life lessons i've learned while i was depressed.

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  • @Luhhsetty
    @Luhhsetty  4 місяці тому +824

    Hey guys! Sorry for ghosting so much :/ Still figuring things out but I’m aiming to post at least 2x a month on UA-cam 😊 Lets get to know eachother:
    1) What’s your zodiac sign?
    2) What’s your favorite color?
    3) What’s a fun fact about you?
    -I’m a Gemini! ♊️ (Scorpio moon, Capricorn rising)
    -My favorite color is pink 💕
    -A fun fact about me is sometimes I like to do different animated voices! I think voice acting is super cool ✨

    • @_adaoraaa
      @_adaoraaa 4 місяці тому +8

      omg i love ur videos sm

    • @rachaelr0907
      @rachaelr0907 4 місяці тому +7

      I haven't seen one of your videos in the longest time, also you are beautiful

    • @kimalee000
      @kimalee000 4 місяці тому +1

      Early

    • @Maddyluvsari
      @Maddyluvsari 4 місяці тому +12

      Sagittarius
      Purple.
      I am addicted to shopping.
      Omgg I missed you so much❤😊 love your vids

    • @arlenevillanueva7585
      @arlenevillanueva7585 4 місяці тому +5

      Gemini, blue, I love 80's music.

  • @AprilLee98
    @AprilLee98 4 місяці тому +800

    I like to say, “don’t be so hard on yourself, because life is hard enough”

  • @chelseaellis1626
    @chelseaellis1626 4 місяці тому +350

    I think that a lot of women go through that one “relationship” or person that completely breaks them or makes them have to rebuild from the ground up mentally, spiritually, and even physically sometimes… but the beautiful thing is that when we finally get better and heal it not only means we can be the best for ourselves first and foremost but we can be the best version of ourselves to someone who deserves it.

    • @astrqal
      @astrqal 4 місяці тому +10

      YES! Beautifully said

    • @ninaxanax5517
      @ninaxanax5517 4 місяці тому +7

      Because women unlike men can t be with alot of individuals we get attached

    • @aichamni3543
      @aichamni3543 3 місяці тому

      I love what you said ❤❤❤❤

    • @msanderson9336
      @msanderson9336 2 місяці тому

      I agree. Well said

  • @skyylovespace
    @skyylovespace 4 місяці тому +790

    3:07 *”i was afraid to be alone, and then i actually was alone” i felt this in my soul.*

  • @ZoraSingsohh
    @ZoraSingsohh 4 місяці тому +132

    “What is the meaning of life if there is no life in my life” that summed up my year of depression.

  • @Goldenbamboo333
    @Goldenbamboo333 4 місяці тому +1166

    Lisette, I have watching your channel since I was 14 in highschool. I’m 23 now finishing college. I’m so happy you’re still here and being your most authentic self. Keep doing you, you are loved and supported dearly.

  • @janeehall
    @janeehall 4 місяці тому +95

    The feeling of shame and embarrassment will keep us complacent in the depression

  • @kayyrizma8503
    @kayyrizma8503 4 місяці тому +619

    Girl, I'm so proud of you for taking care of your mental health! We'll always be here no matter what ❤

    • @Ashleybryant-q7x
      @Ashleybryant-q7x 4 місяці тому

      Girl,I'm So proud Of you for taking Care of your mental health! We'll always be here no matter What Luhhsett She is Talk About WOW I Know Your Man❤ I Like Girl U Look So Beautiful Today I Felt Your Pain That Right That is So Cute Talk Yourself I Watch Your Video She Voice Amazing I Love U Too 😍 My Favoite Is Black

    • @calibleu7532
      @calibleu7532 4 місяці тому +3

      💯

  • @destinimonae
    @destinimonae 3 місяці тому +31

    “I have to do life again” is so real. Choosing joy while being in a dark hole is so hard.

  • @gingerlikedaspice
    @gingerlikedaspice 4 місяці тому +131

    Depression is no joke. The only reason that I am still here is because of the grace of God and the love of Jesus Christ. It takes a lot of work and it seems like there is no light at the end of the tunnel, but I am so glad that the Lord sends people and his word as comfort. The Lord, loved ones, and professional help was how I made it through. Every day brings its challenges but you can choose Joy and you can choose Peace. The Lord gives peace that passes all understanding.

    • @angel-fk6rn
      @angel-fk6rn 2 місяці тому +3

      amen!!!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤❤

    • @Rizzler101-l6u
      @Rizzler101-l6u Місяць тому +3

      Amen❤

    • @trinityjones6131
      @trinityjones6131 Місяць тому

      Amen❤

    • @oladoyinawobeku3171
      @oladoyinawobeku3171 Місяць тому

      Yes! I really do think pursuing Jesus and building a relationship with him would be the saving grace and life hack that we all need, sometimes, nothing in life seems worth it and we would question our existence but Jesus would always remind us that he created us for a reason, and no one can literally love us like he does. Like he literally died for our sins! What a love.

