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  • Find Healing From Toxic Family
    Do you struggle with toxicity in your family? In this powerful message from Pastor Mike Signorelli gets vulnerable about his family background to show how the Holy Spirit can heal even the deepest family wounds.
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  • @V1Church
    @V1Church  6 місяців тому +4

    Connect with V1 Church here: linktr.ee/v1church

  • @sadieflint1994
    @sadieflint1994 6 місяців тому +56

    Defense is what u do to protect your ego, faithfulness is what you do to protect your anointing

  • @n23391
    @n23391 6 місяців тому +10

    trauma and triggers, strongholds and demons - Amen, nothing new under the sun!!

  • @_shaylamarr
    @_shaylamarr 5 місяців тому +18

    I needed this message. Thank you Pastor Mike. My mother died when I was 9, she was an alcoholic. My brother in law sexually assaulted me in 2018 and no one in my family believed me, and it destroyed me. I haven’t talked to them since then, 5 years. I know I need to learn how to grieve, how to forgive them, how to be like Jesus and give grace and mercy. It’s so hard, but it’s nothing compared to what Christ has done for me.

    • @Mara-xd4ky
      @Mara-xd4ky 5 місяців тому +2

      May god give you peace.❤

    • @Samgiftedd
      @Samgiftedd 4 місяці тому +2

      Im right here with you 🙏🏾

    • @amyteurlife9408
      @amyteurlife9408 4 місяці тому

      I am sorry for you. Seek healing by any means...counseling, books, internet. Research narcissism...melanietoniaevans, Jill wise, Dr. Ramani and many others are good. You're abusers were abused too. If your inner self is healthy, the external environment must match...bad people will sense your health and run to target a more "needier for human love" person. Otherwise you repeat generational trauma...even when you say you won't, you will do the same but in a different way than your caregivers did to you. Satan wants you bitter so you destroy your life with bad relationships and destroy your children as he attacked your parents to destroy you. This is a spiritual battle. The best advice I could give is to be healthy physically, mentally [seek help] whether you think you need it or not, don't sleep with a person for a long time...get to know them well, marry Gods way without sex before wedding bc this is Satan's biggest weapon...he hates families. Trauma causes us to feel ugly so we destroy ourselves by any means. It causes us to find a person who is at first wonderful, the first one to give us "real attention" to confirm our inner child that we are finally worthy of love, approval and security...the person becomes our source of love which God should be...we make them an idol. We need to stay single in our younger years so God can teach us true love before we get in relationship and bring forth the next generation. God bless.

    • @marinawilson7034
      @marinawilson7034 Місяць тому

      That happened to me to I was only 6 years old it was my fathers best friend, nobody believed me then my cousin I was scared ashamed I thought I was my fault very to deal with ty for sharing

  • @ChristyLynnMiles
    @ChristyLynnMiles 5 місяців тому +8

    PRAISE THE HEAVENLY FATHER FOR THIS MESSAGE!!!!
    This speaks VOLUMES about my life with my ex husband and how he is with me and I our kids.
    Praise God that I have peace that my walk with God is just that, mine. This m safe helped me make sense. My ex hates me and all I stand for are n Christ because it exposes him and his actions and his cheating and his behavior and his evilness.

  • @TammyBlevins-mw7bj
    @TammyBlevins-mw7bj 5 місяців тому +3

    O my,, I just got it...
    I asked God last night for an apifany, he deliver today before I had seen this.
    Praise jesus christ....

  • @joycemiracle1588
    @joycemiracle1588 6 днів тому

    WHAT A WORD. I AM LEARNING, GROWING AND HEALING!! TO HEAL, I MUST CONFRONT. FEELINGS DON'T GO AWAY

  • @tarraholifield4998
    @tarraholifield4998 6 місяців тому +8

    I've experienced the way the Lord leveled me up and how it provoked others and I've also been the one provoked by others in my family leveling up as well. Grace. Mercy.

  • @angelinajade
    @angelinajade 6 місяців тому +6

    I have always been searching for the truth. I finally found it.

