How to Know To Stay or Walk Away From Someone

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  • @jaheemsandy4933
    @jaheemsandy4933 6 років тому +443

    Stay with someone that brings out the best in you not the stress in you, i love these words.

  • @DarkMatter11k
    @DarkMatter11k 8 років тому +557

    "We become less of ourselves when we can't be vulnerable with someone." This is so true.

    • @loveme2oo
      @loveme2oo 5 років тому +5

      DarkMatter11k@ I believe this to be true I was raised to believe vulnerability is weaknesses and shameful

    • @vaishalynirmal5529
      @vaishalynirmal5529 5 років тому +2

      People themselves make it so much disguisting that even if we want to stay away but Naa they force u to speak shit things ......even If it spoils mentally v badly....bcoz they themselves r so much mentally ill that they just can't see u happy.....Such people r ridiculous.. ...😡😠

  • @gegeunique8257
    @gegeunique8257 4 роки тому +56

    A friend told me “sometimes you got to let some things go in hopes they’ll return back to you in a better form.”

  • @xmissxvictoriax
    @xmissxvictoriax 8 років тому +785

    "Pretty faces are easy to find; pretty souls are a lot harder." I really like that. So true.

    • @AuroraNatureSounds
      @AuroraNatureSounds 7 років тому +8

      That sentence will stay with me forever :) :))

    • @Sigmarules77
      @Sigmarules77 6 років тому +6

      Victoria Black.. Before feeding somebody to your soul learn their ingredients first..

    • @Katyayanibetha
      @Katyayanibetha 6 років тому +7

      Love it too. And, there have been many who have tossed aside a pretty soul for a pretty face instead, only to end up miserable.

    • @dronepilotcanadian6427
      @dronepilotcanadian6427 6 років тому +2

      I always found it strange , people complimenting each others skin suit .. To say you are a beautiful being is more profound and meaningful. I love you guys , I will never leave this community of amazing people . btw does anyone else notice Ralph's Indigo Aura expanding exponentially lately ? It scared me at first Oddly I didn't know what the heck was up , only when I closed my eyes I Realized what it was . It's really quite beautiful welcoming and trustworthy , that man wouldn't hurt a fly yet the welcoming feeling and open arms lovingness made me very uneasy in my previous low level state, now I just welcome it back it's awesome to be alive !

    • @kirilkirilov1358
      @kirilkirilov1358 5 років тому

      lol ok

  • @YukiKunikida
    @YukiKunikida 6 років тому +139

    My mom was walking around and just by listening to you for a moment, she said:
    "He's a real balanced person, he brings you such spiritual peace, doesn't he?"
    And in my mind I was like: of course he does, how can a person bring so much peace.
    Love you Ralph.

    • @mihou8250
      @mihou8250 5 років тому +2

      Your mom is also amazing. she noticed what and who brings good to you.

    • @percyastronautstatus.8780
      @percyastronautstatus.8780 5 років тому

      Hey Karen....do u love ME too?....lol

  • @Mscoffiedash
    @Mscoffiedash 7 років тому +260

    This just made me cry knowing that I have to leave for my higher good

    • @islabonita7692
      @islabonita7692 6 років тому +30

      Making this decision is the utmost difficult decision of a lifetime. With a someone I thought was my soulmate. My energy is depleting...

    • @nahunandres6517
      @nahunandres6517 6 років тому +4

      Me too its hurts but remember after each pain there a lik gain of success

    • @HealingOceans
      @HealingOceans 6 років тому +4

      Sweetest Simone Baby I made a vlog about "what to do after a break up" would mean a lot for anyone to check it out. I really wanna help as many people as I can! Thanks! (WORTH THE WATCH)

    • @HealingOceans
      @HealingOceans 6 років тому +1

      Nahun Andres I made a vlog about "what to do after a break up" would mean a lot for anyone to check it out. I really wanna help as many people as I can! Thanks! (WORTH THE WATCH)

    • @latoniajefferson2830
      @latoniajefferson2830 6 років тому +1

      Made me cry too!

  • @lisarouse14
    @lisarouse14 8 років тому +74

    "What is meant to be, will be" has never made more sense. Hit the spot. Thank you.

  • @QueenQueenly
    @QueenQueenly 8 років тому +371

    Wonderful Video! I wasted almost two years with a idiot that drained my health, had me crying daily. Never again

    • @zendayaque9968
      @zendayaque9968 7 років тому +1

      Queen Queenly 😂😂😂

    • @kkenason8728
      @kkenason8728 6 років тому +15

      Stay strong you're doing great.
      Don't let these people suck the life out of you because they will or they can. They don't think or feel the way you do

    • @HealingOceans
      @HealingOceans 6 років тому +4

      Queen Queenly Thanks for sharing! P.s I made a vlog about "what to do after a break up" would mean a lot for anyone to check it out. I really wanna help as many people as I can! Thanks! (WORTH THE WATCH)

    • @triciadkieper3536
      @triciadkieper3536 5 років тому +2

      Queen Queenly 15 years here....

    • @HiepNguyen-jz7if
      @HiepNguyen-jz7if 5 років тому

      Seriously...

  • @Nicolehazel-marie2222
    @Nicolehazel-marie2222 7 років тому +166

    Me and my ex were apart for 15 years tried dating other people through out the years and we are back together!!! We never stopped thinking of each other both our families are beyond happy for us. I'm truly blessed 🙏🏼🙏🏾

    • @niknik1002
      @niknik1002 5 років тому +11

      Same here but we were apart 20 years ...I had a dream about him that made me cry about not having him and I finally reached out to him ..he tried a hand full of times but ignored it but after that dream I couldn't anymore...I totally understand

    • @Sariine436
      @Sariine436 5 років тому +4

      I'm only 15 LOL

    • @Clickybux
      @Clickybux 5 років тому +3

      Infinite Love22 wow! why did you break up in the beginning?