  • @DCoda_B
    @DCoda_B 4 місяці тому +354

    Welcome back Lisette! You were definitely missed 💕

    • @Luhhsetty
      @Luhhsetty  4 місяці тому +50

      Thank you sm 🥹❤️❤️

    • @GWETHgo
      @GWETHgo 4 місяці тому +12

      ​@@Luhhsetty❤you are loved and valued. And you are deserving of space whenever you need it. Thank you for also using your journey to teach us😊.

  • @chelsieflynn
    @chelsieflynn 4 місяці тому +216

    Give it to God girl. The burden is too heavy for us to carry… He loves you, and sees you in your pain. You are never alone!! Just give Him your all, and he will meet you there. Peace is always on the other side ❤

    • @mvriajvsmine
      @mvriajvsmine 4 місяці тому +8

      Amen 🙏🏼 God is the Prince of Peace 🕊️ He will break all those chains and liberate you! Hallelujah ✝️

    • @AriannaElizabeth
      @AriannaElizabeth 4 місяці тому +13

      This is the type of comment I was hoping to see and the exact kind I was going to write too

    • @H.Khan6534
      @H.Khan6534 4 місяці тому +4

      Girl im at the same condition rn my tears just got stopped as i saw ur beautiful comment its so true & thank you so much for such a beautiful words

    • @soluna5610
      @soluna5610 3 місяці тому +8

      Not everyone is religious let people live how they want to we have to learn to deal with our emotions not give them up to some "god"

    • @notgonnaargue8986
      @notgonnaargue8986 3 місяці тому

      We rebuke you ​@@soluna5610

  • @taylorrenae3158
    @taylorrenae3158 4 місяці тому +96

    Opening up about this is not complaining. A lot of us are feeling depression while silently going through the motions, as if nothing is wrong. Thanks for destigmatizing the conversation and being real about your experience. It was so relatable and refreshing. Much love!

  • @_Diamondunique
    @_Diamondunique 4 місяці тому +26

    “ Joy is a mindset “ That went over so many people heads .. Great word 🤞🏽❤️

  • @sixteen.candles.4644
    @sixteen.candles.4644 4 місяці тому +77

    Being alone is hard. Knowing your worth is often lonely but i agree with you joy is a mindset..

  • @keshawndradavis
    @keshawndradavis 4 місяці тому +26

    “I have to do life again”… whew. This resonated to the deepest depth of my soul. My mental health had deteriorated so much earlier this year that I didn’t want to face another day… and contemplated taking my life.
    But God.
    And to God be the glory that you’re in a better mental state of being. I pray continuous healing over your life. God bless ❤️

    • @marvelfan2829
      @marvelfan2829 4 місяці тому

      I pray God heals your soul and heart and grant you happiness and healing in your life and make ease for you Ameen 🫶🏽❤️🙏🏽!!!! Praying for you girl you got this God is with you always!!!!

  • @moosey1520
    @moosey1520 3 місяці тому +12

    "They're gunna mark you as Dollar Tree if you sit and wait for people to give value to you." -- HEARD LOUD AND CLEAR. Thank you for this video and for sharing your experience. It's a blessing that this video landed on my homepage, as I'm currently going through a similar self-journey myself. I needed this

  • @sanyuktafaye7799
    @sanyuktafaye7799 4 місяці тому +35

    We all cried!! With her!!! Bcz we know at some point of life we went thru the same, going thru the same or might happen to someone! More power to you girl and all the girlies reading this comment!! 🥹A hug!

  • @tashabradley6972
    @tashabradley6972 4 місяці тому +65

    Thank you for sharing your inner most thoughts with us. I often view depression as a silent killer. People don't talk about it and often times do not get the help needed because others view it as a weakness and therefore, we should just "deal" with it. We smile but we hide so much pain and grief. It's about time we talk about it and get the help needed. God Bless you Luhhsetty! You are beautiful inside and out. ;)

    • @Luhhsetty
      @Luhhsetty  4 місяці тому +10

      Thank you!! Yes destigmatize mental health 🫶🏽

  • @angel.a2409
    @angel.a2409 4 місяці тому +221

    Jesus said ‘I am the way, the truth, and THE LIFE’ in Him you find joy, in Him you find peace, in Him you find purpose. And he loves you Lisette. Cry out to him with a humble heart and seek him, you will find him. I encourage you to buy a Bible and read it, Jesus is real and he loves you more than anyone in this world ever could. We weren’t made to be alone, we were made for community and fellowship.

