A strong woman like you in our Hmong community is rare. We need more of them. Ib tug poj niam muaj peev xwm li koj kuv thov qhuas vim peb cov poj niam hmoob ua zoo los yeej tsis luaj twg rau feem coob. Ua txhaum ib zaug xwb los yuav txhaum ib txhis.
Koj mas keej tshaj plaws. We need more woman like u on earth. Zoo tshaj plaws qhov koj tsis kk pab nws. Raug siab tshaj plaws qhov koj stand up for yourself.
Ua tsaug kawg nkaus! I am so proud of you!! We need more of women like you sister. Yes.... my money is my money and money doesn't grow on trees, I work hard for it... you don't need this kind of men... thanks for sharing, making some of us women stronger in life.
Good job on standing up for yourself. So proud of ya. I'll do the same thing too cannot love your spouse if they don't love you too. That's so true no money for anything but money for himself. I'm like you I keep my hard earned money for myself since I've learned the hard way. With or without him don't matter. He paid you what your endured with him.
Shame on your sister-in-law. I hope she faces the same fate. Also, your step-son better be ready for karma when it comes to him. You paid for his wedding. And you are correct; you paid for the life insurance policy. It is your money. If they wanted a portion, they should have helped with the payments.
Life insurance is a personal investment. Leej twg them ces Leej twg tau pob nyiaj. Tus coj noj coj ua, yes that's 💯 right. Vim nws tsuas coj noj mov thiab coj haus npias xwb. Yog tus coj kwv coj tij ces tej teeb meem hauv zaj neej neeg no tsis tshwm sim tawm los.
Sister, you did the right thing. He's doesn't deserve anything from you. Learn from this, don't remarry. Enjoy the money, your children, and grandchildren. Love yourself and travel.
Tus viv ncaus aw!! koj hais yog kawg lawm os mog es peb cov tsis muaj txiv ces kuv khaws kiag koj cov lus rau hauv siab lawm os mog es ua tsaug ntaus22
Tus mis kwv tij ua yus yog ib tus txiv neej yuav nre tsi nre kom luag fwm yuav ruam tsi ruam kom txau luag hlub yuav mus ua ruam tsab nre txog thaum kawg yuav tuag nraub qab ke lis no xwb tiag ib tsoom kwv tij hmoob ua tsaug
I don't understand why you didn't just divorce him when you found out he was still with his ex wife. Why so desperate for him. What makes you think he loves you. You only did one thing right my standing up for yourself.
Nco ntsoov tias tsis txhob mus khaws Neeg hauv thoob khib nyhiab Los yug Thaum kawg CES yeej zoo li no ntag, Thov Cov mi Niam tsev aw yus nyob yus nrog yus tej mi nyuam Xwb yeej tsis tuag li sav ua Cas nej pheej yuav nrhiav niag txiv ko los ua ib qhov Kev mob os, Cas ho tsis CIA nyias nrog nyias tej mi nyuam nyob thaum lub hauv paus na, Lam pe qhov quav rov nrawv nris Thaum kev txom nyem xwb Thaum dhau plaws ko ces nws rov ua thaj qub xwb os 🙏🙏
Wow, the audacity. They are begging you bury their Mom and threaten to beat you up because you called them out on it? I wouldn't even be there in the first place to even talk about it. Tseem hais tias poj niam mus fauv qub txiv tsis tau tiamsi txiv neej fauv qub pojniam thiab? Hmong kev cai quav dev xwb os.
Sister koj ua tau yog kawg lawm tus neeg siab phem ces yeej yuav tau txais qhov phem xwb lawv txawm yuav hais li cas rau koj lo txhob mob siab lawv rov qab ua rau lawv ev xwb na
Zoo qhov koj tsis yog neeg npam es nws tus tub thiaj yuav ntaus koj kom koj thiaj tsis tau them qhov nqi tha nws tus poj niam. Hais Thank you thank you..... Good that you stand up for yourself. Life insurance you pay your self. That is the best you can do.
A good story to be learned. My mother in law doesn’t even have a penny to contribute to her husband’s funeral. Only us the kids so my husband asked her; she said that she had no ashamed.
Glad you stood up against them. You don't have to pay for stepson wedding. You don't have to pay for ex wife's funeral. You don't have to pay foe his funeral. BUT, what you did wrong was sray with the fool and his lazy family. You should have divorced him the minute you caught him with ex wife.
Lub neej no ua rau kuv ntshav siab li siab nawb. Txawm yog li no kuv thiaj tsis yuav txiv lau. Cov niag txiv neej no tsis tsim nyog hlub li os. Cov niag kwv tij no los phem kawg thiab. Lawv hlub hlub lawv tus neeg cas lawv tsis muab nyiaj faus lawv tus neeg nawj?
