A Father's Rejection | The Steve Wilkos Show
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- Опубліковано 21 лют 2023
- Ricky has been denying Gail’s 3 children; Ricky Jr., Ronesha, and Jabari, for their entire lives! Will they finally get the answers they need? #TheSteveWilkosShow #wilkosnation
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This is me and my family 😅 yes I got closure after this and I appreciate all the kind comments he is who he is and 🤷🏽♀️ he has me blocked on fb we no longer have contact with each other and that’s perfectly fine at least he did finally come back into our lives regardless of what happened so I could stop looking for him to be honest 🤷🏽♀️ I looked for him for 5 years just for him to be hands down the worst person I ever met ☹️ anyways thank god for my mom and everything she did and still do for us ❤️🙌🏾
Glad to hear it Ronesha.. you are a strong lady and a great example for the rest of us! I swear if I hadn’t of become a mother, I’d be half the woman I am today. Go YOU. Go US❤️🔥🦾
Go conquer the world girl, we all clearly see the kind of man he is.
He is some piece of work, His whole life is denial.
Still blessed!..l am glad you found closure!
@@skyesmith7975 I really appreciate that thank you ❤️
Being raised by narcissistic parents is a trip. Endlessly triggering. Nothing you do is ever good enough, and everything is always your fault. You’re forced to grow up early and see the ugly side of people early. From someone who gets it, I hope that they are healing and happy .
Can I ask a question if u don't mind x if u had siblings where they treated so much better and differently than u x I have brothers an they couldn't still cant do anythin wrong, they were respected loved x but me i was Alway the one who couldn't do anythin right and can't even have a conversation without gettin some type of attitude x when I had kids I really struggled showing love coz I didn't know how to do it at the time x
@@kellywood354 it rlly varies with narcissistic parents.
Sometimes they focus their energies on their “favorite” while casting out a specific child.
Sometimes it’s indiscriminate. It’s a case by case basis.
At the end of the day it can be traumatic, and to love your kids better means to do the work and do better this time around to break the cycle. No matter what it takes.
You literally just explained my whole childhood in one paragraph💀
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@@kellywood354 in my situation my mother would vent to me all the time over dumb things my siblings had done, but she always went out of her way to help them. She went above and beyond for them. She didn’t do the same for me, in fact I was the one expected to be the responsible one and help everybody else. A constant guilt trip. It was never reciprocated.
Lets ignore the deadbeat “dad” for a minute and…
Lets praise the beautiful woman who raised some awesome children on her own! 💪 ❤
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💛😄💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛
Yes praise this Queen💖👏👑🙌❤
Amen 🙏🏾
Amazing mom with strong children
Child birth is entirely too dangerous to have children by men like this....
That's honestly the best context you can put this in. Omg
Right, and she kept having kids by him, she knew exactly who he was
man how true this is frfr
Realest comment I’ve seen!
First thing first this is the most hilarous comment. Women are MADE to give birth unless you have underlying issues/health problems. Name 5 People you know personally that passed from childbirth alone! However wasting your womb on a piece of poop speaks of yourself ONLY not him! You protect your own womb
I truly feel for the daughter, in particular. She put in all of that effort to find him, just to learn how awful he really is. I hope that she at least has a sense of closure from this.
Thank you that’s me and I definitely did 🙌🏾
@@roneshawilliams76 you are a beautiful young lady, well mannered, and Cary yourself like the queen you are!! It's his loss, not yours! Everyone isn't mad to be a father, sadly. I'll be praying for you and your family!!
Thank you 🙌🏾🥺
@@roneshawilliams76 girl you are so strong! Keep that head up!
Yeah, honestly with the way he is it’s probably a good thing he wasn’t around
My dad was on heavy drugs and still found ways to contact me. The only time I didn’t hear from him was when he would be in rehab, so there’s no excuse. This dude just doesn’t want to take accountability for his actions. He is a sorry excuse for a parent and human being and I hope the siblings can move on in their lives.
Now that’s dedication
@@zataishasims9732 It sure is. If someone on crack can have half a mind to still be in their child’s life and try their best despite their circumstance then there’s no excuse for anyone to be a deadbeat parent.
