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Darko Ristanovic what does losing ego even mean. When you "lose" your ego you kind of get a different one that revolves around your "transcendence" and "absence" of ego
People with ASPD love this book! There's a way to be truthful without being an asshole. I think a lot of people are confused about that. You can be honest without breaking someone's soul or traumatizing them.
I pride myself in doing the difficult thing and always swimming towards pain and disorder.... still, I found so many areas in life about which I lie to different people. I've subconsciously been at odds with this but now you've challenged me to act. Thanks for the vid - came at perfect time!
This is a very wonderful summation of the book. I've been a fan of Radical Honesty for a few years now and can honestly say it's teachings are (while inconvenient) absolutely true. A recent realization I've had is that telling the truth isn't so much being ok with offending people and saying what's on your mind but more expressing your intentions, emotions, and state genuinely regardless of sociological context.
I'm going to be real and put this out there: I have been getting really angry, and having tics and "compulsive thoughts" and instead of accepting them have rejected them, felt ashamed by them and used them as a coping mechanism to avoid the present moment and putting my real self out there. I have been feeling insecure, anxious, depressed, incapable, worthless, and powerless. I am fucking done with that, I am going to live in the present moment, express my authentic self, believe in myself, connect with people, take massive action toward my goals and not give a FUCK what other people think about me. Thanks for the video Julien!
Omg thank you so much! This gave me the courage to tell the truth about my feelings for someone and we just found out the we both don't have any for each other, so we though the same. I was overthinking it so much. So can be friends now
I haven’t seen the whole video yet, but holy crap lying has led to me almost committing suicide. I felt that telling the truth would only get others to resent me and be upset with me. Which led me to not to bottle things inside, becoming paranoid, and almost killing myself. I hope this video can help me
Wow Julien these videos keep getting better! Just watched a video with you and Tyler that showed your first video, Your presentation has come a long way, very captivating. Thank you !
This sounds so simple but it's actually incredibly hard to do. This is especially true if you face losing your job/wife/life by telling the truth. I desperately want to be the person that does this but honestly, it scares me to my core. I've always had terrible social anxiety and abandonment issues and I don't think I have the courage to admit who I really am inside. I am in the process of joining your course and have my second call next Wednesday. I'm very excited about this. Once I'm immersed in your course and able to let things go I want to let all of the honesty out. I am not living the live I imagined and hardly ever express my true self to others. Great video.
As a woman, I can’t tell you how DIFFICULT of a journey it has been to be radically honest, especially when we are taught lying as a primary way to attract men. It’s gotten better since I found the people who appreciate the honesty and the transparency. You might think people will see you as volatile, but actually they come to trust you more because you share even when it’s hard, so people KNOW they can count on you and trust you. It’s a flip that has to happen in your head and in your heart. Pray to God to give you peace, too. It’s miraculous.
I think you can also do these admissions via a journal for yourself I've been doing this myself and that is very helpful you stop lying to you about the xyz in question then if needed you can change it or else start thinking about curiously how would you take it one step so if it's your job you hate admit it & why then be like if I had to coming from a place that all my life needs are met then what job am I looking for if any and if not what do I want to do instead to make money or how am I going to structure my life where I'm not using money without depending on my wife/gf/mom/parents/ ect to do it? As what would be unfair to both of us. And play with the idea over time then if you come up with steps then take small steps to shift cuz realistically people don't have contact with everyone ever who they dislike ect so therefor the method of must do face to face already doesn't work fully so journaling for those you can't reach then for those who are alive & in your life now start daily adding in more truths. people are already around you and with you cuz its the fake you just like you're with them cuz it's the fake them you may not be compatible or you may be yet you have to give them the ability to be honest too and it may not be by the book either unless you tell them I'm doing this I don't know me and I don't know the true you so lets see if we can do this and see if we are truly compatible at our truths rather then our faces fronts and lies that we all grew up cultivating so no faults to either of us. otherwise you may want companion books like how to fight fair or how to have difficult conversations so you can use this book with those to have a better landing on tough conversations like "I resent you so much heres why!"
Julien, it would be awesome if you could revisit "Antifragile" by Nassim Taleb in 2016. You and Tyler mentioned the book on the last video and it's a great source of knowledge and perspective on self development - be it game, business, relationships, etc. Hope you do it.
This something I've been working on big time, I know SelfActualized did a video about this and it's very liberating. Real people will be drawn to you once you break down the lies.
