Am I the only one who kinda, from a male perspective, would feel very offended if people tel women what to wear because we couldn’t “control ourselves” like how degrading is that? Like I would be so offended if someone thought I only talked to them because they were wear *gasp* shorts. That’s also why I don’t like dress codes that much
Nameless i understand that and I think it’s perfectly okay if you want to do that because you want to. But I’m just saying that It’s kinda insulting to assume men are only talking to someone for there body
Because men already dress modestly. I want to see more short shorts on men. But unfortunately men’s fashion is typically just not focused on showing the goods. Because they don’t have to be sexy to be seen or heard. The real sexism is in what we are “ allowed” to wear because we have been “ liberated”. Give me a break men are still in control of what we wear and what they get to have access too. It’s a mans world still. And dressing immodestly is really only putting us right where they want us. Rise up ladies.
isn’t “smokin hot” a pretty sexual term? and isn’t the appeal of modesty to not be sexualized? why is this woman in my recommended and who is paying for this to be advertised?
yeah, she's a hypocrite ten different ways. "Looks nice" is subjective too. She's been shamed her entire life by her religion and believes that the human body is shameful and women should hide. But wears makeup to be more attractive.
shes obviously using the phrase "smokin hot" to catch peoples eyes to watch her video. what she really meant is she want to be attractive but not overtly sexualizing herself in the process. theres a difference.
iit’2 2ollux bruh ikr, i’ve commented on so many of her videos just asking whyyyyyyyy, why are you so close minded and ignorant!!!! also just her “facts” are WRONG, they are her opinions that she is forcing on people as facts. Omg i can’t believe she is this ignorant. 😒
Literally my principal in catholic school. Luckily this catholic school was chill compared to others in regard to religiosity. But my lord tge dress coad was shameful.
ooohooo, what a detective you are, lol. those are just pictures of classic and elegant ballgowns, like c'mon sis, those make sense to someone who's into fashion, not an actual gotcha or a discount to the point of the video.
If we actually dressed to for ourselves we’d have no issue dressing our best when alone at home. No one that says they dress for themselves actually does, they’re deceiving themselves I mean this as general, yes there will be some girls who do dress up for themselves as well. Tho even then they may not do it every day and may not wear anything too fancy like heals. Point is, most do it to impress others. And even those who dress up for themselves may also have another intention to impress others. I truly wish most women didnt dress to impress society, there would be a lot more modesty and self-worth
@@SS-ry5yv I actually dress really nice at home.... regularly... people don't do that I do it even if no one is coming over and no one's going to see me.... I just feel yucky if I don't like I'm sick or something because those are the only times I don't bother
Why you gotta dress for others, though? To be accepted In this toxic society? The country I live in is based off of conservative views. The freaking United States. 😤
Hot Cheeto hi! I just want to point out that she (Abby) wants to have a voice on this platform in order to talk about her opinion. That’s what UA-cam is for. People of all walks of life are here. Telling someone to ‘leave’ as you have done ( no disrespect, just saying) is not opening up this convo. We should be able to express our opinions, differing or not without being told it’s not our place. Abby has done that in the video, and I expressed that I disagreed here in the comments.
@Anglo-Saxon In Asia Alright then do I, along with other lesbian and gay people, just not exist? Definitely not gonna be reproducing, and I can't say that I want men's attention. Also, a lot of people don't give two shits about attracting a partner lol, a lot of people care more about making themselves happy and comfortable than showing off to the opposite gender
I’m sure those videos exist. However that has NOTHING to do with this video😂 if you don’t like the content, don’t watch. Watch what you do like. I’m glad there is a conservative influencer. I don’t know any other youtubers that follow my values and I love these videos and I am NOT oppressed nor do I dress for anyone but myself.
Raine A yes, that was sort of my point. That she seems to appreciate the female form in a more “revealing” dress....so it seems to me at least. Maybe she feels it’s ok on the wall, just not on an actual person? I’m not sure. I feel there’s some wiggle room dressing as a conservative, dresses such as the ones on her wall I feel would be perfectly suitable for certain occasions. I suppose the rule is....just don’t go overboard. Don’t show too much cleavage or anything too short. That’s basically what I would go by no matter what I believed. Many places you can be asked to leave if your outfit is too outrageously revealing.
Row Benn we can’t get away from her. She’s buying ads constantly and they’re filling up every bodies recommendations. The amount of times I clicked to remove her ads is astounding to me. I finally came to her channel to see what everybody else is saying about it. And the point of this video is for her to convince somebody of her point of views, as are most of her videos. So you are extremely wrong, this video is not for people like you who agree with her
Modesty isn’t disagreeing with that. Modesty involves dressing in a way that represents how you want to be seen on the inside. If you don’t want to, why are you here? Lol
Legging advocate here. Just wanna say that it totally depends on the legging. A thick, high quality, structured pair of leggings is just as modest as your first pair of pants.
Hot Cheeto I actually do know it’s for faith reasons, she’s an Orthodox Jew. I’m not saying the way she dresses is the sexist part I’m saying the phrases she uses and mentality she has is sexist. I’ll respect anyone who dresses modestly for any reason. What I won’t respect is the sexist micro-aggressions she uses. In one vid she says “dressing modestly is about facing the reality that men are visual creatures” this basically implies that women’s bodies will always be sexualized and women are okay with that. In the same video she ends by saying “so ladies let’s dress like the *ladies* we are” she is invalidating women’s identity and implying that only real women dress modestly. Her videos are pushing a mentality that perpetuates rape culture. There are so many creators that make faith based videos about dressing modestly without doing any of what I mentioned she is not one of them. As for watching her video I got an add for one of her videos. I watched the whole thing and decided I couldn’t make my opinion off of one video so I watched this one, and it was enough to make up my mind.
Do you look at every woman wearing a dress, leggings, anything that shows shoulders etc. with overly sexual eyes? Because if you're creepily staring at someone for wearing something hardly revealing, I think you need to check your minds judgment.
Perverts are everywhere and they may be watching. I would choose to play it safe and dress right rather than have all my stuff out. That’s just me though. I don’t got nobody to impress and I don’t want eyes on me. But some women do so...
