That is very true...parents tell us the one who suicide is the biggest coward but they don't understand while living...the taunts and depression doesn't let us live..😢
Bhad me jane do relatives and society ko, koi aake aapke problems solve nahi karta hai, aur na hi unhe aapke problems se koi lena dena hota hai, then why to care for them?
Just incase if you want to read this. I have given neet since 2020 it's been 3 years and I still haven't gotten into any college while my friends invite me to their graduation, everyday I wake up to feel sinking but I look at my dad who has gone through soo much in his life and still stands strong provides everything to his family without making me feel bad even for once about my NEET failures, so then I realize how much he deserves and I don't want to give up on my life for him, I know It's going to take time and sweat but I promise to not give up on my dad who showed me how to walk out of fire. Dear Friend, don't forget everyone grows at a different rate❤🌷☁️
I also took exam in 2017 and 2018. Unfortunately I couldn’t clear my exam I was completely shattered and I remember Crying for 2 months straight but my father supported me and he helped me to come out of that phase. And I opted for BSc agriculture and today I’m working as Agriculture field officer in Punjab National Bank. I’m doing great in life. So life isn’t just about NEET.
Great to see someone who hasn't stopped his path just by one failure....and kept going....Glad that you are happy in your present path...that's the most satisfying thing one can get in his/her life
Being a Bio lecturer in one of the remote areas of Punjab,I have always felt that for a good teacher you also have to be good human being first n you have proved that..My respect n regards for you has increased manyfolds..Yes it's completely true that one failure is not the end of life n parents should not expect more from their children..I have always felt that that your child should be happy in the field he or she has choosen n your family is the most important for you... Deep condolences..
If I become a doctor then I became If I clear neet then I did If I failed then I failed No role of society,no role of toxic relatives This is my life and I am not going to ruin it just for those people who doesn't have any role in my life 😊
@@Kidscartonloverchahe kitne v attempts ho suicide is not an option zindagi ek baar hi milti h doctor hi banna zaruri nhi h Or v bht kch h is duniya me krne ke liye.
I have failed this time in NEET...but I will never do this type of crime to myself, my parents are always with me...& I have full faith in my Bajrangbali...whenever I get negative thoughts, I remember what Bagheshwar Dham Guru ji always says - "Balaji kripa karenge"... I am preparing for one more time with full hope & positivity with the support of my family. My friends remember one thing your happiness is more valuable than any degree..so be happy..& live the life..
Ma'am, mostly middle class boys take such a serious step. It's not just parental pressure, but seeing himself and his family around in a state of destruction, and he being incapable of managing the state positively, consideres himself only responsible for it with would have been better otherwise (if he succeeded). RIP both of them. 😢🙏
His friend joined in private medical college paying 25L he seemed to be worried about that and after counseling he didn't get alloted he scored 395 in second drop , he enrolled in coaching next day he did suicide
Sad to hear 😢 In upcoming years the craze of mbbs will drastically gonna decrease…mark my point it’ll choose happiness over anything and not depression and I hope this dark side of our education system will change n students can choose whatever career they want to without any fear n pressure
The main tragedy is even if you fail sometimes and try to cope up with it the people around you,the society will make you realise that you have failed... sometimes knowingly or unknowingly they poke fun of you which sometimes hit directly to students....So, I want you to know that Nothing kills your dreams more than sharing it with small minded people.... So be strong and keep doing what you love👍
I suggest everyone to give backup exams after neet like cuet ,icar ,cet ,iiser ,bsc nursing , paramedical etc so that Agar neet nhi hua toh atleast tum idhar udhar nhi bhatkonge .
Be emotionally and mentally prepared when you are preparing for neet and I think parents play the most important roles in supporting their children and I would like to say that never give up but keep fighting it doesn't matter how many times it takes.........
She is the only teacher who i have followed in insta telegram and youtube, not even from neet background. I m doing bsc nursing but still without her face for even a single day i cant be more motivated. She is a true gem. Her personality is ❤
2023 is my third attempt And i finally did it I got seat best medical clg in karnataka And its not the decision to suicide for this Brave yourself and go for it 😢
@snce1999 No she is not overacting... Somewhere shi is relating to her past as she has also been a NEET Aspirant & she knows how difficult a journey of a NEET Aspirant is.... And bro we should find positivity in everythings, negativity is already there in everyone's life.
I'm 21 years old and I still haven't cracked NEET nor have I enrolled for any other courses. All my friends have graduated and I really feel behind in life but only because of my parents, their love and support I've been able to keep my calm when relatives taunt me about my age and my drop years. At this point, I still don't know what I'll be doing, I'm still figuring it out but all I know is that I'm not giving up! As long as my parents are there beside me, I can face all the challenges that life has to offer. So if anyone has any advice, please do comment coz I'm literally so confused
I also failed in jee 3 times . I am also 21 year old. Most of my friends are graduate I am suffering from diabetes hypertension and OCD. But I will never give up. At the age of 21 I'm going to pursue my btech 1st year Hare Krishna
@@ShivamMishra-ir6gx All the best! I hope you get well soon🌷. Even I had some hormonal issues because of stress and anxiety but then, I came to know about vipassana and now I've recovered a lot after just attending one retreat.🙂
@@sillysiblings7317 I still haven't decided anything😢 I'm so confused! BASLP, BAMS , another drop, Foreign medical College I just don't know what to do
Just want to say addressing it as a teacher makes me feel as if a mother is showing the concern Hope everyone would understand this... Pressure, self doubt and what not!! 🙃two sweet words seem a relief
There is much more than MBBS in this world. Every profession gives opportunity to serve. Every profession is noble. You are right mam. We can give our best in everything. But if we don't get it , it means that we deserve much better. Those who can afford will go for a drop. So don't think that taking a drop is something all can do. It's not possible for all. Realize the number of seats available in India for mbbs and give your best. Once again, there is much more in life to achieve. So many bright students wasting their precious days for neet. Our country needs great scientists, teachers, nurses, etc who we too can become. Not just a doctor
You always give the strength to fight back again.. your words inspire your words heal.. Blessed to have a teacher like you❤ May Almighty ease the path for all the aspirants.
I cleared neet in 5th attempt and got govt mbbs in my state top college l am mentally very strong l studied btech in mnnit allahabad then left it swamiji says arise awake and stop not till the goal is reached❤😊 it is my success mantra
My parents never pressurize me for studies...many times when i score low in tests...they are always beta tension nhi lene k bilkul bhi nhi bhi hua exam to koi baat nhi we are always with u and we know k ur hardwork will definitely lead ur success one day....i m so glad and thankful to god for giving me such parents... Thanku mummy papa..