    • @cristinavang401
      @cristinavang401 4 місяці тому +10

      Yes!! This comment! ^^^

    • @Jesusgirly0716
      @Jesusgirly0716 4 місяці тому +6

      Amen to that

    • @Whitney-y4q
      @Whitney-y4q 4 місяці тому +7

      AMEN

    • @loveandfaithJ
      @loveandfaithJ 4 місяці тому +7

      John 14:6 ! 🥰❤ Psalms 16:11 says "You will show me the path of life. In your presence is fullness of joy, At your right hand are pleasures forevermore. " 🥰

    • @glendiibruno
      @glendiibruno 4 місяці тому +6

      Amen !! Jesus is the life , the purpose we live for. The beginning of Happiness and joy 🙏🏽🤍🤍💯

  • @feleshiarobinson1997
    @feleshiarobinson1997 4 місяці тому +76

    We as women deserve this. Thank you

  • @juliamcfarland8899
    @juliamcfarland8899 4 місяці тому +26

    i remember the purple room, the braces, the blonde curls, and all. so happy to see you again. we missed you, we love you. ❤

  • @ZoraSingsohh
    @ZoraSingsohh 4 місяці тому +142

    Sometimes God puts us in situations so we can realize the true value and meaning of life and its ups and downs. I’m only 15 but because of what I’ve been through I feel so wise and confident in the understanding of how I feel. Everywhere I go I feel lonely or left out but I tell myself God has a better path for me and those who are like me

    • @mvriajvsmine
      @mvriajvsmine 4 місяці тому +7

      God bless you. 🙏🏼🤍

    • @ZoraSingsohh
      @ZoraSingsohh 4 місяці тому +3

      @@mvriajvsmine Likewise 🤍🤍

    • @dajaliina
      @dajaliina 4 місяці тому +3

      Amen

  • @lilychristina1818
    @lilychristina1818 26 днів тому +2

    Hi Lisette, im now seventeen and ive been watching your channel for 5 years. I just wanted to think you for always teaching me to love myself and be transparent. I didnt grow up with a big sister and im so greatful for you

  • @amandataffe
    @amandataffe 4 місяці тому +95

    Lisette, you have no idea how much I needed to see this. I've been subscribed to you for over 8 years now and I've always felt so connected to you emotionally. Having the same hair type, you've helped me learn how to love and take care of my hair, you've helped me learn how to love and take care of myself, you've inspired me to start my own journey on social media and seeing this while in a bad mental state has made me realize I have a lot of healing and inner working to do and I'm so ready to start. Thank you so much for being a light, a positive vessel, and a genuine soul sister. I hope that you're doing well and that you're surrounded by people who deserve your light and your energy❤❤

    • @Luhhsetty
      @Luhhsetty  4 місяці тому +18

      Thank you for this beautiful comment 🥹❤️ my heart is so full. We are in this together! 🫶🏽

  • @kiarahb3530
    @kiarahb3530 3 місяці тому +6

    I’ve been watching you for years like since I was a teenager and now I’m about to be 22 years old, I’ve been struggling a lot recently and i just want to say thank you for being this vulnerable with us bc I needed to hear these things a well. So, thank you.

    • @kiarahb3530
      @kiarahb3530 3 місяці тому

      Also my zodiac sign is Libra, my favorite color is pink and my fun fact is that I really love cooking.

  • @CeceMEFit
    @CeceMEFit 4 місяці тому +176

    Not me tearing up😩 This felt like the most beautiful poetry and it was delivered right on time🫶🏾
    I'm a Pisces, favorite color is green and a fact about me is I am a small youtuber that's lost her spark lately🥲But this has inspired me to find my creative spark again💕

    • @Luhhsetty
      @Luhhsetty  4 місяці тому +33

      Thank you ❤❤ post them videos girl! Follow the passion 🫶🏽

    • @Beyourbestversion65
      @Beyourbestversion65 4 місяці тому +4

      Well Pisces... Nice to meet you
      I just subscribe to your channel and would love to see more of you ❤️ 💕 you got this

    • @JessicaBurnett-gc4fk
      @JessicaBurnett-gc4fk 4 місяці тому

      ​@@Luhhsetty I'm a Virgo September 17 my favorite color is orange 🧡 fact I will be a teacher i will teach 1&6 grades

    • @D_TheeRealest17
      @D_TheeRealest17 4 місяці тому

      @@JessicaBurnett-gc4fkOMG my birthday is September 17 toooo 💚😂♍️

    • @taratorres6579
      @taratorres6579 4 місяці тому

      @@Luhhsetty

  • @fakiriayoub8087
    @fakiriayoub8087 4 місяці тому +203

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @ejmabrothers6743
      @ejmabrothers6743 4 місяці тому

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

    • @BenjaminCanales-nn9gi
      @BenjaminCanales-nn9gi 4 місяці тому +1

      Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @chrisbenoit5044
      @chrisbenoit5044 4 місяці тому

      I wish they were readily available in my place.
      Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
      He's constantly talking about killing someone.
      He's violent. Anyone reading this
      Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

    • @ejmabrothers6743
      @ejmabrothers6743 4 місяці тому

      Is he on instagram?

