +6

    Es tan hermoso y adorable ❤❤❤

  • @desireesmits8001
    @desireesmits8001 3 дні тому +2

    Handsome as ever, Gabe!! Good job! 👏

  • @user-adoyle123
    @user-adoyle123 2 дні тому +1

    He has a fine head of hair. You rock Gabe Hi from Ireland ❤

  • @shirleysaunders628
    @shirleysaunders628 2 дні тому +1

    I cannot believe the difference in Gabes behavior while getting his hair cut. He did FANTASTIC. Do you ask Gabe how he would like his hair cut? Also is Gabe still doing his writing? He is so smart and I love the way he shares his feelings.

  • @dawnmanzella-vd2ei
    @dawnmanzella-vd2ei 8 годин тому

    Gabe is such a sweetheart, looking good my dear ❤

  • @siriwansaijeen9207
    @siriwansaijeen9207 2 дні тому +3

    He so cute 🥰

  • @jimmyo1123
    @jimmyo1123 2 дні тому +1

    Hes a trooper😊

  • @m.warhaftig8651
    @m.warhaftig8651 День тому

    Gabe is so handsome. Does he look at himself in the mirror? I feel he understands language from other people even when people aren't talking directly to him, but maybe they are talking to you or something. Anyway, Gabe is a hero to many if he doesn't mind chronicling his journey. He is enlightening the world by letting us learn more about autism instead of just reading about it. Also, I guess we need to give these awesome moms some credit too!!😊 I admire y'alls desire to help Gabe live his awesome life. I wish it could be the same for all autistic persons. Blessings to you all. ❤

  • @Grace_steiner
    @Grace_steiner 3 дні тому +2

    How handsome!!

  • @stuff1784
    @stuff1784 2 дні тому +1

    He is such a cutie ❤

  • @lettidelgado7375
    @lettidelgado7375 2 дні тому +1

    Aww his hair is thick.. you look handsome...

  • @deborahstenton133
    @deborahstenton133 16 годин тому

    Good job Gabe, hair is looking amazing xxx

  • @susanmiller6023
    @susanmiller6023 2 дні тому +2

    I wonder what his perception of the world is and what he is thinking. There's so much going on behind his eyes.

  • @Siuyendiana
    @Siuyendiana 2 дні тому +2

    🥰Gabe

  • @catiehays3361
    @catiehays3361 2 дні тому +4

    Gabes hair is definitely getting darker as he gets older..

  • @mariateresacarter5473
    @mariateresacarter5473 2 дні тому +1

    Very nice Gabe!! . Excellent behaviour (as always). Next time put a cloth arround his chest to prevent hair falling over his neck, so he wont feel the itching from the hair that was covering him.😊 ❤

  • @TheGingerGem
    @TheGingerGem День тому

    I hope we get to this one day. My boy hasn't had a haircut in about 3 years. He's got beautiful thick LONG blond hair. Once he got too big and too strong to hold to cut his hair, it's just kept growing as hair does. There isn't anything we haven't tried. (He's 10 now)

  • @pr5554
    @pr5554 2 дні тому +1

    Glad to see it was only a trim. He has such amazing hair. He's such a handsome young man. Does he tell yiu how he want his hair cut?

  • @jamesw2270
    @jamesw2270 День тому +2

    He definitely needs a new hairdresser. This one has frantic energy and there is no rhyme nor reason to her cutting technique. I was an artist director in many salons during my career. He needs someone calm and methodical to work with him. All the rough combing doesn’t help. Also no cape?

  • @ralphturner3798
    @ralphturner3798 2 дні тому +3

    She should have put a sheet around his shoulders.

  • @envidiaff8485
    @envidiaff8485 3 дні тому +3

    I would treat him a black barber just to see his full potency bet the girls will be all over him 😎

  • @tyreesetjjoyner1995
    @tyreesetjjoyner1995 2 дні тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @peach7210
    @peach7210 День тому

    Gabe reminds me of a young James Spader.

