yeah this is spectacular in every way. the choreography, the costume, the performance, the frankness. ezra's geniusness. music that always feels so honest and fresh
Lyrics All my friends are writing their resumes My responsible friends are applying for jobs But me, I was considering ditching Ezra, and going by Esme Baby, would you find that so odd? My dying friends are finding religion While my intellectual friends are all denying God But me, I got just one ambition I sit around all day wishing That the real me might be the one you want I want to be your girlfriend I want to walk down the street hanging from your arm That's right, little old me, I want to be your girlfriend And leave behind this loveless world I know Honey, I know that I don't have the body you want in a girlfriend What I am working with is less than ideal But maybe, baby, it's not all about what you thought that you wanted It's about the way I can make you feel Oooh I want to be your girlfriend I want to walk down the street hanging on your arm That's right, little old me, I want to be your girlfriend And blow your mind each night when you come home
@@hevillepeacefoot8647 some people are just lazy and don Anna look it up for themselves, so this comment saves time. Thank you for posting these lyrics!
Never heard their music before and didn't think I would cry my eyes out watching this. I'm trans and I've been feeling really shitty latelty so this was perfect.
I'm feeling the same way nutte! Also trans, and I just keep crying everytime I watch/listen. As another commenter mentioned, this is "Achingly beautiful"
I thought I had seen it all from the Instagram previews, but the finished project is unreal. Thank you for being so candid and vulnerable in your art. The joy in life is stitched together from small moments like these.
I showed this to a girl I really like. She's my girlfriend now and well I guess things went well lol. I'm so full of emotions right now. We're going to be there to watch each other mature as women. Jessica, you're one amazing girl.
Me Breaking Gender Norms: Ezra Give Me Strength My Friends: Ezra Miller or Ezra Furman? Me: Yes. EDIT: (4/6/2020 E. Miller chokes a fan) Yeah nvm just Ezra Furman.
youtube randomly recommended me this song around the time i was beginning to question my gender, i remember listening to this song on repeat for hours because it's so insanely good, i feel like it helped me figure out that im nonbinary, it helped me become more comfortable with gender stuff, so truly thank you so much for this song Ezra, it's absolutely beautiful
Me discovering this song months ago and listening to it on repeat for weeks: I guess I just really like this song lol 😅 Me now having started hormones and living life as a woman: I UNDERSTAND NOW WHY I RELATED SO HARD
I did the exact same thing, started hormones this week. I always knew there was a reason this song would always bring me to tears but I was to scared to accept it.
@@doubleyouexwhyamzed Thats literally not what I said at all... I didn't understand why I loved this song when it came out. Later I came to terms with my womanhood and began my transition. Then I looked back at my fondness of the song and understood why I related so hard.
@@soleydoll4877 how did you not understand why you liked the song so much if you related to it to begin with? Sounds like you could only relate to it and understand it after your hormones 🤷🏽♂️
Never heard of them before, but I just fallen in love, and I'm asking myself why have I lived this long without having notion of this beautiful artist. These days, in particular, this song speaks to my soul, I nearly cried. I'm just realizing that I can relate to all this more than I ever though. It has always been there, but I've always tried to think about something else. Oh, sometimes I wish I could be your boyfriend, Ezra.
I've been following your music for years. Ever since this person on an anonymous forum site shared a link to I wanna destroy myself. I feel like I've gotten to see you become bolder and more confident. It's been pretty awesome.
It’s makes me sad that a lot of the comments on Ezra’s video are just hating on trans people. I know she wouldn’t like that. I saw her in person at a concert and let me just say that as a trans person, they made me feel like someone out there gets me. Because all these transphobic comments I already have to deal with everyday of my life? That hasn’t exactly been great on my mental state and I doubt that it has been great for any other trans person. So, these artists like Ezra Furman make me feel like maybe I will find happiness as a man someday just like she has as a woman. She gives me hope and it really hurts to see people degrading that hope. I know there will probably be some reply to this saying “get help, lol” or “there is only one gender” or “you mean ‘he’” and I know I can’t stop you, but just know that this artist, Ezra, has made me, and I hope other trans people, stronger, so we can handle people like you on the daily. Trans rights are human rights 🏳️⚧️! Sending love to all. Especially Ezra Furman, and the very beautiful woman she is.
