How Feminism DESTROYED Society (and women)
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- Опубліковано 28 чер 2024
- Feminism has been fighting for gender equality for the last 200 or so years. While early on the movement had massive positive impact on women and society, we have to wonder if that's still the case as feminism rages on in its fourth wave.
In its desire for sexual liberation, Feminism has allied itself heavily with the adult industry, leading to adult content's massive rise and influence over every aspect of life. But has that been good for women, for children, and for men?
Has feminism actually helped society?
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Chapters -
00:00 - Introduction
00:40 - Chapter One - It comes in waves
04:19 - Chapter Two - Are we there yet?
05:35 - Chapter Three - The Feminist Vision for Society
06:15 - Chapter Four - The Current Situation
07:05 - Chapter Five - The Root of our Problems
08:57 - Chapter Six - The Feminists were wrong
09:30 - Chapter Seven - What Happened?
16:34 - Chapter Eight - What if?
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One time I was venting to a friend about how my husband always leaves his drawers open. We had a narrow bedroom at the time so it meant I was bumping my knees in the dark and such. She literally told me to divorce him…this feminism mindset means that any little ABSOLUTELY NORMAL inconvenient thing a man does is worth posting on tik tok complaining about the “patriarchy.” Meanwhile, women do a billion annoying things in a day, men just don’t complain as much. And they certainly do not threaten to divorce you every time you leave dirty makeup brushes on the bathroom counter.
Why would you mention anything of your marriage to a stranger. As my mother always said keep your house clean of such people.
@@map3384 it was a drawer
If that was the case I would divorce my partner for her leaving her dirty clothes NEXT to the laundry basket. But instead, I pick it up and put it inside. I love her and divorcing over something so minor and trivial is astonishingly stupid. I guess that’s what they miss in their relationships, actual love and patience for someone who you care about.
@@AutumnFaerie Men think that way. Women, not so. My wife’s college feminist friend is currently divorcing her husband because she’s not happy. Perhaps it’s because she spread her legs for dozens of guys only to marry a beta in her early 30s because she wanted children and a house. He was just a place holder and a means to get what she wanted materially.
I mean if he simply doesn't care about CONSTANTLY inconveniencing you (while you also get hurt because of that) then he doesn't care, what does that say about him as a partner? Swap the roles of you being husband and him being wife - doesn't matter which gender they have, if partner doesn't care then it sounds like they don't give a shit.
Schrödinger's feminism: a woman is simultaneously a victim and empowered, until something happens. Then she chooses which state benefits her the most.
🤣🤣🤣
i call them SPIVs, which is ironic because society treats women like VIP'S, strong powerful independent VICTIMS
The same can be said about "race"
Came because of After Skool project 🔥🔥🤗🤗
Meanwhile men never contradict themselves, or conveniently choose whatever position that happens to suit them depending on the situation they’re in …..wait, they’ve been doing the same thing forever because human beings are fundamentally selfish, except now that women are openly doing it too, it’s a “feminist “thing. How dare we have the same flaws as men. Who do we think we are, their equals?
The phrase "Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely" is gender neutral.
"With power comes responsibility". Feminists want all the power but leave all the responsibility for men
Power doesn’t corrupt, weakness corrupts.
Very good point 👍🏻
Power can corrupt but it also shows someone's true color
@@theatheistbear3117 You’re both really close. Now say both phrases, one immediately after the other.
Women were never 'chained to the stove barefoot'. In Victorian Britain most boys didn't go to school and worked manual jobs from as young as 7 years old. They weren't gatekeeping cushtie air conditioned office jobs, they were laboring in factories, fields, & building sites, and there was nothing to envy in an average man's life
There was nothing to envy in an average women's life either. Though unwelcome in the work force, many were forced to work outside the home, in addition to child birthing, rearing and domestic duties expected of them at home, as men's wages often weren't enough to sustain a family. In fact, every member of the family was expected to work in order to support each other, including the children of both sexes. Those were long hard days and nights, with much shorter lifespans the only reprieve. We certainly all live better lives than our ancestors did.
@@singtweetypie not many
@@Professorbubblegum According to the 1901 British census, 31.6% of females over the age of 10 were in paid employment. Nearly 80% of the adult female working population did so as domestic servants or in manufacturing/factories. While this census was taken at the end of the Victorian era, and did not capture the breadth of work done by women, nor unpaid work in homes or on farms etc, it is still significant.
Women were limited in terms of what they could inherit, (even children were not their own) so being widowed or divorced meant you were living off relatives or worked until you were unable to do so any longer. That is why 9 out of 10 women married in that era, even though the marriage contract totally abrogated women's rights over their bodies. Women had few choices, their father's made those for them. Although much has changed, sadly, there are still many countries where this type of domestic control/slavery of women still exists.
@@Professorbubblegum The 1901 census, taken at the end of the Victorian era, reported 31.6% of females over the age of 10 were in paid employment, either as domestic servants or manufacturing workers. That census did not capture females that spun yarn or grew produce to sell, worked on family farms, etc, but even in 1851, half of England's adult females worked. Women had little to no inheritance rights, so if they were widowed or divorced, had to either work, find a husband, or live off the kindness of relatives.
At the time, 90% of females married. The marriage contract abrogated a women's right over their property, possessions, money and bodies, giving ownership to their husbands, including all children born of the marriage. A wife was legally considered 'property', so men could rape and beat their wives without prosecution, and until 1891, could lock a wife in prison for refusing conjugal relations. It was another hundred years before it was illegal to rape a wife, although few women ever report and it is still legal in many countries. Women have lived lives working around the clock - on their feet, backs, knees, carrying unborn babies in their bellies, toddlers on their hips, until the human rights inequities were too great to ignore, and a few brave men and women were ready to fight.
@@singtweetypie "many" is a stretch.
A girl I went on a date with invited me back to her place after the night was over. She wanted to watch Barbie. She kept pointing out things like "you notice how it's all MEN in these positions?" or "See how all these MEN don't respect her?" It was weird. I left and never talked to her again.
I went on a date this past august and mid date the girl started going on and on about all the typical feminist talking points. Instant next
I let the end of the date play out and dropped her off following.
I texted her the next day that I refuse to date a feminist with a victim mindset. She replied “are you serious?”.. I said yes and blocked her directly after - felt great
A Feminist will never make a good life partner for a truly masculine man
The funny thing about the Barbie movie is that it portrays the Mattlw board as being all men when in reality it’s largely women 😂
@@TheAngryCoyoteIf western feminists had to be honest, the movement would cease to exist
@@dy4710 Smart man. Never deal with feminist women or even liberal women for that matter.
yep, major red flags there
I never understood the magnitude of how important it is for kids to have both parents until having my sons. I know they love me and have a soft spot for me. But the confidence, fun and security my husband brings to them is a whole other thing.