Thov txiv niam tij ntsuab teev koj qhia tus niam tsev nkauj hmoob xeem vaj zaj dab neeg hais tias kuv yuav nco koj kom txog hnub kuv cov pob txha yaj tag mus ua Av los tseem nco ntsoov.
Sister you are strong I be so proud of you👏👏cov niag txiv tub dev thiab muag nus dev ntawm yeej Tsi txog twg nawv mog. Wow nyiaj tshav ntuj tau $800 xwb ces Tsi muaj qab hau li lauj….
Poj hmoob os poj hmoob twb ntshaw2 luag tej txiv ces kav tsij zoo siab hlo mus Pam xwb mas ua cas es ntshaw luag thaum luag muaj2 zog xwb hos luag tuag lawm no ces ho muab muag xyeeb pov tseg tos li kwv tij muab koj xa los yeej tsim nyog lawm
koj mas kuv tseem npau taws os siaj 1cent kuv twb tsis k muab os. cov j muag txiv tub dev j muag laib ko cia tuag liab qab mo niam tsev aw.....xaj kom niag j muag tub laib ntawv them koj cov nqi tshoob rov qab rau koj mas tsis li ces muaj ib hnub niag tub nyab ko yuav ua yawg nrauj li nws txiv yuav tuag tsis muaj ntxa os niam tsev aw......koj ua tau zoo kawg lawm ua zoo yeej tau txais qhov zoo os mog thov yawm saub tsom kwm nej cov me niam tub noj qab nyob zoo nawb mog
Good thing you didn’t contribute a penny to his late wife’s funeral and you put his evil son in jail. You should have left that family a long time ago and not deal with all that drama. His kids are as bad as him and his late wife. Lesson: don’t remarry when you both have a baggage.
Tus niam tsev txua yam no tim koj xwb vim koj muaj 10 tus me nyuam lo koj tseem ntsaw ntsaw txiv na 10 tus me nyuam li koj ko txhob ntsaw txiv neej os vim tiam no txiv neej siab phem dhau cas koj tseem ntsaw txiv na txiv neej txoj kev liam ces zoo li koj tus txiv no xwb tiag nws tuag lo zoo nyob lo pab tsis tau koj os ua lub ntuj tsaug ua tuag os nyob ntse ua koj mob siab chim siab tu siab ua li koj ua no yog kawg tus neeg siab phem ces txhob khuv xim mog
Sheesh. A man that doesn’t even have $300 to their name, is he even a man? Good for you for not backing down. Shame on the sister, she knows damn well she wouldn’t do the same.
Karma got them good. They deserve it. Hmoob men always think that just because you are married to the family you owe them and take care of everything. They should be thankful that you help them out with those money. Stupid people!!
Tsim nyog koj xa los nrauj kiag nws thaum rov qab tim Nplog los ces tsis muaj plaub rau koj. Tim koj nrauj tsis tu li nkawd thiab, thiaj raug pam faus nws.
What a joke that they tried to make u pay for the ex-wife's funeral. Hmong people are funny. They know the couple is divorced, but they turned a blind eye when she died and acted as if they have no clue and threw the dead wife back to the husband to bury. What a joke.
A strong woman like you in our Hmong community is rare. We need more of them. Ib tug poj niam muaj peev xwm li koj kuv thov qhuas vim peb cov poj niam hmoob ua zoo los yeej tsis luaj twg rau feem coob. Ua txhaum ib zaug xwb los yuav txhaum ib txhis.
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I’m proud of you for standing up for yourself!
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Koj mas keej tshaj plaws. We need more woman like u on earth. Zoo tshaj plaws qhov koj tsis kk pab nws. Raug siab tshaj plaws qhov koj stand up for yourself.
Thanks for sharing your story! So proud of you 🙏
Ua tsaug kawg nkaus! I am so proud of you!! We need more of women like you sister. Yes.... my money is my money and money doesn't grow on trees, I work hard for it... you don't need this kind of men... thanks for sharing, making some of us women stronger in life.
Women who put themselves into stupid situation and then has to stand up for herself?
Thank you for sharing. I love how strong you are.
Koj ua yog kawg lawm nawj tsis tsim nyog pab
Smart woman. Don't need to waste money on them.
Hais tau zoo kawg li os
Sister good thing you are the winner yes, I said you do very good job.
Tus me sister koj cov lus muaj tseeb kawg li ua tsaug
Tu viv ncaus aw koj ma hais yog tshaj plaw li lawm os mog.
