Dysfunction to Dynasty - Ch. 2 Kay Robertson: WORTH FIGHTING FOR?

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  • @amyr.3103
    @amyr.3103 3 роки тому +204

    The boldness of Miss Kay! “What’s more important than one lost soul?” What a LEGACY of faith!

  • @micahmcadams4731
    @micahmcadams4731 3 роки тому +201

    I literally had a conversation with God this morning. I asked him if my marriage is still worth fighting for. I am tired and I wasn't sure if I could keep going. Somebody at work sent me this series of videos to watch. It was God answering my prayer.

    • @JL-xn3zy
      @JL-xn3zy 3 роки тому +5

      Ephesians 3:20

    • @johncook8720
      @johncook8720 3 роки тому +10

      I didnt even know these videos even existed till a short time ago. Hits home big time....very timely..The Lord at work!

    • @micahjhoffman8329
      @micahjhoffman8329 3 роки тому +1

      Micah to a Micah, what’s the problem?

    • @onThisJourney
      @onThisJourney 3 роки тому +1

      🙏❤🙏

    • @jessicapainter6149
      @jessicapainter6149 3 роки тому +5

      I’ll be praying for you and your family! God has the answer!

  • @Trevor-nb6cn
    @Trevor-nb6cn 3 роки тому +49

    The courage to share what most families try to hide is amazing. We need an army of Ms Kay’s.

  • @gailasgreatdanesandmanes1042
    @gailasgreatdanesandmanes1042 3 роки тому +156

    THIS TESTIMONY IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR RIGHT THIS MOMENT! God is good!🙌 Thank you for sharing Miss Kay💗

    • @jddo3298
      @jddo3298 3 роки тому +2

      @Gaila's Great Danes and Manes, GOD"S TIMING- unlike our own- is Impeccable..... never early, never late, ALWAYS just when needed! And, HE Never wastes our experiences. They either teach/reach/help us or teach/reach/help someone else. Miss Kay is indeed a wonderful example of Faith in action. Gaila, God Bless you and Keep you Safe in HIS Loving Embrace. Have an AWESOME week ahead.

    • @marchellebutterfield6711
      @marchellebutterfield6711 3 роки тому +1

      A praying and faithful wife,thank you Jesus!!!!!!!!

    • @walterlahaye2128
      @walterlahaye2128 2 роки тому +1

      To a Godly Sister in Christ,
      Beautiful story!

  • @jbmaine
    @jbmaine 3 роки тому +87

    “What’s more important than one lost soul”...... Wow

  • @michellescarborough16
    @michellescarborough16 3 роки тому +68

    Ms. Kay, you are the anchor of this family. Thank God you were there for the boys. You're such a strong woman. God Bless you and your family.

  • @timcooper7845
    @timcooper7845 3 роки тому +36

    I'm 66 and was baptized in my brothers lake by a dear preacher friend. I cried all the way through the video. God bless you Miss Kay.

  • @crinescrines
    @crinescrines 3 роки тому +12

    This is amazing, my father was an alcoholic when I was a kid. My mother dealt with a lot and I remember telling her not to cry. One day my father asked God to help him and he felt something inside him. Now he no longer drinks, he just stopped in one day. It was truly a blessing.

  • @jenrob5938
    @jenrob5938 3 роки тому +53

    Ms. Kay is such a beautiful soul!

  • @taratalkstruth3090
    @taratalkstruth3090 3 роки тому +10

    I heard this testimony while I was fighting for my own marriage! And guess what? I still have it! 👏🙏❤ God is good. Its not always easy- as a matter of fact some seasons are really hard but God is always there. Jesus never leaves you nor forsakes you. The Holy spirit is your Helper and Advocate and Guide. Keep fighting the good fight of faith! God's got your back🙏🙏🙏 God bless the Robertson family

  • @Makersimagestudio
    @Makersimagestudio 3 роки тому +29

    The gospel is so simple and yet it is everything! 😭😭😭

  • @raquellucas2202
    @raquellucas2202 3 роки тому +11

    I have been in your shoes Miss Kay. Love you and all your family’s testimony. If you see this, please pray for my son, he’s following his Dad down this path. God bless you and your family.