This song really has got the ability to let me remember something I forgot, but that I knew when I just went into this world and I feel like everyone really knew, we don't fall in love with a girl or a boy or everyone in between, we fall in love with a soul. Thank you ❤
When people try to make sense of me (a lesbian) and my trans wife, or friends try to make sense of their LGBT children, I remind them people fall in love with people and that's all there is to it.
No matter whether you’re Ezra or Esme, this song is one of my favorites right now and h e c k you’re a beautiful human 😊. I only recently found your music but I’m obsessed now, no turning back 😂
This song means so fucking much for me. Sad and heartbreaking that we have to go though so much hard things that we dont have a single choice in. Thank u ezra for this masterpiece.
I have followed your music ever since Sex Ed came out, and I just absolutely adore your music & your passion in creating such beautiful lyrics. thank you for making such sweet, meaningful songs :-)
So I'm new here, can anyone please explain how Ezra identifies/their background/what's up this dude cuz I love their vibe I just have no idea what it is or how to reference it lmao
In an interview last year, Ezra said that he identified as a bisexual male who just did male differently than most. But I think more recently, Ezra has said that he is trans. On his twitter, he has the pronouns he/she/him/her listed so I think, currently, he's fine with either.
oh my god... this is so pretty . the vibe, the sound.. it's so good and so powerful, the singer is really beautiful! way to go, let's go break the gender norms !! ♥️ deserves more recognition, i'll definitely be adding this to my playlists
Am Stot, 19 years old, am straight but i really feel what y'all are going through and the opposite of straight is not curved or broken or bent its just the same word :straight in a different language that only you and your significant other will understand. Thanks @ezrafurman 1st Aug 2022 still here.
omg this is SO beautiful and so is she. i am cisgender but this breaks my heart and i feel so much for trans folks who can’t be their authentic selves. what an incredible piece of art
Sometimes you find amazing anthems at 1:00 am when you’re about to look for asmr to go to sleep
Matt Duncan wait wtf i was doing exactly that AAHHA
are you a spy
............... how did you DO THAT?!
like... exactly 1:14 and came from an asmr video????
Matt Duncan this was uncanny
yeah this is spectacular in every way. the choreography, the costume, the performance, the frankness. ezra's geniusness. music that always feels so honest and fresh
and on top of all that, this song just sounds great. definitely one of my favorites of this year
@@carstarsarstenstesenn oh absolutely !! had it on repeat for months now. brilliant stuff
Ezra or Esme, your art still takes my breath away🖤
Lyrics
All my friends are writing their resumes
My responsible friends are applying for jobs
But me, I was considering ditching Ezra, and going by Esme
Baby, would you find that so odd?
My dying friends are finding religion
While my intellectual friends are all denying God
But me, I got just one ambition
I sit around all day wishing
That the real me might be the one you want
I want to be your girlfriend
I want to walk down the street hanging from your arm
That's right, little old me, I want to be your girlfriend
And leave behind this loveless world I know
Honey, I know that I don't have the body you want in a girlfriend
What I am working with is less than ideal
But maybe, baby, it's not all about what you thought that you wanted
It's about the way I can make you feel
Oooh
I want to be your girlfriend
I want to walk down the street hanging on your arm
That's right, little old me, I want to be your girlfriend
And blow your mind each night when you come home
You literally looked them up on google and copied and pasted it here
Scrubbing Bubble what’s wrong with that
Scrubbing Bubble yeah?? Lol how are you being elitist on a fucking UA-cam comments section
@@hevillepeacefoot8647 some people are just lazy and don Anna look it up for themselves, so this comment saves time. Thank you for posting these lyrics!
Never heard their music before and didn't think I would cry my eyes out watching this. I'm trans and I've been feeling really shitty latelty so this was perfect.