@@k.shawna1220 facts
From the looks of it , they’re better off without him. He knows they deserve better than him! He’s not a father he’s a coward. Sometimes you have to learn to leave people where they are at and move on. He’s narcissistic, most likely still dealing with his own childhood trauma. He’s unhealed mentally maybe healed drug wise but mentally and spiritually- he needs help. He’s knew he was the father of all 3 of them. He’s definitely gonna need them before they ever need him! My prayers are with those beautiful siblings. God is your father. He loves you.
Thank you 🙌🏾❤️
@@roneshawilliams76 I truly believe you And your siblings are destined for greatness with out him. You all are better than him. Continue to pray for healing and if possible ask God to change his heart- but continue to be strong. All my love to you.
My daddy had his issues as well but he was with us EVERYDAY. Theres no excuse to be an absent father. Period.
The mother could file a restraining order to keep the father away
Also military as well
I agree. THERE IS NO EXCUSE to be an absentee father unless it's because of the courts. Other than that-
@@user-ef5gf7kg3t Thank you so much for your service and any family you do have because I know the stress pertains to not only you but those within you. I know it's a stressful job at that. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for what you do for your country. Much respect from me!!! I was us army for 6 and a half years and ever since I've gotten out it's been hell.
@@Spider-PunkOfficalhas to be a pretty solid reason for that, though
he really said “i’m going back to wisconsin to my life” as if he didn’t just find out he’s the father of 3 people
Facts 😑
Heartbreaking. The oldest son facing his father is one of the most compelling moments I've seen on this show. God bless those children.
SMH, this man is so awful. What a selfish, selfish person.
yeah some people are like that
He is part of a last couple of generations that is starting to die out. The generation of the absentee father. The younger generation now are very involved in their children's lives.
@@Blue_SeaSmoke wouldn’t say that some had toxic fathers themselves or none at all. Sometimes that generation was wrapped up abuse and trauma and because of that they couldn’t produce the parenting they should have when they grew up.
I can’t imagine having child after child with THAT man. Omg.
Shame on the man who abandoned his own children.
Daddy said, you don't remember nothing... Truth is, if he's a substance abuser... He doesn't remember anything...
Facts! Especially with his choice of drugs and him doing drugs for over 30 years
Im so glad the siblings stood together and with their mom. The so called dad is a prick and deserves to be alone.
Thank you
I didn't meet my Father til I was 25 years old, after he abandoned my Mother and his three children when I was 3. He went to father my half-sister, and we may never know how many others. This guy sounds just like my Father. "I can't nothing about the past..." as he was an addict as well. He was very unapologetic, and when he became critical of my Mother, he ripped his azz a whole new one, and he never made that mistake again. Sometimes one or both of our Parents are only meant to get us here, but they most likely would do far worse damage had they attempted to raise us.
That part “sometimes one parent is only meant to bring us here” bruh my eyes tested up to this. My mom took care of us my whole life without my dad and that saying hit home. I’m 25 and I’ve done ancestry and 23and me and ged match and MyHeritage and got no leads to my dad. I’ve been figuring it’s a sign to give up on him. I didn’t hear anything good about him. Maybe it’s best to stay this way. It would hurt me more if my dad came into my life and acted like this. I’m sorry you went through that. Some people don’t deserve children. But children deserve the world.
The mother did a wonderful job raising her children 👏👏❤️❤️
Oddly the young lady said they were in foster care so the mother didn't take care of them neither.
Yes my mom did ❤️
@@pollyannalight6313that could’ve been anything. My great aunt lord and put my sister in foster care while she was over there. My mom got her back out immediately
Horrible father is what I’d say .
This story is so sad. My heart goes out to the children and their mother.
Thank you ❤️
my pops had his issues too when we were growing up but he was always there no matter what he had going on. even from prison he was getting money to us and sending letters and cards every week. there is no excuse to not be present in your child's life.
Why did Ricky bring kids into a world and then abandon them?! I wish Steve is back into his season 1 self so he can rage into this deadbeat dad!
If his absence and reconnection caused this much trauma and turmoil, imagine how worse it would've been if they grew up in his toxicity. When someone's apology is followed by a 'but', it means forget everything I just said and now I'm going to tell you how I really feel which doesn't consist of me being sorry or taking accountability for my role.
