black box recorder - child psychology (lyrics)

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  • @fairy8765
    @fairy8765 2 роки тому +402

    For a weird reason this song is very calming, I like the sound of her voice

  • @pau8652
    @pau8652 3 роки тому +4789

    I love songs that tell stories.

    • @gaiag9926
      @gaiag9926 3 роки тому +52

      do u know other songs like this?i can t find simalar song to this

    • @pau8652
      @pau8652 3 роки тому +190

      @@gaiag9926
      7 years
      A million men
      Ultraviolence
      Television/so far everything is good
      Ride (the 10 min video)
      Melody of a murder
      5 years time
      Carmen

    • @papamochilittlemochi4064
      @papamochilittlemochi4064 3 роки тому +21

      @@pau8652 the ride is lana i’m pretty sure. (it took me awhile to look for it)

    • @inisaiahsfreezer
      @inisaiahsfreezer 3 роки тому +15

      @@gaiag9926 gods and monsters by lana is pretty similar too :)

    • @dx26r
      @dx26r 3 роки тому +5

      @@inisaiahsfreezer true. but west coast is by far the one..

  • @baekhyunandeggs3564
    @baekhyunandeggs3564 2 роки тому +141

    I also stopped talking when I was six years old, then was able to talk again when I was 10 years old after meeting this boy who was so talkative, I couldn’t help but also talk to him, and he broke me but also made me have my ego again, somehow. I was passive back then but learned how to fight and be honest because of him.

  • @rwuiinedd9411
    @rwuiinedd9411 3 роки тому +1012

    those 16 dislikes are people that can't accept that life is unfair.

    • @dinnerbone444
      @dinnerbone444 2 роки тому +24

      this comment makes me reminisce

    • @luv_arson
      @luv_arson 2 роки тому +9

      @@dinnerbone444 if only we could go back

    • @catalinab794
      @catalinab794 2 роки тому +10

      it only is what you say to yourself that it is. i cannot accept it(i like this song though)

    • @garfballs
      @garfballs 2 роки тому +19

      missing when you could see dislikes

    • @luccaskingo
      @luccaskingo Рік тому

      Its me

  • @Aphrodite-k5t
    @Aphrodite-k5t 3 роки тому +990

    the way they say “kys” takes me out 💀 love this song tho

  • @angellindamaye
    @angellindamaye Рік тому +358

    "My parents welcomed me with loving arms, that within an hour we're back at each other's throats. Normal, happy childhood back on course."
    Fucking ouch

  • @silentshadow2957
    @silentshadow2957 7 місяців тому +19

    As someone who has always struggled with speech and living in a dysfunctional family, I love this song. It's so bitter but so sweet and soothing at the same time. The picture ties it all together too. That shrug says, "Oh well, this is my life, get over it," while also showing a glimpse of the pain concealed within. I love it.

    • @Motorcycle_punks
      @Motorcycle_punks День тому

      Things to do if you’re sad (Lashes don’t actually grow from tears)
      -cut paper (Throw it out afterwards)
      -scream/cry
      -make tea
      -go on a walk alone/with someone
      -Give someone/something a hug! Including stuffed animals
      -Watch a comfort UA-camr
      Something to distract yourself from negative things
      -Smell something you like the scent of
      -Get a fidget toy
      -pet your pet if you have an animal in your home/house
      -Take a nap (sometimes when you take a nap after all emotions you’ll remember bad memories when you wake up so try distracting yourself when you wake up)
      -Go on a FaceTime with someone
      -talk everything through with someone or maybe even yourself. Saying your feelings and emotions out loud might make you feel better
      -Go somewhere you enjoy being at
      Hope this helps!

  • @dollsongsyuri
    @dollsongsyuri 3 роки тому +574

    i love her voice tone so much

  • @ell18888
    @ell18888 2 роки тому +122

    I kinda wish the whole song was singing, but it's really interesting with a story

  • @evelin2970
    @evelin2970 Рік тому +151

    As a neurodivergent person this song hits me in a very different way.