You mean "his" music, right?
Philip France If they meant ‘his’ then they would’ve used ‘his’ you fucking tool
I'm feeling the same way nutte! Also trans, and I just keep crying everytime I watch/listen. As another commenter mentioned, this is "Achingly beautiful"
theres only 2 genders bye
@@zuckmeoff3035 bye
I thought I had seen it all from the Instagram previews, but the finished project is unreal. Thank you for being so candid and vulnerable in your art. The joy in life is stitched together from small moments like these.
I showed this to a girl I really like. She's my girlfriend now and well I guess things went well lol. I'm so full of emotions right now. We're going to be there to watch each other mature as women. Jessica, you're one amazing girl.
This is just great. :)
I love all the positivity in the comment section
I'm not trans but I really feel for transgender people. This song has me in tears
Adelaide ❤️❤️
ally ganggang
Egg
I am just curious if ezra is a man or a woman?
@@DmNetworks woman
Me Breaking Gender Norms: Ezra Give Me Strength
My Friends: Ezra Miller or Ezra Furman?
Me: Yes.
EDIT:
(4/6/2020 E. Miller chokes a fan) Yeah nvm just Ezra Furman.
720 up votes and no replies? Seems a little weird.
Lol
this comment
But Ezra Miller is just bi.
Thank you sweeties for the likes. 😘
the two dancers and their choreopraphy is so captivating, I could watch them dance for hours
literally my heart started hurting this song is my actual life atm it hurts
here after ezra fully came out as both exclusively she/her and as a mother 💞💕 so proud.
He looks ridiculous as a female wtf
I Am Really "PROUD" Of Her Too!
Those lyrics make so much more sense now
@@jnolette1030 dont fucking misgender her and gtfo.
@@jnolette1030 fuck off transphobe
youtube randomly recommended me this song around the time i was beginning to question my gender, i remember listening to this song on repeat for hours because it's so insanely good, i feel like it helped me figure out that im nonbinary, it helped me become more comfortable with gender stuff, so truly thank you so much for this song Ezra, it's absolutely beautiful
Oh boy this gets me in the gender feels. It's hard enough to date even when you aren't trans
The gender feels? You are why America is dying.
Chris A get over yourself lmfao
@@winkydinkytoodlesnoot8141 get some help winkydinky, we're worried
@@chrisa7672 lol
@@PoopyMcGriddle why you worry about how someone should feel or who someone should love? Get a life.
Me discovering this song months ago and listening to it on repeat for weeks: I guess I just really like this song lol 😅
Me now having started hormones and living life as a woman: I UNDERSTAND NOW WHY I RELATED SO HARD
congrats for going on hormones!! this song is such a trans anthem
I did the exact same thing, started hormones this week. I always knew there was a reason this song would always bring me to tears but I was to scared to accept it.
You needed estrogen to figure out you were a woman? Then you weren't a woman to begin with.
@@doubleyouexwhyamzed Thats literally not what I said at all... I didn't understand why I loved this song when it came out. Later I came to terms with my womanhood and began my transition. Then I looked back at my fondness of the song and understood why I related so hard.
@@soleydoll4877 how did you not understand why you liked the song so much if you related to it to begin with? Sounds like you could only relate to it and understand it after your hormones 🤷🏽♂️
Never heard of them before, but I just fallen in love, and I'm asking myself why have I lived this long without having notion of this beautiful artist. These days, in particular, this song speaks to my soul, I nearly cried. I'm just realizing that I can relate to all this more than I ever though. It has always been there, but I've always tried to think about something else. Oh, sometimes I wish I could be your boyfriend, Ezra.
this is genuinely such a beautiful piece of art. wow.
This is the content I wanted to find on the Internet in 2019
I've been following your music for years. Ever since this person on an anonymous forum site shared a link to I wanna destroy myself. I feel like I've gotten to see you become bolder and more confident. It's been pretty awesome.
So refreshing to see someone being so themselves and making amazing music
Some 60's vibes? Ezra, amazing one!
