I'm not from the UK so I couldn't watch the full episodes. When is it going to be available for audiences outside UK? Or is there a site where we can watch them?
This is why I am SO GRATEFUL (and I am NOT joking in ANY WAY, SHAPE OR FORM when I say this) that I come from a family of REAL men!!! BOTH of my brothers have ALWAYS given their partners 100% support when it comes to their careers RIGHTLY SO, PLUS they have ALWAYS AUTOMATICALLY pitched in with their fair share of the housework NO QUESTIONS ASKED!!! The same goes for my Dad, uncles and ALL my male cousins!!! Furthermore my partner was EXACTLY THE SAME when he was alive!!! In fact, to cut a long story short, I would NEVER associate with ANY male who did NOT live up to my expectations!!!
Wow you know you’re failing as a stay at home parent when your kids recognize you sit around all day and wait for the other parent to come home and do everything. That little girl literally came for his entire career
Yeah that’s pretty bad although I think he works from home so his kids see him sitting around all day when he’s doing work. However he should 100% be feeding the kids lol
@@kelseymccollam5148 While that might be part of it, kids are usually able to tell the difference between working and waiting around for the other parent to come home. With how much of a hissy fight he put up about feeding the kids, I'll bet it's pretty darn obvious to his children that he's just waiting around for mom.
This is is a prime example of why this 'alpha male' mentality needs to evolve with the times. It's not a WOMANS job to raise kids, it's a PARENTS job to raise children.
As a professional, trained, high salary, full-time nanny (50 hours a week).....you have my utmost respect! You do my job 24 hours a day, 7 days a week for free!! You are awesome mum! Wherever you are in the world, happy (Irish) mothers day this Sunday 22nd!
@@anyalaASMR You think that's hard. Try talking to moms that actually go to work and come home to do the same thing stay at home mom's do. Or try talking to single moms then you will really see hard work!
Was scrolling for the dusty comment lol....she got the same bm that BW got....lazy, dusty, lame, worthless, and probably a victim 🙄 even the kiddo doesn't hold him to any standard
He’s crazy what ?! “ I don’t want it to be an incentive like let me stay at work so Ian can feed the kids” he’s making it sound like some hard responsibility just feed the freaking kids !!!
Wow 😱 Girlfriend!!! You picked a loser. Any stay at home wife would be expected to have dinner ready and this stay at home dad had to basically be forced to do it. Forced to do something that would actually help his wife and lighten her load. Even his kids call him lazy. This is what women today are out here calling a man & a husband. Sad.
Not right but no need to shame...thats actually quite traditional and the way its been done for generations...luckily it seems we are evolving as a society and breaking out of those traditional gender roles
@@BettieBoo I don't think it's shaming, we need to be able to keep men accountability as well. This is 2021, she works all day and still takes care of home. It takes him nothing to help his wife out. The children are watching and taking their cues from him.
@@africandiaspora100 You are the fools that take up men that are not working and are ok with being a stay at home dad, most of them that are ok with it are just lazy and want to sponge of their wife. Lol you guys got tricked! But more feminist power to you!
Alexis Cou just like when children pick a tall skinny glass of juice over a short wider tall of juice because taller means “more”. That’s a giant lazy man child of a husband and father.
My dad cooks dinner for my family everyday just because he likes cooking. My mum does it when he's not well or doesn't want to. That is how it should work, compromise. Props to your dad, some parents don't want to do anything for their family
Y’all are stupid. Oh no, we disagree let’s divorce and separate the kids. Heaven forbid if you work your issues out like what she did here and make a happy home even better.
It’s so gross and bizarre for me to see men act like this . My dad is always happy to do stuff around the house and he always took care of me and my siblings as much as my mom did.
I’m the stay at home parent and I do it all, I should do this exercise with my fiancé 🙄 The fact the dads home all day but waits for mum to come home to make dinner? Nah mate that’s messed up.
I'm a stay at home mama to three (soon to be four). We are homeschoolers as well and I do everything around the house and all the responsibilities regarding the children plus meals. It's not easy and depending on the husband's employment type may be the most demanding responsibility.