    • @Charleswhite2
      @Charleswhite2 2 роки тому

      Is that even possible?

    • @Materiastral
      @Materiastral Рік тому

      My hope bar raised to MAX THANKS!!!

  • @sunbabe4
    @sunbabe4 8 років тому +309

    Once you have to question if you should stay or go. That's how you know when its time to go :) ♥

    • @missladypaigee
      @missladypaigee 6 років тому +17

      Debbie Tran seems like it would make sense but it only does when it doesn’t involve me :(

    • @user-iu6bv8vu8o
      @user-iu6bv8vu8o 5 років тому +13

      So true! If your questioning it- its a red flag...

    • @MansSuperPower
      @MansSuperPower 5 років тому +4

      Thank you.

    • @yourbestlife3905
      @yourbestlife3905 4 роки тому +1

      Yes

    • @alym5778
      @alym5778 3 роки тому

      So true..

  • @cherylmcleod7357
    @cherylmcleod7357 8 років тому +92

    That's why it's hard for narcissistic ppl to love and show empathy...they're living in their egos...light bulb moment...thx u infinite waters...love ur videos

    • @lindapooh1970
      @lindapooh1970 5 років тому +3

      I was with 1 23 years. Almost put the little light within me totally out. Please run if your with one. I'm finally living again❤

    • @ilovecats4208
      @ilovecats4208 5 років тому +1

      @@lindapooh1970 how did you get better? I broke up with mine a year ago and he's still doing the flying monkey thing/spreading rumours. But I still love him and can't stop thinking about him. But I've become a recluse; scared to leave the house, depressed, don't trust anyone. How do I move on? He's not showing any signs of wanting me back.

    • @Smellslikenarcspirit
      @Smellslikenarcspirit 5 років тому +1

      @@ilovecats4208 this is no live you have , i,ve come from a narc family and it nearly killed me . They are no good for you . Learn to develop the elephant skin . Once developed criticism is like a bullet who is deflected from armour . Get under youre narc,s skin simply by letting him see how succesfull you are , it causes a nacisistic injury . Because these lowlife,s only want to see you suffer . Ask the flying monkey,s how it is to be the tool of the narc and are they enjoying it to be the narc,s instrument , ask them ore they do have a own opinion ore just being the speechpuppet of their narc master .

  • @InthatStage
    @InthatStage 8 років тому +79

    A relationship doesnt have to be perfect... It has to be REAL... Thanks once again for such a thought-provoking video! Life IS fantastic!

  • @Cottoncandylaces
    @Cottoncandylaces 8 років тому +334

    He posts at the perfect time.

    • @corsicanlulu
      @corsicanlulu 8 років тому +29

      not really, its just universal synchronicity

    • @Heatherharteson
      @Heatherharteson 7 років тому +9

      That is because there is no "time." The "perfect time" is only an illusion. Are you hearing this at the same "time" as someone else? Or are you hearing this at the "perfect time" for you? If there is no such thing as "time," maybe you are just hearing this because you are supposed to be hearing it NOW. Let go of time. It does not exist. You are hearing Ralph's messages because you connected with him through Divine intervention. (so did I.) The messages are also coming to you through Divine Intervention. They might not exist for someone else. Everyone gets what they need when they are connected. Ralph's messages might not even exist for someone who is not connected. Ralph might not even exist in their dimension. You get what you need when you need it if you are deep diving. Even the cat down the road gets that. ;)

    • @dronepilotcanadian6427
      @dronepilotcanadian6427 6 років тому

      Always!

    • @septicalfrogs
      @septicalfrogs 5 років тому

      Two years later, the perfect time for me to see this is now.

    • @itsjoy987
      @itsjoy987 5 років тому

      trueeee

  • @nomathembamasemula3544
    @nomathembamasemula3544 8 років тому +48

    You become less of yourself when your can't become vulnerable to someone else 🙌🏼 that's all I needed

  • @nothingbutme1150
    @nothingbutme1150 8 років тому +241

    Hi Ralph,
    Every time i watch your videos i tend to smile and laugh a lot and this joy comes from my heart,also i tend to tear up because the topics you touch on because it gives me so much clarity.
    I want to say thank you for helping me find the real me again in a time where the darkness is trying to dim all of our light.

    • @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart
      @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart  8 років тому +19

      Thank you Beloved. Infinite love and balance. :) YOU ARE AMAZING!!!

    • @tanisha_tlc
      @tanisha_tlc 8 років тому +10

      Shannon G so true!!!!! ❤

    • @thisislaflaretv5250
      @thisislaflaretv5250 8 років тому +13

      Ralph u are helping me thru a major transition in my life. Staying out of my own way. learning to love myself. still working on the vegan challenge. Do u do online seminars or coaching. if not thanks anyway. I won't won't give up life is beautiful

    • @ChrisBrown-cb4bq
      @ChrisBrown-cb4bq 8 років тому +1

      Right you are about the darkness shannon, it is subtle, if someone has no idea at all, it tries to destroy them, anyway i saw your name, when i was born my mum always wanted to name me shannon, years later she gets a reading done and gets a chalk drawing of one of her guides, he had the the third eye marking shoulder length brown hair, and his name was shannon, thank you i hope like this :)

    • @HealingOceans
      @HealingOceans 6 років тому

      Colene S I made a vlog about "what to do after a break up" would mean a lot for anyone to check it out. I really wanna help as many people as I can! Thanks! (WORTH THE WATCH)

  • @kamisiannebrown8549
    @kamisiannebrown8549 8 років тому +36

    I have to be honest Ralph.... you got me when you ask " Can I speak my mind ?" Can I be myself around this person ? ....Deep ... deep

  • @nodaysoff2005
    @nodaysoff2005 8 років тому +18

    Perfect timing! the best advice I ever got from my friend is, "Shed them tears and BOSS UP". I say that to myself every time.

