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I see you blocked my comment man. I am just trying to get traffic. At least I didn't lie about what the vid was. If you gonna be like that I can unsub and hit dont recommend channel. There are plenty of other police vid channels. ua-cam.com/video/DvPvhnVk5ms/v-deo.html
Sadly it will probably get her killed by an opportunistic criminal looking for weakness, or ANY sign of hesitation. I hate that the 5-10% of the population consists of 95% of these officer’s days of thugs that police deal with over and over again day after day after day ruin it for the rest of us. Now CA and NY and other anti freedom states want to take guns away from law abiding citizens so more criminals feel emboldened. It’s a sick world, if only there were some way to heal us all…
Yeah she was ace sadly this guy didn’t want to listen and made his situation even worse, the stupidly of some people knows no bounds, he was asking for arrest parked at a gas station offering shots to other drivers wtf
I've had a police officer talk me off a ledge before. I still remember his name, Officer Ludlow, 5 years later. Without him I don't think I'd be here. This woman likely saved this kid's life, and I'm sure when he's in a better place, he'll remember that. (Update: I took a screenshot of this thread to show SARGENT Ludlow and sent it to the city police department a couple months ago, so he knows that strangers online are connecting over his help. I felt like he deserved to hear that people are grateful for him in a position that's often demonized these days)
I knew an officer Ludlow in Iron county.....he was a very kind officer always tried to find solutions for first time and more than happy to talk to people and try and help.
Me too bro, I was in the back of a cop car in 2011 at 20…officer macdonald (still remember him) did the same for me and gave me such valuable advice…I’m 32 now and haven’t nor will I ever forget that interraction. Probably saved me a couple felonies too haha. I was about to go off in that car and in intake… haha. Hope you’re well brother. Stay on the straight and narrow.🫡
I looked up his record. My guess is they fined him around 2k USD total from the conviction, counseling and probation fees. His car is totaled, plus whatever fee to remove it.
@@WisconSinner4_4it was literally stated in the video he had a wellness check called in on him earlier in the day because he had made suicidal comments to a friend. It sounds like he was really down on his luck, people in that situation, especially young people, tend to become desperate and impulsive. So while being drunk definitely played a role, he is also definitely suffering from mental health issues
Alot of "criminals" are mentally ill people to varying degrees. Some are redeemmable others aren't. The US tends to fail the people who are through lack of access to mental health programs. That and or funcyionally illiterate. An estimated865% of inmates can't read or read a t a juvenile level. Imagine being a grown man and can't read or write. That's essentially societal condemnation before having the opportunity to even contribute to it.
@@MrGrumpyGillsdepression can lead to alcoholism and vice versa so i think it matches up with him drinking and driving. where do you get your information from that most mentally ill people don’t endanger others? or are you just talking to talk
@@spammy1982 He's repeatedly fucked up and deserves much harder treatment than what he is getting. This is one of these dudes that thinks he can sweet talk his way out of any situation.
The kid needs a brain....he's simply to dim to a) be in college, b) hold a job, c) drive a car, d) drink alcohol or e) be responsible for his own well being. In all seriousness, this guy is borderline institution material.
@@xenn4985How many of these videos do you want that no matter what the driver is going to flee? I think the officer was actually controlling the situation pretty well for someone who was so unstable. Had it been a glass break and grab him as a solo officer, you now risk being dragged, ran over or sh0t in the process. I have helped train crisis negotiation and other high-threat medical/tactical training. She did very well in the situation. As soon as another cop pulled up, he was running no matter what she said. She kept him there as long as possible. I think had she forced his hand and tried to remove him it would have become more dangerous. He still would have ran as well.
@@phl_knives She didn’t even do the bare minimum of removing a drink driver’s keys from the ignition, dude. He could’ve KILLED people when he sped off on her and resumed driving under the influence, and that incident could’ve been prevented to begin with had she at least took his keys.
I disagree with her jumping to a few things like the car getting towed that soon. It definitely didn’t help de-escalate or calm him down any sadly. Would be ideal to get him out misleading him sadly, but she did a great job talking to him, especially once he began breaking down.
They suck but she and the male officer on the scene. They let the dude have his car running all the while they were talking to his ass. I would have said immediately upon contact to turn his damn car off. Gave him over 16 minutes of talking and car still running so he takes off. He went over 70mph could of ran over someone or hit a car with a family inside and killed them off. Talking to a drunk ass psychotic criminal who broken so many laws and still gets probation. Must be nice to be white. A POC with that record and his actions would never have gotten probation period. If he was sober he would have taken off. Also don't call him out right away about his plates not matching. Let him say a bunch of lies and dig himself a bigger hole and then tell him after he screws himself over. She told him right away not real smart. Luckily he was a dumb inexperienced bozo. If this guy was a career criminal she would have been shot already. Too nice and too causal and not ready for life and death quick actions. Hands should be on holster. She is distracted by answering his questions and talking to him. Say stop the f out of the car now. I am not messing around. By messing around she got shot or the driver takes off. She doesn't even know he is on a felony bail. her computer doesn't even work. He could be a wanted arm murderer she wouldn't know and talks so casually with him .She is so lucky and so shitty. Lucky she is still alive and you think she is good? Please she was lucky far from good. Her luck is going to run out with the wrong person.
I can tell she definitely has really good mental health crisis training. I appreciate officers who understand the difference between mental health and an actual threat.
If one county says he is not suspended the other does then it is a clerical error per the DMV. The cops hands are tied so the car must be towed per protocol but a civil tort claim will get your car back, and any damages you suffer. Telling him that would have helped calm him down because it makes sense and is true in some cases
Agreed she was so nice. Only thing is I wish she would've told him how much worse the situation would be if he ran, & how he really WOULD get years if he ran. But if he didn't run it'd be so much less, for being complicit. She can say they'd tell the judge he was cooperative bla bla
I think society needs to allow more compassionate suicides-by-cop. If the police will not protect us, they should at least serve to kill us when we find it convenient and necessary. These people can all be easily replaced.
@@EgaTehPro Yeah he seemed like he thought he had a good shot of getting away & they never get away. Sometimes with a fast car they can get away from the car chase but like you said they'll just show up to your house the next day lol. But I guess he was kind of suicidal so he was probably hoping he'd die in the lake but of course that didn't happen
@@asmodeus1274 ikr. It's ridiculous when people jump to diagnosing relatively uncommon disorders using nothing, but one short clip of video when there's a much more likely cause. He's just drunk and panicking.
F- for the fact she didn't do her job, as she is not a game show host, she is a cop, and when He ran she put many people is danger of getting killed....
@@jackjohnsen8506 you a cop or something? I mean I'm not either but at least I have a general understanding that every situation is different and needs to be handled differently. F- comment
@@fightingecho262 I have a degree in Police science, but I would still have the same thinking if I didn't, and as far as every thing being different for people, that has no bases in law. other wise we would all become Sovereign citizens and do crime as much as we wish...hope you see the point, but I'm thinking you do not have the mental power to understand simple logic,,,dismissed..
One thing I’ve learned from this channel is that Wisconsin cops are some of the nicest, coolest, and most compassionate professionals you’ll ever come across.
@@testchannel6743or maybe because in small towns, everyone is far more likely to know each other or only be separated by one or two degrees, so there's a much stronger sense of community and responsibility among the officers regarding the people they interact with. Add to that, police forces will tend to have a "company culture" that is prevalent among the people who work there, because hiring and screening police admins will look for candidates who fit the vision of that specific organization, so if the top brass are decent and honorable, they're going to recruit and train more cops who will reflect those values. Cops are human. There are good cops and bad cops, because there are good people and bad people. However, people tend to attract like minded people, and people tend to behave in line with the other people they associate with. Good cops train more good cops, and bad cops train more bad ones. That's why police interaction can vary so much between departments.
Considering how drunk, non-compliant and suicidal he was, he stayed pretty respectful with the officer. Cant say I feel sorry for him but I hope he turns things around for himself. Props to that officer for her patience and empathy.
I guess this is a good example of how understanding we should be on anything. Props to YOU for your emphaty. Hope to see more people that are clever enough to evaluate things like that.
He should’ve caught a bullet and every officer on the scene should be fired or retrained. We all know those people can be very very barbaric it’s in their blood
Having a loving mother who struggles through poverty is part of the reason why people turn to crime. They want to cheat their way through money and get involved with shady folks but it's just young ignorance that turns them to these things. It's too easy to try and claim the mom or dad is at fault but that just lacks nuance.
@YAT 97 Ya, but if what he said is true - He gets that on top of probation violation for his previous false imprisonment charge which he said is 15 year minimum.
Yeah it’s all cute and compassionate until he runs over someone’s kid. Should of been dragged out of the car and put into cuffs long before he got away.
I find it funny how you referred to her as “mother”, since this whole video sounded like an argument between a kid and his mom. Aside from that, it was actually kind of tragic.
dude convinced himself in his head exactly how the situation would go down. all the stuff the officer said to him went in one ear and out the other, he already made the decision the second she came up to his window.
He's emotionally disturbed and not processing or rationalizing what's being asked and said. Best thing you can do is slow down and process the confusion. Don't feed into the emotional disturbance. Bring clarity to the situation. Everything falls into place naturally
@@juststop022 couldn’t have said it better. As someone who struggles with depression on a daily basis, the times I feel I need to end things are usually over something so minuscule. So that, coupled with intoxication and previous trouble he had, it makes sense why he felt it was truly the end. Most people who survive suicide attempts will often admit they instantly regretted what they done and all the things that lead them to that point became obsolete. So the patience these officers had with him was extremely fortunate and valuable. I’m sure someone is going to say it’s because of his race or something ignorant, but it’s not. He was 18. Emotional maturity is usually reached in your early 20’s. Which was likely why they only gave him probation.
Dude needed some tough love. If there were a male cop he wouldn’t have driven into the lake cause they would’ve had his ass yanked out of the car as soon as he threatened to drive off.
wahh wahh, not everything is mental health related. This kid is just a punk who doesn't want the responsibilities, but the liberals like to blame it on mental health.
awww that poor officer sounded so upset when she was explaining to the other officer what he said! she seems like she has a very empathetic heart! more people need to be like her
she failed completely in her job, when That guy ran, She put people in danger, and she should have made sure he did not leave that Gas station EVER!!!!