Really like the background and lighting. Can also see that you've grown this year! You're fibe is so much more relaxed, giving lots of 'open' energy. Keep up the change :D
Telling the truth has made me completely alienated from the rest of humanity. People want a comfortable bed of lies or they go ape shit, even if it is so obvious and innocuous like the sky is blue or my skin doesn't make me evil. I know some airhead is going to say "you were being TOO truthful" etc. No, I have tact and answer questions honestly without insulting people. It didn't matter, and now I find it difficult to see people as anything other than cattle
Julien, you REALLY should be an actor. You remember me Jonny Depp for some reason... The way you move your body and expresses yourself. For me you would be great intrerpreting a mad man. I'm not joking you have talent
Thanks man, this really helps. I've been trying it today at work and I do feel a sense of freedom doing it. There's a lot of work ahead of me but it's worth the struggle.
Quite a radical "cure", but might be life saving for somebody - like me! I'll try it from right now on and in the nearest future - I'm very excited/anxious what the result will be!!!
Well there are still some things that are private, & held deep inside, but I get it, I really do, loved this..... & love love love you, the truth is essentially important, the truth is like God.........thanks for sharing
Julien! Really want to let you know how much I enjoy this channel and the content you have on here. I've become more motivated and interested in so many new ideas because of this. Hats off; God bless!
boss. i loved it. when i read book i was amazed at how much I learned, and when i heard the guy had workshops where people get naked in front of everyone and talked about their bodys i was like that's really putting it all out there. cool. thanks man.
I'm not gunna lie I have learned so much from you Julian I feel I need to pay you! Thank u so much and I hope you keep on growing like a lynchpin in 2016 and beyond!!!
+chandlerbing..Unfortunately, Julian isn't 'allowed' in the UK as far as I know and I'm more into the book reviews and motivational stuff rather then the PUA stuff but yeah, I'm sure this guys gunna be writing books and stuff himself soon so I'll be the first to buy 😉
+chandlerbing..LOL I'm good fella I'm sure Julian will survive without my two pence and if you mean actually fly to L.A, I own a business, I'm married and have a young child so it's not that easy to just up and leave but yeah, thanks anyway 😊
Its crazy how when you meditate, and let go of mind identification.. you feel, so, fucking good. 10 years on this path. Let go of your mind, use it, but don't identify with it, they key. Be an observer of your own thoughts.
Tried to read this book after hearing about it in daygame blueprint from a business guy but only got through the first 3rd . thanks for clearing this up.
it s so weird that I was a teanager and I was trying to do this instictively and was in depression that noone was in this vibe back then and I suppresed this....
Julien,your so good in explaining evrey single detail of all books.Well done and never give up.We all love your videos and you did help me tones into being more responeble,confidence,girls exc…My life in general is overly better.I'm starting to feel free and not trapped into my mind.It's so funny as when i look back,i realize how rediclous i was acting.I'm starting to be like.I'm starting to have a deeper identety then i ever had.You're a big insperation of me.
YOU WELCOME. That part wher you said"if you don't express your true attentions,they'll be botttled up forever" sounds pretty scary.I expressed some of my deep feelings and man,it feels soo good to be free.
Julien - The reason people are phony liars in the first place is because others in society unconsciously actually reward phony and dishonest behavior, and we all unconsciously know this. Hence the reason we lie in the first place! Whereas honesty and truth will get you punished in some way, directly or indirectly. Therefore, I would offer that the other side of radical honesty is learning to reward honesty from others, even if they are being rude and hostile to you in their delivery. Stop punishing people who are being honest with you!
Good book review/ summary Julien! Omg the end where you talk about intimacy in a relationship is extremely uncomfortable. I imagine doing that but don't like it at all. I do however crave more openness and honesty.
+JulienHimself I can assure you that I have learned a lot from you and I am still learning more and more. thanks for the videos these videos are priceless
Messages 900 tinder girls "I don't really work at madame tussauds!" "I never had a son called Gaspard!" ... Seriously though your new videos are really good. They touch on some really cool and useful points I've not come across before.
Content gets more and more incredible every video. I notice a lot of parellels with Eckhart tolle's work, especially power of now in this book, though on a more general level.
Truth... the word "lie" does not necessarily mean a person is actively making up or fabricating a lie. Rather it's about the millions of thoughts and ideas which go unsaid or glossed over.