  • @lynneaiken1647
    @lynneaiken1647 3 роки тому +14

    Made me cry!! My Dad was a drunk when we were kids.. our story was different tho. There was no God in their marriage. Anyway, this brought back lots of memories for me. God bless you two for fighting for eachother!! Beautiful testimony...U have no idea the amount of trauma and heartache u saved ur children from going thru by saving this marriage and living for JESUS CHRIST..!! Love y'alls stories.. God bless y'all... from TEXAS..💜

  • @rebeccamedlin4907
    @rebeccamedlin4907 3 роки тому +18

    The smile Mrs. Kay has shows the live she still has for her husband. The way she looks down shows the struggles. Mrs. Kay I love her she is a genuine woman!❤️

  • @bethanywilhelm4451
    @bethanywilhelm4451 3 роки тому +8

    I love Miss Kay!! She is one of the most beautiful, genuine, sincere, sweet, smartest ladies I’ve ever listened to. I feel peace when I hear this lady talk. She is a real one. 🙏🏼💗

  • @kristopherfreeman1977
    @kristopherfreeman1977 3 роки тому +8

    Satan has made himself known in my marriage. I messed up with evil ways and I'm willing to fight for my marriage. This helps me so much. Thank you for sharing Ms. Kay

  • @taraashley997
    @taraashley997 8 місяців тому +2

    BLESS that person who told her the truth. "Your circumstances do not change automatically, but you. will. have. help."

  • @nancynoascono747
    @nancynoascono747 Рік тому +1

    I was in the same situation as you, Kay. I reached my bottom with my husband's alcoholism and 3 small children. I did an intervention on him, he went into treatment and I started going to Al-Anon. He started going to AA and almost 50 years and 7 grandchildren later we are still together and more and more in love every day.

  • @kathyfann
    @kathyfann 3 роки тому +56

    I so love this. I fought for my marriage too. But Rick Died. After 34 years. He killed his Liver. Now I am alone without a husband but I have Jesus and the Holy Spirit and my precious Family in Heaven. I pray my Lord will find me another Husband. Please agree with me.

    • @gus.tractman.williams4442
      @gus.tractman.williams4442 2 роки тому +5

      I. Believe. That. God. Has. A. Good solid. Man. 4. U
      Be. Blessed

    • @PacificNW-Jess
      @PacificNW-Jess Рік тому +2

      My dad was married to my mom for 25 yrs. He died from a stressful career, drinking, smoking when I was 21. His name is Richard. I'm 48 now and know he's with our Lord and us. Hugs! ❤❤❤

    • @cjpiper2420
      @cjpiper2420 Рік тому +2

      When you least expect it, your knight will show up❤

    • @PacificNW-Jess
      @PacificNW-Jess Рік тому

      @@cjpiper2420 That's so sweet! TY 🙏

    • @PrayThenBreathe1528
      @PrayThenBreathe1528 Рік тому

      Praying for you, love ❤

  • @MEL-xn4yt
    @MEL-xn4yt 2 роки тому +5

    One of the main things that made me invest in this family was the way they treated Miss Kay. I never knew the stories behind it but it makes me respect her & Phil even more. What a strong woman. Her kindness shows through her eyes but her strength is what radiates from all of her.

  • @MamaBoots007
    @MamaBoots007 3 роки тому +17

    Miss Kay, a warrior & fighter and a truly strong, Godly woman! 💛

  • @mslee4722
    @mslee4722 3 роки тому +17

    I am in tears because I can relate to everything that she said. Thank you Ms. Kay for sharing your testimony.

  • @karissaseaberry1339
    @karissaseaberry1339 3 роки тому +24

    incredible. Thank you Jesus for your love for us.

  • @christiabreeden7777
    @christiabreeden7777 3 роки тому +21

    I LOVE THIS FAMILY SO MUCH BECAUSE THEY ARE REAL!!

  • @jillcox259
    @jillcox259 2 роки тому +2

    I love Mrs. Kay. What a strong, faithful woman of God!

