She Discovered Her Husband’s SECRET Porn Problem, Then This Happened

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  • His porn problem almost ended their marriage, then THIS happened… In this presentation, you’ll hear about how God restored Michael and Heidi’s marriage after Michael’s sexual sin was uncovered.
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  • @Firedrake-SP
    @Firedrake-SP 6 днів тому +13

    No one is perfect. We all give in to sin at times. But there's hope for each one of us.

    • @sarahrickman6609
      @sarahrickman6609 5 днів тому

      I don't give in to sin. That's not Biblical at all. We have the Holy Spirit to keep us or help us and strengthen us against giving into sin.

    • @gatehouse5209
      @gatehouse5209 2 дні тому

      ​​@@sarahrickman6609 So you don't sin anymore, ever?

  • @SergioGonzalez-he3gr
    @SergioGonzalez-he3gr 6 днів тому +12

    This was such a Powerful testimony to the miracle working power of God Almighty when there is true repentance, forgiveness, obedience and reverence unto the Lord. Praise the Lord for your testimony 🙏

  • @SK-bw2cv
    @SK-bw2cv 6 днів тому +21

    Nothing is too difficult for God to change and nobody is beyond his reach. 🙏

    • @miscamisca6775
      @miscamisca6775 5 днів тому

      " Nothing is too difficult for God to change and nobody is beyond his reach. "
      But clearly, he do not care, if he did, he would fix it, after all he is the all loving god that only want us good

    • @SK-bw2cv
      @SK-bw2cv 5 днів тому

      @@miscamisca6775 or he could provide a way of salvation. Oh wait.....

    • @burnttoast2790
      @burnttoast2790 4 дні тому

      @@SK-bw2cv Leaving a trail of breadcrumbs doesn't mean much when he could snap his fingers and make a high-quality road with signs and instructions in every language without the need for interpreters.

    • @Abidingingrace-zf3tr
      @Abidingingrace-zf3tr 4 дні тому +1

      ​@@burnttoast2790 maybe the problem isn't God. Maybe the problem is us and our inability to hear Him because we decided to rebel against Him. Amazing.

    • @SK-bw2cv
      @SK-bw2cv 2 дні тому

      @@Abidingingrace-zf3tr there you go

  • @marthaj67
    @marthaj67 6 днів тому +15

    I don't think men have a CLUE how badly it crushes women to find out your husband is addicted to this stuff. Because it's become SO pervasive and ACCEPTED by culture, men in general see no problem with it. They don't know just how destructive it is to marriages and families. Not to mention what it does to the women in the "industry". Not all, but many of them have been trafficked and forced into doing it.

    • @zorot3876
      @zorot3876 5 днів тому

      I think Christian men know they are committing adultery in their heart sooner or later as God convicts them.

    • @gbear34
      @gbear34 2 дні тому

      Men know, and an entire generation of younger guys are trying their hardest to get free. They are forming support groups and creating encouraging content. And they're still struggling and imperfect bc it's hard and it's right there at all times

  • @christys.3912
    @christys.3912 5 днів тому +5

    Many marriages struggle with this problem. It looks different for everyone, but it can destroy a marriage, a relationship, and the people involved. Jesus saves those who ask though!

  • @elliechewny6924
    @elliechewny6924 6 днів тому +12

    Beautiful story! Christ redeems!

  • @user-zn5qh6hx8q
    @user-zn5qh6hx8q 6 днів тому +6

    Thank you for this presentation... So happy for you both in your marriage. God is sooo good. .

  • @Never-EndingLight777
    @Never-EndingLight777 3 дні тому +4

    Please pray for my brother Kenneth. He has been diagnosed with depression in the past but is now suffering from psychosis which can lead to schizophrenia.
    Please pray that God would heal him from all mental disorders, release him from any demonic opression and fill him with the Holy Spirit.
    In the name of Jesus Christ, amen!