  • @XAudreyS
    @XAudreyS 8 років тому +28

    im a deep diver that goes back. I've been watching your channel since 2013!! it has changed my life!! thank you Ralph Smart.

    • @DwnNTexas
      @DwnNTexas 7 років тому +1

      XAudreyS i also

  • @dishakocharekar
    @dishakocharekar 8 років тому +111

    i swear you're my spiritual guide. and you're someone whom god sent into my life to make it much better. you're so on point and on exact timing. it's been 3 am in the morning in India, and i was thinking and thinking. i decided to go online and hear some asmr so that i could get some sleep. but again seeing your new video in the notifications made me think, howwww howww you have every solution to what is going on in my head. thankk you soo much.. (sorry for my english tho- 😝)

  • @KtoddN
    @KtoddN 6 років тому +1

    I was just scrolling and found this video. I couldn't stop listening because I've been in a bad relationship now for almost 8 years. I've realized she is a narcissistic person. I think life made her that way. I'm at a point where I love her with all my heart but I can't keep living this way. I give everything and she takes and she makes me feel bad about myself. I realized when you asked can I be vulnerable around her, the answer is no. She insults me, she knows what hurts me and she uses those things to keep me down. She even lies to people to make herself look better. Ive lost friends and family, they cant stand her. Im not me, with her. So thank you! This is helping me to make the decision I have to make.

  • @melissaobrien5014
    @melissaobrien5014 8 років тому +11

    before i turned on youtube i asked for a sign and then here it was!!! Thankyou you will never know how much i needed this .... peace.

  • @saphiirehearts4823
    @saphiirehearts4823 5 років тому +1

    Almost burst into tears within 4 minutes of the video. My partner has been there and done so much to help me since we've gotten together. Both of us deal with anxiety and other mental health issues, but we've always made it work. Our daughter is two and a beautiful gem in our lives.
    "We become less of ourselves when we can't be valnerable with someone else..." He and I talk about everything, we'd meditate, go on hikes, smile, eat healthy, laugh, and play with our daughter... We were golden.
    Recently though, we have gone through two moves in two months, and his grandfather became ill and passed away completely unexpectedly (not that anyone could really predict death, but still). His grand dad, while still in hospice, confided in him and I that he was ready to pass and made his peace with it. My partners grandmother, however, was not ready for such change (they'd been married nearly 65 years).
    We moved in to take care of his grandmother full time right after his grandfather was put into the hospital. His grandmother did not expect my daughter and I to move with my fiance. She thought he would up and leave me and his daughter, to drop everything to soley be with her alone. She does not approve of me. She did not think that my partner is actually the father of our daughter. She does not approve of our daughter. Even though we are engaged, she still harrasses us about not being married. Since we've moved in, I have taken over everything I use to do for our home, and more. My partner has slowly been loosing himself because of his grandmother berating him, belittling him, and essentially destroying the man I knew. We had been working with his depression to where the break downs were less frequent. Now, its almost daily. I feel like I'm drowning and trying to drag us both to shore.
    I would do anything for this man. I love him. But his grandmother is destroying him, and even myself to a point, that I won't be able to help him until she, unfortunately, is in a retirement home or passes away. Their relationship is destroyed. We can't communicate properly around her. He is not allowed to be sick around her. She treats him as a child and has even tried to " parent" and put her hands on OUR child. I set her straight though to never touch our child without permission. I don't care who she is.
    I stand up for my partner. I side with him. I try to pull him out of the depression episodes and hold him when he breaks. I love him when he is broken and when he is together. I am fighting both our battles right now on my own. I am exhausted always.
    We can't walk away from her because she needs us, even if she doesn't want to admit it. I don't know what to do about this situation. Neither of us are progressing anymore, and all because of one person. It is to the point that my fiance has said he no longer knows 'that woman' and that is not the grandmother he remembered from his youth days. She has turned from sweet, kind, loving, and outgoing to become cold, distant, angry, bitter, hateful, spiteful, resentful, and so much more.
    My partners looked at me today, tears in his eyes and said, "I am surprised you haven't left me by now..."
    I shook my head and replied, "For better or for worse, right? I'm not going anywhere. Leaving would be easy, staying is the hard part. "
    He said, "Anyone else would have left me by now, anyone sane would have been long gone."
    I replied, "We might not be married yet, but we've already said our vows. For better or foe worse. So if this is the "worse" that only means that things can get "better". We've just got to keep trying."
    I don't know why, but the video just reaffirmed that I am here for the right reasons of loving him. Our current situation may be stressful as hell, and his grandmother on my every nerve about how she acts and tries to treat my family, but I am here for HIM. We will find a way to be happy once again. And if she chooses not to be then that is her choice. I'm done playing her games. I want to live and noth feel restrained or suffocated.
    So blessed be.

    • @tcsgirl6865
      @tcsgirl6865 5 років тому +1

      I love your commitment. Very few people are loyal and committed these days. Regarding grandmother, let me say that my mom became uglier after my dad passed. I'm sure she feels her own anxieties and fears after losing her husband and those fears are making her act out and act ugly. Sometimes understanding this can soften the hurt. You stay strong and committed. I'm proud of you. And I wish only the best for you and yours. 💕

  • @kirsten_sovereignbeing
    @kirsten_sovereignbeing 8 років тому +254

    I love how you always find a way to promote veganism in every video ☺️

    • @corsicanlulu
      @corsicanlulu 8 років тому +11

      i love that too!

