@@nosizomyeni245 thank you so much for saying that. Means so much. If you only knew how hard it was to get this out. Something went wrong every time and this was the third time recording it and still lost video at some point. The enemy didn’t want it out but Glory to God that it’s inspiring others.
Im 47 and single and of late I have been really struggling with the fact that I'm still single. Even today I spoke to a friend about being marriage and she believed all men cheat. I really believe that God.led me to.this channel to remind that not all men cheat and more.importantly, there are men who will and can' wait untill marriage before having sex. God bless you for your transparency and for making this video. It was timely and encouraging ❤
Well @feegee. Not all men cheat honestly speaking. As a man l have really learnt that when a man fears God there are somethings he can’t do. Even during a temptation let’s say a woman is trying to hit on him he will still resist. Some men really know their values and have learnt that if l want God to bless me then l must be faithful to my wife
Singleness is also a blessing. I love my singleness. I'm a 27 year old woman. And I am usually around people who think marriage will dissolve your singleness issue. It won't. It get more complex.
Y’all got me over here chuckling🤣🤣🤣thank you so much for your transparency! I just started my waiting/preparation season. I just got this book 31 Prayers for my Future Husband that I’m going to start this evening and I’m feeling like I should fast along with reading the book. I love your content🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾Keep helping God’s people!
Starting to watch your videos and really enjoying it. I am a mum with 2 kids and my friends dont know what to say when i say i am celebate to honor God and my future husband. Some tell me is going to be difficult to find a man not to mention some one who would follow God with me on this celebate journey. Yes thats my God's speciality. Doing what others assume is difficult so he can take all the glory
@@abigailagyapong yessss. You honor him and he will bring you what will shock others. Thank you for supporting us. 🙏. May God bless this season of your life.
@19:22 say it loud please.. l am so glad this is coming out of a man's mouth. I tried to tell a suitor who claimed to be a believer that our creator knows all of us. If you're trying to test before you buy God does not have any purpose in your life/choice/ future. Be aware, ladies of these wolves in sheep clothes. I once came pretty closed to please one instead of pleasing God l felt horrible, ashamed. I am following my God even if it meant doing it single until my last breath. May Yah bless your union.
How beautiful is this! Thank you for sharing your abstinent journey! What a blessing that you honored the most high Jehovah God! I've been abstinent now for over 12 years and will continue to do so until i get married again! This really encouraged me and strengthen my faith! Thank you both for this video!
Thanks so much for this segment!! This message was reassuring for me. I’ve been abstinent for 2years, fell recently, but I thank God for his Grace that I can start over and begin again living a pure life! In Jesus Name! Amen!
Self control is a fruit of the spirit that you need to develop during singleness and in marriage. It definitely matters how you conduct yourself while you’re single. If you have a lack of self control it will spill over into your marriage.
This video coming at a great time, it is so relatable. I like that you are both honest and also speak on some of the struggles. I've had that thought on going to court. 😂
There were so many good things said in this video that I can’t even begin to articulate my responses! Like, where do I start?!😂 To watch a couple speak on Godly concepts and relationships is so refreshing. In regard to God not playing about His children, the way I sat up and said Amen! I was just telling someone that. He is very protective of us and I love that! LoL🤣🤣🤣🤣 at what Festus said in the end and your body language as a result.
@@CeCeandCo. you just had us crying and laughing at the same time 🤣🤣🤣🤣. This comment means so much to us. You don’t know how much of a challenge it was to record this. We’ve been trying for weeks. The enemy definitely did not want this coming out. This was the third time recording it. Every time we finished something went wrong with the footage which has never happened to us. You can even see how we lost video for a few mins on this one but we said we’re gonna just put it out like that. Thank you so much for this comment. We appreciate your support 🙂
@@intentionalrising the enemy definitely made it hard because it has truly been a blessing to us. This video has really blessed me coz I'm in that walk right now. God is so good. ✝️❤️
I need to say this…as believers, not having sex before marriage should be a given. God says not to…period. It’s not a suggestion, it’s a command. And I know, many of us have already done it and many single believers are currently participating in it. And to that brother or sister I would encourage you to repent immediately and fully surrender your body to the Lord. God is faithful and more than able to keep us. His grace is sufficient, for His strength is made perfect in your weakness 2 Corinthians 12:19. And God is faithful, He will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you can bear, but with the temptation He will provide a way of escape so that you can endure it 1 Corinthians 10:13. That’s His word. Trust Him on that! And I hope I’m not stepping on anyone’s toes by saying this…but I think sometimes we believe we’re doing God a favor by abstaining. Like we came up with the idea. I’ve been guilty of that🙋🏽♀️🥴The goal should always be to first and foremost honor God.
