Yep. He sounds just like one. I'm surprised he didn't change his first name to Commander. If he DOES find a woman stupid enough to submit to this bs, he'll probably tell her she has to change her first name to Of-Dale. 😮
@@IndomitableAdeI always get a kick out of them bringing up that she *made* Adam eat it, too, like he wasn't older than her! He was a whole grown man.
Right! Eve was deceived, but Adam knew what he was doing when he bit that fruit. I dont know why people act like Eve was the only one at fault😑@younglaster
I think about this literally anytime I hear people like this speak. Like how can a person be so hateful and claim that they are Christian. You literally must have never paid attention in Bible study.
Translation to Dale's words: It makes me feel really bad if I have a wife who is doing better than me in life and that's not fair to me. My wife needs to act like a mommy to me.
Yeah, they don't really want a wife or love. They want a quiet servant that they can use and abuse. They just use God as an excuse for their crappy behavior.
It’s like the folks who are advertising parenting don’t realize how bad most parents make it look 🤷🏽♀️ I’m not sold. I don’t see ‘the good outweighs the bad’ most of the time-it’s just sprinkled here and there. It’s not giving otherwise and you will not lie to my face when my eyes work.
Even in the Bible women worked. Lydia was a merchant. Deborah was a judge. Priscilla was a tent maker. There were numerous female leaders and queens. The Bible doesn't say women are prohibited from a career.
Exactly!! If you listen to and watch these men, they will show you how much they don’t study or embrace the word. And they will show you what spirit they are operating out of (fear, insecurity, domination, selfishness, etc).
As much as I have significant issues with the apostle Paul,I also think a lot of people take some of the things he said out of context. when he's speaking about very specific instances that only applied to specific places, and people want to make it like he was saying things that applied everywhere, it really kind of hurts the interpretations.
I'm a Christian, but what is with this type of "Christian" wanting others to serve them and not wanting to serve others? That's what Jesus Christ called his believers to be; to be servants to God and to each other. Not try to be Him or use Him for our goals. They want slaves not companions or a partnership. Ladies!...We need to run from this type of man. He doesn't know love, which is what Christians are to mainly operate out of (Galatians 5:14 NIV, For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.”). They operate out of selfish ambition (Philippians 2:3-4 NIV, Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, [4] not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.)
Well said. It’s hit me like a brick this year that these type of men want slaves. If it was legal they’d have one and that would if allowed extend to men too. It’s straight out of a horror movie to realize that and see it clearly. They need to feel superior above women. Frankly that sounds like the motivations of Satan, wanting to elevate himself and be at the pinnacle of a hierarchy. It’s all self-serving. And five out of eight men in a church congregation regularly watch corn, 88% of which now is extremely violin t and half the most watched videos are about SA of family members/ in c est. nothing about that is like Jesus.
I hope he keeps those same Christian values when it comes to premarital sex, treating his wife like Christ did the church, and loving his neighbor because his message just feels like it’s coming from an unholy place.
Facts! A lot of Christian men are quick to harp on about women's roles when theirs is even harder, which requires even more concentration from them, afterall they are the ones who have to be able to die for their wives... Funny how they aren't quick to have that conversation.
We all know that he thinks the rules only apply to other people. If he breaks one, he’ll just claim to have been “born again” and magically cleansed of sin.
Too many people these days forget that giving women the fruit of their hands means letting them work at jobs that don’t involve just housework and raising kids!
Christian men need to read Ephesians 5:21 “submit to one another out of reverence for Christ” and also Matthew 5:25. “Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must become your slave. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
And they need to read about Deborah, one of the God appointed judges in the book of Judges. She wasn’t just sitting at home doing housework all day. She was a powerful woman.
@@samuelrigaud6595 u r exactly the type of man who is broke himself , but would complain about women being with good providers because they are gold diggers, but at the same time u complain about career oriented successful women who pay their own bills coz it hurts your ego and u won't be able to make them ever submit to u😂 crying about women not wanting to be housewives yet u have nothing better to provide for a house wife
Got Proverbs 31 forever on the mind but forget Ephesians 5:22-33 calls for mutual submission under God, women respect under the authority of God via husband and MEN to LOVE as Christ loves the church. Some of these dudes don’t wanna sacrifice and work with their wives but want all the benefits, Israel did God dirty and the Lord cleanses us from our crazy ways. Dudes who expects 100% humble perfect non-problematic wives and mothers are deluded. And I’m not saying there aren’t Godly humble women but expecting that of every single Christian woman as if we’re just a monolith or an accessory that comes in one font and not remembering we’re people with flaws is bunk. Oof, sorry for the rant. Always wanna wave the perfect woman in our faces but forget they’re supposed to reflect Christ.
As a Christian man , I love that my wife’s always striving to get the bag, it’s healthy competition for us to up our career goals with each other . It’s not her job to keep the house clean and dinner on the stove , we both live there it’s both our job smh. We both have jobs , both share the home , both share the expenses and work as a team. She leads in some areas and I lead in some as well, she’s not some house servant yes master no master kind of person who tf wants that ?
I think that’s great your marriage is a loving and healthy PARTNERSHIP. BUT let’s not be naive. Centuries-long Empires have rested and profited on the broken backs of literal ENSLAVED persons. In fact slavery still exists worldwide today. You asked who wants that? Ummmmm… LOTS OF MEN.
@@samuelrigaud6595 has no choice ? It’s always weak ass mfs like you . I bet you’re one of those “red pill” alpha males that consume all of this “high value man” garbage on these unoriginal podcasts .
This right here! I know couples living in actual poverty, and the husband still won't let the wife work because that's "not her job"! And I'm like, sir, your children are starving smh
@@samuelrigaud6595 it doesn’t say anywhere in scripture that all women are called on by God to be mothers or even get married. Some men and women are called to singleness and celibacy.