This my 2nd drop And i used to feel guilty about the mistakes . Thanks to my parents they supported me during . I have forgiven myself & 2024will be my last attempt Idk whether i will get selected or not definitely i wont regret that maine apne end se cheeze galat ki h . Ik that mai jo bhi karungi accha karungi . Suicide is never an option . Have faith in yourself & work hard . One day u will definitely get the result . Rip uncle & brother 🙏🏻 om shanti
Simply solution of this problem.Neet should be conducted twice in a year Pressure is tarah km hoga students pe .kuki saal me ek baar hone se 3 ghante me future barbaad ho jaata hai ,kya pta students ne taiyari ki ho but kisi bhi problem ke wazah se us din acha na gaya ho to km se km second chance me to acha kr skta hai .Nta should think about it 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Mam it's true sometimes we also feel our classmates are going ahead doing engineering pharmacy bsc at that time we feel we are lacking behind. We should understand neet is other thing instead that others are doing neet ki preparation mi 2 years ho gya to aage ke 5.5 years if not then other one year for neet preparation. This course is of long duration staying motivated is a big thing for such a long period in between just try not to lose hope and believe in yourself All will be right stay calm and positive
Same chize muje b feel hoti h mam. I also feel worthless I see myself as an failure hmsha overthinking chlti rhti h ki mei kuch deserve ni krti.. Es saal 2nd drop h mera. But apki baate sunke 1 satisfaction milti h ki nahi yaar koi toh ha humme smjhne vla love you so much mam 💖💖 jesa ki mam ne kha ki 1exam is not the end of life so jisko b kbi suicidal thoughts aye please mam ki ye video dkhlena aur sochna mei ky krne ja rha hun 💗 may God bless everyone stay safe everyone❤❤
I have failed neet 5 times and this will be my 6 th attempt😊... But i never felt sorry for myself because all i have is a strong belief in Almighty Allah.... I am giving my 100 percent everytime and at some stage of my life i will get the reward in one or the other form...it is a teaching of our islam that who ever works hard, he will get the reward inshallah❤❤❤❤
I was also not able to crack neet in my 1st attempt...but i feel lucky that my parents supported me for giving another attempt...even during my 2nd attempt they never pressurised me...but society wont let u live ...just ignore all the negative ppl that's the only way out... I've made it this year scoring highest from aakash indore branch...did it only bcz of my parent's support parents should support their child otherwise its really hard to cope seeing present competitive environment
To all the NEET aspirants: Do your best but do not punish yourself, if u failed in that. This exam is a part of your life and not your whole life. Even if you couldn't make it there are so many other opportunities waiting for you. If u still want to be a part of medical profession , you can opt for other courses. You just need a courier counseling. To be a medico , IITian and IIMian is not everything. India has to normalize this. Choose your favorite field and do wonders . So that others will also think out of the box. Stay happy ❤
Mam you’re producing many doctors… TBH I cracked Mdcat (Pakistan medical entrance exam) just because of your lectures … While studying for MBBS still I watch all your videos.. Lots of love from Pakistan to my favorite mam ❤️
While i was preparing for NEET, I studied bio from you ma'am ...you were a great teacher dince day 1 ❤️ ...i was so passionate about mbbs but somehow even after trying it for consecutive two years, i could not fetch a medical seat ...i decided not to take any further drops and change my field to something else , i want myself to explore .. thankyou ma'am for telling us your story ❤️❤️and guys just because you could not achieve your desired goal, doesn't mean it's the end of the world ..pls think before taking any crucial step!!!!
@@sillysiblings7317 don't worry just try to explore ...search on the internet what you can pursue, what are the other streams you can opt for ...see where your interest lies or even if you don't know this just search and opt for something which would be valuable in future like AI technology n all ..as for me, I chose marketing and business. Hope this helps:)
this needs to be heard by the government!! bro like what the hell are u expecting out of a 17 18 or 19 year old to show there peroformance and decide what they are about to become by just one exam!! i am not saying that competition is not necessary indeed it is and the fact is it refines the best and decides the bestest for our country!! but what about a deserving candidate who just couldn't survive the at moment pressure of the situation!! people say neet chooses those who can tolerate the pressure of mbbs!! if neet itelf is doing that then what the hell are we going to learn in those 5 yrs except theory??? aren't there any life learning or expierences which can teach us to handle pressure!!! competition is necessary but not excessive competition!! this needs to be heard!!
As a neet aspirant, my father called me a few days ago.. and asked me about studies and all.. I literally cried there.. he said "ek doctor ke andar pata ha kitni qualities hoti hein? Ek acha doctor banna ha?? Har kese man rahi ho?? Agar nahi hua neet bhi tab bhi wo qualities toh honi hi chahiye.. it's not about being doctor but it is about being good doctor"👍
Same problem hai mere saath mai itna pressure me hu ki ....mera Bhai Mere ko preshan krta hi to mai usko bhot gandi tarh se maaar deti hu .....bhot gandi trh se. ...ur mai mujhe lagta hai ki mujhe khud ilaaj ki jrurat hai ..aur kamre me bhot roti hu .....kyuki mai jb bhi preparation krti hu to har baar koi na koi problem a jati hi .... mere paas paise ki problem nhi hi aur n hi mi gareeb family se ...hu but agr mai problem ko ignore krke padhti hu to .....to aur badi problem aa jati hai ....aur phir ...phir aur badi problem ko ignore krti hu to ur jada badi problem aa jati hai ...mai 4th attempt me hu 2024 me but abhi abhi end me aaate aate tk mai give up nahi ki hu but phir lagta hai mai nahi kr paungi 😭😭😭@@shwetamishra1158
Yes I can feel this because the same condition failure in neet for continuous 2 years ...I can feel every point of you mam but ab jab 3ri baar uthke firse preparation start ki hai na to har din khatak rha hai khatam hota najar AA rha hai it doesn't mean hum aur kuch ni kr skte kr skte hai but Jo jidd ban gyi h doctor banne ki vo poori krni h bs isliye ik mauka aur diya hai khudko......kuch aur me Dil hi nahi lgta ...krke dekha tha ....par yaar Tut Jaa rhe hai har din .... thankyou to all the educators who understands aspirants...nd make contacts by making videos .... thankyou to my parents the one who always there to support me in my every ups nd down ....I m writting this ...hope there are more like me who feel like this every single minute of their life.....I wish nd I hope everything will be on track very soon ....sb bolte hai padhai kro padhai kro ...yar jisne drop p drop le rkhe ho kya lgta hai usne mehnat nahi ki hogi ??? Sach baat to ye hai ki mehnat krne vale siraf kuch hi agey badh paye hai .. MEDICAL FIELD ME. .....baki shukriya mam for this much efforts ... I respect you so much that I don't usually study from you I study from garima mam but I love you so much nd i respect you very much Thankyou so much mam❤️🙂
I am also a neet aspirant it's gonna my first attempt😢 Maine bhut taiyari ki 2 saal meri physics and physical chemistry bio se bhhi achi h In these 2 years maine bio sirf test se ek dinn pahle uthayi vo bhhi seriously nhi sbse km no. Test mein hmesha bio mein hi aate thhe but i take it lightly and till 10 april i am just solving my physics and physical chemistry thinking that i can handle my bio my inorganic chemistry and my organic chemistry in last days but main nhi manage krr paa rhi aur iss kaaran i cried daily ki what i did and now i have even lose confidence in my physics and physical chemistry and my mom said me that agar tera neet nhi hua to hmari kitni bejjati ho jaegi😢 Gaon mein kisi ko kuch bol nhi paenge Jaha main job krti hu vaha kisko kya bolungi😢 And i just thought ki agar aapka bacchha kuch krr nhi paaya to life mein vo aapki bejjati hogi😢 and just give up on everything😢. I will try next year but sbb prr se bharosa utth gya bs😢 Koi aapko aapke difficult time mein support nhi karega even parents bhhi nhi to meri jaisi galti koi bhhi mtt krna please suicidal thoughts aa to rhe h prr soch liya h jo hoga dekha jaega i can't give up and surely sbko jawab dungi khaas krkr mummy ko aur society ko😢. Still handling suicidal thoughts daily but i can't give up😢
Same mera yeh 2nd attempt hai and maine revision April me start Kiya tha and shuruat biology se ki but acche se padhne ke chakkar me abhi tak biology hi ker rahi hoon,ab jitne din bache hein ootne me chem and physics ka mujhse jitna ban sakega ootna karungi😢
Ma'am literally rona aagya ye video dekh kar. Parents ka koi pressure nhi hai but khud ko hi esa lagta hai ki agar neet ni nikla toh sachme life khtm hojaegi😴
Ritu mam, plz reply Maine 12th pcb stream s complete ki h .pr jaise apkonmedical line m interest ni tha vaise hi mujhe bhi medical m interest nhi h I also waanna be like you.. Mujhe teaching m interest h but mam sb khte hai bsc msc krke bhi job nhi lgti mujhe kuch smj nhi ara m Ky kru Plz mam mere hlp kro. Mujje age ky krna chaiye konsi field achi rhegi kuki mujhe medical m nhi Jana Aur mam apko unacademy m job kaise mili through the MBA degree?? Plz reply mam Plz guide me😢
Mam you are such a genuine and kind person 😢you made video on this topic ,i think every teacher should encourage students about this like u ....really you are so good ..thanks mam love u a lot ❤
U r really amazing soul Ma'am...❤ Ma'am ap bht bacho ke ly inspiration ho... Mai teaching ki tyari kr rahi hu... Mai apse 2 saal se connected hu... Aj apko emotional dekhkr mujhe dard feel hua... I wish ap bht aage Jaye life me... Aur I hope apka ye msg failure bacho ko himmat de ...🙏
I also understood how to deal with anxiety and depression which comes with heavy Mbbs stress but at the end i have to understand i cannot decide where i want to earn, this all decides god that where you are gonna work and God always choose best and happy way for everyone
My name in sania , a month ago i was not able to sleep due to the pressure of study ...and i was at hostel away from family...i was feeling so suffocated ....my pulses gets so strong at night while sleeping...i was not able to focus on my study ...then i told my father that i dont think so i can live here....i told him everything thing ...he is so understandable...so caring...he loves me the most....he took me back to home ...then i joined online coaching....i think if you have great back family support then things doesn't seems that hard ....may Allah guide every student....and bring ease in their hardship ♥️
We have to change the way of education in India and for that we all have to start taking steps not only blaming the education system. If we as a part of the society start changing our thinking and doing something good for our kids then definitely something good will happen. I have taken my step. I am doing Homeschooling with my 2 little daughters and you and i can't imagine how good they are doing because they are doing as per interest and without any competition or comparison with other kids. We all should do something to change the way of education. Thank you 🙏
Same in Pakistan there is a lot of students suffering in this suition 😢 great respect for mam ritu she is nice teacher i learned alot of biology from mam ritu.great love from Pakistan ❤❤❤🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰
Ek doctor banna asan nhi hai unhe bahot jayada pressure handle karna hota hai,neet me patience rakhna hi hota hai,pehle hi haar maan lena aur life end kar lena galat hai,tab to unhe doctor ka dream chhor dena chahiye mentally prepare rahna hoga neet aspirants ko👍👍all the best for 2024 neet
For some (me also) people NEET is not just entrance examination it's Life deciding examination and when some people get emotionally connected with their dream they just don't see behind that like me people are saying to take govt. BAMS this year but Internal feeling doesn't allow to take😢😢😢
Mam aaj aap bahut saare bachon ke dil main hai hain. Pata nahi ye society kyun nahi samajh pati hai ki depression bahut badi bimari hai. Lekin you r the best Mam. Main har Bio lecture apke bina nahi samajh pati hun❤. Aap bahut strong ho Mam!