I like your review of Radical Honesty! thanks! I invite you to read and review one that followed that, called Practicing Radical Honesty. Keep up the good work. Brad Blanton
It's all about me. All of it. From insecurity, people pleasing to anger and hate towards people I love which generates more anxiety and so on. FUCK. Crying like a baby.
+Pentru Barbati Doesn't work for everyone. Telling the truth seemed to make my relationships way worse. I agree with you. Although I do feel better and happier, I wish my friends/ family felt better with me too.
Pentru Barbati does it actually need to be said though? Does it benefit anyone? Or are you just using "radical honesty" as an excuse to be mean to people?
Hi Julien, Your book review videos are GOLDEN!! I love how you admit the fear of fucking op so that you have to do a cut-screen. I make videos myself and have the same constant fear. Personally, I am impressed with how long you can keep it going WITHOUT having to do a cut-screen. And further as a viewer you barely notice it. There's room for plenty more cut-screens in your videos :) Thanks for these book review videos!!!
Read the book because everyone was hyping it. Was actually the ONLY self help book I had really trouble finishing because it was just so damn boring...
I found it really boring the first time I read it too, but since then I've done some workshops and rereading it it is less boring to me. I imagine RH is a practical thing, not a reading-about-it thing. You have to do it to get it.
Julian do you put back out these videos, or is UA-cam hiding them? Every couple weeks it appears a video I haven't seen pops up altho I've been on your page multiple times and feel I've listened to all your feeds and some multiple times. Btw great video
Julien, ¿How does this contrast with girl's validation? Telling the girl you like her is completely ok. But expressing it all with as much detail as possible is counterproductive as it will validate her ego. ¿What are your thoughts on this?
+Juan Herrera She sees why you really do it. If you do it hoping for her to react a certain way (not honest) she will be disgusted with you. If you do it honestly you shouldn't give a fuck what her reaction will be in the first place so there would be no need to ask this question. examine your motives.
+Lepthymo Thanks for your advice. Certainly I am speaking of terms of maximizing the outcome from a place where I am not really dependent of it. IMO, not being radical honest it's not being deshonest, but being smart as to, again, maximizing the outcome.
Thanks for sharing. I appreciate all your thoughts and views, however I have a difference of opinion over here. I would like add/contribute views - People close to you (in society or community) are not ready to face the truth. Ur loved ones (friends n family) want to be in a Perfect relationship with you. If you tell them that you have flaws or something which will also rapture their image in society, they can't handle the honesty and will not appreciate your exposure. Better keep those lips sealed to save all. Don't embarrass your loved ones or your friends as they are associated to you. In your freedom of letting go ...may lie the embarrassment of others. Remember 'Being Naked' always brings Shame and embarrassment to you and ones who are holding your back. Carry your truth to the grave.
Hi Julian, from my experience in real life I have noticed it's amazing to live honestly 100% of the time but I think there is a difference between putting everything in exposure which can hurt you and being honest...what's your opinion?
+Aria Derakhshani what's your skype? I read " I have noticed it's amazing to live honestly 100% of the time" and I imagine you're a person I'm looking for to add to my friends. Let me know
Yo Julien! Great video, the book seems very interesting. How close do you feel like you are to living this way? I feel like everyone would be in mental hospitals if they lived this way hahah.
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"A relationship should be a santuary and u shouldnt have ur guard up." That was eye opening man. Thanks.
Losing your ego solves so many things. But it's hard.
Darko Ristanovic so right
Darko Ristanovic what does losing ego even mean.
When you "lose" your ego you kind of get a different one that revolves around your "transcendence" and "absence" of ego
do dmt done
But we need our ego, we can't function in the world without it
we will always have or accumulate ego. Keeping it in check is what helps
People with ASPD love this book! There's a way to be truthful without being an asshole. I think a lot of people are confused about that. You can be honest without breaking someone's soul or traumatizing them.
Then my father should have read this. But this asshole reads no books cause books are dangerous for his own illusion of himself
Yep. People can be positive and constructive in their honest comments towards others. Honesty doesn't have to be rude.
As a 21 year old right now, just wana say thank you brother. Thank you a lot
+JoMomma239 I'm 21 too ,is 239 your area code lol?
No haha, that was one of the numbers they reccomended I choose in order to have this name lmao
+JoMomma239 Same to me bro! That priceless feeling of knowing you don't have to fuck up your personal life in your 20s :)
Whatd you learn in the last year? Im 21. Tell me what to do!
i feel you bro
I pride myself in doing the difficult thing and always swimming towards pain and disorder.... still, I found so many areas in life about which I lie to different people. I've subconsciously been at odds with this but now you've challenged me to act. Thanks for the vid - came at perfect time!
