Why Instant Gratification Kills Your Progression In Life

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  • Опубліковано 16 вер 2024

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  • @StephIsColdG
    @StephIsColdG  7 місяців тому +41

    1one1 Consultations visit Stephiscold.com ✅
    Follow my instagram.com/stephiscold

    • @user-ub8uc8gq7r
      @user-ub8uc8gq7r 7 місяців тому +2

      YEW TUBE MOUNTAIN DEW 🥤

    • @nnotsle
      @nnotsle 7 місяців тому +5

      Not going to cap you @StephisColdG keeping male friendships harder than pulling dimes frfr. I’m 36 my dawg and in a good groove, keep yourself locked in, and God will show you who the real homies are fr

    • @ojgamer245
      @ojgamer245 7 місяців тому

      I appreciate u bro speaking facts

    • @cybcx404
      @cybcx404 7 місяців тому

      Need it

    • @elyisraelmazyck4062
      @elyisraelmazyck4062 5 місяців тому

      What's the song you got playing in the background?

  • @KingJuls.
    @KingJuls. 7 місяців тому +383

    We gotta get even colder 2024❄️

  • @kasA430
    @kasA430 7 місяців тому +23

    Left my entire hometown and my family behind.
    Ex wanted out and I never looked back.
    Got rid of social media
    Went from 100lbs to 144lbs
    Quit my 9to5 , because it served me no purpose…
    Now, I’m writing my first book.
    Learning other skills and doing what I love.

  • @CamCam008
    @CamCam008 7 місяців тому +59

    Bro Its
    *Work/Get Money
    *GYM/Nutrition
    *Get Your Mind Right
    *Physical & Mental Health
    *Stay In My Lane
    *Women Will Always Be There

  • @BRUCEFLAME
    @BRUCEFLAME 7 місяців тому +107

    This the first year where I ain’t fuckin wit women, going out every weekend, drinking…all that. Been taking my content creation more seriously & one of my TikTok’s hit a million a couple days ago. Let’s grind fellas!

    • @IGITGUALA
      @IGITGUALA 7 місяців тому +1

      Its money on there or nah? 🧐

    • @Kingsley.yy1
      @Kingsley.yy1 7 місяців тому +2

      @@IGITGUALAif yk how to monetize your content ye

    • @iChrisBeezy7
      @iChrisBeezy7 7 місяців тому +1

      Keep it up fam, don’t stop 🙏🏿

    • @treviancalhoun7693
      @treviancalhoun7693 7 місяців тому +2

      Congrats, keep goin’. It’s a marathon🏁

    • @itscupidk
      @itscupidk 7 місяців тому +1

      Kuddos to you bro

  • @Jelato_wrld
    @Jelato_wrld 7 місяців тому +88

    Ngl I like when Steph talks more about growth & development vids opposed to the one about how to get females and shit

    • @WyattRG8
      @WyattRG8 5 місяців тому +10

      Real ass dudes done graduated female nature content, who cares about all that ish anymore we gotta important shit to worry about

    • @Jelato_wrld
      @Jelato_wrld 5 місяців тому +7

      @@WyattRG8 no cap,he did say once you master it move on. take what applies and keep It pushing. I agree

    • @ViralAuthority
      @ViralAuthority 4 місяці тому +2

      @@WyattRG8can’t forget the fundamentals of female nature, bc once you get up financially, you don’t wanna repeat the same mistakes. 🫡

    • @jojo.3064
      @jojo.3064 3 місяці тому

      @@ViralAuthorityreal💯

    • @AOAMan
      @AOAMan 26 днів тому

      FACTS

  • @mizukagematt1186
    @mizukagematt1186 7 місяців тому +134

    2 cold videos inna row. Prime example of consistency

    • @WillieBerryhill
      @WillieBerryhill 7 місяців тому +7

      So trew

    • @Zeesinatra
      @Zeesinatra 7 місяців тому

      bro he cold but this nigga been gone for near 2 months. consistency is not the word, but I'm sure we all glad Steph back and he spittin

    • @ZayBeatztm88
      @ZayBeatztm88 7 місяців тому +14

      Bro he didn’t post for like a month stop the cap

    • @WillieBerryhill
      @WillieBerryhill 7 місяців тому +2

      @@ZayBeatztm88 so trew

    • @MG-xu4ti
      @MG-xu4ti 7 місяців тому +6

      He gon disappear again in a week 😭🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @GIJoshh
    @GIJoshh 7 місяців тому +192

    Steph, it’s great to hear from you. I hope everything is okay on your end. We missed you. We need you! Please don’t stop!