I’m sorry, did you just objectify yourself? “Smoking hot”. “Modestly and catch a guys eye”. Ok let’s stop there. Your previous videos state women need to dress to keep men’s eyes off of them and not distract them. Now we want to dress to be “smoking hot”?
wear whatever the f you want. edit ish: i said this because some women might feel pressured to wear modest clothes when you can wear whatever you want.
she’s not forcing her ways to other females. she made this video for people who WANT to dress like this. people really have the audacity to say it’s okay for other girls to show hella skin but when a girl prefers to cover up, it’s an issue? come on 😩
Whether the boys are distracted isn’t my problem- I’m wearin the mini skirt if I want! But if you want to dress modestly go you!!! But there is no “should” or “shouldn’t” there is only whatever every woman wants!
Nameless that’s valid as hell! if that works for you more power to ya ! just remember that other people in the same situation might want to do differently and ya gotta remain respectful of that!
Sunnyside Storytime Married men shouldn’t be in those clubs in the first place. Also, what does this have to do with it being guys’ responsibility to watch themselves??
Hot Cheeto huh what? Idk why she thinks conservatives have ownership on looking good without being inappropriate. I dress quite modestly, I’m just saying she is making it seem like it will ruin your life to wear a tight fitting outfit or w/e.
Hot Cheeto because her ads keep popping up on every bodies recommended like she’s some kind of virus. Eventually somebody is gonna click and tell her what they think
Whatever is considered “sexy” is subjective. I could be in sweats and my boyfriend would still say I’m “sexy.” Or, you could be dressing “modestly” and still be sexy. Now are there types of clothing that may be too revealing for certain settings (work, family events, etc.)? Absolutely. But to say that sexy and modest are on the opposite ends of the spectrum is not accurate.
My personal view on leggings: good for working out. But I’m anti wearing leggings for pants normally on a personal level because I like being the fashion police to myself and I refuse to be basic. I’d wear a ball gown to the grocery store if I had the confidence.
I wore a massive 1980's wedding dress to a Marilyn Manson show like fifteen years ago, it got torn to actual pieces. Like it was hanging off of me by the time it was over, but it was fun to wear a gown for no reason. You should do it if you want to.
I should be able to wear whatever I want. If I'm distracting, that's not my fault. Like a child who isn't paying attention in class, that's their fault. Whoever is distracted by the way I look, that is their fault, not mine. I'm wearing clothes.
Neha Singh this. 👏 People choose to sexualize anything and everything, so we constantly get told to "cover up!" I hate that so much. Your comment just made my day. ❤️
@@s2c1mw7mP5l no it wasn’t I am not a liberal and I’m trying to find modest clothing that arent $100. What I find is that it’s either $100’s or it simply shows everything I have and more. It angers me that covering myself up vacuums my wallet away. It shouldn’t be like that.
My conclusion with her channel is the she's uncomfortable with being sexy. In my humble opinion the way she channels being "modest" she should get comfortable with being sexy & learn that part of herself
There’s some people who would never dress sexy. And that’s her choice 🤷♀️ just like our choice is to choose if we care about dressing modestly or not. Not everybody is made to wear crop tops and shorts with their butts hanging out and that’s fine
Cry me a f***ing river. If someone posts a video called "Why you should invest in Bitcoin" I don't say "My money, my choice! You're not the boss of me! REEEEE!"
Maybe she’s talking about thin leggings that bare it all? I had bad impressions with leggings initially but nowadays there are really good options of leggings, and the high quality ones (not necessarily expensive) aren’t super thin yet still super comfy
Blue Crusader are you seriously this bored to tell a teen that she isn’t “marriage material” just bc of her style choice in one photo ☠️. you have no idea how damaging this is, yikes. 😬
i’m going to be a positive comment. and literally all these women commenting here are probably the same ones who are like “we need to bring up all women! feminism!” yet hate on this woman when she’s doing her, and helping other women who want to be more modest, like myself. I appreciate you, dont listen to the hate girly.
If I may speak for a large portion of the comment section, most of the people here don't really care what she wears. Personally, I don't care if you wear a burka, I don't care if you wear a bikini. The criticism of Abby is that she does, and she degrades all women who don't agree with her. She relates a woman's value to her relationship to men, which is not helpful to anyone.
Yes. The whole goddamn point of fashion is to communicate who you are. If I wear all black, people assume I'm a goth. If I dress preppy, people assume I'm posh. Etc.
@Mrs Kay I respect myself by wearing stuff that I wanna wear and feel confident in myself. I like short shorts. I like tops that reveal cleavage. My body is mine, I'll wear what I want, thanks.
this is so sad. i hope young girls don’t see this and think that this is how it has to be. instead of teaching us how to dress modestly and cover ourselves up let’s teach men not to sexualize, objectify, and rape women. dressing “sexy” doesn’t make you any less of a valid, “feminine”, and “lovely” woman. seriously shame on you.
@@Sunnysidestoriesandmusic No I dress the way I want because it gives me confidence and makes me feel good about myself, not for anyone else and especially not for men
i would love to dress modestly i guess to please my parents, but the main reason why i stopped being that way is because it made me incredibly insecure about my body. i don’t want to be frumpy but i also want to be comfortable in my own skin and show it off for myself.
Don’t let these negative comments keep you from sharing your ideas on this topic. She even said she understands women who do not choose to dress this way. It is good for young women in this day and age to see that dressing in crop tops and mini skirts is not the only way to fit in. That is mostly what you see on social media nowadays. Not all women feel comfortable dressing that way and would like to not feel alone in that aspect.
Thank you for speaking out. It really bothers me how all of these comments go off on how we shouldn't dress for men...when she never said those words even once. So thank you so much for getting and understanding what she was trying to do.
As a young girl (im 12) I feel that’s it’s important that woman should be able to dress how they feel. A woman shouldn’t have to hide her body because a man can’t “control” himself. Woman shouldn’t and don’t dress up for male validation or attention. They dress up because it makes them feel good. Covering up doesn’t make you safe from men and nor will it stop some of them from harming you. It’s not about what you have on it’s about what the men picture you with it off.
What are Orthodox Jewish rules on dressing modestly? You briefly mentioned elbows covered and skirts at the beginning of the video but I’d be interested in knowing more!
In general, Orthodox Jewish women (like me) cover the collar bone, elbows and knees with a skirt. In addition, the clothes shouldn't be skin tight. Some women also wear tights or pantyhose as well.
