Bride Fights Her Elders’ Traditional Dress Views! | Say Yes To The Dress: Atlanta

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  • @nancymckinley3068
    @nancymckinley3068 6 місяців тому +897

    Why do brides think everyone they know should come dress shopping? Let them be surprised at the wedding.

    • @carnationemerald
      @carnationemerald 6 місяців тому +10

      @nancymckinley3068 because they like having some family and friends with them.

    • @mirandafulton2512
      @mirandafulton2512 6 місяців тому +5

      I had my Momma, my aunt, and my two maid of honors at mine. Wouldn’t have changed that for the world. I invited my two cousins I wish they could have made it. Less opinions doesn’t mean better I wish I had hers

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 6 місяців тому +34

      @@mirandafulton2512 less opinion means, you get what you like rather than what the community likes. If you need all ppl to validate you, then good for you. The only person I would involve is mum just so she gets the feeling of being involved and have that bonding moment

    • @carnationemerald
      @carnationemerald 6 місяців тому +5

      @superstarcat7654 good for you in making your own dress. I bet it was BEAUTIFUL with the butterflies.

    • @marymcmahan5603
      @marymcmahan5603 6 місяців тому +20

      I’ve thought this often.
      Also, why does anyone else think they can choose the bride’s dress?

  • @aec9174
    @aec9174 5 місяців тому +391

    Respecting your elders is one thing but that doesn't mean THEY get to make YOUR decisions.

    • @mortimerbrewster3671
      @mortimerbrewster3671 4 місяці тому +1

      All you have to do is look at their reaction to the final dress to know that the "no bare skin" thing was a set up for the show.

    • @kareneley-ix6lu
      @kareneley-ix6lu 4 місяці тому +3

      Respectfully decline their decision 😊

    • @lorisullivan327
      @lorisullivan327 Місяць тому

      But if the matriarch is contributing any money towards it a lot of times they feel like they get a say.

    • @mikewebber2637
      @mikewebber2637 Місяць тому

      Amen.

    • @mikewebber2637
      @mikewebber2637 Місяць тому

      Then the matriarch should get married.

  • @bethaniejify
    @bethaniejify 5 місяців тому +164

    You can respect your elders without giving them control of such a big decision.

  • @toniconnor6380
    @toniconnor6380 6 місяців тому +315

    Cool it grandma, it ain't your wedding😂

    • @tinydancer7426
      @tinydancer7426 5 місяців тому +11

      Cool it future mother in law, it ain't your wedding either!

    • @culth3ad
      @culth3ad 4 місяці тому +7

      The battle of the T profile pics

    • @lorihenderson673
      @lorihenderson673 Місяць тому

      Dear mary Francis Hill.. I hope your granddaughter wears hooters

    • @darleneengebretsen1468
      @darleneengebretsen1468 9 днів тому

      Well said!

  • @samanthac.349
    @samanthac.349 6 місяців тому +526

    I’m from the South, too. What I learned from my elders is that people don’t always deserve my respect just because they’re old. #ToxicBehavior

    • @casie6609
      @casie6609 6 місяців тому +14

      100%

    • @ginaschelleman9011
      @ginaschelleman9011 6 місяців тому +7

      I couldn’t greet more!

    • @celissewillis9399
      @celissewillis9399 5 місяців тому +5

      totally agree!

    • @carnationemerald
      @carnationemerald 5 місяців тому +16

      @samanthac349 RESPECT is earned. Just because someone is older doesn't mean they earned the RESPECT!!

    • @HeiwaTori
      @HeiwaTori 5 місяців тому

      I like to say "i don't owe you respect because your parents had sex before mine"

  • @helenhilton2158
    @helenhilton2158 6 місяців тому +175

    "If it's up to me..." Well, it's NOT!

    • @amberneco2697
      @amberneco2697 3 місяці тому +1

      Literally what I said 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

    • @dobby27uk
      @dobby27uk 2 місяці тому +1

      i got as far as that and came straight to the comments.

    • @JiffyCakesGee
      @JiffyCakesGee Місяць тому

      I would have clapped back “well good thing it isn’t your wedding”.