    • @BenjaminCanales-nn9gi
      @BenjaminCanales-nn9gi 4 місяці тому

      Yes he is dr.porassss

  • @celegreentea6028
    @celegreentea6028 4 місяці тому +18

    “How liberating that is. To do something you love when you were once shamed” 🙏🏽thank you

  • @shainaschaeffer
    @shainaschaeffer 4 місяці тому +10

    falling in love with yourself is one of the best feelings, and continuing to fall in love with yourself as you grow, i can totally relate...the feeling is unmatched, true bliss.....glad to see you back and feeling good girl 💖

  • @thaithaiox
    @thaithaiox 3 місяці тому +7

    Someone once told me “Happy people create” and that has always stuck with me. When I am not in a creative state where I’m making something new or working on a project I literally feel like a shell of myself! Thank you for sharing this!

  • @brittanycatlett825
    @brittanycatlett825 4 місяці тому +36

    Healing is truly a journey. Some moments you’re happy and feel like yourself, and other times something triggers you and you’re two steps back.
    I was severely depressed a year and a half ago, and I vowed that when I got better (not if), I would never take happiness and joy for granted again. I wish you nothing but the best on your journey!

  • @KatePomeroy-l6q
    @KatePomeroy-l6q Місяць тому +1

    "This is where you are, but it doesn't mean thats where youre gonna stay" wisest words ever spoken

  • @andreadruckrey3432
    @andreadruckrey3432 4 місяці тому +21

    Dang girl I just turned 40 and I've never heard anyone speak the truth like you did. You are a truly fantastic human being ❤ thank you!

  • @mash55331
    @mash55331 4 місяці тому +21

    Depression can be super hard to grow through! Happy you’re back and taking care of yourself ❤

  • @rachelcaproplacide1247
    @rachelcaproplacide1247 4 місяці тому +157

    Toxic relationship ain't no joke. For me its been like 5 years since I left it and I always feel lost. I'm still angry and sad about what happened, the opportunities that i lost because of it. I feel behind in life. But listening to your Words today make me feel better an it gave me some kind of strength.❤ take care

    • @ShayraBaby
      @ShayraBaby 4 місяці тому +3

      Can’t tell you how much I felt this. Her timing was too perfect 🥲

  • @gugulethuhlabangana4732
    @gugulethuhlabangana4732 4 місяці тому +4

    Self compassion. That's what's been helping me nowadays. I love you Lisette❤

  • @hhhanah
    @hhhanah 4 місяці тому +28

    I truly needed this video. Since my senior year high school I fell into a depression hole that I never can seem to get out of lol. It's been three years now and I still find myself still in that hole. I know I'm not alone but I feel alone, twenty four seven. Along with empty and truly trying to understand my purpose in life. I'm glad to see a youtuber I grew up watching from middle school till now (a sophomore in college), overcome their depression. It gives me hope that maybe I will do the same too. The life lessons you mentioned were really eye hoping and I hope you continue to progress and do well! Much love.

    • @Luhhsetty
      @Luhhsetty  4 місяці тому +4

      Thank you so much for this comment ❤️❤️ You are capable and you are strong! Have you tried mirror work? That really helped me🙏🏽

    • @hhhanah
      @hhhanah 4 місяці тому

      @@Luhhsetty thank u! and no I haven’t, may I ask what mirror work is?

    • @AlannaBoo524
      @AlannaBoo524 4 місяці тому +1

      @@hhhanahsounds like shadow work which is not of God. The Lord will bring you so much joy and happiness ❤

    • @Rieka.Chanel
      @Rieka.Chanel 4 місяці тому +1

      @@AlannaBoo524 Y’all need to stop spreading misinformation about what shadow work truly is. It’s simply the process of exploring the hidden parts of ourselves that we suppress to help us grow/heal. People are doing it different ways, but the purpose isn’t rooted in evil at all.

  • @sheilateje19
    @sheilateje19 2 місяці тому +3

    Lisette, thank you so much for this video. I was struggling with this past summer. I got out of character & did so many things that I’m now embarrassed about. I changed my mindset I’m finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.
    I’m glad you’re doing better!
    1) I’m a Capricorn
    2) my favorite color is purple
    3) a fun fact about me is that I LOVE going to the beach. It’s my safe space where I can clear my head 🥰

    • @gigibeal
      @gigibeal 2 місяці тому +1

      my favorite color is purple too!! lol, the color of royalty 😌 i hope your path to healing is smooth! all the luck boo

  • @Positive_vibescx
    @Positive_vibescx 4 місяці тому +30

    when you said you kept running into the same type of person that's something ive experienced so much to the point where i just took a step back from dating making friends all of that in general it definitely gets lonely but its okay to reflect on yourself and then the right person will come in Gods timing .