    • @MG-xu4ti
      @MG-xu4ti 7 місяців тому +8

      Ong

    • @Ryjos
      @Ryjos 7 місяців тому +4

      Random question bro, how has steph helped you? What impact has he had on you?

    • @gwuapo7325
      @gwuapo7325 7 місяців тому +20

      @@Ryjoshe put people on game

    • @RageForm
      @RageForm 7 місяців тому +2

      Facts

    • @mmalithefather1472
      @mmalithefather1472 7 місяців тому +12

      He definitely changed my life for the better! He inspired me to start my UA-cam channel

  • @RealCurlyDrew
    @RealCurlyDrew 7 місяців тому +32

    12hour shifts for days and days in a row. 4 in the morning to 4 at night. Still get chills

    • @christopherswaffi4760
      @christopherswaffi4760 5 місяців тому

      Bro how long did you have to work the 12 hour shifts bro? Keep it a buck wimme. I wanna know how much work imma be looking at

    • @marvinthelegend4928
      @marvinthelegend4928 3 місяці тому

      @@christopherswaffi4760until you can comfortably afford the lifestyle you want. until you you can legit take a year off work and be able to maintain yourself. multiple streams of income. Grind. motivation.

  • @Remember-Death
    @Remember-Death 7 місяців тому +36

    I love how Steph has his *passport* sitting out, just chillin' by the candle.

  • @TSierra
    @TSierra 7 місяців тому +37

    This is so true! I’ve stopped watching corn and currently I’m on a 22 day streak. I started on new years and I feel good. I have better sleep and I’m a bit more focused.

  • @feodiente9460
    @feodiente9460 7 місяців тому +57

    I swear Steph will NOT be satisfied until that dude that called him pretty muscles ends up like Deontae West..😅😅😅

    • @lilshaan6252
      @lilshaan6252 7 місяців тому +2

      Delonte?

    • @feodiente9460
      @feodiente9460 7 місяців тому

      @@lilshaan6252 See..the way my spell check balance is set up..😆😆💯

    • @CoachHien_
      @CoachHien_ 5 місяців тому +1

      Lamo 😂

  • @williamf.buckleyjr3227
    @williamf.buckleyjr3227 7 місяців тому +40

    15:15
    Fifty-two year old white guy here.
    Subscribed to this kid because he's got sense and brains.
    S+B=W
    Wisdom.

  • @45ounce
    @45ounce 7 місяців тому +30

    Dude I’ve been working 80 hours a week and I’m doing it for 12 months solid to get out of debt and then reinvest, reinvest and reinvest. 12 months is nothing in the scheme of things. 🙏💪

  • @glo.hardie
    @glo.hardie 7 місяців тому +65

    I’m ngl I was friends with this big dude for a long time. He gave me valuable advice while we were friends. I always noticed hints that he didn’t really rock with me but I ignored it thinking I was self sabotaging a good friendship. He was looking at me with contempt. I was very fit and constantly got the prettiest women on campus. When I got my first girlfriend he told me, “yeah her? I can’t do anything with her” like he had a chance. Trying to be cool with h8rs Will bring you down man

    • @BG-mn6di
      @BG-mn6di 7 місяців тому +4

      Every time!

    • @hiphopmusic2470
      @hiphopmusic2470 7 місяців тому +3

      Facts stay away from people that give you hater vibes friends , family , etc stay away from negativity

    • @justincbryant
      @justincbryant 7 місяців тому

      What if it was your own inflated perception of yourself causing you notice this. What if what you thought you were noticing was really hinting at how he didnt rock with himself, but you directed it at yourself. You start to see the misunderstanding as soon as you decide to put yourself in each persons shoes. Remmeber it was you who perceived the external problem based on his internal projections. In this post you clearly speak on why you think he envies you, but Id take a bet that if you were to be in his shoes, he was probably just down on himself. Easy to miss when its all about you and your mental state isnt as refined.. saying you cant do nothin with ol girl sounds like a classic joke id tell a close friend or a brother. What if you ruined a friendship over nothing? This is why its important to have empathy, discernment, and know how to effectively communicate with others. Just speculating.