He could of killed you and your family by driving under the influence, reckless, 70 mph on a 35 speed limit because the cop didn't handled this by tasing him and get him out the car properly. Why the f u call that a good job being so nice so he can do whatever he want. Oh yeah we need more soft cops letting criminals do whatever they want even putting in danger other life's.
Until your wife and kids are on the same highway and gets hit and killed by this suicidal subject. This is not protecting and serving the public, only self preservation on her part.
This is one of the hardest but kindest things I've ever seen a PD do for a troubled guy. You can really feel the patience and all the support given by the first responders to preserve human life. True meaning of Protect and Serve.
The female LEO did not know if he had a weapon in his car and she was physically incapable of backing up any attempt to get him out of his car and detain him. You are confusing Law Enforcement with Mental Health Counseling. She should apply for the latter job.
@@chrispnw2547you and I both know in America that will never happen. American politicians don't give a s*** about the people's mental health they only care about their next paycheck from whatever multi-billionaire
I used to get into a lot of trouble myself. I got lock up a few times. Now I just stay home in my room watching UA-cam and eating on weekends when I’m not working . I also have other hobbies. Videos like this reinforce me to continue to chill .
@@tmacfan16 He’s comparing his actions earlier in his life to this boy in the video, and reminiscing on how he used to get in trouble. Why are you hating? Big ups to you Mario.
This cop is absolutely amazing, we need more like her. Alcohol & suicidal ideation is a horrible combination, and you can tell she tried her best to de-escalate the situation when I don't think many other cops would have listened to him for as long as she did. I feel bad for this kid and hope he cleans himself up.
I keep seeing this on these videos, praise for cops' "de-escalation". I also keep seeing the criminals in the videos taking that as weakness and then escalating like hell, lol
Most 'mental health problems' are just ways of describing how much of an asshole someone is, I'm tired of people acting like some diagnosis somehow alleviates responsibility and self-control and talk about them like they're "victims". It's like addiction. Addiction isn't actually real. Anyone can quit anything cold-turkey through enough willpower. Either the mentally ill are some kind of weird zombies not in control of their actions, which means they're impossible to rehabilitate and should be locked away forever, or they're actually in control of their actions and they're just such scumbags we literally had to invent a medical term to describe it. A suicidal person isn't inside their own head screaming 'no! no! no!' while an alien force forces their body to reach for a gun. It still requires free will to do everything they do. Did you ever notice that you never see animals in the wild commit suicide?
@@kidbuusosa agree that it isn't taken serious enough but I think it's getting better rather than getting worse. Not long ago people with mental health issues were just belittled and outcast in society. They still often are but at least a lot more people are becoming aware of it
He’s a big boy. He could have gotten help but chose to put everyone’s lives in danger. I wonder if you’d feel sympathy if he killer someone you love? Oh but remember, he has mental health issues 🙂
Guy: This is your one chance to put me in handcuffs! Officer: I don’t even want to put you in handcuffs! Can you roll your window down? Guy: No cause you’ll drag me out and put me in handcuffs! He is totally out of it and making no sense.
I honestly thought he was just exaggerating before I read the comments and finished the video. I was like bro stop you’re fine but he really doesn’t think he’s okay.
@@GabesLifeStory No, it is "you're stupid." Stupid people are accountable for their actions in exactly the same way that anyone "being" stupid is accountable for their actions. Permanent vs temporary stupidity is irrelevant.
Its the absolute worst thing for any person. There are much safer alternatives if you want to have a good time. Alcohol is purely destructive. 0 benefit to drinking.
Even after he ran from her, she still showed complete empathy and sympathy. She deserves awards for being a tremendous officer. I hope he gets the help he needs.
Public safety is out the window I guess. Good thing no one was in his way while driving 70 mph to kill himself. When Ruben took command of the situation, it was over. Bad end result. Think of all the oil and gas that now pollutes that lake. No consequences, he will do it again until someone gets killed.
Are you trolling? This woman is a liability to anyone she engages with, and every officer who has the displeasure of having her on their scene. Her inability to control the situation, not only put this idiot in danger of killing himself, but anyone who was on the road that night. She did this as wrong as she possibly could have. She should be fired.
This is a perfectly example of how much drinking actually changes your way of thinking . He was in a dark spot in life and he was trying to get through it (given in a destructive toxic way) but the alcohol really made him think the world was even more against him . And a perfect example of how cops should deal with someone emotionally/ mentally unstable . This is a cop I respect.
The officer deserves an award. You can see that she really does want the best for him and tries to help him. We need more people like her in the world.
Ruben was served 3 years probation and not 15 years. C’mon kid, the outcome is all that matters in life. Do something great in your life. I am rooting for you.
On the flip side, if he wastes that generosity, he deserves what ever bad things come his way as a result. There are plenty of good people out there who make mistakes that don't get treated even half this well by the system. I'm rooting for him too, but if he throws this kindness away, he's worse than dirt.
I feel for him. Hopefully this is the wake up call he needed. I went through alcoholism and had a wake up call like this. It took that to quit drinking and now I’m over 7 years sober and have a great job and a 4 year old son. Some of us just need a serious wake up like this to finally see the light and make constructive instead of destructive decisions in life. Hoping this is will also be the case with this kid.
yea, sounded like she was on the verge of tears, at least until she realized he hadn't hurt himself and was still just being a dumbass. That says a lot about her compassion but I *do* have to wonder if that kind of personality should really be a cop. There are a lot of valid comments criticizing the fact that she basically let a drunk driver run, and how bad that could've been if he had hit someone. I guess she didnt have much choice though, and the same thing couldve happened to a less-compassionate male cop in the same situation.
@@SpydersByte You're right that could have happened to anybody. I feel like if it had been a more aggressive male cop he would have taken off sooner. You can tell that there was a lot going on with him. He was not mentally stable at this point and she was trying to help as much as she could. I feel like more cops should be this way honestly I think it would help more people instead of just automatically sending them to jail which doesn't help anybody.
Of course it did. He’s a self pitying, a-hole. The fire department should’ve just got their hose out and put more water into the lake so his car would sink.
She was patient as can be. You can tell that she cared and was truly trying to help him. It’s sad that he is so confused about what would happen. I sure hope that he can get some mental health. I’ve had a few officers help me so much and was so patient with me when I was messed up and they helped me so much. We sure need more officers like this one and the ones that helped me. I have been diagnosed as bi-polar with schizophrenia.
He seems to feel like everyone is against him. He might just need some mental help and not prison time. But that'd just me. He clearly didn't want to hurt anyone and even when super drunk he was respectful
It's hilarious how the cop was like, "Hand me the keys." "No." "Yes.". It kinda sounded like a mother and a son arguing, haha. It's awesome how cool this cop was. She wasn't just like, "Get out of the car, you're being detained!".
Blown away by how good this officer was. A true professional, a credit to her police force. So glad it didn't turn out differently. Hope Ruben gets the help he needs and turns his life around.
@@Booker.T no she’s going to save lives. If it was up to the other thugs this kid would be dead, the city/county would be sued for millions and the tax payers would once again foot the bill. You’re either 12 yrs old or in the blue gang yourself.
I watch these videos very often, and can't deny that I can be very critical of law enforcement. With that being said, this officer is an absolute gem of a human being.
Rubin: "I do NOT want to mess up my only one chance!" Also Rubin: Drives unensured vehicle with false plates without having a driving licence while being drunk after offering alcohol shots to motorists into a lake after refusing to comply with officers
@@RustyR3volva Ok, clevercloggs...maybe he meant 'unensured' meaning the officer failed to 'ensure' him that things weren't that bad, so he left the scene feeling 'unensured' about his future. Pipe,Smoke it.
I like how the officer said “I’m not sure why you think one drinking is going to get you revoked” because you know in her mind she’s thinking “this *is* Wisconsin, after all” 😂😂😂
@@liamGta5-TheTatesWin1400you’ve gotta think about this logically She likely cannot physically overpower him and remove him from the vehicle Any large male cop by himself would probably have lost patience and attempted that already She cannot afford to do that and knows if she tries to force him, she will likely be overpowered I’m not sure if she’s waiting for backup (haven’t finished the video) but it’s pretty obvious what she’s doing. She’s using her speaking skills to try and de-escalate this guy and prevent him from running. She can’t really stop him any other way She’s doing what she can with her skill set and if you ask me, it’s impressive she bought as much time as she did
@@counterfeit4450 You're right and I agree with you, but please for the love of God resist the temptation to open your mouth (keyboard) until you've seen the whole story.
@@woodchippah1825 UPS would hire him. That's probably his best option. I know a guy with felonies on his record who worked at UPS. They'll hire anybody.
@@dangannon9970 you say that like it's a good thing and not a complete abomination that mistakes people make as kids mark them for life in your country and ruin their whole lives. It's embarassing. It has already led to serious decay in your society.
Eighteen years old and he already has a probation officer. You have ALREADY messed up Ruben! AGAIN. Driving on a suspended license, plates don't match the car, no registration on the vehicle, more than enough reasons to be arrested. You shouldn't be held accountable? Stop doing S*** then! Turn yourself around. This officer was very patient and was really trying to help him. I hope he gets his life together.
Hopefully, this kid takes a serious U-turn and gets his life straight. This could have turned out so much worse. That officer really went above and beyond being so calm and trying to work with the young man to talk him down. If I got into some kind of mental health crisis I would hope an officer like this responds.
I got the upmost respect for that officer, she's exactly the kind of person we need to be in the police force. Thank you for your compassion and patience for someone hurting and in need.
@@RunstarHomer I'm not sure about that. It's always better to try to deescalate, rather than start with military mode right away. It genuinely scares people and, most of the time, makes things worse. Obviously, if there's something dangerous going on, I'm not saying to stand there and say everything's gonna be okay, but in situations that start off without violence, it's always best to try and keep it that way. Yelling and physical contact will only escalate the situation -- we've seen this countless times. The type of cops that do that are the reason that more than a third of Americans support a decrease in police funding.
This officer sounds like someone you would love to be friends with, what an outstanding person. She handled the situation the best way considering the circumstances.
All she had to do was literally get the keys from him. And escort him home and when he sobers up he can get the car. Boom problem solved no escalation. As someone who wants to be a cop they problem solving skills are shit and they put forth very little effort.