I desperately need another sex talk, maybe we can go over the details or avoiding masturbating and also how to feel beautiful in my life now that I’ve switched to honoring God. I used to find most of my male acceptance through sexuality and in dressing for attention. Please 🙏🏻 help… I’m in my 30’s was married for 10 years and so I entered my late 20’s with a vigor in find everything I’d “missed out on” so now without any sex or relationships I found that it’s really effected how I feel about myself. I don’t have any idea how to present myself to the outside world now or how to feel beautiful while living in Gods law. Thank you so very much for all you’ve discussed so far ❤
@@intentionalrising thank you so much guys! Im on prayer and fasting now and its incredible how God speaks and shows things to me in a very precise and accurate way. I hope I can share it with you guys. The Lord is speaking to me and all that He speaks, He confirmed the exact same Words, verses, stories through my teachers in bible school, classes and through my Pastors’ preaching! One day, I’ll be sharing to you , Jennifer and Festus , the manifestation of all the Word that God is revealing to me. You guys are from Miami, I pray to meet you guys one day with my future husband and share to you my personal story about waiting and trusting the Lord in this season! I am very inspired with your love story and how God faithfully orchestrated it. I believe that God us doing the same thing for me and my future husband. Ohhh..I cant wait to testify how real our God is!!! Thank you Jen and Fest!
Do you offer coaching for those who are going through a similar experience? I too am going through a separation and it's been difficult. I can only imagine how you had to persevere within those 2 years.
@@yingyang1622 Hi I’m sorry at this moment we don’t offer coaching but we are thinking on starting a Patreon and maybe opening up a space to be able to speak directly to people in that space. We will get it figured out and announce it soon. Thank you for supporting our channel. Really means a lot 🙏
@@matsietsihenani6747 that’s a tough one that was just revealed to us a month ago and not many people are ready to hear it. People assume that once you’re married everything is ok but unfortunately that’s not the case. It’s a sensitive topic. We’ll have to pray about if and when to do an episode on it.
Thank you so much for this podcast. But I'll like to ask.. What about kissing before marriage? Is it ok to kiss while truly abstaining from sex before marriage??
I believe this depends on personal conviction. I never had the conviction to not kiss but I know others who did feel that conviction and chose to wait on kissing as well. Definitely something to take to God in prayer.
@@thespidertaste it was a reference to the fact that God had already revealed to me that he was my husband so I knew it but he didn’t know I was his wife because it had not yet been revealed to him by God. His revelation came much later than mine so I knew before he knew. Hope that helps to clarify it 😊
So glad you’re touching on masturbation and using sex toys…even pornography. It will definitely create unrealistic expectations once you get married…perversion. This is something that needs to be talked about in the church. We are perishing due to a lack of knowledge😩
I so love your content guys.,, ur very genuine and transparent at the same time! I just don’t like Jennifer’s Reaction when Festus jokes at the end “lets have sex” now.. Jennifer, you could’ve at least ride on Festus joke and not making face. Or maybe u should’ve deleted that part .. Jennifer didn’t even smile why pushing the mic away , she looks pissed
If I was actually pissed I would have deleted that part since I am the one who edits the videos. We were playing around you don’t know our humor or how we banter as a married couple. It was all in good fun.
So proud of you guys for waiting until marriage. But let's be honest as Christians: soul ties are not in the Bible 🤷🏽♀️ it's an inference. There is also no data about the quality of a marriage between a couple that did not wait. We just feel the conviction and guilt. So I agree, lets highlight the beauty of sexual purity instead of shame. Let's just be honest as Christians because we win souls everyday, when they find a lie from US, we will lose all of them!