    • @starseed484
      @starseed484 5 років тому +3

      YES!!! Agree 100%
      💜 I love that too , very much so

  • @KB-kc8jm
    @KB-kc8jm 8 років тому +51

    Ralph you have my house bugged!! 4 days in a row you have been on subject!! thank you!!

  • @msbumblebumblebeez
    @msbumblebumblebeez 8 років тому +7

    Key points! Old souls feel vibes rather than see the physical, we sing the same song. You rock, I appreciate you man!

  • @organicvegawithvira5846
    @organicvegawithvira5846 6 років тому +22

    LOVE DOESN'T HAVE TO BE PERFECT IT ONLY HAS TO BE REAL = so much light in these words :)

  • @Jillsgifts
    @Jillsgifts 6 років тому +75

    This brother is so woke !🔥🔥🔥🔥👌🏼

  • @kenzabo633
    @kenzabo633 8 років тому +211

    your videos makes me really relax and calm down even in the hardest moments thank you so much for your positive energy

    • @ralphsmart3426
      @ralphsmart3426 8 років тому +10

      Thank you Beloved. Thank you and the millions of deep divers on the website: www.ralphsmart.com :)

    • @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart
      @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart  8 років тому +32

      Thank you. Infinite love and balance. :)

    • @Dallasgeri1
      @Dallasgeri1 8 років тому +7

      Almost at 1 million dude, keep up the good ass prana videos.

  • @RiDeTeHBuZz
    @RiDeTeHBuZz 8 років тому +9

    I always considered myself to be awakened...since avery young age...my father taught me, how-ever subtly...I had lost myself fo awhile..the last couple years, I became a rather heavy alcoholic... but recently just stumbling across your video's was like a blessing to bring me back to my roots ..the symbiotic energies you instill in you video's is supern. How can you not live in abundance when you're such a conduit of positivety

    • @ashleyfalcon125
      @ashleyfalcon125 6 років тому +1

      craig helman best comment ever! I love the honesty in this. 🤩🙌🏻 hope everything worked out for u & ur recovery! One day at a time ;))

  • @islabonita7692
    @islabonita7692 6 років тому +21

    Ralph, my Daughter converted me when she was in 6th grade. She wished for pygmy goats for her Birthday and the love we had for those goats inspired her to become vegan. Not for her health, for the love of the animal. I'm so grateful I gave birth to such as an awakened baby. She's 24 now, still Vegan and with a dream of having her own Mexican Vegan food Restaurant! I love it!! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!! I love you Ralph!!

    • @ninaadams4713
      @ninaadams4713 6 років тому +1

      I'll come to that restaurant 😊😋

    • @clovy1146
      @clovy1146 5 років тому

      Me too and can we play with the goats too please? They're so dang cute and lovable.

  • @s.elizabeth1753
    @s.elizabeth1753 6 років тому +12

    I actually feel like you heal me within 1 minute of the video. Makes me feel better listening to you

    • @Materiastral
      @Materiastral Рік тому

      I repeated it like 5 times already!! So powerful jewels

  • @karishort7561
    @karishort7561 6 років тому +47

    8 months in I realized my bf was a narcissist. He drains my energy so badly at times I feel like I'm going to die. I never could even ask myself the questions you posed in this video. I don't feel good around him 😥 he makes me physically sick 😪😥😭😭 God bless you kind sir for helping the ones that need you 🙏💕

    • @nellienelly1605
      @nellienelly1605 6 років тому +3

      Kari Short Leave him 💔

    • @karishort7561
      @karishort7561 6 років тому +10

      Nellie Nelly I moved back home 5 states away. It has been hard but I know it will get easier 🙏

    • @mademia9764
      @mademia9764 6 років тому +9

      Kari, I also realized my bf was a Narc very early in the relationship. At first I knew nothing about what a Narc was, but after so many silent treatments, no empathy, no encouragement, very detached, I then looked up what I was dealing with. Been with him 1.5 years and already he drains my entire life. I feel emotional and sick when we speak. I tried to play it cool until after a trip in Sept, but at this point I dont think I can go on. I will just have to take a loss on the trip. We don't live together, thank god, so getting over him I feel will be easy and if it isn't, the temporary pain I will feel will surely be much better than the pain I will feel if I stay. Peace to you and I hope find the strength to stay gone.

    • @xelaphilia
      @xelaphilia 6 років тому +1

      Leave him. Just do it.

    • @OmbreFaye
      @OmbreFaye 6 років тому +1

      I'm going through this and more...😢

  • @BertieBrosnan
    @BertieBrosnan 8 років тому +10

    Probably your most captivating videos yet, really felt like you were talking to me, there was a 'proper' seriousness to you. I felt you were actually teaching and I really enjoyed it. Thank you, Ralph!

  • @Viho.
    @Viho. 8 років тому +123

    my relationship just broke up two minutes before this video came out in my notification.

    • @SoSoSlick420
      @SoSoSlick420 8 років тому +15

      Chris Dawson I love you.

    • @Viho.
      @Viho. 8 років тому +11

      artnayirs lol thanks I love you too .!