She rocks
I'm going from Esmerelda to Ezra haha. Opposite of the lyrics
What are the odds? That's amazing
It's a phase.
@@benp9793 I bet you being a piece of shit is not a phase, so why would it be the case for the op's male identification?
@@gggggggggggggggggg161 to be fair, people are rarely anything permanently. He could stop being an asshole any time.
Congratulations, Ezra :^)
ezra always looks so good!! exited for the album
This feels kinda mitski mixed with david bowie. I love it.
OMG YES
@@maciel.4539 omg imagine a mitski collab. Or even st. Vincent.
Wrong.
And Alex Turner
I was thinking a little like rufus wainwright
So pretty in this video! Odd but I love Ezra's teeth.
ugh me too! for some weird reason i can't stop repeating 1:01 they are so cute lmao
A bit happy some people like crooked teeth
@@martinapaladino7618 fuck yeah, her facial expression is so aesthetic.
i was just thinking this! idk why but they add to her prettiness
Aaawwwww... Oh Sweetie, You Are a Brave, Strong & Beautiful Woman But I Think That Most People Already Knew. You Be You Girl! Much Love & Respect.💖
"I Wanna Be Your Girlfriend" debuted at #23 on the New Alternative 40 Chart this week!
Absolutely beautiful.
I back here every month, still feels the same emotions.
When she plays this live, she says "this song is for trans women" ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
It’s makes me sad that a lot of the comments on Ezra’s video are just hating on trans people. I know she wouldn’t like that. I saw her in person at a concert and let me just say that as a trans person, they made me feel like someone out there gets me. Because all these transphobic comments I already have to deal with everyday of my life? That hasn’t exactly been great on my mental state and I doubt that it has been great for any other trans person. So, these artists like Ezra Furman make me feel like maybe I will find happiness as a man someday just like she has as a woman. She gives me hope and it really hurts to see people degrading that hope. I know there will probably be some reply to this saying “get help, lol” or “there is only one gender” or “you mean ‘he’” and I know I can’t stop you, but just know that this artist, Ezra, has made me, and I hope other trans people, stronger, so we can handle people like you on the daily. Trans rights are human rights 🏳️⚧️! Sending love to all. Especially Ezra Furman, and the very beautiful woman she is.
I wish I could hear this song for the first time again. This song is one of the best things that’s ever happened to me
Wow! Looking good Ez!
Can't wait for the new album.
This song really has got the ability to let me remember something I forgot, but that I knew when I just went into this world and I feel like everyone really knew, we don't fall in love with a girl or a boy or everyone in between, we fall in love with a soul. Thank you ❤
When people try to make sense of me (a lesbian) and my trans wife, or friends try to make sense of their LGBT children, I remind them people fall in love with people and that's all there is to it.
Huv
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Oh my heart! I’m crazy about every little part of this song & video 🥰😍🙌🏽 Much love from Copenhagen ❤️🍁❤️💕💕❤️🎶❤️
No matter whether you’re Ezra or Esme, this song is one of my favorites right now and h e c k you’re a beautiful human 😊. I only recently found your music but I’m obsessed now, no turning back 😂
saw Ezra a few years ago playing live. absolutely amazing.
everything about this is gorgeous.
I’ll just flat out say it..This song had me tearing, n smiling!! All I can say is thank you, I love it😊
Omg thank you youtube for recommending this. Instant love!
Ezra looks so flawless I love it. This is a total masterpiece
I love this song so much I'm just so glad it exists
I'm obsessed with the dance, the fits, the song...just everything! 💞
Love me some Ezra Furman. Can’t wait for the new album!
You only love her cause she is famous
This song means so fucking much for me. Sad and heartbreaking that we have to go though so much hard things that we dont have a single choice in.
Thank u ezra for this masterpiece.
