Being a gentle parent, a stay at home mother, who doesn’t give screen time to children is sooooo tough. And watching your videos feels like I have an elder sister who is giving me tips to stay strong. Thanks you soooooo much jazakillah sister. I love your videos.
@@user-ne3pl6po1f selam alejkum. Stay on topic or leave the comment section alone. It is not your job to educate her or advice her on these matters. She came here for support and advice on the topic of motherhood, not for a fikh lecture or advice. You may not know, but these types of comments can make a person retract and not interact or seek knowledge. Even if your comment had good intentions, you are not the person and this is not the place to do so. Stick to the topic please, thank you.
@@aishajalilansari trust me sister not giving any screen make them calmer than if you would've given them screen times. I have 4 kids alhumdulillah and I have experimented it all
A patient mother is one who is calm and understanding. Who can hug and smile at their child after they have been helped through tough emotions. Keeping their cool when something bad happens. Definitely no shouting. I'm unfortunately the opposite of what I think is a patient mother and I'm suffering with my kids every day when i need to be grateful for every blessing we have
I do have unrealistic expectations of my older kids because i always see them as BIG compared to the younger kids. So i need to remind myself not to expect my kids to do things they can't do I need to also remember how to communicate well with them
Assalamaleykoum thank you for jour precious content. Could you make a vidéo about the loss of Iman during pregnancy ??? I feel really guilty and getting far from Allah but i have no energy or motivation
My work here on UA-cam is free - and I will continue to post here regularly insha'Allah. The community membership will be fee based because it will be more interactive and require more of my presence and allow sisters to get personalized help and advice insha'Allah.
Homeschooling is making me crazy. I'm screaming hitting they don't listen to me. It's just mess.. I wanna run away somewhere. They wanna learn nothing. They disrespect me.. I don't know how to calm down or b patient.. Will see this video now. Hope it helps me
Assalamu alaikum dearest sister, may Allah make it easy for you. Did you think about seeking help from a family member or getting a tutor? Perhaps the children have ADHD or some developmental issues, please take it easy on yourself, we are supposed to love and nurture our children not school them. They will pick up our good habit and bad by watching us, so we have to be careful around them.
@jdkhan5620 yes u r right my son have adhd. How did u even gues it subhanallah.. I get tutors he doesnt listen to any one. All run away or I pull him off. He can't go and mingle with others as they don't understand his unclear speech and puts him in anxiety and he cries and creates lot of issues
@@hijabitrendz7551 subhanAllah! Sister may Allah make it easy for you ameen, it's not easy to care for a child with ADHD, I have 4 children 1 of them have autism and ADHD and the rest without so I know exactly how it feels to raise a child with special needs, and the difference and ease of raising a child without special needs.
Walykum Assalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu. Sister Masha Allah good work. May Allzh reward you ameen. I want to send you the gift online. How can I contact you?
I don't currently offer individual coaching and I am not available for individual questions due to my busy schedule. There will be a virtual community starting in January - consider joining us insha'Allah and I'll be more available there to answer any questions. ✨ Doors open in January 2025! 🌟 Download your FREE Self-Care Starter PDF and take the first step on your journey today! 👉 Click here to join the waitlist and grab your freebie! simplicitywithselma.myflodesk.com Alternatively you can ask a general question here in the comments and I'll adress it in one of the future videos insha'Allah if it's a topic that would be of interest to others.
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Being a gentle parent, a stay at home mother, who doesn’t give screen time to children is sooooo tough. And watching your videos feels like I have an elder sister who is giving me tips to stay strong. Thanks you soooooo much jazakillah sister. I love your videos.
Totally agree my sister
Sister avoid using such profile pictures barak allah feek💗
@@user-ne3pl6po1f selam alejkum. Stay on topic or leave the comment section alone. It is not your job to educate her or advice her on these matters. She came here for support and advice on the topic of motherhood, not for a fikh lecture or advice. You may not know, but these types of comments can make a person retract and not interact or seek knowledge. Even if your comment had good intentions, you are not the person and this is not the place to do so. Stick to the topic please, thank you.
@@aishajalilansari trust me sister not giving any screen make them calmer than if you would've given them screen times. I have 4 kids alhumdulillah and I have experimented it all
Mashallah, you share wonderful insights! Jazakallah khair. Sister
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This came just when I needed it most. I cannot wait to hear it. Jazakallah kheiran
What is your take away on the video ? Please share
jazakAllahu khairan wa barakAllahu fiik
A patient mother is one who is calm and understanding. Who can hug and smile at their child after they have been helped through tough emotions. Keeping their cool when something bad happens. Definitely no shouting.