    • @mYrAiNxHQ
      @mYrAiNxHQ 8 років тому +5

      much strenght for you :)

    • @xylophoneize
      @xylophoneize 6 років тому +8

      *Amma sendin' you tons of positive energy.*
      *TAKE THAT, TAKE THAT, TAKE THAT*

    • @msfourroux
      @msfourroux 6 років тому +2

      Chris Dawson hope you are still loving you and breathing that deep ass prana baby!!!! Xo

  • @Drambles77
    @Drambles77 8 років тому +9

    The universe has presented me with your video at the exact time I needed to hear it. Thank you for your thoughts, time and energy, Ralph. Love and Peace

  • @kingdomchyldmoments4081
    @kingdomchyldmoments4081 6 років тому +7

    Those ppl will literally and sneakily bring you down to their level and laugh but if you let go forgive and move on know matter what is or was involved you will continue on your purpose!

  • @c1pla780
    @c1pla780 8 років тому +90

    Your voice calm me down so much! Thank you

  • @marrriiee
    @marrriiee 8 років тому +41

    This one moved me. Your videos are just something I can't even type 🕊🌿

  • @bjust7829
    @bjust7829 8 років тому +19

    You can tell he was really feeling this one. Love your videos thank you Ralph!

  • @TheLanuella
    @TheLanuella 8 років тому +44

    I just found your channel and I've been watching your videos for almost an hour and I have to say you're a very unique and interesting person and I love your aura, keep doing what you're doing cuz we need people like you! Love from Poland

  • @booboograyson1664
    @booboograyson1664 4 роки тому +5

    I felt that positive energy as soon as this video started!

  • @blazemason821
    @blazemason821 5 років тому +2

    "Does your health improve around them" it hurts but that speaks really deep, thank you.

  • @sophiesworld1042
    @sophiesworld1042 6 років тому +12

    Just some thoughts I was having before:
    There are 3 kinds of vibrations you can have with people:
    The first one feels deep and low. It's like the bottom of the ocean
    The second one is right in the middle, you feel them at your same height
    The third one is elevated, it's a high vibration, higher than yourself
    Does this make any sense for someone else too?

  • @JesusLovesEVERYTHING
    @JesusLovesEVERYTHING 6 років тому +2

    Funny how this video pops up literally a year after the fact and right when i needed to see it.. I've been asking myself this question for a couple years now and can take anything the universe gives me but i will only surround myself around people who love me as i am. Thanks for coming thru once again ralph.

  • @emiliabustamante9117
    @emiliabustamante9117 6 років тому +3

    Thank you mister. I am in a relationship for almost two years. Recently I have experienced a spiritual awakening but I feel this relationship no longer serves us. I am always mad because he doesn't understand me, So I owe it to both of us to be truthful. Thank you for sharing your experience.🦁

  • @verinb9
    @verinb9 5 років тому

    I could listen to Ralph talk all day but my favorite subject from him is relationships. He's so sincere and genuine and even his smile throughout the whole video is pure! U can tell that he really cares. Thank u Ralph, u make my day. Love from Ft Bragg! 😊🙌🙏👑

  • @christinebush3782
    @christinebush3782 5 років тому +5

    Infinite Waters, you just healed most of my broken heart. We love each other although it’s not the kind of love I want because I don’t desire to feel anymore pain. We’re both growing and it’s not all about lust SOOOO I’m staying and am crying over here from relief #Pisces thank you 🙏🏽 my dear brother 💜

  • @Autumn_Forest_
    @Autumn_Forest_ 7 років тому +73

    I feel that my bf and I should have just been buddies rather than a couple. We are sooooo different in important ways, but we have the same sense of humor and used to have great conversations (not so much now, since we aren't clicking as much anymore). We have never been really good together, but we care about each other. It's sad because I don't want to hurt him.

    • @MaiXoxo3
      @MaiXoxo3 6 років тому +10

      same with my husband

    • @direxioner
      @direxioner 6 років тому +3

      Exactly the same situation, and on top of that I have realized I have feelings for a person who has been my friend for 3 years... And they have feelings for me too😬

    • @ARealCookinMama
      @ARealCookinMama 5 років тому +5

      Nakidz Literally in the same situation! We’d recently decided to end our couple relationship, but we’re still good friends... it’s all about making your feelings clear. Luckily we were on the same page and there wasn’t hostility or resentment involved. I hope that things worked out for you!

    • @mywater6796
      @mywater6796 5 років тому

      @@MaiXoxo3 😂 wow

  • @maryvlad4821
    @maryvlad4821 6 років тому +4

    It's the first time somebody speaks what I have in my heart. I agree totally. Good health is indication and elevation also.

  • @valdezd625
    @valdezd625 5 років тому +25

    I think I've outgrown my husband. I have changed so much and he is still the same. I love him and we were so insanely in love until I changed. But we also have 2 kids and I don't want to complicate things for them, and I'm not sure how to handle this.

    • @tainocris9664
      @tainocris9664 5 років тому

      How are things holding up now??

    • @tainocris9664
      @tainocris9664 5 років тому +3

      Im 23 yr old and i been with my wife since i was 16. We dont have kids but i feel like im becoming more mature and shes not. We dont see eye to eye with anythings and we cant have disagreements without her getting mad. I love her but she doesnt make me feel good. I wake up and feel like im walking on eggshells. She slams doors and yells when she doesnt grt her way.. She isnt trying to do anything with her life and shes extremely lazy.what should i do before i know forsure its time to move on?