People, people! Haven’t you heard of life insurance🤦🏻♀️!? No one lives forever and you don’t know when you’re going to go so be prepared!
I'm glad you are sharing your story to help others. Thank you, miss
I agree with you sister, you did good
Very good story
Yog lawm hos me niam laus
Koj hlub koj tus kheej no
What a story!!! Woman power!!
Sister, Amen!!!
Good job on standing up for yourself. So proud of ya. I'll do the same thing too cannot love your spouse if they don't love you too. That's so true no money for anything but money for himself. I'm like you I keep my hard earned money for myself since I've learned the hard way. With or without him don't matter. He paid you what your endured with him.
Koj hais yog Lawm mog
Yog li haiv tiag lawg
Shame on your sister-in-law. I hope she faces the same fate. Also, your step-son better be ready for karma when it comes to him. You paid for his wedding.
And you are correct; you paid for the life insurance policy. It is your money. If they wanted a portion, they should have helped with the payments.
I am with you agree so….. proud
Good for you, sister. Stand up for yourself.
wow txhua yeej yog li koj hais lawv yeej muab ua tshaj dhau rau koj thiab os.cov niag menyuam dev liam no los siab phem dhau tos pluag pluag pam tsis tau lawv niam. Yeej pab koj chim siab heev uas koj tseem poob nyiaj los pam koj niag txiv dev tus qub pojniam lau. tabsis kav liam ua rau txoj kev zoo os..
Yog leej twg yuam koj rho nyiaj los pam lwm tus neeg ces kom nws mus nram tsev txiav plaub xwb. Peb ib txhia kwv tij hmoob mas tseem nyiam yuam neeg heev.
Life insurance is a personal investment. Leej twg them ces Leej twg tau pob nyiaj.
Tus coj noj coj ua, yes that's 💯 right. Vim nws tsuas coj noj mov thiab coj haus npias xwb. Yog tus coj kwv coj tij ces tej teeb meem hauv zaj neej neeg no tsis tshwm sim tawm los.
Sister, you did the right thing. He's doesn't deserve anything from you. Learn from this, don't remarry. Enjoy the money, your children, and grandchildren. Love yourself and travel.
koj siab me me koj thiaj li tsis kam them ces kuj hais tau tias cov kwv tij siab loj loj cov kwv tij kuj them tus tub ntawv cov nqi tshoob los maa
Yog kawg !
This is America, hmong people. You can’t force someone to pay anything.
Yes! Learn your lesson!
พี่พูดถูกทุกย่างค่ะ👏👏👏
Nyiaj UA-cam muaj ceem tiag yom May. Kawg mus vacation lawm los tseem hais dab neeg tag zog yom 😁😁😁😊
Tus viv ncaus aw!! koj hais yog kawg lawm os mog es peb cov tsis muaj txiv ces kuv khaws kiag koj cov lus rau hauv siab lawm os mog es ua tsaug ntaus22
Tus mis kwv tij ua yus yog ib tus txiv neej yuav nre tsi nre kom luag fwm yuav ruam tsi ruam kom txau luag hlub yuav mus ua ruam tsab nre txog thaum kawg yuav tuag nraub qab ke lis no xwb tiag ib tsoom kwv tij hmoob ua tsaug
Koj twb yog zoo dhau lawm os.
This is why Hmong women no longer want to remarry to hmong men again
Don’t blame your decisions on fate. You need to make better decisions.
Poj nrauj thiab yawg nrauj sib sau los ua neej ces yeej lwj siab li no ntag nawb lawv aw...
This woman was not wrong! I’m glad she didn’t help them.
I don't understand why you didn't just divorce him when you found out he was still with his ex wife. Why so desperate for him. What makes you think he loves you. You only did one thing right my standing up for yourself.
I thing just the life insurance
No money no problem.
No life insurance is a problem.
All Hmong American need life insurance.
People, please invest in life insurance. 🙏
Even if I have life insurance, I ain’t using it for a funeral. Cremation under $3000.
Nco ntsoov tias tsis txhob mus khaws Neeg hauv thoob khib nyhiab Los yug Thaum kawg CES yeej zoo li no ntag, Thov Cov mi Niam tsev aw yus nyob yus nrog yus tej mi nyuam Xwb yeej tsis tuag li sav ua Cas nej pheej yuav nrhiav niag txiv ko los ua ib qhov Kev mob os, Cas ho tsis CIA nyias nrog nyias tej mi nyuam nyob thaum lub hauv paus na, Lam pe qhov quav rov nrawv nris Thaum kev txom nyem xwb Thaum dhau plaws ko ces nws rov ua thaj qub xwb os 🙏🙏
Wow, the audacity. They are begging you bury their Mom and threaten to beat you up because you called them out on it?