This is a very wonderful summation of the book. I've been a fan of Radical Honesty for a few years now and can honestly say it's teachings are (while inconvenient) absolutely true. A recent realization I've had is that telling the truth isn't so much being ok with offending people and saying what's on your mind but more expressing your intentions, emotions, and state genuinely regardless of sociological context.
I'm going to be real and put this out there:
I have been getting really angry, and having tics and "compulsive thoughts" and instead of accepting them have rejected them, felt ashamed by them and used them as a coping mechanism to avoid the present moment and putting my real self out there. I have been feeling insecure, anxious, depressed, incapable, worthless, and powerless.
I am fucking done with that, I am going to live in the present moment, express my authentic self, believe in myself, connect with people, take massive action toward my goals and not give a FUCK what other people think about me.
Thanks for the video Julien!
wow i thought i was the only person on the planet going through this bro i appreciate your honesty 💯
My gosh, your energy that lead me to start watching you is back. This is the stuff I resonate with.
the deeper the truth, the deeper the v-neck, i'll back it :)
Omg thank you so much! This gave me the courage to tell the truth about my feelings for someone and we just found out the we both don't have any for each other, so we though the same. I was overthinking it so much. So can be friends now
you're an extremely generous person for putting this out for free in this day and age. mind altered
+tr3ystrikes Haha, thanks! ;)
I haven’t seen the whole video yet, but holy crap lying has led to me almost committing suicide. I felt that telling the truth would only get others to resent me and be upset with me. Which led me to not to bottle things inside, becoming paranoid, and almost killing myself. I hope this video can help me
Wow Julien these videos keep getting better! Just watched a video with you and Tyler that showed your first video, Your presentation has come a long way, very captivating. Thank you !
This sounds so simple but it's actually incredibly hard to do. This is especially true if you face losing your job/wife/life by telling the truth. I desperately want to be the person that does this but honestly, it scares me to my core. I've always had terrible social anxiety and abandonment issues and I don't think I have the courage to admit who I really am inside.
I am in the process of joining your course and have my second call next Wednesday. I'm very excited about this. Once I'm immersed in your course and able to let things go I want to let all of the honesty out. I am not living the live I imagined and hardly ever express my true self to others. Great video.
As a woman, I can’t tell you how DIFFICULT of a journey it has been to be radically honest, especially when we are taught lying as a primary way to attract men. It’s gotten better since I found the people who appreciate the honesty and the transparency. You might think people will see you as volatile, but actually they come to trust you more because you share even when it’s hard, so people KNOW they can count on you and trust you. It’s a flip that has to happen in your head and in your heart. Pray to God to give you peace, too. It’s miraculous.
I think you can also do these admissions via a journal for yourself I've been doing this myself and that is very helpful you stop lying to you about the xyz in question then if needed you can change it or else start thinking about curiously how would you take it one step so if it's your job you hate admit it & why then be like if I had to coming from a place that all my life needs are met then what job am I looking for if any and if not what do I want to do instead to make money or how am I going to structure my life where I'm not using money without depending on my wife/gf/mom/parents/ ect to do it? As what would be unfair to both of us.
And play with the idea over time then if you come up with steps then take small steps to shift cuz realistically people don't have contact with everyone ever who they dislike ect so therefor the method of must do face to face already doesn't work fully so journaling for those you can't reach then for those who are alive & in your life now start daily adding in more truths.
people are already around you and with you cuz its the fake you just like you're with them cuz it's the fake them you may not be compatible or you may be yet you have to give them the ability to be honest too and it may not be by the book either unless you tell them I'm doing this I don't know me and I don't know the true you so lets see if we can do this and see if we are truly compatible at our truths rather then our faces fronts and lies that we all grew up cultivating so no faults to either of us.
otherwise you may want companion books like how to fight fair or how to have difficult conversations so you can use this book with those to have a better landing on tough conversations like "I resent you so much heres why!"
Julien, it would be awesome if you could revisit "Antifragile" by Nassim Taleb in 2016. You and Tyler mentioned the book on the last video and it's a great source of knowledge and perspective on self development - be it game, business, relationships, etc.
Hope you do it.
