How much intimacy is enough intimacy for us

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  • Опубліковано 2 лют 2024
  • We discuss how often we tend to need Physical intimacy in a week as couple. We talk about the ups and downs of our sex drives and how we have worked to meet each others needs in this area. We will talk about what happens to our dynamic when we both feel like we aren't getting it enough or when it starts to feel one sided.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 16

  • @stevebuck1737
    @stevebuck1737 4 місяці тому +2

    Love you guys open honest genuine. ❤

    • @koatysum
      @koatysum  4 місяці тому

      Thank you for watching! That’s what we always want to be open honest and genuine

  • @michaeljohndennis2231
    @michaeljohndennis2231 13 днів тому

    Hunk alert - keeping us thirsty queens happy 😂 ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @haywoodfowler4791
    @haywoodfowler4791 4 місяці тому +1

    Awesome video

  • @Dragonmoon8526
    @Dragonmoon8526 4 місяці тому +2

    Having a camera on you during that activity is going to alter the perception of the experience. You're naturally going to "perform" because you want to look good.
    You two are more comfortable infront of a camera. So you two can find the intimacy in the moment.
    But, I'd assume when cameras are off and it's just you two focusing on each other, this creates a stronger intimate connection.
    Sex drive can very from person to person. As can what they "want" from the experience. But, as Sum pointed out, just because his drive has slightly decreased from the physical act because of shoots. His desire and emotional needs haven't been met.
    So it's unsurprising his libido is still overall high because the act of sex alone doesn't deminish his other needs.
    If all we needed was to experiance an orgasim to meet that desire threshold, than most people would just need to self-pleasure and not even need a partner for that experience.

    • @koatysum
      @koatysum  4 місяці тому +1

      Very well put!

  • @077koko
    @077koko 4 місяці тому

    Can you guys make fitness vlog like , what you eat in a day ?

  • @jesseivey2905
    @jesseivey2905 4 місяці тому

    3 times a day times 7 is 21 times a week for me.

  • @calvindavis2054
    @calvindavis2054 4 місяці тому

    So, you count your time around the OF and studio time. Sum asked my question, do studio time cut off your personal time together. How long will that last. It feels like an end is definitely a part. What if you considered NO collabs in OF. And that time being very sensual with the two of you. OF could use a ‘not just smut’ channel. Two birds, one stone.
    You two, being married , have to find a way to not let your‘separate’ sexual lives not affect you normal life together, just the two of you. I’m sure that didn’t have to be said. But I hear a, dare I say concern, voice from Sum. And a ‘we’ll just do this’ from Koaty. The voices are not the same. They should sound the same. The OF collaborations and studio needs a balance that is consistent with Koaty and Sum.
    Plus, didn’t I hear you two once say you wanted kids. If that becomes a goal, the need for balance will become even greater.
    Anything is possible if you try. Find your personal intimacy on how you feel, not in a discussion. Sit facing each other once a week, say to each other only things you want together. No explanations. Just the short sentence in 30 seconds or less, each of you taking turns. 20 minute sessions. Try it, or not, but balance is not an exception. Find it boys.

  • @TKOVNL
    @TKOVNL 4 місяці тому

    Sum's hot 🔥🔥

  • @cazb5777
    @cazb5777 4 місяці тому +4

    I believe that physical intimacy is definitely the glue that helps keeps a relationship together. I love your openness and honesty & I absolutely love how you can laugh and giggle with one another 🩷