Garcelle Reveals Biggest Regret After Losing Her Father: ‘I Wish I Would’ve Known If He Loved Me’
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- Опубліковано 23 бер 2022
- Have you ever made a mistake or regretted something and vowed NEVER to do it again? From ageism and standing up for someone while on the job, we reveal the emotional regrets we’ve faced in life. Plus, Garcelle opens up about the opportunity she missed to mend fences with her father.
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I love how Jeannie asks deeper questions without crossing boundaries. It’s very thought-provoking and vulnerable.
@beautifulswan85 It's an episode recorded before maternity leave. She comes back on Tuesday
She’s literally my favorite host. It was always her and Tamera for me 🤍🤍🤍
Hey is Jeanie back on the show from having her baby or is this from before
@beautifulswan85 they aren’t old lol recoded before her maternity leave but are new episodes
I’m still crying about Garcelle 😿😿I picked up on her pain very heavily . You will be ok Garcelle ❤️
You can literally see the child in Garcelle’s eyes speaking through her adult self now. Wow.
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I’m struggling with this now. I guess this was my sign I need to reach out to my dad.
@@lynetteJ155 ☺️
@@cindimahtaj6455 😁
So sad 🥺
This show is pure and real, I do hope it's not cancelled
Right the show is doing so well at least I thought so
I know, I'm fricken crying here haha
Exactlyyyyyy!!
We gon pray and pray hard..we need this show
@@truelove-lo7fn Amen!
Please, don't cancelled this show. We NEED the Real. I NEED this show so much. It's so light and real at the same time.
Agreed
Amen
Agree
It just got Real, thank you
yessssss!!! please dont cancel this show!
Jeannie seems like a great friend. She knows just what to say.
Garcelle just broke my heart into a million pieces, oh my God. This is such a real situation for so many people.
The mistake that I will never make again is dimming my own light so that others can shine, for years I’ve done that & the outcomes have been terrible because I wasn’t knowing my full potential and I was showing the darkest parts of myself.
whoooh! like again
💪🏽💪🏽✨
Ditto!
Same!!
That part! Never again in this life
We lost my dad on the 2nd of January, what Garcelle said has me crying like a baby. I miss him so much.
We're so sorry for your loss. xoxo
@@TheRealDaytime Thank you so much ❤
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Chills, that's my birthday, haven't spoken to my father in years.....
@@stephaniepritchard1049 thank you ❤
Here I can see how strong Garcelle actually is. I love her so much.
Yeah.....we would have understood if she broke down. I was moved listening to her. Oh lord....heel her heart. Love you Garcelle. 😍
@@mwate8764
Which leaves me wondering why some dads don't just reconnect with their kids much as they're not in good terms with their ex.
Why not spare your kids and show them love as you battle it out with their mother(s) ? ...then they're left hurting and blaming themselves ?
Anyway,it will be well with her...with all 🙏
@@kawiramucheke ikr. A child is left wondering if they were loved by their dad. And that's deep because she has obviously had to deal with it for the longest time. I am grateful to God my dad tells me he loves me all the time. Sometimes I wonder if he really knows my name because he is always like darling, sweetheart. Grateful 🙏
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Wonderful !
So was my dad until he left us months ago.
I really feel his Presence coz of that Connection.
He was just so giving !
Any way,we Salute All our Dads for giving us LIFE.
That's enough.
@@kawiramucheke am so sorry for your loss Rosemary. BTW my official name is Roselyn.
Sending love to Garcelle. I loved Loni’s lighthearted comment at the end lolol she is such a natural at breaking the heaviness in the room.
Aww, Ms Garcelle! :( This was actually a beautiful moment. Jeannie's response was so wonderfully sensitive, Adrienne and Loni seemed like they could understand to some degree suggested by their tears and Adrienne's response. Please keep this show, oh my goodness. I won't find this anywhere else. Healing for you, Ms Garcelle! 💗💗
Garcelle and Adriane got me crying.Garcelle whole story on her Dad & Adriane crying at the end and understanding and sympathizing with Garcelle.
@@stoneyjosephine from previous episodes adrienne has opened up about not being as close to her biological dad because of the way he treated her mother in their past relationship. in these last few years she has been making up for lost time since he’s getting older.
I'm on my period and this conversation made me wail lol. No one ever tells you about how crucial timing is when you're young, but i always believe that every soul on earth is meant to experience certain pain and miss out on certain experiences BUT that is what EXACTLY shapes our path and how our story is meant to play out when we leave.
I am PMSing and just crying my eyes out
I love this perspective ❤️
That's a good way of looking at life ..wowww 🙏🏿
Sameeee
Ladies don't blame not seeing your dad on yourself or take it too hard. We tend to want to bond with people/ family who have transitioned to the extreme when they are no longer in the physical. So take it as a lesson for the ones who are with you in your daily not to take them for granted.