Yay for your sons! Little boys are SO funny! I have loved watching my younger brother and cousins grow up in to awesome men!
November 17th me and my husband had our first baby it was a girl but we are looking forward to more and I can't wait to have some boys.
Glad you understand the importance a father. When I was younger I always assumed that if I never had a woman, then I wouldn't have kids. Can't raise them without a woman
My gf when she was younger planned on adopting if she never got married. Glad she switched thinking and now we have a beautiful daughter
as someone whose father abandoned us, what i would do to have someone like that. just a pat on the back and a laugh when i fail with words of encouragement from a wise learned old man. i am now responsible for my mother and grandma's medicines, but i hope i will meet a nice lady and be that cool father i never had. 😎👍 family is everything to me and it's sad to see most girls i know only interested in hookups and expensive dates.
@@NoName-eq9md Just dont fall for traps these women do. I dont mean baby trapping either. I was the same as you and couldnt wait to be a father. Women know what a good, decent man looks like and WILL lie to that man to get what she wants. Very easy for women to fake their innocent angel card. They are born manipulators socially
"Both wrong and both reacting to each other" is such a smart take that's often overlooked. When conflict becomes its own reward, your enemies are also your partners.
Well your take "When conflict becomes its own reward, your enemies are also your partners" is as good!! :)
You’ve articulated your point so well I had to comment
Just watched a power puff girls episode that came out 25 years ago called “Equal Fights” which tackled this concept. The villainess was basically a manipulative narcissist using the past plight of women to justify her corruption and get the pp girls to be ok with it. Funny how a children’s cartoon spotted the wolf in sheep’s clothing over two decades before this became the common trope in media.
Agreed with this✅⭐️👍.
Showing feminism as a bad thing in a children's cartoon!!!!
We can't even think of this today
As one of my old Captain's when I was in the army once said:
A lot of people don't want equality, they want enhanced equality+.
They don’t want equality, they want free unearned privilege
Some are more equal than others
In other words, equity. 🤢🤮
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Or special rights more than some or just the certain things they want equal! Sure they wouldn't want to be included in the draft like men!
It's incredible how much I'm blamed for someone else's problems that they've caused for themselves, whilst never meeting them and I never will.
Me with “lonely men”. I think we should all just make our own beds and lie in them, and stop blaming everyone else. No one cares at the end of the day.
which problems are you talking about?
Cause they always act the victim and are used to cry away responsibilities growing up.
It takes a certain level of humiloty to question your behavior and place in society, and whether it harms others. It doesnt make one evil, but it's always good to ponder.
That being said, most inter-peasant social struggles are petty, and can be resolved very easily. You shouls be looking to aim at those in power
@@vayman666 The problems of consequences and cooperation with their self obsession.
Someone who looks at a family with a loving mother and father and happy, healthy children and says something is wrong with that is not someone we should take advice from. Anyone who doesn’t believe a nuclear family is best should be ignored.
It's a pretty picture, that excludes the aging grandparents and the spinster aunties. I prefer extended families, where everybody has valued roles. When you say "nuclear family is _best_ " are you saying it's _best_ children are NOT walked to school in the morning by grandpa?
That’s phobic of the trammies and non heteros
Trying to not get banned
I agree.
Leaving feminism behind and embracing sexual differences has brought so much peace in my life. I cant imagine constantly looking at the men in my life as the enemy... exhausting.
Don't act morally superior. You subscribed to the ideology yourself. Take some responsibility. My undeveloped child brain saw problems with it immediately. Not to make you feel insufficient but I am astounished as to how women swallow up man hatred like its cotton candy. It repulses me deeply.
What's funny is Firestone was diagnosed as a paranoid schizophrenic, and the media and government continue to follow her psychotic writings.
Not to mention also being found to be a fraud. Like Bruce Pascoe here in Australia.
It's like John Money and Alfred Kinsey who were p3rv3rts, but people kept reading their depraved writings.
I'd say that's more scary than funny, but i get you're point.
They all live in delusion land
She also died the ultimate "feminist" death: dying alone in her empty apartment with no one noticing for almost a month until the smell and her unpaid rent bill finally caused her super to investigate. (It's rumored that her starving cats had fed upon her corpse.)
It’s insane the amount of movements based on nothing beyond ‘sounds about right’ slogans and rallying cry’s, ‘free x!’ ‘Justice for y!’ ‘Equality for z!’
"From the river to the sea" comes to mind!
Slogans are easier to memorize. That's how media works. They collude on a same word narrative on all mainstream sources of news. These people hear the same words everywhere. Kids today are not taught to think, they are taught to memorize and repeat.
@@wiseonwords What ? Way off there buddy. Totally different movement. 😂
@@sid6856 nope the nazi would have loved those movement.
Identity politics.
I love the feminist argument "it takes two to tango", "men have to take their share of responsibility for having sex". Then ask, he wants the baby, you want to abort, does he have a say? It is always a "Hell no, my body my choice"! But if she wants to keep it, man is on the hook for 18 years if his name is on the birth certificate, even if it is not his!
France made paternity testing illegal because they found far to many men were raising another man's child and the system could not support that outcome.
It goes further. There is a legal precedent where a man, who fathered a child through statutory rape (aka underage boy impregnates adult woman) can be forced to pay child support once he becomes an adult.
To me that's like asking a rape victim to pay for medical bills of their rapist if he or she happens to have an STD that passes on to the perpetrator.
It's actually insane. The victim of a crime can be held responsible for the consequences of the crime perpetrated against them in this case I described. How this verdict was not dismissed, thrown out together with the judge's dog and car and set on fire ... I guess I'm not smart enough to understand those realms of law.
France is so unbelievably cucked for that. Here I am wondering why it’s not a legal mandate… oh right, yeah because it doesn’t benefit women 🙄
If the woman leaves the child with the man, she can be made to pay child support. Child support goes both ways but carrying it doesn't
I love how feminist videos NEVER mention that most men didn't have right to vote either.
And that women were given right to vote "for free" while men's right to vote was tied to their obligation to go to war and die for their country.
As a woman, I'm sick and tired of these feminists who can’t seem to stop with their activism.
As a woman I'm sick and tired of uneducated, talentless, uninsightful, jealous misogynists.
The same women call me a brainwashed slave because I love being a stay at home mom. Even though I'm happy and everyday I feel loved , protected and pretty. Like ok Susan just make sure you get that weekly progress report in on time.