Esther Neissany Thats very similar to the Catholic Marian modesty standard. Covering two fingers below collarbone, three-quarter length sleeves and skirts below the knee.
i rlly dont like dressing modestly by your standards but i never dress to show off or try to look hot or sexy. i dress in whatever i am comfortable in. i am a conservative but i dont agree with a lot of your modest fashion advice. that being said, i think its amazing that you dress in the way that you like and youre not conforming for anybody and i do agree with a ton of your other views. god bless and much love :)
Abby, thanks so much for sharing and breaking down the outfits. I came from a very conservative background and totally get it. Love, love, love the ideas. Thank you for sharing. I feel inspired. I have a friend that always looks put together and after watching your video I realized she is doing exactly what you are talking about.
Thank you for this wonderful video! I am a Christian and I make it a goal to make my entire closet modest. In this modern world, it is really hard to find modest clothes that don’t need to be layered. I loved this video, and I will definitely be watching more!
I love this I absolutely love this I mean I love all of your content but your content on modesty as well as your singing videos those two categories are my absolute favorite.
I notice a lot of negative comments here and I'm not usually one for modesty but I do try to look nice and not inappropriate. I understand what she is saying and love the classic feminine nature of her outfits. It's something I would like to steer a little more towards. Just because it's modest doesn't mean it's not beautiful. Favorite outfit would be #1 that's definitely my kinda style. The one with the casual dress and Jean jacket was the next for me. I really like having a balance so I'm definitely following you here and on Instagram now so I can take some inspiration from you! Be blessed! 🙏
hey guys if you clicked on the video then leave a bad comment that’s just rude not everyone wants to be modest but she’s trying to promote it for girls that do so be kind pls❤️❤️
I didn't see all the thumbs down until after I posted my comment. I just wanted to add that at first I was really upset and thought, "That must really hurt." After thinking it over for a few minutes, I realized that the thumbs down, even though I am sure they are terribly painful, they show how desperately needed the message is. Thanks for being brave and putting yourself out there. Please keep it up. There are ladies out here would love to hear your content, the push back shows how desperately thirsty us conservative girls are for more influencers with similar values.
Hey people who are hating on Abby and her values, this channel isn’t for you. Please leave this space for likeminded traditional woman, and we will leave your spaces alone :). Everyone deserves to have their own values, that is the principle of free speech
Fun quarantine drinking game: take a shot every time she says “modest”, take two every time she says something misogynistic or sexist I’m about to be plastered in about 15 min🙃
Tbh if she wants to follow these types of views then I don’t see a problem as long as she doesn’t look down on others for not following her views and doesn’t try to change the way others like to dress.
I LOVED all of your outfits, but that last outfit was my favorite. That dress is gorgeous! I really appreciated your take on modest attire, many people can view “dressing modestly” as frumpy when it’s so far from it. I’d loved to see more content from you on this topic and more outfit inspirations!
Classically Abby While I don’t agree with everything you do, I admire you for being able to put up with the hate. Everyone is entitled to live how they want and I feel a lot of these comments are uncalled for. Anyways...God bless you.
I dress modestly because I am uncomfortable dressing in short or revealing items. Also I find there is something beautiful about loving parts of you that only you can see, without the added complements. I do not care how other people dress. Dress however you want. I only have a problem with what you wear if it’s extremely inappropriate for the occasion. For instance going commando, wearing a short skirt, and a clear tube top, at grandfathers funeral.
The older I have gotten, the more I have been wanting to dress more appropriate. I can understand where you’re coming from. I respect your perspective. Some of the things you say may hit a nerve to some, but I can understand your intentions behind this video. :)
Eve B If a woman wears a shirt that she feels confident in, why judge her?! she feels comfy with her body. stop telling woman that you can’t wear clothes that show skin. they are CONFIDENT. support the woman don’t tear them down! also, men aren’t distracted by clothing. :(
These outfits are what I’d wear in high school. Which was 5 years ago. Not to mention I had a very strict dress code. Now I wear whatever I want. Now if you wanna dress modestly cool go ahead but don’t judge ppl who don’t. 👌
Funny thing is that this would be still considered immodest by more Conservative people. Showing a bit of leg, jewelery, flashy colours, high heels, tight pants could all be considered immodest. And believe me your still attracting the "male gaze". There is a whole fetish for that. So why worry so much and dress just for yourself however that might look. modest or not.
I'm 21 and a conservative. I think it's ridiculous to dress modestly so "men dont stare" that's ridiculous. I'm going to wear my mini skirts with ripped up fishnet stockings with ridiculously huge platform heels. If I think I look cute that's all that matters also who says I'm dressing for men? I WANT COMPLIMENTS FROM CUTE GIRLS NOT MEN!
These outfits are so cute and lovely! I would wear all of them if I could. 😄 I agree on putting effort into how you look. I definitely feel pretty and cute when I actually try instead of wearing sweats and a sweater.
What is the purpose of still trying to look “smoking hot” if your purpose in dressing modestly is to not draw attention to yourself? I’m confused.
It’s to draw a different kind of attention, not no attention at all
While I can't speak for her, I think she means not to destroy or take away from your good looks.
She’s being vigilant because she knows she is being a hypocrite
Especially cause it didn’t look “smoking hot” at any point in this video 😂
Duh!!!! She means the WRONG kind of attention!!!!!!!!!!!!
Am I the only one who kinda, from a male perspective, would feel very offended if people tel women what to wear because we couldn’t “control ourselves” like how degrading is that? Like I would be so offended if someone thought I only talked to them because they were wear *gasp* shorts. That’s also why I don’t like dress codes that much
Ladies, gents, and non-binary people alike--this one right here! Thank you for seeing from the opposite sex's point of view. 👏👏👏
Why would we? She’s not forcing us to dress anyway. This is just her opinion and she’s saying it. It’s offensive if you don’t agree I guess
casually cruel 🤩👏
Oh, and nice side note. :)
It also assumes that women are only trying to attract men like lesbians/bi/pan/etc don’t exist at all lol
Nameless i understand that and I think it’s perfectly okay if you want to do that because you want to. But I’m just saying that It’s kinda insulting to assume men are only talking to someone for there body
For a second I thought she was gonna say “ hey cool cats and kittens-“ I-
I'm crying 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@iit’2 2ollux bruh killed her husband...
Hahhahahahahhaha
I chocked💀
ME TOO WTF YALL
why aren’t there videos for men to dress modest that say that women can’t control themselves?