Soul ties aren't in the Bible but the scripture highlights the importance of having a pure heart and spirit. The Bible also brings up many example of the spiritual realm and the attack if we're not rooted in prayer. The word "Soul Tie" is used to describe two individuals that connects emotionally or physically. In comparison, the reference "Two become One" in the Bible means not only by Law in marriage but by flesh. Scientists proven when a man and woman sleep with one another their bodily fluids are swapped. The mind also changes as it undergoes a phase of feeling a rush of oxytocin, dopamine, and the "high" feeling from sexual intercourse.
1. Though the word "Soul Tie" isn't in the Bible it still stands as relevant when two people sleep with one another and there is a "hold" they may feel even when they depart. Whether the connection is Godly or not there is a spiritual, chemical, mental, emotional, and physical change that occurs in both individuals. 2. There isn't data related to quality of marriages on couples that did not wait but there are testimonies from Godly couples. Not everyone who decided to not wait will feel conviction or guilt. To be of Christ and re-dedicate our lives means he changes our minds, body, and souls to be more like him. There is no condemnation or shame for those who are in Christ Jesus.
@@je39981 please read number 2, and admit that no formal study that we can refer to is available for us to have this conversation. The rest of the Christianese I am well aware of because I have been in the church my whole life. But remember, we are talking about worldly people who need to know what we know, and give their whole beings to Christ. Don't be condescending towards them by speaking Christianese when you address the advantages of having blessed sex within marriage.
Festus, again, we have whole counselling sessions with couples about quality of intimacy in marriage. Let's not over spiritualise things. God does not pick between His children, so just because sex is from God, it does not make it automatically good. Biologically, some women cannot orgasm that alone tells you a lot! We are losing Christians because we are not being true.
@@MissCombs1511 Thanks for your perspective but my level of faith tells me that as a child of God anything I want, if I take it to God, biological issues or not, if it’s within his will he can take care of it. Please know that before any recording we have done we have seriously prayed that anything out of our mouths is Holy Spirit led and not our own words. So I have no reservations about anything I’ve said. I do believe Im being true and we are not loosing Christians from what is Holy Spirit led. I hope you can respect my perspective. God bless you.
God said sex is a gift for married couples and if everything God creates is good because he is God why wouldn't it not be automatically good ? Now, sex outside of the context of marriage may not be good because of the guilt or feeling unfulfilled because there's a disconnect with the person we slept with. Also, the scriptures talks about pre-marital sex. The word "good" doesn't mean "perfect" without any flaws. As well as our walk with Christ. He didn't say because he grants us joy and peace that there will be an absence of trials and tribulation we face. Yes, we still have to learn the bodies of our partner and understand the anatomy of the human body to truly enjoy sex. Scientifically, there are so many avenues to the topic of "sex". If the word sex is spoken from a Biblical standpoint then it first starts from how God views it and it's overall purpose in marriage.
@@je39981 it is good, in that it is right. It might not be good as in enjoyable from the beginning and always. Did you notice Festus' "satisfaction" vs his wife? She admitted to faking it, doing it just because etc. So no, it is not automatically good if you need help locating the clitoris.
This is one of the best videos on sexual purity. Thank you for the honesty, it is more natural when its your God ordained spouse.
@@nosizomyeni245 thank you so much for saying that. Means so much. If you only knew how hard it was to get this out. Something went wrong every time and this was the third time recording it and still lost video at some point. The enemy didn’t want it out but Glory to God that it’s inspiring others.
Im 47 and single and of late I have been really struggling with the fact that I'm still single. Even today I spoke to a friend about being marriage and she believed all men cheat. I really believe that God.led me to.this channel to remind that not all men cheat and more.importantly, there are men who will and can' wait untill marriage before having sex. God bless you for your transparency and for making this video. It was timely and encouraging ❤
@@feegee2847 God bless you and your future marriage. Never lose faith. God is faithful
Well @feegee. Not all men cheat honestly speaking. As a man l have really learnt that when a man fears God there are somethings he can’t do. Even during a temptation let’s say a woman is trying to hit on him he will still resist. Some men really know their values and have learnt that if l want God to bless me then l must be faithful to my wife
@tugumecharles414 thank you for.the encouragement
@@tugumecharles414it’s the learnt for me😂😂Nevertheless, continue to faithful to & in the Lord, He’s faithful to keep His promises💯💯
Singleness is also a blessing. I love my singleness. I'm a 27 year old woman. And I am usually around people who think marriage will dissolve your singleness issue. It won't. It get more complex.