  • @siobhanoconnell9444
    @siobhanoconnell9444 5 місяців тому +213

    I despise the whole "children should be seen and not heard" thing. Hate it

    • @beckyshell4649
      @beckyshell4649 3 місяці тому +19

      I think there is a needed balance between not being heard and letting kids be the boss. Some parents error on both sides of the spectrum.

    • @EstherHulst-Artist
      @EstherHulst-Artist Місяць тому +6

      If I hear someone say that I instantly dispise them.

    • @LindaSirmeyer
      @LindaSirmeyer Місяць тому +2

      You haven’t met my grandchildren!!!!!!

    • @pedaugherty2393
      @pedaugherty2393 Місяць тому

      @@EstherHulst-Artist can you instantly attempt to spell despise correctly?

    • @nicolataylor6011
      @nicolataylor6011 Місяць тому +2

      It's disgusting..we should not shut down someone's voice and expect a healthy adult..

  • @brmam1385
    @brmam1385 5 місяців тому +68

    Just because they’re a “Southern Grandma” you get to be rude & ridiculous?!?

  • @zhmw
    @zhmw 6 місяців тому +165

    Why bring the grandma and future mother-in-law when she doesn't want an old fashioned wedding dress?

    • @sallykins3800
      @sallykins3800 6 місяців тому +11

      Maybe you don’t live in an extended family household or environment and have been brought up in the same way . Many cultures respect the elders far more than you think. I don’t find it unusual as I lived in an extended family household where my grandmother lived with me until she died. She was my best friend, her opinion was extremely important. Shame you haven’t had this .

    • @AnniCarlsson
      @AnniCarlsson 6 місяців тому +2

      Depends on who those are on the other hand. But a 21 year old that are so insure of herself like this one. If she had more confidence she had not had them with her. Or gotten married yet

    • @janetkorsak
      @janetkorsak 5 місяців тому +2

      I was 20 years old, paid for my own dress, but I valued my Mom’s opinion. She knew what I envisioned and supported my choice.

  • @jabowi2528
    @jabowi2528 5 місяців тому +54

    I only took my mom. Everything I tried she said "oh you look lovely!" For the other fitting appointment I went on my own. The assistants were lovely to me. The other bride in the shop was horrible and cut me dead when I tried to be pleasant. So the shop assistants were even nicer. Positive experience 😊

  • @mariesmith1616
    @mariesmith1616 6 місяців тому +188

    MIL looks way older than grandma!!!!

    • @diannebernau3293
      @diannebernau3293 6 місяців тому +15

      I thought so, too.

    • @MsWarriordiva
      @MsWarriordiva 6 місяців тому +11

      Yea! How old is the groom??!!

    • @AnniCarlsson
      @AnniCarlsson 6 місяців тому +1

      Me 45 and my grandma today look just little older then her with tops 10 years

    • @deedranicolehooks
      @deedranicolehooks 6 місяців тому +18

      She might be older! Maybe she had her kids later in life, and grandma had hers earlier. :)

    • @marykuettner752
      @marykuettner752 5 місяців тому +8

      Miss Francis and Grandma should have been left at home.

  • @janetrouse5917
    @janetrouse5917 5 місяців тому +58

    The mother in law to be should keep her mouth shut unless she is going to pay for the dress.

    • @Kayenne54
      @Kayenne54 5 місяців тому +5

      Even then....

    • @kareneley-ix6lu
      @kareneley-ix6lu 4 місяці тому +3

      Even then!

    • @OceanFrontVilla3
      @OceanFrontVilla3 3 місяці тому +7

      A gift shouldn't come with strings

    • @BonnieSchneider-ue4bp
      @BonnieSchneider-ue4bp 3 місяці тому

      If she wants grand babies she needs to show some skin

    • @CuppaGrief
      @CuppaGrief 21 день тому +1

      Even if they pay they need to shut it down. It's a gift. Not a moral obligation to follow.

  • @greytmom2008
    @greytmom2008 6 місяців тому +90

    Oh come on. I’m from the South and I would never have let my grandmother dictate what I wore.

    • @sallykins3800
      @sallykins3800 6 місяців тому +4

      They didn’t, they gave their opinion the bride chose.