Hot Cheeto I looked up “how to dress modestly” and unsurprisingly NONE of them were for men 🙃
@Hot Cheeto sauce?
@Hot Cheeto nice.
Because men already dress modestly. I want to see more short shorts on men. But unfortunately men’s fashion is typically just not focused on showing the goods. Because they don’t have to be sexy to be seen or heard. The real sexism is in what we are “ allowed” to wear because we have been “ liberated”. Give me a break men are still in control of what we wear and what they get to have access too. It’s a mans world still. And dressing immodestly is really only putting us right where they want us. Rise up ladies.
Hot Cheeto Because women have basic respect for men and won’t force them to dress a certain way because THEY cannot control themselves.
isn’t “smokin hot” a pretty sexual term? and isn’t the appeal of modesty to not be sexualized? why is this woman in my recommended and who is paying for this to be advertised?
yeah, she's a hypocrite ten different ways. "Looks nice" is subjective too. She's been shamed her entire life by her religion and believes that the human body is shameful and women should hide. But wears makeup to be more attractive.
“Ma’am, men are going to be looking at your feet with those shoes. Too much skin showing, please cover up.” 😔😔
shes obviously using the phrase "smokin hot" to catch peoples eyes to watch her video. what she really meant is she want to be attractive but not overtly sexualizing herself in the process. theres a difference.
Script _0 “Ma’am, I’m gonna ask you to step aside. You’re gonna attract 20999900 men looking at your fingers, please cover up 😔”
@@nayaindenayal9196 OH MY! I can't believe I was so indecent! Thank you for telling me, I must cover up to live my true modest lifestyle. 😔
or just wear whatever tf you want
Miss Kay or just leave me alone if you disagree
How can you watch something else when ads for this video keeps popping up?!?! NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU BLOCK THEM?!?!?
Hot Cheeto bruh- why do you care so much
Hot Cheeto hon you’re over here telling me to stop giving her comments and views- wtf are you doing...?
She does, while being comfortable within her values and beliefs
I am like 99% sure this girl is a computer generated simulation
Lulu Dropo I’m concerned this whole thing is going to be spun as a “SJWs and LIBs were mean on my channel. See - proof that they’re a-holes”.
Aren’t we all
Yep she's different alright but for some of us it's a good thing!!
them crusty ass pants💀
We can only hope
“and still not dress in a way thats inappropriate” to YOU.
First of all it’s inappropriate in general-
To YOU.
iit’2 2ollux bruh ikr, i’ve commented on so many of her videos just asking whyyyyyyyy, why are you so close minded and ignorant!!!! also just her “facts” are WRONG, they are her opinions that she is forcing on people as facts. Omg i can’t believe she is this ignorant. 😒
Hot Cheeto we just want answers. 😪
Hot Cheeto in my opinion, yes, to get the message across. It won’t kill you, will it? :)
Hot Cheeto no but we’re asking questions- and not rhetorical ones either
take a shot anytime she says “modest”
Andddd.. you’re dead 💀
Classic ladies don’t drink 🤫😉🤡
Abby Reaves lmao
"Unidentifiable body found in room with approximately 136 empty whiskey bottles"
Take a shot every time she makes it obvious that she’s never had an orgasm
Sis sounds like a school principal
Yasmine Kattan god this video was so frustrating
Hot Cheeto to understand other people’s views
Your dead mean lol
She sounds so much like her brother
Literally my principal in catholic school. Luckily this catholic school was chill compared to others in regard to religiosity. But my lord tge dress coad was shameful.
She literally has an open back dresses framed behind her wtf. Thats not modest lol
Literally the comment I was looking for 😂
Didn’t even say anything to see if anyone else caught on. She also said she herself doesn’t dress modest.
That’s pretty modest. They remind one of ballgowns.
that's elegant.
ooohooo, what a detective you are, lol. those are just pictures of classic and elegant ballgowns, like c'mon sis, those make sense to someone who's into fashion, not an actual gotcha or a discount to the point of the video.
Don’t dress to attract men dress for yourself queens
If we actually dressed to for ourselves we’d have no issue dressing our best when alone at home. No one that says they dress for themselves actually does, they’re deceiving themselves
I mean this as general, yes there will be some girls who do dress up for themselves as well. Tho even then they may not do it every day and may not wear anything too fancy like heals. Point is, most do it to impress others. And even those who dress up for themselves may also have another intention to impress others.
I truly wish most women didnt dress to impress society, there would be a lot more modesty and self-worth
R S you don’t dress for yourself* lol lots of people dress up at home ik plenty
@@SS-ry5yv I actually dress really nice at home.... regularly... people don't do that I do it even if no one is coming over and no one's going to see me.... I just feel yucky if I don't like I'm sick or something because those are the only times I don't bother
I love your name Karen really suits you
And if that means dressing modestly, do it proudly!
her: heres how to look smoking HOt!!!
also her: you cant be sexy or youll never find a good husband
Lol right
FR. 😤
Keep this B off the internet
Why would anyone want to dress for other people? Who determines what you’re supposed to wear? So suffocating.
Why you gotta dress for others, though? To be accepted In this toxic society? The country I live in is based off of conservative views. The freaking United States. 😤
To each their own
Hot Cheeto Her video on dressing modest, she made some strong points imo
Hot Cheeto hi! I just want to point out that she (Abby) wants to have a voice on this platform in order to talk about her opinion. That’s what UA-cam is for. People of all walks of life are here. Telling someone to ‘leave’ as you have done ( no disrespect, just saying) is not opening up this convo. We should be able to express our opinions, differing or not without being told it’s not our place. Abby has done that in the video, and I expressed that I disagreed here in the comments.
Hot Cheeto fine. I have an opinion, then. This is toxic and encourages rape culture. Got it?
Why does she think so much about how men think about us. I don’t dress for men I dress for me
Briseyda Chavez you and me both! (>ω
Did it cross your mind that maybe she likes to dress like this because she likes it?
Nicole Asmr what does that have to do with anything I said I said I dress for me not for men I never talked about how she dresses
Nicole Asmr she can like it but she doesn’t have to share her it like it’s a fact and that everyone should follow.