Y’all got me over here chuckling🤣🤣🤣thank you so much for your transparency! I just started my waiting/preparation season. I just got this book 31 Prayers for my Future Husband that I’m going to start this evening and I’m feeling like I should fast along with reading the book. I love your content🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾Keep helping God’s people!
Got this book a few weeks ago. It’s really opened my mind and heart to all the ways to pray for my future spouse. Enjoy the journey. Be blessed!
Starting to watch your videos and really enjoying it. I am a mum with 2 kids and my friends dont know what to say when i say i am celebate to honor God and my future husband. Some tell me is going to be difficult to find a man not to mention some one who would follow God with me on this celebate journey. Yes thats my God's speciality. Doing what others assume is difficult so he can take all the glory
@@abigailagyapong yessss. You honor him and he will bring you what will shock others. Thank you for supporting us. 🙏. May God bless this season of your life.
Am in my season of waiting.... though am not proud of my past.. I pray God will bless me with kingdom marriage
@19:22 say it loud please.. l am so glad this is coming out of a man's mouth. I tried to tell a suitor who claimed to be a believer that our creator knows all of us. If you're trying to test before you buy God does not have any purpose in your life/choice/ future. Be aware, ladies of these wolves in sheep clothes. I once came pretty closed to please one instead of pleasing God l felt horrible, ashamed. I am following my God even if it meant doing it single until my last breath. May Yah bless your union.
How beautiful is this! Thank you for sharing your abstinent journey! What a blessing that you honored the most high Jehovah God! I've been abstinent now for over 12 years and will continue to do so until i get married again! This really encouraged me and strengthen my faith! Thank you both for this video!
6:21 I’m glad y’all emphasized how much examples are needed because the world will have you think that it’s impossible
Thanks so much for this segment!! This message was reassuring for me. I’ve been abstinent for 2years, fell recently, but I thank God for his Grace that I can start over and begin again living a pure life! In Jesus Name! Amen!
If I could like this 10,000 times, I would. Thank you for being honest
@@brendanaddamba248 aww thank you so much 😊
Self control is a fruit of the spirit that you need to develop during singleness and in marriage. It definitely matters how you conduct yourself while you’re single. If you have a lack of self control it will spill over into your marriage.
Jennifer being so honest 😊 love it
@@refilwemm ❤️🙂
I'm grateful for this video. It has helped me understand a lot of things in this season I'm in. God has used you to speak to us. ✝️❤️
Thanks for this part!! I needed to hear this.
@@atailoredjourney 🙌🙌🙌
Im reading the comments before watching the video, okay! Im definitely going to watch the full video
This video coming at a great time, it is so relatable. I like that you are both honest and also speak on some of the struggles. I've had that thought on going to court. 😂
@@soetanadejumoke4003 thank you so much. We really appreciate. So glad it’s relatable. Thank you for sharing
There were so many good things said in this video that I can’t even begin to articulate my responses! Like, where do I start?!😂
To watch a couple speak on Godly concepts and relationships is so refreshing.
In regard to God not playing about His children, the way I sat up and said Amen! I was just telling someone that. He is very protective of us and I love that!
LoL🤣🤣🤣🤣 at what Festus said in the end and your body language as a result.
@@CeCeandCo. you just had us crying and laughing at the same time 🤣🤣🤣🤣. This comment means so much to us. You don’t know how much of a challenge it was to record this. We’ve been trying for weeks. The enemy definitely did not want this coming out. This was the third time recording it. Every time we finished something went wrong with the footage which has never happened to us. You can even see how we lost video for a few mins on this one but we said we’re gonna just put it out like that. Thank you so much for this comment. We appreciate your support 🙂
@@intentionalrising the enemy definitely made it hard because it has truly been a blessing to us. This video has really blessed me coz I'm in that walk right now. God is so good. ✝️❤️
I need to say this…as believers, not having sex before marriage should be a given. God says not to…period. It’s not a suggestion, it’s a command. And I know, many of us have already done it and many single believers are currently participating in it. And to that brother or sister I would encourage you to repent immediately and fully surrender your body to the Lord. God is faithful and more than able to keep us. His grace is sufficient, for His strength is made perfect in your weakness 2 Corinthians 12:19. And God is faithful, He will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you can bear, but with the temptation He will provide a way of escape so that you can endure it 1 Corinthians 10:13. That’s His word. Trust Him on that! And I hope I’m not stepping on anyone’s toes by saying this…but I think sometimes we believe we’re doing God a favor by abstaining. Like we came up with the idea. I’ve been guilty of that🙋🏽♀️🥴The goal should always be to first and foremost honor God.