Honestly I hope he finds some sort of peace in his life. I was arrested last year when I was 24 years old and I thought it was the end of the world as well. Its NOT the end of the world. Learn your lesson the first time and make good changes in your life, kid. Respect to the officer as well because she tried to reason so hard with the kid while doing her job at the same time.
I'm with you I was in and out of jail all through my teens. Everything felt so hopeless like i'd never get out of the cycle of reoffending over some stupid shit or whatever. Now, I'm 25 in college doing pretty good and a bartender in the evenings. Life is great. Often times things feel really bad but eventually things can get better.
@@ThyCorruptor I appreciate your comment. It is hard (especially at first) but life goes on and being so young there is a future for sure. Keep it up AP
It's one thing to drink and drive, it's another to drink and drive when you're 18 years old, it's ANOTHER thing to offer people shots of alcohol while you're drinking and driving and 18 years old. Good lord.
The more I watch these videos the more I learn how many really good officers are out there. I don’t think I’d be this patient. Not only this but the officer was very compassionate. The guy clearly is struggling mentally but if he follow his probation, he’ll be done by age 21. He has time and a chance to turn everything around, just like the officer said.
Exactly what I was thinking. Once she determined the car isn't registered, he's suspended and alcohol is involved, should have called for backup. This guy seemed like trouble from the get go.
if she would have called for backup sooner he surely would just have taken off earlier. there is nothing wrong with trying to calm someone down, only because it didn't work that time doesn't mean it never works.
@@emilystatenberg615 nah Ive been out in the cold like that and sometimes even with multiple layers u begin to shake and it becomes hard to even compose yourself. I woulda been so irritated and cold I would looked like I was tweaking on crack! Shaking like a tree.
Most officers absolutely do. Anyone who is a first responder at one point (Even if it changes down the road.) got into this line of work because they are empathetic and care about their community and people. Being a cop is to help- not destroy peoples lives. I hope you can open your mind a bit more and not paint officers with the same brush stroke. They’re people too.
This literally breaks my heart, as I've had a family member do something similar when suicidal. He's so young, I hope he gets help and gets better. These police officers were so compassionate.
Dude shouldn't be drinking and driving. "I'm in college" more like "I'm wasting money on an education" because you're drinking as a minor, your driving while intoxicated, you're already on probation for apparently a serious charge...I don't feel bad for him at all. I'm only at 12:50 right now, but I hope he gets actual prison time.
Essentially "I keep committing crimes and I'm going to be held to account for those crimes and I don't think that's fair so I'm going to commit more crimes". High IQ levels
Very nice officer an not getting hostile at any moment. Sounds like a great person an wants people to do good in life. She needs a key to the city. Wish her the best in the career.
God, I'm 21, that could have easily been me with how depressed I was and drinking /smoking with my friends. I'm happy they really didn't ruin his life and got him the help he needed. That female cop was the perfect example of how to help someone who really needs it. Edit: that shiz was years ago when I was 17 lmao
I was hoping it didn't end up in tragedy. This kid broke my heart and this female officer was so compassionate and was there to really listen and deescalated the situation for the kid's benefit. She is a great human being.
This female officer should be a national trainer for departments. The professionalism and calmness she showed is a clear example of how to handle situations.
Absolutely not. Change one fact and you will see why she is ill-equipped for the job. Driver is suicidal and has a weapon concealed next to his driver's seat.
@@chrispnw2547and a male cop could do better? Guns kill both genders and male cops are at the forfront of majority of all corruption cases and escalations.
@@HamSlicerVery telling that you think de-escalation is ‘therapy.’ Tell me, was she supposed to rip this suicidal man out of his car for not complying? Should she have thrown him in cuffs the second she saw the tea? Advocating for state sanctioned violence only ends badly for everyone.
This is just extraordinary. You got the most patient, respectful caring police officer on the planet, along with the most honest criminal on the planet. Homeboy just collecting different charges every two minutes. I feel for the kid though and glad he got a break. Hope he gets some help.
@@misseclipse7415 did she? At the end the narrator said that he got his car licence temporary removed and That he can't get into bars for a while. He wasn't thrown in jail. If he did then can you provide evidence? Edit: yes that's what I thought 😎
He should have gone to prison. Normal people don't get felony charges at 18. He hasn't done a single thing right in his life, and his car was the perfect example. He wasn't honest; he went on ans on about how he was going to get 35 years for false imprisonment, a crime with a maximum of six years in prison. The idea that criminals are just people society has failed needs to stop. He's nothing but a thug.
It’s heartbreaking to hear her try so hard, but he’s absolutely given up on himself already. She’s clearly trying mediate the situation to a solution with the least amount of damage to him, and he’s just flat out already decided it’s all over for himself
12:24 Nothing feels more eerie than hearing a Car’s engine fire up for the final time That Ford Focus Estate started up for the final time, before driving into a lake and eventually on its way to the crusher. It’s like seeing police chases of Car’s driving off before crashing and being completely destroyed.
It sucks to be in a mental state like this. I don’t think it was the alcohol I think it was some depression and other things causing him to act this way. I hope he gets the help that he needs.
@@dewilew2137 you're the type of person I will probably have kids and your kids have mental health problems and you would think that's just them being disrespectful kids or something so when they grow up and end up being criminals you'll be confused on what happened
This woman has to be one of the kindest caring persons. Hats off to her how reasonable and understanding she is trying to talk this guy into some kind of sense....
@@always-alicia She.. could have stopped him from committing further damage to himself and putting other people in danger by tazing him when he admitted to being drunk and refusing to turn over his keys. So... how did she do a good job exactly? They wasted 3 hours on this guy...
@@baconoverlord7982 You're an idiot if you think she can pull out her tazer and successfully incapacitate him, when he wouldnt even let her touch it and eyeballed it all the time. Tazers also dont really go well against clothing. This couldve seriously escalated the situation even further
@@SirZipper No, not even close. She tried to deescalate. That didn't work. She should have given him commands a couple of times then escalated. They don't have all night to spend holding someone's hand.
@@QargZer you don't understand the comment. Legally yes but he didn't act like an adult. The same if you get a woman pregnant and have a child, doesn't make you a father if you aren't there to raise the kid
The officer was incredible. She did a great job at deescalating. You can tell that this kid has been spiraling, even just self-sabotaging. I hope he's doing better.
the officer should have removed him from his vehicle asap to prevent him from driving away and endangering the lives of innocent people ! which he did and the officer is lucky he didn’t kill anyone
I don't give a fuck if he's doing better. I just hope he's either being treated or locked up so he can't put more innocent lives at risk through his criminal behavior. He is not the important person here, even though he clearly thinks the entire world revolves around him, as do many of the weepy bleeding hearts in these comments.
What is wrong with you, she did an awful job. She's not a social worker, she is a cop. Her job was to avoid the obvious chase that was going to happen.
She’s such a sweet officer! I appreciate her and this crew very much. They know that he’s going thru some things.. I hope he can turn things around and that everything gets better 🙏🏼
Yeah such a great officer 🙄 let the suicidal drunk flee the scene giving him a chance to kill some innocent people. There is a time to be patient with people, this was not it.
She really is a good Cop. She knows he is suicidal and afraid and responds accordingly. The poor kid is a mess. He sounds like he doesn’t have family to get him through. Good for her for throwing him a lifeline and not just taking him out of the car and throwing him on the ground and cuffing him, like others would have already.
@@Simonj2109 and you sir genius, what a bright outlook on life and also so narcissistic to think you know all. I very much doubt you have much education in the area. Just doing some trolling? Here have a 🪝 and a 🪱, it may help. You have you a good day now, ya hear?
Sleeping is dead on. "Send a 'crisis intervention' team to help these people." Until they drive off with a BAC of close to .2 and kill your kids and wife. Or pull a knife on the assisting official that is not armed. Some people are really stupid. You must be one of them.
@@Andrew-FKF what a charmer you are. Let’s hope you don’t ever need someone to give a shit when you’re losing it. I have found it’s people like you that will have something happen to You and you’ll end up having mental Issues. I hope people treat you the same way you want them treated. I really do. ❤️
13:05 LOL The officers voice ecoing out in the darkness by the lake 😂 Ruben get your hands up ! Him yelling im going away now for 50 years! Ine day i hope he can look back on this and see how much hes grown since then maybe see the humor
My heart is breaking for this kid, I'm so thankful this was the office who got on scene. She handled everything as well as she could. I hope the counseling and years of sobriety help Ruben - the fact someone called in a wellness check confirms he has good people around him. I hope they continue to support him these next 3 years.
He wrongfully imprisoned someone else, probably a female, and he seems hellbent on getting into more trouble. He's immature and irresponsible. I don't feel bad for him. Guys get away with crap that women don't get away with, just b/c they are male.
He doesn't give a shit about killing people to avoid consequences of his stupid actions. Fuck him. The officer should have done their job instead of playing social worker too, awful performance.
Why feel sorry for him?....he's the most irresponsible kid I've ever seen. He's driving drunk in an unregistered vehicle with a suspended license while on probation after threatening suicide and handing out drinks in public..........and then tries to blame the cop for the fact that he might end up back in jail for breaching probation. This kid is proof that you can't fix stupid.
Why feel sorry for his dumb, douchebag? I feel sorry for this nice police officer who had to deal with this bulls*** everyday. He knew what he did, he is driving without a licence, which is irresponsible and dangerous, he doesn't give a care. No sympathy for criminals and idiots.
This officer was so patient, compassionate, and you can just tell she really cares about trying to help out her community and the people in it. We need MORE officers and just people in general like her.
I think I got pulled over by this officer once. She was great. Edit: I live in this town, I was looking for videos near where I live that's how I found this one.
@@Dexedus not only that he’s a teen. He still growing. 10 years later he’s gonna look back at all this and realize how uncalled for that was. Honesly feel bad. People would say he knows better but probably not. He might be goin through shit that’s deep asf and don’t know how to handle his emotions clearly.
Sentencing more people to prison isn’t gonna fix anything…. How about we try to get all the people that are in on non violent drug offenses out first before complaining about someone getting probation, also a good chunk of our labor done by humans in the US is done by prisoners for an extremely low rate. It’s slavery. We need to redo our prison system. It’s not that simple man
@@bgarza18 it’s called rehabilitation. We have more people in prison than they do in China! Also remember having them in prison our tax payer dollars go to PRIVATE prisons usually. The more people in prison the better for Wall Street. No I’m not making that up. It’s a known fact. Also sometimes people need help and not harsh punishment. Nobody would steal if people could get well paying jobs. I’ve been down before and you don’t understand how bad I wanted to steal cause I was disparate for something. I even debated steal some shoes cause my shoes were hurting my feet so much and shoes had holes where the water would get in when I worked or walked around under the rain. Some jobs pay you nothing! I’m better now but things aren’t perfect yet.