    • @kelli2643
      @kelli2643 4 місяці тому +1

      Right

    • @KayciazWorld
      @KayciazWorld 3 місяці тому +1

      This! I'm praying God sends the right people into my life. Because it seems most people don't have good intentions and honestly, peace over everything else

  • @eyeszvii
    @eyeszvii 4 місяці тому +3

    10:20 you can reinvent yourself, learn new hobby, new skills, try new things always!! this is your life💮

  • @superhumanlanga8235
    @superhumanlanga8235 4 місяці тому +22

    Girl we’re all going through it there’s nothing to be ashamed of. Feeling lonely when you are far from family and living alone can be hard and that’s okay. Those hard and dark days make the happy days feel soo much better ❤️ I love that you are learning to love yourself ❤️❤️

  • @nay2670
    @nay2670 4 місяці тому +5

    Not me balling my eyes out watching this😭 I felt every word. LITERALLY. Thank you for this I needed this confirmation 💖

  • @tarelle5463
    @tarelle5463 4 місяці тому +8

    “ She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the further” Proverbs 31:25

  • @kamara9804
    @kamara9804 4 місяці тому +17

    Thank you for sharing! Praying for you and your wellbeing. May God comfort you and you see Him show up for you in ways that you can't miss. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing the seasons of life you've been in. It's wonderful to see you🤍

    • @Luhhsetty
      @Luhhsetty  4 місяці тому +3

      Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @user-ws2dr2xk4n
    @user-ws2dr2xk4n 4 місяці тому +25

    To Lisette and all the lovely ladies who find this💗
    I was in a 3 year relationship which came to an end when I found out he had a whole other relationship behind my back. As someone whose intentions were pure and whose love was real I thought I couldn’t leave or even have a life without him, but I found the strength and courage to walk away. The past few months have been hurtful having to see him do all the things for her that I had to beg for. However, I’m here to say that as much as it hurts and the future and present may seem like a dark place please remember that you are so beautiful and that there’s so much beauty in you that people try everything in their power to steal that away from you. Remember that the only reason why he was special or anyone was special was because of you. You, your beauty and all your qualities made them special just by them being in your space decorated them and made them special and at the end it may seem as though we have lost but what did we lose beside toxicity? They lost someone who they’ll spend their whole lives looking for in others. We have an advantage because we will find someone who loves the way we do and it’s never our loss. Lisette, you are beautiful inside and out and when days seem to be dark and a horrible pit just remember that you are so special that you inspire millions of us all the time, so special that you have millions of us waiting for you and showing up for you no matter what. There’s beauty all around you and I hope you always see and experience that. We all love you!💗 I hope this inspires anyone else who comes across that and I wish you all the happiness in this lifetime✨

  • @gwen6217
    @gwen6217 4 місяці тому +5

    I appreciate the lack of music in this video. It helped me to truly focus on what you’re saying. I’m so used to hearing background music on UA-cam that I didn’t realize how refreshing this is. I’m glad you’re finding joy again. You, my dear, have a purpose in this life and God has you here for a reason. Please remember that on the days you can’t love yourself, someone loves you and is expecting you to show up that day. You don’t realize how much joy we give to others in days we’re so buried in the funk of what we’re going through. All the best to you on your journey and I’m so glad you’re still here. God bless.

  • @TallGyalLEX
    @TallGyalLEX 4 місяці тому +4

    The deliverance, the message everything about this video was on point and needed. Thank you for sharing your truth 🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @hennessey6534
    @hennessey6534 4 місяці тому +5

    I’m super grateful that you made this video because HEALING IS NOT LINEAR!!!!! You have to be your own best friend, the own love of your life, and literally make the best of what you got

  • @z.y.4555
    @z.y.4555 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you so much for your honesty 💜 everything and I mean EVERYTHING you said in this video is what I have felt and came out of this year. This felt like reconnecting to my inner truth. I cannot thank you enough

  • @justjenny023
    @justjenny023 4 місяці тому +3

    I've been watching you for four years. Ever since quarantine, I couldn't stop watching your videos. But hearing that you've gone through depression has made me feel a bit better knowing that I'm not alone. I still struggle with depression due to my mental diagnosis, but I am still fighting because I know I deserve a place here too. I. deserve to be happy. And your content has helped me get back on the path to happiness. so thank you, Lisette. I love you, even if we don't know each other well.