Thank you for sharing!
If timing is everything then you made it at the right time Loni. You don't know where your life would have went but it could have taken a left instead of a right. Garcelle thanks for the vulnerability.
Garcelle opening up like that made me cry. This was such a good segment.
My dad and I don’t get along at all but damn Garcelle got me at the end!
wow, what a wholesome ending Garcelle!!
I hope this show doesn’t get cancelled. This has been the BEST season thus far.
I’m so glad that I got the chance to repair my relationship with my father. He’s great! I’m sorry Garcelle 😢.
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How can this show be cancelled! My emotional intelligence will just shrivel up and die... this was so vulnerable and beautiful!
I should've left school sooner. Spent 3 years trying to bag a degree I knew I didn't like, in a field I don't like. I ended up with depression but no degree. Now that I'm starting over and enrolling for a course that I like, I wish I was brave enough to be honest to myself in my first year and leave. I'm happier now❤️
🤗 I can absolutely relate. I have 3+4 years (separate intervals) where I forced things that never came to fruition and ended up with horrible depressive episodes. All these are lessons I guess. Wishing you well with all your endeavours.
This what I’m going through right now, expect I’m doing a degree apprenticeship which means I’m a full time student and full time employee at a field that I hate, I go to work crying before shift almost daily now. I hope that I get the courage to leave and I hope there light at the end of the tunnel
Awww Ade 😪💔
I hope & pray with my WHOLE heart that she will have a healthy baby, she wants it so much....
She still has options. She could get a surrogate or adopt. Maybe she’s holding on too tight to the idea that it has to come from her and blocking her blessing. Some people are too poor to have an option at all.
@@dannyt7269 that part!!! The patriarchy has a chokehold on so many women! You don't have to give birth to be a mom
@@dannyt7269 i dont think its necessary to bring other peoples problem in when she is dealing with her own
Dang the way this video ended, that was deep 😪
Chills at the end. I wish I could envelope Garcelle in the biggest hug rn
The mistake I refuse to repeat is leaving myself behind in relationships and putting everyone else before my own well-being
One mistake that I made in the past that I would never want to repeat is giving too much of myself, my heart, my soul, my love...to someone and not leaving anything for myself. Basically, making another human being the centre of my universe. I would never make that mistake again.
Same. My top 3 mistakes have been with guys that I deeply regret and think about often. It eats at me constantly and the regret grows with time. If I could change the past, I wish I never met those guys.
Speak WAY UP and keep THIS show going!!!
Don't cancel this show. It adds so much value listening to these lovely ladies. I love their insight and each of them add their own beautiful light to the topics💗
When she said she would've liked to have known if he loved her, that broke my heart in a way I can't even comprehend
Garcelle, I had tears in my eyes as I looked into yours. I fully understand. My relationship with my father was broken for thirty years. The story is long, but we reconnected when I was 38 years old. I shook at the thought of forgiveness and actually talking with him. But with the Lord dealing with my heart, the anger and my pride, I reluctantly talked with my father and forgave. Day by day our relationship is healing and growing. Now, here I am never known how to love him as a child,, I can say as an adult I love him. Thank you Garcelle, for sharing. You are beautiful and inspiring. ❤
Oh Garcelle you're truly an awesome human being....sorry about your dad and dont feel guilty the Lord understands 😨😟😥
Ugh, this was so deep and so real! The ladies shared some really intimate stories and regrets, thank you so much for being so open ♥️
I love when they are open🥺
The mistake ill never make again is tolerating abuse..whether its physical or verbal I will never make excuses for it and tolerate it again. Lesson learned.
Producers/people behind the stage PLEASE!!!! have a studio audience again or just do whatever it takes to keep the show going bc I have been watching the Real for 5 years and I dont want it to get cancelled...
Damn Garcelle, pulling my heart strings...
THE SILENCE WHEN GARCELLE SPOKE! BABBY!!! IT SPOKE A MILLION WORDS MY HEART HEARTED IN THAT MOMENT FOR HER.
Many can relate to Garcelle. Time is precious, moves quickly and we don't have as much as we think. Reach out. Apologize. Forgive.
We need this show to stay on for the culture
Lordt Garcelle brought me to tears 💛💛
I will never let a man think that my life only revolves around them. I have my own life, I'm an individual, and other things matter too.
I think making a mistake teaches you to pay more attention
Man.. This is how you know Jeannies been missed.. She changes the atmosphere to one of honesty, transparency and Truth. She must be protected at all costs.. ✨💛🧡
The rawness, vulnerability and REALness of these four ladies is AMAZING!!! I truly hate that just when they’ve found a great balance, perfect harmony, and synchronicity amongst the hosts, the network says cancel! Women, particularly young women NEED this show! 😍😍😍
This was so deep and heart wrenching - love and light to you Garcelle ❤️
Canceling a show like this is gonna be soooo horrible! The long pause, the pin drop! THIS SHOW IS POWERFUL! Not many things cause stillness
Garcelle's story made me cry.