If we’re talking traditional, BOTH the man and woman were a Stay-at-home mother and father because work was at home (farmers, tradespeople, house servants)! Both made their livelihood. Couples that are dual-income now ARE the traditional couple. The only difference is they don’t typically stay home to work. Family, work, and community are all completely separated from each other when they didn’t used to, so we had to adapt.
Yep, but we also used to live with or near extended relatives. Kids would play with and entertain each other. Adults would take turns doing the daily tasks. Etc
A woman saying "I don't have any career goals. My goals are whatever you do.", is a huge turn off. Like, your only goal in life is to find your meal ticket? You're just gonna be a chameleon for whatever your husband likes or wants to do? I can't trust nobody like that.
@rileymcphee9429 *cracks knuckles* the 1st reply may be misinterpreting your comment. The way I understood your comment was: since you disagree with the original post, you provided a scenario where a woman approaches you with that mindset, and your comment outlines why that wouldn't work for you. If the 1st reply circles back, they can chime in with how they read it🤷🏿♀️
How is the wife looking for a meal ticket if she's going to be running the household and raising his children with lots of free emotional labour & life admin thrown in?
@@samuelrigaud6595Then who are the misogynists in your book? I’m not sure you understand that it’s 2024 so he just insulted women of today…the ones of old times are gone so get over it or dig them up and marry them.
These men be saying all that stuff then when they FINALLY meet a women and she stupid enough to marry him guess what he ends up doing............ If y'all guessed he cheats or ends up getting a divorce in the end y'all Won my guessing game 😂😂😂😂😂. I've seen this a hundred times
@TommyCombs-gm9cm... you took the words right out of my mouth. Men like that often leave women with nothin' but a bunch of kids to take care of and bills to pay; which is why I believe women decided to become financially independent way back when... they got tired of being left with nuthin.
Wait - submit to his LEADERSHIP??? And, here I thought you got a husband when you got married. But, no, according to THIS yoyo, we get a LEADER. Dude sounds like he escaped from the 1950's. Or worse, thinks women still live there. WAKE UP!!!!
My super Christian late grandmother would have laughed in a man’s face in the 50s if she heard this. She got her teaching degree that decade. This dude is living in the 1700s 😂
@@OO9O9 Yep. Ephesiand 5:21, submit to one another. All of these verses actually aren't about hierarchy but are an example of how to live out Christ's command to love one another.
@@shirosaki15 Be quick to talk about women need to submit, but Sir are you submitting to God?! Women ain’t the only ones that supposed to be submitting
@valenciacarter4512 Exactly! They also like to ignore the part in the same scripture, where it tells them how to take care and love their wives. But that part is not important, right? Only a woman's servitude 🙄
Big facts! These fools are gross af. Imagine a male like Dale genuinely feeling deserving of a wife and DNA replication at the expense of a woman’s body, when he doesn’t even view women as full human beings apart from males. Straight trash.
And when they get their needy blank slate servent that bows down to them and is pregnant 24/7, they turn around and complain that she doesn't do enough.🙄 How can she when you control everything?! This is what you wanted remember?
You have to earn submission. You don't just show up and she submits. Submission comes with trust, which is also earned. It is not about control. I have run away from guys that I felt were controlling. Even still, we are not going to submit to you on everything, because women DO know better on some things. God gave us free will just like he gave you free will.
They don’t understand that though. Men think submission is about gender rather than them demonstrating good character and judgment. Who’s going to submit to a cheater and liar that can’t even find his way out of a paper bag much less lead a family
lets stop deluding ourselves with submisison as women. submission is control and slavery. all these demands and expectations of submission from women AND girls comes from female based slavery its nothing to promote and aspire too. Trust and submission are two different things. You dont need to submit to trust someone, in a partnership there needs to be trust and respect towards the other foundationally. If you are building a life TOGETHER you need to trust and rely upon each others ability, skills and competenecy and at times even make up for one person is lacking due to various reasons (illness etc.) to place the submission on women is to fail to recognisze and undermine the work women have done with and for humanity including in the household and for men. that women have always had to been leaders of managing the household, the family buisness, their husbands and children and even grandchildren (and extended families lives even when needed). To put submission on women is to disrespect all the work women have done and still continue to do, its to undervalue and to belittle the important labour that they have done and contributed and still do in the world. submission was promoted and brainwashed into women as a means to subjucate them and belittle them as human beings and as co producters of this world, its to steal credit and exploit women and girls and to normalise their enslavement. We need to stop this male supremacist talking point of wanting women to "submit" and rewrapping it in "pretty terms like" trust. Its a disgusting gaslighting to say if a woman doesnt submit its a sign of lack of trust. IT IS NOT. Because submission is what you demand and expect of slaves and cattle at the mercy and will of Masters/Owners. Trust needs is something else and something between humans and equally beings. Its internalised sexism to put "submission" as a trait that is needed as a woman in a relationship with a man.
I’m not submitting to any man who isn’t submitted to me like the Bible says they’re supposed to. They like to brush over the fact that husbands have to submit to and lay down their lives for their wives. “Submit to one another out of reference for Christ.” Matthew 5:21
Dale doesn’t speak for every Christian man. My Christian bf LOVES that I have career goals, that I’m knowledgable and well-spoken, and that I’m loud and outspoken because if I didn’t talk and or make a fuss out of things, he would just be lazy, apathetic, and feel uncared for.
I just love all the messages that try to make women dependent on men when they forget that Adam needed a helper. Eve did not. They just hate that we're good and happy without them😂😂 He might wanna look for the woman that said single women aren't happy, and leave the rest of us alone!