  • @agnesmannerstrale3206
    @agnesmannerstrale3206 4 місяці тому +4

    Thank you! This is all needed right now. I just got fired from my job, heartbroken from my first love,(I’m 19yrs) and am getting un, understood by my family. I don’t express my feelings at all. But this made me feel like I should express myself and understand who I am and what I’m worth. Thank you

  • @quessiakalisa1
    @quessiakalisa1 4 місяці тому +10

    Lisette, you have no idea how much what you have shared today impacted me. I often watched your videos and compared myself to you. I thought you were so perfect and put together and I would never be as beautiful or successful as you. Today you have shown me that mental health is something that can affect anyone. As someone with mental illnesses I applaud you for being raw showing your viewers that although your life and your mental health are not perfect, you can overcome any obstacle that life throws at you. Thank you so much for this video 🥹

  • @sabahatnaheed1435
    @sabahatnaheed1435 4 місяці тому +1

    why havent i come across your channel before? you speak with such wisdom and maturity.

  • @biancadaniel6949
    @biancadaniel6949 4 місяці тому +23

    I have missed you, but i understand your mental health is important. So glad youre back

  • @Disciple178
    @Disciple178 4 місяці тому +6

    Hey girl, I’ve been here where you were. And what pulled me out the dirt was finding joy but through Jesus. And The joy of the lord never ends even when circumstances happen I can always stand on the lords peace, his joy, and his love. It’s the best truth that I have ever encountered. And it’s real, it’s so real.
    God bless you and I’m praying your doing better!

  • @louisamoolman8776
    @louisamoolman8776 4 місяці тому +2

    Super proud of how far you've come ❤ sending love and healing to you. You're the reason I got started way back on my self care journey that I owe it all to you❤. Take the time you need. Will always be a follower of *Luhhsetty*, ✨🇿🇦

  • @briinicole2623
    @briinicole2623 4 місяці тому +3

    I literally teared up watching this.. I somehow needed to hear this for myself.. I’m a new mother and depression hasn’t been fun. I’ve been beating myself down a lot lately and worrying constantly over things I can’t control. Thank you for this video. Btw I’m an Aries, my favorite color is sage green and I’m an artist, I love to draw and paint. 💚✨

  • @ikhokweleta3202
    @ikhokweleta3202 4 місяці тому +1

    You save me from myself. When I first started watching your videos, you saved me. This video is reminding me, hey your normal, your battles and life happens. ❤

  • @Dpisces98
    @Dpisces98 4 місяці тому +3

    Everyone is going through a hard time. I’m so happy you decided to make a video like this to help us all! I hope things get better for you ❤.
    I’m a Pisces, my favorite color is pastel blue and one fun fact about me is I love the outdoors.

  • @Ally-qu7cw
    @Ally-qu7cw Місяць тому

    We all go through rough times my dear, you are not alone. Keep strong, keep postive and never give up on yourself. You got this!❤

  • @LaRochePosay04
    @LaRochePosay04 4 місяці тому +8

    I'm sorry you went through a toxic relationship Lisette. I wish you a lot of healing.

  • @Sweetasscaramel
    @Sweetasscaramel 4 місяці тому +1

    I been watching you since I was 11 years old Lisette, I’m about to be 22 now. I’ve been going through a year similar experience going into adulthood, and hearing these words from YOUR mouth has helped more than you can know. I’m so proud of how much you’ve grown and thank you for showing this vulnerability. Love you ❤️

  • @DestinieWilliams.
    @DestinieWilliams. 4 місяці тому +7

    Let them people gon say what they want to say( even though it hurts really bad) God is gonna love and protect you always.
    I remember when I was in school and I wore my my natural hair in its curly state for the very first time, and BABY they was talking, laughing, and taking pictures of me. I was so confused because I liked my hair but listening to the made my heart Break and I cried when I got home. But God brought me through it.!!!!

  • @CynthiaTorres-o6s
    @CynthiaTorres-o6s 3 місяці тому +1

    I can see the growth in you. I’m happy you have found yourself and joy in life. I know how difficult it is to get out of a dark depression. You keep going we are here whenever you are ready.

  • @taylaalfred347
    @taylaalfred347 4 місяці тому +24

    im literally crying, I have been watching you since I was like 13 and now im 20 years old. And this absolutely touched my heart, I had no idea you were in so much pain, which goes to show how limited our view of other people is on social media. You have given me in this moment a reason to get up and try again. Your healing journey shows as you are glowing mama! Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @shivanibabuta
    @shivanibabuta 4 місяці тому +1

    Lisette, this was such a powerful video, THANK YOU for making this! I'm so proud of you and happy for you for your healing journey and learning to love yourself truly and authentically 💖. I've been on a very similar journey. One thing that really helped me was being reminded of the quote "words of others don't define you", being reminded that I define myself and my self-worth. Another thing was really giving myself permission/allowing myself self-grace, to learn to be kinder, more compassionate and loving towards myself throughout this whole healing path is one thing I will always always be grateful for. It's true what you said and what others say, it's through the ups and downs, the non-linear healing, the darkest of times, that we are forced to heal and become our most authentic selves. I'm so happy for you and to see you find your glow again, I hope things continue to heal and improve for you. Lots of love

  • @anissafrancois
    @anissafrancois 4 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for sharing & being vulnerable with us im so happy for you & that you came up with the strength to conquer those dark times & feelings you went through you help people more then you may know we missed you so much so glad you’re back!🤍

  • @Unmutedemotions
    @Unmutedemotions 4 місяці тому +2

    Super true . I used to be so angry when i heard people say happiness is a choice but when you are so deeply depressed you literally make the choice to either punish yourself or be positive and happy . To smile when your breaking it will get better when you choose to be happy !! I was a negative thinker , worrier and i was sooooo unhappy now im so much happier now that i think positive. Learning that you control nothing by worrrying or be sad .