@@Luciana_McC_99A good man never under appreciated a good woman
the issue is incentive. say you start an activism movement or foundation just out of college, and you live off funding and donations to achieve your goal, then you DO achieve it a decade later.... okay... now what? do you leave the movement and join the job market with no private sector experience to your name? or do you seek another goal, even a small picky, unattainable that cannot be solved, then you can keep your infrastructure and career going indefinitely.
@@bruiseleeroy7010 I'm blessed to have a great man.
Modern feminism is akin to a spoiled child that hasn't been told no, and is now hearing it for the first time.
It has always been like that.
I agree.
I remember when feminism made valid points... but now it seems to be all about the right to act like responsibility free children. The female equivalent of the lost boys in Peter Pan.
@@AA-ed6ek it hasnt.
Case and point
The screaming into the mic one
@@russ8497there never was a valid point to it
As a man we don’t even respect women now, as a gen z, I never open doors or hold their things not because she will accuse me or something that’s what millennial men think, it because wtf is she to me that i will open doors or do some shit for her
Note: when women were asking for the right to vote, men only had it if they agreed to be drafted.
Feminists didn't really talk about that part.
The fact that male suffrage was also a thing is hardly ever (or never) spoken about, period.
thats really sad
Oh, the feminists of the time talked about the draft. They devised how they would go about obtaining the right to vote without any obligations, unlike men.
Some feminists even wanted to eschew the right to vote simply because they were so afraid it meant having the same obligations as men.
I don't care what anybody says, women truly have life on easy mode, they act like they don't, and that's why I will always resent them for it.
Femimists are also generally anti-war, you mong. They don't want to be drafted, because reject cobcept of draft and international warrmongering in the first place.
Most wars are not necessary, and are either triggered by oetty power struggles, petty nationalist conflicts or desire of other nations to spread their influence and sphere of control.
Very few wars have been waged for pure survival.
Feminists were also anti-war. They reject drafts, because drafts are bad. This is not a contradiction. It is consistent part of their ideology. As most wars are pointless nonsense, waged for financial wealth, control and influence, rather then survival. And peasants are caught in the middle, rather then standing up and saying "No"
i think men in general knows whats happening in society, its just lot of them are simply disappointed.
And silenced by an angry mob whenever they dare speak up
aye
After my divorce, I just about had it with women.
We know, and we know the only safe place to speak about it is with other men in private
wahmen proved how inept they are
Im so glad you acknowledged male disposability. This dynamic has existed long before feminism and still exists today. Women may not have had the "rights" men had in the past but were always protected and a mans life was always sacrificed for a womans whenever the opportunity was there.
My thought on this has been, for a long time, "men are shovels and women are jewels." Men are simple tools, easily discarded when broken and just as easily replaced. And just as respected as a shovel is. Women are viewed as special, precious, unique and worthy of guarding. And, amazingly enough, most men are OK with that. We're used to being treated like simple tools that, once broken, get discarded. But are generally accepting of that reality for the greater good of society. Women are too selfish to care. Women view themselves as jewels.
always protected? are you fucking kidding me?
@@PiscesSkylar Calm down, now. Protected until the last man and male child was dead or captured, YES! Study your history.
@@PiscesSkylarRemind me, which sex has had MILLIONS of individuals drafted into war throughout history? Being exempt from that seems pretty fucking protected.
@@PiscesSkylar How many women were conscripted to die in wars, worked in mines and factories, and worked in dangerous occupations?
Not just historically, even today? You have movies , media, etc with "boss girl" females beating up a dozen men, how many demand gender equality in Ukraine?
I think another thing that goes unacknowledged with the broken nuclear family is how eldest daughters are STILL turned into secondary moms. I am one of 6, eldest, mom had me with my dad, three boys with someone else, and the last two with another guy. Especially with the last two I was required to be second mom. My schooling was disrupted due to her choices effecting me. I had to help support the household. I had to be there for her. To take up slack of what she couldn't or wouldn't do. As such, I honestly am happier being just me, myself and I. But I support my other gal pals if they want kids. I think where feminism loses me now is not only this whole stupid "gender is fluid" but also in this hatred of men in general and fathers. It breaks my heart to see good men turned away told they can't see their kids when they are doing everything they can to be there for them. I could never hate men or women for that matter. This whole sins of the ancestors shit needs to go. There are evil women and men. Period. Also, to fathers out there who are truly trying and being there for your children. You are doing amazing! Please, keep going. 🙏🏻 same with mothers of course.
"A society grows great when old men plant trees they will never get to sit in the shade of, but they do it for the next generation."
My hot take: Intersex people exist, trans people exist.
EVERYTHING on the nonbi or fluid spectrum is just attention seeking. I'm 48 and I couldn't tell you what it feels like to be a man, so how could I claim to feel like a woman the next day?
Like I tell these people: If the second thing I hear from you are your pronouns, I already don't care what you have to say. For you, it's not about a movement that will benefit evberybody, it's about you you you you.
Modern feminism was started by jewish women. They seem to be good at popularizing ideas that ruin society. Just like how Marx brought down Russia with communism.
My big sister was failed by both parents.ELDEST SISTER CHALLENGES HAPOEN TO WOMEN WHO HAVE BITH PARENTS PRESENT IN THE HOME A LOT AS WELL .
Just saying.I am not supporting bad mothers but I am shedding a light that Bith parents have contributed to this as well
@@sakuraesther6309 Are you having a stroke?
I get called a "pick me" constantly for having this view. It's exhausting. I'm always having to defend myself and explain myself but the raging feminists never listen.
That's not it. A Pickme is a woman who intentionally is aiding harmful men. We not talking about siding with good men, it's women who enable BAD men like Chris Brown
Why are you explaining anything to anyone who never listens? Get new friends who don't exhaust you with their selfish stupidity.
@@hyperteleXii I'm referring to people online not my irl friends. But you are right. I need to stop arguing with people, it's pointless and I waste of my energy but I can't help myself sometimes. The things they say make me roll my eyes so hard lol
Haha fair enough. If I get into an online argument I just take a day or two before responding again, and have noticed this sometimes saves me from responding at all. 🤭 @@Becksnnc
Or now I heard a term girls girl, that you should always back up other women
I really appreciate you bringing up the relationship between what feminism became and the adult entertainment industry. The campaign to keep the relationship between the two factions quiet is insane both in the academic and the personal.
'became' she doesnt know anything about early feminism
I’m so sick of seeing people claiming to be oppressed when people are fighting for food in China, dying in wars and from disease, and Iran simply existing.
The Chinese need to rise up because the CCP is the world's biggest threat
u sir have zero idea how terrible fmnsm is in asian countries like china,India
What's the more ironic is these same things are happening in Western nations as well (where the majority of these feminists live) (aside from the soldiers being shipped off to war, rather than the war taking place here).