  • @Pagandream55
    @Pagandream55 4 місяці тому +63

    The bride doesn’t want to disappoint her Gran but Gran is happy to hurt her grandchild 😢

  • @RockyMtnRebecca
    @RockyMtnRebecca 6 місяців тому +56

    That last dress was so cool - very Jackie O, 50s chic... love it.

  • @TG-fq6vy
    @TG-fq6vy 6 місяців тому +164

    The future mother-in-law is wearing that pink T-shirt pretty low. She is showing a lot of neck😂

    • @stephanieyee9784
      @stephanieyee9784 6 місяців тому +4

      Exactly.

    • @lynelljones2375
      @lynelljones2375 6 місяців тому +7

      Oh my GOD! I was thinking the same thing!🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏿

    • @faithchukwuka5436
      @faithchukwuka5436 5 місяців тому +7

      I wouldn't marry her son, I'm not dealing with no one's messy momma

    • @justvibin7883
      @justvibin7883 Місяць тому

      I think she’s adorable

  • @mariesmith1616
    @mariesmith1616 6 місяців тому +76

    The last bride dress was classy and stunning. Not all wedding dresses have to be strapless to be beautiful.

    • @robynmurray7421
      @robynmurray7421 5 місяців тому +5

      On the contrary, most beautiful dresses are not strapless. Strapless dresses are a con by manufacturers, cheap to make because they are one-size-fits all thanks to the corset back, easier to alter and use less fabric.

    • @Donnaleslie
      @Donnaleslie 5 місяців тому +5

      Yes, I know I'm older (got married in 1980 when all wedding gowns had sleeves) but I don't care for the strapless gowns that have been popular for the past couple decades. I'd be afraid of a wardrobe malfunction.

    • @evelyn_r
      @evelyn_r 4 місяці тому +4

      I loved that dress, it was simple elegance that let her shine. I don’t like strapless, never have, I would be worried of exposing myself accidentally and wouldn’t be able to dance or enjoy my own wedding in that case. I love the amount of tones of mesh these days, where you can give the illusion of showing bare skin but it just helps keep everything where it should ❤

  • @Dumbashamedloser
    @Dumbashamedloser 6 місяців тому +220

    Maybe don’t bring granny dress shopping 😂

    • @chrisd755
      @chrisd755 3 місяці тому +1

      Seems obvious to me too.

  • @Blablablsblmbli
    @Blablablsblmbli 6 місяців тому +64

    4:50 IT IS NOT YOUR WEDDING

    • @hollymerchant9550
      @hollymerchant9550 6 місяців тому +3

      I had the same attitude... I wish I had considered other's ideas for my wedding... It would have helped long term relationships!

    • @Blablablsblmbli
      @Blablablsblmbli 6 місяців тому +4

      @@hollymerchant9550 Yeah you may think like that afterwards but still it was your day and YOU should be happy and opinions can be taken as ideas but can't be forced

    • @hollymerchant9550
      @hollymerchant9550 6 місяців тому

      @@Blablablsblmbli Consider the relationships you will have after the wedding... Best advice ever! 😉

    • @MelissaThompson432
      @MelissaThompson432 29 днів тому +1

      "I don't want my granddaughter to be happy."
      Is a relationship with that person really worth that much?

  • @rachelkoch109
    @rachelkoch109 3 місяці тому +27

    Notice how she describes her fiancé. She’s essentially saying, ‘We don’t have many common interests, but we don’t dislike each other at least.’

    • @alarahillton1343
      @alarahillton1343 15 днів тому

      Most couples don’t have common interests. Opposites often attract. You don’t pick who you fall in love with.
      You learn from each other along life’s path.

  • @livyh5618
    @livyh5618 6 місяців тому +86

    And with that Welcome back ladies and gentlemen to the show “This Isn’t Your Wedding!”

  • @woesmevrou5673
    @woesmevrou5673 5 місяців тому +25

    Skipper’s dress and hairstyle are really classy. Classic.