While Eve was unsupervised she fell into temptation and let sin enter the world. Although it was Adam's fault (God held Adam responsible because he knew God told him they couldn't eat from the tree, you could make an argument that Eve wasn't technically created yet and didn't hear the warning) but she did it. Men and women can do great things when we're together. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be single though. Your worth isn't defined by a relationship.
Oh you know these men can’t handle our spirit of independence. That’s why they resent us so. They know they need us and it isn’t the other way around. That’s why they INVENT so much hardship to hinder our paths in society
That "Christian" man is a conservative religious man. I've been in Christianity long enough to know that conservative religion like many evangelical churches attract narcissistic men and create narcissistic men. It's a sad state when many heathen men treat women is far greater respect than Christian men. Thank you Kev, you sound like a good one.
That’s what happens when men constantly get told the lie that they are the superior gender just because they are physically stronger, when in reality women are better at everything else 😂
When it comes to Christ, He put dreams and visions into booth men and women , not only to live life. To Forfill HIS Vision for them as well as to how to Operate.
As christian man married for 8 years and choose not to have kids…. I did my vasectomy to free my wife from the burden of pills which affects a woman’s body a lot. I also find sexy my wife working together by my side and not behind me like a shadow. And respect is mutual of course I don’t get this guy at all
"I have no empathy to speak of, so I will essentialize and universalize my particular experience and desires, such that any alternatives or differences are unfathomable and also evil. I am God's perfect creature, and everyone else falls short of my immaculate example." 😂😂😂
🙂↔️not falling for any of the incubator/broodmare/slave narratives the authoritarian “church” tries to foist on women, I simply love Christ. I am a free woman who pays my taxes and bills, and I intend to remain that way ✌️cope and seethe you “good Christian men”
Hear hear. I'm nonbinary and I still love Christ. He died for me just as much as he died for anyone anyone else. He calls me to be something other than a parent, and that's okay. When are people going to realize that God calls us to be different things?
I don't think most men understand the part the Bible says about women submitting: women should submit to men who love them like Christ loved the Church. How did Christ loved the church? He always led by EXAMPLE not by ruling, He never thought about himself and His own will but about the will of the Father and His heritage to the world (Church), He humbled Himself to teach the apostles(Church), He sacrificed Himself in order to make sure the we'd(Church) live. If men did all of that, it would be natural for anyone to submit, but men are there thinking Jesus said women should do all men's whims and egotistical tyrannical saying.
All these “insightful” men that are looking for these non existent women, do they have stay at home wife money because, while they’re writing their bs on twitter their age mates are out here living their best lives with a career driven wife, who is outspoken and is his equal in
No, a lot of them are single or if they do, they are on the verge of divorce. A few prominent figures have already been divorced and are now whining about no fault divorce, so the women clearly don’t want to stay with them. And the other part you said is true. The non-toxic grown male adults are living better quality lives with dual income homes and wives that actually want to be with them.
Lol! "their age mates" just tells me you are Nigerian! Hello my fellow sister! I completely agree with you. I also think this is American trash, we both know no one in our own community would take us seriously enough to allow us to marry their sons if we had nothing going on in our careers...
@@samuelrigaud6595 And?? I don’t care if he’s rich or poor. He clearly doesn’t have God’s wisdom since he’s speaking all that foolishness. If he knew what was in the Bible, he wouldn’t be speaking so ignorantly
@@samuelrigaud6595 His “preferences” are condescending and detrimental to a woman’s wellbeing. What kind of grown “Christian” man says he doesn’t care about his woman’s dreams and goals? She doesn’t exist for him. What if God put those desires in her heart for a bigger purpose? Any man, like Dale, that suggests that a woman’s only purpose is to support him at the expense of her own wishes and priorities needs to repent and have several seats 🪑🪑
This man seems nice. But I always think it's so funny why men think women give a shit what they want from us. Be worth marrying, dude... then we'll talk.
Look, I can be a housewife to a good man if my spending money, savings, investments, insurance, benefits, and time away will be equal to or greater than my single income (without having to share), and my level of output does not exceed this current job. Still not having kids, though!
He wants to make all the money to support his family, send his daughter to the best of schools to tell her what??? Not to have a career? Make it make sense
Submitting to his leadership and Keeping an ordered home are more often than not, opposites. If your expectations were more reasonable, sir, you might find them easier to fulfill.
Husband and wife are equals, they are supposed to submit to each other, they are supposed to serve each other. Your wife is not just an accessory to your life.
"A Christian man who can't afford to take care of a wife and two kids on his salary" but wants attention on the internet. If your husband can't provide for you ( death, divorce, illness, unemployment), how will your wife thrive without skills and money?
These Christian nationalist want to live in the handmaidens tale so bad
For real. 😂 I’m so over them.
bruh!
😂😂😂
😂😂😂 I was thinking that
Yep. He sounds just like one. I'm surprised he didn't change his first name to Commander.
If he DOES find a woman stupid enough to submit to this bs, he'll probably tell her she has to change her first name to Of-Dale. 😮
“Mortgages didn’t exist in the Garden of Eden!” Well that settles it 😂😂😂😂
Point that out and they'll blame Eve for mortgages because she ate of the apple. Smh.
@@IndomitableAde😂😂😂😂
@@IndomitableAdeI always get a kick out of them bringing up that she *made* Adam eat it, too, like he wasn't older than her! He was a whole grown man.
Right! Eve was deceived, but Adam knew what he was doing when he bit that fruit. I dont know why people act like Eve was the only one at fault😑@younglaster
Exactly! And that's why God punished the both of them. Not just Eve, and it seems like he was more mad at Adam. 🤣🥰@@shirosaki15
I’m convinced people like that do not read the Bible, just the excerpt that they quote. Biblical comprehension be so low.