They better not cancel, the Real is the realest and best it's ever been.
Best realest segment EVER. It would have been nice to hear Jeannie’s regrets.
"Reaching out" to deadbeat parents is the reason why people stay choosing toxic relationships. It is a vicious cycle.
Some people need closure and answers to move on in life meanwhile others don’t so to each their own, it’s that persons choice what they’d prefer
Pulling at the heart strings !! This is so important!
THIS SHOW CANNOT BE CANCELED
Man, videos like this get me. I love how vulnerable they are willing to be on the show.
“I would’ve said hi. I would’ve said that I loved him… I didn’t feel like he loved me… I would’ve like to have know if he loved me; I would’ve liked to know that.”
I truly never felt I could relate to someone so much until she said that.
Well this got everyone crying. 🙌
Powerful clip!!
I will never let someone pull the rug out from under me again. In the past there have been times where I have put trust in someone and they've disappointed me and left me in a very vulnerable spot that was tough to climb out of. So, not too long ago, I made a promise to myself, God, and my father (who died when I was young) that I would never allow myself to be put in that position again.
My heart goes out to all you beautiful ladies. It's painful to have a deep regret. I pray may God give you peace and comfort. Thank you for sharing.
It actually makes me think on a general level like no matter your tax bracket, high class , lower class , race you are , what gender, what age … we all have things that we sometimes in hindsight when you look back on it… you realize you took for granted because it’s like well when is the right time and the time… it feels like a good decision or soemthing that needed to happen ! But then because of the unknown and what you do know now… you almost wonder “ what could I have done differently “ not to say the choice you made is a mistake but it simply was a choice and if you could go back and see if the grass was truly greener you would take the chance a second time to see how it would affect your future up to the point you are now ! Cause & Effect truly is something mind blowing I tell you ! ♥️🙏🏾
For real
This is one of those clips that you continuously play back because you felt it.
Loni you are where you’re supposed to be . Those regrets are lessons you were meant to have those . You are never backed up , you are here you’re intended to be . Remember that :)
Oh Garcelle...hugs hun. You too Adrienne. I hear you too Loni. This is just tooooo deep. Got me up in my feelings.
Thank you Garcelle, that was an amazing moment to share. Really touched me. Thank you for being so transparent.
I'm not exaggerating but I dont see how I would survive without this show. I started watching old clips of the show in highschool and now I'm about to graduate from college. This show has moulded me into the woman I am today.
Agreed
damn ya'll are rolling out the tears today😭
GARCELLE don't regret what he as your FATHER should have done. He should've reached out. He was the Parent who abandoned you.
That's an easy one for me. I will NEVER meet a man online, quit my job, sell/give away my possessions, close accounts, say goodbye to family and friends and relocate to be with him. Big mistake!!!!!
You can date someone long distance, but until you live with them, or at the very least spend a lot of time with them in person, you don't really know them.
But as Garcelle pointed out, these are blessings in disguise because we grow and learn from them.
Wow I'm still kicking myself for that.😪
WOW!😲 You actually did that?! Oh. My. Gosh. Yes. That sounds like a colossal mistake.
But you know what I find in that to admire and is actually inspirational to me? Your courage. It may have been directed in the wrong way and for the wrong person but I would give a lot for the kind of bravery that took. Man! So though you may have suffered for your decision acknowledge how teflon strong you are to have the strength of purpose to have followed thru with it in the first place. Girl, with that kind of courage in your arsenal you can accomplish anything!👊👊👊🤗
My mom tried for years and years to get pregnant and thought she couldn’t anymore then at 41 she had my perfect sister, I have faith Adrian will get pregnant
Oooh Loni's comment about production. Damn that was tense. Oh Garcelle my heart breaks for you, not knowing is dreadful. When her voice went quiet 😭😭😭😭
I had the same thought. What was that production comment?
Year, so deep. Let me reach out somebody, I haven't spoken to in years. Thank you Garcelle, thank you ladies
Thank YOU, Real Fam!
An amazing talk show.
Yesss and I don't care what no one else say!
Hey! Psst! Y'all wanna lets go have a "talk" with the execs? I'm tryna get a crew together. Y'all down? We'll just..."talk". 😬😎
Praying that God heals Garcelles heart 🙏💜😥
This is so heart warming, it brought tears to my eyes.
I feel you Garcelle. I want to reach out but I have so much pride and resentment. He’s had a lot of opportunity to do so himself. 😭
i was litterally crying at the end and lonis little joke about her dad had me cracking up
This is a very deep topic, and I’m here for the vulnerability. Thank you ladies of the real for being so REAL.
