Being a Celebrity is Exciting But Lonely | GET REAL Ep. #20 Highlight

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  • Опубліковано 11 лис 2020
  • What are the lows of being in the public eye? Sometimes it can get lonely... our GET REAL hosts explain why.
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  • @DIVEstudios
    @DIVEstudios  3 роки тому +14

    Enjoyed this episode? LISTEN to this full episode of “Get Real” here: divestudios.io/show/get-real/
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  • @leighdaphnerevellame1205
    @leighdaphnerevellame1205 3 роки тому +625

    As an introvert and homebody, I see being a celebrity as a very exhausting and draining job.

    • @fankyfashionmonkey
      @fankyfashionmonkey 3 роки тому +29

      Same. I could never survive being famous nor do I want to. Id just be exhausted and in a bad mood all the time. Honestly the more I hear of the things they have to go through the more respect I have for them but I also get angry that it is the way it is

    • @aaiish9097
      @aaiish9097 3 роки тому +6

      @@fankyfashionmonkey same i would get cancelled in a sec for being 'moody' no thank you haha i like my regular life

    • @aaiish9097
      @aaiish9097 3 роки тому +4

      Just the thought of not being able to go outside without being recognized and photographed and followed suffocated me 😨

    • @icecreambodyrolls
      @icecreambodyrolls 3 роки тому

      Same

  • @zuzannabrzeszczak1578
    @zuzannabrzeszczak1578 3 роки тому +338

    Leave it to Peniel to make the mood brighter with his jokes and punchlines. I love this trio so much.

  • @josettecalata2781
    @josettecalata2781 3 роки тому +332

    Ashley had to deal with some really rough times after the crash that killed two of her members, particularly as the leader of the group. I can't even imagine how she got through those interviews. When she paused, I could tell that it dawned on BM and Peniel and they covered it well.

    • @muti7880
      @muti7880 3 роки тому +2

      Ikr!!!!😭 poor little girl

    • @UserUnknownng2g
      @UserUnknownng2g 3 роки тому +11

      Ashley was the leader of the group?

    • @darehi2683
      @darehi2683 3 роки тому +4

      Ameyaa Chivukula yeah

    • @jordanmedina6196
      @jordanmedina6196 3 роки тому +12

      @@muti7880 she's grown. a full adult, and your comment came off as condescending af.

  • @zoldyckuwu9065
    @zoldyckuwu9065 3 роки тому +214

    Thats sad , idols are humans so let's respect them

  • @xEternalSoul
    @xEternalSoul 3 роки тому +119

    sounds like peniels dream job is a backup dancer or singer, they still get to perform but they dont get any attention off the stage

  • @roter13
    @roter13 3 роки тому +102

    Honestly, I didn't know much about Peniel's personality until I saw Hwaiting and I immediately related to him.

    • @atiyabatool9177
      @atiyabatool9177 3 роки тому +4

      You should watch btob related vidoes he is really a amazing caring person everyone call him angle

  • @euphoriared382
    @euphoriared382 3 роки тому +47

    People really need to realize that when an Idol is quiet during interviews or doesn't talk that much, smile or laugh that much, it doesn't mean that they are rude or angry. They are either really introverted or aren't in the mood to do so. Please stop hating on them for this. Respect their introverted personality 🙏♥️

  • @sammygurl637
    @sammygurl637 3 роки тому +79

    Despite your "doo doo" days.. I just wanna honestly say THANK YOU.. Thank you for smiling thru and always giving such great performances and content.. because it's idols like you and so many others who have helped me get thru my "doo doo" days and brought me smiles.. TRULY appreciate it..
    But please also take the time for yourselves to process and get that RnR when you can.. you deserve it

  • @72erys14
    @72erys14 3 роки тому +10

    when ashley said 'something bad might have happened' my heart just broke

  • @ascedit
    @ascedit 3 роки тому +23

    Same as Peniel, i do like to take pictures and get into photography but i dont like being captured by anybody.

  • @sidtran4258
    @sidtran4258 3 роки тому +169

    Celebrities are human too, people need to realize just like they said celebrities get tired, they have days where they don't feel good just like us. Haters gotta stop coming for them for every little mishap that occurs and just be respectful

  • @k_drive
    @k_drive 3 роки тому +24

    yeah i always imagine the hardest part of being famous is ppl feeling like they know you and worse like the own u. its in part because of the way celebs are marketed, we're supposed to feel that personal connection to feel more compelled to support them. but i think particularly now the fanaticism has gone really far.

  • @frangconna3265
    @frangconna3265 3 роки тому +18

    I love this trio so much I wish I could see them for years and years and years. Dive please don't split them up, they're really feel so real, people like us (you know celebrity has this boundaries that you almost can't reach but with them, it feels like talking with friends about young adulthood and I like it so much) I love big Matilda gang

  • @riftan234
    @riftan234 3 роки тому +35

    the more I see kpop idols the more I think they are really strong human being.