  • @Alinasinging
    @Alinasinging 6 місяців тому +30

    While watching this show for so many years I’ve realized two things that are very useful that I’m wedding dress shopping myself now:
    1. I’m going just with my mom. My mom is the best advisor and can provide constructive feedback
    2. I’m not trying on dresses over my budget. $100-200 fine- but thousands? Hell no

    • @samanthac.349
      @samanthac.349 5 місяців тому

      I’m totally supportive of #1 as long as you are comfortable with your mom. It’s good to know you trust each like that.
      The second thing… it’s hard to find a nice bridal gown for less than $200. I’m not going to lie to you. Although, I eloped and wore a white cotton cocktail dress with blue floral embroidery that I happened to buy years earlier at a retail store. I think I spent $45 on it, so who am I to talk?… But, it doesn’t really resemble a wedding dress. I have also helped a friend on a super tight budget (example: she had a potluck reception bc she couldn’t afford a caterer) look for a wedding gown only at thrift stores, and the one she ultimately chose was the “winner” because it was the only one that fit her after searching 4 stores. Even she said there was too much beading for her style. And, some websites like Temu are total ripoffs. I’m saying this so you’ll have the idea in your head now that you might want to start putting aside some money.

    • @Alinasinging
      @Alinasinging 5 місяців тому

      @@samanthac.349 my budget for the dress for $4k. I ended up spending $1.8k on Justin Alexander dress. I said yes to my dress on Friday :)

    • @KickedMangoStudios
      @KickedMangoStudios 5 місяців тому

      Honey, I am picking up what you’re putting down!

    • @JodiLeaSnakeQueen
      @JodiLeaSnakeQueen 5 місяців тому +4

      ​@samanthac.349 she meant 100-200 over budget, not that's all she is willing to pay. And I found both my dresses for under 200. One was even all lace.

    • @Alinasinging
      @Alinasinging 5 місяців тому +1

      @@JodiLeaSnakeQueen Yes, that’s what I meant :)

  • @aliceinwonderland.2080
    @aliceinwonderland.2080 6 місяців тому +88

    I’ve brought my cousin…, my other cousin…., my second cousin…., my 4 sisters, my mother, my father, my grandmother, my mother-in-law, my dog, my cat, my budgie, my best friend , my soriety sisters …and Uncle Tom Cobley and all !!! 🤣🤣🤣😩😩

    • @MauiBodyworker
      @MauiBodyworker 5 місяців тому +3

      😂😂😂

    • @thewitchsfamiliar
      @thewitchsfamiliar 5 місяців тому +3

      I'm not going to lie, you cracked me up 😂😂 "My budgie" did it for me - and now part of me wants someone to do that 😂😂😂

    • @redlupo6193
      @redlupo6193 4 місяці тому +5

      Not too trusting about a dog's taste in wedding finery -- but if the *CAT* likes it you've probably got a winner right there.

    • @jennaross6654
      @jennaross6654 4 місяці тому

      😂 love it.

    • @BEVERLYRANDOLPH-lx4qu
      @BEVERLYRANDOLPH-lx4qu 3 місяці тому +1

      Seriously. WTH are they thinking???

  • @KM-nw7be
    @KM-nw7be 6 місяців тому +23

    The 2nd bride dress was so elegant. I think the 1st bride's elders would have loved it!

  • @r-e_mii
    @r-e_mii 6 місяців тому +62

    The family is adorable & so supportive for coming with her however it's not 1950.

    • @sallykins3800
      @sallykins3800 6 місяців тому +2

      Nothing wrong with being respectful, consider trying it . Being modest around your family and guests is classy.

  • @FlowerGemsGirl
    @FlowerGemsGirl 5 місяців тому +7

    Brides- LEAVE THE GRANNY’S AT HOME!!! And most of the opinionated family members too. Make it less stressful on yourself!

  • @lori_bain
    @lori_bain 6 місяців тому +23

    Future MIL was clutching her pearls a little too much. 😊

  • @Mop222
    @Mop222 6 місяців тому +15

    Why would anybody take their future in-laws dress shopping unless if they were paying for the dress?

    • @kchwilka5428
      @kchwilka5428 Місяць тому

      I was privileged to go dress shopping with my future daughter in law. Daughter 1 probably won't marry and daughter 2 lives a few states away. It just really depends on the dynamic of the families.