+SB Johnny Yep! Planning on talking about that soon! ;)
+SB Johnny haha I actually downloaded the audiobook after julien and owen talked about it ;)
+SB Johnny I also talk about it in this video here: ua-cam.com/video/nZNdbAYnAQo/v-deo.html ;)
+SB Johnny seria bom que ele fizesse isso msm.
Mark Isar got it as a christmas gift from my gf. Guess she's a keeper, eh?
This something I've been working on big time, I know SelfActualized did a video about this and it's very liberating. Real people will be drawn to you once you break down the lies.
I appreciate you for making this video, I understood everything easily 😍
I genuinely appreciate this video, keep up the great content
Really like the background and lighting. Can also see that you've grown this year! You're fibe is so much more relaxed, giving lots of 'open' energy. Keep up the change :D
relaxed??
I called one friend of mine, we make peace... Next step level 3 honesty.
Thanks, Father J!
Telling the truth has made me completely alienated from the rest of humanity. People want a comfortable bed of lies or they go ape shit, even if it is so obvious and innocuous like the sky is blue or my skin doesn't make me evil. I know some airhead is going to say "you were being TOO truthful" etc. No, I have tact and answer questions honestly without insulting people. It didn't matter, and now I find it difficult to see people as anything other than cattle
I feel you
Julien, you REALLY should be an actor. You remember me Jonny Depp for some reason... The way you move your body and expresses yourself. For me you would be great intrerpreting a mad man. I'm not joking you have talent
Thanks man, this really helps. I've been trying it today at work and I do feel a sense of freedom doing it. There's a lot of work ahead of me but it's worth the struggle.
Quite a radical "cure", but might be life saving for somebody - like me! I'll try it from right now on and in the nearest future - I'm very excited/anxious what the result will be!!!
Troels Møller howd it go?
@@AldousHuxley7 i think he died
Thankyou for this video Julien
Thank you.
WOW!!...You are amazing!!!...YOU my man are gonna change people's lives , for.the.BETTER!!!....👍
Damn, this vid was huge for me, been pretty much masking myself my entire life; time to put an end to that bullshit.
King Steele howd it go?
How’d it go little nigga
all of this happen to me to the point it blow up in my face i feel I always been a people pleaser and it came out bad.....
What you said seems so true, must practice this everyday from now on. Thank you!
How did it go?
Thanks for posting. The truth will set me free
Well there are still some things that are private, & held deep inside, but I get it, I really do, loved this.....
& love love love you, the truth is essentially important, the truth is like God.........thanks for sharing
Julien! Really want to let you know how much I enjoy this channel and the content you have on here. I've become more motivated and interested in so many new ideas because of this. Hats off; God bless!
Thx.... love all your stuff
boss. i loved it. when i read book i was amazed at how much I learned, and when i heard the guy had workshops where people get naked in front of everyone and talked about their bodys i was like that's really putting it all out there. cool. thanks man.
+David Cort Haha, yeah his programs are pretty extreme. Thanks for watching!
Each video gets better and better!
+Bryan's Dimension Thx! :)
not even a minute in and i already can relate. ive always had this question, thank you.
+Jesus T Nice! You're welcome!
Thank you Julien! Those book reviews are very insightful!
I resent the way the front of your shirt is cut
Lmaooo
that was my exact feeling. This guys tries way too hard
Just get a V cut already! Geez
As a sneaky little worm. Thank you. Juuuuuuuuuuuuulien blaaaaaaaaanc ooooooooooooooooooo
15:20 reminds of Spiderman 2 Norman Osbourne, " You know how much I sacrificed!!" 😂😂😂😂
Hey man, Just noticed you upload these on a Podcast as well. Now I can listen while I drive. Really appreciate it!!
Hello Julien. I wanna thank you for your contribution!
I'm not gunna lie I have learned so much from you Julian I feel I need to pay you! Thank u so much and I hope you keep on growing like a lynchpin in 2016 and beyond!!!
+Sammy Kabir buy his programs, go see an event.
+chandlerbing..Unfortunately, Julian isn't 'allowed' in the UK as far as I know and I'm more into the book reviews and motivational stuff rather then the PUA stuff but yeah, I'm sure this guys gunna be writing books and stuff himself soon so I'll be the first to buy 😉
Sammy Kabir go and see L.A.
+chandlerbing..LOL I'm good fella I'm sure Julian will survive without my two pence and if you mean actually fly to L.A, I own a business, I'm married and have a young child so it's not that easy to just up and leave but yeah, thanks anyway 😊
Sammy Kabir your child will be a superstar with all this amazing wisdom surrounding him. cheers.