    • @Bigpapichulo0890
      @Bigpapichulo0890 5 років тому +2

      TainoCris 96 Brother if you know and recognize you have done all you can for her, it’s best you separate yourself from her. No Divorce but just a separation and give her time to find what’s really important to her. It will be a test for the both of you because this “could” end in Divorce. The realistic with you brother, there might be things that might come to light about behavior patterns you didn’t see before. She might leave and be her better self OR you might leave and have a better life. But this is necessary if you are trying to find yourself and the answers you seek

    • @tainocris9664
      @tainocris9664 5 років тому +1

      @@Bigpapichulo0890 thank youi needef to hear this

    • @chelseag2444
      @chelseag2444 4 роки тому

      Ana Blake dame, how is everything going for you

  • @hexahexa6193
    @hexahexa6193 7 років тому

    I opened up, i was judged and stopped to be loved and respected, stopped to be attractive... It turned out much to late, after it had already stolen a huge part of my health. I'm still in love..., it hurts. I loved unconditionally this person, so i will always. For two years i was searching in me the fault responsible for what is wrong in our relationship, blaming myself also for"unrealistic"needs.Why did i attract this relationship? I was full of love and light when it happened to me. It must have been one of fated then. Lesson, for me, for both of us, it is me who decided to part. I can't and i should not convience someone that i'm worthy being loved for who i am... Thank you for sharing light. Peace

  • @J3m51mct
    @J3m51mct 6 років тому +11

    Don’t forget to ask yourself how benificial it is to be emotionally attached to the believe system of a feeling or emotion YOU CREATED with your brain 🤔🤔🤔
    Isn’t all about perception and reaction

  • @idyllicverve1320
    @idyllicverve1320 7 років тому

    You have completely inspired me and helped me to realize my higher calling. I have been searching and searching for truth and have finally found it. It was truly a blessing to find you. Peace and love ✌❤

  • @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart
    @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart  8 років тому +101

    You Are Worthy. :-)
    How to Stop Caring What People Think
    Website: www.ralphsmart.com
    Instagram: infinitewaters

    • @beastvision2182
      @beastvision2182 8 років тому +2

      can i talk to you Ralph? like over Email or personalty, I live in Michigan. so i doubt we can meet. I know your a busy man, i just would like to tell you what im going through right now.

    • @FormerY5AyzoK
      @FormerY5AyzoK 8 років тому +1

      Infinite Waters (Diving Deep) Thx

    • @queenchiti-rah1138
      @queenchiti-rah1138 8 років тому

      Mari Ann leave him alone
      He's gonna hurt your feelings. cant build something solid on shaky ground. Peace be with you

    • @superstar455
      @superstar455 8 років тому

      Infinite Waters (Diving Deep) thank you somethings I'll admit that feeling loneliness is overwhelming but it that much earlier with your insight ego could be messed at times

    • @MrChambers8109
      @MrChambers8109 8 років тому +3

      Mari anne Nothing is wrong with you. Part of the problem, is lack of boundaries. We have to KNOW which things we won't allow. Sometimes this boils down to demanding respect, and respecting yourself. A married person can not fully invest in you, AND their spouse. Period. Even if he left his wife, there is damage that will occur to his kids. And, his nature, is going to do what he did to his wife, to you. I hope this helped.

  • @anaiahevans1540
    @anaiahevans1540 5 років тому +2

    Peace and love to you Ralph for clarifying things over the years! I’m so proud of your success and commitment to helping others 💕 I love you man 😁

  • @nnekayshralbatyah4057
    @nnekayshralbatyah4057 6 років тому +6

    Wow!!! Does this person bring you health or take it away-do they deplete your energy?? Dayum!!! That’s deep

  • @LightandTruth
    @LightandTruth 6 років тому

    Im so happy you posted this video, I've been dealing with my toxic family. I love my family, but they never support anything I do. I moved from out of state and my parents gave me hell. So I cut them out of my life and told them I don't feel comfortable around them, but they still don't understand. This video helped me a lot, they were grain in me everyday. Now not anymore. Thank you infinite waters. ♥️

  • @nnekayshralbatyah4057
    @nnekayshralbatyah4057 6 років тому +19

    Respecting the soul of each person...wow

  • @lauriebryan7620
    @lauriebryan7620 5 років тому

    I am new to your channel. I love what I’m hearing. I started my spiritual journey to heal myself from the hurt and pain I’ve experienced throughout life and more recently in my 22 year marriage. It’s empowering to be on this journey and learn to speak my truth. I am a nonconfrontational person. But I’m learning to be more confident and love myself. There have been lies and betrayal. Things I always said I would never tolerate. My logical mind says leave but my heart says you aren’t strong enough yet. I don’t want to leave. But I have a feeling it may happen.... not because I want to but because I have to. Awkward silences little to talk about. This is what I was afraid would happen. I saw this coming and talked to him about it. The kids are pretty much moved out. At least one is. Marines. Married. And now living about 7 hours away. The fast ride has slowed down and I’m finding my worst fears are coming true. I don’t know my husband anymore. I told him a year ago we needed to go on dates. Spend more time together. I did t want to be like most of our friends...divorced. That lasted about seven to eight weeks. Then I found out he’s keeping stuff from me. Too complicated to get into. Thank you for sharing this video. It seems very logical to hear these things but to think about this on a deeper level and when you’re ready to hear these things is very...I can’t think of the word......I did not intend for this post to be so long but I feel better. Thank you 💕

    • @rachelmoore8199
      @rachelmoore8199 5 років тому +1

      Sending you love. Me in a situation as well.. difficult making choices. I think the unknown is scary but it is also a new change to re-create. Stay strong and stay true to your heart. Age doenst matter. Being happy and peace of heart and mind is more important i think. Thanks for shearing. You are not alone, alot of people stuggle and it is part of life. Your not alone and i hope i bring a little smile on your face and fill your heart with care and love as you read this. Big hug, Namaste 🙏

    • @lauriebryan7620
      @lauriebryan7620 5 років тому +1

      Rachel Moore 😊💕 thank you

    • @rachelmoore8199
      @rachelmoore8199 5 років тому +1

      @@lauriebryan7620 ❤😘🥰🙌🙏🏆

  • @Ocean40197
    @Ocean40197 8 років тому +5

    i was just thinking about this question in my head thn seconds later i look on my phone and this video pops up in my notifications....awesome confirmation!!!!