Hi ritu mam...I am a neet studying student from tamilnadu..here it's full of politics mam....the cm..and his ministers of tamilnadu have built so many private medical colleges where the places are so vacant...because of neet...thats why the cm and the ruling government is doing drama....saying neet is bringing stress to students..soo many suicide is happening like that..,that's why ban neet..,,neet is also just an exam...like jee,upsc,CA etc.., but the revolving politics around neet is so horrible...neet exam has become a barrier for these politicians to sell a medical seat for 25 to 30 lakhs..,..so that they can become rich But the reality check is we the neet aspirants of tamilnadu will not make to ban neet happen...we will bring so many more prabanjans.....this coming neet...and will apply coal and shit to faces of all the politicians with our all india results...❤🎉🎉
I'm in my drop year,but I'm only getting negative vibes about mbbs i.e lot of study,depressing,will take away ur youth,next, life balance,10year to get established.etc are all this true,i want to quit but could not find better option .im stuck in between.😢 Please help me.
Thank you.. ❤❤❤And jazak allah mam.. For every every thing.. I am not express my filling right now.. about you.. You r really amazing teacher.. Thanks a lot❤ Inshallah aapse.. Milongi neet crack hoe bd.. Reply zrur kriyega mam.. Plz
I didn't do well in neet even after two drops ,i literally searched online - how to attempt a suicide but utna himmat nhi hai ki kuch kr lu , i remember my dad . He can't see my failure ,agar mai chal gayi , toh how will he survive .Ending the rat race , I'll opt something and ik I'll work hard and get something great in life . I trust God🥺
Mam mai sachme rone lga 😭😭 parents samjhe jate hai yaha tak ki mere parents mujhe khud motivate krte hai ki ho jyega beta or pressure bhi nhi dete vo khud kehte hai bhut bda competition hai phir bhi mera bachaa khud se ladkar padh rha hai and i promise to u mam mai fail hone bad bhi hope nhi khounga ek exam kisi ki life decide nhi krta hai thanku so muchh mam 🥺🥺🥺🙏🏻🙏🏻
I hope unke baat tumne chupke nahi suna hoga mere tarah 😔...... Mere mom dad bhi mere samne toh aise motivate karte hai lekin................... Ekdin mein raat ko utha toh mene suna ke woh log andar hi andar ye Maan liyee hai mujhse nahi hoga😞... Yaar ye sunke Mera payeer ke neecha ka Jamin hi fisak Gaya....
Nhi yar mere parents meri na rehne ka bad bhi bolte hai ki mera beta itne bade sapne ko leke chla hai jo ki pure gaoun mai kisi ki Himmat nhi hoi neet ka bare Mai sochne ki yaha tak ki mere pure family or pure goun mai koi bhi mbbs doctor nhi hai isi bat se mere parents mujh par proud krte hai mai hmesha sochta hu syad hi mere parents ki tarah kisi or parents honge🥺🥺🥺 jo ki itna sath dete hai bolte nhi hoga to koi Aisa kadam mat uthana jisse tumhe takleef ho or unke yahi bato ko soch Kar mai padhta hu or bhai aap khud par yakeen rakho duniya kya bolti hai family kya bolti hai sabko ignore kro apane dil ki suno or mehnat kro Jaror hoga 😊
Mam I left neet after 2 drop now i am doing B.pharma ...But i will never forget those time when i tried too hard to crack Neet..and Mam aap mere sabse bada inspiration hoo...aapke bajese Abhi tak Bio mere dimaag me chappa hua hee...Mam you were great part of my life....I will always remember you..Ritu Mam ❤❤❤❤......... Fir v mam aaj tak B.pharma me koi interest nhi aa rha..😅.. Sayad me 1st semester mee fail v ho jaunga kyunki mam mujhe B.pharma krne ki interest nhi hee ...Lekin kya pta zindegi kisi ek pal badal jaye kya pta....But i will be well-wisher for you in my whole life... And one day i will meet you once in my life...❤
Mam your words mean a lot for us….it reaches direct to our heart…many of us take you as an inspiration…you are also like our family mam. Lots of love ❤️
Mera 4th attempt m selection hua..mere parents hmesha mere saath the..uncle aunty o k taano ko unhone kvi mujh tk pahuchne nhi diya..iam lucky to have my parents with me in those three drops..
Dr ke age number of attempts nahi likhe hote kabhi bhi tell your neighbours this. pehle attempt me nikle ya 5th attempt me , doctor toh dono hi banenge
Mam sch mai muje rona aa gya😭😭😭... Mera bhi neet clear nhi hua... Mere parents muje smjate h ki ye live ka end nhi hai or bhi moke hai life mai.... But kbhi kbhi har koi taana maaar deta h🥺🥺sch m uss time p bhut bura lgta h bs lgta hai ye sb khtm kro yr.. But mai kbhi har nhi manugi..... Bs muje bnna hi hai dr.
5 years ago when I completed my school my parents started to pressurize me for neet litrally saying I was nnever intrested in medical I took science in 11 just bcz of my parents but then my parents used to say you have wasted all our money why you were born children are there making thier parents proud you are good for nothing I can't write anymore bcz that era was the darkest phase of my life I was in depression for complete 3 years and no one was there to listen me I too wanted to end my life but God saved me and believe me when you think this is the end that is not , nothing is imp than your life I am happy now I thank God for saving me every time I wanted to end everything
I always believe that whatever happens..it happens for good..I also failed many times..both in academics and life situations..but I was lucky to have a supportive mother who never ever gave up on me..she saw something in me which I couldn't see . Now I have the courage to face any situation..
Thank you Mam hamari situations ko samjhne k liye.......I think is country mein sabse zyada beda gark students ka hi ho rkha h.......and that too in southern India.....I don't know why Aapki yeh video dekh k I had tears in my eyes.....This year, this was my 3rd attempt and still did not get good marks. But had a good score in Bio. The main thing that disturbs students is the DESIRES that their parents show either in their words or in their actions. Parents bole ya na bole unke bacchon ko sb samjh m aata hai ki unke parents kahi na kahi unke results ko lekr unhappy hai and that thing make them do such hard step..