They can NOT cancel this show. I have never had a show speak to so many aspects of my life. I identify with these ladies on so much. Pleaseeee don't cancel The Real!
Garcelle is so strong omg this clip moved me so much !
Thanks Loni for her humor I was about to cried she made me LOL
The silence during this topic was deafening… I feel for Garcelle, may she have peace in her heart.
A very big hug to Adrianne and Garcele🫂🫂🫂🫂
Garcelle he heard every heart felt word u just said he was also afraid u didn't love him too because he abandoned you he was ashamed.. next lifetime you both will have the love of each era as you will remember this pain..wishing love n healing❤❤❤🤗
Garcelle I’m commenting on the number 111 … that’s a sign from your father . He heard you . I’m glad Jeannie asked that . He’s letting you know he knows . No regrets , just lessons . It’s part of life . It’s the journey you chose before you came to earth . Remember , it’s never goodbye , it’s I’ll see you later . He is waiting for you with open arms , we don’t get out of this earth alive . Very touching clip . Blessings to all of you ladies 🙏🏻 ps I’m still crying . Felt your pain .
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Jeannie you are such a smart person to ask Garcelle that question I am sure a weight was lifted of her shoulder. What Loni said everything is timing that is what happen just now Garcelle be strong.🙏
Jeannie is so perceptive and connected. I'd cherish her friendship.
Wow this show has been more hard hitting and vulnerable lately and I love it. I hope it's not canceled. This is my fave daytime TV show.
Shew, Garcelle got me crying.
My heart for Garcelle 😭😭😭
Garcelle got my eyes watery on this one. It’s interesting that a bit of what each of these ladies said I can relate to in some way. I’m actually 29 now and that bit Adrienne shared is helpful because I never thought of freezing my eggs. But I will now consider it.
I have pretty much been living with the real for 2 years now. I do everything watching the real I hope they dont cancel it
I hope you have had a chance to watch the older seasons starting from season 1 because if you didn't you're really missing out
And this is why this is one of the best daytime talk shows!! The Real is REAL and we love it! 💕💕💕
This is honestly one of the best seasons of The Real. More than ever, I feel like the ladies are actually being Real about current situations they’re facing. It’s so brave and inspiring to see. Please, this show MUST continue!
Wow, first episode in a while that has tugged my heartstrings. Powerful...
Timing is everything
wow this was amazing, I loved listening to all the stories, but Garcelles... wow, and the way Jeannie follow up that question... so welll emotioonally connected with people, loved it
I regret having to work so hard that I didn’t get to spend enough time with my aging relatives that are no longer with us so I would say to anyone who reads this spend time with love 💗 ones and forgive .
Thank you for sharing, Real Fam.
Love you ladies! I hope they don’t cancel the show!
Wow, that was the most vulnerable we have ever seen Garcelle! Stay strong G-Money, I know your father would be very proud of you!
I feel Loni when she says she wish she wouldn't have wasted so much time at a job that she knew she didn't want to do. Even though I learned things at those jobs, I still stayed way longer than I should have. I feel like I would be more successful now. It's harder now that I'm older.
These episodes have been Sooooo Real! They are connecting with us on a whole new level! I love how transparent they all are and I know 100% someone (Me) resonates with them and what they have been through! ❤❤ This show is amazing!
I can definitely relate to Gracelle in a few ways. When I was 15, my dad was diagnosed with Schizophrenia at the age of 38. For many years, I struggled with his diagnosis because I didn’t understand how he developed it, why this was happening to my dad, and it was difficult to comprehend how the jovial, funny, and energetic dad that I grew up with was suddenly deteriorating mentally so rapidly. The last time he and I spoke, we were arguing and I lashed out and said horrible things to him. During the argument, he responded with, “Why do you hate me so much?” 💔 He ended up passing away shortly after that argument took place, and I’ll never be able to take the hurtful words that I said back, I’ll never be able to emphasize how much I love him, or thank him for being a wonderful dad, or provide reassurance that it was never him that I hated - much of my anger and hatred was directed toward the mental illness that took my dad away. I still feel immense guilt and shame. Grief doesn’t get easier, and I think about him every second of everyday. I pray that one day, I can find healing, and I also pray that his soul is resting peacefully.
One day you WILL find healing ❤
@@talkitaway3860 - Thank you sweetheart. I appreciate you taking the time to reply and to write something encouraging!
I truly hope you find peace. I hope you know he knew how much you loved him don’t be too hard on yourself. Sending you so much love 💕
@@stormyv7302 - Thank you so much Stormy. I really appreciate your kind words. It’s not easy, but I’m trying so hard to learn the importance of self-forgiveness and peace. Seeing this comment made me feel better.
I had the same regret Adrianne… please share this more to young women.