  • @shaguftasheikh5337
    @shaguftasheikh5337 5 років тому

    Our Love has grown for you, as you speak the Truth, which is always hidden in many situations, through multiple unknown reasons.

  • @priyaarcher25
    @priyaarcher25 8 років тому +7

    oh my gosh.I just cant stop watching your videos.

    • @priyaarcher25
      @priyaarcher25 8 років тому +1

      Hi ralph and thank you.Im sorry i didnt say that before.

  • @kaitlingoldiss1196
    @kaitlingoldiss1196 5 років тому +1

    You’re the best Ralph. I just recently got back into watching your videos & am loving it
    i am a whole foods plant based vegan 🌱💚 Unfortunately im in a relationship with someone who only decides to eat mcdonalds everyday. I live with him and have nowhere to go right now, but im praying to my angels to make a new way for me. I Love your energy it always makes me feel better :-) sending you love and light

  • @chelsearose2441
    @chelsearose2441 8 років тому +4

    Thank you this was on my mind so much lately. I feel you answered the questions of my heart. I'm an old soul and I've always had a hard time in love. I've always felt like I compromise myself and then I'm not whole anymore.

  • @lawulf
    @lawulf 5 років тому

    Thank you Ralph, I'm going through the most rough time with my family some of them have told me I am worth nothing but you have helped me to find the way and show myself love and surround myself with my real family. Thank you.

  • @EmpressZenQuarian
    @EmpressZenQuarian 8 років тому +34

    Beloved Ralph, you're the best. I appreciate you so much. This video is right on point👌

    • @ralphsmart3426
      @ralphsmart3426 8 років тому +7

      Thank you Beloved. Infinite love and balanced. :)

  • @n00ji
    @n00ji 8 років тому

    this video couldn't have come into my life at a better time. I recently broke up with my boyfriend and recently I've been debating cutting him out of my life because whenever we talk he ends up just making me feel upset, but i felt guilty about wanting that. This video helped tremendously in clearing the fog, thank you, and keep doing what you do :)

  • @steventhomas101
    @steventhomas101 8 років тому +13

    I feel like a broken record sometimes but dude your videos are awesome! thanks brother😁😁

  • @jameslynch7769
    @jameslynch7769 5 років тому +1

    Man, your wisdom is deep...how old are you?
    Love your material, very educational and informing. Allows greater understanding of many of today's current society with complicated issues, and things that normally would be difficult to find without guidance.

  • @TheAscendedArchmage
    @TheAscendedArchmage 8 років тому +3

    just going through a hard breakup, perfect timing

  • @beautyspot82
    @beautyspot82 6 років тому

    I'm at this stage now. Married for 6 years, together for 10. I've changed a lot. He hasn't. I spoke to him so many times about support, about growing whichever way he wants, doesn't have to be in the same direction as me. But it's always pulling teeth with him. I love him but I am not in love anymore because of built up resentment over this. I still don't know whether to stay or leave. Thanks for this video. It's what I've been saying to him for years.

  • @Mybizness89
    @Mybizness89 5 років тому +7

    Your so incredible it's insane! My soul feels happy listening to you ❤❤

  • @sherlanapollonais8122
    @sherlanapollonais8122 4 роки тому +1

    This includes family’s sometimes there not good for your healthy . Thanks for sharing this is what I need to hear

  • @healingsoultrekker
    @healingsoultrekker 8 років тому +29

    Dang slow motion on this one...the best in me or the stress in me.

  • @joa-q7j
    @joa-q7j 5 років тому +1

    Ralph you’re AWESOME, you make me feel valuable, and worth it. Thank you, there are still awesome humans beings like you up there 😘 Don’t ever change

  • @Stridewalker
    @Stridewalker 8 років тому +11

    It's crazy how you are on the same page of life as me right now! I'm so grateful for your words of advice!

  • @superstar455
    @superstar455 8 років тому +1

    I honesty come on this channel when I have nowhere else to literally think your telepathic because of how spot on you are reporting live from Somalia ✌

  • @juliethao570
    @juliethao570 6 років тому +3

    It makes me smile when you say feel so good to be alive. Thank you for making me smile. You are awesome!!!!!!
    Julie T.

  • @The1TrueTeacher
    @The1TrueTeacher 5 років тому

    Ralph been stepping away to see clearly, like you said we are all one, no real separation..... the love will speak for itself.... time to stabilize my vibrations.... thanks Ralph

  • @monster-dj7rr
    @monster-dj7rr 8 років тому +7

    watching your videos is starting become like daily routine for me and definitely inspired me with my music so big thanks :)

  • @crazymonkey12967
    @crazymonkey12967 8 років тому

    Honestly Ralph, it feels as if you are in front of me, telling me this. It feels as if I can feel your energy, and it instantly makes me feel like my true innate self, and also brings those positive vibes! Thank you very much my friend!!

  • @RippleDrop.
    @RippleDrop. 6 років тому +12

    Trauma bonds also make you think about a person often. Not all compulsive thinking is related to twin flames.

    • @kissesforthemisses
      @kissesforthemisses 5 років тому +1

      This is so true. I read a post on IG quite a few weeks ago (you may have seen or heard it before), but it went to the tune of "When we come together with someone we have to ask ourselves 'are we meeting heart to heart or wound to wound?'..."
      It was referring to sex but I believe it can apply to a broader range of situations. Your response made me think of just that. Trauma bonds, too😬.