This is really something I notice in my daily life. Thanks for clearing it up and going into depth!
+Mark Isar You're welcome!!
Great Video
Its crazy how when you meditate, and let go of mind identification.. you feel, so, fucking good. 10 years on this path. Let go of your mind, use it, but don't identify with it, they key. Be an observer of your own thoughts.
Feel so relieved after this, thank you!
amazing and powerful words. really resonated with this man.
Loved it. Only thing missing was a clip of Will Smith saying "Tell da truth!....Tell da truth!" at the end.
Soo happy I grew up on Rael hiphop too. "image is nothing you're frontin' see the thirst in y'all" Sean Price.
excellent review.
Tried to read this book after hearing about it in daygame blueprint from a business guy but only got through the first 3rd . thanks for clearing this up.
Super profound
Great Video Julien !
You did the review really well! Thumbs up!
Thanks for this video brother!
+Angel Marini (AngelMariniTV) You're welcome!
it s so weird that I was a teanager and I was trying to do this instictively and was in depression that noone was in this vibe back then and I suppresed this....
Eye Opening Video Julien, this is actually one thing i really needed to hear.
Cheers Bud
I recommend the book: The Wisdom of Insecurity
Happy new years!
I love this man!
Julien,your so good in explaining evrey single detail of all books.Well done and never give up.We all love your videos and you did help me tones into being more responeble,confidence,girls exc…My life in general is overly better.I'm starting to feel free and not trapped into my mind.It's so funny as when i look back,i realize how rediclous i was acting.I'm starting to be like.I'm starting to have a deeper identety then i ever had.You're a big insperation of me.
+Seb Advice Sebastien (Seb) That's fucking awesome, man!!! Thanks! ;)
YOU WELCOME. That part wher you said"if you don't express your true attentions,they'll be botttled up forever" sounds pretty scary.I expressed some of my deep feelings and man,it feels soo good to be free.
Julien - The reason people are phony liars in the first place is because others in society unconsciously actually reward phony and dishonest behavior, and we all unconsciously know this. Hence the reason we lie in the first place! Whereas honesty and truth will get you punished in some way, directly or indirectly. Therefore, I would offer that the other side of radical honesty is learning to reward honesty from others, even if they are being rude and hostile to you in their delivery. Stop punishing people who are being honest with you!
Good book review/ summary Julien! Omg the end where you talk about intimacy in a relationship is extremely uncomfortable. I imagine doing that but don't like it at all. I do however crave more openness and honesty.
Thanks again
Always welcome!
The relationship bit is awesome.
+DVMN Haha, yeah I personally liked that part a lot... A little "out there" though... ;)
i love you bro, you have been my inspiration since 2011
+howareyoudoingbrother Thanks for following my journey! I hope you got a lot out of it! :)
+JulienHimself I can assure you that I have learned a lot from you and I am still learning more and more. thanks for the videos these videos are priceless
Messages 900 tinder girls "I don't really work at madame tussauds!" "I never had a son called Gaspard!" ... Seriously though your new videos are really good. They touch on some really cool and useful points I've not come across before.
+Okhaj Lol, thanks! ;)
Love your book reviews! Thanks Julien
+Corey West Thanks! And thanks for watching!
I can see why the book is called "Radical Honesty". This shit sounds crazy af. I don't think people can handle that kind of honesty.
Because we never learned to ! Imagine a world where everyone is radically honest and we learn to be it starting from being a baby !
@@yorgohoebeke exactly!
Honestly great book, great video.
Content gets more and more incredible every video. I notice a lot of parellels with Eckhart tolle's work, especially power of now in this book, though on a more general level.
+MajerNetwork Thank you! :)
That Julien grin face, when he know he has right, like he know, it feel hurt us, but thats what we need :D
Truth... the word "lie" does not necessarily mean a person is actively making up or fabricating a lie. Rather it's about the millions of thoughts and ideas which go unsaid or glossed over.
Just reading it... Awesome book!!! :D
have you done it
amazing video
+DAVID FOSFORD Thanks!
sounds realy awesome !
I like your review of Radical Honesty! thanks! I invite you to read and review one that followed that, called Practicing Radical Honesty. Keep up the good work. Brad Blanton
It's all about me. All of it. From insecurity, people pleasing to anger and hate towards people I love which generates more anxiety and so on. FUCK. Crying like a baby.