Mam i swear I have gone through all this ...societ i have done it but atlast m bach gyi fir mujhe samjh jo mene kia voh galat cheez ki mene galat kia Mera 3 drop h yeah mere no. Abhi bhi kam h lekin still m try kr rhi hu mere demaag m abhi bhi thought aate h lekin mere demaag m mere har time mam aap mere saath 1st drop m mene aapki videos dekhi h m 2nd drop m kota m thi m 3rd drop m yakeen batch m scroll h m hmesha alakh sir k naam leke aange bad jaati ki m shyd nikal lungi jab Mera inspiration pta ni kya h but I have lost everything still I believe in kanha ji mere saath m roz anxiety hoti h raat k yhi thought aate h lekin mere yh videos dekh k m samjhne k try krte h failure of one exam is not end in life but mam u don't known the situation of middles class girl neet ni nikal paayi n m mere ghar walle mere shaadi krdenege mujhpe kira pressure m jaanti lekin still ab m yh cheezein demaag m ni laati I am minor positive thankyou for saying such words❤❤❤❤
Mam meri.life me bhi yahi chal rha hai maine 2 baar neet Diya par nhi hua crack jo ki mujhe life me kuch krna tha par papa ke kehne par Maine neet Kiya mam iss saal bhi Dene. Wali hu kya hoga kuch pta nhi koshish Puri krti hu krne ki mam lekin Aaj aapne apni story share krkr mujhe hosla Diya h ki exam ko na crack krne se life ka the end nhi hota hai thankyou mam you are.like.my mother❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
These are very heart touching but behind all these cases happening, there is a prime role of the government and it's policies.. Students with SC ST quota are getting higher ranks and good government colleges while many general category students even though after scoring good marks are unable to get good colleges. Some students with quota don't score good yet they get admission in government colleges .... All poor aren't SC ST, some are general also....At today's date a student with 600 marks of general category is struggling for a government college and if he/she belongs to general category that doesn't make it compulsory that the student's parents will be wealthy enough to pay for private colleges. The Government should consider this matter on serious note and take action towards it..... 🙏
MAM, WISH ME GOOD LUCK FOR MY MDCAT ! TO BE HELD ON 10TH SEPT HERE IN PAKISTAN. HOPEFULLY YOUR LECTURES GONNA HELP ME AND I'LL MAKE IT TO A MED COLLEGE. Love from Pakistan ❤
Thankuhh mam I am 2year dropper aged 18 online student purely never visited offline...., my hands are shaking continuously and I am staying quiet from last week don't kmow why .Parents are continuously saying why are you quiet . Ofcourse somekind of thoughts are also coming and mind and suddenly this video comes in my field and I am feeling well now I don't know why my heart is pounding so fast and mjj body isa sweating don't know what is going to happen on 5 may ,......
I m only 18 years old I scored 384 in neet 2023 without any preparation. Nd I m satisfied with this marks . Now I m prepare for neet 2024 but I don't take on mind 😅😅 or bhi bhut feild h neet k alawa . And most important is that life 1bar hi milti h so enjoy it .. i request to don't try for suicide 🙏🏻 nd be happy 😊
@@yashwanikhangar9645 kaha se pw se Aur aap bsc konse college se Kar rahe hai Actually mujhe bhi yahi karna hai Bas college ke liye pareshan thi ki kaha se kya kya karu
Lots aff pressure from family n society 😢......we have to stay strong 🙏 hmare sath AAP Jese teacher ka support h 😊.....suside it's not a solution of our problem .
As a neet aspirant Mai ek baat kehna chahti hu mai neet ek baar de chuki hu Bss wahi karo jo tum khud se kRna chahte ho kisi aur ko dekh k dream mat banao apna 100% dov agar na ho paye phir bhi life Mai aisa kuch zarur milega jis pe tum Always Allah ka shukr ada karo hardwork never goes unrewarded Also I request to parents don't force your children to do anything for career let them do what they actually want Don't pressurize your child for any particular field NEET is not everything but hobby of doing hardwork means a lot Allah bless you all To escape from situation is not everything we must face the situation to be brave enough to face all circumstances of life ❤❤❤❤❤Life is beautiful don't end your life Your life is valuable than anything in the world .
Relatives and society playes a very important role in every sucid case otherwise nobody wants to die😢
True 💯
That is very true...parents tell us the one who suicide is the biggest coward but they don't understand while living...the taunts and depression doesn't let us live..😢
Bhad me jane do relatives and society ko, koi aake aapke problems solve nahi karta hai, aur na hi unhe aapke problems se koi lena dena hota hai, then why to care for them?
yes I also felt that situation and it my current situation 😔
Turu as I can feel how family members says arey abhi tk neet ni nikla
It wasn't a suicide but was a brutal murder done by the society and our own expectations🙏🏻
Yes😢
Ryt bro
Ture.. 😒
Right bro😊😊
Aur population badhao , india☕, Endiens☕, 🧠🤏
Just incase if you want to read this. I have given neet since 2020 it's been 3 years and I still haven't gotten into any college while my friends invite me to their graduation, everyday I wake up to feel sinking but I look at my dad who has gone through soo much in his life and still stands strong provides everything to his family without making me feel bad even for once about my NEET failures, so then I realize how much he deserves and I don't want to give up on my life for him, I know It's going to take time and sweat but I promise to not give up on my dad who showed me how to walk out of fire. Dear Friend, don't forget everyone grows at a different rate❤🌷☁️
❤❤❤❤❤❤
We are in same trace❤❤❤❤
Your last line👌
Edjectly same situation 😢
Nice paragraph
I also took exam in 2017 and 2018. Unfortunately I couldn’t clear my exam I was completely shattered and I remember Crying for 2 months straight but my father supported me and he helped me to come out of that phase. And I opted for BSc agriculture and today I’m working as Agriculture field officer in Punjab National Bank.
I’m doing great in life. So life isn’t just about NEET.
😂😂😂😂😂😂@@adityapanwar4318
can tell more about this field? i want to know ur package plss and ur work experience pls help
Congratulations🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳
Great to see someone who hasn't stopped his path just by one failure....and kept going....Glad that you are happy in your present path...that's the most satisfying thing one can get in his/her life
@@rno.22mishtichandravanshi10its a government job
Being a Bio lecturer in one of the remote areas of Punjab,I have always felt that for a good teacher you also have to be good human being first n you have proved that..My respect n regards for you has increased manyfolds..Yes it's completely true that one failure is not the end of life n parents should not expect more from their children..I have always felt that that your child should be happy in the field he or she has choosen n your family is the most important for you... Deep condolences..
If I become a doctor then I became
If I clear neet then I did
If I failed then I failed
No role of society,no role of toxic relatives
This is my life and I am not going to ruin it just for those people who doesn't have any role in my life 😊
Nice yaar ❤
@@Kidscartonloverchahe kitne v attempts ho suicide is not an option zindagi ek baar hi milti h doctor hi banna zaruri nhi h Or v bht kch h is duniya me krne ke liye.
@@Kidscartonloverkitne bhi attempts de do, doesn't matter, nothing is more valuable than your life.
Wohi to yarr🤦♂️
@@Kidscartonloverare bhai ek neet exam hi tera life decide nhi karega mere sath b bht kuch hua hein phir bhi jiya hein
Really very sad incident 😢 I am also a NEET aspirant and I am also 19 years old🥺
Konsa drop?
I'm also
So what,u also do it...😢😢
Aap mat krna
Because iam also 19 and take a second drop
I have failed this time in NEET...but I will never do this type of crime to myself, my parents are always with me...& I have full faith in my Bajrangbali...whenever I get negative thoughts, I remember what Bagheshwar Dham Guru ji always says - "Balaji kripa karenge"...
I am preparing for one more time with full hope & positivity with the support of my family.
My friends remember one thing your happiness is more valuable than any degree..so be happy..& live the life..
Me too 🙏
Me too 🙏
Me too 🙏
@Skyyyyyyhigh Expecting 591..will get something in 2nd round State counselling.
Ma'am, mostly middle class boys take such a serious step. It's not just parental pressure, but seeing himself and his family around in a state of destruction, and he being incapable of managing the state positively, consideres himself only responsible for it with would have been better otherwise (if he succeeded). RIP both of them. 😢🙏
Correct!