@@JaimieNicole75 well said
@@intentionalrising I so appreciate your ministry❤️so encouraging!
@@JaimieNicole75 Thank you for the encouragement. All glory to God 🙌
I desperately need another sex talk, maybe we can go over the details or avoiding masturbating and also how to feel beautiful in my life now that I’ve switched to honoring God.
I used to find most of my male acceptance through sexuality and in dressing for attention. Please 🙏🏻 help… I’m in my 30’s was married for 10 years and so I entered my late 20’s with a vigor in find everything I’d “missed out on” so now without any sex or relationships I found that it’s really effected how I feel about myself. I don’t have any idea how to present myself to the outside world now or how to feel beautiful while living in Gods law. Thank you so very much for all you’ve discussed so far ❤
Another great podcast! Thank you! 🎉❤
Thank you very much ❤️🙂
Your videos spoke a lot to me! I hope i can share also how God reveals my future husband to me .. when the time is right!
@@cohcohjam 🙏
@@intentionalrising
thank you so much guys! Im on prayer and fasting now and its incredible how God speaks and shows things to me in a very precise and accurate way. I hope I can share it with you guys. The Lord is speaking to me and all that He speaks, He confirmed the exact same Words, verses, stories through my teachers in bible school, classes and through my Pastors’ preaching! One day, I’ll be sharing to you , Jennifer and Festus , the manifestation of all the Word that God is revealing to me. You guys are from Miami, I pray to meet you guys one day with my future husband and share to you my personal story about waiting and trusting the Lord in this season! I am very inspired with your love story and how God faithfully orchestrated it. I believe that God us doing the same thing for me and my future husband. Ohhh..I cant wait to testify how real our God is!!! Thank you Jen and Fest!
I really want this video to reach million views
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Do you offer coaching for those who are going through a similar experience? I too am going through a separation and it's been difficult. I can only imagine how you had to persevere within those 2 years.
@@yingyang1622 Hi I’m sorry at this moment we don’t offer coaching but we are thinking on starting a Patreon and maybe opening up a space to be able to speak directly to people in that space. We will get it figured out and announce it soon. Thank you for supporting our channel. Really means a lot 🙏
A beautiful and very educating video indeed. One thing that i have been wondering is which sex positions are allowed in a marriage
@@matsietsihenani6747 that’s a tough one that was just revealed to us a month ago and not many people are ready to hear it. People assume that once you’re married everything is ok but unfortunately that’s not the case. It’s a sensitive topic. We’ll have to pray about if and when to do an episode on it.
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Thank you so much for this podcast. But I'll like to ask.. What about kissing before marriage? Is it ok to kiss while truly abstaining from sex before marriage??
I believe this depends on personal conviction. I never had the conviction to not kiss but I know others who did feel that conviction and chose to wait on kissing as well. Definitely something to take to God in prayer.
@@intentionalrising Ok, thank you.
No exchange of body fluids before marriage
@@Hilary-l6x😂
I hear it said that he didn't know you were his wife. Why was that? Or what was communicated- did he say he wasn't sure you were his wife?
@@thespidertaste it was a reference to the fact that God had already revealed to me that he was my husband so I knew it but he didn’t know I was his wife because it had not yet been revealed to him by God. His revelation came much later than mine so I knew before he knew. Hope that helps to clarify it 😊
So glad you’re touching on masturbation and using sex toys…even pornography. It will definitely create unrealistic expectations once you get married…perversion. This is something that needs to be talked about in the church. We are perishing due to a lack of knowledge😩
I so love your content guys.,, ur very genuine and transparent at the same time! I just don’t like Jennifer’s Reaction when Festus jokes at the end “lets have sex” now.. Jennifer, you could’ve at least ride on Festus joke and not making face. Or maybe u should’ve deleted that part .. Jennifer didn’t even smile why pushing the mic away , she looks pissed
If I was actually pissed I would have deleted that part since I am the one who edits the videos. We were playing around you don’t know our humor or how we banter as a married couple. It was all in good fun.
