My Social Anxiety Story

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 51

  • @gamewarden2813
    @gamewarden2813 4 роки тому +10

    my social anxiety gets worse and i even get scared to talk to my family.

  • @JoseMartinez-ig4lx
    @JoseMartinez-ig4lx 5 років тому +17

    A friend of mine once told me those that mind dont matter and those that matter don't mind. That might be a cliche thing to quote but I live by it and it holds a lot of truth.

    • @ItsAmandaWan
      @ItsAmandaWan  5 років тому +4

      that's actually a really good quote, thanks for sharing!

  • @HeatherBoydWire
    @HeatherBoydWire 6 років тому +19

    Thank you Amanda. I can totally relate. When I was a kid I remember going to the Ice Capades and being terrified that if one of the skaters fell that everyone would look at me. Social anxiety is a horrible thing. Even thought there are tools to help one cope, I believe that certain people are born with personality types that are vulnerable to this type of anxiety which can be accentuated by traumatic events in one's growing up. I used to wish I was deaf and mute so I wouldn't have to talk to people. I always gravitated towards best friends that were extremely outgoing, so wouldn't have to do the talking! It's great that you put yourself out there. Certainly at your job you are surrounded by tons of people. I wish I could say it goes away with age and experience, but unfortunately it's not always the case. Following and focus on our passions makes it easier and makes life in general more liveable! Love your videos. xo Heather

    • @ItsAmandaWan
      @ItsAmandaWan  6 років тому +1

      Yes, it's getting better but still a daily struggle! Thanks for sharing your knowledge and story! See you soon!

  • @Ruhmove
    @Ruhmove 3 роки тому +3

    YESS!! And the worst in hearing someone has talked bad about you and you constantly have to put on a front and talk then on the daily basis at work. Thank you for sharing your story. Best wishes

  • @izzypaynee
    @izzypaynee 4 роки тому +6

    it comes from being rejected and or bullied and it sucks. i freeze up when i have to talk to new people, its horrible

    • @ItsAmandaWan
      @ItsAmandaWan  4 роки тому +2

      i feel you 100%. i always have let myself be stepped all over.

  • @CrisGarcia6
    @CrisGarcia6 6 років тому +7

    I'm also thankful for small creators including you because you work hard on your skills.

  • @Gaibreel
    @Gaibreel 2 роки тому +2

    I don't even feel like my family likes me. They say they love me but I don't even talk during family events. I'm dead silent. It's so embarrassing. My own family I'm afraid or uncomfortable to talk to. It wasn't always this way. Like after I left high school it kinda started with other people. Like my parents friends. I only have 2 friends now I rarely see. Idk it really makes me wanna end it all. Like what's the point. I don't wanna be here I'm ready go into the unknown

    • @ItsAmandaWan
      @ItsAmandaWan  2 роки тому

      i'm so so sorry you're going through this. i promise you have people in your corner and people who will and do love you for who you are! you'll find the right people.

  • @SabrinaRosa02
    @SabrinaRosa02 6 років тому +16

    Great video, I suffer with this as well it’s gotten a lot better thx to therapy but it’s still hard a times

    • @ItsAmandaWan
      @ItsAmandaWan  6 років тому +1

      I'm glad you're getting better!

  • @niagregory2656
    @niagregory2656 3 роки тому +3

    He who feels it knows it.

  • @BryanLeeWilliams
    @BryanLeeWilliams 6 років тому +7

    My Social Anxiety along with my other disorders is so bad I'm on Disability from the government. It's an awful thing to deal with. I'm working on it in therapy, and one day maybe I'll overcome it, but for now I feel stuck.

    • @ItsAmandaWan
      @ItsAmandaWan  6 років тому

      Sending all the positive vibes your way!

  • @VioletBird
    @VioletBird 5 років тому +5

    really appreciate you addressing this. thank you.

