What if the affair went on for two years, the newness of the affair might be gone but it has become a comfortable relationship, like a man and his wife but without the annoyance of maintaining a household.
YES I had that mental torture daily " what does she have that I don't?" I met her in person as I caught them together and he now wants both of us and a polygamy type of marriage using Islam as a basis! I didn't sign up for that
I found out about my husband's affair in October 2018, he left after he got caught we tried to work through the infidelity we lived together for about 5 months in 2019 found he was still seeing her he left me again living with his daughter so he says, he was still coming by and doing things for me I moved in with my children still we spent time together but I just couldn't accept not living together working on the marriage in July 2020 I set boundaries by not having any contact with him Iam tired can't fix this marriage I know it's over I want a divorce I will never be the same they don't care about me I have found self love to take control of my life.
Thank you for everything. I’m new in this situation. Need a counselor wish it could be you guys. I thought I had the most amazing husband in the world and found out a few things that were disturbing. I’m not sexual, but in sexual nature, I know sex has occurred but very disturbing I am lost.
this has been helpful. I think my husband cheated on me- it is a long story- he was not a believer- he is now- as in he got born again but he is a taker however, not a giver- and not trying to obey God- whether to just walk away at this point as he is not doing his part to change anything about his self- he has refused to discuss- and he is in fact engaged in abusive behaviour over his own bad choices-
This is like a double edge sword for me, my wife cheated so I did have that question in my mind. Now you're saying that the unfaithful spouse probably didnt love them. So now my thought is " so why the hell did you commit this hurtful act if it wasnt love?? " As a man hearing this hurts my ego even more for some reason. I feel like a marriage was stolen from me and to top it all off the reason for the theft "being in love" Is not even a legitimate. Any advice for why I'm thinking like this?
Because you are, most likely, emotionally mature. You are strong, and rational. So, hearing that she jeopardized everything for a “love” that has no future. They are selfish, they care only about themselves.
Hello from Delaware! I recently saw a video on communication that you and your wife Danielle did 5 years ago and I loved what you guys were sharing. I looked on your website and only saw events up to February of 2019, so I don't know if you've more events coming up. I was wondering, do you/will you do any couples/relationship conferences in the Philadelphia/Baltimore area?
What if the affair went on for two years, the newness of the affair might be gone but it has become a comfortable relationship, like a man and his wife but without the annoyance of maintaining a household.
Cheaters don't know what love is.
Its really mentally torturing... Awesome presentation as usual.
YES I had that mental torture daily " what does she have that I don't?" I met her in person as I caught them together and he now wants both of us and a polygamy type of marriage using Islam as a basis! I didn't sign up for that
@Welcome's House yes Queen I will not be anyone's co-wife! Divorce is still in process but delayed due to covid however I am moving forward 👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽
I found out about my husband's affair in October 2018, he left after he got caught we tried to work through the infidelity we lived together for about 5 months in 2019 found he was still seeing her he left me again living with his daughter so he says, he was still coming by and doing things for me I moved in with my children still we spent time together but I just couldn't accept not living together working on the marriage in July 2020 I set boundaries by not having any contact with him Iam tired can't fix this marriage I know it's over I want a divorce I will never be the same they don't care about me I have found self love to take control of my life.
I’ve been married for 34 years and last May , I found out that my husband was having an affair for four years. I would live to speak to you .
My husband has been having affair two years what kind of love is that we been together 30 years ..
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Thanks so much, you have just fit in a missing puzzle in my struggles. You're doing a great work . Praying for God's blessings on you and the team.
I love the way you break it down. Thank you!
Thank you. I asked him this question just last night.
Thank you for everything. I’m new in this situation. Need a counselor wish it could be you guys. I thought I had the most amazing husband in the world and found out a few things that were disturbing. I’m not sexual, but in sexual nature, I know sex has occurred but very disturbing I am lost.
this has been helpful. I think my husband cheated on me- it is a long story- he was not a believer- he is now- as in he got born again but he is a taker however, not a giver- and not trying to obey God- whether to just walk away at this point as he is not doing his part to change anything about his self- he has refused to discuss- and he is in fact engaged in abusive behaviour over his own bad choices-
This is like a double edge sword for me, my wife cheated so I did have that question in my mind. Now you're saying that the unfaithful spouse probably didnt love them. So now my thought is " so why the hell did you commit this hurtful act if it wasnt love?? "
As a man hearing this hurts my ego even more for some reason. I feel like a marriage was stolen from me and to top it all off the reason for the theft "being in love" Is not even a legitimate. Any advice for why I'm thinking like this?
Because you are, most likely, emotionally mature. You are strong, and rational. So, hearing that she jeopardized everything for a “love” that has no future. They are selfish, they care only about themselves.
@Elijah meza I’m going through the same, please share your contact details, I’d like to talk to you.
What about affairs that last for over 30 years? What kind of love is that?
What is that book? From chapter 6 I didn’t hear the title clearly
Amazing !
If someone is in affair for over 2 years and still counting what do you say is going on?
Did you do the video of the dangerous partner profile?
J 2004 I will
Hello from Delaware! I recently saw a video on communication that you and your wife Danielle did 5 years ago and I loved what you guys were sharing. I looked on your website and only saw events up to February of 2019, so I don't know if you've more events coming up. I was wondering, do you/will you do any couples/relationship conferences in the Philadelphia/Baltimore area?
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