Kudos for this cop because she tried so hard to be compassionate and help him not make these mistakes. I hope this kid gets his life together and can get past all this!
He sounds like he was doing for attention he may have been sad but he wasn't serious about killing himself and being drunk only made it worse and the fact he doesn't know the law is even worse
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This female officer genuinely sounds like a compassionate person who actually cares about people. I wish her the best in her life and career.
Ya well said bud
@@13Percent52PercentYikes 🤨
Rare.
Sadly it will probably get her killed by an opportunistic criminal looking for weakness, or ANY sign of hesitation. I hate that the 5-10% of the population consists of 95% of these officer’s days of thugs that police deal with over and over again day after day after day ruin it for the rest of us. Now CA and NY and other anti freedom states want to take guns away from law abiding citizens so more criminals feel emboldened. It’s a sick world, if only there were some way to heal us all…
Yeah she was ace sadly this guy didn’t want to listen and made his situation even worse, the stupidly of some people knows no bounds, he was asking for arrest parked at a gas station offering shots to other drivers wtf
“This situation is recoverable, I promise you it is” - that part made me tear up so much. She is amazing human & officer.
I feel the same watching it now, kindness and compassion really are crucial for this awesome woman officer. I love to see real emotions
If i was in this kid’s situation, that comment from the officer would’ve helped me so much.
mf named shelby 😂😂😂😂😂😂
She is so sweet
@ba-dam9991 that's not what's being said. She is saying if you sont run, there will be less charges. There's no way she was just going to let him go
I think the cop is a mom, she has a mom voice. I think it’s a mixture of caring, firmness, and never ending patience
This kid definitely was never shown the firmness part growing up.
Maybe a firm backhand at a young age would have fixed that
And he took full advantage of her momness. He NEVER would have talked to a male officer like that.
@@MikeGlasses true that
@@MikeGlasses kind, but firm. Firm, but kind.
@@arianaalioth ehhh maybe? But I’ve seen these guys mouth off at male cops in the same manner.
I've had a police officer talk me off a ledge before. I still remember his name, Officer Ludlow, 5 years later. Without him I don't think I'd be here. This woman likely saved this kid's life, and I'm sure when he's in a better place, he'll remember that.
(Update: I took a screenshot of this thread to show SARGENT Ludlow and sent it to the city police department a couple months ago, so he knows that strangers online are connecting over his help. I felt like he deserved to hear that people are grateful for him in a position that's often demonized these days)
I knew an officer Ludlow in Iron county.....he was a very kind officer always tried to find solutions for first time and more than happy to talk to people and try and help.
@@MrHaunt13666 no way! That's EXACTLY who I'm talking about! I'm in Cedar!
this is an awesome interaction holy shit@@Usedw0tm8
i love this comment thread😭😭❤
Me too bro, I was in the back of a cop car in 2011 at 20…officer macdonald (still remember him) did the same for me and gave me such valuable advice…I’m 32 now and haven’t nor will I ever forget that interraction. Probably saved me a couple felonies too haha. I was about to go off in that car and in intake… haha. Hope you’re well brother. Stay on the straight and narrow.🫡
I've never seen someone so uncompliant but also honest at the same time
He was scared. I can understand that and I think the judge did too.
@@Houstonhavocgaming what did the judge rule?
@@XDMIIIIIIIII 17:54
I looked up his record. My guess is they fined him around 2k USD total from the conviction, counseling and probation fees. His car is totaled, plus whatever fee to remove it.
Honest or self snitchin lol🤣😂🙌
This is so sad. That kid was clearly struggling mentally and the officer did the best she could. We need more police officers like her.
@@WisconSinner4_4it was literally stated in the video he had a wellness check called in on him earlier in the day because he had made suicidal comments to a friend. It sounds like he was really down on his luck, people in that situation, especially young people, tend to become desperate and impulsive. So while being drunk definitely played a role, he is also definitely suffering from mental health issues
Alot of "criminals" are mentally ill people to varying degrees. Some are redeemmable others aren't. The US tends to fail the people who are through lack of access to mental health programs. That and or funcyionally illiterate. An estimated865% of inmates can't read or read a t a juvenile level. Imagine being a grown man and can't read or write. That's essentially societal condemnation before having the opportunity to even contribute to it.
@@erikwebster1608u in too deep bro
@@erikwebster1608 Most mentally ill people never endanger others. It should not be used as an excuse for dangerous behaviour.
@@MrGrumpyGillsdepression can lead to alcoholism and vice versa so i think it matches up with him drinking and driving. where do you get your information from that most mentally ill people don’t endanger others? or are you just talking to talk
This kid really needs help. The female officer actually cares about his situations.
Seems to me this boy needs to have some damn consequences!
@@JanieBgrand Awe Jane, that is very un 2020's of ya. This lad is hurting so bad he needs to keep crosses hanging from his ears!
@@spammy1982 He's repeatedly fucked up and deserves much harder treatment than what he is getting. This is one of these dudes that thinks he can sweet talk his way out of any situation.
He’s just a little asshole who deserves all the prison time he gets
The kid needs a brain....he's simply to dim to a) be in college, b) hold a job, c) drive a car, d) drink alcohol or e) be responsible for his own well being. In all seriousness, this guy is borderline institution material.
That contact officer is outstanding. She was both trying to be compassionate and firm all well maintaining situational composure.
Firm? How was she firm? She just let him drive off endangering the public...
@@xenn4985How many of these videos do you want that no matter what the driver is going to flee? I think the officer was actually controlling the situation pretty well for someone who was so unstable. Had it been a glass break and grab him as a solo officer, you now risk being dragged, ran over or sh0t in the process.
I have helped train crisis negotiation and other high-threat medical/tactical training. She did very well in the situation. As soon as another cop pulled up, he was running no matter what she said. She kept him there as long as possible. I think had she forced his hand and tried to remove him it would have become more dangerous. He still would have ran as well.
@@phl_knives She didn’t even do the bare minimum of removing a drink driver’s keys from the ignition, dude. He could’ve KILLED people when he sped off on her and resumed driving under the influence, and that incident could’ve been prevented to begin with had she at least took his keys.
I disagree with her jumping to a few things like the car getting towed that soon. It definitely didn’t help de-escalate or calm him down any sadly. Would be ideal to get him out misleading him sadly, but she did a great job talking to him, especially once he began breaking down.
This officer should be a hostage negotiator. She is awesome.
She does a perfect playing their innocence until proven guilty
They suck but she and the male officer on the scene. They let the dude have his car running all the while they were talking to his ass. I would have said immediately upon contact to turn his damn car off. Gave him over 16 minutes of talking and car still running so he takes off. He went over 70mph could of ran over someone or hit a car with a family inside and killed them off. Talking to a drunk ass psychotic criminal who broken so many laws and still gets probation. Must be nice to be white. A POC with that record and his actions would never have gotten probation period. If he was sober he would have taken off. Also don't call him out right away about his plates not matching. Let him say a bunch of lies and dig himself a bigger hole and then tell him after he screws himself over. She told him right away not real smart. Luckily he was a dumb inexperienced bozo. If this guy was a career criminal she would have been shot already. Too nice and too causal and not ready for life and death quick actions. Hands should be on holster. She is distracted by answering his questions and talking to him. Say stop the f out of the car now. I am not messing around. By messing around she got shot or the driver takes off. She doesn't even know he is on a felony bail. her computer doesn't even work. He could be a wanted arm murderer she wouldn't know and talks so casually with him .She is so lucky and so shitty. Lucky she is still alive and you think she is good? Please she was lucky far from good. Her luck is going to run out with the wrong person.
I can tell she definitely has really good mental health crisis training. I appreciate officers who understand the difference between mental health and an actual threat.
If one county says he is not suspended the other does then it is a clerical error per the DMV. The cops hands are tied so the car must be towed per protocol but a civil tort claim will get your car back, and any damages you suffer. Telling him that would have helped calm him down because it makes sense and is true in some cases
she failed completely as She should have called back up, when He refused to get out of the car...grade F. in police work
Props to this officer for truly making an effort to talk Ruben down and showing such patience and empathy.
Agreed she was so nice. Only thing is I wish she would've told him how much worse the situation would be if he ran, & how he really WOULD get years if he ran. But if he didn't run it'd be so much less, for being complicit. She can say they'd tell the judge he was cooperative bla bla
@@frankmarano1118 Also that they know his identity, where he lives etc. He seemed to think if he ran that they would never be able to find him.
I think society needs to allow more compassionate suicides-by-cop. If the police will not protect us, they should at least serve to kill us when we find it convenient and necessary. These people can all be easily replaced.
@@EgaTehPro Yeah he seemed like he thought he had a good shot of getting away & they never get away. Sometimes with a fast car they can get away from the car chase but like you said they'll just show up to your house the next day lol. But I guess he was kind of suicidal so he was probably hoping he'd die in the lake but of course that didn't happen
She should have pulled him out of the car as soon as she saw the open containers...
This man is way too far away from La Crosse to be acting like this
This comment unfortunately has alot of truth behind it
Funny you say La Crosse. Datline NBC TCAP star Rischer sounds like him and looks like a La Crosse player.
Forget la crosse Wisconsin clearly as a whole is just all like la crosse
I don’t get it
@@Zahra.y7 most the videos from code blue are from la crosse
I'm so impressed with the female officer.
So much of care and warmth when she reasoned with the boy.
Probably an off-duty mother and on-duty cop.
I think if you’re a mother you’re always on duty hahaha
This officer sounds like a genuinely nice lady.
So so you
Cops are trained to pretend to be your friend in order to solicit incriminating information. Just another scummy tactic.
right she’s so nice 😭
Na she was just dealing with a white guy. They usually nicer when that happens
^^1000%
"Have you ever gotten in trouble?"
"No, I'm on felony bail." Sounds like you are currently in trouble.