  • @user-zk8ri3nr1h
    @user-zk8ri3nr1h 5 місяців тому +5

    Pray for my family . In Jesus name . Amen 🙏🏻 Thank you Jesus
    Shalom 💜🔥

  • @emmahanley-shine3284
    @emmahanley-shine3284 6 місяців тому +4

    TRUTH and FREEDOM is this sermon.
    AMEN and AMEN and AMEN.
    Thank you for being a God Gezzer,mighty Warrior,may he bless and protect you and your family as you walk his path.

  • @franceshaggitt3104
    @franceshaggitt3104 5 місяців тому +3

    Yes
    I was rejected by fam
    No more i has to dust off

  • @jenniferpoindexter3120
    @jenniferpoindexter3120 6 місяців тому +4

    It’s true!! That’s another reason why I had to learn not to expect an apology from certain people

  • @SRY.GODISGOOD.92
    @SRY.GODISGOOD.92 6 місяців тому +7

    Man this is fire. Praise the Lord heavenly Father 🙏

  • @veronicacamacho1647
    @veronicacamacho1647 6 місяців тому +8

    Same here! Praying for my adult siblings to come to Jesus! God has been doing things in their lives because of my constant prayers over the years ! Praise our Good God! He is promise keeper!

    • @ninamarise237
      @ninamarise237 6 місяців тому

      Amen and Hallelujah!!!!! Your prayers for your siblings are so powerful!! I was very deep into new age/metaphysics and my sister never gave up praying for me and 3 years ago I had an encounter with Jesus in my Living room!!! His presence filled the room and I fell to my knees and wept.. I gave Him my life that night and never looked back. No One is too far gone for God to save them!! 🥹🥳🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @susanwill6351
    @susanwill6351 5 місяців тому +5

    This is SO good!
    Another great preaching/teaching Pastor Mike. 😊

  • @LadyNolaJ
    @LadyNolaJ 6 місяців тому +2

    Conflict produces intimacy with God but not necessarily with the person you lovingly confront....but it's better than not confronting ever.

  • @judilopez6051
    @judilopez6051 6 місяців тому +2

    My family is the family I want! I love them all so very much ❤

  • @dorleenlastra3337
    @dorleenlastra3337 5 місяців тому +1

    Youngest of 6 🙋 I have been alienated.

  • @kellyschroeder7437
    @kellyschroeder7437 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank you Father God. Forgive me my magical/wishful thinking and waiting on another besides You Jesus Christ. Some Old grief Jesus Christ Holy Spirit Father God let it come and be lanced and healed by You alone 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻✝️✝️✝️🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @Aconsejandodesdeloaprendido
    @Aconsejandodesdeloaprendido 6 місяців тому +3

    Wow confronting rejection
    And grieving properly! 😢

  • @judilopez6051
    @judilopez6051 6 місяців тому +3

    Thank You Father for the family You have given me ❤❤❤❤

  • @lo-ul8nq
    @lo-ul8nq 6 місяців тому +7

    Hallelujah, Thank you Jesus

  • @kee7678
    @kee7678 5 місяців тому +1

    Rich Mullens....such a great Godly musician...rest in peace Rich....

  • @naturehealers3727
    @naturehealers3727 6 місяців тому +3

    I'm hoping this also means from toxic relationships too. I need that. ❤

  • @bakedvegan6379
    @bakedvegan6379 6 місяців тому +7

    This was amazing! Wow, thank you so much!! ❤

  • @Allietransformations
    @Allietransformations Місяць тому

    Im crying and laughing at the same time Every day i starrted holy spirit fire Jesus🔥🔥🔥🔥Yes Jesus el Shaddai thank you Jesus

  • @michaelsane.1729
    @michaelsane.1729 6 місяців тому +5

    IN JESUS NAME AMEN‼️

  • @vasitinawalu3796
    @vasitinawalu3796 4 місяці тому

    Gap between getting anointed and appointed 👏🏽👏🏽🙏

  • @silverrose9248
    @silverrose9248 6 місяців тому +3

    With conflict usually someone has to leave. Wow. This video pops up just 1.5 hours after I have a big fight (again) with my mom and I tell her she has to get out of my home. She has to leave. And this pastor is saying no one leaves, instead talk out openly everyone's feelings.
    Question: How? Without dissolving into a mess of blame. My mother blames me for her unhappiness in life. I blame her for bringing in and dumping it in mine. I've been her "therapist" for as long as I can remember. How do I let that go and let Jesus take it all and take over? What am I doing wrong?