I'm unfortunately the opposite of what I think is a patient mother and I'm suffering with my kids every day when i need to be grateful for every blessing we have
I do have unrealistic expectations of my older kids because i always see them as BIG compared to the younger kids. So i need to remind myself not to expect my kids to do things they can't do
I need to also remember how to communicate well with them
Liked and subscribed Allah bless you and all the watchers. Very impressed with your content MaashaAllah
MaashaAllah we must think good things about our kids. Allah protect all of kids!!
Also sister, please maybe you could improve your video with some writing when you say your main points . Just an idea
@@okinoboo4743Aaameen
Looking forward to being in the community, alhamdulilah
Oh my goodness. I ASKED this question, and im soooo grateful you answered this. JazakaAllah khair kaseeran. this was such a beneficial video.
Glad it was helpful! ❤️
This is so beneficial. Jazaakillaahu khair ukhti
Please don’t ever delete your Chanel we need you I am so grateful my friend send me your channel keep doing what you doing it is very needed ❤️
Jazakum Allah khairan
Towards the end Felt as if u are speaking my heart out... jazakallah this video made me feel more human and courage to do even better
JazakAllah kheiran. I am working towards being a patient mother and absolutely agree with everything you said. You have a soothing therapeutic voice ❤
MashaaAllah tabarakallahu dear uktee ❤️😍..I am always looking for forward to watching your videos...
May Allah increase you in istijabah ❤❤
mee too❤ she's a rare gem!
Sister thanks for this video
I am so glad I found you …. Especially so when I know you are in the same country as me ❤
Assalamualaikum
Jazakallah very insightful reminder...can resonate with it so well 😊
Sister avoid using pictures of women in your profile barak allah feek 💗
Assalamaleykoum thank you for jour precious content. Could you make a vidéo about the loss of Iman during pregnancy ??? I feel really guilty and getting far from Allah but i have no energy or motivation
Stay tuned! I'll address this in one of the next videos insha'Allah.
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Is the community free?
My work here on UA-cam is free - and I will continue to post here regularly insha'Allah. The community membership will be fee based because it will be more interactive and require more of my presence and allow sisters to get personalized help and advice insha'Allah.
Homeschooling is making me crazy. I'm screaming hitting they don't listen to me. It's just mess.. I wanna run away somewhere. They wanna learn nothing. They disrespect me.. I don't know how to calm down or b patient.. Will see this video now. Hope it helps me
Assalamu alaikum dearest sister, may Allah make it easy for you. Did you think about seeking help from a family member or getting a tutor? Perhaps the children have ADHD or some developmental issues, please take it easy on yourself, we are supposed to love and nurture our children not school them. They will pick up our good habit and bad by watching us, so we have to be careful around them.
@jdkhan5620 yes u r right my son have adhd. How did u even gues it subhanallah.. I get tutors he doesnt listen to any one. All run away or I pull him off. He can't go and mingle with others as they don't understand his unclear speech and puts him in anxiety and he cries and creates lot of issues
@jdkhan5620 I live alone hence no help from any one. Whenever husbands gets time he trys to help
@@hijabitrendz7551 subhanAllah! Sister may Allah make it easy for you ameen, it's not easy to care for a child with ADHD, I have 4 children 1 of them have autism and ADHD and the rest without so I know exactly how it feels to raise a child with special needs, and the difference and ease of raising a child without special needs.
@@hijabitrendz7551 may Allah(SWT) aid you and give you ease ameen
M.a
Walykum Assalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu. Sister Masha Allah good work. May Allzh reward you ameen. I want to send you the gift online. How can I contact you?
I am not available for individual questions or contacts at this time due to my busy schedule. I appreciate your offer, may Allah reward you.
@@HifdhWithKids ok dear sister. Best of luck for your work.
Sister I will like to contact you
If is possible
I don't currently offer individual coaching and I am not available for individual questions due to my busy schedule. There will be a virtual community starting in January - consider joining us insha'Allah and I'll be more available there to answer any questions.
✨ Doors open in January 2025!
🌟 Download your FREE Self-Care Starter PDF and take the first step on your journey today!
👉 Click here to join the waitlist and grab your freebie!
simplicitywithselma.myflodesk.com
Alternatively you can ask a general question here in the comments and I'll adress it in one of the future videos insha'Allah if it's a topic that would be of interest to others.