Trapped in the cycle of pornography at 8|Drowning in shame|losing sight of self-worth|John Sibanyone

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  • @TshegofatsoMosoeu-kx1ms
    @TshegofatsoMosoeu-kx1ms 24 дні тому +47

    hello centtwinz, please keep on going!!! y'all don't understand how this podcast brings so many people closer to God!!! you are actually serving the Almighty through this platform!!! may God bless y'all!!! #JesusChristIsLord

    • @centtwinz
      @centtwinz  24 дні тому +6

      Hey CentFam, thank you for your feedback. We appreciate the love.

  • @Sasa77662
    @Sasa77662 24 дні тому +85

    These conversation we need. I struggle with pornography. Was first introduced to sex in a movie. I was in grade 6 or 7. The picture stayed in my brain until Later on I had access to cellphone I went straight to porn hub. I was convicted of it when I became born again but couldn’t stop. I’d stop for a week but when I faced something I used it as soothing mechanism. It affected my marriage and I had to tell my husband. He also was silently struggling with it. At some point I was in a spiritual warfare and i fell and watch it again, the following day I had a miscarriage. I have never cried like that in my life. I knew in my spirit that watching porn that day opened a door for the enemy. God being merciful I knew he let it happen to a my good. I stopped that day. It has been 2 years. God also released me from the guilt. I have a baby born now and so happy.
    I don’t watch any movie with sex or kissing in, I deleted my Instagram, I also made a covenant with my eyes.
    Thank you Jesus

    • @criticallyspeaking
      @criticallyspeaking 24 дні тому

      Instagram and Twitter are full of this stuff. It's demonic

    • @centtwinz
      @centtwinz  24 дні тому +5

      Hey CentFam, thank you for sharing your journey and we are so sorry for the pain this journey has caused you. Congratulations on your baby. Wishing you nothing but the best. God Bless.

    • @Godsbattleaxe-dh6bv
      @Godsbattleaxe-dh6bv 24 дні тому

      Amen glory to God

    • @GracelyRedeemed
      @GracelyRedeemed 23 дні тому

      Hallelujah

    • @mapulasethosa7088
      @mapulasethosa7088 17 днів тому

      Keep walking 🚶‍♀️ strong and your decision to delete was powerful ❤

  • @NalediGoldinah
    @NalediGoldinah 23 дні тому +17

    The enemy you expose is an enemy you defeat.
    When you hide a challenge, it gains muscles. You overcame because you exposed the enemy and you surely delivered many🤞thank you for sharing your story

    • @evezazzle5974
      @evezazzle5974 17 днів тому

      💯💯💯❤ Thank you for your powerful comment

  • @Tshi-benda
    @Tshi-benda 19 днів тому +7

    This is what many young people need to hear. I have a similar story and yoh! what a mess it is but because of his grace, I can't wait for the time to come to share my story. Thank you centtwinz for allowing God to use you🙏. May he elevate you in every form of his fullness this season.
    I would like to suggest if possible that after every testimony we could have a preaching segment for people who are watching that have not given their life to Christ. I think it would save more lives 🙌

  • @mantombimthembu103
    @mantombimthembu103 20 днів тому +9

    I don't know why people who speak in this tone make so much sense to me. He keeps the voice so low and I get him a thousand %. No noise at all

  • @LukhanyoHlophe
    @LukhanyoHlophe 24 дні тому +26

    This is single-handedly the biggest spiritual bondage gripping men today. Lets be real, i am a recovering porn and masturbation addict and its not funny, it leaves you empty and spiritually low, you can quit but most importantly pray about it daily because its a spirit and you need to be delivered from it

    • @centtwinz
      @centtwinz  24 дні тому

      Well said CentFam, praying about it daily is a great way to surrender it to God.

  • @mrincredible859
    @mrincredible859 24 дні тому +22

    This addiction used to grip me like no bodies business but God delivered me from it, through prayer and fasting and consistency in reading the word. It also helps to guard your eye and ear gates remove social platforms that cause you to stumble, friends who pull u back into that lifestyle of promiscuous behaviour. Conversations that are sexually charged. Its possible and along the way u may stumble but be consistent in renouncing and denouncing those covenants. The holy spirit is very patient and will assist you with coming out of this addiction, lastly raise a prayer altar in the early morning and in the evenings

    • @evezazzle5974
      @evezazzle5974 17 днів тому

      I thank God for your life and deliverance. He is Faithful, Loving and Merciful. I'm so proud of you as well, you put in the work and share great tips that helped you overcome. God bless and fortify you 🙏🎁❤👏👏👏

  • @thanyi_heiress
    @thanyi_heiress 24 дні тому +29

    A humble Request: When you have a returning guest is it possible to link their previous episode on the description box? Its so hard to go through all the videos looking for the guests previous episides. Please consider doing that 🙏

  • @calebmutali6124
    @calebmutali6124 23 дні тому +6

    Such topics are rarely talked of in churches..Many are heading to hell..we need to talk about this..thanks for propagating such a message to the nations..the Holy Spirit is using you to spread knowledge thereby breaking addictions.