Amen to that
I think about this literally anytime I hear people like this speak. Like how can a person be so hateful and claim that they are Christian. You literally must have never paid attention in Bible study.
The Christians that be hateful, you can tell they don't have critical thinking skills 101. Did not read the Bible at ALL ! 😂
Literally this
Fr fr❤
Translation to Dale's words: It makes me feel really bad if I have a wife who is doing better than me in life and that's not fair to me. My wife needs to act like a mommy to me.
Nailed it!
Act like a mommy and a child. Do as I say
@@applejackzo You know, there are some weird men, like Dale, who would want that. All I can say is, don't go to their house for Thanksgiving.
@@kiairagary2407 Thanks!!
This!!! 🎉
I feel sorry for women who end up with men like that. That seems like hell.
Yeah, they don't really want a wife or love. They want a quiet servant that they can use and abuse. They just use God as an excuse for their crappy behavior.
They look like it too. You can always tell.
Nobody ever stays with ppl like that! Their relationships are always a revolving door
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Not necessarily....if her goals align with his and they are like minded and on the same page with it, seems like it'll work for them. JS 🤷🏽♀️
Wives are not appliances.
That part
To Dale it is
It was the “His body” for me. It’s as if he went to the court and signed papers over for full property ownership over her. Thats crazy.
Men are not ATMs
@@freudianslip2192 Awww. Somebody's feewing fweatened.
"Kids are expensive and alot of them are bad" 😅😅
I repeated to my kids LOUD 😂😂😂😂
It’s like the folks who are advertising parenting don’t realize how bad most parents make it look 🤷🏽♀️ I’m not sold. I don’t see ‘the good outweighs the bad’ most of the time-it’s just sprinkled here and there. It’s not giving otherwise and you will not lie to my face when my eyes work.
No truer words 😂😂😂😂😂
Heavy on the KIDS ARE EXPENSIVE 😢😂
As a teacher, I approve this message.
Who voted Dale the captain of the Christian men? Yall gotta sit him down
Right now please
I think he’s confusing a wife and a slave
IMMEDIATELY.
Dale needs to sit his own butt down
@@ShavonaHooperJust say you aren’t Christian
Even in the Bible women worked. Lydia was a merchant. Deborah was a judge. Priscilla was a tent maker. There were numerous female leaders and queens. The Bible doesn't say women are prohibited from a career.
Exactly! It says the woman goes out, considers a field buys it and of her earnings plants a vineyard. That sounds like a career to me!
Exactly!! If you listen to and watch these men, they will show you how much they don’t study or embrace the word. And they will show you what spirit they are operating out of (fear, insecurity, domination, selfishness, etc).
Stop. You weren't supposed to actually read the damn thing.
Yes 👏🏾👏🏾! And Tabitha sold linens!!!
As much as I have significant issues with the apostle Paul,I also think a lot of people take some of the things he said out of context. when he's speaking about very specific instances that only applied to specific places, and people want to make it like he was saying things that applied everywhere, it really kind of hurts the interpretations.
In a GARDEN!! RENT FREE ‼️😂
😂😂I laughed to hard.
"With their father! God!" 🤣
ROOOOOFS!!!
@@amberschairer6614🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Didn’t the supreme court make that sort of thing illegal pretty recently?
And this why Lissa stays looking happy, young and stress free 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
His wife is beautiful, indeed.
@@majesticgirlgames 💯💯💯
She does look really good 👍🏾
I'm a Christian, but what is with this type of "Christian" wanting others to serve them and not wanting to serve others? That's what Jesus Christ called his believers to be; to be servants to God and to each other. Not try to be Him or use Him for our goals.
They want slaves not companions or a partnership.
Ladies!...We need to run from this type of man. He doesn't know love, which is what Christians are to mainly operate out of (Galatians 5:14 NIV, For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.”). They operate out of selfish ambition (Philippians 2:3-4 NIV, Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, [4] not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.)
Amen, these type of men truly want slaves.
Christian nationalism and white supremacy held together by capitalism. These folks do not care about Jesus but about power lol
Well said. It’s hit me like a brick this year that these type of men want slaves. If it was legal they’d have one and that would if allowed extend to men too. It’s straight out of a horror movie to realize that and see it clearly. They need to feel superior above women. Frankly that sounds like the motivations of Satan, wanting to elevate himself and be at the pinnacle of a hierarchy. It’s all self-serving. And five out of eight men in a church congregation regularly watch corn, 88% of which now is extremely violin t and half the most watched videos are about SA of family members/ in c est. nothing about that is like Jesus.
Faxxx
Serve god only not man or cat etc
In the bible it warns you about this......
I'm glad I ain't the only person who noticed this
THIS MESS RIGHT HERE IS WHY SO MANY WOMEN ARE CHOOSING TO BE SINGLE 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿!!!!!
In a pitiful attempt to corral women back into the kitchen and bedroom, this guy has guaranteed that no man will ever get a wife again.
I’m single and child free. I travel around the country for my job. Settling down is not who I am.
Not every guy is like this
@omotayosatuyi252 everyone knows that already 🙄. But we're not willing to play Russian roulette anymore. Move along.
@@nightangel3578 Yk but u say all men 🤦♂️
He said “they live at home with their father…God” 😂😂😂😂
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Until he put them out and said, "by the sweat of your brows you will eat bread", basically saying I'm done with you, go work man. 😂😂😂😂
Right! 😂
@@LevenLyfe yes 😂
@@LevenLyfethey were disobedient and didn’t appreciate what they had, like how some yall be putting yall hard headed children out
I hope he keeps those same Christian values when it comes to premarital sex, treating his wife like Christ did the church, and loving his neighbor because his message just feels like it’s coming from an unholy place.
Amén
Facts! A lot of Christian men are quick to harp on about women's roles when theirs is even harder, which requires even more concentration from them, afterall they are the ones who have to be able to die for their wives... Funny how they aren't quick to have that conversation.