    • @brittneyrussell1766
      @brittneyrussell1766 День тому

      Look into the carnivore diet for healing mental illness. Ppl have been healed from depression, anxiety, bipolar, schizophrenia, etc. Look up Dr. Chris Palmer videos on UA-cam.

  • @achildofGod36
    @achildofGod36 4 дні тому +2

    Psalm 119:130
    The unfolding of your words gives light; it gives understanding to the simple.
    Praise the LORD for His perfect word!
    Psalm 119:111
    Your statutes are my heritage forever; they are the joy of my heart.

  • @IsaacMee
    @IsaacMee 6 днів тому +8

    Luke 19:10
    For the Son of Man is come to seek and save that which is lost

  • @Theologylover4295
    @Theologylover4295 6 днів тому +10

    Im glad to hear people are struggling with pornography because if they dont struggle with pornography it could show they're heart is hardened, they don't struggle, they just do it for they own pleasures they're not fighting it, they're embracing it.
    2 timothy 3 : 4

    • @Majorpain32677
      @Majorpain32677 5 днів тому +2

      I used to watch everyday almost when I was backsliding always felt guilty I'm so much closer to God but it does show it's ugly head sometimes ,women need to understand that men are visual Jesus gets you to heaven not not sinning

    • @Theologylover4295
      @Theologylover4295 5 днів тому

      @@Majorpain32677 amen, I use to watch it all the time but God has shown Grace to me and now it's an every day battle. it's been a few months or even a year sense I've watched it, but im still fighting

  • @thomask9577
    @thomask9577 6 днів тому +21

    One important thing to note is that in Matthew 19:9, the original Greek word used for “sexual immorality” is porneia. That word was used to describe the physical act of extramarital intercourse. This is an important distinction because everyone is sinful and commit acts of lust and adultery in his/her heart. Having lustful thoughts, while a sin and is “sexual immoral”, is not a justifiable reason for Biblical divorce. Otherwise any type of lust would be a cause for divorce.

    • @abcall-timesboxingchanneln7076
      @abcall-timesboxingchanneln7076 5 днів тому

      There is a further explanation that in the jewish culture some say Jesus was referring to cheating duriing the engagement not for someone who was married. If you committed adultry you would be killed and the person you cheated with. I don't think they enforced that all the time. The visual stuff is an offense to god and the spouse but divorce with remarriage is not an option because Christ changed the law in matthew WHEN HE SAID But I TELL YOU NOW. Divorce was so easy because of the peoples hearts where cold and you can say I divorce you three times and it was over.Some woman use the verse to divorce people but as Heidi said you should forgive as christ forgives.

    • @frillylily8005
      @frillylily8005 5 днів тому +2

      The thing with porn is one is usually doing a physically sexual act it’s no different than one catching there spouse looking through the neighbors window Doing stuff to themselves

    • @m.willow11
      @m.willow11 5 днів тому +6

      Longing to do something in your heart is the same as having committed it in the eyes of the Lord. It's one thing to slip into a lustful thought, recognize it, and immediately ask the Father for forgiveness and help to not do it again. Its another thing entirely to dwell on the thought and entertain it in your mind. We're to meditate on God's Word, not sinful actions and and ways to commit them.

    • @jamiem.362
      @jamiem.362 3 дні тому +1

      The word porneia is used here and in Acts to describe the sin of incest. This question from the Pharisees was brought to Jesus to trick him into speaking out against Herod's incestuous relationship.

    • @brb1050
      @brb1050 3 дні тому +3

      Jesus said if you lust in your heart, you have committed adultery.

  • @PsycheDismantled
    @PsycheDismantled 5 днів тому +4

    I can relate, all of the men in my life have been porn watchers. I consider porn cheating and have been judged as crazy and jealous by my in-laws, boyfriends, and strangers. People will attack you if you condemn their sin, especially if it's socially acceptable like this one. Many women will accept this type of adultry because society has molded them to believe it's healthy, acceptable, better than actually going out, and committing the act. It makes me sad that women, someone's daughter, subjects themselves to the lust of men for acceptance, value, and money.