Mom is laughing because she's heard all of this bullcrap from Dad before about how he doesn't think he should have to make dinner, and Jo isn't putting up with it.
the struggle of the working mom... is dads feel like because they’re usually not doing manual labor that they have no reason to be tired when they get home
This is helping me set standards for when I find a man. I agree on both parents putting in the effort. If one is at work, the other is cooking and cleaning, no matter the gender.
Shoot..if I had to come to cook dinner and he stayed home all day he wouldn't be eating what I make. Feed the kids☑️ feed myself ☑️!! Husband you are on your own.
I had to do this with my ex. It got so bad when I was running my own family day care business, I had no time to exercise, go out clothes shopping or time for myself for a bath or relaxation. I was so caught up in routines, portfolio building, checking KPIs, kitchen health and safety, baking snacks, menu planning. customers complaining about my hot taps being in the wrong position in the bathroom and laundry and a step to wash toddlers hands being unacceptable for toddlers as a toilet step was dangerous. I may have to show this with my daughter too. I will write all chores and tasks down. Just to show exactly what needs to be done by being an independent adult living independently.
I wish my husband and I would do this. He won't touch a chore with a 10' pole, and we both work. But faced with uncomfortable facts, he would just pout, stomp around, then turn the TV way up. 💩
@@evaluna2088 I am safe. Breaking the news Saturday, and am going to reassure him that he will see the kids all the time, and I don't want his stuff. There was no lockdown for us! We both work in energy.
Children are smart and can recognize and see almost any behavior! People need to stop diminishing them and start acknowledging them. Those children picked up on the behavior of their dad and KNEW that he wasn’t pulling his own weight. I’m sorry but when I was younger I noticed it with my dad too. Sitting around all day, bad attitude and a lack of interest in what we were involved in. It’s sad and it needs to be called out!
Will show this to my husband. We had very balanced plates 9 years ago, now? not at all. I am pregnant, still taking my daily ivf medicines for the first trimester, i work full time an office job leading two departments, i go on work trips every 2-3 months, i do the grocery shopping and get it delivered home, i do all the clothes shopping and getting handovers for our daughter, i prepare breakfast, i take the rubbish out, i cook dinner when i get home from work and clean dishes, i do the laundry, i organize the house.....he is a stay home dad, he takes wonderful care of his daughter but he doesn't do grocery shopping, he doesnt prepare meals, and he never ever organizes a thing, if something falls to the floor it will stay there forever until i pick it up. He says being a stay home dad is exhausting, i know it is, but he is not doing all what a stay home parent should be doing., i am doing both the work outside of the home and the work at home. I Dont take naps, he does, i dont get to avoid commuting, i drive 40kms...
Loramend He is not a Stay at home parent he is home babysitting his own child.Nothing more nothing less.Please speak your mind reading this alone sounds stressful let alone doing it...
How can I watch season 8? I don't have cable and the app won't let me watch. Been trying to contact lifetime about it but it seems there is no watch to do that.
Why do these men feel staying at home is just waiting for mom to come home and do everything? This episode is not the only one. There is also one where the dad drops his horrible kids at the mom's preschool where they attack other kids, and mom still has to do the laundry, cleaning and diner when they come home!
@@maryapatterson yes! I can't speak for everyone but probably at 11 pm they go to bet. We are not that structured, most people don't set "bed times" just like teenagers don't have curfews
@@Lalisosunangel Remember we have no history of siesta. So its just a simple cultural difference. In the UK we try and get children into bed starting from about 7.30 pm. As the children get older and the bedtimes get a little later, supper may get a little later so that the family can eat together. In the UK, the sun sets as early as 3.30pm in the winter and its a little colder. In the summer the sun sets as later as 9.30 and a little warmer.
@@maryapatterson oh my God, 3 pm! That's so early. During the winter here it sets at about 7 pm. Naps are more common in what we call the interior of the country, I live in Buenos Aires and it's not that common. Kids who have "double shifts" at school because parents work get out around five PM, so you can imagine that putting them to bed at 7:30 would be impossible haha. Also we have what we call merienda, at around 5/6 we drink mate or tea, have toast with jam, or cookies or something.
@@Lalisosunangel There are no such things as shifts in the UK. Schools start from about 8.30-9 and finish about 3- 3.30pm. Them there maybe after school activities /homework/sport/clubs with a snack smuggled in somewhere.