  • @enk335
    @enk335 2 роки тому +596

    I love this song so much. I relate to it so much. I have depression, gad, adhd and asd but that's not the point. The point is I've always felt disconnected, almost inhuman, chronically bored with life, and though I'm doing my best to get better that doesn't mean I don't struggle. In fact, every day is a struggle. Only because I ironically know that death isn't an option. This song is really good to just let out some tears to.

  • @luxbaby444
    @luxbaby444 3 роки тому +3020

    alison is pretty but this gives effy vibes 100%

  • @EchoFerreira
    @EchoFerreira 3 роки тому +574

    I hope I can make something this incredible one day

    • @jasmineamberroy
      @jasmineamberroy 3 роки тому +17

      you can & you will

    • @p1llpr1nce55
      @p1llpr1nce55 3 роки тому +5

      i believe in you!

    • @lilniris
      @lilniris 3 роки тому +5

      Make one day today! You got this 💕 Can’t wait to hear it!

    • @spooonkz
      @spooonkz 2 роки тому +4

      you’ve got this :)

    • @modelstatus3456
      @modelstatus3456 2 роки тому +4

      I'm sure you will

  • @kaliyahjade
    @kaliyahjade 3 роки тому +88

    I love their voice it’s so calming and soft lolz

  • @ladyofthemoon1319
    @ladyofthemoon1319 3 роки тому +1735

    “Life is unfair,kill yourself or get over it” to all my relatives including the ones I hate.I don’t have much I hate but it’s very rare to see a good one.They were raised by themselves,surviving wars and racism.I can’t blame them but I can’t give them the right to be so destructive to others.Mostly their children.I am tired of raising ur children but rather than them doing the “parenting” I will do it.This is my mindset since I know myself.

  • @ceeseee
    @ceeseee Рік тому +24

    Like i used to be kind and friendly but got bullied and harassed now i'm stuck with severe anxiety & ptsd. People call me weird & autistic and i'm so tired of it!

    • @tothebeyond6318
      @tothebeyond6318 Рік тому +1

      honestly fr, i'm so much happier now that i didn't get bullied but people will still comments about you without knowing your past and all it does is taking effects on you.

  • @loren9167
    @loren9167 3 роки тому +134

    what a lovely voice

  • @lucylatangona
    @lucylatangona 3 роки тому +86

    Her voice reminds me of Myrtle Snow from AHS

  • @lexireis8431
    @lexireis8431 3 роки тому +231

    I could definitely imagine Allison listening to this.

    • @d.akiehs
      @d.akiehs 2 роки тому

      Who's Allison?

    • @pennyroyalT
      @pennyroyalT 2 роки тому +2

      @@d.akiehs a character from pretty little liars

  • @karlavelazquez6958
    @karlavelazquez6958 3 роки тому +569

    sounds like an unreleased song by lana del rey ❤️

  • @StarzznScarzz
    @StarzznScarzz 7 місяців тому +4

    One time I talked to my brother about how I felt (keep in mind I’ve never told him or anyone how I felt) all he told me after I poured my heart out to him was "life is unfair" ever since that day I’ve never told him anything and this song always reminds me of it

  • @stcrrgazed
    @stcrrgazed Рік тому +14

    “i like this song, it makes me gloomy.”
    “gloom is good.”
    “really gloomy.”

  • @mashashishkevich4701
    @mashashishkevich4701 2 роки тому +33

    I used to listen to this song back in july-august every single day and i'm getting so many warm memories I love this thank you ❤️

  • @Iflirtwith_suicide
    @Iflirtwith_suicide 2 роки тому +122

    i dont know why but this song is so comforting and relateable

  • @maariyahshamsi7061
    @maariyahshamsi7061 Рік тому +10

    Heard this in Gilmore girls and loved it, it has a lana vibe to it

  • @dollsongsyuri
    @dollsongsyuri 3 роки тому +330

    also Effy Stonem vibes

  • @JiwonChu1996
    @JiwonChu1996 2 роки тому +8

    omg this fits allison so well wtf i never noticed how much it fits until now

  • @Karoline7787
    @Karoline7787 Рік тому +36

    I stopped talking when I was six years old
    I didn't want anything more to do with the outside world
    I was happy being quiet
    But, of course, they wouldn't leave me alone
    My parents tried every trick in the book
    From speech therapists to child psychologists
    They even tried bribery
    I could have anything
    As long as I said it out loud
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Of course this episode didn't last forever
    I'd made my point and it was time to move on
    To peel away the next layer of deceit
    And see what new surprises lay in store
    My school report said I showed no interest
    "A disruptive influence"
    I felt sorry for them in a way
    And when they finally expelled me
    It didn't mean a thing
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it