    • @frillylily8005
      @frillylily8005 4 дні тому +1

      They attack you because many of those same people are watching porn themselves or have those they know watching it. Meaning if watching porn is cheating there own spouse is technically cheating on them wich brings them on the defense because they don’t want to face reality.

  • @zerosteel0123
    @zerosteel0123 6 днів тому +3

    Hey, what can you say? Jesus still saves. He still heals and still cares about our lives. Thank you Lord

  • @TickedOffPriest
    @TickedOffPriest 2 дні тому +1

    What a powerful testimony.

  • @rallyl7053
    @rallyl7053 6 днів тому +5

    Thanks for your testimony

  • @IAMhassentyou
    @IAMhassentyou 5 днів тому +2

    Thank you Jesus for your delivering power and your healing and mercy and grace
    2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!

  • @newcreationinchrist1423
    @newcreationinchrist1423 5 днів тому +1

    Thanks for sharing this testimony, AIG 🙂🙏✝️ God bless you

  • @GrahamCommander
    @GrahamCommander 6 днів тому +4

    I know full well the depth of porn, just how it sears the mind and allows oneself to justify ignoring the wedding vows well into too many years of marriage

  • @jamiem.362
    @jamiem.362 3 дні тому +1

    The worldly music appeals to the fleshly desires. Music carries a message, too, and Satan uses the rock beat to simulate physical perversions!!

  • @Jaggerbush
    @Jaggerbush 4 дні тому

    I don't know how kids are growing up like this. I have a good friend whos an MD and her 11 year old boy has never been talked to about porn and he has an iphone 12 - and she doesn't monitor it AT ALL. I'm an atheist but i enjoy this channel from time to time but this topic needs seriously addressed.

  • @thursten4moore
    @thursten4moore 5 днів тому +2

    Very Good

  • @charleshenderson1174
    @charleshenderson1174 6 днів тому +2

    Thanks

  • @Majorpain32677
    @Majorpain32677 5 днів тому +3

    This is what happens when people think they have to be perfect and can lose their salvation we all struggle with something everday we sin

  • @Katya-zj7ni
    @Katya-zj7ni 6 днів тому +2

    I love you two 😂😂😂

  • @LakeMissoulaAquaticsandPlants
    @LakeMissoulaAquaticsandPlants 6 днів тому +3

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @archibaldling8621
    @archibaldling8621 5 днів тому +1

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @radianthaze5332
    @radianthaze5332 5 днів тому

    I clicked thinking it was about today’s sex industry. Oh how the times have changed… and for worse. Way worse than it was back then, since technology has exacerbated pornography’s hold on so many people.

  • @Abidingingrace-zf3tr
    @Abidingingrace-zf3tr 4 дні тому

    The devil is very crafty and he has many ways to lead people away from God

  • @rubenthekid
    @rubenthekid 6 днів тому

    Weirdest thing about this video are the videos about airplane accidents in the suggestions

    • @MrNoobed
      @MrNoobed 6 днів тому +1

      Sorry that's my fault, im a flight sim nerd

    • @intoalivinghope
      @intoalivinghope 6 днів тому +1

      Your suggested videos are based on things you've watched before. Some people say that they've talked about topics, and the next time they look at their phone, they have an ad or suggestion for that thing. If that makes sense. I've never had it happen to me, so 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @rubenthekid
      @rubenthekid 6 днів тому

      @@intoalivinghope yeah no that's not entirely true. I turn off my watch history so that UA-cam can't get a direct link to what I like to watch, and I've never watched airplane crash videos in the past.

    • @intoalivinghope
      @intoalivinghope 6 днів тому

      @@rubenthekid maybe the algorithm just calculated how likely you are to watch those videos 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @marthaj67
      @marthaj67 6 днів тому

      ​@@rubenthekid UA-cam can track what you view without your watch history turned on.

