“INFJs, have you ever felt like your personality was more of a curse than a blessing? 🌟 Let’s flip that perspective! What’s one INFJ trait you’ve struggled with but are now learning to embrace as a gift? Share your thoughts below-I’d love to hear your journey!”
My astrology patterns make for a super INFJ perspective that alienates me from every job I've ever had. I'm still camping in parents yard from the unconstitutional rules inserted just as I was getting back to work in 2020. I wish I could afford to be in your circle cause the friends I've gathered in my last couple of decades are not fit for advising me as they just put their limitations onto me just as my parents have done. Childhood PTSD is one of the hardest things to heal, age 51 I'm still in the midst. First house Uranus in Libra is just one thing, then Venus in Aquarius 5th house and stationed evening star phase, Jupiter a few more degrees in at the midpoint. Then add Lilith BLM conjunct Juno and Eros on one side of my bottom house Capricorn Sun, Mercury out of bounds on the other my way with words only works with people who have integrated their shadows if it goes beyond casual small talk. My musical skills are superhuman, yet with my poverty trap no band will take me in. I have no idea how to get out of this as everything I've tried so far has been a vicious rug pull just as I get going. I've embraced all my superpowers but it's a vast gap between social connections as almost all of my previous friends are going off the deep end of paranoia and all the spiritual bypass Ram Dass types who just want to feel loving all the time, then turn into dog faced demons or doormat simps when the going gets gnarly.
This is why I love this channel, there’s a UA-camr by the name of Marty Glenn who says you’re only an infj if you truly hate being one, and if you don’t hate being one then you’re not an infj ,and the comments were just agreeing. I was questioning myself because although being an infj is not easy, I love it at the same time and don’t hate anything about it
I've arrived at the point where I can constantly push ppl's triggers, but not "on purpose"; it's something that just happens when I allow myself to share what I know, to just be who I am. I no longer care if it is accepted or rejected. I did my part. The rest, that's up to you.
I’m thankful that I’m an INFJ. Harder when you don’t know who you are. Being a person who uses your gifts to advance and improve your life not only helps yourself but it helps others. You don’t have to directly assist, lead by example.
I'm seeing it less and less as a curse as I learn the unique tools and methods that work for me as an INFJ. This channel has been instrumental in this. The more I value my uniqueness the less I feel my INFJness is a curse. I've learned I have to make my inner voice so damn loud that the noise of the world doesn't have an impact on how I feel about myself.
Can’t agree more! I used to think it was a curse to be an INFJ too, because we always start off life being unhappy and misunderstood; but once we understood why we felt that way, it’s all good, if that’s who we are meant to be. Maybe all the stresses and traumas we experienced were a pay forward to the better life we are living now.
As Im healing from nearly a lifetime of emotional abuse by my parents. I'm also i'm starting to see the beautiful things I did in the past. And I'm still doing to this day. Now I'm at a place where I'm starting to grow and learn en become a better version of myself! And by doing so I'm als learning the value I have as an INFJ. And yes I Love being an INFJ and the magic I carry within me
Excellent insight, thank you. I DO see myself as an amplifier but catalyst is more accurate. Morality is everything to me and most people fall short for Themselves. I won’t shrink for anyone, especially to stay in chaos.
INFJ blessed by the curse. American Dream crashed and burned. The ashes left, the simplest life, barely surviving "catalyzed" to my astonishment actually thriving! Less is more.
If you're in your 20s or 30s I'd say infj life is generally miserable. Now in my 50s I've learned how to use and manage infj traits and it is very peaceful. I'm also now seeing friends from my 20s come out of trainwreck lives that I saw decades ago. 😊
I took my first baby step in standing up for myself over the phone (graduated from text) and although it didn't go the way I had hoped it would, I learned soo much from it. It was really difficult but I know I'll get better. I'm hoping to join the next boot camp. Thank you for your work Wenze ☀️
i love being an infj because i dont need anyone truly and can restart over and over. i also believe soo much in karma when ppl hurt me i laugh knowing they hurting themself.