    • @elenajewel3
      @elenajewel3 2 дні тому

      I will take my future MIL just because I want her to feel included, I know that will make her happy. But she’s also very kind and was so lovely to me from the moment we met.
      I am probably the most stubborn and opinionated person in my family (and my family knows it lol) so I think they know I have them there for the moment and not really for the advice. Especially because I have told my family I’ll be paying for my wedding myself specifically so they DONT get a say ever since I was little!😂

  • @rebeccabamford5505
    @rebeccabamford5505 3 місяці тому +2

    I agree. I picked out my own wedding dress. On my own. A friend of mine worked in a bridal store and she kept urging me to come in to see this dress she thought was perfect for me. I finally went in. It was the first dress I tried on and fit like it was made for me. Except for hemming it, that’s all the alterations I needed. I still would pick that dress today.

  • @GGG-f1b2f
    @GGG-f1b2f 5 місяців тому +9

    Laura looked beautiful, very strong character, takes after her grandma. her teary eyed cousins are darling, they love her! Skipper chose such a pretty dress - when talking about her fiancé, she glowed, and saying, 'he didn't stand a chance"- so cute! her parents are two of the sweetest, her dad cried, her mom is an angel. She is a very lucky young woman. Congratulations!

  • @tammypauls1077
    @tammypauls1077 6 місяців тому +15

    Why do they let them pick a dress?. Tell them to sit down, the bride will be out shortly. Better yet, leave them to home.

  • @cc-sb1is
    @cc-sb1is 6 місяців тому +24

    I LOVE Skipper's dress!!! SO CLASSY AND BEAUTIFUL

  • @cherylholub3100
    @cherylholub3100 6 місяців тому +25

    Don't think she had to say she was old fashioned. That goes with out saying.

  • @Suzu777
    @Suzu777 6 місяців тому +19

    Skipper's dress is gorgeous.

  • @sharonv4633
    @sharonv4633 6 місяців тому +13

    Don't bring your mother -in-law and grandma!!!

  • @kitty62862
    @kitty62862 6 місяців тому +12

    Respecting one’s elders is one thing, but that doesn’t mean they run your life.
    Respect is often confused with obedience.
    Obedience is for dogs and toddlers.

    • @Kayenne54
      @Kayenne54 5 місяців тому

      Respecting someone's input is fine, following their advice is more problematical. It's not as if Young Lady is asking "Should I go live with him first, see if he measures up?" which would cause pearl clutching in earnest. Though, in my humble opinion, that is what women should do, provided they protect their own interests whilst doing so. Can't really know someone until you live with them, and it works both ways too.

  • @chitown1098
    @chitown1098 3 місяці тому +2

    Future mother-in-law and grandma both need to be told it is NOT their wedding! Respecting elders is fine yet the elders must also respect the younger generation.

  • @djadi5333
    @djadi5333 Місяць тому +2

    we get along really well ... she said ... and that enough for you to get married after 2 years dating ?? i will never understand ...

  • @Helloworld2-z7x
    @Helloworld2-z7x 5 місяців тому +10

    Both the old people were unbearable

  • @MLMLW
    @MLMLW 5 місяців тому +10

    If my grandmother and MIL had wanted to come along when I went wedding gown shopping that would have been fine but honestly I wouldn't have cared what they thought. I respect my elders because I'm also from the South but when it comes to my wedding gown it's going to be my choice. Not what my granny would have wanted.

  • @cindydeveau2473
    @cindydeveau2473 5 місяців тому +8

    Omg. It's what the BRIDE'S wants. When will people learn.

  • @elizabethedwards7082
    @elizabethedwards7082 6 місяців тому +95

    The old ladies arent getting married. Their day is gone.

    • @ginaandseason2774
      @ginaandseason2774 6 місяців тому +2

      Exactly..why do they think a bride should wear what they like? A wedding is personal and the start of a new family. Back off and let the bride decide

    • @judyives1832
      @judyives1832 5 місяців тому +2

      Their “day is not gone”! It’s just changed. Their focus shouldn’t be on what the bride is wearing. Their focus should be on how they can help and support their grand daughter. It’s our privilege as old and life experienced women, to find ways to add our strength to our offspring. We have the confidence to stand up for the young ones. And be their buffer from the criticisms and challenges they will face.