I believe in gender equality, if he wants to stay at home with the kids while his wife provides, that’s awesome, but he should take on the responsibility of being a stay at home parent, he should take care of the kids , cook the meals , and clean the house.
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I'm not from the UK so I couldn't watch the full episodes. When is it going to be available for audiences outside UK? Or is there a site where we can watch them?
He thinks his wife would stay at work for longer so that he has to make dinner because that's exactly what HE would do.. Classic projection
Yup. Other dads have admitted to preferring to stay at work longer than come home and deal with the kids and having to parent.
This is why I am SO GRATEFUL (and I am NOT joking in ANY WAY, SHAPE OR FORM when I say this) that I come from a family of REAL men!!!
BOTH of my brothers have ALWAYS given their partners 100% support when it comes to their careers RIGHTLY SO, PLUS they have ALWAYS AUTOMATICALLY pitched in with their fair share of the housework NO QUESTIONS ASKED!!! The same goes for my Dad, uncles and ALL my male cousins!!! Furthermore my partner was EXACTLY THE SAME when he was alive!!!
In fact, to cut a long story short, I would NEVER associate with ANY male who did NOT live up to my expectations!!!
Terrible considering how much more she does for the family.
Wow you know you’re failing as a stay at home parent when your kids recognize you sit around all day and wait for the other parent to come home and do everything. That little girl literally came for his entire career
Yeah that’s pretty bad although I think he works from home so his kids see him sitting around all day when he’s doing work. However he should 100% be feeding the kids lol
@@kelseymccollam5148 While that might be part of it, kids are usually able to tell the difference between working and waiting around for the other parent to come home. With how much of a hissy fight he put up about feeding the kids, I'll bet it's pretty darn obvious to his children that he's just waiting around for mom.
I wish I could give this a million thumbs up lol
I wish my dad had realized that but he's too late now 😓
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
The fact that Ian stacked up the boxes to look taller than his wife's, even though she has more
This
That gets me 😂
Your 8 year old child observed you’re not doing anything. Just, wow!!!
This
Not wanting to feed his own kids?
Disgraceful
This is is a prime example of why this 'alpha male' mentality needs to evolve with the times. It's not a WOMANS job to raise kids, it's a PARENTS job to raise children.
EXACTLY 👏👏👏
🙌🏼 💯
And those same men turn around and are pikachu shocked face that their kinds have no relationship with them
@@Metyourmatch LMAO pikachu shocked face..I'm weak AF
@@Metyourmatch exactly
Kids are smarter than parents realize.
Ian is ridiculous to have the idea of she’s the woman so she should make dinner.
Shenice Says I literally only cook because every time my husband cooks he ruins it lol. There are like 3 recipes he actually know and won’t mess up
He thinks cooking is so hard but quick meals take 20 minutes tops
Shenice Says he should have a job he’s a male???? It’s crazy how ironic the situation is
Right? Especially since he's supposed to be a stay-at-home dad he should be the one cooking and cleaning smh
Yeah ikr, it’s not the 1950s anymore
Ugh why do men think that even when women work fulltime we still have to have the same amount of housework as stay at home mom
So true!!! I don't understand neither!!!
When your husband behaves like a child the issues will not end.
The fact that he makes feeding his own children a conditional thing on whether he can be bothered or not. That's appalling!!
It's sad that as a stay at home mom I'm embarrassed by other lazy stay at home parents who don't understand our job.
Ashli Caldwell
Don't ever be embarrassed most moms would want to be SAHMs, you never regret the time with ur kids
Ashli Caldwell for real, we do everything
As a professional, trained, high salary, full-time nanny (50 hours a week).....you have my utmost respect! You do my job 24 hours a day, 7 days a week for free!! You are awesome mum! Wherever you are in the world, happy (Irish) mothers day this Sunday 22nd!
being a stay at home mom is very hard. i applaud you. most people think you just get to sit around all day, but really it’s a job that has no breaks.
@@anyalaASMR You think that's hard. Try talking to moms that actually go to work and come home to do the same thing stay at home mom's do. Or try talking to single moms then you will really see hard work!
Ian is a typical Dusty. Wants everything for nothing or with his minimal contribution.