So true and I’m glad we wasn’t raised by him
Shoutout to everyone who's still waiting for their tax check. 🤣
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Salute to you and yes we hurting 🤣🤣🤣
@@terrancefoster6613 may the odds be ever in your favor, I got mine a couple hours ago after this comment. 🤣
He remembers!!! As the oldest of my mother and father’s children I remember what my father put my mother thru!!!
If that was my father we'd be fighting everyday
Yeah. My mothers a narcissistic woman
@@scarletv7217sorry to hear that
That mother has my respect. Lady you bought up 3 amazing children. Good on you for protecting your family. The so called father is a total loser
Sometimes you see some elderly people and they're sick and frail and can't do anything for themselves; and it makes you wonder how and why their children could leave them to live like that... this right here is why. My mother died when my siblings and I were young, and my dad made his fair share of mistakes as all humans do, but he never turned his back on us . Now he's living comfortably because we make sure he wants for nothing. This man will use his last breath begging for forgiveness...
you are the only person responsible for not being in her life, the one and only person.
Most definitely 💯😅 that’s me and my family
Yes narcissistic but overwhelming drug addict thinking. They’re selfish to the very end. Don’t feel like they should have to talk about or explain anything from their past or fix the wrongs they’ve made. The most he has to offer is being clean and that should be considered God’s gift to them in his opinion. Damn shame.
So true I'm going through this with my boyfriend's brother. It's so hard to watch but we keep trying to help. Praying for everyone sending love ❤️
So sickening n true about addicts in recovery.
Just like my father, and my son’s donor.
OMG you just explained my parent....she literally doesn't understand how her drug use harmed my entire childhood and altered the entire direction of my life. I stopped talking to her for 2 years for not at least trying to understand and take accountability. I let her back in after 2 years of not speaking and she still refuses to have accountability so for us to have a relationship of any kind and to allow her to speak to her grandkids I have to go back to living in her little fairytale denial world and live like she didn't ruin half of my life. I feel like a prisoner of her narcism AGAIN but as an adult.
Glad she could see he was a narcissist, always blaming everyone but himself
I doubt they would ever see this comment - but you all are amazing people because of who DID raise you. Some of us learn early that not everyone is meant to be a parent, and they never grow up. I hope you all can heal and lean on each other now that you see who he really is.
Thank you this is me and my family I really appreciate that
@@roneshawilliams76 You are such a beautiful person, please always remember that. You and your siblings. I’m so sorry you had to go through that, but I am sure you are an amazing mother to your own children. And I am so proud of you. ❤ hugging you through the phone. I hope healing for you and your family.
Omg y’all was better off without him.. we present king narcissist 3000 😒
Yes we was 😅💯🤦🏽♀️
I bet you he only came back into their lives cause he knows he's getting old and may need caregivers soon.
Just said the same. I hope the point to the door ... Get off our stage.
Thank you.
They’re mom did an awesome job raising them w/o that man in their life and he better hope he don’t get sick and need them bc it looks like he’ll be suffering by himself…it’s sickening to see any parent reject their child for their own selfishness
He’s definitely a narcissist
She’s such a beautiful lady
I hope she can heal
Hey there everyone. I stay looking forward to a Steve Wilkos episode
Tomorrow's episode is going to be crazy!!!
@@donnaloschiavo6873 I'm looking forward to it
Well eint noone going to show up at his funeral...
Beautiful mumma made some beautiful babies - inside AND out. Good job 👏
He acts just like my DONER .. I felt her tears and pain
It never goes away but you learn to live with it ❤️
I think it's spelled Donor, but I feel you!
Thanks him acting like that helps me move on
"thank you for being the manyou are because I'm a better man in every way"
"Thank you for being the man you are because I'm a better man in every way." That hit me hard 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Narcissists never mean sorry.
As a father, I can NEVER UNDERSTAND how a man can just walk away from his children and not think about them or worry about them and miss them. It would tear me up if I couldn't see my children and be with them EVERY DAY. Wondering if they're ok. If they've eaten, or being abused, etc. A man that brings children into this world and doesn't provide for them physically, emotionally, spiritually, and monetarily is the lowest form.
She’s right, he is a narcissist, he isn’t capable of caring about anybody but himself. He can’t handle facing them because they remind him of what an insignificant weak little man he truly is.
“Thank you for being the man you are because it made me a better man in every way” AMEN!!! That hit home 🔥
He says he's sorry - BUT... - means he's not really sorry. I've been hearing this all my life from one of my Parents, & I'm 64. After awhile, I'm sorry means absolutely nothing!!!