Then says he just got pulled over in another county, and proceeded to let the officer know he just had a visit with his PO
@@juststop022 Also possible signs of intoxication and lack of talent for lying. Potentially, all of the above. (Including your observation.)
@@juststop022 Yeah, it's also called intoxication.
@@juststop022 Nah, just a drunk 18 year old kid
@@asmodeus1274 ikr. It's ridiculous when people jump to diagnosing relatively uncommon disorders using nothing, but one short clip of video when there's a much more likely cause.
He's just drunk and panicking.
A+ for the cop. She was the best example of being a great human while here on Earth.
F- for the fact she didn't do her job, as she is not a game show host, she is a cop, and when He ran she put many people is danger of getting killed....
@@jackjohnsen8506 F- comment
@@jackjohnsen8506 you a cop or something? I mean I'm not either but at least I have a general understanding that every situation is different and needs to be handled differently. F- comment
@@fightingecho262 I have a degree in Police science, but I would still have the same thinking if I didn't, and as far as every thing being different for people, that has no bases in law. other wise we would all become Sovereign citizens and do crime as much as we wish...hope you see the point, but I'm thinking you do not have the mental power to understand simple logic,,,dismissed..
@@jackjohnsen8506 lmao
One thing I’ve learned from this channel is that Wisconsin cops are some of the nicest, coolest, and most compassionate professionals you’ll ever come across.
Yeah knowing every interaction is going to be uploaded to UA-cam will do that.
@@testchannel6743or maybe because in small towns, everyone is far more likely to know each other or only be separated by one or two degrees, so there's a much stronger sense of community and responsibility among the officers regarding the people they interact with.
Add to that, police forces will tend to have a "company culture" that is prevalent among the people who work there, because hiring and screening police admins will look for candidates who fit the vision of that specific organization, so if the top brass are decent and honorable, they're going to recruit and train more cops who will reflect those values.
Cops are human. There are good cops and bad cops, because there are good people and bad people. However, people tend to attract like minded people, and people tend to behave in line with the other people they associate with. Good cops train more good cops, and bad cops train more bad ones. That's why police interaction can vary so much between departments.
Considering how drunk, non-compliant and suicidal he was, he stayed pretty respectful with the officer. Cant say I feel sorry for him but I hope he turns things around for himself. Props to that officer for her patience and empathy.
I guess this is a good example of how understanding we should be on anything. Props to YOU for your emphaty. Hope to see more people that are clever enough to evaluate things like that.
@@noi8017 english plz
@@Toxyethanol nah
He should’ve caught a bullet and every officer on the scene should be fired or retrained. We all know those people can be very very barbaric it’s in their blood
@@noi8017 ohkai budi jus don krie ubowt beeyin mysuhndrstud
That cop deserves a medal for being the loving mother that kid obviously never got. Hope he gets the second chance she gave him and uses it well.
Jesus what a weird thing to say.
Having a loving mother who struggles through poverty is part of the reason why people turn to crime. They want to cheat their way through money and get involved with shady folks but it's just young ignorance that turns them to these things. It's too easy to try and claim the mom or dad is at fault but that just lacks nuance.
@YAT 97 Ya, but if what he said is true - He gets that on top of probation violation for his previous false imprisonment charge which he said is 15 year minimum.
Yeah it’s all cute and compassionate until he runs over someone’s kid. Should of been dragged out of the car and put into cuffs long before he got away.
I find it funny how you referred to her as “mother”, since this whole video sounded like an argument between a kid and his mom.
Aside from that, it was actually kind of tragic.
dude convinced himself in his head exactly how the situation would go down. all the stuff the officer said to him went in one ear and out the other, he already made the decision the second she came up to his window.
He's emotionally disturbed and not processing or rationalizing what's being asked and said. Best thing you can do is slow down and process the confusion. Don't feed into the emotional disturbance. Bring clarity to the situation. Everything falls into place naturally
@@juststop022 Nah, he’s just drunk
@@juststop022 couldn’t have said it better. As someone who struggles with depression on a daily basis, the times I feel I need to end things are usually over something so minuscule. So that, coupled with intoxication and previous trouble he had, it makes sense why he felt it was truly the end.
Most people who survive suicide attempts will often admit they instantly regretted what they done and all the things that lead them to that point became obsolete. So the patience these officers had with him was extremely fortunate and valuable.
I’m sure someone is going to say it’s because of his race or something ignorant, but it’s not. He was 18. Emotional maturity is usually reached in your early 20’s. Which was likely why they only gave him probation.
he was fairly accurate how it will play out for him in the justice system
He’s paranoid & crazy af…
What an amazing police officer. She seems so sweet and compassionate. It's actually amazing. She genuinely cares about him and his career.
Dude needed some tough love. If there were a male cop he wouldn’t have driven into the lake cause they would’ve had his ass yanked out of the car as soon as he threatened to drive off.
She endangered the public...
Damn this made me emotional. The human mental state is so delicate and the compassion of this officer is unbelievably heartwarming.
too bad Everyone around us Makes us Feel Certain Ways 🥲💙
wahh wahh, not everything is mental health related. This kid is just a punk who doesn't want the responsibilities, but the liberals like to blame it on mental health.
She is great at her job. American cops need to be more like her.
Some people just have it!
@@Gaetano.94no she’s horrible. got taken advantage of the whole damn video.
awww that poor officer sounded so upset when she was explaining to the other officer what he said! she seems like she has a very empathetic heart! more people need to be like her
People like her die, there was a lady like that in Chicago she got shot in the head by the twins
Aaawww... 😥😆
she failed completely in her job, when That guy ran, She put people in danger, and she should have made sure he did not leave that Gas station EVER!!!!
We do. But not as an officer.
He could of killed you and your family by driving under the influence, reckless, 70 mph on a 35 speed limit because the cop didn't handled this by tasing him and get him out the car properly. Why the f u call that a good job being so nice so he can do whatever he want. Oh yeah we need more soft cops letting criminals do whatever they want even putting in danger other life's.
This is one of the most patient cops I’ve ever seen holy shit
That female officer is a shining example of a REAL POLICE OFFICER!! PROTECTING AND SERVING!!
Would fell love with this female officer, and this is how a police officer should be trained and have patient. Every police should like her.
A real police officer would have got this moron off the car and avoided the chase.
How so... Shes acting like a high school guidance counselor... Her neglegence could have gotten an innocent person killed when he sped off
Until your wife and kids are on the same highway and gets hit and killed by this suicidal subject. This is not protecting and serving the public, only self preservation on her part.
@@philspec262 no she tried her best to de-escalate the situation the dude was just mentally unstable
This is one of the hardest but kindest things I've ever seen a PD do for a troubled guy. You can really feel the patience and all the support given by the first responders to preserve human life. True meaning of Protect and Serve.
ya until some bad apples ruin that again like usual 😞 and when that happens, i feels like a hard kick to the balls
The female LEO did not know if he had a weapon in his car and she was physically incapable of backing up any attempt to get him out of his car and detain him. You are confusing Law Enforcement with Mental Health Counseling. She should apply for the latter job.
@@chrispnw2547you and I both know in America that will never happen. American politicians don't give a s*** about the people's mental health they only care about their next paycheck from whatever multi-billionaire
What a joke. Literally posting this kids worst moment of his life on the internet is not honorable.
its actually better that she is an officer than a mental health counselor trust me @@chrispnw2547
I used to get into a lot of trouble myself. I got lock up a few times. Now I just stay home in my room watching UA-cam and eating on weekends when I’m not working . I also have other hobbies. Videos like this reinforce me to continue to chill .
Do u want an award for being a normal human being? Lmao
Good man
@@tmacfan16 bro hes saying how he changed wtf. its not like hes bragging about it
@@tmacfan16 He's not braggin he's being relatable. Dont let your autism get in the way of a good time please.
@@tmacfan16 He’s comparing his actions earlier in his life to this boy in the video, and reminiscing on how he used to get in trouble. Why are you hating? Big ups to you Mario.
That female cop is a queen! this kid was in such mental distress. She’s got the levelheaded you want as a police officer. You go girl.
She literally didnt do her job
This cop is absolutely amazing, we need more like her. Alcohol & suicidal ideation is a horrible combination, and you can tell she tried her best to de-escalate the situation when I don't think many other cops would have listened to him for as long as she did.
I feel bad for this kid and hope he cleans himself up.
Too bad most women cops are Karens
He choose to drink instead of getting help
@@erismana2105 addiction is a disease not a choice
@@rohanshaik8447 Nope addicts have to want to get clean. That's a choice
I keep seeing this on these videos, praise for cops' "de-escalation". I also keep seeing the criminals in the videos taking that as weakness and then escalating like hell, lol
I feel so sad for the guy. Mental health problems are so miserable and takes so much to get through. A+ to the officer
Most 'mental health problems' are just ways of describing how much of an asshole someone is, I'm tired of people acting like some diagnosis somehow alleviates responsibility and self-control and talk about them like they're "victims". It's like addiction. Addiction isn't actually real. Anyone can quit anything cold-turkey through enough willpower.
Either the mentally ill are some kind of weird zombies not in control of their actions, which means they're impossible to rehabilitate and should be locked away forever, or they're actually in control of their actions and they're just such scumbags we literally had to invent a medical term to describe it. A suicidal person isn't inside their own head screaming 'no! no! no!' while an alien force forces their body to reach for a gun. It still requires free will to do everything they do. Did you ever notice that you never see animals in the wild commit suicide?
I understand his pain it’s something that never gets took serious anymore
@@kidbuusosa agree that it isn't taken serious enough but I think it's getting better rather than getting worse. Not long ago people with mental health issues were just belittled and outcast in society. They still often are but at least a lot more people are becoming aware of it
He’s a big boy. He could have gotten help but chose to put everyone’s lives in danger.
I wonder if you’d feel sympathy if he killer someone you love? Oh but remember, he has mental health issues 🙂
Yea ok mental health is one bitch but let him had been a different color
Guy: This is your one chance to put me in handcuffs!
Officer: I don’t even want to put you in handcuffs! Can you roll your window down?
Guy: No cause you’ll drag me out and put me in handcuffs!
He is totally out of it and making no sense.
thumbs your eyes and gets right in your brain
Some stay dry and others feel the pain
A baby born will die before the sin . . .