We all know that he thinks the rules only apply to other people. If he breaks one, he’ll just claim to have been “born again” and magically cleansed of sin.
Christian men need to read proverbs 31. It specifically lays out that she had some sort of business and brought money into the home
They literally had domestic staff
Too many people these days forget that giving women the fruit of their hands means letting them work at jobs that don’t involve just housework and raising kids!
Men and women have always worked. I think they just want financial dominance over their wife and that’s….where the red flags come in 😢
Christian men need to read Ephesians 5:21 “submit to one another out of reverence for Christ” and also Matthew 5:25. “Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must become your slave. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
And they need to read about Deborah, one of the God appointed judges in the book of Judges. She wasn’t just sitting at home doing housework all day. She was a powerful woman.
What's insane is that same exact type of man will cry when women say fine then pay all the bills. 😂
This is what you want, be honest
Mic drop!
"That's not what I meant when I said respect me as the man of the house 😭"
They will be the first to cry 'gold digger' if a woman says that she wants her man to pay the bills.
@@samuelrigaud6595 u r exactly the type of man who is broke himself , but would complain about women being with good providers because they are gold diggers, but at the same time u complain about career oriented successful women who pay their own bills coz it hurts your ego and u won't be able to make them ever submit to u😂 crying about women not wanting to be housewives yet u have nothing better to provide for a house wife
Oh I’m sorry, I didn’t know I was watching an episode of the Handmaid’s Tale 😭😂
Girl 😭
Lefties try not to mention their wierd fetish novels challenge, difficulty: impossible.
I'm SO GLAD that person referenced Proverbs 31 cuz that's EXACTLY what first sprang to mind upon hearing his FOOLISHNESS! 😮💨🙄😒
Got Proverbs 31 forever on the mind but forget Ephesians 5:22-33 calls for mutual submission under God, women respect under the authority of God via husband and MEN to LOVE as Christ loves the church. Some of these dudes don’t wanna sacrifice and work with their wives but want all the benefits, Israel did God dirty and the Lord cleanses us from our crazy ways. Dudes who expects 100% humble perfect non-problematic wives and mothers are deluded. And I’m not saying there aren’t Godly humble women but expecting that of every single Christian woman as if we’re just a monolith or an accessory that comes in one font and not remembering we’re people with flaws is bunk. Oof, sorry for the rant. Always wanna wave the perfect woman in our faces but forget they’re supposed to reflect Christ.
@@makeda6530 - You 👏🏾 betta 👏🏾 PRRRRREACH!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@makeda6530Exactlyyy well said!! 🎯💯🙏🏽
Say that 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@makeda6530I need an industrial fan after you spoke nothing but facts 🤌🏾
2:19 ROOOOOFFFSSSA😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm crying!! Lol!!
This was it 😂😂
He took this subject to heart 😂 said it with his whole chest and mind and soul lol😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
That part was the most impactful! I’m a woman and understood it’s good that I work bc of the roofsa!
I'm a Christian man, and I don't approve Dale Partridge's message. He's just being chauvinistic.
As a Christian man , I love that my wife’s always striving to get the bag, it’s healthy competition for us to up our career goals with each other .
It’s not her job to keep the house clean and dinner on the stove , we both live there it’s both our job smh. We both have jobs , both share the home , both share the expenses and work as a team. She leads in some areas and I lead in some as well, she’s not some house servant yes master no master kind of person who tf wants that ?
Exactly, this guy wants a house elf
I think that’s great your marriage is a loving and healthy PARTNERSHIP.
BUT
let’s not be naive.
Centuries-long Empires have rested and profited on the broken backs of literal ENSLAVED persons. In fact slavery still exists worldwide today.
You asked who wants that? Ummmmm… LOTS OF MEN.
She have no choice, your income is weak
Dale 😂
@@samuelrigaud6595 has no choice ? It’s always weak ass mfs like you . I bet you’re one of those “red pill” alpha males that consume all of this “high value man” garbage on these unoriginal podcasts .
Hope he finds the employee he’s looking for.
You don't work?
Employee is generous. More like an indentured servant /sex slave
@omaysingh702... If he does, he'll probably fire her for not making the bed to his liking. 🤔
Oh, Dale. I hope you make more than enough to provide WELL for your "potential" wife and kids. No one is signing up to STRUGGLE with you. 😎
Nooooo one!!
This right here! I know couples living in actual poverty, and the husband still won't let the wife work because that's "not her job"! And I'm like, sir, your children are starving smh
@@queencleopatra007 at this point, it's not his, either! I hope they don't have children.
LISSSTTTEEENNNN!!!
That’s the kicker right there! Saying all that and got the nerve to be a Uber driver smdh gtfoh 😂🫤🙄
A Christian girl here. Thank you for standing up for us women 🙌🏽
You do not want childrens ?
@@samuelrigaud6595 nope
@@samuelrigaud6595 it doesn’t say anywhere in scripture that all women are called on by God to be mothers or even get married. Some men and women are called to singleness and celibacy.
If we’re talking traditional, BOTH the man and woman were a Stay-at-home mother and father because work was at home (farmers, tradespeople, house servants)! Both made their livelihood. Couples that are dual-income now ARE the traditional couple. The only difference is they don’t typically stay home to work. Family, work, and community are all completely separated from each other when they didn’t used to, so we had to adapt.
Yep, but we also used to live with or near extended relatives. Kids would play with and entertain each other. Adults would take turns doing the daily tasks. Etc
Literally all of this 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😩
“Inflation didn’t exist in the garden of Eden” 😂😂😂 SIR!!! no bigger facts than that!!! 💯
Thank you, Kev, for speaking out against this misogynistic mess.