So proud of you guys for waiting until marriage. But let's be honest as Christians: soul ties are not in the Bible 🤷🏽♀️ it's an inference.
There is also no data about the quality of a marriage between a couple that did not wait. We just feel the conviction and guilt. So I agree, lets highlight the beauty of sexual purity instead of shame.
Let's just be honest as Christians because we win souls everyday, when they find a lie from US, we will lose all of them!
Soul ties aren't in the Bible but the scripture highlights the importance of having a pure heart and spirit. The Bible also brings up many example of the spiritual realm and the attack if we're not rooted in prayer. The word "Soul Tie" is used to describe two individuals that connects emotionally or physically. In comparison, the reference "Two become One" in the Bible means not only by Law in marriage but by flesh. Scientists proven when a man and woman sleep with one another their bodily fluids are swapped. The mind also changes as it undergoes a phase of feeling a rush of oxytocin, dopamine, and the "high" feeling from sexual intercourse.
1. Though the word "Soul Tie" isn't in the Bible it still stands as relevant when two people sleep with one another and there is a "hold" they may feel even when they depart. Whether the connection is Godly or not there is a spiritual, chemical, mental, emotional, and physical change that occurs in both individuals.
2. There isn't data related to quality of marriages on couples that did not wait but there are testimonies from Godly couples. Not everyone who decided to not wait will feel conviction or guilt. To be of Christ and re-dedicate our lives means he changes our minds, body, and souls to be more like him. There is no condemnation or shame for those who are in Christ Jesus.
@@je39981 your entire paragraph describes "inference" which I said from jump. Thank you for agreeing with me.
@@je39981 please read number 2, and admit that no formal study that we can refer to is available for us to have this conversation. The rest of the Christianese I am well aware of because I have been in the church my whole life. But remember, we are talking about worldly people who need to know what we know, and give their whole beings to Christ. Don't be condescending towards them by speaking Christianese when you address the advantages of having blessed sex within marriage.
Festus, again, we have whole counselling sessions with couples about quality of intimacy in marriage. Let's not over spiritualise things. God does not pick between His children, so just because sex is from God, it does not make it automatically good. Biologically, some women cannot orgasm that alone tells you a lot!
We are losing Christians because we are not being true.
@@MissCombs1511 Thanks for your perspective but my level of faith tells me that as a child of God anything I want, if I take it to God, biological issues or not, if it’s within his will he can take care of it. Please know that before any recording we have done we have seriously prayed that anything out of our mouths is Holy Spirit led and not our own words. So I have no reservations about anything I’ve said. I do believe Im being true and we are not loosing Christians from what is Holy Spirit led. I hope you can respect my perspective. God bless you.
Cool! Understood my brother. 🙏🏾 I respect your perspective on this. God Bless You both 😊
God said sex is a gift for married couples and if everything God creates is good because he is God why wouldn't it not be automatically good ? Now, sex outside of the context of marriage may not be good because of the guilt or feeling unfulfilled because there's a disconnect with the person we slept with. Also, the scriptures talks about pre-marital sex. The word "good" doesn't mean "perfect" without any flaws. As well as our walk with Christ. He didn't say because he grants us joy and peace that there will be an absence of trials and tribulation we face.
Yes, we still have to learn the bodies of our partner and understand the anatomy of the human body to truly enjoy sex. Scientifically, there are so many avenues to the topic of "sex". If the word sex is spoken from a Biblical standpoint then it first starts from how God views it and it's overall purpose in marriage.
@@je39981 it is good, in that it is right. It might not be good as in enjoyable from the beginning and always. Did you notice Festus' "satisfaction" vs his wife? She admitted to faking it, doing it just because etc. So no, it is not automatically good if you need help locating the clitoris.
@@je39981👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