    • @glo.hardie
      @glo.hardie 7 місяців тому

      @@justincbryant naw you’re just a hater just like him. You probably don’t get no hoes and mad for the same reason. I wouldn’t be surprised if you were his friend or something speaking on his behalf.

  • @DanielinAction
    @DanielinAction 7 місяців тому +46

    Steph is an INFJ 100%.
    And he's on the 'revenge' mode and Its the most beautiful mode.

    • @SaulAguilar.
      @SaulAguilar. 7 місяців тому +4

      What's INFJ?
      It's crazy even Steph got played and is man enough to share his experience.
      But its only up from here and we going hard🔥🏋️

    • @Noeyhefner
      @Noeyhefner 7 місяців тому +3

      ima infj-t. i def relate to the revenge mode lmaoo

    • @ConsciousERealist
      @ConsciousERealist 7 місяців тому

      What makes him an infj because I get infj alot on mbti test? I can be pretty revengeful myself too?

    • @anansix5003
      @anansix5003 5 місяців тому

      I'm intj-A I'm plotting to take over this year. 😂

  • @elijah3996
    @elijah3996 7 місяців тому +13

    Bought my first car three weeks ago was so excited I’m only 20 wasn’t taking my time and instantly bought it two weeks later put over 2 thousand dollars into fixing it I should had just waited instead of being inpatient.

    • @drillingig2368
      @drillingig2368 6 місяців тому +1

      Now you can be efficient with your time, you good, bro.

    • @Jaethegr888
      @Jaethegr888 6 місяців тому +1

      I was impatient at 20 got a car payment instantly regretted months later but now I see my credit and money flourishing physically on point to muscle wise and mindset good best decision I made now it’s payed off 💯🙏🏽

  • @ZainMiah
    @ZainMiah 7 місяців тому +21

    How does anyone hate you bro. You are a legend. Nothing but love for you Steph. You changed my life brother

  • @Jcantbstopped
    @Jcantbstopped 7 місяців тому +7

    Cherish your mother fellas. Steph isn’t lying about when something is gone it’s gone forever. Lost my momma last year but it motivated me to stay on my grind and to keep elevating to make her proud.

    • @drillingig2368
      @drillingig2368 6 місяців тому

      I can’t imagine my life without my parents, bro. That’s crazy.

  • @Online9ine
    @Online9ine 7 місяців тому +6

    "it's not pay to win, it's pay to GRIND!" ❌🧢

  • @mvrzz9717
    @mvrzz9717 7 місяців тому +21

    cmon steph stay consistent stay in that survival mode road to 1 mil this year you and others inspiring me. PROVE THEM WRONG AND PROVE YOURSELF RIGHT!! Don’t accept defeat stay cold❄️

  • @Ale-kc8we
    @Ale-kc8we 7 місяців тому +36

    Your words got me the through some tough times g.
    Know we appreciate these videos bro.
    Love

    • @Lxmxr
      @Lxmxr 7 місяців тому

      E

  • @garrettlosabia3818
    @garrettlosabia3818 7 місяців тому +5

    Steph got the most fire instrumentals when he drops gems🤚🏽😬🤚🏽

  • @TheSantos173
    @TheSantos173 7 місяців тому +14

    Steph I’m 28 from Texas and been watching you for years man, don’t ever stop what you’re doing 💯

  • @nwikejnr3240
    @nwikejnr3240 7 місяців тому +14

    UA-cam what it dew from Nigeria ❤

  • @alijahcordova8359
    @alijahcordova8359 7 місяців тому +9

    This is why you shouldn’t be nice to people put yourself first protect your energy cut people off leave people behind because every don’t deserve access to you every isn’t happy for you when you when people have their own problems situations and journey stay focused on your journey and in your lane and middle fingers to everyone that doesn’t like it because in this world it’s not about being liked it’s about being respected it’s about growth evolution progression self discipline 💯✅stay locked in except nothing but excellence all 2024

  • @RealParadox85
    @RealParadox85 7 місяців тому +11

    One thing Steph gon do is make RPG or 2K references 😂😂

  • @MikeLitirous
    @MikeLitirous 7 місяців тому +7

    That Deadpool cover is tough G 🔥💪🏽

  • @elioenai5187
    @elioenai5187 7 місяців тому +5

    @4:42 three years ago I didn’t understand until I went harder in the paint I was already fit just took it to the next level also with finance and the 🐍s appeared now I’m low key alone ✌🏾

  • @vivelajuventuz
    @vivelajuventuz 7 місяців тому +5

    when Steph talks i feel like its God talking to me through him.

