How Friends And Family Can DESTROY Your Relationship

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  • Опубліковано 5 сер 2024

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  • @theresadunlap4953
    @theresadunlap4953 Рік тому +52

    Family will add to stress and create selfish behaviors.

    • @Prodigy1320
      @Prodigy1320 Рік тому +3

      FACTS EXPERIENCING FIRST HAND NOW

    • @djswole11
      @djswole11 8 місяців тому

      me tooo it's really stressful
      @@Prodigy1320

    • @thedramainew
      @thedramainew 7 місяців тому

      Yeah 😑 it's a toxic environment

  • @BeyondBodie
    @BeyondBodie Рік тому +19

    100% AGREED with ALL of this message!

  • @teresadilts7331
    @teresadilts7331 Рік тому +7

    My marriage was butted into by my mom and mother-in-law. I told them both to butt out, let my marriage alone. It worked

  • @brownshugakale2410
    @brownshugakale2410 Рік тому +25

    Gotta cut ties & Focus on each other, respectfully. The other side of the coin is being in a relationship with someone who has horrible detachment issues with their family, but talks about it all the time. Drives a wedge 😔

    • @Confessions089
      @Confessions089 11 місяців тому +3

      Just leave and find someone who has graduated from that level.

  • @AlphaRuledByVenus6978
    @AlphaRuledByVenus6978 Рік тому +8

    VERY ACCURATE!!!! ..no matter how you try too spin it 💯👏🏽✊🏽

  • @cynthiagomes2979
    @cynthiagomes2979 Рік тому +9

    Yup!! The messy, jealous, want your man/ woman friends and family. I keep them out from the beginning.

  • @Islandgirl198
    @Islandgirl198 6 місяців тому +1

    Yes it was very true but he finally told his family that he gave up to quickly on our relationship he has prayed about it and can see the changes happening in our life so we have decided to give this another go, but I’ve told him I want to keep this between us until we have built a strong relationship before we are comfortable to tell ppl again we are back together it feels good right now just focusing on us and what our plan is going forward

  • @crystalsloan2898
    @crystalsloan2898 Рік тому +13

    Family & Friends will be toxic to your relationship but sometimes family and friends see the things you don't

  • @devatheflyelegantprettydiv2269

    Family can be the most divisive tool in any relationship, you have to learn how to keep them totally separated because family will ruin
    Your life. The Bible says separate from them if you want to make it,
    You allow them in, look for it to be over

    • @ChaseGohunnid
      @ChaseGohunnid 11 місяців тому

      What it’s means by the allow it to be over part

    • @thedramainew
      @thedramainew 7 місяців тому

      ​@@ChaseGohunnidit means once you allow your twosome to become a threesome or moresome then expect nothing but loneliness by your lonesome 💯 enmeshment is toxic and a very dangerous form of abuse if ignore or goes unseen

  • @reddz521
    @reddz521 Рік тому +3

    Ain't it worth it? Damn good question! Let's see if it is.... engage set boundaries mode!

  • @DrineThePoet
    @DrineThePoet Рік тому +2

    Facts create boundaries

  • @GiorgioSimpson-mg4og
    @GiorgioSimpson-mg4og 8 місяців тому +2

    Family will destroy your relationship if you let them. Stop telling them everything and if y’all argue that’s none of there business what y’all do in your home I y’all business.

  • @godsgrace9158
    @godsgrace9158 Рік тому +2

    This is so true. 💯 %.

  • @chulah4051
    @chulah4051 Рік тому +10

    It’s usually a jealous mother or sister that will have you ending your relationship over simple things. Ice cream vs cookies.

  • @EmeraldLuvsYouALL
    @EmeraldLuvsYouALL Рік тому +5

    Hey act right or be gone 😤 nobody has time for foolishness trying to stop true love because their miserable. Nope 👎

    • @Confessions089
      @Confessions089 11 місяців тому

      Been there and done that. Sometimes you have to realize that it wasn't true, even as much as we wanted it to be. If it were true then that person would correct their family and put certain measures in place to keep that love. If they're not doing this then it's not true love. Someone who loves you will do what is in their power to keep that love.

  • @moubhattacharyay6891
    @moubhattacharyay6891 Рік тому +2

    Men/Women Hv To Be Enough Mature-Tactful & Courageous To Set Boundaries With Family/Frnds/Relatives Not To Influence Their Role To Navigate Ur Personal Choice & Relationship..
    Generally Men Hv To Be Enough Bold In Their Manley Characters & "HV TO POSSESS A STRONG SPINE/BACKBONE" When It Come To Their Woman & Relationship That Nobody Can Cross Their Limits/Can't Be Unnecessary Nosy Without Ur Permission.. 🙂

  • @ebonieoduro797
    @ebonieoduro797 Рік тому

    Man the total truth!! God bless!