Have you seen what's been going on in Canada lately? Trudeau Towns, as they are called, where people are living in tents on the streets because housing is too expensive. Food banks are practically empty (while international students regularly post TikToks on how to get "free food as an international student!!" by taking hundreds of dollars worth of food from these banks at a time. All while local citizens line up to get just enough to get by. Violent attacks against the host population are much more frequent, and repeat perpetrators are now routinely caught and released based on their oppression status. Seriously, I kid you not! Look up pretty much any case this past year (at least), and you'll see a judge say "yes, he literally attacked and almost killed a white woman while brandishing a machete and screaming 'fück White Power!' -- but he's an Indigenous man, so he was raised in a r@cist, colonialist society! No jail time nor mental health interventions for him. Let him back on the streets!" (This is a real example)
@@yami6499 it's funny to me how USA guys relly on "passport bros" to get a normal wife from Eastern Europe, and feminism is totally insane here. Not even 30% of guys here are getting married.
Aka first world problems
Equality was achieved quite a while ago, this is superiority.
That's how it goes with every social movement. Douglas Murray calls it "A train going past the station."
Nature doesn’t like equality and instability
No its domination.
no, si ce the 1st wave that is superiority. because there is never equialy of responsibility
As a woman, I will say this. I grew up wanted to be the “strong” and “independent” women I saw on tv and if I’m being honest, I still do. But not at the expense of men. I just don’t think that any accomplishment you make that was either through force or just asking for it, feels deserved. I’ve always seen it this way. That’s why when I play sports with my guy friends and they let me win, I take it as an insult and it makes me feel bad knowing that I didn’t really win.
Take away any barriers but don't add special privileges because then it isn't earned. Let women earn like men have to do rather than just giving it to them because they're women. I agree with you.
@@brandonhaygood5286 yes, exactly.
What do you define as the expense of men? What have men lost and women gained?
@@kavumasaum9256 I just mean that it’s hard for me to take pride in accomplishments when it was given to me solely for my gender. An example is if I were promoted at my job, I want to know that it was because I worked harder than anyone else and that I am the most skilled person to take on the role. Not because my company is trying diversify or better their reputation.
@@Iamaries123 creating opportunity doesn’t mean give jobs to the under qualified, it means consider qualified people from different walks of life even though it’s far more convenient to go by the norm of that particular employment sector. Unless you’re inexperienced and you know this.
The general problem with activist movements is once they establish their goals, they don't tend to disband.
By that point too many people have positions of power and employment, so they need to continue to justify their existence. That's usually ehen things spin off into wild directions.
Yes!!! They don’t STOP!
You can't fund-raise with, "Mission Accomplished."
Agreed.
At this point feminism is no longer a movement, it's a business. A billion dollar business that needs to keep selling products (oppression) to make money (stay relevant).
👍 Exactly.
It's the same thing in the US with the homelessness industrial complex. How are they gonna make money solving homelessness if they actually solve homelessness.
I'm so annoyed that men in makeup think they look like us🙄
Me too
Seeing a grown ass man wearing makeup (be it while in normal clothing or in a dress) in front of children and the general public is equivalent of applying makeup to a cow.
thats called intersectional FEMINISM
@@BaggageClaim West doesn't need Feminism anymore. Africa and India and Cambodia and Latin America need it - women LITERALLY are in danger everyday and have no rights. They can't own property in these countries and enforcement is non-existent if they have laws that aid women empowerment.
What has been seen cannot be unseen.
Your content is such a relief. As a girl raised by a third wave “feminist” single mother I always felt appalled by the anger, mean-spirited generalizations and self-victimization towards men while I was craving nothing more than a father or any sort of protective relationship with this proposed “enemy”. It left me feeling alienated and confused while longing for some sort of romantic resolution where women are strong AND feminine and men are heroic, powerful and noble.
I hope you found someone and you're happy.
This "right of women to have sex like men" bs is an example of the lunacy often seen in modern extreme feminism. The vast majority of men are not having sex left and right. Having sex, for most men, is a difficult expensive struggle where he experiences constant humilliation, rejection and being taken advantage on, and even then cannot even touch the numbers an average looking woman can reach, by just being there and choosing.
Not to mention that sex without family isn't even a good thing psychologically. Any time hedonism is the starting point for a human right is argued that person can be safely dismissed from the conversation.
This is the problem with any activism...it never ends. They never can just wrap it up when they get what they want - it's always more. At some point that more is way past rational thoughts.
Same with the homelessness industrial complex in the US
They obtain money and fame by fighting the 'oppression', why would they want their cause to succeed and cease needing to exist?
They will never be happy until women are completely in power and control everything
Great point
Why do you think the Catholic Church used to heavily campaign against birth control etc. in poor countries? No more starving children, no more heartstring pulling posters to get people's wallets open. Oh, and no believers, as it's shown a healthy, prosperous society doesn't need fairytales to distract them from their existential dread.
I remember I envied being an adult woman, wanting to be a mother, and having a loving husband. Now that I’m 19, the women I envied look like spoiled brats, motherhood seems impossible, and now I’m subjected to dating a trans woman or else I’m a bigot.
You're not a bigot for not dating a trans person. I'm not dating a trans woman either.
Never feel guilty. I used to think the same way, I have an ex who came out as trans long after we broke up. I'm glad this person came out after we were done because I don't know how I would have handled that and I also feel like social media would have shamed me for breaking up with a women who became a trans man.
I'm nearly 40 and I feel so sorry for young people nowadays.
@@Darth_Bateman Even Trans people say thats not bigotted because they understand how attraction works. Its only the ones that are rude and abusive about the whole thing that are called bigots.
this is just ridiculous and a strawman argument. NO one is forcing you to date a trans women. Holy shit conservatives have spread some lies to create fear of anything new.
Didn't Norah Vincent say something about this before she died? She wrote that men definitely did not have privlege and that feminsim was definitely out to get men.
Yep. She did. And Erin Pizzey did too.
It was never about equality,. I still don't see women required to register for Selective Service and I just checked the website. Also some women want the house to be their domain. Kind of like cleaning aids failed in Italy that sell successfully in the US. Lastly, there was a video going around with a woman complaining her husband did the dishes first thing when coming home, rather than spend some time with her and the kids.
women will complain either way
DEI. Division Exclusion and Incitement
Discrimination, Entitlement and Indoctrination.
DIE is the proper acronym
Who wants to Romance and sleep with their 'buddy'?
..Nobody.
You long for a 'Creature' different from you. "Oh how devine darling".