    • @keyanna2633
      @keyanna2633 4 роки тому

      @@kissesforthemisses "are we meeting heart to heart or wound to wound" VERY PRFOUND!

  • @arteikah
    @arteikah 4 роки тому +1

    Omy goodness your videos are so peaceful you are love and joy my friend . Great video

  • @AngelaPortugal26
    @AngelaPortugal26 5 років тому +3

    Deep down inside us we already know the answer, our intuition already told us the answer.. This video just validates it..
    I already knew within 2w of being in a relationship but stayed for 3m...what a waste of time... Nothing real on it, and it damaged my health..it was only one sided, my side..never settle for less than you worth

  • @rhondelallen3957
    @rhondelallen3957 5 років тому

    Am with her overlooking all negativity but truly draining and am being used and constantly stressed we are not on the same page thanks...

  • @professorpvp
    @professorpvp 8 років тому +8

    Thank you Ralph, I just wanted to say I wouldn't be a vegan if it wasn't for you and I wouldn't be on the way to my greatest version. Your a great guy and keep up the good work, I know you probably hear that a lot though.

  • @jamesestrada6322
    @jamesestrada6322 5 років тому

    I hope you see this question Ralph. Been watching you for years and have helped me look into myself raise my own mindfulness which I am ever grateful for. The question is, how many twin flames do you believe exist for a person? Open to anybody's responses :)

  • @shaquillekatene5596
    @shaquillekatene5596 6 років тому +3

    Your smile alone made me feel good.

  • @GG-rk1bu
    @GG-rk1bu 3 роки тому

    Thanks again Ralph! Your wisdom is always so comforting, profound & timely. "Does this person improve my health?", "Am I less of myself or more of myself with them?" "Do they allow me to be open to them?" Questions I'm going to ask myself continually in my dating journey.

  • @paulisiaV
    @paulisiaV 5 років тому +6

    I want to say just one thing - thank you.

  • @Libran1717-us8qp
    @Libran1717-us8qp 5 років тому

    Say it again, we become less of ourselves when we can't be vulnerable around them! Very true

  • @veggiesarah9437
    @veggiesarah9437 8 років тому +31

    Ralph! I need help. I was never taught by my parents how to stand up for myself and speak my mind. I am 22 and I hold an incredible amount of stress and weight on my shoulders for never standing up and speaking out. Can you please do a video on this? It would change my entire life. I need the advice. Thanks Ralph, you are so inspiring.

    • @MaiXoxo3
      @MaiXoxo3 6 років тому +5

      You might need alone time to think and learn to say no sometimes. Take small steps at a time.

    • @sierraforever2954
      @sierraforever2954 4 роки тому

      I had a hard time standing up for myself too. It just takes someone stepping on your toes too much and something will finally click. You will get the courage to do it. When you do you will feel great !I believe in you. 💗

  • @YesThatPrettyGirL
    @YesThatPrettyGirL 6 років тому +1

    You always make me smile - and forever enlightening my spirit❣️”Love doesn’t have to be perfect, just be real”. NICE. ty 🙏

  • @nnekayshralbatyah4057
    @nnekayshralbatyah4057 6 років тому +18

    Ego- 3 letter word that can destroy the 12 letter word relationship! Mmph!

  • @sequoia4631
    @sequoia4631 7 років тому +1

    Ralph, this is one of my favorite videos of yours. It really touched my heart and at this point in my life that's not the easiest thing to do. Thank you so much.

  • @Cryptocrazyog
    @Cryptocrazyog 8 років тому +3

    777th like. May the power of love overcome darkness. Thank you for this Ralph

  • @beashsimmons1541
    @beashsimmons1541 5 років тому

    It's hard bc I just got out of a very abusive relationship... I am terrified all the time to be myself to open up.. I'm always in fear of judgment and oppression (supression?)... it's getting better and the man I'm with now has aided in my healing and he didn't even kbiw he was doing it... in the beginning I didn't either... but I am constantly second guessing not only everyone around me but myself. This man is a Pisces and I am an Aquarius and it just makes since. I guess I'm also learning tho... about twin flames soul mates and all relationships... so I'm diving deep but I tend to get too far ahead of myself and end up losing myself in everything... Thank you Ralph.. you are important in my journey!

  • @ahmedmajeed4951
    @ahmedmajeed4951 8 років тому +209

    Thank you dear brother, perfect timing : - )

    • @ralphsmart3426
      @ralphsmart3426 8 років тому +7

      Thank you good brother. :)

    • @Almedia78
      @Almedia78 8 років тому +7

      For me too. I wonder if the upcoming eclipse has anything to do with it...

    • @positivevibesonly4426
      @positivevibesonly4426 8 років тому +2

      Almedia78 omg!!! I was wondering the same thing!!!

    • @ericbenson2760
      @ericbenson2760 8 років тому +1

      I literally had this thought, and then I got an email notification that my man was doing a vid on it. Talk about in sync lol.

    • @DreamDimension
      @DreamDimension 8 років тому +6

      Always perfect timing for me. Kinda scary.

  • @christineradomiljac9308
    @christineradomiljac9308 3 роки тому

    Through trials & tribulations being with people throughout my journey I have learnt a lot.
    Know their spirit soul within & by what comes out their mouth & you'll know if you resonate with that one or not.?!!

  • @mimzers1
    @mimzers1 5 років тому +14

    I always get thrown off when you say daddy’s home 😂😭🤦🏽‍♀️😩