😢
Yaaa exactlu
His friend joined in private medical college paying 25L he seemed to be worried about that and after counseling he didn't get alloted he scored 395 in second drop , he enrolled in coaching next day he did suicide
I passed 12th in 2018 then,i faild continuesly and finally this year i cracked neet 2023,i know this is hard but not impossible
Congrats sis ❤
Sad to hear 😢
In upcoming years the craze of mbbs will
drastically gonna decrease…mark my point it’ll choose happiness over anything and not depression and I hope this dark side of our education system will change n students can choose whatever career they want to without any fear n pressure
Agree
I hope everyone choose their health and happiness over anything and anyone especially over an exam
I was js saying tht to my friend, we couldn't clear it this year too.
The main tragedy is even if you fail sometimes and try to cope up with it the people around you,the society will make you realise that you have failed... sometimes knowingly or unknowingly they poke fun of you which sometimes hit directly to students....So, I want you to know that Nothing kills your dreams more than sharing it with small minded people....
So be strong and keep doing what you love👍
Bro your words 👌🏻
So truee💯
I suggest everyone to give backup exams after neet like cuet ,icar ,cet ,iiser ,bsc nursing , paramedical etc so that Agar neet nhi hua toh atleast tum idhar udhar nhi bhatkonge .
bhai me bhi 21 year ka hu me bhi icar ka soch raha hu
Backup plans can only satisfy family n relatives not your own desire
NEST paper bhul Gaye for niser
@@suhanipal5531 Absolutely agree 💯
@@suhanipal5531 so true
Be emotionally and mentally prepared when you are preparing for neet and I think parents play the most important roles in supporting their children and I would like to say that never give up but keep fighting it doesn't matter how many times it takes.........
She is the only teacher who i have followed in insta telegram and youtube, not even from neet background. I m doing bsc nursing but still without her face for even a single day i cant be more motivated. She is a true gem. Her personality is ❤
I m 27 years old ,,, going through the situation... Thank you mam ,,,your words give me the strength,,,pray for me..
Aap bhi neet ki tayari krti ho kya?
Be gentle and give your 100% no worry about result❤
Samima ,,, tension mat lo yarr ,,,+ve socho bahar aa jaogi ,,,,mai kudd kuch day pahle paresan tha IIT m aa k bhi ...💞
Aur population badhao , india☕, Endiens☕, 🧠🤏
I'm also 27 years old mem .are you preparing for neet .
Mam, aapne to rula hi Diya
You are the best teacher......🙂
2023 is my third attempt
And i finally did it
I got seat best medical clg in karnataka
And its not the decision to suicide for this
Brave yourself and go for it 😢
Hy kitne marks aye the
597
@@hemanthkumarpujar5818which clg bro, i am also from karnataka
Can u tell why previous attempt u did n't crack😢
I took exam lightly
Because i am topper of class
It's not a video or content.. It's a emotion 😢❤
@snce1999 without knowing the truth behind any incident , how can you say that this is a drama??
@snce1999 No she is not overacting... Somewhere shi is relating to her past as she has also been a NEET Aspirant & she knows how difficult a journey of a NEET Aspirant is.... And bro we should find positivity in everythings, negativity is already there in everyone's life.
Confidence booster speech for neet aspirants. Thanks mam❤❤❤
I'm 21 years old and I still haven't cracked NEET nor have I enrolled for any other courses. All my friends have graduated and I really feel behind in life but only because of my parents, their love and support I've been able to keep my calm when relatives taunt me about my age and my drop years. At this point, I still don't know what I'll be doing, I'm still figuring it out but all I know is that I'm not giving up! As long as my parents are there beside me, I can face all the challenges that life has to offer. So if anyone has any advice, please do comment coz I'm literally so confused
I also failed in jee 3 times . I am also 21 year old. Most of my friends are graduate I am suffering from diabetes hypertension and OCD. But I will never give up. At the age of 21 I'm going to pursue my btech 1st year Hare Krishna
@@ShivamMishra-ir6gx All the best!
I hope you get well soon🌷. Even I had some hormonal issues because of stress and anxiety but then, I came to know about vipassana and now I've recovered a lot after just attending one retreat.🙂
@@praachii4101hey, what have you decided to do?? 😢 Pls tell me I'm also thinking to go for some other courses
@@sillysiblings7317 I still haven't decided anything😢 I'm so confused!
BASLP, BAMS , another drop, Foreign medical College I just don't know what to do
@@praachii4101 I'm also confused b/w btech biotechnology or msc phd... Aahhh I can't figure out 😭😫
Cracked neet in 3rd attempt, got one of top college of my state. Struggle never ends, keep trying, stay motivated❤❤❤
Just want to say addressing it as a teacher makes me feel as if a mother is showing the concern
Hope everyone would understand this... Pressure, self doubt and what not!! 🙃two sweet words seem a relief
There is much more than MBBS in this world. Every profession gives opportunity to serve. Every profession is noble. You are right mam.
We can give our best in everything. But if we don't get it , it means that we deserve much better.
Those who can afford will go for a drop. So don't think that taking a drop is something all can do. It's not possible for all. Realize the number of seats available in India for mbbs and give your best. Once again, there is much more in life to achieve.
So many bright students wasting their precious days for neet. Our country needs great scientists, teachers, nurses, etc who we too can become. Not just a doctor
You always give the strength to fight back again..
your words inspire
your words heal..
Blessed to have a teacher like you❤
May Almighty ease the path for all the aspirants.
I cleared neet in 5th attempt and got govt mbbs in my state top college l am mentally very strong l studied btech in mnnit allahabad then left it swamiji says arise awake and stop not till the goal is reached❤😊 it is my success mantra
Bhai I want to suggestion for you I'm 27 years old .can I prepare for neet .I'm very confused bhai..pls help me.
@@alnoor451 yes you can
@priyahasame mere v utne aas pas he...but im preparing....sbkuch same he
Because of this, she is my most fav(A best teacher,a good human being as well as a good motivator)...and yes mam, we are your worriors 😊
My parents never pressurize me for studies...many times when i score low in tests...they are always beta tension nhi lene k bilkul bhi nhi bhi hua exam to koi baat nhi we are always with u and we know k ur hardwork will definitely lead ur success one day....i m so glad and thankful to god for giving me such parents... Thanku mummy papa..
Your story seems so relatable mam ❤ You are very strong mam and you proved it🎉
This my 2nd drop
And i used to feel guilty about the mistakes . Thanks to my parents they supported me during . I have forgiven myself & 2024will be my last attempt Idk whether i will get selected or not definitely i wont regret that maine apne end se cheeze galat ki h . Ik that mai jo bhi karungi accha karungi . Suicide is never an option . Have faith in yourself & work hard . One day u will definitely get the result . Rip uncle & brother 🙏🏻 om shanti
😭😭😭 ending life is the not way u have to struggle hard life is not easy for everyone 😢
Simply solution of this problem.Neet should be conducted twice in a year
Pressure is tarah km hoga students pe .kuki saal me ek baar hone se 3 ghante me future barbaad ho jaata hai ,kya pta students ne taiyari ki ho but kisi bhi problem ke wazah se us din acha na gaya ho to km se km second chance me to acha kr skta hai .Nta should think about it 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Mam it's true sometimes we also feel our classmates are going ahead doing engineering pharmacy bsc at that time we feel we are lacking behind.
We should understand neet is other thing instead that others are doing neet ki preparation mi 2 years ho gya to aage ke 5.5 years if not then other one year for neet preparation. This course is of long duration staying motivated is a big thing for such a long period in between just try not to lose hope and believe in yourself All will be right stay calm and positive
Only parents and society are responsible for this.
Same chize muje b feel hoti h mam. I also feel worthless I see myself as an failure hmsha overthinking chlti rhti h ki mei kuch deserve ni krti.. Es saal 2nd drop h mera. But apki baate sunke 1 satisfaction milti h ki nahi yaar koi toh ha humme smjhne vla love you so much mam 💖💖 jesa ki mam ne kha ki 1exam is not the end of life so jisko b kbi suicidal thoughts aye please mam ki ye video dkhlena aur sochna mei ky krne ja rha hun 💗 may God bless everyone stay safe everyone❤❤
I have failed neet 5 times and this will be my 6 th attempt😊... But i never felt sorry for myself because all i have is a strong belief in Almighty Allah.... I am giving my 100 percent everytime and at some stage of my life i will get the reward in one or the other form...it is a teaching of our islam that who ever works hard, he will get the reward inshallah❤❤❤❤
What is your last attempt score?