    • @aaiish9097
      @aaiish9097 3 роки тому +3

      They really are. The amount of pressure and expectations that are on them would break most people

  • @cynthiaho6890
    @cynthiaho6890 3 роки тому +19

    BM, Ashley, Peniel. Thank you for being so honest!!

  • @fritooo0
    @fritooo0 3 роки тому +25

    We love Ashley!!!!

  • @littlelonelysoul2683
    @littlelonelysoul2683 3 роки тому +9

    That's what scares me the most in this industry. You never can be sure that they're 100% real. Because they have no choice but to smile and being happy all the time no matter how they’re feeling

  • @SheSpends2MuchOnKpop
    @SheSpends2MuchOnKpop 3 роки тому +9

    I admire your strength Ashley. 💚

  • @alugrof
    @alugrof 3 роки тому +9

    I'm glad btob is a chill group so Peniel can at least be a bit more relaxed off stage compared to many other idols

  • @smscammingeveryone6614
    @smscammingeveryone6614 3 роки тому +30

    Respect Idol they are humans too

  • @yosweeta
    @yosweeta 3 роки тому +8

    I hate when people said, "well they're public figure, they must know better that their life is exposed and have no privacy"
    Recently I read lot of this kind of comment on an actor in my country, its just plain sad.

    • @mujakim2889
      @mujakim2889 3 роки тому +1

      I don't know where which country your are but It pretty much the same in my country.

    • @yosweeta
      @yosweeta 3 роки тому +2

      @@mujakim2889 hmm shit happen everywhere

    • @silver-nf4zc
      @silver-nf4zc 3 роки тому +1

      I have a friend and I usually say that these idols don't deserve the hate and bashing. She's just like they know what they've signed up for and they're a celebrity and all that. I was like still just because their celebrity you're gonna say things to ruined them. She don't empathize with them at all and I don't wanna argue.

    • @mujakim2889
      @mujakim2889 3 роки тому

      @@silver-nf4zc that so evil. Oh May God 😳

    • @silver-nf4zc
      @silver-nf4zc 3 роки тому

      @@mujakim2889 i mean she's a friend of mine and i understand her pov on this one. But still right? I know it's part of their lives to receive unnecessary hate but I don't think we should just ignore the idea that they're also a human being getting hurt and emotional.

  • @carolines1055
    @carolines1055 3 роки тому +8

    I really love these candid conversations

  • @sylvanus2554
    @sylvanus2554 3 роки тому +4

    People always seem to forget or like to forget that idols are regular people too. However, this seems to be a problem in general in various industries depending on status levels and such. My philosophy is always to treat others well and in a way in which I would hope they’d treat me in turn. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t.

  • @SukaSukiFarah
    @SukaSukiFarah 3 роки тому +41

    I just read about dark side of kpop idols and this kinda related

  • @aleesha7152
    @aleesha7152 3 роки тому +26

    Peniel: i don't like being the center of attention
    Me: well boi...seems like your life is a contradiction.

  • @user-lk7fc7hx6e
    @user-lk7fc7hx6e 3 роки тому +11

    Wow, love you guys 🥺💜

  • @naomiritz6896
    @naomiritz6896 3 роки тому +15

    We should respect idols

  • @marissaramos1050
    @marissaramos1050 3 роки тому +1

    Wow..BM,Peniel & Ashley really enlighten us the real world of idols👏😊👍✌️❤️

  • @Pink-tj3ex
    @Pink-tj3ex 3 роки тому +3

    wow, I didn't expect them to answer the question honestly, most idols find this kind of question sensitive and they just lie because of the camera ...

  • @hanagraciella953
    @hanagraciella953 3 роки тому +2

    I love them so much

  • @nurulsyazanazul
    @nurulsyazanazul 3 роки тому +4

    ashley looks good with that hair!

  • @bemydaysix9844
    @bemydaysix9844 3 роки тому +1

    OMG! I love Ashley's hair 😍

  • @ritz673
    @ritz673 3 роки тому +1

    🎶 "I'm just like you, you're just like me. Imperfect and human are we." 🎶

  • @tsalitsaauliarahmah733
    @tsalitsaauliarahmah733 3 роки тому +3

    I luv this episode:(

  • @nadyadellasurya4736
    @nadyadellasurya4736 3 роки тому +1

    Woahhhh I have the same feeling with Peniel, I know that very well when I don't comfortable when someone taken picture of me

  • @icecreambodyrolls
    @icecreambodyrolls 3 роки тому +1

    Almost 500k subscribers 👏...