  • @luvleyrem
    @luvleyrem 8 місяців тому +12

    written out lyrics:
    I stopped talking when I was six years old
    I didn't want anything more to do with the outside world
    I was happy being quiet
    But, of course, they wouldn't leave me alone
    My parents tried every trick in the book
    From speech therapists to child psychologists
    They even tried bribery
    I could have anything
    As long as I said it out loud
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Of course this episode didn't last forever
    I'd made my point and it was time to move on
    To peel away the next layer of deceit
    And see what new surprises lay in store
    My school report said I showed no interest
    "A disruptive influence"
    I felt sorry for them in a way
    And when they finally expelled me
    It didn't mean a thing
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    At that time she stopped what she was doing, she stopped playing
    She stared, she had the facial grimacing
    And then the psychiatrist was saying
    "Julie, Julie, can you hear me? Can you open your eyes?"
    "Can you stick out your tongue?"
    And all of a sudden, Julie struck out
    The November day I came home
    The Christmas decorations were already up
    Spray on snow, colored flashing lights
    And an artificial tree that played Silent Night
    Over and over again
    My parents welcomed me with loving arms
    But within an hour were back at each others throats
    Normal, happy childhood back on course
    Batteries not included
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it

  • @sad.m0r0n
    @sad.m0r0n Рік тому +8

    Alison perfectly fits this song

  • @eshaxee
    @eshaxee 3 роки тому +112

    I FINALLY FOUND THIS SONG AGAIN OMFG

  • @adrija9340
    @adrija9340 6 місяців тому +4

    I first listened to this song yesterday and I can’t stop thinking about it now

  • @garnetcarnation6029
    @garnetcarnation6029 2 роки тому +42

    Does anyone else notice around 3:20 when it starts singing the chorus again theres a male voice this time, as if a relative saying it at her as part of the story?

    • @Renbadoobee
      @Renbadoobee 2 роки тому +2

      Yea I hear it

    • @NootNoot02
      @NootNoot02 Рік тому +3

      The male voice is here from the first chorus but I get what you mean anyway

  • @crypidneko
    @crypidneko Рік тому +4

    this song is so relatable to me but instead of speaking its understanding

  • @julie4068
    @julie4068 3 роки тому +58

    "kill yourself or get over it." this..this makes me feel something strange inside..

  • @aurora1871
    @aurora1871 3 роки тому +38

    this is like 100% effy but the "life is unfair kys or get over it" feels like sth Lisa Rowe would say

    • @lobotomyforeplay
      @lobotomyforeplay Рік тому +1

      This song always reminded me of girl interrupted tbh

  • @patrickstar28
    @patrickstar28 Рік тому +4

    There’s smth about this song that brings peace in my soul

  • @5thjuly
    @5thjuly 3 роки тому +26

    im so in love with this song

  • @missionhill7863
    @missionhill7863 2 роки тому +9

    This song is so beautiful right now

  • @lobotomyforeplay
    @lobotomyforeplay Рік тому +3

    Such a bittersweet song, nothing much like it to be frank.

  • @frictionlessfriction5862
    @frictionlessfriction5862 2 роки тому +8

    atleast I’m not the only one, thank you guys, I genuinely appreciate all of you.

  • @starlyfafa
    @starlyfafa 2 роки тому +16

    i always heard this song on tik tok but decided to listen to the full version after hearing it on gilmore girls 😃

    • @wosiksls
      @wosiksls Рік тому

      When was it in Gilmore girls? Episode season?