Salute h tumhe jo tum itne positive ho
@@supriyadev8484 511
But i have never joined any offline coaching
Same with me
Mr also 3 rd dropper students 😢😢 😭😭🥺🥺
Neet aspirants 😢😢
Thanks a lot Ma'am for sharing your story and addressing such a rampant issue. ❤💜💜
I was also not able to crack neet in my 1st attempt...but i feel lucky that my parents supported me for giving another attempt...even during my 2nd attempt they never pressurised me...but society wont let u live ...just ignore all the negative ppl that's the only way out... I've made it this year scoring highest from aakash indore branch...did it only bcz of my parent's support
parents should support their child otherwise its really hard to cope seeing present competitive environment
Like if u r watching after neet 2024 🥹🥹
😢😢😢
To all the NEET aspirants:
Do your best but do not punish yourself, if u failed in that. This exam is a part of your life and not your whole life. Even if you couldn't make it there are so many other opportunities waiting for you. If u still want to be a part of medical profession , you can opt for other courses. You just need a courier counseling. To be a medico , IITian and IIMian is not everything. India has to normalize this. Choose your favorite field and do wonders . So that others will also think out of the box.
Stay happy ❤
Mam you’re producing many doctors… TBH I cracked Mdcat (Pakistan medical entrance exam) just because of your lectures … While studying for MBBS still I watch all your videos..
Lots of love from Pakistan to my favorite mam ❤️
Hey I'm also a Pakistani student and I also cracked MDCAT by watching her lectures and I got admission in MBBS 😊
Really lots of love and respect for ritu mam
A sweet message for all the aspirants ☺️......
"Do not fear ❤️ Just believe yourself, believe your teachers, and do your best 🔥🔥🔥🔥💪"
While i was preparing for NEET, I studied bio from you ma'am ...you were a great teacher dince day 1 ❤️ ...i was so passionate about mbbs but somehow even after trying it for consecutive two years, i could not fetch a medical seat ...i decided not to take any further drops and change my field to something else , i want myself to explore .. thankyou ma'am for telling us your story ❤️❤️and guys just because you could not achieve your desired goal, doesn't mean it's the end of the world ..pls think before taking any crucial step!!!!
What are you doing now?? I'm also stuck in this situation pls tell me 😢
@@sillysiblings7317 plz help me I am also 😔
@@sillysiblings7317 don't worry just try to explore ...search on the internet what you can pursue, what are the other streams you can opt for ...see where your interest lies or even if you don't know this just search and opt for something which would be valuable in future like AI technology n all ..as for me, I chose marketing and business. Hope this helps:)
this needs to be heard by the government!! bro like what the hell are u expecting out of a 17 18 or 19 year old to show there peroformance and decide what they are about to become by just one exam!! i am not saying that competition is not necessary indeed it is and the fact is it refines the best and decides the bestest for our country!! but what about a deserving candidate who just couldn't survive the at moment pressure of the situation!! people say neet chooses those who can tolerate the pressure of mbbs!! if neet itelf is doing that then what the hell are we going to learn in those 5 yrs except theory??? aren't there any life learning or expierences which can teach us to handle pressure!!! competition is necessary but not excessive competition!! this needs to be heard!!
i totally agree, there should be atleast 2 attempts fir neet
As a neet aspirant, my father called me a few days ago.. and asked me about studies and all.. I literally cried there.. he said "ek doctor ke andar pata ha kitni qualities hoti hein? Ek acha doctor banna ha?? Har kese man rahi ho?? Agar nahi hua neet bhi tab bhi wo qualities toh honi hi chahiye.. it's not about being doctor but it is about being good doctor"👍
Ma'am you are so honest and truth.
Calm down mam we are strong student ❤ don't cry please.
Neet 2023 was my fifth attempt and I’m going for my sixth attempt in Neet 2024 never give up 😊
I am turning 23 this Dec and its my 4th attempt (4th drop)😔😔😔....it really gives me anxiety..
Same problem hai mere saath mai itna pressure me hu ki ....mera Bhai Mere ko preshan krta hi to mai usko bhot gandi tarh se maaar deti hu .....bhot gandi trh se. ...ur mai mujhe lagta hai ki mujhe khud ilaaj ki jrurat hai ..aur kamre me bhot roti hu .....kyuki mai jb bhi preparation krti hu to har baar koi na koi problem a jati hi .... mere paas paise ki problem nhi hi aur n hi mi gareeb family se ...hu but agr mai problem ko ignore krke padhti hu to .....to aur badi problem aa jati hai ....aur phir ...phir aur badi problem ko ignore krti hu to ur jada badi problem aa jati hai ...mai 4th attempt me hu 2024 me but abhi abhi end me aaate aate tk mai give up nahi ki hu but phir lagta hai mai nahi kr paungi 😭😭😭@@shwetamishra1158
Yes I can feel this because the same condition failure in neet for continuous 2 years ...I can feel every point of you mam but ab jab 3ri baar uthke firse preparation start ki hai na to har din khatak rha hai khatam hota najar AA rha hai it doesn't mean hum aur kuch ni kr skte kr skte hai but Jo jidd ban gyi h doctor banne ki vo poori krni h bs isliye ik mauka aur diya hai khudko......kuch aur me Dil hi nahi lgta ...krke dekha tha ....par yaar Tut Jaa rhe hai har din .... thankyou to all the educators who understands aspirants...nd make contacts by making videos .... thankyou to my parents the one who always there to support me in my every ups nd down ....I m writting this ...hope there are more like me who feel like this every single minute of their life.....I wish nd I hope everything will be on track very soon ....sb bolte hai padhai kro padhai kro ...yar jisne drop p drop le rkhe ho kya lgta hai usne mehnat nahi ki hogi ??? Sach baat to ye hai ki mehnat krne vale siraf kuch hi agey badh paye hai .. MEDICAL FIELD ME. .....baki shukriya mam for this much efforts ... I respect you so much that I don't usually study from you I study from garima mam but I love you so much nd i respect you very much
Thankyou so much mam❤️🙂
I am also a neet aspirant it's gonna my first attempt😢
Maine bhut taiyari ki 2 saal meri physics and physical chemistry bio se bhhi achi h
In these 2 years maine bio sirf test se ek dinn pahle uthayi vo bhhi seriously nhi sbse km no. Test mein hmesha bio mein hi aate thhe but i take it lightly and till 10 april i am just solving my physics and physical chemistry thinking that i can handle my bio my inorganic chemistry and my organic chemistry in last days but main nhi manage krr paa rhi aur iss kaaran i cried daily ki what i did and now i have even lose confidence in my physics and physical chemistry and my mom said me that agar tera neet nhi hua to hmari kitni bejjati ho jaegi😢
Gaon mein kisi ko kuch bol nhi paenge
Jaha main job krti hu vaha kisko kya bolungi😢
And i just thought ki agar aapka bacchha kuch krr nhi paaya to life mein vo aapki bejjati hogi😢 and just give up on everything😢. I will try next year but sbb prr se bharosa utth gya bs😢
Koi aapko aapke difficult time mein support nhi karega even parents bhhi nhi to meri jaisi galti koi bhhi mtt krna please suicidal thoughts aa to rhe h prr soch liya h jo hoga dekha jaega i can't give up and surely sbko jawab dungi khaas krkr mummy ko aur society ko😢.
Still handling suicidal thoughts daily but i can't give up😢
Same mera yeh 2nd attempt hai and maine revision April me start Kiya tha and shuruat biology se ki but acche se padhne ke chakkar me abhi tak biology hi ker rahi hoon,ab jitne din bache hein ootne me chem and physics ka mujhse jitna ban sakega ootna karungi😢
Ma'am literally rona aagya ye video dekh kar. Parents ka koi pressure nhi hai but khud ko hi esa lagta hai ki agar neet ni nikla toh sachme life khtm hojaegi😴
Nai beta …. Life sirf life Khatam hone pe hi Khatam hoti hai
Ritu mam, plz reply
Maine 12th pcb stream s complete ki h
.pr jaise apkonmedical line m interest ni tha vaise hi mujhe bhi medical m interest nhi h
I also waanna be like you..