  • @alexandersuerof
    @alexandersuerof 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks for sharing. I think it's important to speak up about this, I would like to know at least that this kind of things exist when I was a child or my parents knew about it, so maybe I got help early.

    • @ItsAmandaWan
      @ItsAmandaWan  4 роки тому

      Yes! It's a super important topic.

  • @kaniah8823
    @kaniah8823 4 роки тому +2

    I haven’t talked to a doctor or anything yet but Ik for a fact this is what I have Bc I have this feeling all the time ! Even around some family members

    • @ItsAmandaWan
      @ItsAmandaWan  4 роки тому +2

      yup ! same here - its around anyone !

  • @АлисаВасилькова-п6о

    It is so delitful that in other countries people have the same problems, cos i,m from russia. I was shy in my childhood, on day i cryed when i had to talk with the shop assistant. Also i wish to end this problem, but it is long and difficult way. Our thoughts and customs are very important with working on that problem. A year passed from this video, i'm hope that you make you problem smaller

    • @ItsAmandaWan
      @ItsAmandaWan  4 роки тому

      It’s been getting better but I feel like it’s going to be something I’ll have to work on for the rest of my life! But we got this.

  • @jasmineheath2223
    @jasmineheath2223 6 років тому +1

    Proud of you x

  • @LouisLuzuka
    @LouisLuzuka 6 років тому +1

    I'm so glad you're uploading, so much love for you

  • @brandonknox5564
    @brandonknox5564 2 роки тому

    Wow I can totally relate to everything you are saying here.

  • @davinalynch6323
    @davinalynch6323 4 роки тому +2

    I have social anxiety too I made a video about how its like for me loved the video💜

  • @Lele62209
    @Lele62209 5 років тому +1

    Thank you for opening up. Btw you're hella pretty and you have a dope style.💕💕💕

  • @prasadsawant22
    @prasadsawant22 4 роки тому

    I still having social anxiety, I have scaled it 70%

  • @whitneycameron2948
    @whitneycameron2948 4 роки тому +1

    Came across this video after looking more into anxiety, trying to control my own. Please don't put so much pressure on yourself in terms of the communications field thing. You can be shy and scared to talk to people and still do great in that feild! half of the people in my program are shy or socially anxious and they doing just fine and so will you! There's a place for everyone. I think we put a lot of pressure on ourselves and think everyone is focused on our behaviour when in reality they are just focusing on themselves like we are LOL. Id also recommend reading A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle

  • @galaxyamv8428
    @galaxyamv8428 3 роки тому +1

    5:59 my thoughts 24/7

  • @normajeanlutz2065
    @normajeanlutz2065 6 років тому

    As you can see from my channel, I have a great interest in the subject of social anxiety.

  • @agirlwithdarklife0922
    @agirlwithdarklife0922 4 роки тому +1

    You'll be fine. I'm also suffering from anxiety. Check out my video too please.

  • @rebeccaotoole822
    @rebeccaotoole822 5 років тому

    please someone tell me because I need help I'm to scared to ask my mum for help I dont know how to ask her :(

    • @ItsAmandaWan
      @ItsAmandaWan  5 років тому +1

      i think just tell her how you feel, how life has been affecting you. she will understand, its not easy but i'm sure it'll be okay.

    • @rebeccaotoole822
      @rebeccaotoole822 5 років тому

      @@ItsAmandaWan thank you so much

  • @mirkolaurenza7177
    @mirkolaurenza7177 2 роки тому

    you are very pretty. l have also this anxety. .. you are american or UK?

    • @ItsAmandaWan
      @ItsAmandaWan  2 роки тому

      Canadian!

    • @mirkolaurenza7177
      @mirkolaurenza7177 2 роки тому

      @@ItsAmandaWan l have also this anxiety. ...leads you to loneliness.. l live in italy... in sicily...

  • @Sana_Khan01
    @Sana_Khan01 6 років тому +2

    Great video❤️❤️