I wouldn't even be there in the first place to even talk about it. Tseem hais tias poj niam mus fauv qub txiv tsis tau tiamsi txiv neej fauv qub pojniam thiab? Hmong kev cai quav dev xwb os.
Dont complain no one can force you. You did it on your own accord.
What a headache life...🤦♀️
Fight for your self sister. You are right. This is Hmong family. Stay away from this toxic family.
Smart people use other people's money rather than their own.
You did the right thing so who cares what those evil relatives or sisters say.
Good lesson for all the poj nrauj to learn.
Koj hais yog lus lawm ov tus muam 💃👌tab sis kuv tseem nrog koj khib qhov koj muab nyiaj tsa nws tug tub nyab nqi tshoob 👫🙅♂️
Yog kawg ! Yog kuv ces thaum nws yuav ntau kuv ces kuv tsib kuv cov nyiaj nqi tshoob tawm los ntag hos ! Ruam zog rau qrhov Nov lawm ne !
You do good job yog li koj hais lawm ua neej nyob ua Cas tsis tseg nyiaj los log nws ob yag txha xuaj tshaj
Fight 4 ur rights!
Love that is interpret in such in a wrong way on both sides🙂
Sister koj ua tau yog kawg lawm tus neeg siab phem ces yeej yuav tau txais qhov phem xwb lawv txawm yuav hais li cas rau koj lo txhob mob siab lawv rov qab ua rau lawv ev xwb na
Strong lady!
Niag txiv ko ces tuag zoo kawg
Zoo qhov koj tsis yog neeg npam es nws tus tub thiaj yuav ntaus koj kom koj thiaj tsis tau them qhov nqi tha nws tus poj niam. Hais Thank you thank you.....
Good that you stand up for yourself. Life insurance you pay your self. That is the best you can do.
Sawv daws tuaj hais ces nyias hais nyias sab zoo xwb
Tsis paub , vim tsis hnov ob sab thiab tsis nrog luag ua neej tsis paub qhov tseeb.
She did the right thing
A good story to be learned. My mother in law doesn’t even have a penny to contribute to her husband’s funeral. Only us the kids so my husband asked her; she said that she had no ashamed.
Story of my life! 😂
That sounds like me and my husband…mil n fil has nothing and we end up spending every penny on fil funeral!
@@mrshanglily5647 Yes, this is too sad...I hope the mils will appreciate our help to them in the future.
Remember u not they bank 🏦
Not own anyone money 💰
Glad you stood up against them. You don't have to pay for stepson wedding. You don't have to pay for ex wife's funeral. You don't have to pay foe his funeral. BUT, what you did wrong was sray with the fool and his lazy family. You should have divorced him the minute you caught him with ex wife.
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Muaj ib cov muam ma ntxim ntxub tshaj li
Yog kawg los mas . Twb tsis yog lawv lub neej los lawv mooob moooob lawm lub nceb lis os. Yog tsis cem yus ces nyob tsis tau lis os.
Lub neej no ua rau kuv ntshav siab li siab nawb. Txawm yog li no kuv thiaj tsis yuav txiv lau. Cov niag txiv neej no tsis tsim nyog hlub li os. Cov niag kwv tij no los phem kawg thiab. Lawv hlub hlub lawv tus neeg cas lawv tsis muab nyiaj faus lawv tus neeg nawj?
Tej tus txiv dev zoo li ntawd tsua yog koj ntshaw txiv dhau lawm es koj thiaj yuav nws xwb luag tej neeg tsim txiaj luag yeej tsis yuav.
Savage but true 😆😆😆
Leej twg g ntsib ces g paub os lub niag neej lwj siab
Khaws luag qub khau rau ces khee luag qub mob ntag nawb...
Lawv tso dab tuaj tom lawm lau vim mus thab lawv ne. Pluag tag npauv los cas tseem yuav mus nrhiav kev tuwg thiab lau.
Thov txiv niam tij ntsuab teev koj qhia tus niam tsev nkauj hmoob xeem vaj zaj dab neeg hais tias kuv yuav nco koj kom txog hnub kuv cov pob txha yaj tag mus ua Av los tseem nco ntsoov.
Sister you are strong I be so proud of you👏👏cov niag txiv tub dev thiab muag nus dev ntawm yeej Tsi txog twg nawv mog. Wow nyiaj tshav ntuj tau $800 xwb ces Tsi muaj qab hau li lauj….