Chocolate pain
Drive your car
Into a chocolate lake
Chocolate pain
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Ruben obviously watches too much TV. He needs to watch more Code Blue Cam to find out no one gets harshly punished anymore.
Yep. I know if I ever become a criminal, it ain't that bad!
@@TAPATIOPLEASE They obviously just wanted your gun. Glad you got it back!
I honestly thought he was just exaggerating before I read the comments and finished the video. I was like bro stop you’re fine but he really doesn’t think he’s okay.
@@marialanagoldsworthy8670 😂
She wasn’t kidding, this really was a recoverable situation.
You should help him, Obi-Wan. You’re his only hope.
@@King_Jimbo Lol.
I wasn't worried for the officer. She had the high ground.
Yea recoverable after 3 years in prison. Screw the police
Yes master Kenobi.
" Life is hard, it's harder when you're stupid."
you’re *acting* stupid. Not you’re stupid. Hold him accountable for his actions.
@@GabesLifeStory smart man
@@GabesLifeStory No, it is "you're stupid." Stupid people are accountable for their actions in exactly the same way that anyone "being" stupid is accountable for their actions. Permanent vs temporary stupidity is irrelevant.
@@GabesLifeStory Well, you are actually wrong. Freaking hilarious!
@@harryhanz1690 no bc he didn’t have empathy for the person he falsely imprisoned. People need to take responsibility for their actions
Alcohol is the absolute worst thing for an emotional person.
Alcohol is 100% wrong for anyone. It has never produced anything positive.
Drink to numb the pain but it just makes it worse so you drink until you pass out.
Its the absolute worst thing for any person. There are much safer alternatives if you want to have a good time. Alcohol is purely destructive. 0 benefit to drinking.
Probably one of the most compassionate officers I’ve seen. Thank goodness she was there.
Even after he ran from her, she still showed complete empathy and sympathy. She deserves awards for being a tremendous officer. I hope he gets the help he needs.
Public safety is out the window I guess. Good thing no one was in his way while driving 70 mph to kill himself. When Ruben took command of the situation, it was over. Bad end result. Think of all the oil and gas that now pollutes that lake. No consequences, he will do it again until someone gets killed.
I hope the person he wrongfully imprisoned gets the help they need.
Are you trolling?
This woman is a liability to anyone she engages with, and every officer who has the displeasure of having her on their scene. Her inability to control the situation, not only put this idiot in danger of killing himself, but anyone who was on the road that night.
She did this as wrong as she possibly could have.
She should be fired.
This is a perfectly example of how much drinking actually changes your way of thinking . He was in a dark spot in life and he was trying to get through it (given in a destructive toxic way) but the alcohol really made him think the world was even more against him . And a perfect example of how cops should deal with someone emotionally/ mentally unstable . This is a cop I respect.
I absolutely agree!!! 👍🏼
´´changes your way of thinking´´ he already a felon, or he is a really wonderfull person and is hiding very well or he just another criminal
Sorry but, It’s quite the opposite when severally depressed.
yes but 0.13 promill is actually pretty low. There is probably something else influencing his behavior other than alcohol.
they had no idea if he had a gun or not. You could not act same way in chigago for example
The officer deserves an award. You can see that she really does want the best for him and tries to help him. We need more people like her in the world.
be one
@@XxCHRISchaosxX lmao
“Never talk to the cops” bro: “you know what? I’m drunk rn, yea” (from behind the wheel of his car)
Ruben was served 3 years probation and not 15 years. C’mon kid, the outcome is all that matters in life. Do something great in your life. I am rooting for you.
On the flip side, if he wastes that generosity, he deserves what ever bad things come his way as a result. There are plenty of good people out there who make mistakes that don't get treated even half this well by the system. I'm rooting for him too, but if he throws this kindness away, he's worse than dirt.
I’m not rooting for this dirt bag. Yes we all go through stuff but this kid is an absolute lost cause
Yay, Reuben
I feel for him. Hopefully this is the wake up call he needed. I went through alcoholism and had a wake up call like this. It took that to quit drinking and now I’m over 7 years sober and have a great job and a 4 year old son. Some of us just need a serious wake up like this to finally see the light and make constructive instead of destructive decisions in life. Hoping this is will also be the case with this kid.
@@julesschoony812 Proud of you! Thank you for sharing!
Hearing the wavering in the cop’s voice as she held him at gun point was heartbreaking, she wanted to help him with everything her heart could give.
yea, sounded like she was on the verge of tears, at least until she realized he hadn't hurt himself and was still just being a dumbass. That says a lot about her compassion but I *do* have to wonder if that kind of personality should really be a cop. There are a lot of valid comments criticizing the fact that she basically let a drunk driver run, and how bad that could've been if he had hit someone. I guess she didnt have much choice though, and the same thing couldve happened to a less-compassionate male cop in the same situation.
@@SpydersByte You're right that could have happened to anybody. I feel like if it had been a more aggressive male cop he would have taken off sooner. You can tell that there was a lot going on with him. He was not mentally stable at this point and she was trying to help as much as she could. I feel like more cops should be this way honestly I think it would help more people instead of just automatically sending them to jail which doesn't help anybody.
@@SpydersByte Not saying that nobody should go to jail, but you know what I mean.
Comply, or meet Jesus, Comprende Estupido?
@@lostineggsaisle he doesn't know what you mean there's 2 type of people in this world, he's the other type
As long as he sticks to the terms of his probation, this officer just saved this kid's life.
Another commenter further up said it all went to pot later, involving drinking driving and kids.
Of course it did. He’s a self pitying, a-hole. The fire department should’ve just got their hose out and put more water into the lake so his car would sink.
The officer did her best, but this kid was determined to fail and he'll definitely manage it
why do i say he wont?
He went from wanting to die to being scared of a shot gun in no time.
She was patient as can be. You can tell that she cared and was truly trying to help him. It’s sad that he is so confused about what would happen. I sure hope that he can get some mental health. I’ve had a few officers help me so much and was so patient with me when I was messed up and they helped me so much. We sure need more officers like this one and the ones that helped me. I have been diagnosed as bi-polar with schizophrenia.
I hope Ruben gets some help. He’s in a dark place. Props to that officer to keeping her cool. This went from traffic stop to pursuit to negotiation.
No he deserve to rest in prison is whole life
He seems to feel like everyone is against him. He might just need some mental help and not prison time. But that'd just me. He clearly didn't want to hurt anyone and even when super drunk he was respectful
I hope he ends up six feet under.
@@momma2thewilds88 yeah, hopefully he ends up swimming with the fishes!
Poor guy
It's hilarious how the cop was like, "Hand me the keys." "No." "Yes.". It kinda sounded like a mother and a son arguing, haha.
It's awesome how cool this cop was. She wasn't just like, "Get out of the car, you're being detained!".
get out of the car and go to your room.
@@austindailey29 hahahah such an underrated comment
Put your hands on the back of your head!
No!
Yes!
That's the problem right there when I was coming up, we never told our parents "NO." Unfortunately, even when they were wrong.
@@wadewilson8011 hell yeah bro
Blown away by how good this officer was. A true professional, a credit to her police force. So glad it didn't turn out differently. Hope Ruben gets the help he needs and turns his life around.
She's awful and she's going to cost people their lives. She's one of the worst cops I've seen.
@@Booker.T someone wants to be different
@@Booker.T Your edgy is a bit too sharp kiddo
@@Booker.T no she’s going to save lives. If it was up to the other thugs this kid would be dead, the city/county would be sued for millions and the tax payers would once again foot the bill.
You’re either 12 yrs old or in the blue gang yourself.
@@Booker.T Well hopefully the next time you get pulled over you get someone with a totally different temperament then her!
I watch these videos very often, and can't deny that I can be very critical of law enforcement. With that being said, this officer is an absolute gem of a human being.
Rubin: "I do NOT want to mess up my only one chance!"
Also Rubin: Drives unensured vehicle with false plates without having a driving licence while being drunk after offering alcohol shots to motorists into a lake after refusing to comply with officers
how did you get that emoji?
Had to Google what 'unensured' was, I thought it was an American thing.
@@RustyR3volva No, he means "uninsured". Although I suspect to ensure and to insure are probably from the same root word, same basic meaning.
Judge: What crimes did you commit?
Rubin: Yes
@@RustyR3volva Ok, clevercloggs...maybe he meant 'unensured' meaning the officer failed to 'ensure' him that things weren't that bad, so he left the scene feeling 'unensured' about his future.
Pipe,Smoke it.
I like how the officer said “I’m not sure why you think one drinking is going to get you revoked” because you know in her mind she’s thinking “this *is* Wisconsin, after all” 😂😂😂
Haha but man we really don’t need cops doing this because she was taken advantage of the whole video pretty much. Not a good position for an officer
@@liamGta5-TheTatesWin1400definitely any other cop would've pulled him out the car at the gas station when he said that he was drunk
@@liamGta5-TheTatesWin1400what do you mean?
@@liamGta5-TheTatesWin1400you’ve gotta think about this logically
She likely cannot physically overpower him and remove him from the vehicle
Any large male cop by himself would probably have lost patience and attempted that already
She cannot afford to do that and knows if she tries to force him, she will likely be overpowered
I’m not sure if she’s waiting for backup (haven’t finished the video) but it’s pretty obvious what she’s doing. She’s using her speaking skills to try and de-escalate this guy and prevent him from running. She can’t really stop him any other way
She’s doing what she can with her skill set and if you ask me, it’s impressive she bought as much time as she did
@@counterfeit4450 You're right and I agree with you, but please for the love of God resist the temptation to open your mouth (keyboard) until you've seen the whole story.
He's right about one thing, it will stay with him the rest of his life.
Yea, many doors have closed for this kid Especially with this video out there.
Even McDonald’s will be like, “yeah we’re gonna have to pass on hiring you”.
He’s got severe issues and he should be in a hospital.
@@woodchippah1825 UPS would hire him. That's probably his best option. I know a guy with felonies on his record who worked at UPS. They'll hire anybody.
@@dangannon9970 you say that like it's a good thing and not a complete abomination that mistakes people make as kids mark them for life in your country and ruin their whole lives. It's embarassing. It has already led to serious decay in your society.
Eighteen years old and he already has a probation officer. You have ALREADY messed up Ruben! AGAIN. Driving on a suspended license, plates don't match the car, no registration on the vehicle, more than enough reasons to be arrested. You shouldn't be held accountable? Stop doing S*** then! Turn yourself around. This officer was very patient and was really trying to help him. I hope he gets his life together.