  • @anischairunnisa1709
    @anischairunnisa1709 3 роки тому +3

    Why I feel familiar with BM's shirt 😄

  • @drsykr
    @drsykr 3 роки тому +4

    never been so fast

  • @Smerky
    @Smerky 3 роки тому +3

    Ashley you’re so beautiful and have a great personality

  • @jennifergonzalez8033
    @jennifergonzalez8033 3 роки тому +1

    As time goes on some idols get more freedom to choose their schedules and such but most of time it’s not the case. It does seem difficult to be honest

  • @cess23imperial28
    @cess23imperial28 3 роки тому +2

    Peniel 💙

  • @user-yt8kx7tb1v
    @user-yt8kx7tb1v 3 роки тому

    이 얘기 들으니까 많이 힘들 것 같아요 ㅠㅠ
    사람들이 진짜 연예인을 더 존중해야될 것 같아요
    프니 오빠 힘들지 않았으면 좋겠어요 ㅠㅠ

  • @dellaryn
    @dellaryn 3 роки тому +4

    WE'RE JUST HUMAN BEING

  • @lesipapo7876
    @lesipapo7876 3 роки тому +3

    Peniel is such a one of a kind Idol - Representing all the odd ball introverts out there

  • @dmir3440
    @dmir3440 3 роки тому +9

    No one force you though...the industry itself is full of toxicity for long time already... hoping it to change and get better but even if it works, only few percent show a positive result...it is like walking through the road full of thorns... Some people survive but bleeding all the way through it... Some people give up and choose another life.. there is people give up their life because it was too hard.. there is no solution for this.. it is sad and devastating

  • @d.chopeu
    @d.chopeu 3 роки тому

    I think me and Peniel are the same person😳

  • @wenawena709
    @wenawena709 3 роки тому +1

    Did BM posted that photo he took of Peniel? 😆

  • @faricsyung
    @faricsyung 3 роки тому +21

    i think, it's not just celebrities who has to go through this "forcing to smile even when i'm not in the mood" stuff.
    even in normal workplaces, sometimes you just have to suck it up and do it. you might get assigned some job which you really wouldn't do otherwise but you have no choice but to do it. days when you don't really feel like going to work, but you have to anyway because your position in the company depends on your productivity.
    the only difference is celebrities have to do it in front of the cameras so everything becomes very blown up because they're in the spotlight.
    every job comes with its hardship, so it's important to be able to understand which kind of bad you'd want to handle in your life. are the things you get out of it worth the bitter things you'd have to swallow to get through it?

    • @Heungie
      @Heungie 3 роки тому +4

      Very well said. Or in other words, choose your kind of ‘hard’ right?
      I feel like some kpop artists, they sometimes are exhausted, but since they do what they want to do for life (being artists, making music, etc) most of them take those hardships well & stay professional & still managed to give out their best.

    • @faricsyung
      @faricsyung 3 роки тому

      @@Heungie yup, agreed with you. and thank you for saying so. ^^

  • @isagiselle6836
    @isagiselle6836 3 роки тому

    i hate being camera hate it hate it my family tries video taping me sometimes but i just can't hate it

  • @Rinadharb98
    @Rinadharb98 2 роки тому

    Being lonely is fine for me as long as i can be rich tho

  • @user-ry5nk1oe4k
    @user-ry5nk1oe4k 3 роки тому

    맴찢..

  • @fitririyana7377
    @fitririyana7377 3 роки тому

    Sorry guys OOT
    BM uses batik? Or its just ordinary clothes motif

  • @sitimaemunah2026
    @sitimaemunah2026 3 роки тому

    Sorry, but I'm getting distracted... Is BM wearing a Batik shirt?

  • @konysbaevaaanaz
    @konysbaevaaanaz 3 роки тому +3

    Айгерим ты здесь? Апхахп ты посмотрела?

    • @user-gw2es7cy7e
      @user-gw2es7cy7e 3 роки тому

      Я здесь жаным😌

    • @konysbaevaaanaz
      @konysbaevaaanaz 3 роки тому +2

      @@user-gw2es7cy7e хэхэ еее, жаным😏апхахп

  • @fathyahananurulrahiim1219
    @fathyahananurulrahiim1219 3 роки тому +1

    BM kyk abis dari kondangan fix

  • @tiyasacraft8054
    @tiyasacraft8054 3 роки тому +2

    I'm sorry, who is she?

  • @Daemon1995_
    @Daemon1995_ 3 роки тому

    that's how i feel like how most idol groups are which is why its surprising when you hear members dating.

  • @sidtran4258
    @sidtran4258 3 роки тому +36

    Celebrities are human too, people need to realize just like they said celebrities get tired, they have days where they don't feel good just like us. Haters gotta stop coming for them for every little mishap that occurs and just be respectful