Sadly mostpeople don\t want the truth i always say "what's on my mind" and i'm not popular or "understood" by most people ...
Or maybe most people are dumb as fuck ...
+Pentru Barbati which would be judging
+Pentru Barbati Doesn't work for everyone. Telling the truth seemed to make my relationships way worse. I agree with you. Although I do feel better and happier, I wish my friends/ family felt better with me too.
Brian N Same here oh well most still are in the matrix ...
Pentru Barbati does it actually need to be said though? Does it benefit anyone? Or are you just using "radical honesty" as an excuse to be mean to people?
looks like working out is paying off for you. keep on rocking
+puelladeluxe Thanks! ;)
The production on the audiobook is hilariously bad, still, it's well worth listening. It's one hell of a book.
Hi Julien,
Your book review videos are GOLDEN!!
I love how you admit the fear of fucking op so that you have to do a cut-screen. I make videos myself and have the same constant fear. Personally, I am impressed with how long you can keep it going WITHOUT having to do a cut-screen. And further as a viewer you barely notice it. There's room for plenty more cut-screens in your videos :)
Thanks for these book review videos!!!
That is intense. I have to at least read it.
It’s a very intense book, yes! 👌
Read the book because everyone was hyping it. Was actually the ONLY self help book I had really trouble finishing because it was just so damn boring...
I found it really boring the first time I read it too, but since then I've done some workshops and rereading it it is less boring to me. I imagine RH is a practical thing, not a reading-about-it thing. You have to do it to get it.
I kinda agree with you. If you’re deep into self help, you’re already familiar with everything the author says.
Julian do you put back out these videos, or is UA-cam hiding them? Every couple weeks it appears a video I haven't seen pops up altho I've been on your page multiple times and feel I've listened to all your feeds and some multiple times. Btw great video
Must be a UA-cam algorithm thing... Thx!
So Weird Al's confessions series of songs would be apt for this.
... very good summary of the book, though
Are you fucking kidding me?!?!! GOLD
aaaaaand theres the cut scene! :D
@julienhimself great video. I've been wanting to give this book a read.
thanks.
Julien, ¿How does this contrast with girl's validation? Telling the girl you like her is completely ok. But expressing it all with as much detail as possible is counterproductive as it will validate her ego. ¿What are your thoughts on this?
+Juan Herrera She sees why you really do it. If you do it hoping for her to react a certain way (not honest) she will be disgusted with you. If you do it honestly you shouldn't give a fuck what her reaction will be in the first place so there would be no need to ask this question. examine your motives.
+Lepthymo Thanks for your advice. Certainly I am speaking of terms of maximizing the outcome from a place where I am not really dependent of it. IMO, not being radical honest it's not being deshonest, but being smart as to, again, maximizing the outcome.
+TheGreatslyfer Alright, thanks man.
+Brian N Alright, thanks man.
Thanks for sharing. I appreciate all your thoughts and views, however I have a difference of opinion over here.
I would like add/contribute views - People close to you (in society or community) are not ready to face the truth. Ur loved ones (friends n family) want to be in a Perfect relationship with you. If you tell them that you have flaws or something which will also rapture their image in society, they can't handle the honesty and will not appreciate your exposure. Better keep those lips sealed to save all. Don't embarrass your loved ones or your friends as they are associated to you. In your freedom of letting go ...may lie the embarrassment of others. Remember 'Being Naked' always brings Shame and embarrassment to you and ones who are holding your back. Carry your truth to the grave.
But at the same time, you shouldn't be blatantly honest, because things can take a turn.
How much time do you take to read your books ?
nice!
Hi Julian, from my experience in real life I have noticed it's amazing to live honestly 100% of the time but I think there is a difference between putting everything in exposure which can hurt you and being honest...what's your opinion?
Imagine if our ancestors back in the days had this mindset, their death would be much easier by their enemies if they knew everything about them...
Or even if ideas or inventions were put out there , many of them might be stolen by other people
+Aria Derakhshani what's your skype? I read " I have noticed it's amazing to live honestly 100% of the time" and I imagine you're a person I'm looking for to add to my friends. Let me know
+Brian N my skype is aria.derakhshani
Aria Derakhshani added
Julien you're the Fucking man! seriously thank you for doing what you do
Yo Julien! Great video, the book seems very interesting. How close do you feel like you are to living this way? I feel like everyone would be in mental hospitals if they lived this way hahah.