Hopefully, this kid takes a serious U-turn and gets his life straight. This could have turned out so much worse. That officer really went above and beyond being so calm and trying to work with the young man to talk him down. If I got into some kind of mental health crisis I would hope an officer like this responds.
Honestly she gave him so many chances and remained calm the whole time I feel bad for the kid
He's 18. He's not a kid. False imprisonment is the soft serve version of kidnapping. He's a thug, and that's all he'll ever be.
Once u get a felony ur life basically over minimum wage jobs for ever
he won't. probably be dead in a few years.
@@Motorsports_3Which causes people to go really insane. Either mass shooter or hostage taker.
I got the upmost respect for that officer, she's exactly the kind of person we need to be in the police force. Thank you for your compassion and patience for someone hurting and in need.
Hate being that guy but it’s utmost.
@@canadaisfornoah so don’t be that guy then Noah
If a meathead that's a little less compassionate with the physical ability to overpower him was there he might not have ever left the gas station.
I dunno man, it's easy to imagine any number of situations where that level of timidity from an officer would lead to lots of loss of life.
@@RunstarHomer I'm not sure about that. It's always better to try to deescalate, rather than start with military mode right away. It genuinely scares people and, most of the time, makes things worse. Obviously, if there's something dangerous going on, I'm not saying to stand there and say everything's gonna be okay, but in situations that start off without violence, it's always best to try and keep it that way. Yelling and physical contact will only escalate the situation -- we've seen this countless times. The type of cops that do that are the reason that more than a third of Americans support a decrease in police funding.
This officer sounds like someone you would love to be friends with, what an outstanding person. She handled the situation the best way considering the circumstances.
WHO HURT YOU...?
I wouldn't want to be around that shrill whiney voice for too long
All she had to do was literally get the keys from him. And escort him home and when he sobers up he can get the car. Boom problem solved no escalation. As someone who wants to be a cop they problem solving skills are shit and they put forth very little effort.
@@IparanoiaZ that’s not how any of that works.
@@IparanoiaZ nice job saying what should be done while watching comfortably at home
"im terrified of prison ..I can't go bak"
"what were u in prison for"
"false imprisonment"😂🤣😂 ...can't make this shxt up!
😂😂
This lady officer was extremely patient with that guy for over a hour... She was so nice to him the whole time!!
Never met a female officer with more patience, she’s an actual sweetheart, def simpworthy
Video is 19 minutes 🤣
She acts more like his mom
Maybe too nice?
Well his skin ain’t dark so that helps
Honestly I hope he finds some sort of peace in his life. I was arrested last year when I was 24 years old and I thought it was the end of the world as well. Its NOT the end of the world. Learn your lesson the first time and make good changes in your life, kid. Respect to the officer as well because she tried to reason so hard with the kid while doing her job at the same time.
Bless you I pray for success
can i just say how comical their conversation was when he was in the lake lol. even she had a chuckle
I'm with you I was in and out of jail all through my teens. Everything felt so hopeless like i'd never get out of the cycle of reoffending over some stupid shit or whatever. Now, I'm 25 in college doing pretty good and a bartender in the evenings. Life is great. Often times things feel really bad but eventually things can get better.
@@ThyCorruptor I appreciate your comment. It is hard (especially at first) but life goes on and being so young there is a future for sure. Keep it up AP
I got arrested in 2018 at 18 I thought I lost everything now I bounced back Im doing my dream job and got everything I wanted and happy
It's one thing to drink and drive, it's another to drink and drive when you're 18 years old, it's ANOTHER thing to offer people shots of alcohol while you're drinking and driving and 18 years old. Good lord.
At a gas station out of all places ffs
and on probation lmao
With the wrong license plate on his car.
With a suspended license and wrong plates
Especially in that mental state of wanting to harm yourself when you get caught... Hope he gets in a better place mentally
The more I watch these videos the more I learn how many really good officers are out there. I don’t think I’d be this patient. Not only this but the officer was very compassionate. The guy clearly is struggling mentally but if he follow his probation, he’ll be done by age 21. He has time and a chance to turn everything around, just like the officer said.
She probably should have called for some backup sooner.
Yes he is a winner. If he hit some one after leaving her stop she would be in trouble.
Not probably, as soon she said get out and he said no, that was the moment.
Exactly what I was thinking. Once she determined the car isn't registered, he's suspended and alcohol is involved, should have called for backup. This guy seemed like trouble from the get go.
She should have walked back to her car then call for backup.
if she would have called for backup sooner he surely would just have taken off earlier. there is nothing wrong with trying to calm someone down, only because it didn't work that time doesn't mean it never works.
Hearing a cop say “this is recoverable” in a situation like this is important
I mean it was😂
For those pointing out that her voice was shaky, it’s cold in Wisconsin in November. She’s shivering.
yea bro thats cold
You can see she had her sleeves way up to the knuckles. She mus the cold.
No she's scared.
@@emilystatenberg615 shut up emily
@@emilystatenberg615 nah Ive been out in the cold like that and sometimes even with multiple layers u begin to shake and it becomes hard to even compose yourself. I woulda been so irritated and cold I would looked like I was tweaking on crack! Shaking like a tree.
This female cop is ridiculously patient. Suprised she's not calling for backup the longer she's there the more risk
You can actually just call them "cops"
@@DefinitelyNotALobsterbut this is a female cop. You can actually stop being a baby
@@CameronRoser-Peet Tell me more about how offended you are
This is the craziest thing I've ever seen! This cop seemed to actually care, and it shows. I wish every officer acted like this.
Most do, in my experience. Granted, I don’t deal with police often.
Yeah this made me tear
She’s weak af
@@peskycitizen6651 Thank you for letting people know your opinion. Sorry you feel that way.
Most officers absolutely do. Anyone who is a first responder at one point (Even if it changes down the road.) got into this line of work because they are empathetic and care about their community and people. Being a cop is to help- not destroy peoples lives. I hope you can open your mind a bit more and not paint officers with the same brush stroke. They’re people too.
This literally breaks my heart, as I've had a family member do something similar when suicidal. He's so young, I hope he gets help and gets better. These police officers were so compassionate.
Dude shouldn't be drinking and driving. "I'm in college" more like "I'm wasting money on an education" because you're drinking as a minor, your driving while intoxicated, you're already on probation for apparently a serious charge...I don't feel bad for him at all. I'm only at 12:50 right now, but I hope he gets actual prison time.
I hope he rots in jail for the rest of his life and I hope his family are ashamed of the monster they raised
@@jackryan4313 you obviously don't understand
@@OmegaFalcorn clearly 🙄😂
@@jackryan4313 Because I'm sure you've lived a perfect, sin-free life, right? STFU, hypocrite.
Essentially "I keep committing crimes and I'm going to be held to account for those crimes and I don't think that's fair so I'm going to commit more crimes". High IQ levels
And even after all that, he still didn't go to prison. Just more probation.
"I don't want to go to jail, so I'm going to do something stupid that sends me to jail"
Flawless logic
Props also for the male officer saying "It's just a car accident". Those words can and could've really relax him
This cop, I really hope the world treats her right. She's so compassionate. Just a pure, good human being.
Very nice officer an not getting hostile at any moment. Sounds like a great person an wants people to do good in life. She needs a key to the city. Wish her the best in the career.
God, I'm 21, that could have easily been me with how depressed I was and drinking /smoking with my friends. I'm happy they really didn't ruin his life and got him the help he needed. That female cop was the perfect example of how to help someone who really needs it.
Edit: that shiz was years ago when I was 17 lmao
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Cool story bro
your a real funny Boy....LOL
Life only gets harder kid. Trust me.
You need to hang around better people
I was hoping it didn't end up in tragedy. This kid broke my heart and this female officer was so compassionate and was there to really listen and deescalated the situation for the kid's benefit. She is a great human being.
I think he broke her heart too, you can hear it when she’s explaining the situation to her partner
"This is not you"
Man she really believes in him and wants to give him a chance.
but it was him and shes a pushover and should work in a kindergarten daycare or something
She was referring to the calls on the radio. She was reassuring him that the conversations on the radio were about a burglary and not him.
She's enabling a child's piss poor behavior.
I think she was talking about the radio traffic about the burglary.
Lmfaoooo
Is this a wisconsin based channel. The autoplay just did 7 WI videos in a row 😂😂
This female officer should be a national trainer for departments. The professionalism and calmness she showed is a clear example of how to handle situations.
Absolutely not. Change one fact and you will see why she is ill-equipped for the job. Driver is suicidal and has a weapon concealed next to his driver's seat.
She’s working harder to be a therapist rather than a cop.
@@chrispnw2547and a male cop could do better? Guns kill both genders and male cops are at the forfront of majority of all corruption cases and escalations.
@@HamSlicerVery telling that you think de-escalation is ‘therapy.’ Tell me, was she supposed to rip this suicidal man out of his car for not complying? Should she have thrown him in cuffs the second she saw the tea? Advocating for state sanctioned violence only ends badly for everyone.
@@chrispnw2547do you want her to go guns blazing 😂
This is just extraordinary. You got the most patient, respectful caring police officer on the planet, along with the most honest criminal on the planet. Homeboy just collecting different charges every two minutes. I feel for the kid though and glad he got a break. Hope he gets some help.
@@misseclipse7415 did she? At the end the narrator said that he got his car licence temporary removed and That he can't get into bars for a while. He wasn't thrown in jail. If he did then can you provide evidence?
Edit: yes that's what I thought 😎
He should have gone to prison. Normal people don't get felony charges at 18. He hasn't done a single thing right in his life, and his car was the perfect example. He wasn't honest; he went on ans on about how he was going to get 35 years for false imprisonment, a crime with a maximum of six years in prison. The idea that criminals are just people society has failed needs to stop. He's nothing but a thug.
@@isaiahlaitinen Typical Isaiah being short sighted lol.
@@inanitas cmonnnn bro we all not silly
Honest is a bit much. Idiotic fits the profile better.
It’s heartbreaking to hear her try so hard, but he’s absolutely given up on himself already. She’s clearly trying mediate the situation to a solution with the least amount of damage to him, and he’s just flat out already decided it’s all over for himself
12:24 Nothing feels more eerie than hearing a Car’s engine fire up for the final time
That Ford Focus Estate started up for the final time, before driving into a lake and eventually on its way to the crusher.