    • @JulieSevelson-nb9nj
      @JulieSevelson-nb9nj 5 місяців тому +2

      No two situations are alike. Please don't feel you have to deal with your mother right now, do it later when she gets her own place. It's not dishonoring to have parents in separate living quarters. If your mother had lifelong resentment towards you, getting along will be difficult, you both definitely need family therapy to save your relationship. She needs to forgive you for being born, first.

    • @amyteurlife9408
      @amyteurlife9408 4 місяці тому +1

      Yes Step in faith but take a step. Always be loving and don't lay guilt on a person let God do that. I find in some situations you take an in between step. In my situation...it is not to divorce my husband right now but to rent a room for a month to see what God shows me....sometimes just a little separation for a time. This could be setting up the home so each has a bit more privacy....a little effort towards privacy goes a long way.

  • @soy.ingrid
    @soy.ingrid 6 місяців тому +3

    I need this 🥹🥹 the damage from my childhood is starting to be more evident as I grow older

  • @nancylohe986
    @nancylohe986 4 місяці тому +1

    Mike ,
    This is Really Very Helpful on so many levels ❤❤

  • @veronicacamacho1647
    @veronicacamacho1647 6 місяців тому +3

    Waiting for that day my brother will hug me again and he knows his knows Gods purpose for his life!!

  • @leticiamartinez2109
    @leticiamartinez2109 3 місяці тому

    When you grieve with GOD it’s called prayer but when you grieve without GOD it’s called addiction.

  • @arielnichols6204
    @arielnichols6204 6 місяців тому +3

    Whooooo praise God hallelujah 🙌 thankyou Jesus 🙌

  • @judilopez6051
    @judilopez6051 6 місяців тому +2

    Yes Amen 🙏🏼 finish the work You started in me ❤

  • @jamesfranklin8871
    @jamesfranklin8871 6 місяців тому +4

    It is so good when you share your testimony

  • @JacquelineRivera-ot5ho
    @JacquelineRivera-ot5ho 4 місяці тому

    Pastor Mike Signorelli I live in Suffolk County Long Island NY I have never been to your Church but I want you to know that “ I Love You “ ❤I tune in to your channel on You Tube. My niece in Austin Texas recently got saved, she says you are awesome! she tuned in also. 😀You are truly a man of God, you’re loved ❤and appreciated !

  • @richiewilliams2412
    @richiewilliams2412 6 місяців тому +2

    Pastor Mike is my hero

  • @LovelyDancing-dz8yh
    @LovelyDancing-dz8yh 3 місяці тому

    Amen my family needs prayer I'm always family encouraged thm I pray Im worki on my spiritual life with God but thy always hurting me becos I relise becos I walk with God's favor

  • @vasitinawalu3796
    @vasitinawalu3796 4 місяці тому

    Grieve deferred is grieve multiplied

  • @vasitinawalu3796
    @vasitinawalu3796 4 місяці тому

    Listening from Suva, Fiji Islands 🇫🇯

  • @morganmcdermott6832
    @morganmcdermott6832 6 місяців тому +3

    Stay right HERE don’t get UP🛐

  • @mzzroxxie
    @mzzroxxie Місяць тому

    C’mon good sir!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @lo-ul8nq
    @lo-ul8nq 6 місяців тому +3

    Thank you Pastor Mike great service

  • @user-hl7xu6cz2f
    @user-hl7xu6cz2f 4 місяці тому +1

    DENMARK IS LISTDNING VERY MUCH

  • @madelinebigio7565
    @madelinebigio7565 4 місяці тому

    Yessss help me with my toxic family members too ! I need the blood 🩸 of Jesus Christ to heal me and my family! Thank you 🙏