  • @a.m.l.8760
    @a.m.l.8760 5 днів тому

    Well, Whatever happened to the fruits of the Spirit and seeking God with all your heart soul and mind. The acceptance of depravity and tendency of humans to be annoyed with those closest to them, the hard heart. Porn wrecked us, the porn, the lie, the blame, instead of owning watching porn, literally women younger than my own daughters......it's sick and disgusting. There needs to be a stop to the porn (Which will never happen, because of lust and greed) (principalities and powers) and an understanding about what it does to your family. Your wife....(The confusion of is this cheating?? ) If he's hiding it he is cheating on you. And your children.

  • @deannemiller891
    @deannemiller891 6 днів тому

    You lost me after the comments about sign language...

    • @marthaj67
      @marthaj67 6 днів тому +1

      That was something called a _joke._

  • @miscamisca6775
    @miscamisca6775 5 днів тому +2

    If only god could lift his finger a little bit then all these problems would be gone

  • @JamesRichardWiley
    @JamesRichardWiley 4 дні тому

    As a single man with no girlfriend to please, there is no porn problem. I do as I please.

    • @sumbomarcus
      @sumbomarcus 4 дні тому

      You will soon find someone you like & by then twill be an addiction. The fact that you think of someone other than your wife is the main problem. Just because sth is widely accepted doesn't make it good. Its still sin