Mujhe teaching m interest h but mam sb khte hai bsc msc krke bhi job nhi lgti mujhe kuch smj nhi ara m Ky kru
Plz mam mere hlp kro.
Mujje age ky krna chaiye konsi field achi rhegi kuki mujhe medical m nhi Jana
Aur mam apko unacademy m job kaise mili through the MBA degree??
Plz reply mam
Plz guide me😢
Mam you are such a genuine and kind person 😢you made video on this topic ,i think every teacher should encourage students about this like u ....really you are so good ..thanks mam love u a lot ❤
U r really amazing soul Ma'am...❤
Ma'am ap bht bacho ke ly inspiration ho... Mai teaching ki tyari kr rahi hu... Mai apse 2 saal se connected hu...
Aj apko emotional dekhkr mujhe dard feel hua... I wish ap bht aage Jaye life me...
Aur I hope apka ye msg failure bacho ko himmat de ...🙏
I also understood how to deal with anxiety and depression which comes with heavy Mbbs stress
but at the end i have to understand i cannot decide where i want to earn, this all decides god that where you are gonna work and God always choose best and happy way for everyone
My name in sania , a month ago i was not able to sleep due to the pressure of study ...and i was at hostel away from family...i was feeling so suffocated ....my pulses gets so strong at night while sleeping...i was not able to focus on my study ...then i told my father that i dont think so i can live here....i told him everything thing ...he is so understandable...so caring...he loves me the most....he took me back to home ...then i joined online coaching....i think if you have great back family support then things doesn't seems that hard ....may Allah guide every student....and bring ease in their hardship ♥️
We have to change the way of education in India and for that we all have to start taking steps not only blaming the education system. If we as a part of the society start changing our thinking and doing something good for our kids then definitely something good will happen. I have taken my step. I am doing Homeschooling with my 2 little daughters and you and i can't imagine how good they are doing because they are doing as per interest and without any competition or comparison with other kids. We all should do something to change the way of education. Thank you 🙏
Same in Pakistan there is a lot of students suffering in this suition 😢 great respect for mam ritu she is nice teacher i learned alot of biology from mam ritu.great love from Pakistan ❤❤❤🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰
Ek doctor banna asan nhi hai unhe bahot jayada pressure handle karna hota hai,neet me patience rakhna hi hota hai,pehle hi haar maan lena aur life end kar lena galat hai,tab to unhe doctor ka dream chhor dena chahiye mentally prepare rahna hoga neet aspirants ko👍👍all the best for 2024 neet
For some (me also) people NEET is not just entrance examination it's Life deciding examination and when some people get emotionally connected with their dream they just don't see behind that like me people are saying to take govt. BAMS this year but Internal feeling doesn't allow to take😢😢😢
Graguation kr lo..there r lot of options
I take 6 attempt but not cleared neet exam for MBBS 😂 and finally I'm happy 😂, and I'm pursuing bvsc and Ah 😅
😂😂😂you
Mam aaj aap bahut saare bachon ke dil main hai hain. Pata nahi ye society kyun nahi samajh pati hai ki depression bahut badi bimari hai. Lekin you r the best Mam. Main har Bio lecture apke bina nahi samajh pati hun❤. Aap bahut strong ho Mam!
Hi ritu mam...I am a neet studying student from tamilnadu..here it's full of politics mam....the cm..and his ministers of tamilnadu have built so many private medical colleges where the places are so vacant...because of neet...thats why the cm and the ruling government is doing drama....saying neet is bringing stress to students..soo many suicide is happening like that..,that's why ban neet..,,neet is also just an exam...like jee,upsc,CA etc.., but the revolving politics around neet is so horrible...neet exam has become a barrier for these politicians to sell a medical seat for 25 to 30 lakhs..,..so that they can become rich
But the reality check is we the neet aspirants of tamilnadu will not make to ban neet happen...we will bring so many more prabanjans.....this coming neet...and will apply coal and shit to faces of all the politicians with our all india results...❤🎉🎉
Essa bhi hota hai 😮
Yeah I saw one tollywood movie on this topic
@@user-go9kw6wf4mmovie name?
I'm in my drop year,but I'm only getting negative vibes about mbbs i.e lot of study,depressing,will take away ur youth,next, life balance,10year to get established.etc are all this true,i want to quit but could not find better option .im stuck in between.😢
Please help me.
Me too in the same 😒
@@NAVENANAVEEN so will you give neet 2024? Or something else
I will do..
That's why I left neet preparation....now I have no hope towards neet. But now I am studying microbiology in 1st year and I am too interested in this.
Thank You mam for sharing your story it's really helpfull for students 👍👍
Thank you do much maam
I am so lucky i met you❤️
Thank you so much ma'am life me kabhi na kabhi success jarur milegi bus mehnat karte chalo 😊😊
Mam your words means alot❤
Wow mam...so truee😊😊😊
great video mam i had also not cleared neet in 2021 but with positive mind and eagerly took bsc now preparing for civils...
It was a much needed video at this time❤
Biology queen 👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑
Thank you.. ❤❤❤And jazak allah mam.. For every every thing.. I am not express my filling right now.. about you.. You r really amazing teacher..
Thanks a lot❤
Inshallah aapse.. Milongi neet crack hoe bd..
Reply zrur kriyega mam.. Plz
Ap exam crack karo …. Hum aapse milne aapke shahar aa jaenge ❤
@@biofairyriturattewal inshallah.. ❤.. Thnk u
I didn't do well in neet even after two drops ,i literally searched online - how to attempt a suicide but utna himmat nhi hai ki kuch kr lu , i remember my dad . He can't see my failure ,agar mai chal gayi , toh how will he survive .Ending the rat race , I'll opt something and ik I'll work hard and get something great in life . I trust God🥺
Surely you'll, just be strong
Mam mai sachme rone lga 😭😭 parents samjhe jate hai yaha tak ki mere parents mujhe khud motivate krte hai ki ho jyega beta or pressure bhi nhi dete vo khud kehte hai bhut bda competition hai phir bhi mera bachaa khud se ladkar padh rha hai and i promise to u mam mai fail hone bad bhi hope nhi khounga ek exam kisi ki life decide nhi krta hai thanku so muchh mam 🥺🥺🥺🙏🏻🙏🏻
I hope unke baat tumne chupke nahi suna hoga mere tarah 😔...... Mere mom dad bhi mere samne toh aise motivate karte hai lekin................... Ekdin mein raat ko utha toh mene suna ke woh log andar hi andar ye Maan liyee hai mujhse nahi hoga😞... Yaar ye sunke Mera payeer ke neecha ka Jamin hi fisak Gaya....
Nhi yar mere parents meri na rehne ka bad bhi bolte hai ki mera beta itne bade sapne ko leke chla hai jo ki pure gaoun mai kisi ki Himmat nhi hoi neet ka bare Mai sochne ki yaha tak ki mere pure family or pure goun mai koi bhi mbbs doctor nhi hai isi bat se mere parents mujh par proud krte hai mai hmesha sochta hu syad hi mere parents ki tarah kisi or parents honge🥺🥺🥺 jo ki itna sath dete hai bolte nhi hoga to koi Aisa kadam mat uthana jisse tumhe takleef ho or unke yahi bato ko soch Kar mai padhta hu or bhai aap khud par yakeen rakho duniya kya bolti hai family kya bolti hai sabko ignore kro apane dil ki suno or mehnat kro Jaror hoga 😊
Mam I left neet after 2 drop now i am doing B.pharma ...But i will never forget those time when i tried too hard to crack Neet..and Mam aap mere sabse bada inspiration hoo...aapke bajese Abhi tak Bio mere dimaag me chappa hua hee...Mam you were great part of my life....I will always remember you..Ritu Mam ❤❤❤❤.........
Fir v mam aaj tak B.pharma me koi interest nhi aa rha..😅..