  • @kirstenpeterson8093
    @kirstenpeterson8093 6 місяців тому +14

    Children do get to be seen and heard!!!!!!!!

  • @Gancanna
    @Gancanna 5 місяців тому +5

    The older ladies with the first bride should have taken a moment to reflect on their own weddings and whether or not their own dresses were what they liked or what their elders liked. Behavior like that can lead to elopements.

  • @donnabradley9926
    @donnabradley9926 5 місяців тому +5

    Leave grandmothers at home and as for opinionated mother-in-laws who are pushing their views on what the bride should wear, don't get me started.

  • @mravina1614
    @mravina1614 6 місяців тому +9

    "I'm kinda old fashioned..." Alright so YOU don't wear it. Let her wear what she likes.

  • @fionna_cool_girl
    @fionna_cool_girl 5 місяців тому +15

    "children should be seen, not heard" clearly her mom didn't tell her that enough

  • @pennylehrer1306
    @pennylehrer1306 6 місяців тому +19

    Why bring people that absolutely have a totally different vision from you?

  • @mariesmith1616
    @mariesmith1616 6 місяців тому +13

    Why will the store keep a “prehistoric” dress? Non sense from Monty.

    • @inomu9129
      @inomu9129 6 місяців тому +1

      Sarcasm my dear

    • @superstarcat7654
      @superstarcat7654 6 місяців тому +8

      Sometimes the seniors get married again while they are in the nursing home.

    • @mariesmith1616
      @mariesmith1616 6 місяців тому

      @@superstarcat7654 😂😂😂

    • @vbetta8979
      @vbetta8979 6 місяців тому +2

      Must be for just this occassion. 😅

    • @AlisonLeMay
      @AlisonLeMay Місяць тому

      Some brides do want full sleeves for religious or cultural reasons, or maybe their weddings are in winter when a strapless dress would mean they’re freezing their butts off.

  • @suzannesenser607
    @suzannesenser607 6 місяців тому +17

    Demure, classy, and a name like Skipper. Great combo!

  • @rosehavenfarm2969
    @rosehavenfarm2969 5 місяців тому +5

    SKipper's dress was perfect for her. Lovely.

  • @ShadowVamppyre
    @ShadowVamppyre 6 місяців тому +17

    While I absolutely agree that the first dress with sleeves was not her dress, I have to say that I found it gorgeous. Now if only it came in black and dark purple. ❤

    • @callystu6893
      @callystu6893 6 місяців тому +3

      Agreed!! I absolutely love that dress, and in a dark color…. STUNNING!

  • @sandisteinberg731
    @sandisteinberg731 6 місяців тому +8

    Glad the MIL came around. She was obnoxious! Someone forgot to tell her she wasn't the bride. 😅😅

  • @hillybillysister1014
    @hillybillysister1014 Місяць тому +1

    I just can’t get over the fact that the second bride’s name is Skipper.

  • @marthavillanueva5505
    @marthavillanueva5505 5 місяців тому +5

    WHY, WHY, WHY would you bring ur future MIL dress shoping. This is a mother and daughter outing.

  • @Gfp49
    @Gfp49 6 місяців тому +3

    My grandmother is nowhere like this, but she does sometimes say what she thinks no matter what, so I opted to not go shopping with her. She will be at a fitting though (after the dress has been bought)

  • @betsysanders4524
    @betsysanders4524 3 місяці тому +1

    Grandma said “treat everyone the way you want to be treated” then she gave absolutely no respect for the bride’s first choice!

  • @jo-annbastings
    @jo-annbastings Місяць тому +1

    Regardless of what some elder might think, respect is deserved it’s not earned.

  • @ChristineInNornia
    @ChristineInNornia 6 місяців тому +5

    Future Mum-in-Law should leave the damn Bears alone🐻😅

  • @stellapacker9182
    @stellapacker9182 5 місяців тому +7

    I'm born and raised up North and we are also raised to respect our elders!