  • @Rita-yw2tn
    @Rita-yw2tn 3 роки тому +21

    You’re an angel unaware Miss Kay thank you for just being you sweet lady .❤️🙏🏻

  • @duckiegirl58
    @duckiegirl58 3 роки тому +16

    Miss Kay, I've fallen in love with y'all! So proud to hear the story of a praying spouse! ✝️❤️

  • @trinastokes8282
    @trinastokes8282 3 роки тому +8

    Thank you! Miss Kay, after 31 years of marriage I'm still praying for my husband to say "Jesus is the Lord of his life". His name is Kevin.

    • @usa2342
      @usa2342 2 роки тому +1

      Pray for him with psalm 1
      “Blessed is the Steven that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.
      2 But Steven’s delight is in the law of the Lord; and in his law doth he meditate day and night…”

  • @zacharybrown3781
    @zacharybrown3781 3 роки тому +5

    Every time I start to get off the path, I returned back to these videos. And realize that the devil is trying to pull me away and God brings me back to what motivated me to be better in the first place. God bless everyone watching this.

  • @melissaculpepper7663
    @melissaculpepper7663 3 роки тому +12

    Praise God! Our Redeemer! Such a beautiful testimony! I never tire of hearing and seeing a redeemed soul! Thank You Jesus!

  • @SmokyMountainGoatRoper
    @SmokyMountainGoatRoper 3 роки тому +6

    What an awesome lady and what an awesome testimony! Miss Kay is the exact role model that we need. Forget Hollywood and their fake and phony stars. She is the real deal. I love her and her family and I love their story of redemption through God’s unfailing love.

  • @Makersimagestudio
    @Makersimagestudio 3 роки тому +11

    Thank you for being open and honest. Being real with others. It helps us to see that God can change everything and that we all have real issues in life but that doesn’t mean we are alone or unworthy of God’s love. Jesus can help us through the good, bad and the ugly. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @francampbell9356
    @francampbell9356 3 роки тому +9

    Oh praise God for His saving grace!! Hallelujah! I've read Phil's testimony in his books, but this is the first time I've heard it from Miss Kay. She is a saint.

  • @johnwetterlund1727
    @johnwetterlund1727 3 роки тому +5

    I am so glad to have heard, fight for your marriage. It is so easy to give up. It is harder to say I was wrong. Please father change my life, bring me back to my first love of you. Heal my mind, spirit and entire being. May I lead with love! Amen

  • @brittdriver4453
    @brittdriver4453 3 роки тому +6

    I love this lady! Mrs. Kay, a true role model for our young ladies to follow.

  • @JL-xn3zy
    @JL-xn3zy 3 роки тому +6

    The power of Christ!!! An amazing godly woman.

  • @markdale6481
    @markdale6481 3 роки тому +13

    Amazing testimony, incredibly strong women,and mom,faith in the lord wins.God bless

  • @livewithnick
    @livewithnick 3 роки тому +4

    This story NEVER gets old!

  • @lillianlopez2691
    @lillianlopez2691 3 роки тому +25

    God has truly & mightily blessed you Miss Kay, your husband and your whole family. Thank you so very much for your testimony, it has touched my heart and my spirit. AMEN😍😍😍😍

  • @stevenzwolinski3047
    @stevenzwolinski3047 10 місяців тому

    The power of your testimony has me in tears Miss Kay , the Lord is so amazing ❤

  • @elanorglf
    @elanorglf 2 роки тому

    The awesome truth that preacher gave her. Just because we get saved doesn't change our circumstances.

  • @nikkinastazio1052
    @nikkinastazio1052 2 роки тому +8

    I've been in Miss Kay's shoes for 7 long years now. Felt the same way. Wanted to die. Cried in the bathroom, praying for peace. Haven't gotten it yet. One day, God will help me too, I believe.

    • @believinginhim1984
      @believinginhim1984 2 роки тому +1

      Keep believing God! I’m encouraged by Kay’s story too because I’ve been standing for a long time too. God is faithful and nothing is impossible for Him!!!

  • @jaynefigueroa7819
    @jaynefigueroa7819 3 роки тому +2

    Amen I have been praying for my marriage Ms.Kay my husband is saved but he’s back slidden. It hurts so bad because that’s not the man I fell in love with and married. He refuses to go to marriage counciling so we’re separated and I just see him going down and down.You and Phil as well as your family are an inspiration to me you give me hope. God bless you Ms.Kay I don’t know you but I love you with the love of the Lord

  • @maryhickel1477
    @maryhickel1477 3 роки тому +1

    True,Miss Kay.yes,God is good .Has been for years.And yes I've prayed ,for miracles..Please pray that everything will work out.Things have been chaotic with children,grandkids and relatives for Quite some time.Still believing in it to all come together with My Bible and the grace of God.Still always Love to all who think things will not get better .With. GOD ,all. Things are possible.Im sticking to his promise,no matter what,Jesus knows all about it .Thank you ,again Miss Kay and all involved.

