The Dangers of Kindness in Your Life | Zen Buddhist Stories
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- Опубліковано 15 чер 2024
- Title: ''The Dangers of Kindness in Your Life | Zen Buddhist Stories''
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"Buddhist wisdom reveals the hidden dangers of excessive kindness. Join us as we uncover the pitfalls-from attachment to burnout-and explore pathways to authentic compassion. Discover how balancing kindness with self-care and empowerment fosters genuine connections and personal growth."
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Timestamps:
00:00✅Introductory quote of Gautama Buddha
01:12✅[Number 1: The Pitfalls of Attachment]
03:21✅[Number 2: Sacrificing Self-Care]
05:33✅[Number 3: Boundary Issues]
07:54✅[Number 4: Enabling Negative Behavior]
10:18✅[Number 5: Resentment and Burnout]
12:43✅[Number 6: Emotional Exhaustion]
15:08✅[Number 7: False Sense of Obligation]
17:37✅[Number 8: Loss of Authenticity]
19:59✅[Number 9: Disempowering Others]
22:12✅[Number 10: Missing Opportunities for Growth]
24:17✅Conclusion
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Timestamps:
00:00✅Introductory quote of Gautama Buddha
01:12✅[Number 1: The Pitfalls of Attachment]
03:21✅[Number 2: Sacrificing Self-Care]
05:33✅[Number 3: Boundary Issues]
07:54✅[Number 4: Enabling Negative Behavior]
10:18✅[Number 5: Resentment and Burnout]
12:43✅[Number 6: Emotional Exhaustion]
15:08✅[Number 7: False Sense of Obligation]
17:37✅[Number 8: Loss of Authenticity]
19:59✅[Number 9: Disempowering Others]
22:12✅[Number 10: Missing Opportunities for Growth]
24:17✅Conclusion
Worked in aged care more than 20 years
Experienced resentment & burn out, emotionally exhausted
Had no time for self care or self compassion
I have retired now, learning to look after myself better
Learning that I deserve to be kind to myself
Learning to prioritise myself ❤
Taking care of my mom with dementia is taking its toll. But the other option also would! I am happy you're learning to care for yourself. The happier and healthier you are (we) the happier and healthier those around us will be.
Hello your holiness. I love listening to your videos. I am researching on how Buddhism disappeared from Bihar, and I make it a point to view your videos. You are a blessing in disguise for us.
Often kindness is just people-pleasing in disguise, a form of manipulation. Great video. Attachment is definitely involved in people-pleasing.
Well said!
This video takes generic kindness and exposes its more nuanced and deep aspects. Very timely, much appreciated!
Omfg, I'm not even through the video and thia is the story of my life at 43....😭 Unglueing myself from these patterns has been one of the hardest things of my life
I think i forgot myself already😪⚘️
Thank you.❤🌷
You’re welcome 😊
I’m amazed at how we each hear a different message in this, 😂 it’s spot on for me, one of my most challenging experiences in loosing two wonderful spouses 6 yrs apart ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing!!
Om Namo Bhagavate Vasudevaya. 🙏🏾
No one was more kind than the Stepford Wives.
Om mani padame hum 😊
My dad has always taught me to kind to everyone,and always call our elders not by their names say Mr Mrs etc,
You deserve more subscribers, keep making good videos❤
Thank you, I will
Self compassion to self first ❤
Been there done that! Highly agreed
So much needed this 👍
I've learn it long ago
True takers & ungrateful people.
,im a quick learner
,but it took me decades to step back ,,& put boundaries.
WELL guess wath??
They walked out of my life thank you ,they did me a huge favour. 😅
I am actually just learning this at 51 in 2024 😮😢 empathy and kindness has never served me😢.
You don't know that yet. Besides, are you a good person if you expect something in return?
52 -2024 here. I needed to hear this too
@@worldcitizen9847 I have never asked for anything or expect anything in return. Will remain kind. It was a great reminder in case you missed my point.
@@That-Kevin I totally I understand you.
Authenticity will better serve you, ALWAYS be true to yourself.
Very true.
Great video on not being a doormat for toxic people, but what has it got to do with Buddhism?
Bodhichitta in terms of empathy and kindness are beautiful and indispensable on the path. People pleasing is not kind- it is trying to use manipulation to get a desired reaction from someone. The issue is that people do not really understand what it means to be kind. Kindness does not wear one face as its publicity always shows it as. Kindness has to be balanced with other qualities like truthfulness and wisdom. Being kind in an unblemished way needs to be understood here. And my words here does not really state what unblemished kindness in buddhism looks like in relationships in this world we live in.
No judgement
Well..with respect the world needs exactly the thing suggested not to be, KIND. It is the KINDNESS that is erased from this world ,replaced by violance..is that what we should all be to keep up with modern times? STOP THE VIOLANCE ! Please DO NOT STOP BEING KIND!!!!!
She is mine be for you finish your own free dom after that kindness and matta be com very strong that when you want to help offer sathu
The video explain that kindness should be used with authenticity, that gives you agency. Avoid being kind in a way that teaches you’re the source of everything, cause that will burnout you and block the development of others.
@@verifymueller thank you
Kindness is Christ-like though one has to be cautious these days.
Title seems misleading again. Where’s the real Buddha teachings ??
people get From me what they give To me ,
you Act like a normal person , you Get a normal person to talk to
you Act like an *hole , you'll Get one back
i'm a calm person , but don't mess with the horns !
Have these women agreed to being exploited for this UA-cam channel?Are you profiting off their image? Perhaps it is a projection on my part, but I strongly feel the hypersteriotyping of women with the image of these amazing sentient beings extremely disturbing. To say this is a Buddhist Principal is one thing, but to take every subject matter the Christian church holds dear and feature the feminine alone is a mistake. Uneducated individuals see these titles, see the feminine and do not watch your content. I don't agree with what you are doing.
Namo Buddhaya
It may even more sick, but these images appear to be AI generated.
@@SammySomai understand my suffering is because of my attachment to these matters. It is quite difficult to say nothing and feel nothing when an underlying message is literally attached to a beautiful message. The dichotomy astounds me.
I'm going to be mean and curse at everyone
Impossible to listen to.
Are u going to follow budda or JESUS CHRIST
There is no jesus, and Bhudda is not a person.
Both
The teachings are not mutually exclusive, but both point to a better level of consciousness.
Neither! Lol
not your business nor your responsibility. Boundaries! Stay in your lane.
Ridiculous