I do struggle with absorbing other's energies and it staying with me longer than I would like...How can we shake it off faster? I would love to know some tips about that! 🙏♥️
I'm currently working on that and noticed that when i like focus on that feeling deeply, it kinda fades. So i would close my eyes cry a few tears and 40sec later it vanished
everywhere i looked, people were mentioning this book in comments, and even a friend brought it up. i ignored it for a while, but curiosity got the best of me, and i finally tracked it down. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t what i expected-it was so much better. two weeks later, i’m attracting the kind of energy i’ve always wanted. my relationships, health, and even my work have all leveled up. i see now why everyone was raving about it.
t felt like this book was following me-every comment section, every convo with my friends, someone was bringing it up. i wasn’t even planning on reading it, but the curiosity got to me. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki was hard to track down, but now i get why so many people were talking about it. within two weeks, my confidence shot through the roof, people started noticing me in ways they never did before, and my goals feel so much more within reach. it’s wild how fast things shifted.
i swear, every time i scrolled through youtube, someone was talking about this book. at first, i thought it was just overhyped, but then even my friend mentioned it, so i had to check it out. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t easy to find, but man, it was worth the search. in just a couple of weeks, i’ve seen huge shifts-people treat me differently, my confidence is on another level, and things in my life finally feel like they’re falling into place
I think INFJ, ADHD, narcissistic abuse survivors, 12th house people and afflicted 4th house (if you believe in astrology), are usually connected and people usually tend to have all these.
i kept seeing people in youtube comments and even a few friends talking about this book, and i was like, what’s all the hype about? i wasn’t even gonna bother, but after hearing about it so much, i gave in. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t easy to find, but wow, it was worth it. after just two weeks, my dating life completely turned around, money started flowing in ways i never expected, and i feel more confident than ever. i didn’t think a book could actually do that, but here we are
Currently facing the hardest fork in my life ive ever faced. Do I continue to be the authentic, caring person i am and be lonely for the rest of my life, or do i be the awful, selfish person and get all the unfulfilling relationship the will make me happy in the moment? It amazes me how theres millions of people online that understand things like I do but cant find a single person in real life. Being the genuine person I am makes me feel so good about my life, until I come home to empty, lonely, depressing nest i spent my entire life building for us. Then she disappeared... Why bother im so done with women and just humanity in general. End sob story lmao
My friend, I don't know your story. But I need you to know that the only way to move forward is with an open heart, even if it hurts. And also, if you are harboring a belief that the only way you can be happy in the moment is by being awful & selfish, then you need to check your beliefs. I'm wishing that you can figure it all out.
Basing such proclamations based only on the results from a type survey such as the MBTI ignores that they survey is flawed to say the least and the speaker has not actually studied the Jung concepts at the base of functional (NOT Personality) types.
Discretion is quite an important trait but sometimes it has its exceptions but for some things discretion is preferable. When that does not work and the evidence based data makes clear urgency then something needs to be done somehow by someone dont you think so?
This current collective is still hating smart people. Schopenhauer also addressed it but it is still here. Especially since not everyone is able to distinguish the different degrees of Value between Knowledge Wisdom Insight. Insight is the crystalised version but be aware that that insight may not always be resonating on the variety of paths of choice Although at some point it is just 1 path untill you become the path and or also know and receive the insight that some Japanese Zen wisdom is based on, and simplified and got undone from unnecessary opschmuck and other distractions. Then it is known that what w thought to be so real and build our entire dedicated experience to is not what it seemed nor any other seemingly seperate phenomenon or so i tend to describe some works of Art Japanese style to which some say it is emotional. No it is abstract. And it tries to influence the Mind. Just like Koans. That is an interesting strategy Koans hahaha
“INFJs, have you ever felt like your personality was more of a curse than a blessing? 🌟 Let’s flip that perspective! What’s one INFJ trait you’ve struggled with but are now learning to embrace as a gift? Share your thoughts below-I’d love to hear your journey!”
My astrology patterns make for a super INFJ perspective that alienates me from every job I've ever had. I'm still camping in parents yard from the unconstitutional rules inserted just as I was getting back to work in 2020. I wish I could afford to be in your circle cause the friends I've gathered in my last couple of decades are not fit for advising me as they just put their limitations onto me just as my parents have done. Childhood PTSD is one of the hardest things to heal, age 51 I'm still in the midst. First house Uranus in Libra is just one thing, then Venus in Aquarius 5th house and stationed evening star phase, Jupiter a few more degrees in at the midpoint. Then add Lilith BLM conjunct Juno and Eros on one side of my bottom house Capricorn Sun, Mercury out of bounds on the other my way with words only works with people who have integrated their shadows if it goes beyond casual small talk. My musical skills are superhuman, yet with my poverty trap no band will take me in. I have no idea how to get out of this as everything I've tried so far has been a vicious rug pull just as I get going. I've embraced all my superpowers but it's a vast gap between social connections as almost all of my previous friends are going off the deep end of paranoia and all the spiritual bypass Ram Dass types who just want to feel loving all the time, then turn into dog faced demons or doormat simps when the going gets gnarly.