  • @dryolymatics007
    @dryolymatics007 14 днів тому +1

    Amen Brother John ... This your talk was very important to me ... Coz me myself I am battling thing thing like no ones business

  • @lesterdampie6134
    @lesterdampie6134 24 дні тому +4

    Bookmarking this to watch in the new year. HAPPY CROSSING OVER!!! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @FraCaesar-m5z
    @FraCaesar-m5z 16 днів тому +2

    I just love that l had to see this video now, because it's been 2 years trying to fight lust and every time l fast and pray it becomes worse,l even got to a point where I said God help me, because it's a generational thing in my family. And every man l meet is also lusting over so it hasn't been easy, l am even avoiding dating now because of lust. Thank God for this channel and this spiritual lessons. So many people are scared to talk about this

  • @ladyqngomane
    @ladyqngomane 13 днів тому +1

    As a mother of boys i appreciate this man for making us aware of such spiritual battle 🙏

  • @MmatsatsiFrancinah
    @MmatsatsiFrancinah 18 днів тому +1

    Ijoo, what a message? I have learnt a lot from this episode. Thank you so much centtwinz. You are doing a great job.

  • @This_en_That
    @This_en_That 10 годин тому

    I remember those +18 eTV Friday and Weekend shows, we could wait until everyone is asleep.

  • @NGWANAMODIMo-t4p
    @NGWANAMODIMo-t4p 24 дні тому +12

    1. Surrender the addiction to God and repent.
    2. Start setting boundaries in your life...Remove social media. Surround yourself with people who rebuke Porn. Avoid dating if the addiction is that drastic...etc
    3. The intrusive thoughts will continously come, the devil doesn't want you to leave it. Read the word and rebuke the thoughts with the word.
    4. Some of these addictions are inherited. They need deliverance. Always denouce and break all these covenants by name of Jesus Christ.
    5. Be patient, deliverance takes time. Being heavily tempted by intrusive thoughts doesn't mean you are relapsing.

    • @centtwinz
      @centtwinz  24 дні тому

      Hey CentFam, thank you for sharing these powerful steps.

  • @ayandazenzile5951
    @ayandazenzile5951 24 дні тому +3

    Thank youuuu for the episodes. Very informative 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @centtwinz
      @centtwinz  24 дні тому

      Thanks for watching CentFam, we appreciate you.

  • @BatyaMuthathi
    @BatyaMuthathi 24 дні тому +4

    @CENTTWINZ well done on the exceptional work since i boarded in your boat is has been an amazing MSC cruise😅. May the Lord bless and perfect all that concerns your life. Be safe and see you in 2025 by God's grace. Love you ladies🎉❤

  • @THEUNDESERVEDFAVOR-grace
    @THEUNDESERVEDFAVOR-grace 24 дні тому +5

    Yes ,you are talking,this generation of ours behaves like they were in the apatheid while they were not,we have self hate,Lord have mercy on us..

    • @centtwinz
      @centtwinz  24 дні тому

      Hey CentFam, thanks for watching.

  • @ruthsumaili4510
    @ruthsumaili4510 24 дні тому +4

    I really wanted him to come back again his episode is really educational and will help a lot of people going through this secret addiction.

  • @SamuelLetswalo-v2u
    @SamuelLetswalo-v2u 10 днів тому

    Thank you for this episode Centtwinz! I think adult or sex videos teach a lot about sex since to most ppl it is a taboo subject,especially amongst Africans! If you remember ladies,I once told you that sin is overdoing things! Porn itself is not a sin but a lesson in sexual matters. Let us just learn to talk about it! Thanks ladies.

  • @ogbewiotasowie386
    @ogbewiotasowie386 17 днів тому

    We have all been there. Thank God for Restoration

  • @nqobileaka1612
    @nqobileaka1612 23 дні тому +2

    😮 this guy story relates a lot with mine too

  • @Godislove1230
    @Godislove1230 24 дні тому +1

    Hello my Queens 👸 🎉🎉love you keep them coming as we learn from their experiences 💕 🎉

    • @centtwinz
      @centtwinz  24 дні тому

      Thanks for watching CentFam, we appreciate you.