Koj ua yog tshaj. Koj yeej g ruam kiag
Ua li koj ua yog tshaj plaws txawm yog kuv los yeej ib yam thiab ntag ho
Viv ncaus aws, koj siab zoo dhau lawm koj thiaj Pam tus neeg siab phem ntawd kuv yog koj ntshe nws twb tsis pom kuv 1 dua li
Poj hmoob os poj hmoob twb ntshaw2 luag tej txiv ces kav tsij zoo siab hlo mus Pam xwb mas ua cas es ntshaw luag thaum luag muaj2 zog xwb hos luag tuag lawm no ces ho muab muag xyeeb pov tseg tos li kwv tij muab koj xa los yeej tsim nyog lawm
koj mas kuv tseem npau taws os siaj 1cent kuv twb tsis k muab os. cov j muag txiv tub dev j muag laib ko cia tuag liab qab mo niam tsev aw.....xaj kom niag j muag tub laib ntawv them koj cov nqi tshoob rov qab rau koj mas tsis li ces muaj ib hnub niag tub nyab ko yuav ua yawg nrauj li nws txiv yuav tuag tsis muaj ntxa os niam tsev aw......koj ua tau zoo kawg lawm ua zoo yeej tau txais qhov zoo os mog thov yawm saub tsom kwm nej cov me niam tub noj qab nyob zoo nawb mog
Good thing you didn’t contribute a penny to his late wife’s funeral and you put his evil son in jail. You should have left that family a long time ago and not deal with all that drama. His kids are as bad as him and his late wife. Lesson: don’t remarry when you both have a baggage.
Cov uas mus yuav txij yuav nkawm es hais nyiaj li no xwb yeej mus tsis txog twg
Omg this is going to be my 2 brother's life! They didn't fully divorce their wives in the Hmong way. 😝😝😝😝🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Thaum yus tseem nrog huab sibtw ya yus pom luag nqis saum ntuj los uaneej nyob hauv ntiajteb no yus xaiv yus lubneej los uaneej txawm tau zoo tau phem los yog yus lub homphiaj uas yus npaj los xwb tsis txhob ibleeg liam rau ibleeg os, ciali txaus sias rau yus lub neej xwb mas lod?
Most importantly don't marry a man who's sister claims him as her's. 🤮🤢
Poj nrauj siab me dhau lawm lawb cuag lawb dab xwb
A man who still defends his ex is a red flag to me already.
Peb cov txiv neej Hmoob ruam tsab ntse es poj niam muaj yus nraug taag lawm los kwv tij tsis Phaub ces coj li no tiag
Good for u
Twb tsis yog 5 tug xwb los yeej lam xwb os
Koj ua tau zoo kawg sister. Yog kuv nyob koj qhov chaw los kuv ua tibyam nkaus. 👏👏
Tus niam tsev txua yam no tim koj xwb vim koj muaj 10 tus me nyuam lo koj tseem ntsaw ntsaw txiv na 10 tus me nyuam li koj ko txhob ntsaw txiv neej os vim tiam no txiv neej siab phem dhau cas koj tseem ntsaw txiv na txiv neej txoj kev liam ces zoo li koj tus txiv no xwb tiag nws tuag lo zoo nyob lo pab tsis tau koj os ua lub ntuj tsaug ua tuag os nyob ntse ua koj mob siab chim siab tu siab ua li koj ua no yog kawg tus neeg siab phem ces txhob khuv xim mog
Sheesh. A man that doesn’t even have $300 to their name, is he even a man? Good for you for not backing down. Shame on the sister, she knows damn well she wouldn’t do the same.
I don't usually curse the kids bc most of the times they're innocent, but OMG, his kids are evil. I hope they get their karma!
Karma got them good. They deserve it. Hmoob men always think that just because you are married to the family you owe them and take care of everything. They should be thankful that you help them out with those money. Stupid people!!
Tsim nyog koj xa los nrauj kiag nws thaum rov qab tim Nplog los ces tsis muaj plaub rau koj. Tim koj nrauj tsis tu li nkawd thiab, thiaj raug pam faus nws.
cov txiv dev es sib nrauj tag lo tseem sib2 nco li lawv niag txiv dev ko ces tuag zoo mas
This could have been so easily avoided, just divorce the guy before all of that drama.
What a joke that they tried to make u pay for the ex-wife's funeral. Hmong people are funny. They know the couple is divorced, but they turned a blind eye when she died and acted as if they have no clue and threw the dead wife back to the husband to bury. What a joke.
Cov niag mi nyuam ntawv ces yeej yuav npam xwb mas