  • @brmam1385
    @brmam1385 5 місяців тому +11

    Honest to God, WHY hasn’t ANYONE in these two families ever confronted their ancient ideologues before?

  • @angelaphipps6463
    @angelaphipps6463 Місяць тому +1

    Thus is about. THE BRIDE & No One Else ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mademsoisellerhapsody
    @mademsoisellerhapsody Місяць тому +1

    What a beautiful bride 💐

  • @erinjaynes
    @erinjaynes 5 місяців тому +1

    I LOVE Skipper’s dress! The ultimate in classy!!

  • @diannechristino
    @diannechristino 6 місяців тому +24

    Dang! MIL looks like great grandma... maybe she had 10 kids. LOL!

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 6 місяців тому +7

      Or maybe she's just old. Nothing wrong with ageing, you sound like 12

    • @ctee1117
      @ctee1117 6 місяців тому +5

      Its her hairdo

    • @eeriecraft1797
      @eeriecraft1797 6 місяців тому +1

      @@jemmaj2919 It's because her MIL looks as old as her grand mother instead of her mother.

  • @korokshiding
    @korokshiding Місяць тому +1

    I didn't take my future mother in law dress shopping. She's 80 (whereas my mum is 56)...so I didn't want any of her "opinions" to affect my choice! I respect her opinion on lots of things, but not my wedding dress 😂

  • @devangel3614
    @devangel3614 6 місяців тому +10

    Future MIL looked formidable

  • @Midlife_Manical_Mayhem
    @Midlife_Manical_Mayhem 6 місяців тому +6

    skipper and clancy (second couple) did not stay married. he's remarried. all i could find on her is she works high up for coca cola and has a son.

    • @Kayenne54
      @Kayenne54 5 місяців тому +1

      It's called "he has a wandering eye"...I can almost tell from their photos together. That would be an interesting experiment, actually. Marital longevity predictions based on couple's photos only.

  • @RockyMtnRebecca
    @RockyMtnRebecca 6 місяців тому +5

    Oh good Lord, these women..... Go back to that 'little house on the prairie' Grandma.....

  • @shannonfreshour7581
    @shannonfreshour7581 6 місяців тому +3

    Why is the grandma younger than the future mother in law......yikes. You have a fight on ur hands chick.

  • @casacan77
    @casacan77 Місяць тому

    Makes me thankful for the grandmothers I have, I wish my maternal grandma was still around for if I ever get married because we have the exact same taste and I wish she could be there. Either one of my grandmas would tell me 100% to get what I love not what anyone else wants

  • @RevLeigh55
    @RevLeigh55 3 місяці тому +1

    That groom looks noticeably older than the bride. The elderly mother in law bears out that conclusion.

  • @DCFunBud
    @DCFunBud 4 місяці тому +1

    The gown at 0:21 is stunning.

  • @sandrakirk4781
    @sandrakirk4781 5 місяців тому +2

    There’s one thing about respecting your elders, but there’s also another thing standing up for yourself and being bald. Your grandmother is from the old school and if she really loves you, she would want what’s best for you not for her. My daughter is getting married next year and I am going to be with her to pick out her wedding dress and I want her to pick out what she wants and not what I want. That’s really what’s all aboutto be looking for your love and your support not your negativity

  • @tracymay6702
    @tracymay6702 21 годину тому

    My mother in law had absolutely no day in my wedding dress, none whatsoever. Because we are such different people there is no point even trying

  • @puddysue
    @puddysue 3 місяці тому +1

    Mother-in-law, you don't "need" anything... not your dress, not your wedding. Same with grandma... treat other people as you would want to be treated? Why don't you do that then?

  • @mariacherrington61920
    @mariacherrington61920 6 місяців тому +3

    I live in the Midwest n was raised to respect my elders but even my grandma had modern taste

  • @cherylmccue956
    @cherylmccue956 4 місяці тому +2

    I went by myself to pick out my dress.

  • @bonniegarber9915
    @bonniegarber9915 5 місяців тому +3

    Skippers dress would look fantastic in a tea length!!! Love it!!

