How To Stop Thinking Everybody is "The One"

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  • Опубліковано 15 гру 2024

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  • @PastorZministries
    @PastorZministries 3 роки тому +109

    I read this title and was immediate like this is for me! I think i've said three different women have been "the one." Probably as the only guy here, I'll go sit in the back. lol

    • @Proverbs-vw2sc
      @Proverbs-vw2sc 3 роки тому +23

      Wow...interesting hearing a guy thinks like that. I thought only us women think of "the one"! Be Blessed !

    • @jesusgirl574
      @jesusgirl574 3 роки тому +7

      Don’t “beat” yourself up, Mr. Zachary. You got this my brother. Hold your head up.
      Ps: If you need someone to sit in the back with you, holla at your “girl”. 😉

    • @marleeandme6527
      @marleeandme6527 3 роки тому +9

      Same! I thought only women had this thought! It’s refreshing to hear this from a mans perspective!

    • @the.victorgeorge
      @the.victorgeorge 3 роки тому +8

      I'll join you in the back as the only other guy here😂.
      I also ask myself the question sometimes..Is she the one? then I have to remind myself to stop thinking everyone is the one, but to wait for God's confirmation

    • @jesusgirl574
      @jesusgirl574 3 роки тому

      The Victor George: Your comment took me out for a split second. 😂😂😂 Feel free to join on in.

  • @maggiekabongo843
    @maggiekabongo843 3 роки тому +46

    This video literally said "For You" 😂😂

  • @cocoj2252
    @cocoj2252 3 роки тому +41

    See, this makes me not want to like anyone anymore lol I didn’t realize I was “starved for affection.” I feel a little attacked lol but in a loving way. We just love hard.

  • @TheMckinsons
    @TheMckinsons 3 роки тому +62

    Interesting!!!! I think as women we just want to be loved and don't evaluate situations enough

    • @candacedawn357
      @candacedawn357 3 роки тому +5

      Yes, especially when you've been single too long like me! 😄

    • @SweetBrownGirl
      @SweetBrownGirl 3 роки тому

      @@candacedawn357 Mannn!!

  • @NinaThomas
    @NinaThomas 3 роки тому +17

    I LOVE this advice!! It's so easy to jump the gun and think someone is the 'one' but this is ultimately so unwise.

  • @cocoj2252
    @cocoj2252 3 роки тому +24

    God knew I needed this.

  • @lisar5349
    @lisar5349 3 роки тому +5

    I had to jot this down and save this video 😬 such good reminders, thank you Ashley!
    Men don't want to be your husband
    Unrealistic expectations lead to disappointment
    Look for friends instead of a future partner
    Wait a couple of months before putting ANY expectations on someone
    Put a very large room in your ❤ for God
    The sea of men is wide and deep
    Love yourself the way you want others to love you
    RELAX!! Not everyone will be the one but ONE will 🤗

  • @amandaslay6045
    @amandaslay6045 3 роки тому +22

    I always think THIS IS NOT THE ONE. That's my issue lol

  • @jenniferthompson5146
    @jenniferthompson5146 3 роки тому +10

    Loving yourself as you want to be loved is HUGE!!! NOW is the time to accomplish your goals, take care of your body, take care of your mind, plan a vacation. Don't wait for someone else to do it for you!!! And when you meet potentials, you will love YOU so much that any subpar treatment will be un-acc-ept-able!!! And play Raining Men by Rihanna a couple times if your clock is ticking too loud. 😁

  • @itschanel4099
    @itschanel4099 3 роки тому +12

    Oh gosh! This was for me 😅 thank youuu for this

  • @drealanette4766
    @drealanette4766 3 роки тому +7

    This was such an informative video! Thanks Ashley!

  • @marleeandme6527
    @marleeandme6527 3 роки тому +3

    Yep! Every single point in this video has me written all over it!!

  • @portia1554
    @portia1554 3 роки тому

    Had to watch this twice because I know God was prompting me into thinking this way. Thank you God blesd

  • @frankschattner7640
    @frankschattner7640 3 роки тому +6

    you're so clear and you offer great advice.

  • @deborahtchester686
    @deborahtchester686 2 роки тому

    Ashley , I’m so happy I came across your account. You’re like the big sister I’ve always wanted ! Love your advice. Where can I find an updated version to the quiz?

  • @khadijahk.5322
    @khadijahk.5322 3 роки тому

    This was awesome and necessary. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @izro1436
    @izro1436 3 роки тому +6

    Wow this was what I needed right now, so well said ☺️💖

  • @girlmeetskingdom
    @girlmeetskingdom 3 роки тому +1

    It’s me🥴. I’m doing better though.