    • @marylisbon7
      @marylisbon7 Рік тому

      Samee

    • @marylisbon7
      @marylisbon7 Рік тому +1

      ​@@wosiksls It was in season 1 last episodes or 2 earlierst Lane and Rory were listening to it

  • @alexiaedwards3125
    @alexiaedwards3125 2 роки тому +32

    I feel like this song would be great in the first season of ahs, it should've been part of tate and violets moments

  • @_Zelia_
    @_Zelia_ Рік тому +4

    Listening to this song makes me feel so comfortable

  • @hazellevesquesupremacy
    @hazellevesquesupremacy Рік тому +3

    Here before this blows up (i really hope it does its underrated)

  • @Screamwaves
    @Screamwaves 10 місяців тому +1

    Im so happy this song is popular, Black box recorder is such an amazing band and im so upset they are so underrated, but atleast this song is a good one.

  • @kiddoprayer1843
    @kiddoprayer1843 3 роки тому +18

    i love this song sm

  • @lemonlover-rg5ni
    @lemonlover-rg5ni 2 роки тому +5

    New National anthem

  • @fanfiction8853
    @fanfiction8853 3 роки тому +12

    I love how this song is :]

  • @iLoveEarth1
    @iLoveEarth1 Рік тому +5

    Juat found this song and im in love with it.

  • @chewbaccamcclain7662
    @chewbaccamcclain7662 2 місяці тому +3

    This song is so effy

  • @sleepynoodlesromi
    @sleepynoodlesromi 2 роки тому +6

    I just got dymped so i was looking for sad music. I love this

  • @reese334
    @reese334 2 роки тому +8

    Idk why but this song reminds me of tori from the heart stopper comics

  • @Smellyavocados
    @Smellyavocados 3 роки тому +14

    Omg i first heard this song when i was watching gilmore girls

  • @jauume
    @jauume 2 роки тому +19

    i can't get over it haha

  • @bitteryoke345
    @bitteryoke345 Рік тому +6

    0:51 any minor inconvenience in my life lmao

  • @r4everr
    @r4everr Рік тому +5

    I lost my best friend ...
    Nisa i love u sm i will never forget you

  • @acidfish765
    @acidfish765 Рік тому +3

    a few years ago I went mute, I was really upset with the world and hated everything so I just shut up, I’m better now but yeah

  • @who8776
    @who8776 2 роки тому +7

    Ok but Alison in the background 😩💪

  • @angelll-01
    @angelll-01 9 днів тому +2

    i like this song.

  • @shaym4306
    @shaym4306 Рік тому +12

    This song is everything 🌿🖤 best type of fever dream

  • @evalau8082
    @evalau8082 2 місяці тому +1

    i was looking for an hour in my history to find this song im so happy

  • @LivyaMagalhaes-k3b
    @LivyaMagalhaes-k3b Рік тому +5

    Acho que eu nunca vou superar o quão injusta a vida é, acho que vou escolher a primeira opção.

  • @peachesbvssyshaert6916
    @peachesbvssyshaert6916 2 роки тому +5

    I'm not crying you are

  • @GumWallSecond
    @GumWallSecond Місяць тому +2

    I can’t believe I’m relating to this song 😄

  • @thekidsnextdoor1.
    @thekidsnextdoor1. 3 роки тому +8

    This song gives some vibes🧍🏻‍♀️

  • @theunknownofknowns1688
    @theunknownofknowns1688 2 роки тому +6

    Having selective mutism it’s relatable

  • @Soul_chained
    @Soul_chained 5 місяців тому +1

    I listened to this sing several months ago, then I started watching PLL. My aṣṣ was so surprised when that scene came on, I was like, wait, I know that picture from somewhere. 😭

  • @Raquel-cq2jf
    @Raquel-cq2jf 9 місяців тому +1

    gilmore girls had a soundtrack so ahead of its time

  • @nayeliha7502
    @nayeliha7502 3 роки тому +16

    AAAA amooo

  • @Bonlesslawyer
    @Bonlesslawyer 7 місяців тому +2

    i always thought it was a deleted scene from skins😭😭

  • @prcjrs
    @prcjrs 2 роки тому +5

    love this

  • @serenity4773
    @serenity4773 3 роки тому +7

    the first part of this song is literally me

  • @cupofcoc2248
    @cupofcoc2248 2 роки тому +4

    It sounds very hypocritical of her to say “ kys or get over it” when she can’t even get over it