  • @epicofgilgamesh9964
    @epicofgilgamesh9964 6 днів тому

    *The Enuma Elish would later be the inspiration for the Hebrew scribes who created the text now known as the biblical Book of Genesis.* Prior to the 19th century CE, the Bible was considered the oldest book in the world and its narratives were thought to be completely original. In the mid-19th century CE, however, European museums, as well as academic and religious institutions, sponsored excavations in Mesopotamia to find physical evidence for historical corroboration of the stories in the Bible. ***These excavations found quite the opposite, however, in that, once cuneiform was translated, it was understood that a number of biblical narratives were Mesopotamian in origin.***
    *Famous stories such as the Fall of Man and the Great Flood were originally conceived and written down in Sumer,* translated and modified later in Babylon, and reworked by the Assyrians ***before they were used by the Hebrew scribes for the versions which appear in the Bible.***
    ***In revising the Mesopotamian creation story for their own ends, the Hebrew scribes tightened the narrative and the focus but retained the concept of the all-powerful deity who brings order from chaos.*** Marduk, in the Enuma Elish, establishes the recognizable order of the world - *just as God does in the Genesis tale* - and human beings are expected to recognize this great gift and honor the deity through service.
    *"Enuma Elish - The Babylonian Epic of Creation - Full Text - World History Encyclopedia"*
    *"Sumerian Is the World's Oldest Written Language | ProLingo"*
    *"Sumerian Civilization: Inventing the Future - World History Encyclopedia"*
    ("The Sumerians were the people of southern Mesopotamia whose civilization flourished between c. 4100-1750 BCE."
    "Ancient Israelites and their origins date back to 1800-1200 BCE.")
    *"The Myth of Adapa - World History Encyclopedia"*
    Also discussed by Professor Christine Hayes at Yale University in her 1st lecture of the series on the Hebrew Bible from 8:50 to 14:30 minutes, lecture 3 from 28:30 to 41:35 minutes, lecture 4 from 0:00 up to 21:30 minutes and 24:00 up to 35:30 minutes and lecture 7 from 24:20 to 25:10 minutes.
    From a Biblical scholar:
    "Many stories in the ancient world have their origins in other stories and were borrowed and modified from other or earlier peoples. *For instance, many of the stories now preserved in the Bible are* ***modified*** *versions of stories that existed in the cultures and traditions of Israel’s* ***older*** *contemporaries.* Stories about the creation of the universe, a cataclysmic universal flood, digging wells as land markers, the naming of important cultic sites, gods giving laws to their people, and even stories about gods decreeing the possession of land to their people were all part of the cultural and literary matrix of the ancient Near East. *Biblical scribes freely* ***adopted and modified*** *these stories as a means to express their own identity, origins, and customs."*
    *"Stories from the Bible"* by Dr Steven DiMattei, from his website *"Biblical Contradictions"*
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    In addition, look up the below articles.
    *"Yahweh was just an ancient Canaanite god. We have been deceived! - Escaping Christian Fundamentalism"*
    *"Hammurabi - World History Encyclopedia"*
    (Hammurabi (r. 1792-1750 BCE) was the sixth king of the Amorite First Dynasty of Babylon best known for his famous law code which served as the model for others, *including the Mosaic Law of the Bible.)*
    *"Debunking the Devil - Michael A. Sherlock (Author)"*
    *"The Greatest Trick Religion Ever Pulled: Convincing Us That Satan Exists | Atheomedy"*
    *"Zoroastrianism And Persian Mythology: The Foundation Of Belief"*
    (Scroll to the last section: Zoroastrianism is the Foundation of Western Belief)
    *"10 Ways The Bible Was Influenced By Other Religions - Listverse"*
    *"January | 2014 | Atheomedy"* - Where the Hell Did the Idea of Hell Come From?
    *"Retired bishop explains the reason why the Church invented "Hell" - Ideapod"*
    Watch *"The Origins of Salvation, Judgement and Hell"* by Derreck Bennett at Atheologica
    (Sensitive theists should only watch from 7:00 to 17:30 minutes as evangelical Christians are lambasted. He's a former theist and has been studying the scholarship and comparative religions for over 15 years)
    *"Top Ten Reasons Noah’s Flood is Mythology - The Sensuous Curmudgeon"*
    *"Forget about Noah's Ark; There Was No Worldwide Flood | Bible Interp"*
    *"The Search for Noah’s Flood - Biblical Archaeology Society"*
    *"Eridu Genesis - World History Encyclopedia"*
    *"The Atrahasis Epic: The Great Flood & the Meaning of Suffering - World History Encyclopedia"*
    Watch *"How Aron Ra Debunks Noah's Flood"*
    (8 part series debunking Noah's flood using multiple branches of science)
    *"The Adam and Eve myth - News24"*
    *"Before Adam and Eve - Psychology Today"*
    *"Gilgamesh vs. Noah - Wordpress"*
    *"Old Testament Tales Were Stolen From Other Cultures - Griffin"*
    *"Parallelism between “The Hymn to Aten” and Psalm 104 - Project Augustine"*
    *"Studying the Bible"* - by Dr Steven DiMattei
    (This particular article from a critical Biblical scholar highlights how the authors of the Hebrew Bible used their *fictional* god as a mouthpiece for their own views and ideologies)
    *"How do we know that the biblical writers were* ***not*** *writing history?"* -- by Dr Steven DiMattei
    *"Contradictions in the Bible | Identified verse by verse and explained using the most up-to-date scholarly information about the Bible, its texts, and the men who wrote them"* -- by Dr. Steven DiMattei

    • @SK-bw2cv
      @SK-bw2cv 6 днів тому +2

      Bwahahaha 🤣 you really think that we would believe your nonsense. 😂😂😂

    • @josephgammell3501
      @josephgammell3501 6 днів тому +1

      Although the Enuma Elisha and other records may be older copies, they are corruptions of the original accounts inspired by God and transmitted orally until the Hebrew scriptures were recorded. An older copy does not not necessarily indicate an older source.

    • @burnttoast2790
      @burnttoast2790 5 днів тому +1

      @@josephgammell3501 Except we have _zero_ evidence that what you said is actually true. it's literally a case of "yeah sure, but I prefer x."

  • @IsaacMee
    @IsaacMee 6 днів тому +7

    Luke 19:10
    For the Son of Man is come to seek and save that which is lost