This breaks my heart as a father. I’m speechless😢
Those are three beautiful children.
Sometimes it's best to keep some people at a distance....its best for your spirit, your mental and physical...
This man will one day regret how he's treated his kids
My Heart Goes Out To Them
I can't stress it enough these children were raised beautifully I praise their mother I could give her a bow right now. They our better off without him for sure. I had an absent dad too it sucks but truthfully as I grow older I am better off without him I learned nothing from him and never want to be like him.
My father is the exact same as this man. It’s insane, I feel for this kids.
here before the comments spoil the vid😎
I know Steve introduced Eric as their half brother, but I also know a lot of people don’t prefer that term when it comes to siblings.. because they see their half siblings as their full blooded brother/sister.. anyway with that being said, Eric is amazing. As sad & f’d up as the situation is…. Eric is more of a father/father figure to them than that deadbeat was/is or will ever be. Of course that shouldn’t be his job/responsibility.. But the way he’s so protective and nurturing, the way he looks out for them even though they’re grown adults. For him to take on that role, while still being a brother at the same time. I love what he said in the end, and yes she is surrounded by great men she doesn’t need that loser. But the way Eric spoke in the after show clip.. wow!
Hey Steve, love your videos!!! Always looking for the next upload!
I appreciated it very much what he said to his POS “sperm donor” @ 13:17 ! ❤❤❤
That was Power 💪 and Fire 🔥 AF!
When he said 'the past is the past....' I knew!!
He IS a narcissist. Like a REAL ONE, SCARY DUDE.
Yes I agree. Instead of saying I'm not sure because I think your mom cheated on me, that tells me that he knew.
And the he was smirking about it the only thing miss was some horns on his head, a pitch fork and a tail
I'm a SenSiTiVE SouL anD in ThaT SenSiTiViTY, I HaVE CoMPaSSioN anD IT WouLD HuRT ME To See My ChiLDReN HuRT. I CouLD NoT WaLK aWaY FRoM TheM. I HelPeD To CReaTE TheM So TheY aRE aPaRT oF Me. I CouLDn'T Do iT. 🤦🏾7x💯
That’s me and my family and my dad could careless clearly and it’s okay at this point especially after what he said
I most definitely agree. I don't know how anyone can live their days knowing they either have kids for sure or that it's even a possibility.
I only have one child that's mine by I feel the same way about all of my nephews and neices and there is a total of 14 of them between my husband's siblings, my siblingsans , one of my cousins whose kids are the same age as my siblings kids and so the kids all call me auntie Rara. One of my favorite songs is by Eminem and it's called "headlights" realistically it's a song he wrote about the issues he's had in life with his Mom but there's a part where he talks about his absent father and my favorite part is where he says something along the lines of " but I love you Debbie Mathers what a tangles web we have cause one thing I never asked was where my dead beat dad was fuck it I guess he had trouble keeping up with every address but I'd flip every rock and desert cactus own a collection of maps and follow my kids to the edge of the atlas someone ever removed them from me that you could bet your asses. If I had to come down the chimney dresses as Santa and kidnap them." I mean like obviously kidnapping is bad but it's a very very powerful song for alot of reasons.
That dude is a piece of work.
"Goof ball"ONG😂😂😂
I'm just stuck on the part he said this woman raped him. Poor excuse for a man and even poorer excuse for a father.
Why did he even go on the show?
Exactly 😅 this me and my family on this show
@@roneshawilliams76 Oh snap, it is. I'm sorry your "father" has caused your family so much strife. He was extremely disrespectful and almost downright hateful. Best of luck to you all in the future.
I couldn't imagine having a father like that. I love my dad with everything in me and that's because he's shown to be the best father at ALL TIMES! My heart goes out to them because everyone deserves to have good parents or a parent that gives af. Fk that dude.
ALL 3 oT TheM LooK LiKE TheiR MoM. 🤯
Why do some men act surprised when the kid(s) look like the woman that gave birth to them? Too many men expect the kid(s) to look like them and nothing like the mother.
HE SMIRKING 😂😂😂😂😂😂
My dad never wanted me . I have learnt that you can’t force someone to be a parent. I tried to reach him when I was an adult his son blocked me and him as well so .. yeah I won’t chase someone like that. My dignity comes first.