DEI must DIE
@@gharm9129amen to to that
This YT channel is great and I like that you're criticising both sides
It's called taking a centrist or balanced view. This is rare and often gets drowned in the vitriolic noise of extremist viewpoints.
@blakecasimir because everybody always thinks that theyre in the right about everything and the other side is wrong 100% of the time
@@6.5-inches-of-autism The result of extremist thinking, basically.
Criticizing without a solution is just par for the course for YT grifters
Until there is genuine push for change in the family courts, total rejection of the Duluth model, nothing changes and this channel like others are just here for clicks
Here's the real question that cuts to the heart of the matter, for both men and women: As a society, are we better off than we were 50, 60 years ago? Are we happier? Is our hope for future generations inspiring?
you already know the obvious answer to that question.
None of this is about equality, it's about supremacy.
If you're addicted to the attention you get from being oppressed, then you must perpetually be oppressed to keep the addiction fed. When one oppression is fixed, a new one must be created to replace it. These feminists are trapped in a cycle that can only lead to madness, and that madness is coming home to roost.
Madness has no home. It's a lost, wandering spirit feeding on weak minds.
Attention? What attention? You say it yourselves you don’t lie feminists so do you really think that kind of attention is to die for lol
The reasons why the fight never ends is because it’s just a few people fighting structures that were established 1000’s of year before and are maintained and encouraged by the most of population.
Thank you so much for this. The three scariest words for me to hear is "fourth wave feminist."
There are eight words that should be equally, if not more, terrifying:
We're from the government, we're here to help
Fifth wave feminist
Feminism was sick from the very beggining
And that’s a huge error by our host, all waves of feminism have been 100% the same.
If u notice that one painting of first wave feminists looks exactly like today’s Hollywood elites.
This comment is literally what they want, though...
Chris Rock's jokes about picking up women at pro-abortion rallies and having a punch card at Planned Parenthood has a lot of truth to it for an unfortunate number of men.
Please always stay on UA-cam, your analysis on society is so spot on and your voice saying it is the most soothing and real thing I’ve listened to about these topics!
I really appreciate the fact that another expert strongly emphasizes the idea that we're not like wild animals, we're human beings. We have more consciousness than other groups of mammals, and we should continue to act like that instead of destroying the principles we've lived by for so many eons.
You quote Firestone, who was found dead, alone in her home many days after her passing, her face eaten by her cats.
So, you know, end results dictating our future actions.... Maybe not someone's words to hold up on a pedestal.
More men die alone then women, look up morgue statistics for unclaimed bodies (it's like 80% are male). Also, men die 10 years younger anyway, so women die alone even if they were married unless they have children willing to be at their side.
So if someone is single and has pets - we shouldn't listen to them? Wow, such insight.
@@mpGreen03clearly you missed the part about being genderless and born in tubes
@@wades623so, don’t people think with their brains and not their private parts lol
@@mpGreen03 Have you ever had someone from a different profession give you advice on how to do your job?
I would say people that don't have families are not good sources for how families should be structured. And people that use animals to fill their emotional need for a family is more akin to someone that got fired from your job telling you how to do it.
"Me too"...also known as "I regret"
Thank you, B. Claim. This is beautiful. Me and my wife have been fighting for our relationship through all the programing we've had put on us throughout our lives. So far for 18 years, we're winning and loving each other.
Responsibility is cryptonite for modern feminism.
The problem with activism is that the individuals ability to reflect for them self becomes secondary to the group mentality.
For all feminism.
It was always about avoiding responsibility.
They could always have built their own society, but that would've required work and sacrifice, as well as responsibility.
All things that w. fear the most...
The president of barbie land, "i am great, your welcome".
That's the personification of narcissism.
It’s a simple equation woman who seek control above all else =Misery. Woman who follow a natural pathway and focus on family and nurturing =happy woman ‼️
Life is never that simple
This is the weirdest take I’ve ever seen. All of us 90s girls here in the shadows, having served in the military, as first responders, in engineering, business, risen to manager and executive roles while raising families. And you think the pornification of society is the product of feminism rather than the backlash to it? I’d suggest you may want to broaden your life experience and perspective.
'while raising families'
>looks at gen Z<
Yeah, you might want to keep that secret.
I genuinely think she's pandering to those who seem unhinged as hell in the comments lol.
@@user-me9cz9ek8f Smoke that copium.
Its 1100 down in Australia and was about to go to bed when Baggage Claim dropped a new video. Suddenly lost the urge to sleep 😊
Bahaha same 😂
Same here.
yep, same!
Haha were you able to sleep soundly after you watched this video???
@@BaggageClaimlooks like we’ll find out in a few hours 🤷🏼♂️
We have to stop treating our relationships like a competition. I’ve gotten caught up in the “keeping score” racket on social media that you mentioned. It’s a very selfish mindset to constantly think about your own contribution and compare it to your spouse. From my experience, all it does is breed bitterness and envy. My mental wellbeing is always healthier when I forget about myself, stop whining, and focus on serving my husband and children.
Which, in turn, feeds into a more masculine mindset. The feminine mindset is having everyone get along, the masculine competes, and we are supposed to balance each other out.
Friendly reminder that patriarchy is not only natural, but morally good.
Matriarchy is not only unnatural, but straight up evil as well.
In a patriarchy, men provide, protect and uphold. They are the leaders because they are the hardest workers.
In a matriarchy, men still do all the work. They get nothing in return.
wimmin gotta stop that u mean
@@schnek8927 What do you make of ancient civilizations that started matriarchal before becoming patriarchal?
It's no longer about reformism and equality, but revolution and domination... and all such entail.
There’s an odd trend I’ve noticed about the women who are the most vocal about “men are the problem” and “not needing a man”.
The MOST vocal groups seem to be upper/middle class white women and lower class black women.
Contrary wise, the groups of women who seem the most stable and logical when it comes to *actual* equality with men are the exact opposite: upper/middle class black women and lower class white women 🤔
It’s very odd, but looking at the vocal trends online and in my personal life, this trend seems to tow the line time and time again.
Who could have predicted that women behaving in a massively selfish way would have hugely detrimental effects on society?
*shocked Pikachu face* 😮
The women themselves don't even realize their stupidity is the problem. And they never will
To be honest, I am somewhat surprised. I was among those who was fine with them ruining their own lives. Now it turns out they fucked things up for everyone else too.
Specifically, it’s utterly tragic finding out how badly children are affected when a woman “don’t need no man” leads to the kids growing up into dysfunctional adults with abandonment issues.
Everyone. Every society for the past 5,500 years.
Men have been behaving in a massively selfish way for centuries. Nobody bats an eye about that, even though they brought us numerous wars
I've always been of the opinion that society made a mistake when it shifted from "who cares if individual women want to work" to "all women are expected to enter the workforce".