Sayad me 1st semester mee fail v ho jaunga kyunki mam mujhe B.pharma krne ki interest nhi hee ...Lekin kya pta zindegi kisi ek pal badal jaye kya pta....But i will be well-wisher for you in my whole life...
And one day i will meet you once in my life...❤
Koi n jo hoyega acha hogaa
Mera bhi 3rd attempt hai suicidal thoughts aate he hai but still it is not the option 🗿 .. let's win together
You r pure soul mam .. you r rally an inspiration.. we all love you mam ❤
Mam your words mean a lot for us….it reaches direct to our heart…many of us take you as an inspiration…you are also like our family mam. Lots of love ❤️
Mera 4th attempt m selection hua..mere parents hmesha mere saath the..uncle aunty o k taano ko unhone kvi mujh tk pahuchne nhi diya..iam lucky to have my parents with me in those three drops..
Dr ke age number of attempts nahi likhe hote kabhi bhi tell your neighbours this. pehle attempt me nikle ya 5th attempt me , doctor toh dono hi banenge
@@priyanshi4038 yes 😊
❤
My mom told me yesterday ki if this time you will not get selected to "Mar hi jaana " ya "ghar mt aana"
Bro 💔 please tell me you are joking ??
Aare gusse mein bol diye honge.... Bhai tu na kahi aur bhag Jana thodi der ke liye fir dekhna Aunty ka reaction you will love it😌
Mam sch mai muje rona aa gya😭😭😭... Mera bhi neet clear nhi hua... Mere parents muje smjate h ki ye live ka end nhi hai or bhi moke hai life mai.... But kbhi kbhi har koi taana maaar deta h🥺🥺sch m uss time p bhut bura lgta h bs lgta hai ye sb khtm kro yr.. But mai kbhi har nhi manugi..... Bs muje bnna hi hai dr.
Thanks mam for right guidance to us ❤
5 years ago when I completed my school my parents started to pressurize me for neet litrally saying I was nnever intrested in medical I took science in 11 just bcz of my parents but then my parents used to say you have wasted all our money why you were born children are there making thier parents proud you are good for nothing I can't write anymore bcz that era was the darkest phase of my life I was in depression for complete 3 years and no one was there to listen me I too wanted to end my life but God saved me and believe me when you think this is the end that is not , nothing is imp than your life I am happy now I thank God for saving me every time I wanted to end everything
I hope you are alright now❤
what are u doing now
I always believe that whatever happens..it happens for good..I also failed many times..both in academics and life situations..but I was lucky to have a supportive mother who never ever gave up on me..she saw something in me which I couldn't see . Now I have the courage to face any situation..
What u are doing now brother
@@skmdmnd I recently completed my MSC and now thinking of PHD
@@lionelprk4088wow 👍👍
Best of luck for the future
Thank you Mam hamari situations ko samjhne k liye.......I think is country mein sabse zyada beda gark students ka hi ho rkha h.......and that too in southern India.....I don't know why Aapki yeh video dekh k I had tears in my eyes.....This year, this was my 3rd attempt and still did not get good marks. But had a good score in Bio. The main thing that disturbs students is the DESIRES that their parents show either in their words or in their actions. Parents bole ya na bole unke bacchon ko sb samjh m aata hai ki unke parents kahi na kahi unke results ko lekr unhappy hai and that thing make them do such hard step..
Mam i swear I have gone through all this ...societ i have done it but atlast m bach gyi fir mujhe samjh jo mene kia voh galat cheez ki mene galat kia Mera 3 drop h yeah mere no. Abhi bhi kam h lekin still m try kr rhi hu mere demaag m abhi bhi thought aate h lekin mere demaag m mere har time mam aap mere saath 1st drop m mene aapki videos dekhi h m 2nd drop m kota m thi m 3rd drop m yakeen batch m scroll h m hmesha alakh sir k naam leke aange bad jaati ki m shyd nikal lungi jab Mera inspiration pta ni kya h but I have lost everything still I believe in kanha ji mere saath m roz anxiety hoti h raat k yhi thought aate h lekin mere yh videos dekh k m samjhne k try krte h failure of one exam is not end in life but mam u don't known the situation of middles class girl neet ni nikal paayi n m mere ghar walle mere shaadi krdenege mujhpe kira pressure m jaanti lekin still ab m yh cheezein demaag m ni laati I am minor positive thankyou for saying such words❤❤❤❤
Suicide is actually a murder which is done by the society 😢
Mam please tell the right way to become a teacher like you... teaching is my passion ❤❤
Actually mam parents society make us think that we are a big failure and can't do anything if fail in this exam .
Mam meri.life me bhi yahi chal rha hai maine 2 baar neet Diya par nhi hua crack jo ki mujhe life me kuch krna tha par papa ke kehne par Maine neet Kiya mam iss saal bhi Dene. Wali hu kya hoga kuch pta nhi koshish Puri krti hu krne ki mam lekin Aaj aapne apni story share krkr mujhe hosla Diya h ki exam ko na crack krne se life ka the end nhi hota hai thankyou mam you are.like.my mother❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
These are very heart touching but behind all these cases happening, there is a prime role of the government and it's policies.. Students with SC ST quota are getting higher ranks and good government colleges while many general category students even though after scoring good marks are unable to get good colleges. Some students with quota don't score good yet they get admission in government colleges .... All poor aren't SC ST, some are general also....At today's date a student with 600 marks of general category is struggling for a government college and if he/she belongs to general category that doesn't make it compulsory that the student's parents will be wealthy enough to pay for private colleges. The Government should consider this matter on serious note and take action towards it..... 🙏
Exactly...
🙂🖤.... Neet brings Light in someone's life and darkness to some students
MAM, WISH ME GOOD LUCK FOR MY MDCAT ! TO BE HELD ON 10TH SEPT HERE IN PAKISTAN. HOPEFULLY YOUR LECTURES GONNA HELP ME AND I'LL MAKE IT TO A MED COLLEGE. Love from Pakistan ❤
Where are you from?
In Pakistan?
@@emanaqeel3326
Karachi
Thankuhh mam I am 2year dropper aged 18 online student purely never visited offline...., my hands are shaking continuously and I am staying quiet from last week don't kmow why .Parents are continuously saying why are you quiet . Ofcourse somekind of thoughts are also coming and mind and suddenly this video comes in my field and I am feeling well now I don't know why my heart is pounding so fast and mjj body isa sweating don't know what is going to happen on 5 may ,......
I m only 18 years old I scored 384 in neet 2023 without any preparation. Nd I m satisfied with this marks . Now I m prepare for neet 2024 but I don't take on mind 😅😅 or bhi bhut feild h neet k alawa . And most important is that life 1bar hi milti h so enjoy it .. i request to don't try for suicide 🙏🏻 nd be happy 😊
Aap preparation online mode me Kar rahe hai ha offline mode me
Aur koi college ke sath preparation Kar rahe hai ya pura drop leke
Online kr rhi hu
Yes bsc bhi kr rhi hu open se
@@yashwanikhangar9645 kaha se pw se
Aur aap bsc konse college se Kar rahe hai
Actually mujhe bhi yahi karna hai
Bas college ke liye pareshan thi ki kaha se kya kya karu
Private colleges h bhut sare .. unme admission le lijiye
Thank u so much mam I really needed this ....🥺
Lots aff pressure from family n society 😢......we have to stay strong 🙏 hmare sath AAP Jese teacher ka support h 😊.....suside it's not a solution of our problem .
As a neet aspirant Mai ek baat kehna chahti hu mai neet ek baar de chuki hu
Bss wahi karo jo tum khud se kRna chahte ho kisi aur ko dekh k dream mat banao apna 100% dov agar na ho paye phir bhi life Mai aisa kuch zarur milega jis pe tum Always Allah ka shukr ada karo hardwork never goes unrewarded
Also I request to parents don't force your children to do anything for career let them do what they actually want
Don't pressurize your child for any particular field
NEET is not everything but hobby of doing hardwork means a lot
Allah bless you all
To escape from situation is not everything we must face the situation to be brave enough to face all circumstances of life
❤❤❤❤❤Life is beautiful don't end your life
Your life is valuable than anything in the world
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