Was scrolling for the dusty comment lol....she got the same bm that BW got....lazy, dusty, lame, worthless, and probably a victim 🙄 even the kiddo doesn't hold him to any standard
A dusty lame 😂🤣
He’s crazy what ?! “ I don’t want it to be an incentive like let me stay at work so Ian can feed the kids” he’s making it sound like some hard responsibility just feed the freaking kids !!!
Wow 😱 Girlfriend!!! You picked a loser. Any stay at home wife would be expected to have dinner ready and this stay at home dad had to basically be forced to do it. Forced to do something that would actually help his wife and lighten her load. Even his kids call him lazy. This is what women today are out here calling a man & a husband. Sad.
Yes the problem is definitely him. She accepted bad behavior.
Not right but no need to shame...thats actually quite traditional and the way its been done for generations...luckily it seems we are evolving as a society and breaking out of those traditional gender roles
@@BettieBoo I don't think it's shaming, we need to be able to keep men accountability as well. This is 2021, she works all day and still takes care of home. It takes him nothing to help his wife out. The children are watching and taking their cues from him.
@@africandiaspora100 You are the fools that take up men that are not working and are ok with being a stay at home dad, most of them that are ok with it are just lazy and want to sponge of their wife. Lol you guys got tricked! But more feminist power to you!
Can we just talk why the dad did a single stack tower which is for sure going to fall down.
It's to try to make it look taller, as if he's doing more.
Alexis Cou just like when children pick a tall skinny glass of juice over a short wider tall of juice because taller means “more”. That’s a giant lazy man child of a husband and father.
@Alexis Cou LOL exactly
My dad cooks dinner for our family most nights of the week AND works full time...Ian needs to man up and realize it’s not 1962 anymore.
My dad cooks dinner for my family everyday just because he likes cooking. My mum does it when he's not well or doesn't want to. That is how it should work, compromise.
Props to your dad, some parents don't want to do anything for their family
@@eleanorcooke7136 thanks. My mom can cook but she just doesn’t like to and my dad does.
Why is he arguing about feeding his own children like damm?
When will women learn men like him are absolutely worthless and should just leave? What kind of man can't be asked to feed his kids and wife?
Elliott For real, he has ONE job: provide
Y’all are stupid. Oh no, we disagree let’s divorce and separate the kids. Heaven forbid if you work your issues out like what she did here and make a happy home even better.
And its so stereotypical cause chef's at restauramts are mostly men! So they are very capable of cooking if they just try...
@@beepboop9519 or he can be take care of the house & SHE provides?
Especially when his title is stay at home dad. Make it make sense 🤦🏻♀️
The little girl shoving her rice on the fork with her hands is literally the cutest thing I’ve seen today. Precious little babies
Yes, it's the little things that children do that are so sweet ❤
My dude, just say you think that’s the women’s job, to be in the kitchen. Throw the whole husband away.
My eyes rolled so hard when he's fighting against Jo moving ONE responsibility from her stack to his. Just one. 🤦
There was DEF an extra baby in this household...
the stay at home parent is the one who need to feed the kids, unless they are sick
That's enough reason for me to dump him. And this is on TV. Imagine real life.
Supernanny deserves an award for bringing families together 💙 I just love her
It’s so gross and bizarre for me to see men act like this . My dad is always happy to do stuff around the house and he always took care of me and my siblings as much as my mom did.
i like it how at 2:30 you can tell that hes thinking REALLY hard as to who can feed the kids other them himself
I’m the stay at home parent and I do it all, I should do this exercise with my fiancé 🙄
The fact the dads home all day but waits for mum to come home to make dinner? Nah mate that’s messed up.
I'm a stay at home mama to three (soon to be four). We are homeschoolers as well and I do everything around the house and all the responsibilities regarding the children plus meals. It's not easy and depending on the husband's employment type may be the most demanding responsibility.
@@ninaorozco2115 Wow you did better than me. I ended up leaving in the end
@@mikmak2102good. That’ll hopefully open his mind a little bit
@@isabellamarty8745 I left him a year later and now he’s not seen or contacted his son in over a year.
I can't cope when working in a job with people like that dad. so I can't even imagine what it must be like for the mum
Mom is laughing because she's heard all of this bullcrap from Dad before about how he doesn't think he should have to make dinner, and Jo isn't putting up with it.
I kind of think that the Dad only thinks of himself.