  • @victoriasperrey
    @victoriasperrey Місяць тому +1

    The MIL reminds me of SNL church lady lol

  • @haplessasshole9615
    @haplessasshole9615 6 місяців тому +6

    I'm seeing all these comments about not taking grannies shopping for bridal gowns, and I feel so sad. I would have loved to have had my grandmother go shopping with me. She was very fashion-oriented, and was willing to change her views with the times. As it was, she loved my choice, and I was so glad she was at my wedding. I miss her terribly, every single day.

  • @ls-kk4pq
    @ls-kk4pq 3 місяці тому +1

    I agree with the One commenter about taking people with you to buy that dress. It takes a village, but not necessarily to buy a dress.

  • @mrbear1302
    @mrbear1302 6 місяців тому +4

    I hate hypocrites. Mother-in-law Mary is showing her neck!!!!!!!!!!

  • @vickieleggett386
    @vickieleggett386 Місяць тому +1

    The whole premise of this is ridiculous. It is 2024 y’all!! The bride can speak for herself.🙄

  • @muttlee1213
    @muttlee1213 5 місяців тому +2

    "Children should be seen and not heard"? Grandma needs to find a quiet place to sit alone and knit and keep her antiquated/mean-spirited opinions to herself! And if she can't find something nice to say, especially when she sees the joy on her beloved granddaughters face, she needs to go home....

  • @amberm9853
    @amberm9853 15 днів тому

    I'm from the South and would never let an elder's opinion dictate what i wear. 😂😂😂

  • @GGG-sd9ei
    @GGG-sd9ei 3 місяці тому +1

    The bride should get to pick her own dress!!!!

  • @katemcalear8591
    @katemcalear8591 5 місяців тому +1

    Why do these in laws and grandparents think they should have a say in her dress??? It’s not their wedding - it’s the brides! I would never interfere in my any of my daughter’s choices!! If you can’t say anything nice keep your mouth shut!!!xx

  • @rustamanda
    @rustamanda 6 місяців тому +4

    Mother in Law doesn't realise the " BEAR SKIN cover " will be Off later. Lol. Just saying

  • @cc-sb1is
    @cc-sb1is 6 місяців тому +3

    Skipper sounds more "country" than Clancy..hahaha (as far as her accent)

  • @NH-tb2sm
    @NH-tb2sm 27 днів тому +1

    Is the bride's future husband 70 years old? The mother-in-law looks like she's 95 years old.

  • @kimberlyheibel8759
    @kimberlyheibel8759 6 місяців тому +3

    Its not the anterages wedding dress. Its the brides. She needs to make her decision on what she wants.

    • @BBlair-if8tj
      @BBlair-if8tj 6 місяців тому +2

      Entourage?

    • @AndreaW
      @AndreaW 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@BBlair-if8tj- thank you, I was so confused.

  • @karenstafford724
    @karenstafford724 4 місяці тому

    When i went shopping for my wedding dress,both my Mum and my grandmother let me choose what ever dress i liked and felt comfortable in.

  • @pattyneff4624
    @pattyneff4624 3 дні тому

    I think a veil makes a beautiful difference!😁

  • @lobegirl8074
    @lobegirl8074 6 місяців тому +6

    I love seeing people in love

  • @pattyneff4624
    @pattyneff4624 3 дні тому

    Love Clancy and Skipper!!

  • @puddysue
    @puddysue 3 місяці тому +1

    To heck with what these caustic women are saying... not their dress, not their wedding.

  • @kcoffman3210
    @kcoffman3210 4 місяці тому +1

    The dress with the long sleeves was gorgeous. Maybe not many people’s style, but it’s not prehistoric at all!

    • @maryinsky
      @maryinsky 4 місяці тому

      Vintage is a better word-very like Princess Grace’s, check out the similarity. It’s from a time when more skin was covered, still true of some royal or vintage brides. Strapless is or was trendy, but she was a very young bride and each bride gets to decide on style, not grandma, for sure.

  • @naomidoss1837
    @naomidoss1837 6 місяців тому +3

    Why would you wear a bear skin to the beach? 😂