Same
Why do you care so much what men think of you
@Anglo-Saxon In Asia Alright then do I, along with other lesbian and gay people, just not exist? Definitely not gonna be reproducing, and I can't say that I want men's attention. Also, a lot of people don't give two shits about attracting a partner lol, a lot of people care more about making themselves happy and comfortable than showing off to the opposite gender
Anglo-Saxon In Asia do u not understand that gay people exist
Exactly, just wear what YOU want to wear
Anglo-Saxon In Asia I’ll attract men or women lmao
Anglo-Saxon In Asia lol what kind of statistic is that
I want videos teaching men not to sexualize and fetishize women, but rather see them as human beings, not videos oppressing women.
😤👏
YESSS GIRL!!
I’m sure those videos exist. However that has NOTHING to do with this video😂 if you don’t like the content, don’t watch. Watch what you do like. I’m glad there is a conservative influencer. I don’t know any other youtubers that follow my values and I love these videos and I am NOT oppressed nor do I dress for anyone but myself.
No one is being oppressed! You and only you have the choice to dress the way you want to dress. This video is merely a suggestion.
That’s not Conservative logic.
.....pictures in the background were a little confusing to me.
They’re dresses... ???
How?
Cause they are showing the women’s back and this moron is talking about how we should all dress like her and be more “attractive”
Raine A yes, that was sort of my point. That she seems to appreciate the female form in a more “revealing” dress....so it seems to me at least. Maybe she feels it’s ok on the wall, just not on an actual person? I’m not sure. I feel there’s some wiggle room dressing as a conservative, dresses such as the ones on her wall I feel would be perfectly suitable for certain occasions. I suppose the rule is....just don’t go overboard. Don’t show too much cleavage or anything too short. That’s basically what I would go by no matter what I believed. Many places you can be asked to leave if your outfit is too outrageously revealing.
That shows hypocrisy
Girl if I’m going to wear lingerie as my supermarket attire mind ya business
Agreed!😂❤️
Lol yas 😂
She’s not saying not to. She’s creating content for people who relate to her. If you don’t, find a UA-cam you do relate to. Lol do you boo.
Row Benn she said you shouldn’t...lmao
Row Benn we can’t get away from her. She’s buying ads constantly and they’re filling up every bodies recommendations. The amount of times I clicked to remove her ads is astounding to me. I finally came to her channel to see what everybody else is saying about it.
And the point of this video is for her to convince somebody of her point of views, as are most of her videos. So you are extremely wrong, this video is not for people like you who agree with her
So what do you wear to the beach?
She be wearing a wetsuit lmao
iit’2 2ollux bruh dang sneak 100
She don’t go to the beach it’s against her religion lmao.
A Burka
Why would you want to present your self as smokin hot if that’s IMMORAL LOL
How are you this stupid to ask a question like this..
These are not “smokin hot” lol. They’re just basic.
you're rude
Alexa Selness shes being realistic, miss 😻
😂 amen
2013 basic
In her opinion....They are.
Way to build another woman up.
Men should learn to respect us without us having to change how we dress.
Period!! Men should learn how to keep it in their pants without us having to change how we dress.
Yes, you are so right!!!
No.
@@vladimirputin9272 you *don't* think men should respect women ? for dressing the way they feel good?
Modesty isn’t disagreeing with that. Modesty involves dressing in a way that represents how you want to be seen on the inside. If you don’t want to, why are you here? Lol
Legging advocate here. Just wanna say that it totally depends on the legging. A thick, high quality, structured pair of leggings is just as modest as your first pair of pants.
COVERING YOUR ELBOWS-
That’s a Jewish religious standard, and it’s completely out of line for you to use it to make fun of her.
@@maclainenoxon4586 If they didn't know it could a mistake.
Don’t accidentally show your ankles
i can’t even with this video there is so much internalized sexism
This is about her religion. For the Abrahamic faiths, men and women are called to dress modestly.
Nuclear Wessels and?? It’s still super sexist
Hot Cheeto I actually do know it’s for faith reasons, she’s an Orthodox Jew. I’m not saying the way she dresses is the sexist part I’m saying the phrases she uses and mentality she has is sexist. I’ll respect anyone who dresses modestly for any reason. What I won’t respect is the sexist micro-aggressions she uses. In one vid she says “dressing modestly is about facing the reality that men are visual creatures” this basically implies that women’s bodies will always be sexualized and women are okay with that. In the same video she ends by saying “so ladies let’s dress like the *ladies* we are” she is invalidating women’s identity and implying that only real women dress modestly. Her videos are pushing a mentality that perpetuates rape culture. There are so many creators that make faith based videos about dressing modestly without doing any of what I mentioned she is not one of them. As for watching her video I got an add for one of her videos. I watched the whole thing and decided I couldn’t make my opinion off of one video so I watched this one, and it was enough to make up my mind.
Rebecca Hobson
I totally agree with you!
good
Do you look at every woman wearing a dress, leggings, anything that shows shoulders etc. with overly sexual eyes? Because if you're creepily staring at someone for wearing something hardly revealing, I think you need to check your minds judgment.
Yesss Lauren you tell her!
Don't hate bc she's classy/sophisticated lady!!!!!
wanda prather she’s not classy at all, she’s close minded and ignorant and that’s not cute
Perverts are everywhere and they may be watching. I would choose to play it safe and dress right rather than have all my stuff out. That’s just me though. I don’t got nobody to impress and I don’t want eyes on me. But some women do so...
I’m sorry, did you just objectify yourself? “Smoking hot”. “Modestly and catch a guys eye”. Ok let’s stop there. Your previous videos state women need to dress to keep men’s eyes off of them and not distract them. Now we want to dress to be “smoking hot”?
She contradicts herself with every video😂
She's trying to be funny and relatable.
Men can keep their eyes to their selfs *^* also not all women want to look feminine
Thank you !!!!!
Hmm good point
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EXACTLY
And not all men want to look masculine and that’s on periodt i can’t stand that women oof
wear whatever the f you want.
edit ish: i said this because some women might feel pressured to wear modest clothes when you can wear whatever you want.
Hot Cheeto you’re on every comment damn... just chill.
Bruh this is targeted towards liberals but aight 🤷
zoye love how is this targeted at liberals? is it because we wear clothes we are comfortable and proud of wearing?
Funny you think we dress to “catch a guys eye”
Lmfao who needs that we can show whatever we want we no need of men’s attention 😌
ikr
You dress to stimulate men.