  • @allyfurey293
    @allyfurey293 5 місяців тому +3

    This so good!!! 🔥🔥

  • @user-xy3fg4fk8f
    @user-xy3fg4fk8f 6 місяців тому +3

    This is what gets me how does real parents abuse there own kids. I was taken away from my real parents because of being Born with cokcain and yet my adopted mom abused me and my adopted brother sexually abused me as well God as seen me thure a lot. I have forgiven them and myself for not saying anything but yet how do I love myself after being hurt and fear is holding me back. Elias

    • @JulieSevelson-nb9nj
      @JulieSevelson-nb9nj 5 місяців тому

      It's illegal to abuse children, physically, sexually,etc. it's an actual crime. Please get trauma therapy, for this abuse done to you. Forgiveness and reconciliation isn't the same thing. You could even file charges against them both,if you choose to.

  • @arielnichols6204
    @arielnichols6204 6 місяців тому +2

    Amen!

  • @anntodd2315
    @anntodd2315 5 місяців тому +1

    Stay right here
    Don't get up

  • @arielnichols6204
    @arielnichols6204 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank God!!!

  • @mzzroxxie
    @mzzroxxie Місяць тому

    I’m that one!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙃

  • @laurastauffer1275
    @laurastauffer1275 5 місяців тому +2

    I sure wish you were in Utah

  • @alwaysgrowing7273
    @alwaysgrowing7273 6 місяців тому +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @lo-ul8nq
    @lo-ul8nq 6 місяців тому +1

    Thats the very Truth is right

  • @lucillewright5153
    @lucillewright5153 6 місяців тому +3

    I'm going through this right now I was at V1 NYC in person for this. I keep Praying for them.

    • @lo-ul8nq
      @lo-ul8nq 6 місяців тому +1

      I been going through it myself with my family. I keep praying for them to come to Jesus. Keep trusting God with everything.

    • @lucillewright5153
      @lucillewright5153 4 місяці тому

      @lo-ul8nq yea sometimes daily I have to lay them @ his Feet. 🙏🙌

  • @davena4Jesus
    @davena4Jesus 4 місяці тому

    I had to back it up to let me start with opening your bibles ❤ this is good

  • @lewizayoussef7030
    @lewizayoussef7030 4 місяці тому +2

    I am really really blessed by your message
    It touched my heat
    Do you really read my Comment?

    • @lewizayoussef7030
      @lewizayoussef7030 4 місяці тому

      I mean my heart
      God bless you pastor
      I live in Canada
      Would you please pray for me!!

  • @jenniferpoindexter3120
    @jenniferpoindexter3120 6 місяців тому +1

    I like that old school “Family Matters” in the background 😂😂

  • @heidimarshall2398
    @heidimarshall2398 5 місяців тому +1

    Stay

  • @kingdomproclaimermarceyste8648
    @kingdomproclaimermarceyste8648 4 місяці тому

    Stay right here

  • @aliciamorris788
    @aliciamorris788 4 місяці тому +1

    I love the real

  • @jenniferpoindexter3120
    @jenniferpoindexter3120 6 місяців тому +1

    Hallelujah Jesus!! 🙌🏼♥️

  • @AmandaCaseyy
    @AmandaCaseyy 4 місяці тому

    Amen

  • @jenniferpoindexter3120
    @jenniferpoindexter3120 6 місяців тому +1

    Amen!! That’s truth right there!!

  • @ericyelverton2639
    @ericyelverton2639 6 місяців тому

    Im feeling this BOTHER

  • @shemabryan5667
    @shemabryan5667 5 місяців тому +1

    Hallelujah ❤

  • @Hephzibah-eq9kr
    @Hephzibah-eq9kr 6 місяців тому +1

    This was good

  • @MaryofSwords
    @MaryofSwords 4 місяці тому

    Thanks so much for this!!!