  • @janellekeisling5891
    @janellekeisling5891 3 роки тому +5

    wow that was powerful!!! That shows how God can change a man's heart and that its never to late for any of us to turn towards God!

  • @marthaberdiel5785
    @marthaberdiel5785 3 роки тому +1

    I love you Miss Kay, my sister in Christ. The Lord brought my husband to a saving faith in Christ back in 1982! I surrendered my life to Christ a yr before My husband. My heart's desire before the Lord was He would heal our family. The Lord answered and we've been married 43 yrs with 38yr old twin sons and a 41yr old daughter ♥️✝️🙏💕 And my husband came to Jesus! The Faithfulness of the Lord is greatly to be praised!:♥️✝️♥️

  • @benvyule779
    @benvyule779 13 днів тому

    You had Faith and didn't even know it. God bless you for saving your family.AMEN

  • @amandaburnett5551
    @amandaburnett5551 2 роки тому +1

    Besides my mother, miss Kay is the strongest woman I've ever seen. To have gone through so much and stay so strong, you don't have many woman like her anymore which is sad. I hope to be the woman and mother my mom was and who miss Kay is, this has changed me more than I thought it would.

  • @i_have_ur_loot8582
    @i_have_ur_loot8582 Рік тому

    I'm absolutely balling over here lol 🥹🥹🥹🥹
    God is SO GOOD 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
    I've stumbled on the Robertson recently. I never watched the TV show. I found them through Unashamed podcast and have dug into their family story.
    Jesus is alive. Wow ✝️🛐

  • @angelamay9635
    @angelamay9635 Рік тому +1

    Wow!! What a glorious testimony!! Hallelujah!! Praise God!!✝️🎊🙏❤️🎉👑 I can’t wait to see the movie!!! God Bless this precious family!!!!!!

  • @rickhughes9385
    @rickhughes9385 4 місяці тому

    Just seeing this in June 2024 My wife and I have been through similar things and are coming up on 47 years of marriage and still going strong Just have to have faith and keep trying I wouldn’t trade where we are for anything

  • @chippumwoman8222
    @chippumwoman8222 3 роки тому +1

    I can certainly relate to just wanting to go to sleep & never wake up again. We recovered a few months ago from a bout of Covid, but our forbidden to see our grand children, because the parents don't want to risk exposing us to them. My heart to broken beyond words.

  • @TheBigdaddytrucker01
    @TheBigdaddytrucker01 3 роки тому +1

    For the thumbs down people, I feel sorry for you, and pray you check yourself before you wreck yourself. These videos are nothing but inspiring, and to give a thumbs down, to me, shows that there is deep seated issues within you, I've been there done that please get help

  • @tkelly1072
    @tkelly1072 3 роки тому +3

    This is exactly why I love this family!! I cried the whole way through chapter 1 & 2. ♥️♥️♥️

  • @GingerHundley
    @GingerHundley 5 місяців тому

    I became a Christian at a young age.I know that it was God that got me through the rough times.I know that he would never leave me.

  • @NEENEEx5
    @NEENEEx5 3 роки тому +1

    I don’t get moved to tears often but the story of a lost soul finding his shepherd…it hits me EVERY time. “Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it. Prone to leave the God I love”.

  • @psoren423
    @psoren423 3 роки тому

    Mrs. Kay is the dichotomy of my own life. The parents you have may not be the parents you want but you have what you have and you have to choose your path.

  • @garrettm4084
    @garrettm4084 2 роки тому

    Miss Kay deserves some type of medal

  • @harleyskawronik6382
    @harleyskawronik6382 11 місяців тому

    strong woman. Didn't need to capitalize the words cause Miss Kay already did that for us.