We dress for the girls and the gays ✨💖🧚♀️
Then who's eye are you catching then???? Be for real woman, man who?
she’s not forcing her ways to other females. she made this video for people who WANT to dress like this. people really have the audacity to say it’s okay for other girls to show hella skin but when a girl prefers to cover up, it’s an issue? come on 😩
she keeps using the words should and shouldn't...
Gabi Glenn ikr it’s like she’s forcing meh 😫😢
Chrisline Osengeo 🧍🏽♀️
Gabi Glenn ?
nah man u should watch her why u should dress modestly vid by sixteen leo
Whether the boys are distracted isn’t my problem- I’m wearin the mini skirt if I want! But if you want to dress modestly go you!!! But there is no “should” or “shouldn’t” there is only whatever every woman wants!
Nameless that’s valid as hell! if that works for you more power to ya ! just remember that other people in the same situation might want to do differently and ya gotta remain respectful of that!
This is for women who do want to follow modest ideas. Do your thing. I like modesty.
Yes, and if the prostitutes at the club want to give married men lap dances, do what they want right??? *eye roll*
Sunnyside Storytime Married men shouldn’t be in those clubs in the first place. Also, what does this have to do with it being guys’ responsibility to watch themselves??
Sunnyside Storytime says a lot more about the married men than the prostitutes
no drip...every single outfit was trash.
on meee like she’s coming across as so old fashioned, and ugly inside and out. giving me very suburban mom.
@ they will only not hate if there are feminist telling them to wear modestly xD. Period
I know!
LMAOAOS NO DRIP
@Brookelynn 24 well if they wish .But they shouldn't come back and demand man to like them and then think we are "Evil" for not liking them.
Dress however you want. "Modest" is just a term to shame women. When have you heard someone tell a man to dress modestly?
hmmmmm... never. 😔 😤
I dont ever see mens butt cheeks hanging out or half their nipple out their shirt lol
Betty White women should dress however the fuck women wanna dress
To be modest isn’t shameful. Although the definition of modest varies so much. I agree with dressing however you want though.
Biology. Different reproduction strategies based on sexual dimorphism.
What’s wrong with “looking distracting”? Lol, being noticed every now and then is fun!
Anglo-Saxon In Asia Just because you’re not falling into what some people call “modest” doesn’t mean you’re being inappropriate.
Hot Cheeto huh what? Idk why she thinks conservatives have ownership on looking good without being inappropriate. I dress quite modestly, I’m just saying she is making it seem like it will ruin your life to wear a tight fitting outfit or w/e.
Hot Cheeto that is not who this video is for. This video is targeted at people whose minds she wants to change. She wants a discussion!
Hot Cheeto lol u really made a whole fool of urself in the comments section huh? maybe its time to take a little break and go for a walk
Hot Cheeto because her ads keep popping up on every bodies recommended like she’s some kind of virus. Eventually somebody is gonna click and tell her what they think
Whatever is considered “sexy” is subjective. I could be in sweats and my boyfriend would still say I’m “sexy.” Or, you could be dressing “modestly” and still be sexy. Now are there types of clothing that may be too revealing for certain settings (work, family events, etc.)? Absolutely. But to say that sexy and modest are on the opposite ends of the spectrum is not accurate.
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Can I get a time stamp in the video where she said Sexy and modesty are opposite end of spectrum...? 🙃
0:37
That's because your boyfriend has no standards
My personal view on leggings: good for working out. But I’m anti wearing leggings for pants normally on a personal level because I like being the fashion police to myself and I refuse to be basic. I’d wear a ball gown to the grocery store if I had the confidence.
Gosh why isn't acceptable to wear ball gowns anywhere T_T I feel the NEED
Wear a ball gown to the grocery store! You can do it and will rock it!
I wore a massive 1980's wedding dress to a Marilyn Manson show like fifteen years ago, it got torn to actual pieces. Like it was hanging off of me by the time it was over, but it was fun to wear a gown for no reason. You should do it if you want to.
I should be able to wear whatever I want. If I'm distracting, that's not my fault. Like a child who isn't paying attention in class, that's their fault. Whoever is distracted by the way I look, that is their fault, not mine. I'm wearing clothes.
Neha Singh this. 👏 People choose to sexualize anything and everything, so we constantly get told to "cover up!" I hate that so much. Your comment just made my day. ❤️
Literally nobody telling you to dress a certain way, she is just offering an alternative that is true to her. 🤷
Victor Axel Alonso this was targeted towards liberals. That’s why there are so many hate comments. Nice observation, but it’s not that correct.
@@s2c1mw7mP5l no it wasn’t I am not a liberal and I’m trying to find modest clothing that arent $100. What I find is that it’s either $100’s or it simply shows everything I have and more. It angers me that covering myself up vacuums my wallet away. It shouldn’t be like that.
@@ninilovenana 👍🏾
My conclusion with her channel is the she's uncomfortable with being sexy. In my humble opinion the way she channels being "modest" she should get comfortable with being sexy & learn that part of herself
There’s some people who would never dress sexy. And that’s her choice 🤷♀️ just like our choice is to choose if we care about dressing modestly or not. Not everybody is made to wear crop tops and shorts with their butts hanging out and that’s fine
@@Zeldagirlartist Thank you!
Female: I feel sexy.
Male: You *look* sexy.
Female: OMG STOP OBJECTIFYING ME I DON'T DRESS FOR YOU!!!!111
You're telling people how to think, act, find a husband and now how to dress. You sound like my mother.
Update: comment might get more likes than this video. Thanks guys! 😂
Hot Cheeto you’re talking about validation in comments....but you’re on EVERY comment thread it seems like.
Like my mom too 🙄 n i fucking hate it
I think she would find being called motherly a compliment lol
Cry me a f***ing river. If someone posts a video called "Why you should invest in Bitcoin" I don't say "My money, my choice! You're not the boss of me! REEEEE!"
Ok ok I understand your point about leggings but don't get how your tan pants are any different? Could you explain it?
Maybe she’s talking about thin leggings that bare it all? I had bad impressions with leggings initially but nowadays there are really good options of leggings, and the high quality ones (not necessarily expensive) aren’t super thin yet still super comfy
@@P_bee Thank you!!