A woman saying "I don't have any career goals. My goals are whatever you do.", is a huge turn off. Like, your only goal in life is to find your meal ticket? You're just gonna be a chameleon for whatever your husband likes or wants to do?
I can't trust nobody like that.
Misdirecting your message.
@canesugar911 what do you mean?
@rileymcphee9429 *cracks knuckles* the 1st reply may be misinterpreting your comment. The way I understood your comment was: since you disagree with the original post, you provided a scenario where a woman approaches you with that mindset, and your comment outlines why that wouldn't work for you. If the 1st reply circles back, they can chime in with how they read it🤷🏿♀️
How is the wife looking for a meal ticket if she's going to be running the household and raising his children with lots of free emotional labour & life admin thrown in?
That’s cuz ur a beta male
The most attractive men is those that call misogynists out. Love what you’re doing, bro
Traditional is not misogyny
@@samuelrigaud6595Then who are the misogynists in your book? I’m not sure you understand that it’s 2024 so he just insulted women of today…the ones of old times are gone so get over it or dig them up and marry them.
@@atlfun08 provide, protect and serve your wife is insulting
@@samuelrigaud6595Tradition for whom? There is not an era in time where Black American women have been predominantly housewives.
@@TB-jj7ri in your family 🫵🏾⚠️
Kev is a true definition of a good Christian man
These men be saying all that stuff then when they FINALLY meet a women and she stupid enough to marry him guess what he ends up doing............ If y'all guessed he cheats or ends up getting a divorce in the end y'all Won my guessing game 😂😂😂😂😂. I've seen this a hundred times
You forgot to include gets mad when he has to pay child support and alimony because she was out there working none of them days with him.
@TommyCombs-gm9cm... you took the words right out of my mouth. Men like that often leave women with nothin' but a bunch of kids to take care of and bills to pay; which is why I believe women decided to become financially independent way back when... they got tired of being left with nuthin.
“I’m black, loud and outspoken comes sith the territory.” lolo😂😂😂
Wait - submit to his LEADERSHIP???
And, here I thought you got a husband when you got married. But, no, according to THIS yoyo, we get a LEADER.
Dude sounds like he escaped from the 1950's. Or worse, thinks women still live there.
WAKE UP!!!!
They LOVE saying that submit line but not the rest of the scripture where it tells them how to treat and love their wives.😑
My super Christian late grandmother would have laughed in a man’s face in the 50s if she heard this. She got her teaching degree that decade. This dude is living in the 1700s 😂
@@shirosaki15do their scripture tell the male to submit to his wife too?
What leadership
@@OO9O9 Yep. Ephesiand 5:21, submit to one another. All of these verses actually aren't about hierarchy but are an example of how to live out Christ's command to love one another.
Tell us you an incel without saying it.
Yup, hiding behind Christianity.
Yep, always wants a woman to "submit " to him but hasn't done anything to deserve it.
@@shirosaki15 Be quick to talk about women need to submit, but Sir are you submitting to God?! Women ain’t the only ones that supposed to be submitting
@valenciacarter4512 Exactly! They also like to ignore the part in the same scripture, where it tells them how to take care and love their wives. But that part is not important, right? Only a woman's servitude 🙄
@@valenciacarter4512why would a woman submit to a man to begin with? What misogynistic religion is this
Dale wants The Handmaid's Tale.🙄😒
Lol 😂
Big facts! These fools are gross af. Imagine a male like Dale genuinely feeling deserving of a wife and DNA replication at the expense of a woman’s body, when he doesn’t even view women as full human beings apart from males. Straight trash.
A man is not a plan. Be blessed.❤
They always talk about what they want from women but they never say what they're bringing to the table.
Guess they are the self-appointed spokesperson for all Christian men 🙄
Right. I love when these men try to make themselves bigger then they are. He really think he was doing something with this post. 😒
And when they get their needy blank slate servent that bows down to them and is pregnant 24/7, they turn around and complain that she doesn't do enough.🙄 How can she when you control everything?! This is what you wanted remember?
You have to earn submission. You don't just show up and she submits. Submission comes with trust, which is also earned. It is not about control. I have run away from guys that I felt were controlling. Even still, we are not going to submit to you on everything, because women DO know better on some things. God gave us free will just like he gave you free will.
They don’t understand that though. Men think submission is about gender rather than them demonstrating good character and judgment. Who’s going to submit to a cheater and liar that can’t even find his way out of a paper bag much less lead a family
lets stop deluding ourselves with submisison as women. submission is control and slavery. all these demands and expectations of submission from women AND girls comes from female based slavery its nothing to promote and aspire too. Trust and submission are two different things. You dont need to submit to trust someone, in a partnership there needs to be trust and respect towards the other foundationally. If you are building a life TOGETHER you need to trust and rely upon each others ability, skills and competenecy and at times even make up for one person is lacking due to various reasons (illness etc.) to place the submission on women is to fail to recognisze and undermine the work women have done with and for humanity including in the household and for men. that women have always had to been leaders of managing the household, the family buisness, their husbands and children and even grandchildren (and extended families lives even when needed). To put submission on women is to disrespect all the work women have done and still continue to do, its to undervalue and to belittle the important labour that they have done and contributed and still do in the world. submission was promoted and brainwashed into women as a means to subjucate them and belittle them as human beings and as co producters of this world, its to steal credit and exploit women and girls and to normalise their enslavement. We need to stop this male supremacist talking point of wanting women to "submit" and rewrapping it in "pretty terms like" trust. Its a disgusting gaslighting to say if a woman doesnt submit its a sign of lack of trust. IT IS NOT. Because submission is what you demand and expect of slaves and cattle at the mercy and will of Masters/Owners. Trust needs is something else and something between humans and equally beings. Its internalised sexism to put "submission" as a trait that is needed as a woman in a relationship with a man.