  • @utterlynice1
    @utterlynice1 3 роки тому +1

    What a testimony of the love and persistence of her faith and commitment to her marriage! If only more men and women would be so today!! God bless you Miss Kay!

  • @angeldogs4ellie
    @angeldogs4ellie 3 роки тому +1

    Love you Miss Kay, your faith in God, love, gentleness, humility, kindness, grace and strength, are a beautiful testimony to how, as women, we should live this life for the Lord. God Bless you and your entire incredible family. ✝️🙌❤

  • @alexandriacantu6880
    @alexandriacantu6880 3 роки тому +1

    Miss Kay…. You are a strong, this made me tear up. I am so glad you and Phil got through the low and happy and growing together

  • @comerainorshine6105
    @comerainorshine6105 3 роки тому +8

    Very powerful message, very inspiring story. God bless the Robertson family for sharing their real life stories. I am very touched!❤️

  • @danlundquist5626
    @danlundquist5626 3 роки тому +4

    The lord is good Mrs K.
    God bless you and your family.

  • @betruetoyourself8738
    @betruetoyourself8738 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you Miss Kay for sharing your story. Woth tears rolling down my cheeks as I listened to your story, I kept thanking God for guiding you, your sons, and Phil to know Him and Jesus.
    You are an Awesomely Beautiful woman inside and out. I aspire to be more like you. God Bless You Miss Kay and your Family ALWAYS.

  •  3 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing your testimony! It's a wonderful reminder of God's faithfulness despite the hardship. Indeed, sometimes you gotta fight in prayer, and battle for those we love.

  • @mattvalyou5705
    @mattvalyou5705 3 роки тому +9

    Repent=change of mind. Sin is "changed" by repentance (the changing of the mind!) Love these tho. ❤️🙏

  • @AmericanNightmare18
    @AmericanNightmare18 11 місяців тому

    I am tired, I am struggling and trying to hard. I’m praying everyday

  • @FRL1344
    @FRL1344 Рік тому

    The song brought me by turnpike troubadours reminds me of their story a lot praise God. Put a new song in Phil’s heart. Still beats steady

  • @cynthiapowers3469
    @cynthiapowers3469 3 роки тому +5

    I have chills and love this woman's testimony

  • @EricEric-ne2ix
    @EricEric-ne2ix 3 роки тому +1

    I’m not religious but I very much enjoyed this story. I am happy for them.

  • @stanhalen7928
    @stanhalen7928 3 роки тому +1

    I'm so glad Phil became clean, created one heck of a product and had success. Lord knows Mrs Kay is Ballin like a doctor and deserves every bit of it. God bless

  • @ericritter7430
    @ericritter7430 2 роки тому

    I've heard that usually it's the women taking that step first. There's alot of truth to that and also in my case. We've been members awhile now. I watch podcast or read about you all and understand that the "Dynasty " came about to reach the masses . God the glory, and thank u all for sharing.
    Keep on keepin on

  • @marylinda5474
    @marylinda5474 10 місяців тому

    So beautiful. Thank you for loving Jesus. Hugs to you and Phil. ❤

  • @howardtheduck7668
    @howardtheduck7668 3 роки тому +1

    I wish I had seen this 30 years ago. But it’s still very powerful today. Praise God for his saving grace and deliverance 💟

  • @mattverville9227
    @mattverville9227 9 місяців тому

    We all have a testimony to tell or we COULD have a testimony. I went through a lot in life and im still building mine. Im sure glad im on the other side lol to the people who isnt on the other side of their battle yet just keep grinding and keep believing. If a guy like me can do it, I 100% promise you can too

  • @cynthiaedwards6706
    @cynthiaedwards6706 3 роки тому +1

    Love your testimony and the fact that you didn’t give up on God, Ms. Kay. Because of your faith your family were all brought to Jesus saving grace.

  • @nn-gr7kw
    @nn-gr7kw 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you, Kay, for all you are and all you give of yourself to others. Blessings.🙏💜

  • @Jan-xp8yi
    @Jan-xp8yi 3 роки тому +1

    That's a powerful story. God can change everyone. It is not an easy journey.

  • @nathanielgoodwin8622
    @nathanielgoodwin8622 6 місяців тому

    This has brought so much hope and joy to my life!!! Thank you Robertsons!!!!