  • @lau9906
    @lau9906 2 роки тому +4

    mt bomm! i essa msc combina com a ali

  • @maiax1468
    @maiax1468 2 роки тому +3

    A get such a PJ Harvey vibe from this song I love it sm

  • @Lucas13344
    @Lucas13344 3 роки тому +6

    this is amazing

  • @michaelafton3642
    @michaelafton3642 3 місяці тому +2

    this song tells stories about their childhood

  • @blueblousedesigns
    @blueblousedesigns Рік тому +2

    My teenage years when my bipolar was so out of control

  • @oliviaerror4203
    @oliviaerror4203 15 днів тому +2

    She was like 12 I hope the production team produced boundaries

  • @karlmarx7397
    @karlmarx7397 11 місяців тому +1

    this is my new found psychology of life

  • @gr1m_is
    @gr1m_is 2 роки тому +2

    I sometimes (alot)think about just what if i stop talking it would be so easy
    I already feel a disconnect with everyone else what would not talking do

  • @Clarisesprooo
    @Clarisesprooo 7 місяців тому +2

    Ngl this really reminds me of myself and Susanna Kaysen

  • @toothlesst1na
    @toothlesst1na Рік тому +4

    HELP IDK BUT I SEARCHED “LANA DEL REY - LIFE IS UNFAIR”

  • @qszaa_
    @qszaa_ 3 роки тому +3

    Ali is so beautiful

  • @user-neko8my4b
    @user-neko8my4b 2 роки тому +4

    reminds me of effy and gilmore girls tv show

  • @cakecloudart2872
    @cakecloudart2872 2 роки тому +3

    This song is literally effy stonem

  • @danpaytas9662
    @danpaytas9662 3 роки тому +18

    I just took a whole bottle of muscle relaxers. Night night everyone 🤞💗

    • @BebeDFairy
      @BebeDFairy 3 роки тому

      Are you okay now?? 🥺

    • @BebeDFairy
      @BebeDFairy 3 роки тому

      Pls tell me you're okay

    • @crisptomato9495
      @crisptomato9495 3 роки тому +2

      @@danpaytas9662 Please reach out to someone. I know it’s hard but you’re stronger than you think. I understand killing yourself seems almost impossible to resist but what if you regret it? Do you have people close to you? Pets? If you can’t live for yourself, please at least live for them. Hope your day’s going well. ❤️

    • @dimey2018
      @dimey2018 2 роки тому

      I hope ur OK

    • @lolidfk7168
      @lolidfk7168 2 роки тому

      Yooo u ok now? I recently also had a failed su1cide attempt (tried to h@ng myself on the door knob in my room like a girlboss) so I mean at least u r not alone Ig

  • @ilovebeinganidiot6899
    @ilovebeinganidiot6899 2 роки тому +8

    She sounds like lana omg

    • @gugugagag
      @gugugagag 2 роки тому +1

      fr? it seems like a song from her lizzy grant era

  • @yasminekefi7345
    @yasminekefi7345 2 роки тому +3

    I knew this from gilmore girls

  • @summer.1638
    @summer.1638 8 місяців тому +1

    im hooked

  • @Westcoatwithhim
    @Westcoatwithhim Рік тому +2

    This is so real

  • @_aaakyatsww
    @_aaakyatsww 3 роки тому +6

    I love song

  • @girlinterruptediaro
    @girlinterruptediaro Рік тому +2

    This is so me fr

  • @minaxry8894
    @minaxry8894 3 роки тому +6

    prométeme que esto será para siempre

  • @bri7035
    @bri7035 3 роки тому +9

    i thought this was lana CRY

  • @instantshot
    @instantshot 3 роки тому +88

    The five people who disliked this are losers and you can't convince me otherwise

  • @mirabella-wi6oh
    @mirabella-wi6oh 3 роки тому +23

    which one of you disliked this

    • @viiyaxyz
      @viiyaxyz 3 роки тому +1

      Yeah. We just wanna talk.

  • @mariam9188
    @mariam9188 2 роки тому +1

    Hi wian 🙈🙈

  • @electriclove5760
    @electriclove5760 Рік тому +1

    effy stonem owns this song