This is why I love this channel, there’s a UA-camr by the name of Marty Glenn who says you’re only an infj if you truly hate being one, and if you don’t hate being one then you’re not an infj ,and the comments were just agreeing. I was questioning myself because although being an infj is not easy, I love it at the same time and don’t hate anything about it
I've arrived at the point where I can constantly push ppl's triggers, but not "on purpose"; it's something that just happens when I allow myself to share what I know, to just be who I am. I no longer care if it is accepted or rejected. I did my part. The rest, that's up to you.
I've accepted being an INFJ and am comfortable with myself
I’m thankful that I’m an INFJ. Harder when you don’t know who you are.
Being a person who uses your gifts to advance and improve your life not only helps yourself but it helps others.
You don’t have to directly assist, lead by example.
I'm seeing it less and less as a curse as I learn the unique tools and methods that work for me as an INFJ. This channel has been instrumental in this. The more I value my uniqueness the less I feel my INFJness is a curse. I've learned I have to make my inner voice so damn loud that the noise of the world doesn't have an impact on how I feel about myself.
I love this. I am launching my new programming to help people with exactly this. Navigating Sensitivity, launching soon. ✨
Can’t agree more! I used to think it was a curse to be an INFJ too, because we always start off life being unhappy and misunderstood; but once we understood why we felt that way, it’s all good, if that’s who we are meant to be. Maybe all the stresses and traumas we experienced were a pay forward to the better life we are living now.
As Im healing from nearly a lifetime of emotional abuse by my parents. I'm also i'm starting to see the beautiful things I did in the past. And I'm still doing to this day.
Now I'm at a place where I'm starting to grow and learn en become a better version of myself! And by doing so I'm als learning the value I have as an INFJ.
And yes I Love being an INFJ and the magic I carry within me
👍🏻💜
It's kept me going and alive being an INFJ.
I’m so glad I’m an INFJ. Yes, it’s hard, but worth it when.
Excellent insight, thank you. I DO see myself as an amplifier but catalyst is more accurate. Morality is everything to me and most people fall short for Themselves. I won’t shrink for anyone, especially to stay in chaos.
Thank you wenzess Every infj needs to know that being an infj is a gift not a curse and Ni can be kinda overpowered sometimes
Thank you for reminding me of who I am 💪
Very proud of you, you've come a long way since you started. And now, you're a role model. 😎👌 GG
INFJ blessed by the curse. American Dream crashed and burned. The ashes left, the simplest life, barely surviving "catalyzed" to my astonishment actually thriving! Less is more.
If you're in your 20s or 30s I'd say infj life is generally miserable. Now in my 50s I've learned how to use and manage infj traits and it is very peaceful. I'm also now seeing friends from my 20s come out of trainwreck lives that I saw decades ago. 😊
I took my first baby step in standing up for myself over the phone (graduated from text) and although it didn't go the way I had hoped it would, I learned soo much from it. It was really difficult but I know I'll get better. I'm hoping to join the next boot camp. Thank you for your work Wenze ☀️
I LOVE & I'm proud to be an INFJ!
It makes me unique and difference than others! It's a beautiful thing to not be like most! 💫♥️💫
Fantastic video Wenzes. This is your best one to date!
i love being an infj because i dont need anyone truly and can restart over and over. i also believe soo much in karma when ppl hurt me i laugh knowing they hurting themself.
Proud to be an INFJ 🎉❤
Hey! This video goes for 11:11. ❤
Hi Wenzes😀, hearing your content shows, you are being able to master life at it’s fullest . Thank you.
I do struggle with absorbing other's energies and it staying with me longer than I would like...How can we shake it off faster? I would love to know some tips about that! 🙏♥️
I'm currently working on that and noticed that when i like focus on that feeling deeply, it kinda fades. So i would close my eyes cry a few tears and 40sec later it vanished
Thank you ! Sounds hopeful ❤
🤗 Darn it Wenzes, (sniff) thank you!
Love you, blessings be ✨
Thank you so much. You are a life saver.
Insightful!!