  • @sydneymcd0
    @sydneymcd0 4 місяці тому +3

    so glad to see you! proud of you for prioritizing your health. we have missed you 🩷

  • @jazzItalready
    @jazzItalready 2 місяці тому

    For someone who is struggling with depression and anxiety this is my first time watching your videos and thank you so very much for your words of inspiration, needed to hear it! God bless!

  • @TashabyNature
    @TashabyNature 4 місяці тому +5

    I understand 🥲
    Waking up just wanting the day to be over because there’s no life in it. Keep your head up beautiful, this was an important message I even needed to hear. ❤

  • @miamartinez6481
    @miamartinez6481 3 місяці тому

    I cannot express how much I needed this, I'm 3 weeks into my breakup, it's been so hard, and you explained the way I've been feeling perfectly, but it's definitely not linear, every time I think I'm okay, I catch myself crying almost everyday just overtaken by all the feelings. And idk if I'm processing still, I'd like to think I am, and that I just need to take it one day at a time and remind myself of all the things I should be grateful for and have to look forward to...but I just want to say I've watched a few videos here and there, and no one has touched this topic and resonated with me like the way you have, it truly has made my night, and made me not feel so alone and give me a flicker of hope that this too shall pass if I hang in there :) thank you for sharing

  • @naissketching395
    @naissketching395 4 місяці тому +3

    girl our life too is hard too, we can relate. take your time.

  • @ludt2446
    @ludt2446 4 місяці тому +1

    We missed you! The way you spoke resonate with me more than I expected and thank you for having the courage to talk and open up like that. It takes strenght to pull oneself out of a dark place. Take all the time you need for yourself

  • @ZillennialLatina
    @ZillennialLatina 4 місяці тому +6

    Aries; Black; I recently resigned from my high paying job. I put so much effort into proving myself to others, always going above and beyond, leaving my sense of self worth in other people's hands. I would come home feeling so unfulfilled and sad, dreading having to do everything all over again. I'm grateful for the opportunities but its time I let go of whats no longer working for me and build myself up for what I deserve.

  • @pumpkinspicefrapp3
    @pumpkinspicefrapp3 2 місяці тому

    You know what girl, I’ve been subbed to you since I was just blossoming into a teenager and I’m almost 20 now, if it wasn’t for you I wouldn’t be the woman I am today and for that I’m so thankful for you, I’m so utterly proud of you for getting through this and finding the Joy and happiness you deserve ❤

  • @brianna5916
    @brianna5916 4 місяці тому +5

    I am so glad and proud of you that you took the time off to focus on yourself. And you in no way shape or form should feel bad or ashamed about it. Nor should anyone. Healing does not have a deadline or a timeframe, and everyone heals differently. Keep doing what makes you happy!
    Pisces, Black, Portland OR, speaks 4 languages ❤

  • @karinsalomonn
    @karinsalomonn 4 місяці тому +1

    Lisette you were a huge part of me growing when I was a teen, I literally love you so much. I want you to be happy.

  • @laearth0330
    @laearth0330 4 місяці тому +9

    We all going through mental health issues, you have to take it day by day one step at a time. It always starts with self love

  • @123teddyandme
    @123teddyandme 4 місяці тому +2

    wow,, ive been following Lisette for YEARS (we are the same age so essentially its like we grew up together) and I remember years ago I just stopped watching her videos bc I felt like they didnt have any real value to me or much personality. It felt like I couldn't connect with her bc she seemed shallow so I only watched occasionally when I wanted to turn something on, dissociate and watch pretty makeup. but THIS.... as grow woman now, THIS is SO real. Ive gone through a very similar and painful experience as she and this pretty much sums up where I am. it hurts to think about the pain you've endured but oh how good does it feel to return to self. thank you Lisette!!! sending love

  • @iixmaddiexxx
    @iixmaddiexxx 4 місяці тому +5

    Iv been watching you for years.. You’re like the big sister I’ve always needed. I’m so glad you chose joy, you chose a different path. it’s okay to have bad days, just picking yourself back up and thinking about the good is important. I love you fr I’m glad you’re back, take your time don’t stress it. We are here to support you always 💕💕 so glad your doing better

  • @mairaux
    @mairaux 4 місяці тому +1

    This made me emotional thank you Lisette you prob hear often you are beautiful but you are MORE than a pretty face. You are sooooooo beautiful from within. Thank you so much for your wisdom❤️❤️❤️

  • @ninachristine2509
    @ninachristine2509 4 місяці тому +4

    So glad to see you back!! 🎉

  • @nazrawit_
    @nazrawit_ Місяць тому

    Too pretty, too successful,too modest and too kind for ppl to hurt you! Wish u all the happiness and true love in your life!