  • @randomness051
    @randomness051 3 дні тому +3

    Does Gabe like the music on? This video is overstimulating for me and I'm not even autistic

  • @michellecarrillo4923
    @michellecarrillo4923 3 дні тому +2

    Sé porta Muy bien ❤, Trasmite tranquilidad Gabé me Trasmite mucha tranquilidad ❤❤

  • @pluffypony4162
    @pluffypony4162 2 дні тому +1

    😍♥️

  • @Millennial_Manc
    @Millennial_Manc 2 дні тому +2

    I’m glad Gabe felt comfortable but that’s not a very skilled haircut to my eyes. Thank you for sharing though.

  • @leemarvinhitchmanciaratell3450
    @leemarvinhitchmanciaratell3450 3 дні тому +2

    My autistic son Thalon is 5 on November 5th !! D 🧨 i🎉

  • @andrew-nq6ci
    @andrew-nq6ci День тому

    Thank you for sharing this.
    I've been watching your videos and Gabe reminds me of our son, 13 yrs old and non speaking.
    What is the blue fidget called that he is holding? Please let us know.
    Thank you so much. God bless!
    💙Hugs from south FL

  • @shirleygiordano7627
    @shirleygiordano7627 18 годин тому

    Gabe looks great. I like the hair dressers' pink pants. I love pink. It's my favorite color. What is Gabe's favorite color? That might be something to ask him on a spelling day.

  • @user-me4ks9hm9w
    @user-me4ks9hm9w 3 дні тому +1

    I am like super new to this channel so if he does go to school is he have to be put in regular classes or does he actually get to go in a separate room with all the other kids like him ( PS I am in one of those rooms)

  • @catiehays3361
    @catiehays3361 2 дні тому +2

    Why dont you find 1 person 4 haircuts & stick with them? I would think that would make it easier for Gabe.

    • @fortheloveofgabe
      @fortheloveofgabe  2 дні тому +3

      We have several people who Gabe likes having his hair cut by!

  • @gregoriosmuczek6864
    @gregoriosmuczek6864 3 дні тому +2

    Boa tarde gente bonita
    São Paulo Brasil

  • @biankamcfadden4824
    @biankamcfadden4824 3 дні тому +2

    👍👋😘

  • @gregoriosmuczek6864
    @gregoriosmuczek6864 День тому

    Bom dia, bom domingo, abraços
    São Paulo Brasil

  • @sonniquickpianoimprov2231
    @sonniquickpianoimprov2231 21 годину тому

    He looks perplexed, staring intently into the camera, more than I've seen him do before. Music playing and people talking. What is going through his head. Does he feel like he is constantly under a microscope?

  • @BrightSoul736
    @BrightSoul736 День тому

    Hi Everyone, I am the Mom of 3 daughters who happen to be on the Spectrum. I need some advice, I have a petite 8 year old who’s extremely combative when it comes to her hair. Any ideas on how to make hair washing easier?

  • @user-co6yp1jc1c
    @user-co6yp1jc1c День тому

    you need a 3 piece armani costume with that look #versace#hugoboss#dolcigabana#who ever can hook him up !

  • @shirleysaunders628
    @shirleysaunders628 2 дні тому

    Stop with negative comments.

  • @lnl5390
    @lnl5390 2 дні тому +2

    Odd mole on her back (waist) should be checked.

  • @SadieMy
    @SadieMy День тому

    Is Gabe on target academically with his peer group? I know he thinks deeply and intelligently in his typing.

  • @user-ym2lo4bi6c
    @user-ym2lo4bi6c 2 дні тому +1

    🩵🩵🩵

  • @michelled8408
    @michelled8408 23 години тому

    I just don't understand.. I had 7 kids and if any of them were autistic I wouldn't know because proper discipline started right away and they wouldn't be allowed to behave badly at least not in the autistic way. I see many parents now who coddle these autistic kids and they are making a huge mistake. I think it's laziness with the parents because consistent and constant discipline would shape them up. I think the system is flawed and these kids will never grow up right if the parents act like something is wrong with their kids . STOP!!!

  • @membershipofbus
    @membershipofbus День тому

    Does he speak?

  • @bobf.5538
    @bobf.5538 3 дні тому +4

    He dint need a haircut. ..women.

  • @sandrarios4636
    @sandrarios4636 2 дні тому +2

    Don't look like you known how to cut hair