  • @jamesfranklin8871
    @jamesfranklin8871 6 місяців тому +1

    It is so important to hear this

  • @Glorytothahighest
    @Glorytothahighest 4 місяці тому

    Wow really needed this today

  • @caseylott2422
    @caseylott2422 4 місяці тому

    Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @vancehenry7738
    @vancehenry7738 3 місяці тому

    Stay right here, don’t get up

  • @kirstietroup8894
    @kirstietroup8894 5 місяців тому

    I love that Song too!!! 🎵🎼💗

  • @vasitinawalu3796
    @vasitinawalu3796 4 місяці тому

    Learn to suffer sober

  • @SaraDouglas-hb6nf
    @SaraDouglas-hb6nf 4 місяці тому

    I do

  • @SnizhanaSvirid
    @SnizhanaSvirid 6 місяців тому

    Powerful word Pastor Mike!!

    • @SnizhanaSvirid
      @SnizhanaSvirid 6 місяців тому

      Watching with my husband from
      Upstate NY. We must visit this Body 🙌

  • @ednigma896
    @ednigma896 6 місяців тому +3

    Amen 🙏 thanks for this message

  • @lo-ul8nq
    @lo-ul8nq 6 місяців тому +1

    You cleave instead of leave

  • @ericyelverton2639
    @ericyelverton2639 5 місяців тому +2

    MAN LOOKS OUTSIDE APPERANCE, BUT GOD LOOKS AT YOUR HEART

  • @loonah8473
    @loonah8473 6 місяців тому +3

    Is this the exact same message from last week?

  • @ashaprilr4859
    @ashaprilr4859 Місяць тому

    📖❤️🕊🌊

  • @battle.rhythm.pursue8892
    @battle.rhythm.pursue8892 2 місяці тому

    52:30

  • @kimberlymadina7833
    @kimberlymadina7833 5 місяців тому +1

    How do I renew my mind

  • @sadieflint1994
    @sadieflint1994 6 місяців тому +1

    Confronting rejection
    You cleave instead of leave

  • @arielnichols6204
    @arielnichols6204 6 місяців тому +1

    Stay right here don't get up! Lol

  • @marinawilson7034
    @marinawilson7034 Місяць тому

    They rejected me

  • @Hephzibah-eq9kr
    @Hephzibah-eq9kr 6 місяців тому +1

    TOXIC

  • @leticiamartinez2109
    @leticiamartinez2109 3 місяці тому

    Can you dig it?

  • @Aconsejandodesdeloaprendido
    @Aconsejandodesdeloaprendido 6 місяців тому +1

    I wish this message was in Spanish too

    • @V1Church
      @V1Church  6 місяців тому

      we have live Spanish translations; 10:30am at our Long Island and Miami campuses, and 12:30pm at our NYC campus!

  • @lucillewright5153
    @lucillewright5153 6 місяців тому +1

    🩸🩸🩸🩸

  • @vasitinawalu3796
    @vasitinawalu3796 4 місяці тому

    Can you survive the gap?

  • @richiewilliams2412
    @richiewilliams2412 6 місяців тому +2

    I have a fantasy of dying

    • @JulieSevelson-nb9nj
      @JulieSevelson-nb9nj 5 місяців тому +1

      If you have a fantasy of dying, is it because you want to stay away from your parents,or because you want to be there with them, but they don't want you ?

    • @richiewilliams2412
      @richiewilliams2412 5 місяців тому

      Because I feel like she left me too soon and it's not all about my mother, my girlfriend passed away and I would rather be with her then here​@@JulieSevelson-nb9nj

  • @KouriPrays
    @KouriPrays 6 місяців тому

    0:21 😂😂😂

  • @davena4Jesus
    @davena4Jesus 4 місяці тому

    I've seen this one 😂😂 I need to take my butt to 🛌

  • @twiggyterwilliger7681
    @twiggyterwilliger7681 6 місяців тому +1

    My Favorite song by Rich too

  • @ericyelverton2639
    @ericyelverton2639 6 місяців тому +1

    99/1

  • @marianmcvea5114
    @marianmcvea5114 4 місяці тому

    Stay right here

  • @veronicacamacho1647
    @veronicacamacho1647 6 місяців тому

    Waiting for that day my brother will hug me again and he knows his knows Gods purpose for his life!!