I’m not submitting to any man who isn’t submitted to me like the Bible says they’re supposed to. They like to brush over the fact that husbands have to submit to and lay down their lives for their wives. “Submit to one another out of reference for Christ.” Matthew 5:21
Its all about control. The desperation for control comes from fear and low self-esteem.
People love to quote the Bible out of context smh
No woman wants a man like Dale 😂 👌🏾 so he should be nice n single for awhile
Sad part is he's married with 4 kids and still talking this way.
He pay the bills @@LarisseMontrose
You want your men to pay the bills sis 🤷🏾♂️
@@samuelrigaud6595 That ain't special. We all pay bills.
You forgot the pick me women exist
“AINT NO GARDEN! We need ROOVES!” 😂😂
Most of these men today don’t have the education or the resources to be leaders in the household, so what are we talking about?
And the biblical definition of a leader is a servant just how Jesus came to serve. They ain’t ready for that convo😂
Dale doesn’t speak for every Christian man. My Christian bf LOVES that I have career goals, that I’m knowledgable and well-spoken, and that I’m loud and outspoken because if I didn’t talk and or make a fuss out of things, he would just be lazy, apathetic, and feel uncared for.
Naw he definitely speaks for white Christians
My Christian bf does too, exactly.
@@Newportnews98 Oop-
My bf isn’t white, you might be right
No fornication.
It's a sin.
It’s sad we have to defend the fact that women are human adults.
I just love all the messages that try to make women dependent on men when they forget that Adam needed a helper. Eve did not.
They just hate that we're good and happy without them😂😂 He might wanna look for the woman that said single women aren't happy, and leave the rest of us alone!
Ok! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
While Eve was unsupervised she fell into temptation and let sin enter the world. Although it was Adam's fault (God held Adam responsible because he knew God told him they couldn't eat from the tree, you could make an argument that Eve wasn't technically created yet and didn't hear the warning) but she did it. Men and women can do great things when we're together.
There's nothing wrong with wanting to be single though. Your worth isn't defined by a relationship.
Oh you know these men can’t handle our spirit of independence. That’s why they resent us so.
They know they need us and it isn’t the other way around. That’s why they INVENT so much hardship to hinder our paths in society
@@TrackStar5150"unsupervised"? Adam was literally right next to Eve.
Women don’t need supervision. Children do.
That "Christian" man is a conservative religious man. I've been in Christianity long enough to know that conservative religion like many evangelical churches attract narcissistic men and create narcissistic men. It's a sad state when many heathen men treat women is far greater respect than Christian men. Thank you Kev, you sound like a good one.
That’s what happens when men constantly get told the lie that they are the superior gender just because they are physically stronger, when in reality women are better at everything else 😂
When it comes to Christ, He put dreams and visions into booth men and women , not only to live life. To Forfill HIS Vision for them as well as to how to Operate.
He'll pay the bills..
As christian man married for 8 years and choose not to have kids…. I did my vasectomy to free my wife from the burden of pills which affects a woman’s body a lot.
I also find sexy my wife working together by my side and not behind me like a shadow.
And respect is mutual of course
I don’t get this guy at all
Your wife is lucky you are rare!!!
He should just cut the list and say, "We want complete power over women." Just keep it a bean.
Men like this want a Stepford wife. Real women aren't robots. They are real ppl with the same emotions and ambitions as any other person
He must be lookin for Delilah
Cuz Jezebel hurt him BAD smh
@@denyshadials5702Jezebel was right all along
@@canesugar911
She was toxic, but that doesn’t make the other end of the spectrum ok.
@@denyshadials5702 you have evidence of this how? Read your comment again, then read my reply and you'd understand my comment. Thank you
What he is really saying is " I want a wife whose whole life revolves around me".
He pay all the bills, no problem
@@samuelrigaud6595Who cares? He is a grown adult he should be paying bills.
@@la6136 ALL THE BILLS 👁👁❓️
"I have no empathy to speak of, so I will essentialize and universalize my particular experience and desires, such that any alternatives or differences are unfathomable and also evil. I am God's perfect creature, and everyone else falls short of my immaculate example." 😂😂😂
😂😂😂
🤣well said
That part 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
hell yeah they could afford to live on one income they ain’t had to pay for nothing
The bark took me out 😭😭😭
I think it's in a scene from 'coming to America'
@@modupesaibu4031 It is! 😂🤣🤣
I have a feeling these folks would change their minds real quick about their wife’s career goals the moment the husband lost his income.
Then they'd say "my wife isn't doing enough" while ignoring the kids and drinking beer all day
🙂↔️not falling for any of the incubator/broodmare/slave narratives the authoritarian “church” tries to foist on women, I simply love Christ. I am a free woman who pays my taxes and bills, and I intend to remain that way ✌️cope and seethe you “good Christian men”
Hear hear. I'm nonbinary and I still love Christ. He died for me just as much as he died for anyone anyone else. He calls me to be something other than a parent, and that's okay.
When are people going to realize that God calls us to be different things?
And when he wants a divorce for a newer model she won't be able to take care of herself or those kids he leave her with.
Ever since the LDS got twitter they been bugging out
Omg, I hope that's not what this is😂😂
😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
"WE NEED ROOVESEH!"
Not wanting a two income household in these times is goofy but go off ig😂
He's probably rich
And men wonder why they can't find nobody
You can't find a men who can pay all the bills
@@samuelrigaud6595And neither can you.
@@miyagriffin9673lol 😂 stop it!