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 24 дні тому +2

    "we are trained to go look for what we already inside of us"
    We forget that we are given dominion, authority to step over serpents and scorpions and over all the power of the enemy and nothing shall in any wise harm you. Luke 10: 19

    • @centtwinz
      @centtwinz  24 дні тому

      Amen CentFam. Indeed we have been given dominion and authority.

  • @KevinBanele
    @KevinBanele 15 днів тому

    No man you're a boss
    Twins thanks kakhulu
    Nami ngiyafisa ukuzoxwayisa abantu ngezinto ezikaje

  • @annointingofangels
    @annointingofangels 24 дні тому +1

    Ending the last day of 2024 with the beautiful twins 😊 Happy new year's eve family ✨

  • @nicokharuxab5551
    @nicokharuxab5551 23 дні тому +1

    Waow baie kragtige boodskaap jongman, niks is on moontlik in Christus Jesus ni. Skree ver AL die Namibians🇳🇦, jle twee kies liefte ver julle. Voorspoedig met die nuwe jaar 2025,Godseen🙏

  • @sanelimkhize7231
    @sanelimkhize7231 21 день тому

    Thank you it true same way I was delivered ❤

  • @TheOlgad
    @TheOlgad 16 днів тому

    Yhoo what a story may God help us.

  • @gofgan
    @gofgan 24 дні тому +3

    Life is spiritual.... Its tym we learn more abt spirit realms and warfare and not only learn abt Moses and John in the bible.Eph 6:12

  • @bakangtamose6185
    @bakangtamose6185 24 дні тому +6

    I just want to say this kind of addictions end up bringing spiritual demons around peoples life's, spiritual husbands and wife's. People end up not having direction in their life's because they live in boundage of this kind of demons. Leviathan is one the greatest demon dealing with this kind including Semiaza. Watch and pray, for the devil is prowling like a lion but he is not one 1 Peter 5:8

  • @jeremiah7494
    @jeremiah7494 24 дні тому +30

    This is the worst addiction, am still struggling no matter how much i pray!

    • @Princesswarrior3337
      @Princesswarrior3337 24 дні тому +5

      Don't give up on prayers, you will overcome eventually in Jesus Mighty name

    • @MasephokoEmelyMokoena
      @MasephokoEmelyMokoena 24 дні тому +12

      Try 3days fasting

    • @sildenciamunsha3018
      @sildenciamunsha3018 24 дні тому +4

      In Jesus Christ you will overcome, please don't give up.

    • @NGWANAMODIMo-t4p
      @NGWANAMODIMo-t4p 24 дні тому +11

      1. Surrender the addiction to God and repent.
      2. Start creating boundaries in your life. Remove social media. Surround yourself with people who rebuke Porn. Avoid dating if the addiction is that drastic...etc
      3. The intrusive thoughts will continously come, the devil doesn't want you to leave it. Read the word and rebuke the thoughts with the word.
      4. Some of these addictions are inherited. They need deliverance. Always denouce and break all these covenants by name of Jesus Christ.
      5. Be patient, deliverance takes time. Being heavily tempted by intrusive thoughts doesn't mean you are relapsing.

    • @mathapelongwenya864
      @mathapelongwenya864 24 дні тому +6

      We bury the addiction this last day of 2024. It will not cross over with you. Let the mercy of God fight for you into victory in the name of Jesus Christ amen

  • @jmkunene2754
    @jmkunene2754 24 дні тому

    Powerful presentation indeed

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 24 дні тому +4

    A lot of coping mechanisms are actually distractions, 😢

  • @itztocaBellacutie
    @itztocaBellacutie 24 дні тому +2

    Hello there....from Namibia

    • @centtwinz
      @centtwinz  24 дні тому +1

      Hey CentFam from Namibia, you know we love you.

  • @THEUNDESERVEDFAVOR-grace
    @THEUNDESERVEDFAVOR-grace 24 дні тому +2

    I wounder if the number 1 is Africa or Europe,re visit the statisctics again,Europe leads in thia issue....but i understand this issue is worldwide yes.....

  • @Mr_Benz____16
    @Mr_Benz____16 24 дні тому +1

    I actually thought i Washington the obly one

  • @redeemablesoul
    @redeemablesoul 19 днів тому +1

    Its a demonic strong hold.

  • @mpumelelongwenya3545
    @mpumelelongwenya3545 24 дні тому +2

    He got addicted because of his algorithms...

  • @SbngKhumalo-l7k
    @SbngKhumalo-l7k 10 днів тому

    Do married people watch porn ?.

    • @JenifaWilbad
      @JenifaWilbad 7 днів тому

      Yes ,,,
      So painful as it is,,,men mostly