  • @trex5323
    @trex5323 7 місяців тому +4

    steph brother .. we owe you so much . all i must say is .. thank you so much. black man to black man I love you and will forever appreciate your teachings.. no bullshit . may The Most High bless you eternally.

  • @gptoocut8435
    @gptoocut8435 7 місяців тому +4

    I was wondering where u went g, welcome back🙌🏾 Stay Cold fellas.

  • @symelsR
    @symelsR 7 місяців тому +6

    been learning the game since i was 15 steph rlly changed my life shi crazy

  • @Brani
    @Brani 7 місяців тому +4

    We gotta get colder

  • @armsthetics
    @armsthetics 7 місяців тому +4

    Glad to see your back, bro we understand gotta take care of the mental and we’ll wait for you. Stay up g

  • @lonelyboolin
    @lonelyboolin 2 місяці тому

    Had to come back to this video, i was struggling the whole first half of the year not doing shit fr. Yo content helping me realize I gotta get back on my shit.

  • @JustBlaze777-ic8sw
    @JustBlaze777-ic8sw 7 місяців тому +3

    Steph please do a video on financial goals & the daily practices you incorporate in your life to self improve financially. Women aside, a lot of us men lack financial guidance and constantly hearing “grind” isn’t enough. I’d definitely love to hear you speak on this and how it’s helped shape your life into what it is today

    • @marcrose3403
      @marcrose3403 7 місяців тому

      😂😂😂 that doesn’t get views. There are other guys who started off their channel started off talking finances. There’s books about finances n google is still free

    • @drillingig2368
      @drillingig2368 6 місяців тому

      @@marcrose3403You right. Our community is done.

  • @Martindhoang
    @Martindhoang 7 місяців тому +1

    I find this to be true. All great things take time. Building a business, learning, growing. I experienced delayed gratification in the gym and building my business

  • @Gen3ralGrimReaper
    @Gen3ralGrimReaper 4 дні тому

    Everyone appreciate Stephanie giving us and the free track at the end of the video.

  • @HighQi
    @HighQi 7 місяців тому +3

    Gotta be the coldest! Appreciate the game Steph as always. Stay BLESSED.

  • @AbouFitness
    @AbouFitness 7 місяців тому +3

    Thought I was tripping when I seen the back to back upload. Welcome back Steph.

  • @bradleymiller8623
    @bradleymiller8623 7 місяців тому +3

    Glad you back big bro, I really needed this motivation. Yesterday was rough, put me in a bad spot mentally, but I know I gotta keep my foot on the gas. Thank you for the reminder 💯

  • @keenan1637
    @keenan1637 7 місяців тому +2

    Blessed video, proud of you Steph, been watching you since 2020, I'm about to be 22 next month, you changed my life and mindset bro... take care 🥶💪🙏

  • @callmefreeze
    @callmefreeze 7 місяців тому +2

    When you see someone with more than you have don't hate on that person. Say to yourself if he/she can then i can too.💯

  • @ElijahDaily
    @ElijahDaily 7 місяців тому +2

    I started listen to steph a year ago I started my UA-cam channel this year because of bro now I’m that guy & All 2024 we finna get colder🥶 fam

  • @rudyjackson1536
    @rudyjackson1536 7 місяців тому +3

    Glad my boy back with the heat!!!