Being a stay-at-home mom has given me more joy than seeking a career ever did.
My mother told me that even if being a stay-at-home mom was tiring at times, at least she wasn't working a dead-end job for some boss who didn't care about her well being. She prefer to start her own business with my dad.
It really started for women on a large scale during WW2. Men went to war and women went to work. Many never went back. People like to say that both men and women in a relationship have to work to survive. True, but there is a reason. Simple supply and demand plays a role. More people competing for a finite number of jobs. Remove a significant percentage of the workforce and have them raise the children and take care of the home as good ole grandma did. When society was like this, a single paycheck was enough to raise a family. Less available qualified people in the workforce for these jobs will require better pay to secure the best people for the job. Flood the market and you get lower paying jobs.
I have this opinion as well. There's nothing wrong with being a housewife. If a woman wants to be a pilot or a CEO of a big company, more power to her, but stop perceiving housewives as something "opressive", "outdated", or "redundant"
Society made a mistake when they let all the Russian yiddish refugees in. You’ll find they’re the source of all of these problems in America. Just start checking the Early Life section of wikipedia on these people causing societal problems.
The single most resourceful, meaningful, and most needed video education on FEMINISM. IT infact felt like a educational documentary. I am glad I was able to watch this. Keep going. Your centric opinions are rare and they can bring back some normalcy to the people in society
What is striking is the number of people who have told Louise Perry that they have been thinking what she has written but we're afraid to articulate it because they didn't hear it anywhere else. Debate on this fundamentally important subject has been repressed! It is great that you have begun to address it.
I like Louise Perry a lot, while she might not be an expert as in psychology or biology, her arguments make a lot of sense.
Everything gained by all 4 waves of feminism can now just be given to any man, if that man simply says he "identifies" as a woman. The poetic justice of that, makes me laugh every time.
👍👍🤣🤣
gained lol they destroyed society
Exactly right. That's why I have no sympathy when trans activists fuck over women. They deserve each other.
And it's always women, isn't it? Nobody asks, "What is a man?" Because who cares?
Yes, you can have everything this world has to offer for the low low price of your soul....
I agree with everything in this video... and that's why I find it depressing.
Great work... but now I'm gonna go cry a bit.
ADVICE...DO NOT LOOK DEEPER INTO MALE INJUSTICES IF YOU VALUE YOUR HAPPINESS!
When you stare into the abyss the abyss looks back!
Your channel is a rare gem in every way. I'm so glad I've found it!
You do such a good job of breaking these issues down so that anyone can digest them. Please keep it up!
This is another example of reaching your goal but not stopping.
Yep
Why do you think all women have the same goal? Feminism is about liberating every woman, however they define that. Men and women are not socially, politically or economically equal. Why do you keep pretending it’s already served it’s purpose
The ones that reached their goal stopped, but the feminist movement has always had an elements that wanted 4th wave feminism from the beginning. Gender Marxism is all it is, and marxism always has the same end goal.
In Russia, the country where many men were killed in wars and too many of the remaining ones drank themselves into an oblivion, there's joke: "many children in our country are raised by same-sex couples consisting of a child's mother and grandmother." Maybe there're on to something. It's all about having a second caring, stable adult.
Russia's strategy in war seems to always be "Work harder, not smarter." You guys always play spoiler and take out the losing side (like Japan in WWII and the Ottomans in WWI and France in the Napoleonic wars) but never claim victory. Sad history there
Yeah, and also now former ex soviet countries are also suffering from alcoholism
that's not just now ))) it's been going on for over a century. @@Kunigunda897
This could be one of the best videos on UA-cam. It’s such a balanced and practical breakdown of why extreme views on either side are dangerous. Thank goodness for people like you that are capable of critical thinking instead of just following a bandwagon.
I cannot put into words just how much I respect you for making this video. Everything you said I 100% agree with. I could fill hours talking about this topic, but you made a very good sum up in a very short time.
Feminisms core tenets are not equality between the sexes, but; "Men=evil, women=victim".
Feminism declared war against healthy society. This gender war has been raging for decades and will only get worse.
Men have to punish the smallest disprespects and enforce strict boundaries all the way and keep a 0%BS policy, or relationships are doomed. That you need to play 5D chess to avoid financial, domestic, parental and romantic ruin once your gold digger of a wife gets fed up keeping up appearances and hands you the divorce papers does not help. Laws have to be changed. Men have long since been the oppressed now, but masculine pride has held us back voicing our complaints.
The government, media, law, hollywood and society is antagonising us, and it needs to stop.
Maybe we'll decide on a men's day, where all men lay down their hammer, drill or saw for a day and see how women like it. See how strong and capable they'd be without it.
This might never come to see the light in a lot of people, but I always admire people that stands for the truth. Hats off to you.
Thank you so much, Baggage Claim. In a world filled with conflicting opinions and saturated content beyond satiety, you brought a nice perspective with this one. Thank you for clearing so many things off.
I think we've all heard enough talk about "Rights". I'd like to hear a bit more about "Responsibilities".
you packed so much info in this17 minutes!!!! nearly every sentence is worth doing an entire vid on it. Amazing job.
Thank you for saying this. It needs to be said. I ve seen women violently attack one another and men: all in the name of 'empowerment.' Being empowered is not the same as being aggressive and narcissistic. The line needs to be drawn
Who else is enjoying the feminist Utopia? It's gonna get much, much, "better".
It’s heading toward a point where there might need to be an andronist movement.
@@neillindgren8992especially the Muslim feminist utopia in Europe.
It's not there yet . We still have to tackle the pay gap. I used to work 3 short days as a cashier at boost mobile. My husband gets up at 4 am 5-6 days a week and replaces broken sewer pipes all day. He makes way more than I did just because he's a man.
@@Luciana_McC_99 R U Serious?
@@adamschrader328 obviously she's serious, how can you not see the injustice? She's getting paid less for what is basically the same work.
You're half right. But feminism was NEVER not awful. Until we understand that, we will continue to lose.
I agree on that there were elements in the first wave saying exactly what the 4th wave is saying.
But I also disagree there was some good that has come out of the movement and many good people that didn't know what the end goal actually was.
It's always been a scam, but like all good scams it starts with some genuinely good things.