@@miyagriffin9673😂😂😂 you had him for lunch 😆😆
Somebody needs to put Dale in a Time Machine and send him back a couple hundred years-cuz he’s not ready for the 2000s👈🏾
No. Send him back to Biblical times😂😂😂
If he got the ressource
You mean the 2020's the 2000's been over for 20 years.😂
Couple hundred years he'd be in chainz and fearing ropes lol. Maybe 80 years
I don't think most men understand the part the Bible says about women submitting: women should submit to men who love them like Christ loved the Church. How did Christ loved the church? He always led by EXAMPLE not by ruling, He never thought about himself and His own will but about the will of the Father and His heritage to the world (Church), He humbled Himself to teach the apostles(Church), He sacrificed Himself in order to make sure the we'd(Church) live. If men did all of that, it would be natural for anyone to submit, but men are there thinking Jesus said women should do all men's whims and egotistical tyrannical saying.
I just took a screen from your comment cuz GIRL, YOU SPITTING❤💅🏾
ROOVES!!! 🤣😂🤣
All these “insightful” men that are looking for these non existent women, do they have stay at home wife money because, while they’re writing their bs on twitter their age mates are out here living their best lives with a career driven wife, who is outspoken and is his equal in
Don't worry
No, a lot of them are single or if they do, they are on the verge of divorce. A few prominent figures have already been divorced and are now whining about no fault divorce, so the women clearly don’t want to stay with them.
And the other part you said is true. The non-toxic grown male adults are living better quality lives with dual income homes and wives that actually want to be with them.
@@Princetonian4eva Exactly
Lol! "their age mates" just tells me you are Nigerian! Hello my fellow sister! I completely agree with you.
I also think this is American trash, we both know no one in our own community would take us seriously enough to allow us to marry their sons if we had nothing going on in our careers...
He sounds insecure AF. Anybody who thinks this way about women, please stay far away from me.
If women can’t find a partner like Kev they choose being single or the 🐻. Life is just more peaceful that way.
I’m just impressed by the OP’s ability to interview every Christian man and come to that conclusion. 👀
Thank you for being an ally Kev! 💚👏👏👏👏👏👏
and i bet the man who only wants a stay-at-home wife doesn't even support unionizing
This kind of men do talk to People of your caliber
Brilliant commentary on life in the garden 😂🙏🏻😂
So... what about the proverbs 31 woman? She worked. She had goals. She owned businesses.
Whew...he strong and wrong
Dale is rich
@@samuelrigaud6595 And?? I don’t care if he’s rich or poor. He clearly doesn’t have God’s wisdom since he’s speaking all that foolishness. If he knew what was in the Bible, he wouldn’t be speaking so ignorantly
@@Coilyhairedgirly what's wrong with what he said, it's just preferences
@@samuelrigaud6595 His “preferences” are condescending and detrimental to a woman’s wellbeing. What kind of grown “Christian” man says he doesn’t care about his woman’s dreams and goals? She doesn’t exist for him. What if God put those desires in her heart for a bigger purpose? Any man, like Dale, that suggests that a woman’s only purpose is to support him at the expense of her own wishes and priorities needs to repent and have several seats 🪑🪑
This man seems nice. But I always think it's so funny why men think women give a shit what they want from us. Be worth marrying, dude... then we'll talk.
I’m in tears rooves 😂😂😂 I agree 💯
“We need ROOOOFS….ROOOOFS” got me LOL
Look, I can be a housewife to a good man if my spending money, savings, investments, insurance, benefits, and time away will be equal to or greater than my single income (without having to share), and my level of output does not exceed this current job. Still not having kids, though!
Okay, I'm putting that in my prenuptial agreement.
Don't forget to add a good retirement plan.
good men like kev restore my faith in men, the world really needs more non-misogynistic decent men like him.
“My wife she ain’t loud…but she be speaking out🗣️”😂😭🤣😮💨🫣
What even Ruth had a job ! The proverbs 31 woman had a job. I understand the home in order
Come on passa! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 #PreachPreacher
1:01 this is how u get a guy like jd Vance. No woman to tell him he’s stupid.
“We need ROOOVEESS” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
...........ROOOOVES!!! 😂😂😂😂
😂😂 Im weak, he said help me, mortgages and property taxes was not in the garden of eden!!
He wants to make all the money to support his family, send his daughter to the best of schools to tell her what??? Not to have a career? Make it make sense
Sacrifice
Alot of people are going to have to unlearn what they know, and really study THE WORD.
PARISE YAH!
Personally, I love the strong independent woman complex 💪🏾💪🏾👊🏾👊🏾
Good luck
Submitting to his leadership
and
Keeping an ordered home
are more often than not, opposites.
If your expectations were more reasonable, sir, you might find them easier to fulfill.
Sounds like Dale wants a servant. I'll pass 😂
The dummy wants an Amish-wife but is looking for her in NY or LA. 😂😅
Even if he pays all the bills
@@samuelrigaud6595That means he has more than enough to buy some help & leave his wife out of it, LOL.
@@GadSammit so the wife just sit at home all day, watching by the windows 🙄
@@samuelrigaud6595 Well, she COULD do something outside the home...!!!!!
Husband and wife are equals, they are supposed to submit to each other, they are supposed to serve each other. Your wife is not just an accessory to your life.
Never heard a real GOD FEARING man say this.
I wouldn’t want a partner that didn’t have career goals.
Because you can't afford. Mother goals are more fulfilled
@@samuelrigaud6595 he can afford but doesn't want a slave who guys like you want Samuel.
Dale needs to say this is what he desires. Dont put that on all christian men. Stay outta other folks homes!
"A Christian man who can't afford to take care of a wife and two kids on his salary" but wants attention on the internet. If your husband can't provide for you ( death, divorce, illness, unemployment), how will your wife thrive without skills and money?
"They lived at HOME! With their Father-- GOD!"
The fact that I knew you would repeat "rooves" is insane!! 😂 U never disappoint lol