Double standards.
bst Meg FR. 😤
me lookin at my profile pic as she speaks 👁👄👁
LMFAOOOO
As u should
Blue Crusader are you seriously this bored to tell a teen that she isn’t “marriage material” just bc of her style choice in one photo ☠️. you have no idea how damaging this is, yikes. 😬
Blue Crusader seriously get a life dude 😂😂😂 it’s a shame for any gender to have you
But seriously tho get a life
Blue Crusader EW!!! Why would you say something like this?? Keep your nasty opinions to yourself.
I cackled when she said the first pair of shoes was "very interesting"
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Only thing I like smokin hot is my steak on my grill amen
sis i-
Have you seen parks and recreation? You're the Ron Swonsen. Amen steak brethren.
Amen periodt
A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman regardless of her clothes.
Ehhhh i dunno m8
No
you do you but no need to think about what men think, dress for yourself
i’m going to be a positive comment. and literally all these women commenting here are probably the same ones who are like “we need to bring up all women! feminism!” yet hate on this woman when she’s doing her, and helping other women who want to be more modest, like myself. I appreciate you, dont listen to the hate girly.
If I may speak for a large portion of the comment section, most of the people here don't really care what she wears. Personally, I don't care if you wear a burka, I don't care if you wear a bikini. The criticism of Abby is that she does, and she degrades all women who don't agree with her. She relates a woman's value to her relationship to men, which is not helpful to anyone.
she think she looks smokin hot LMFAOOOOO. but also isnt the whole point of dressing modestly not to be smoking hot?? to be "beautiful" not "hot"
Clothes can represent good or bad intentions??? Tf???
Yeah Cause I came in with a belt that had A HUNDRED GUNS ALL AROUND IT CONSTANTLY FIRING AT EVERYTHINGGG. VERY bad intentions....
Yes. The whole goddamn point of fashion is to communicate who you are. If I wear all black, people assume I'm a goth. If I dress preppy, people assume I'm posh. Etc.
if you're trying to dress modestly, why tf would you be concerned with looking "smoking hot"? doesn't that defeat the whole point?
Dang, girl. Those shoulders are too hot. That’s not “modest” at all. What will the men think of those shoulders? Cover up 😤
Betty White damn grandma calm tf down
Betty White you look gross❤️
@Betty White um ur like 70? You literally grew into being linda ugly. That afro isnt it, sweetie. Thank you.
Analise Evalise OOOOOHHHHHHH
I’m just confused as to what Afro you’re even talking about???
How to dress like you're 60
Nah my grandma has style
@Mrs Kay I respect myself by wearing stuff that I wanna wear and feel confident in myself. I like short shorts. I like tops that reveal cleavage. My body is mine, I'll wear what I want, thanks.
she’s the middle school teacher who would hall monitor girls and their outfits and report :))
this is so sad. i hope young girls don’t see this and think that this is how it has to be. instead of teaching us how to dress modestly and cover ourselves up let’s teach men not to sexualize, objectify, and rape women. dressing “sexy” doesn’t make you any less of a valid, “feminine”, and “lovely” woman. seriously shame on you.
How silly. You dress provocatively to turn men on. Do strippers wear burkhas?
Sunnyside Storytime i’m sorry what point are you trying to make?
@@Sunnysidestoriesandmusic No I dress the way I want because it gives me confidence and makes me feel good about myself, not for anyone else and especially not for men
STOP PUTTING ADS I DONT WANT TO SEE YOU HONEY❤️
Then don't click ! Easy
i would love to dress modestly i guess to please my parents, but the main reason why i stopped being that way is because it made me incredibly insecure about my body. i don’t want to be frumpy but i also want to be comfortable in my own skin and show it off for myself.
I’m cryingggg. These outfits were so ugly wtf
Grace Ashley GIRLLLUSHSBANUASFAFSF😭
FR.
To each their own
These comments do not pass the vibe check. She’s just vibin! She’s not forcing y’all to dress the way she is! Let her live!
I like how she felt she had to specify "these aren't leggings these are PANTS"
Lol. They look like coloured leggings to me.
Don’t let these negative comments keep you from sharing your ideas on this topic. She even said she understands women who do not choose to dress this way. It is good for young women in this day and age to see that dressing in crop tops and mini skirts is not the only way to fit in. That is mostly what you see on social media nowadays. Not all women feel comfortable dressing that way and would like to not feel alone in that aspect.
Thank you for speaking out. It really bothers me how all of these comments go off on how we shouldn't dress for men...when she never said those words even once. So thank you so much for getting and understanding what she was trying to do.
Allison Krapf implied
AOh and it was said directly in a different video
"modesty is dressing in a way that doesn't sexualize your body"
"how to dress modestly and look smokin hot"
Make up your mind sis 👁️👄👁️
In a basic grammar book you’ll need to look up the word hyperbole. I understood what she meant.
I think how to dress classy and elegant is better. Modest clothes are just covered but not necessarily fashionable.
Girl, I- watch some best dressed videos and report back to me. You can dress classy and elegantly if you wish, but I'm just sayin, like
Heck, even a AlexandrasGirlyTalk one
@@s2c1mw7mP5l
Girl you- what? I still stand by my comment lol. These outfits are ugly as hell
@@sofiaguerrero0969 ok 💔💔
As a young girl (im 12) I feel that’s it’s important that woman should be able to dress how they feel. A woman shouldn’t have to hide her body because a man can’t “control” himself. Woman shouldn’t and don’t dress up for male validation or attention. They dress up because it makes them feel good. Covering up doesn’t make you safe from men and nor will it stop some of them from harming you. It’s not about what you have on it’s about what the men picture you with it off.
While I do not agree with some of what she said, I do respect and admire how fearless she is in expressing herself.
Thankyou for sharing, I've been looking for different ways to dress modestly but not "frumpy"
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What are Orthodox Jewish rules on dressing modestly? You briefly mentioned elbows covered and skirts at the beginning of the video but I’d be interested in knowing more!
Become Christian accept Christ
@@godpilledzoomer7245 that's all a bunch of lies, sorry
godpilled zoomer mans really took the blue pill
In general, Orthodox Jewish women (like me) cover the collar bone, elbows and knees with a skirt. In addition, the clothes shouldn't be skin tight. Some women also wear tights or pantyhose as well.