This is such an excellent video. You do a phenomenal job calmly, clearly, and coherently laying out your case (as well as the context for it) as you do with all of your videos. This subject is particularly tricky, but, as always, you go about it with class an excellent. Well done, and keep up the great work!! I wish I could like it twice
Great video, Baggage!! Feminism has made it worse for women!! They’ve made it so we HAVE to work outside the home instead of having the privilege of raising our own children. Staying home is WORK too btw but you get to instill your morals and values into your children. Now daycares raise your kids. You and your husband are both so tired from work you don’t even really get to enjoy your children. Or even worse if you work two different shifts. I remember coming home from work being exhausted and having to get stuff ready for the next day of work and getting the kids stuff ready for the next day of school and daycare. Most people don’t just work Monday to Friday where at least you have the weekends off. I remember crying from the exhaustion. Feminist just made women all workers for big businesses and corporations. The government loves it because they have double the taxpayers. Now they have more money to spend on their useless wars and to give to their rich friends. Our lives should not just be dedicated to corporations and letting the government ran educational system raise our kids.
I’m really tired of this narrative being pushed. Every woman wasn’t a SAHM prior to the 1950s, minority women especially black women had to work
"The government have double the taxpayers" those people aren't ready for that fact
They did warn that they fought for equality.
Sure, this sucks compared to the utter privilige of choices that men never had.
But you know who to thank for that.
Really good point! I have a 10 month old and my husband and I both work remotely (I go into the office just one day a week). We are lucky we still don't need daycare, we just take turns watching her at home.
I would've missed so many amazing moments if she were in a daycare. Even though I'm dead tired by the end of the day, we haven't wasted money on apathetic caretakers and see our beautiful child grow.
Daycare is an absolute scam to everyone involved. I've had so many people try to bully me into hiring a nanny or putting my baby in daycare so they can feel better about their choices. I don't care what anyone does, but I'm raising my own child, thank you!
And whats sad is that its absolutely possible to live off one salary, it just takes a lot of discipline to avoid overspending.
Excellent piece of work. What is truly missing is simple human respect for one another. As a man or a woman. I’m not 20 anymore but it’s impossible for me to impart how rewarding a true partnership (marriage) is that is built on old school values of respect and love. I couldn’t survive and be happy without my wife and I dare say she would say the same if asked.
Wow love love love this comment. Thank you
Man, every time I've heard you speak, not just prepared videos like this, but also you on panels you've always brough value to the table, rational, considered, thoughtful opinions. Keep up the good work.
That Firestone lady sounds 100% crazy AF
IIRC she was a diagnosed schizophrenic. Was also dead for a month before anyone found her and her cats had started eating her corpse
@@jaybor1683 That is horrible to hear.
Those poor cats, they should eat a balanced diet.
I think that's the main subject matter for @therealspeechprof feminist degree
The first few waves of feminism were NOT as pure as you are claiming. You completely failed to mention the fact that the vote wasn’t guaranteed for men either. It was tied to owning property and some women did own property back then. The average woman also wasn’t interested in this movement at all. It was mostly pushed by upper middle class or wealthy woman. Feminism has always been a disingenuous and tainted movement
Yea conservative women wernt interested.
It only ended up benifiting the elites who got double the work force on less than half the wages.
Exactly!!! I believe they had good intentions but failed to see the root problem or the root cause. Hence not actually fixing anything at all but kickstarting the beginning of the end. But eitherway, we are where we are now, it’s time to target the root cause.
As per usual it was bored, privileged women kicking up a fuss and demanding society cater to them just so they could find a purpose besides drinking wine and lusting after the stable boy.
This historical insight is on par with how there have been more white slaves in taken in African raids than black slaves bought on the African slave markets and exported.
It disrupts the narrative, so it's offensive to mention.
Yep. What it is now it was always. Only goalposts have shifted. But demands for privilege thru usage of victimhood was always there.
Like when women were fighting for "financial independence", something that is often brought up as proof of feminism being for equality. And of course all those advocates conveniently omit the fact that while women got the right to spend money, it did not come with obligation to be responsible for those spending. And lack of accountability is a cornerstone of feminist cult. So women could spend family money, but there were not responsible for those expenditures for almost 10 years, landing quite a lot of husbands and fathers into debt jail. As men remained financially responsible for those women.
Even from getgo, from suffragettes, it was the same. You had entitled women, that were constantly whining about oppression, wandering around cities, contributing nothing, while giving men, that were not in uniforms, white feathers, as sign of cowardice. None of those women were in a rush to sign up as frontline nurses. Exactly same parasitic entitled faux moral superiority attitude persist to this day.
It is and always has been about giving women maximum privileges, with minimum accountability. And when you look at feminist from this angle, it is for equality, a perverted version of it. Normal people consider it being equality when both sexes have equal right and equal obligations. While feminist "equality" means women getting all the privileges, while men get all responsibilities. From that angle it all makes sense.
"Scientists have discovered fastest moving object in the universe - it is a woman avoiding accountability."
I know what you’re doing and you know that I have tremendous respect for you. But here is a sentence that I bet you never thought you would say in a UA-cam video or anywhere else:
“ followed by Juggs in 1981” 😂
Yep. And it took me a couple takes to get through it.
Never think we don’t appreciate the sacrifices that you make on our behalf.
This particular one must’ve had some challenges. If you’re going into the deep fake disaster, it’s going to get worse. I’m curious about your thoughts on the whole matter and the knee-jerk legislation that is inevitably going to be passed. Not to mention the unintended consequences of such legislation. But I understand if you don’t want to do a video about it. It’s gross.
This was great. You succinctly tied together all the strings of what I have often thought but struggled to verbalize. Thank you.
My mother was told she couldn’t be a doctor. My sister was told she could do anything she set her mind to. It’s a different world from 50 years ago, and any oppression I’ve heard my female peers complain about I have taken in the reverse.
Some of your citations seem a bit short-sighted, but my experience has proven your thesis to be nothing but correct. Thank you.
You have a good point buried in their. Your mother was told she couldn't be a doctor, yet there was likely nothing actually stopping her. Too often people give up on something just because they are told, and so much of the oppression feminists talk about simply social pressure.
The complaint about being asked "when are you planning to have children" comes to mind. A simply question is often stated to be "constantly pressuring people to have kids". I hope our generation never has to learn what real oppression looks like, but I think we will soon.
I have a feeling we need to make a bigger thing of "activist addiction"... or something like that.
A male version of barbie could never be made in today's society..
It debatably has already been made though.
Every male fantasy that you can think of was basically completed before the turn of the century. Almost every toy I played with growing up has had a movie or film franchise. Ninja Turtles, Transformers, every superhero movie...etc...etc.
not to mention power fantasies like 007, bad-asses like Terminator Rambo...etc..etc. We did it all. The issue is that it's seen as a problem or something to take away from the male audience. Replace Rambo with Ramba the lady version or turn over franchises that were traditionally male interests and remove the men...replace with women. That's happening mostly with Marvel/Star Wars....it's not going well.