  • @lawrencer908
    @lawrencer908 7 місяців тому +2

    🥶🥶🥶🥶Real talk Steph really punched me in the chest with this one💯💯💯💯

  • @drakedrizzy95
    @drakedrizzy95 7 місяців тому +1

    Thanks you for the vulnerability. Vulnerability isn’t weak it’s a strength keep sharing this we be needing it . Appreciate you bro

  • @kutloano.mp4
    @kutloano.mp4 7 місяців тому +3

    Good to have you back Steph

  • @josephacero6539
    @josephacero6539 7 місяців тому +3

    Straight facts in this one stay strong Steph you’re killing it

  • @clutch.mastervi2658
    @clutch.mastervi2658 7 місяців тому +2

    Needed this Stef timely word

  • @SimpxSlayer-Police
    @SimpxSlayer-Police 7 місяців тому +4

    Pretty muscles is crazy 🤣

  • @motorcitytank7680
    @motorcitytank7680 7 місяців тому +3

    Stephiscold with Back2Back content 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Nyburhood
    @Nyburhood 7 місяців тому +1

    You gotta get colder GEEE! 🥶

  • @travis37115
    @travis37115 7 місяців тому +2

    I felt you were talking to me directly. Especially at the19:53 mark. Hell of a motivational video!!!

  • @highlightmixtapes1984
    @highlightmixtapes1984 7 місяців тому +1

    you shine with your motivational content!!!!

  • @rumtimetv
    @rumtimetv 7 місяців тому +1

    I needed this. Detroit, 26 getting bigger & better. NO REST‼️🗣️

  • @01234567898199
    @01234567898199 2 місяці тому

    Steph the beat at the end🥶🥶🥶

  • @armadillo-xb1vo
    @armadillo-xb1vo 7 місяців тому +2

    one of steph’s best vids in a while right here. i really appreciate the vulnerability.

  • @twwnn
    @twwnn 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for another COLD video💪🏾

  • @yazdan77
    @yazdan77 7 місяців тому +2

    Your words going hard in this video bro u inspirational asf I’m glad u doing better

  • @brandonyoung6612
    @brandonyoung6612 7 місяців тому

    All facts. Great video bro. Nothing more gratifying, as a man than working from the absolute bottom and climbing to the top. When you can do that, nothing can shake you.

  • @isaiahsheridan1667
    @isaiahsheridan1667 5 місяців тому

    Hey Steph lets get back on the grind Gggg im in this thing too grinding in the military no women, monk mode not playin. lets get this mannnn! i was walking to work in the hot sun, and at night when i got off, listeningyour playlist of motivation getting me through the walk getting my mind right. i was homeless sleeping in my car listening to these videos. lets go there are others in this thing called life with you big bro!

  • @imaina98
    @imaina98 7 місяців тому +1

    One degree colder everyday!! 🥶

  • @TheStylePilot
    @TheStylePilot 7 місяців тому +2

    We need more vids like this! Keep kickin ass steph! Love your content!

  • @MrNinout
    @MrNinout 7 місяців тому +2

    Bruh them sweetwatery guts really be going crazy 😂 💯

  • @TopGrandTour
    @TopGrandTour 7 місяців тому

    You can feel him being in the zone with this one 💯

  • @funez-
    @funez- 7 місяців тому

    Been watching you since your first vids bro, around the time I started college, now I graduated, got my bachelors and going through a clearance at the moment for a job, it'll be life changing for me once I start but im not stopping there, theres more to life and your vids always remind me of that. i put dating on pause and real focused on my fitness and side hustles i got right now. keep up the good work steph, keep motivating and changing lives!

  • @moonguy30
    @moonguy30 7 місяців тому +1

    Keep doing your thing, StephisCold! You motivate us to be better every day! Shoutout to you, G! 💯

  • @bigmoneybarron00
    @bigmoneybarron00 7 місяців тому +1

    These are the type of videos is the reason why I get 1 percent better everyday. Keep it up Steph 🥶 I’m working my a** off and saving up to buy my first car

  • @LordFrench757
    @LordFrench757 7 місяців тому +1

    Facts my mom passed but definitely told me i was that 🙏🏾

  • @Imhim247
    @Imhim247 7 місяців тому

    Thank you so much! I have to hear this powerful messege. As a man. Don't block no one blessings. Just say congrats and move on to get better

  • @Alex-zd9tx
    @Alex-zd9tx 7 місяців тому

    Good to have you back g stay cold, sometimes i be thinking im the problem but I always gotta remember men hate and are all ALL prideful and view me as a threat because im improving everyday.