  • @FifiCherie112
    @FifiCherie112 4 місяці тому +3

    This inspired me so much Lisette. Thank you ❤

  • @Cassadilla_xo
    @Cassadilla_xo 4 місяці тому +2

    I have taken so much knowledge from you over the years. You were the person I went to, to learn how to take care of my curly hair bc i had no one around me to teach me ,and you were the ine that taught me how to love my curly hair. 10 years later I never straighten my hair have never felt more confident with my hair. I have been going though some things and having to have some deep thinking about my life, and where I want it to go and who I want it to be with. Your video coming out kn my 30th birthday and hearing you have been going though some same stuff really makes me think I have more to learn from you and that this was a sigh to change things. Thank you for coming back ans sharing your truths

  • @nicole4802
    @nicole4802 4 місяці тому +4

    Thank you for being vulnerable. Takes a lot of strength to reveal personal aspects of your life good and bad. Wish you nothing but the best ❤

  • @Shiveys448
    @Shiveys448 4 місяці тому +1

    omg this has me in tears right now i am going thru the exact same thing right now toxic relationship and being a people pleaser dimming my light to make others make feel better. I felt so alone ...... thank you sooo much it feels good to know I'm not alone this has touched my soul in ways I cannot explain . when you said give myself permission to accept and learn myself .

  • @amydiedericks6072
    @amydiedericks6072 4 місяці тому +4

    I needed to hear this. Thanks Luhhsetty.

  • @ms.bentley
    @ms.bentley 4 місяці тому +1

    i literally cried ! i love how uu put everything you were feeling in words!! and being raw and real with us !! especially because us being subscriber/ supporter most of us care about you to !! and go thur the same stuff soo also we can feel what uu had been feeling!! i appreciate you !! and you definitely inspired me !! 💖💖
    im a gemini ♊️
    my favorite color is gold !
    and a fun fact about me is i do my own hair!! 💁🏽‍♀️

  • @cait.lynkirksey
    @cait.lynkirksey 4 місяці тому +5

    We missed you! Never feel ashamed for taking time for your well-being. You’ve impacted so many people with your videos myself included. You’re so strong, sending much love! 💛💛

  • @Romany1001
    @Romany1001 4 місяці тому +4

    “Accept where you are. This is where you are, doesn’t mean that’s where you’re gonna stay, but you have to value where you are at now” THIS. Honestly, I’ve been suffering with anxiety this month being in my third trimester of pregnancy, but I have learned that we need to appreciate everything we have in the here and now. We don’t know our future but we can make choices that will impact our futures. I am determined to become the best mother I can be for my child 🤍

  • @Patty-LoveMe
    @Patty-LoveMe 4 місяці тому +6

    Girlllllll I was 4 minutes into the video then I started crying. I had to cut it off. I will pray for you and hope that you stay ok ❤❤❤❤❤🦋💋

  • @Alexishadley19
    @Alexishadley19 13 днів тому

    This video really hit a spot in my soul. This was very eye opening. I’m glad you’re back ❤

  • @skyylovespace
    @skyylovespace 4 місяці тому +54

    *love and light to everyone reading this* ✨

  • @alexsandrialopes
    @alexsandrialopes 4 місяці тому +3

    I’m so happy you’re back! I have been watching you since high school, and honestly this video was like a big hug. 🫂❤️ much love. Xx

  • @nybsbfan18
    @nybsbfan18 Місяць тому

    Lisette, u r so inspiring. I also suffer from depression, OCD and anxiety. I'm so glad you're back!!!

  • @sukanyawright9961
    @sukanyawright9961 4 місяці тому +2

    I stayed up for this video because I missed you, but I knew you'd return once you were mentally prepared. Speaking about this requires courage and fortitude, and it demonstrates how God's strength and blessings shine through in your life. Listening to you makes me think about myself. I just want to thank you for sharing. Welcome back, Lisette!🫶🏾

  • @NewOrleansGirl
    @NewOrleansGirl 4 місяці тому +1

    I’ve been watching your channel since I was 17. I’m 27 now. Thank you so much for posting this because it’s comforting, yet still saddening, to know that I’m not alone. Women all go through a situation that changes them so much that they seek deep inner work. Your video spoke so much truth, and I pray that it helps all those that come across it.