Pretty much every male centered egotistical, testosterone based film is the male version of Barbie. They’ve been made a thousand times over. Barbie debuted in the 1950s and it took until 2023 to get a live action adaptation
@@Tiajuan I'm glad to hear someone making the same point.
It seems everything these days is being feminised or being made "gender natural". Women are allowed women stuff, but anything remotely masculine is treated as taboo. It doesn't make sense. There is nothing wrong with guys have guys stuff.
For companies like Disney pushing inclusivity, it's incredibly hypocritial. Men are the exception. They are to be treated badly to make a point. It's extremely bitter and rather sinister.
@@Tiajuan just because they're action figures does not mean they're anywhere near the equivalent of a male Barbie movie. The messages are completely different.
No one is advocating for less content targeting women and giving them more variety.
@@msnewsenior Nope. Those movies were made to display things that men wanted to see because they found them entertaining. No man thinks "Predator" or "Commando" are real or even remotely applicable to real life.
Barbie is an overt political screed designed to coddle women, tell them they're right about everything, and try to convince the world to get on board with Feminism.
There's a HUGE difference.
I cannot get enough of your videos. The way you put everything so articulately is amazing. Please keep doing what you’re doing. ❤❤
Like most things in society, when they try to address something they see and unequal they massively overcompensate and swing the door completely the other way and create the exact issue again but in reverse and it takes them a loooooooong time to realise this as their mindset is still transfixed on the original problem.
You miss the point, they are communists.
Look up the Hegelian Dialectic, the overreaction is intentional the same way you ask for way to much in a negotiation. The reason why feminism has waves is because they iterate through dialectics to move culture. You can find a handful of communists saying all the same things as modern feminists during the first wave.
This almost made me cry, thank you for putting everything I have ever thought about this "activist movement" into words and also a visually pleasing video. You are such an intelligent and smart woman, how can we not see that we're doing this to ourselves? Thankfully, there are people who are waking up and are rejecting these ideas!
The feminist movement will eventually realise that the society and values that gave them all this freedom and will continue to give them more freedom, depends on upholding those values for generations to come.
But if you choose not to have children and ensure that future generations and society uphold those values, then you cannot guarantee that those values will continue to exist.
Ergo, the very drive of feminism is self destructive.
No amount of gender reshuffling will get over the fact that biological women have the most important role in society - to create the next generation that ensures that the society that feminism wants and is totally reliant on, will continue.
The funny thing about this is that they are pro-immigration from third world countries, countries that do not believe in their ideology, and then act like they're going to uphold their ideals just because they lived in the country for a few years. How is that going to work when they don't even integrate to begin with? A lot of it is just hatred for white men for no reason, because they don't believe any other race of men are capable of evil, but they are going to have a real shock when the men they have been letting through the gates are their worst fears realised.
no it wont
Also, men were 100% responsible for their wife’s debts. Women could not hold debt, and it was passed to the nearest man.
Our society needs men and fathers. We each have our place and our strengths and rather then compete we should together stand against the very movement that wants to turn us against each other
You're back!!! Finally 💪😎🤜🤛
Really nice to see You again 👍
Have you read the novel, “A Brave New World”, by Aldus Huxley?
Like 1984 & “Idiocrisy”, a Brave new World projects a future ‘Utopia’ & societal structure where many of the themes within this video is projected to some logical conclusion...
The whole "sex work is work" was not listed, but should have been, it's a movement that is quite foul. Does anyone else remember when all the things BC listed about sex being about empty pleasure, everyone taking drugs to feel good, and families/children being born by machines as an inconvenient necessity just to keep the species/factories going, was the stuff of dystopian novels? How anyone considers these great aspirational goals is beyond me.
It’s work
I think it boils down to how the original Feminists, achieved its goals. Then a new generation grew up and admired/wanted to be seen as fighting, so they just kept pushing and pushing, until we are where we are now.
That's the sadly true about political movements. They don't know when to fucking stop.
@elucidator1277 or they don't want to as it forms their identity and or pay cheque.
@@elucidator1277 The communist elements in feminism haven't gotten what they wanted yet, so they haven't stopped.
Early feminism made women focus on what's in it for them, not their kids, not their husbands, just them. "I'm doing this for me, I need to do something for myself once in a while". By contrast, men do what's best for their families, not themselves. This is what killed the family and why early feminism is far, far worse and should have been stopped.
Protection does not equal abuse
Exactly. I hate to fault them but that is what it was.
People forget that a majority of women _opposed_ suffrage in the early 20th century. At a women's conference in Massachusetts, only 5% cast a vote in favor of suffrage.
The women who opposed suffrage knew exactly where this would lead. They saw the value in having men lead industry and politics and having women lead families and non-partisan social communities and they knew that disrupting this system would lead to extreme individualism.
"When men say I'm cute and funny
"And my teeth aren't teeth but pearls
"I just lap it up like honey
"I enjoy being a girl"
lmao. if the "family" existed to serve every need of the man, which you seem to be implying, then man "doing everything" for their "families" is really him doing everything for himself. every moment of a woman's life and her reason for existing in most cultures has been to serve the man. higher education in women was also to make them attractive for marriage or to find a husband. ever heard of the MRS degree? you missed the entire point of this video by bashing ALL the waves of feminism as one monolith as it exists in your head. watch the video again.
You're saying as if feminism somehow was bad for children or families in general. Have you thought that without it women wouldn't have the option to leave abusive husbands? Do you think that it's better for the children that the mother is forced to stay with a husband that potentially puts them in danger, instead of divorcing? Even in a good family, if a husband dies or is unable to provide anymore, the mother would be left without any stable income. In that situation, is it good for the children that they now struggle financially because the mother can't earn money, due to not having her own bank account and lack of education? Also the claim that "men do what's best for their families" and that women are in turn selfish is not based on any facts whatsoever. The leading cause of death of pregnant women in the US is murder by the partner, a woman is six times more likely to be left by her man after a diagnosis of cancer or multiple sclerosis than if a man in the relationship is the sick one, pedophilia and narcissism is more prevalent in men, women and children are more likely to die from natural disasters, and domestic violence is overwhelmingly perpetrated by men. You're trying to demonize the fact that women now have basic rights as if it's somehow debatable, and that tells more about you than the "feminism" you're talking about.
I find myself looking for your videos every morning! I've been waiting for this one!
Hope you enjoy!
This video should have hundreds of millions of views so people can see what's really happening but it won't happen. I'm a fatherless man that understands what's important which is why my son can count on me being there with him no matter what. I fear that humanity is doomed to great suffering in the near future. I hope I'm wrong and we can somehow escape the trap we put ourselves into.
This video needs to go viral. It's message is that important.