  • @sheilaboykins9544
    @sheilaboykins9544 Рік тому +1

    It's hard and the gilt alone is harder when it comes down to it.

  • @debbiepinkpea2783
    @debbiepinkpea2783 Рік тому +1

    Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen ❤️🙏

  • @sarahalvaradoq2753
    @sarahalvaradoq2753 Рік тому +1

    So true man I love your advice ❤❤

  • @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848
    @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848 11 місяців тому +2

    Who marries for love anymore? I don't agree with this. Two people in a relationship are supposed to cleave to each other. Not friends or family.

  • @silvatavitian9628
    @silvatavitian9628 Рік тому +2

    💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @arseniodelossantos7357
    @arseniodelossantos7357 Рік тому

    Love of my life. Some friends and family

  • @jenniferarzadon2525
    @jenniferarzadon2525 Рік тому +1

    True💯❤️

  • @janicesmith1807
    @janicesmith1807 Рік тому +1

    Yes❤

  • @victorial8764
    @victorial8764 7 місяців тому

    Babies’ mamma. (Except when necessary for co-parenting)

  • @sharonyoung1679
    @sharonyoung1679 Рік тому +1

    True!🙏💘

  • @Jasminepsalm
    @Jasminepsalm Рік тому +1

    Aye! Facts

  • @maxstewart635
    @maxstewart635 Рік тому

    Totally true ther bro 👍🔥🔥

  • @javon6568
    @javon6568 Рік тому

    100% I told them to get them out they head and they didn’t know look at them

  • @jdjenkins8
    @jdjenkins8 Рік тому +1

    Yes. It’s worth it….

  • @mattrainey7120
    @mattrainey7120 Рік тому

    Amen

  • @lynnlambert6448
    @lynnlambert6448 Рік тому

    Absolutely !

  • @user-el5kn8yx4t
    @user-el5kn8yx4t Рік тому

    Absolutely 💯

  • @MillzCoop
    @MillzCoop 7 місяців тому

    I think it’s toxic to suggest cutting family and friends off for a relationship. I think it’s important to have the proper balance and to make room for both…. Now, I’m going to say if the family/partner becomes toxic we need to rethink separation…

  • @slim6289
    @slim6289 Рік тому

    TRUE 👍💯✝️

  • @shawanahickman6952
    @shawanahickman6952 Рік тому

    Yes you are ❤

  • @cristysmith3797
    @cristysmith3797 Рік тому

    Very true

  • @tericollier8232
    @tericollier8232 Рік тому

    Yes, it is worth it.

  • @stevegarcia8459
    @stevegarcia8459 8 місяців тому

    Real

  • @teresajura2575
    @teresajura2575 Рік тому

    Definitely ❤️

  • @KrayJSongz
    @KrayJSongz 6 місяців тому

    Just broke up with mines because of her family gotten involved

  • @maryalmah5516
    @maryalmah5516 Рік тому

    True

  • @mitziejenkins0476
    @mitziejenkins0476 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @jeaninewhitner9658
    @jeaninewhitner9658 Рік тому

    TRUE

  • @LunarFrequenciesHD
    @LunarFrequenciesHD Рік тому

    yup.

  • @jovelhamilton601
    @jovelhamilton601 Рік тому +1

    100%

  • @doreenmccormick6620
    @doreenmccormick6620 Рік тому

    YES❤

  • @amandastankorb9864
    @amandastankorb9864 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @tonywalker1954
    @tonywalker1954 Місяць тому

    Not at all
    If they are jealous they are shit friends but most people will be happy for a new relationship people see things you don't
    And you side with that 1 person
    Over everyone else
    Don't be surprised when you feel like you're dangling from a thin stick
    When you had thick branches under you

  • @queenieford4107
    @queenieford4107 Рік тому +1

    Amen 🙏 yes 🙌 😊

  • @shawanahickman6952
    @shawanahickman6952 Рік тому +2

    Hell yes it's worth it

  • @mca217
    @mca217 Рік тому

    10000000000%

  • @user-mh1fr1md4n
    @user-mh1fr1md4n 8 місяців тому

    Stop meddling and bagging in people's relationships point blank

  • @sharinaross1865
    @sharinaross1865 Рік тому

    Nothing wrong saying that

  • @ritaceron7329
    @ritaceron7329 Рік тому

    hardships will pass Prayers work let’s keep it coming ❤ thank goodness families morel’s ❤️‍🩹✊☮️

  • @Lifeofcivilrightactivistanetra

    The part the " love of my life"" it's all worth Jesus Christ his my first husband my thr love my life of this earthy not worth lost Jesus #BlackLivesMatter

  • @leemontedavi
    @leemontedavi Рік тому

    Yes ❤