Great Advice-Thank You
Thank You Wenzes
everywhere i looked, people were mentioning this book in comments, and even a friend brought it up. i ignored it for a while, but curiosity got the best of me, and i finally tracked it down. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t what i expected-it was so much better. two weeks later, i’m attracting the kind of energy i’ve always wanted. my relationships, health, and even my work have all leveled up. i see now why everyone was raving about it.
Love the content and the 👕 Tshirt.
That was a good therapy shesh, thanks👍
t felt like this book was following me-every comment section, every convo with my friends, someone was bringing it up. i wasn’t even planning on reading it, but the curiosity got to me. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki was hard to track down, but now i get why so many people were talking about it. within two weeks, my confidence shot through the roof, people started noticing me in ways they never did before, and my goals feel so much more within reach. it’s wild how fast things shifted.
Humanitarian- Idealistic 🙏🌱
I really needed this today. Thank you. You have a new subscriber!
i swear, every time i scrolled through youtube, someone was talking about this book. at first, i thought it was just overhyped, but then even my friend mentioned it, so i had to check it out. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t easy to find, but man, it was worth the search. in just a couple of weeks, i’ve seen huge shifts-people treat me differently, my confidence is on another level, and things in my life finally feel like they’re falling into place
I think INFJ, ADHD, narcissistic abuse survivors, 12th house people and afflicted 4th house (if you believe in astrology), are usually connected and people usually tend to have all these.
Thanks 👍😊
i kept seeing people in youtube comments and even a few friends talking about this book, and i was like, what’s all the hype about? i wasn’t even gonna bother, but after hearing about it so much, i gave in. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t easy to find, but wow, it was worth it. after just two weeks, my dating life completely turned around, money started flowing in ways i never expected, and i feel more confident than ever. i didn’t think a book could actually do that, but here we are
bless you
She is so right.
❤thank you❤
Yup!
YOU are an amazing soul, Wenzes. Thank you 🙏
At the end of the day, you don't want to be alone would be my answer.
Why can't someone handle a deep connection with a friend or lover?
These people are rare and hard to find. Most people want to live in the superficial.
Currently facing the hardest fork in my life ive ever faced. Do I continue to be the authentic, caring person i am and be lonely for the rest of my life, or do i be the awful, selfish person and get all the unfulfilling relationship the will make me happy in the moment? It amazes me how theres millions of people online that understand things like I do but cant find a single person in real life. Being the genuine person I am makes me feel so good about my life, until I come home to empty, lonely, depressing nest i spent my entire life building for us. Then she disappeared... Why bother im so done with women and just humanity in general. End sob story lmao
Do not go back to mistreatment. Ever. Keep looking.
My friend, I don't know your story. But I need you to know that the only way to move forward is with an open heart, even if it hurts.
And also, if you are harboring a belief that the only way you can be happy in the moment is by being awful & selfish, then you need to check your beliefs. I'm wishing that you can figure it all out.
@jimbob-ic5kc I hear you man - loud and clear.
I knew 😊
Basing such proclamations based only on the results from a type survey such as the MBTI ignores that they survey is flawed to say the least and the speaker has not actually studied the Jung concepts at the base of functional (NOT Personality) types.
Discretion is quite an important trait but sometimes it has its exceptions but for some things discretion is preferable.
When that does not work and the evidence based data makes clear urgency then something needs to be done somehow by someone dont you think so?
Times stamps please.
This current collective is still hating smart people. Schopenhauer also addressed it but it is still here. Especially since not everyone is able to distinguish the different degrees of Value between
Knowledge
Wisdom
Insight. Insight is the crystalised version but be aware that that insight may not always be resonating on the variety of paths of choice Although at some point it is just 1 path untill you become the path and or also know and receive the insight that some Japanese Zen wisdom is based on, and simplified and got undone from unnecessary opschmuck and other distractions. Then it is known that what w thought to be so real and build our entire dedicated experience to is not what it seemed nor any other seemingly seperate phenomenon or so i tend to describe some works of Art Japanese style to which some say it is emotional.
No it is abstract. And it tries to influence the Mind. Just like Koans. That is an interesting strategy Koans hahaha
The essence they try to present in that Art is: ;
am i dreaming or is Something dreaming me
it's even worse for male INFJs.
✨🕯️🌀💫✨ 🤔maybe compassion, service, curiosity, drive 💫✨
Amen 😅🤣😂
💪⚔️🪄🧩
Socionics Model G shows that healthy INFJ looks like healthy ISFJ. And an unhealthy INFJ looks like an unhealthy INTP.
Something is different about you…are you okay?
Thank you Wenzes...