  • @philiciabernard
    @philiciabernard 3 роки тому +1

    You better preach girl! 😫❤

  • @joyceogunlade7571
    @joyceogunlade7571 3 роки тому

    I've experienced the exact opposite. I am getting this from guys. Its alot of pressure when you're just trying to get a feel for them. Mention intentions but we shouldn't be talking marriage so quickly. But as always, thanks for your encouraging message!

  • @JarataJaffaDC
    @JarataJaffaDC 3 роки тому

    I’m happy I came across this video.

  • @hajaarsmith5930
    @hajaarsmith5930 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you for sharing this.

  • @LovesJourney1
    @LovesJourney1 3 роки тому

    Hope you enjoyed your birthday weekend. I have began to look deeper than the surface of my flesh. I stopped dating for years to focus more on me due to being tired of meeting the representative. Thank you for advice to add to my self care regimen

  • @its_hopemarie
    @its_hopemarie 3 роки тому +1

    I needed this!!!

  • @rachelle_tira
    @rachelle_tira 3 роки тому +1

    Chile this was for me! 🙌🏾

  • @DHicks-ur3qd
    @DHicks-ur3qd 3 роки тому +1

    Girl!!! Thank u ☺️ This really helped me

  • @charaj5209
    @charaj5209 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much , i needed to hear everything you said on this video.

  • @MsCamilleB
    @MsCamilleB 3 роки тому

    Thank you ❤️🙌🏾

  • @beautifulnblessed86
    @beautifulnblessed86 3 роки тому +1

    This was so good! I knew this about myself but hearing you say it made it real. Thank you ❤

  • @thewealthycrown
    @thewealthycrown 3 роки тому +1

    So good Ashley!!👏🏾👏🏾

  • @loverofallthingsbeautiful2
    @loverofallthingsbeautiful2 3 роки тому

    Thanks for this new perspective.

  • @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
    @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 3 роки тому +1

    Great reminder, thanks Ashley!

  • @gracelovepeace1
    @gracelovepeace1 3 роки тому +1

    This is my struggle, thinking this out loud in my mind. Lord help me!

  • @msscorpio14
    @msscorpio14 3 роки тому +1

    This was great thanks 🙏🏽

  • @calisahardy4845
    @calisahardy4845 3 роки тому

    But, but, but...
    I received this. I _needed_ this!

  • @mariahpowell
    @mariahpowell 3 роки тому +1

    Love this 🙌🏼❤️

  • @kristianlauren
    @kristianlauren 3 роки тому +1

    You're always in my neighborhood with your videos/posts, but this time you're on my block and in front of my door lolol

  • @candacedawn357
    @candacedawn357 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks Ashley! 😊

  • @msmccalla3196
    @msmccalla3196 3 роки тому

    Thank you🥰🎯💯🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @Coolct
    @Coolct 3 роки тому +1

    I needed this

  • @MakyaKByrth
    @MakyaKByrth 3 роки тому

    This is it right here!

  • @jacquelinechatman1139
    @jacquelinechatman1139 3 роки тому

    Thank you Ashley

  • @DanielleCharmaine
    @DanielleCharmaine 3 роки тому

    I needed this. 🙌🏽

  • @jairusbryant3229
    @jairusbryant3229 3 роки тому +1

    The foolproof way to beat this is to literally not date anyone UNTIL GOD TELLS YOU WHO YOUR SPOUSE IS.
    I’ve almost come to the conclusion that dating is a waste of time, if there truly is “the one”. You can’t be with anyone unless God gives you the green light anyway.

  • @Nushka26
    @Nushka26 3 роки тому

    When trying to take the quiz, a pop up message appears which alerts that it is not safe to proceed, tried twice using different search engines on each attempt with no success.
    Nice video though, thanks for sharing.🇿🇦

  • @ebonymccalla5769
    @ebonymccalla5769 3 роки тому +2

    I wish this video came out 2 weeks ago 😔

  • @mayajones6714
    @mayajones6714 3 роки тому

    This 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @TheLalab4
    @TheLalab4 3 роки тому +1

    Am I the only one the quiz does not work for? lol

  • @organizewithpurpose
    @organizewithpurpose 3 роки тому +2

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @daniellekramer93
    @daniellekramer93 3 роки тому +2

    I’ve been talking to a good friend for the last couple months and last night we became bf/gf. He friend zoned me at first then he texted me last night and said he made a mistake.

    • @joycewatt800
      @joycewatt800 3 роки тому +4

      Tread with caution Sis. If he friend zoned you think 🤔 about it....have you two actually become really good friends and he’s starting to see you in a different light 💡 like someone he could see himself spending the rest of his life with OR using you as a “temporary place holder?” Also, make sure it’s about you and not sex.

    • @daniellekramer93
      @daniellekramer93 3 роки тому

      @@joycewatt800 it’s not about sex. We both don’t want kids. I can’t have kids actually because I have Spina Bifida. We have talked all about that.