  • @sizwekhanyile8640
    @sizwekhanyile8640 7 місяців тому +1

    Much respect Steph from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @user-iz8bn7hp6g
    @user-iz8bn7hp6g Місяць тому

    Peace be with you man.

  • @CoseyComfort1
    @CoseyComfort1 7 місяців тому +1

    Back to back drops I need this

  • @LevelUpNorrr
    @LevelUpNorrr 7 місяців тому +1

    Apartment looking clean bro! 🤌🏾

  • @OnlineViewingOnly
    @OnlineViewingOnly 7 місяців тому

    I be listening to these videos whilst working out in the gym, the best motivation to push harder

  • @larrysimpson8497
    @larrysimpson8497 7 місяців тому

    Preciate the transparency, happens to some of the best.. the blessing is in the lesson

  • @jmoo72
    @jmoo72 7 місяців тому

    Man! U on point, i was doing well in life but sourrounding by envious people, i cut them out of my life!

  • @astroboy1207
    @astroboy1207 7 місяців тому +1

    He’s BACK!!!!!

  • @jaydrich8115
    @jaydrich8115 7 місяців тому +3

    This video is certified Diamond but the first 6 minutes are gospel

  • @prim2152
    @prim2152 6 місяців тому

    Steph make a self development playlist like you did for female nature bro ✊🏾 much appreciated, thank you

  • @OnlyDaStrongSurvive333
    @OnlyDaStrongSurvive333 7 місяців тому +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Milwaukee - Chicago TAPPING IN Peace God

  • @JJGAMING23
    @JJGAMING23 7 місяців тому +1

    Feeling like I’m watching 2021 Steph again

  • @AlexanderTtl
    @AlexanderTtl 7 місяців тому +1

    The mic 🎙️ is making what he is saying sound 10x 🥶 colder. Gotta love the game.

  • @mkr1445
    @mkr1445 7 місяців тому

    The first time I came across your platform you said " she is not yours its just your turn" bitter pill to swallow but necessary..... Keep Pushing G

  • @Dregohard609
    @Dregohard609 7 місяців тому +1

    Damn back 2 back G! ❄️❄️❄️

  • @dynamicsz1
    @dynamicsz1 7 місяців тому +1

    Real shit.

  • @user-cz9uc3fs8z
    @user-cz9uc3fs8z 7 місяців тому

    Bruh still using the things you taught me back in 2022_3 thanks Steph. Keep up the good work

  • @marcusdorsey22
    @marcusdorsey22 Місяць тому

    I'm on my game. Getting colder by the day ❄️🥶

  • @akeemivory1625
    @akeemivory1625 7 місяців тому

    Been watching old vids for inspiration but it’s great to have Steph back making video spread/sharing his knowledge. Keep Digging 🥶❄️

  • @KingIzauh
    @KingIzauh 7 місяців тому +1

    2 vids in uh row? We got Steph back 🥶

  • @byrdd_
    @byrdd_ 7 місяців тому

    Steph I needed this as a reminder man I was focused on tryna build a rotation and not making more money. Will never happen again🫡 Im locked in!

  • @Dawayne_R_Johnson
    @Dawayne_R_Johnson 7 місяців тому

    Steph man you got me back in my zone with this one fasho !!! Thanks for the push I needed this now I just gotta stay on go !!

  • @rickper429
    @rickper429 7 місяців тому

    Good to see you back G. Seeing you work through your tough mental times and still going inspires us all to keep grinding and pushing forward 💪

  • @JoseLopez-eq7tw
    @JoseLopez-eq7tw 7 місяців тому +1

    The 🐐 it’s back 🔥🔥🔥

  • @fixthesegames6303
    @fixthesegames6303 7 місяців тому

    This is like gospel to me thank you Steph. This is the motivation I needed to get back on my grind

  • @vincentlane2050
    @vincentlane2050 7 місяців тому

    Bro keep going. My homeboy put me on to you in 2021 when you were yelling at the screen, lol. Your videos motivated me to go the gym bro, keep it up.

  • @Sterlingbradford
    @Sterlingbradford 7 місяців тому

    Definitely was needed this I found out my own father is a hater took this video to realize that now this makes go even harder at 28 thanks bro 🔥