Shes just gorgeous
I clicked because I thought this was a cover of girl in red's song. I stayed because of this masterpiece
thank you for the nonbinary positivity Mx
So glad I found this in my recommendations!!!
obsessed w the ppl in the comments discovering her for the first time
I've heard this one my local radio twice lately!
no shit?? damn my radio channels are boring
even the alt one plays the same boring stuff every day, i switch to phone music real quik
This is emotional fire.
This video has such charm
Awesome. Not really my cup of tea but it’s really good!
This song is speaking directly to my soul and it hurts
i'm living for this
Gosh, this is bittersweet. Achingly lovely 😊
Achingly lovely... what a pure description of this work
Anderson Razlplaz thanks sweetheart 💖
Every night, I seem to come back to this song. It's so beautiful, it makes me tear up.
I'm attracted to every single version of Ezra
I love this. Giving me some Belle and Sebastian vibes.
I'm speechless..... this is so amazingly cool and has such warm nostalgic energy to me, wow I adore it! And this outfit looks so good!
so underappreciated !!!
That subtle eye make up is everything.
I have followed your music ever since Sex Ed came out, and I just absolutely adore your music & your passion in creating such beautiful lyrics. thank you for making such sweet, meaningful songs :-)
A friend recommended this gold.
this is so good omfg
this dance is breathtaking... so beautiful
i cant even relate to the song, it's just so good i cant stop listening to it.
I’ve already watched it like ten times, and I’m not sure if I’m gonna stop any time soon
Such a great song (as well as the video) ✨
Liz Murphy
Your taste.
I want to see Ezra live, please come to Mexico ;~;
YES
So I'm new here, can anyone please explain how Ezra identifies/their background/what's up this dude cuz I love their vibe I just have no idea what it is or how to reference it lmao
Transgender, I think....? I don't know either. All the tags on sexuality is so confusing. I can't remember them.
I feel like they're just breaking the gender norms and there's no actual identity stuff involved, at least that's how I read it.
If in doubt keep it neutral. It doesn't have to be a choice between "she" or "he" if they don't want it to be
Yeah I'm not assuming a label, just curious if there is one at all
In an interview last year, Ezra said that he identified as a bisexual male who just did male differently than most. But I think more recently, Ezra has said that he is trans. On his twitter, he has the pronouns he/she/him/her listed so I think, currently, he's fine with either.
i've never been in love with someone more than i am with ezra furman
oh my god... this is so pretty . the vibe, the sound.. it's so good and so powerful, the singer is really beautiful! way to go, let's go break the gender norms !! ♥️ deserves more recognition, i'll definitely be adding this to my playlists
This was amazing, pure artistry and beauty.
Brighteyes vibes ❤ This is beautiful ❤
Am Stot, 19 years old, am straight but i really feel what y'all are going through and the opposite of straight is not curved or broken or bent its just the same word :straight in a different language that only you and your significant other will understand. Thanks @ezrafurman 1st Aug 2022 still here.
Vocals on this are so good. Same with melody
Months later after finding this song and it’s stills one of my favorites
omg this is SO beautiful and so is she. i am cisgender but this breaks my heart and i feel so much for trans folks who can’t be their authentic selves. what an incredible piece of art
I'm so glad UA-cam recommended me this
What a beautiful human.
this song is incredible.
Album in my collection, thanks for vid.
This speaks to me on an emotional and spiritual level 💜💜
Ezra Furman has and will always be my favorite.
Im straight and love this song.
A muito tempo acho essa música sensacional e nunca vou mudar de opinião 💙
Here I am at 1am crying on the bathroom floor thinking how probably no one in my family actually accepts me
finally some new fucking music I can 1000% get behind
they're so enchanting
This is the best video on UA-cam
ive been staring down this beautiful creature in the thumbnail for months and now im here
I really liked this!! The song and them we’re pretty!!
Love love love love LOVE this!
Oh my god this is so odd but I love it! Caught my attention and I totally feel it
I've been listening to this song on loop
This is beautiful
Wow, this is beautiful. Breath taking💕💕💕
*Ezra Furman starts singing*
Me: oh my fucking god i love you
Such an inspiration ❤️ And a bootiful musician too ❤️