It’s like seeing police chases of Car’s driving off before crashing and being completely destroyed.
The female officer is a good human and "Peace Officer" and she sure is "serving and protecting" her community.
Her bravery is inspiring!
I mean yea but is not there job
@@TaxationIsTheft439 WTF? 🤔
@@Mr.NorthSacra916Xfour sup
What? She did her job
@@JigglingJugs1091 or else congress would’ve at least made it an obligation to protect and serve if that was they’re job 😂😂
It sucks to be in a mental state like this. I don’t think it was the alcohol I think it was some depression and other things causing him to act this way. I hope he gets the help that he needs.
Yeah to blow this so out of proportion and flip out and try to harm yourself, you know he's got some mental health issues
Yea when you’re facing 15 to life being 18 you could imagine he was depressed. The 3 years is only this case not his previous.
It was both. Alcohol accelerates depression. It's a depressant.
I think he has gotten away with to much as a kid
Ameen
This is a mental health crisis. And what a gracious judge, thanks for saving the young man.
Oh please 🙄
@@dewilew2137 shut up
@@dewilew2137"Oh please 🙄" yourself.
@@dewilew2137 you're the type of person I will probably have kids and your kids have mental health problems and you would think that's just them being disrespectful kids or something so when they grow up and end up being criminals you'll be confused on what happened
He has to save himself. Judges and officers have to keep us safe from him. They didn't.
This woman has to be one of the kindest caring persons. Hats off to her how reasonable and understanding she is trying to talk this guy into some kind of sense....
Taking a night swim is a great way to get out of a DUI since they can't administer standardized field sobriety tests in a lake. Good call, Buddy.
Lol
Not really they can get a warrant issued and draw blood
And he still took a breathalyzer 🤣
@@anthony6m21 It was a joke...
@@anthony6m21 you must be fun at parties
I'm in tears...I feel so bad for this officer. She's doing such a good job. She's really trying
I hope she got a commendation! If nothing else, I hope someone told her she did the right thing…
…because she did!
@@always-alicia She.. could have stopped him from committing further damage to himself and putting other people in danger by tazing him when he admitted to being drunk and refusing to turn over his keys. So... how did she do a good job exactly? They wasted 3 hours on this guy...
@@baconoverlord7982 You're an idiot if you think she can pull out her tazer and successfully incapacitate him, when he wouldnt even let her touch it and eyeballed it all the time. Tazers also dont really go well against clothing. This couldve seriously escalated the situation even further
@@baconoverlord7982 She... did was she was supposed to. A bad cop would immediately taze someone without trying to deescalate first.
@@SirZipper No, not even close. She tried to deescalate. That didn't work. She should have given him commands a couple of times then escalated. They don't have all night to spend holding someone's hand.
It should read "Boy crashes into lake". Just because you're 18 it doesn't make you a man. This is a little boy...tantrum and everything.
18 does make you legally a man
Wouldn’t call that a tantrum. It’s much more severe than that.
@@QargZer young adult* you niggas get that shit confused
So the people doing these mass shootings are just little boys?
@@QargZer you don't understand the comment. Legally yes but he didn't act like an adult. The same if you get a woman pregnant and have a child, doesn't make you a father if you aren't there to raise the kid
18 and thinks his life is over😢 Kids can be so stupid sometimes.
The officer was incredible. She did a great job at deescalating. You can tell that this kid has been spiraling, even just self-sabotaging. I hope he's doing better.
He could not have lucked into a more patient officer. I’m sure most would have pulled his ass out the car with haste regardless of his sob story.
the officer should have removed him from his vehicle asap to prevent him from driving away and endangering the lives of innocent people ! which he did and the officer is lucky he didn’t kill anyone
I don't give a fuck if he's doing better. I just hope he's either being treated or locked up so he can't put more innocent lives at risk through his criminal behavior.
He is not the important person here, even though he clearly thinks the entire world revolves around him, as do many of the weepy bleeding hearts in these comments.
What is wrong with you, she did an awful job. She's not a social worker, she is a cop. Her job was to avoid the obvious chase that was going to happen.
@@dyr_glpsn4209 Exactly - her failure to haul his noncompliant ass out of the car put the public at risk.
She’s such a sweet officer! I appreciate her and this crew very much. They know that he’s going thru some things.. I hope he can turn things around and that everything gets better 🙏🏼
Yeah such a great officer 🙄 let the suicidal drunk flee the scene giving him a chance to kill some innocent people. There is a time to be patient with people, this was not it.
@@jimbody shut up…
She had no control of the scene. She let him dominate, which gave him the confidence to flee. Bet she is good at coaxing lil kittens out of trees.
@@chrisd2p2 thank you! That makes two of us.
@@mackcollier8284 lol Good one. It took me a second. I think I could have done a better job also.
She really is a good Cop. She knows he is suicidal and afraid and responds accordingly. The poor kid is a mess. He sounds like he doesn’t have family to get him through. Good for her for throwing him a lifeline and not just taking him out of the car and throwing him on the ground and cuffing him, like others would have already.
Wot a load of 💩 no wonder the countries in a mess absolutely clueless 😳
@@Simonj2109 and you sir genius, what a bright outlook on life and also so narcissistic to think you know all. I very much doubt you have much education in the area. Just doing some trolling? Here have a 🪝 and a 🪱, it may help. You have you a good day now, ya hear?
But sometimes if the officer doesn’t yank you out the car, the suspect flees and causes an accident and kills a family. Ever thought of that?
Sleeping is dead on. "Send a 'crisis intervention' team to help these people." Until they drive off with a BAC of close to .2 and kill your kids and wife. Or pull a knife on the assisting official that is not armed. Some people are really stupid. You must be one of them.
@@Andrew-FKF what a charmer you are. Let’s hope you don’t ever need someone to give a shit when you’re losing it. I have found it’s people like you that will have something happen to
You and you’ll end up having mental
Issues. I hope people treat you the same way you want them treated. I really do. ❤️
13:05 LOL The officers voice ecoing out in the darkness by the lake 😂
Ruben get your hands up ! Him yelling im going away now for 50 years! Ine day i hope he can look back on this and see how much hes grown since then maybe see the humor
My heart is breaking for this kid, I'm so thankful this was the office who got on scene. She handled everything as well as she could. I hope the counseling and years of sobriety help Ruben - the fact someone called in a wellness check confirms he has good people around him. I hope they continue to support him these next 3 years.
He wrongfully imprisoned someone else, probably a female, and he seems hellbent on getting into more trouble. He's immature and irresponsible. I don't feel bad for him. Guys get away with crap that women don't get away with, just b/c they are male.
He doesn't give a shit about killing people to avoid consequences of his stupid actions. Fuck him. The officer should have done their job instead of playing social worker too, awful performance.
Why feel sorry for him?....he's the most irresponsible kid I've ever seen. He's driving drunk in an unregistered vehicle with a suspended license while on probation after threatening suicide and handing out drinks in public..........and then tries to blame the cop for the fact that he might end up back in jail for breaching probation. This kid is proof that you can't fix stupid.
Why feel sorry for his dumb, douchebag? I feel sorry for this nice police officer who had to deal with this bulls*** everyday. He knew what he did, he is driving without a licence, which is irresponsible and dangerous, he doesn't give a care. No sympathy for criminals and idiots.
@@Martin.Wilson truth
This officer was so patient, compassionate, and you can just tell she really cares about trying to help out her community and the people in it. We need MORE officers and just people in general like her.
I think I got pulled over by this officer once. She was great.
Edit: I live in this town, I was looking for videos near where I live that's how I found this one.
@@Zoroaster4 haha wow that’s quite the coincidence.
The whole team with this female officer sound like such caring people. Best of luck and thanks all for your service.
If he was a black kid from the projects, threatening a cop, defying orders, fleeing etc it would've gone VERY different.
for someone that sounds like they REALLY don't want to mess up their life... they sure seem to be doing everything they possibly can to do just that.
@@Maven904 hopefully you end up six feet under.
And that, my friend, is what mental health problems do to people
@@Dexedus not only that he’s a teen. He still growing. 10 years later he’s gonna look back at all this and realize how uncalled for that was. Honesly feel bad. People would say he knows better but probably not. He might be goin through shit that’s deep asf and don’t know how to handle his emotions clearly.
Deppresion he dont need jail time he needs help bozo
@@ashintheblunt3292 the brain isn't even developed until you turn 25
Court: You violated probation, so we're gonna sentence you to... probation!
Society: Why is there so much crime?
Would be a lot different if he was violent probably. Maybe mercy because he’s so young too
@@Ben-eo8pd it would be nice if we could figure out some way to stay out of jail. Life’s mysteries
I think you answered your own question
Sentencing more people to prison isn’t gonna fix anything…. How about we try to get all the people that are in on non violent drug offenses out first before complaining about someone getting probation, also a good chunk of our labor done by humans in the US is done by prisoners for an extremely low rate. It’s slavery. We need to redo our prison system. It’s not that simple man
@@bgarza18 it’s called rehabilitation. We have more people in prison than they do in China! Also remember having them in prison our tax payer dollars go to PRIVATE prisons usually. The more people in prison the better for Wall Street. No I’m not making that up. It’s a known fact. Also sometimes people need help and not harsh punishment. Nobody would steal if people could get well paying jobs. I’ve been down before and you don’t understand how bad I wanted to steal cause I was disparate for something. I even debated steal some shoes cause my shoes were hurting my feet so much and shoes had holes where the water would get in when I worked or walked around under the rain. Some jobs pay you nothing! I’m better now but things aren’t perfect yet.
Kudos for this cop because she tried so hard to be compassionate and help him not make these mistakes. I hope this kid gets his life together and can get past all this!
He sounds like he was doing for attention he may have been sad but he wasn't serious about killing himself and being drunk only made it worse and the fact he doesn't know the law is even worse
@@izkodaz5767I mean he literally tried to drive into the lake so I’m pretty sure he was serious about killing himself
@@izkodaz5767idk who blast off into a lake at 70mph for attention man
Ruben is going to have quite the shock if he ever does go to prison and realizes he can’t negotiate getting his way for everything.
This lady is a top notch police officer. Extremely professional, calm, and intelligent. Exactly how police should be
Agreed.