They need to have a new father in their lives is better than the man who abandoned them is such a shame on him
he didn't even seem like he cared or ever loved any of these kids.. those beautiful kids are much better off without him smh
Man, and i thought that guy from Maury; Tracy was bad. This guy is way worse. Those kids are better off without him.
Yes we are !
His SON! Said it BEST
I wonder how many other kids he’s left behind.
SO HE IS THE FATHER OF ALL THEM KIDS...............
Ricky senior is a loser..and it makes me proud how they dealt with him at the end ,especially when Steve told him get the HELL OFF MY STAGE
If the man was really that horrible, why make 2 kids with him?
He’s a clown fr fr and I completely understand why the mom make the decision that she made
I hope the daughter realize that he is doing them a favor by staying away.....He’s rotten to the core
Wow, he does not care about any of his 4 children.
13:43 so with that go back to all your shoes and get the hell off my stage
"you'll find out that ya can't fight"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
How the fuck can you be so heartless to your own children?! What is wrong with this man??? Those kids need love just like the rest of us! They deserve better than him!!
The fact that he can’t take ANY accountability is so frustrating. He said “I’m sorry, but…”. Like no tf you’re not sorry, you’re just talking out your ass.
Such a sad (and cringing) story. The nerve of this guy.. those drugs must’ve fried and rotted his brain, cus wtf!!???!? I understand wanting answers, especially when you’re child whose father is absent.. or you’re just looking for a father figure in general. I can’t begin to imagine the toll that takes on a child emotionally. But the fact that even for a second, she considered it & entertained the thought, the possibility of having him in her life.. even knowing all she did, especially as an adult. I get giving people second chances (depending on the situation/circumstances), but having the info I already did, I would not have wasted an ounce of time, energy even trying with this guy. The constant deflecting, dodging and avoiding, refusing to answer simple questions, the denial. The gaslighting, the nonstop emotional, verbal, mental abuse… the physical abuse they endured in the past.. I don’t know if that’s something I’d be able to move past (not that they forget), but just to put it on the back burner.. it’s already bad enough he’s denying it. There’s nothing wrong with wanting/needing closure, but some don’t deserve the attention or respect that goes with needing said closure. Not all adults deserve respect, idgaf if they are your parents. Not all family is good family, the blatant disrespect he showed toward all of them.. I applauded Eric for standing up for them & getting in his face. This dude is indeed a narcissistic deadbeat.. The only replies, answers and comebacks he has are insults.. what a loser. Hope he’s miserable for the rest of his pathetic life.
I love the Steve Wilko Show.
I'm sorry I would've been cussing him out the whole time I was on stage. He really fckn angers me
I’ll never understand people desperate need to find their deadbeats
The oldest son reminds me of that amazing dude I see on tiktok
Daughter look just like him
Thanks I guess 😂😂😅
So sorry for you guys. 😢 thank God you have your mom.
A 🤬clown. I am so thankful for the dad I was blessed with! I love you daddy!!
I love the studio ❤
These beautiful children are more beautiful for not having been “fathered” by that selfish creep!
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That's truly sad as hell..
I have been binge watching these videos of late
Sad I just went through this exact same thing, the only difference was, his new wife has been putting in his ear since I was five that me an my little brother isn’t his, but yet he never took a step in either direction, then I moved out to him as I got older with my own family just to get my own perspective, but then…you find out a lot about somebody when you in person, he never really wanted us in the first place. ME MUST ALWAYS BE THE EXAMPLE THROUGH OUR EXPERIENCE FOR BETTER!
Called his ass a goofball 😂😂
I don't even _know_ him personally and I don't like him at all. As far as I know, he was just a sperm donor. That's all he was worth in their lives.
Gail raised three amazing people correctly and you guys deserve the world and more.
My father was an functional alcholic he had a lot of issues but never like this 😮💔💯
What a simple man.
They don’t need him. Hopefully one day this man repents
I don’t even have to watch the full video to be able to tell they are identical image of him
The fact that all he cares about is being clean from drugs is absolutely sickening, any son or daughter wants a mother and father,
Don't you dare blame her mom , whose raised her, whose taken her to school, whose helped in every way , and you blame her for YOU not being in your kids life !