Glad Jo sorted this! 🥵
Love how even the youngest gets it lol
the struggle of the working mom... is dads feel like because they’re usually not doing manual labor that they have no reason to be tired when they get home
This is helping me set standards for when I find a man. I agree on both parents putting in the effort. If one is at work, the other is cooking and cleaning, no matter the gender.
i rly want her to go to a family that she went to in the 2000s
Omg my dads name is Ian and this reminds me exactly of him. He never cooks dinner at all
Shoot..if I had to come to cook dinner and he stayed home all day he wouldn't be eating what I make. Feed the kids☑️ feed myself ☑️!! Husband you are on your own.
I had to do this with my ex. It got so bad when I was running my own family day care business, I had no time to exercise, go out clothes shopping or time for myself for a bath or relaxation. I was so caught up in routines, portfolio building, checking KPIs, kitchen health and safety, baking snacks, menu planning. customers complaining about my hot taps being in the wrong position in the bathroom and laundry and a step to wash toddlers hands being unacceptable for toddlers as a toilet step was dangerous. I may have to show this with my daughter too. I will write all chores and tasks down. Just to show exactly what needs to be done by being an independent adult living independently.
The fact that even the kids see he was being lazy🤦🏾♀️ and he still tryna come up with some excuse
I wish my husband and I would do this. He won't touch a chore with a 10' pole, and we both work.
But faced with uncomfortable facts, he would just pout, stomp around, then turn the TV way up. 💩
That's sad, Cherry Mama. It also worries me.
@@evaluna2088 He's not going to be my husband for too much longer 😞 I am tired.
@@CherryACR You already know but you still can't go about it, it seems. Perhaps because of the current lockdown. Are you safe?
@@evaluna2088 I am safe. Breaking the news Saturday, and am going to reassure him that he will see the kids all the time, and I don't want his stuff.
There was no lockdown for us! We both work in energy.
@@CherryACR Blessings and a happy life for you all. 🙏
Children are smart and can recognize and see almost any behavior! People need to stop diminishing them and start acknowledging them. Those children picked up on the behavior of their dad and KNEW that he wasn’t pulling his own weight. I’m sorry but when I was younger I noticed it with my dad too. Sitting around all day, bad attitude and a lack of interest in what we were involved in. It’s sad and it needs to be called out!
I didn’t see this whole episode but, those kids seemed pretty sweet.❤️
This is what happens when you have children without any thought .
Will show this to my husband. We had very balanced plates 9 years ago, now? not at all. I am pregnant, still taking my daily ivf medicines for the first trimester, i work full time an office job leading two departments, i go on work trips every 2-3 months, i do the grocery shopping and get it delivered home, i do all the clothes shopping and getting handovers for our daughter, i prepare breakfast, i take the rubbish out, i cook dinner when i get home from work and clean dishes, i do the laundry, i organize the house.....he is a stay home dad, he takes wonderful care of his daughter but he doesn't do grocery shopping, he doesnt prepare meals, and he never ever organizes a thing, if something falls to the floor it will stay there forever until i pick it up. He says being a stay home dad is exhausting, i know it is, but he is not doing all what a stay home parent should be doing., i am doing both the work outside of the home and the work at home. I Dont take naps, he does, i dont get to avoid commuting, i drive 40kms...
Loramend He is not a Stay at home parent he is home babysitting his own child.Nothing more nothing less.Please speak your mind reading this alone sounds stressful let alone doing it...
He is worthless...time to do this box technique with him.
The children where more behaved than the parents
Their kids are GORGEOUS. I’m sorry I just have to say it
Low-key If you decide to have kids, understand, that you need to make sacrifices for them. That's just the job of parent.
This is just like my house
This is exactly one of the many reasons my parents divorced. The stay-at-home Dad did nothing all day everyday...
The fact they he tried to stack them in one row to make it seem like he does a lot baffles me. He’s a lazy bum 🤷🏾♀️
Does anybody else want to see Jo Frost and Marie Kondo collaborate?
I love you Jo you are really Super kind Heart and awesome counselor For kids and parents
I saw her drop the boxes and I though she was gunna say “This is how much cocaine you use in a whole year...”