Esther Neissany Thats very similar to the Catholic Marian modesty standard. Covering two fingers below collarbone, three-quarter length sleeves and skirts below the knee.
i rlly dont like dressing modestly by your standards but i never dress to show off or try to look hot or sexy. i dress in whatever i am comfortable in. i am a conservative but i dont agree with a lot of your modest fashion advice. that being said, i think its amazing that you dress in the way that you like and youre not conforming for anybody and i do agree with a ton of your other views. god bless and much love :)
Abby: “Leggings are inappropriate”
Me: wearing leggings while watching this video
Abby, thanks so much for sharing and breaking down the outfits. I came from a very conservative background and totally get it. Love, love, love the ideas. Thank you for sharing. I feel inspired. I have a friend that always looks put together and after watching your video I realized she is doing exactly what you are talking about.
sis why you always worried about what men think of you
all of these outfits are most definitely what 99% of people would describe as frumpy. this video is the definition of that word.
Thank you for this wonderful video! I am a Christian and I make it a goal to make my entire closet modest. In this modern world, it is really hard to find modest clothes that don’t need to be layered. I loved this video, and I will definitely be watching more!
I love this I absolutely love this I mean I love all of your content but your content on modesty as well as your singing videos those two categories are my absolute favorite.
I notice a lot of negative comments here and I'm not usually one for modesty but I do try to look nice and not inappropriate. I understand what she is saying and love the classic feminine nature of her outfits. It's something I would like to steer a little more towards. Just because it's modest doesn't mean it's not beautiful. Favorite outfit would be #1 that's definitely my kinda style. The one with the casual dress and Jean jacket was the next for me. I really like having a balance so I'm definitely following you here and on Instagram now so I can take some inspiration from you! Be blessed! 🙏
hey guys if you clicked on the video then leave a bad comment that’s just rude not everyone wants to be modest but she’s trying to promote it for girls that do so be kind pls❤️❤️
I didn't see all the thumbs down until after I posted my comment. I just wanted to add that at first I was really upset and thought, "That must really hurt." After thinking it over for a few minutes, I realized that the thumbs down, even though I am sure they are terribly painful, they show how desperately needed the message is. Thanks for being brave and putting yourself out there. Please keep it up. There are ladies out here would love to hear your content, the push back shows how desperately thirsty us conservative girls are for more influencers with similar values.
Hey people who are hating on Abby and her values, this channel isn’t for you. Please leave this space for likeminded traditional woman, and we will leave your spaces alone :). Everyone deserves to have their own values, that is the principle of free speech
She paid for her ads to show on my feed. How is that respecting my space? 🤔
Fun quarantine drinking game: take a shot every time she says “modest”, take two every time she says something misogynistic or sexist I’m about to be plastered in about 15 min🙃
**5 minutes
the first one has shoulders cut out, we can’t wear that too school, so ABBY how about we just wear some t shirts and jeans everyday
Tbh if she wants to follow these types of views then I don’t see a problem as long as she doesn’t look down on others for not following her views and doesn’t try to change the way others like to dress.
yep
Lots of comments from women who want to be accepted but have made a decision NOT to accept that some women may have different opinions than theirs.
I LOVED all of your outfits, but that last outfit was my favorite. That dress is gorgeous! I really appreciated your take on modest attire, many people can view “dressing modestly” as frumpy when it’s so far from it. I’d loved to see more content from you on this topic and more outfit inspirations!
Absolutely! 💙
Classically Abby While I don’t agree with everything you do, I admire you for being able to put up with the hate. Everyone is entitled to live how they want and I feel a lot of these comments are uncalled for. Anyways...God bless you.
I dress modestly because I am uncomfortable dressing in short or revealing items. Also I find there is something beautiful about loving parts of you that only you can see, without the added complements. I do not care how other people dress. Dress however you want. I only have a problem with what you wear if it’s extremely inappropriate for the occasion. For instance going commando, wearing a short skirt, and a clear tube top, at grandfathers funeral.
*my grandfathers
I feel like this is hypocritical to say you’ll look hot but then say that wearing a shorter dress is wrong and not okay to be hot.
The older I have gotten, the more I have been wanting to dress more appropriate. I can understand where you’re coming from. I respect your perspective. Some of the things you say may hit a nerve to some, but I can understand your intentions behind this video. :)
My mom would love these outfits
That says a lot about her "fashion" style 💀💀
Eve B
If a woman wears a shirt that she feels confident in, why judge her?! she feels comfy with her body. stop telling woman that you can’t wear clothes that show skin. they are CONFIDENT. support the woman don’t tear them down! also, men aren’t distracted by clothing. :(
i wanna see her react or give advice to the punk world, i wanna see her criticizing the punk fashion or grunge fashion
just to humor me
Layla Burton interesting. Nice idea.
Yeah lmfao, I'd love to hear her opinion on techwear and cyberpunk clothes 💀
Could you do this for warmer weather? I feel I’m prone to dress worse during the hot months when I try to dress modestly.
She legit said covering your elbows is a beautiful rule 😂😂 im dead. Damn those sexy elbows!
I’m still distracted by the shoulder cutouts in the first outfit. Those sexy shoulders are just so eye catching I can’t think about anything else. 😂
Why is she always like “mEn WiLl LoVe It” I don’t dress for MEN I dress for ME.
I don’t understand all the hate. She’s just making suggestions, feel free to accept or refuse it.
These outfits are what I’d wear in high school. Which was 5 years ago. Not to mention I had a very strict dress code. Now I wear whatever I want. Now if you wanna dress modestly cool go ahead but don’t judge ppl who don’t. 👌
*watching these videos while completely naked*
Funny thing is that this would be still considered immodest by more Conservative people. Showing a bit of leg, jewelery, flashy colours, high heels, tight pants could all be considered immodest. And believe me your still attracting the "male gaze". There is a whole fetish for that. So why worry so much and dress just for yourself however that might look. modest or not.
I love these outfits! You should definitely make more videos that offer classy & modest styles.
I'm 21 and a conservative. I think it's ridiculous to dress modestly so "men dont stare" that's ridiculous. I'm going to wear my mini skirts with ripped up fishnet stockings with ridiculously huge platform heels. If I think I look cute that's all that matters also who says I'm dressing for men? I WANT COMPLIMENTS FROM CUTE GIRLS NOT MEN!
These outfits are so cute and lovely! I would wear all of them if I could. 😄 I agree on putting effort into how you look. I definitely feel pretty and cute when I actually try instead of wearing sweats and a sweater.
Oh my stars, I hope I dont distract the men by attracting their male gaze! They might see that I left the kitchen!