  • @mammabearjo5483
    @mammabearjo5483 Рік тому

    I'm so blessed to hear your testimony Miss Kay, you lead Phil to Jesus.
    My heart is filled with joy.
    I'm missing my parents big time, they both went to heaven heaven .

  • @meghanandersen4960
    @meghanandersen4960 3 роки тому +4

    Such a sweetheart Miss Kay, God bless you indeed.

  • @sheldonberg661
    @sheldonberg661 2 роки тому

    Very powerful. It brings joy to thos hard heart to hear stories of how God redeems and blesses those who will love God, love their neighbor, and try to be good.
    We need 8 billion stories like this. God help me write my own story like this.

  • @alisonbender8611
    @alisonbender8611 3 роки тому +7

    What a powerful message.

  • @ericafrenk6747
    @ericafrenk6747 3 роки тому +1

    Wow... this can not be easy for miss kay.. or phil.. or any of them.. how strong they are to have shared this.. I am so glad I ran across this tonight... cant stop crying but needed to hear this..

  • @rickmiller8893
    @rickmiller8893 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing. ...and I knew there was more. I think the biggest take away that people should understand, is that even after the fact..."it wasn't easy still"...but things eventually did work out. Many believe that once you decide or something like that, everything changes...or should change..for the better RIGHT NOW...it does at first..but naturally the feelings fade a bit..things happen that aren't always good (sometimes get worse)..but you press on and at least have a sense of direction where to press towards...and you'll get there.. eventually. If it were that easy...what good would these stories be and where would inspiration be?

  • @1012345MB
    @1012345MB 3 роки тому

    Her life story of fighting for her marriage is so beautiful it brought me to tears. Not many people now a days are willing to fight for it but man seeing how God worked everything out for them is truly remarkable. I’m so glad she never gave up!

  • @codybenoit9252
    @codybenoit9252 Рік тому

    Brought tears to my eyes. What a story of salvation!

  • @jamiesheaven04
    @jamiesheaven04 Рік тому

    Love this testimony. It really hits home. If only more couples would fight for there marriage the way you did. It would change generations of heartache.

  • @verngfeller3906
    @verngfeller3906 2 роки тому +1

    That was a beautiful thing miss Kay I’m so happy for you and your family god bless 🙏

  • @tjccar24
    @tjccar24 Рік тому

    I love these stories because it's like the way I was raised and the stories hit me the same way!!

  • @leanajo754
    @leanajo754 Рік тому

    Now, I know the background much better. It seemed, for years, just kind of sketchy. Now this is a better understanding of them and their background for me. Amen!

  • @joannbarrientes4996
    @joannbarrientes4996 3 роки тому

    Miss Kay the most humble person💖

  • @stewbugz5213
    @stewbugz5213 Рік тому

    Thank you Kay for sharing this piece of your heart. What a strong beautiful woman you are.
    This has given me the strength to keep praying for my family. ❤️🙏

  • @pa19802
    @pa19802 3 роки тому

    I try everyday to be a good wife and step mother. I believe the Lord brought my husband and I together because we deserved better in our lives. Thank you Ms. Kay for sharing your story of courage.

  • @dustiederr663
    @dustiederr663 Рік тому

    I heard this and cried and cried. I have been there. Unfortunately mine never got better. But it was nice to know I wasn't the only one. You guys make a great difference. Some day I hope to do the same. Keep it up. Love Unashamed as well, I listen to it daily. Love yall. God bless the family.

  • @Laura95000
    @Laura95000 3 роки тому

    Miss. Kay, your story made me cry w/tears of JOY in thanking God for His perfect work in your lives! WHAT a testimony! Hallelujah!🙌🏼

  • @tricialee1292
    @tricialee1292 3 роки тому

    Hearing this made me cry like a baby. What a beautiful testimony for others to hear. God bless her.

  • @aliceholbert1246
    @aliceholbert1246 3 роки тому +2

    I just adore momma kay.

  • @hex_BooBerry
    @hex_BooBerry 3 роки тому

    I ugly cried SOO HARD. I'm so proud of them I'm so proud of Miss Kay AND Phil for doing what's right. Miss Kay is an Angel straight from the Lord.
    Yall give me and my small family hope, the world needs more stories like this thank y'all for sharing