I thought supernanbh was Abby lee
Mystic Voidz YT same😂
Doesn't want to feed his own kids 😩😩😩😂😂😂
They have cute kids
I think Mom was pretty tho
Jo trains the parents properly
Why aren't the episodes repeated? Please just repeat it... My box fails to record it and hate missing a episode
Can she please make more full episodes I’m dieting to see them 🥺
Those kids need to work on their table manners
The kids noticed how lazy the dad was
They have awesome children
Orr family ages 2022:
Ian - 50
Jamie - 48
Julian - 14
Gianna - 13
Ava - 11
Lola - 9
He is lazzzy
They have such cute kids!
Dinner at 5 o’clock?😱😱😱
In my country, elementary schools starts at 8:30 AM and ends at 4:30 PM, so little children eat around 7PM🤣
2021
Ian Orr: 48 years old
Jamie Orr: 46 years old
Julian Orr: 13 years old
Gianna Orr: 12 years old
Ava Orr: 10 years old
Lola Orr: 8 years old
I swear ppl have kids and then don’t want to deal with them.
Baby girl just listed all of his errors honey.
How can I watch season 8? I don't have cable and the app won't let me watch. Been trying to contact lifetime about it but it seems there is no watch to do that.
There really lovely kids 🥰
Anyone know the family's name or know where the full video is?
Is it just me or did jo-jo get more serious 😅😥🧐
How mature was that little girl? She knew exactly what her dads game was. I have a feeling she won’t be taking any bs when she’s married 😆
"You need to feed you children". Seriously. Feed your children. No "But's!
BOY! yes boy! Get a flicking job then
Where can I find the full episodes please?
Hi Lisa! You can watch full episodes of Supernanny at myLifetime.com!
@@Lifetime I tried but there is no mention of supernanny on your website 🙄🙄😔😔# confused
Why do these men feel staying at home is just waiting for mom to come home and do everything? This episode is not the only one. There is also one where the dad drops his horrible kids at the mom's preschool where they attack other kids, and mom still has to do the laundry, cleaning and diner when they come home!
Dad wasn’t ready for kids
Are new Supernanny episodes not airing because of COVID-19?
Bwhahahahhah the way he stacks the boxes
Who has dinner at 5 pm??? It's the middle of the day LOL. In Argentina we have dinner at 9/10
Even on a school night? What time do the children go to bed then?
@@maryapatterson yes! I can't speak for everyone but probably at 11 pm they go to bet. We are not that structured, most people don't set "bed times" just like teenagers don't have curfews
@@Lalisosunangel Remember we have no history of siesta. So its just a simple cultural difference.
In the UK we try and get children into bed starting from about 7.30 pm. As the children get older and the bedtimes get a little later, supper may get a little later so that the family can eat together.
In the UK, the sun sets as early as 3.30pm in the winter and its a little colder. In the summer the sun sets as later as 9.30 and a little warmer.
@@maryapatterson oh my God, 3 pm! That's so early. During the winter here it sets at about 7 pm. Naps are more common in what we call the interior of the country, I live in Buenos Aires and it's not that common. Kids who have "double shifts" at school because parents work get out around five PM, so you can imagine that putting them to bed at 7:30 would be impossible haha. Also we have what we call merienda, at around 5/6 we drink mate or tea, have toast with jam, or cookies or something.
@@Lalisosunangel There are no such things as shifts in the UK. Schools start from about 8.30-9 and finish about 3- 3.30pm. Them there maybe after school activities /homework/sport/clubs with a snack smuggled in somewhere.
Who eats there dinner at 5 o clock?!!
I AM IRON MAN me
Kids who go to bed at seven or eight o'clock
I AM IRON MAN I eat at 6-7.
The long commercials ads are annoying BIG TIME
Ah, nothing like internalized msygony.
Holy cow leave him girl. He’s not worth ANYTHING
I believe in gender equality, if he wants to stay at home with the kids while his wife provides, that’s awesome, but he should take on the responsibility of being a stay at home parent, he should take care of the kids , cook the meals , and clean the house.
Lmao Julian goes to my school he still does
Welp ....stay over there Ian
YOU NEED TO FEED YOUR KIDS IAN!
I thought they were going to add up how many times they eat takeout
This guy is the biggest slacker of all time
God I love jo
Loved to make the kids , too lazy to take care of them 🙄
When you should be studying but clicked on another video of supernanny, opps
Wow that's a jock
Make moreeeeeeeeeee!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️