The Self-Entitled Teen Who MURDERED his family... | The Case of Alan Hruby
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- True Crime: Alan Hruby had it all... had it all... A loving family, an excellent education, and millions in the bank... Sadly this was not enough, and after the family bank account began to crumble, his self-entitlement would show in the most barbaric of ways...
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00:00 Intro
01:34 Oklahoma
03:10 The Hruby family
05:38 Alan's downfall
11:30 October 9th, 2014
13:15 Aftermath & Investigation (911 Call)
16:13 Arrest & Interview
21:18 Legal Proceedings
24:43 Remembering John, Tinker and Katherine
26:49 Outro
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I'm glad everyone is agreeing that 911 dispatcher was awful. The poor woman was communicating perfectly and the dispatcher was so rude!
Seriously the caller was obviously distressed but still perfectly coherent and soft spoken. That 911 operator was terrible.
It's pretty easy to judge.
It's a lot harder to have _real_ empathy and question why one might react in such a way.
I stopped the video at 14:12 to see if anyone else was thinking the same thing I was. I’m glad we’re all in agreement that that dispatcher sucked
@@ajjj2972 It's actually pretty pathetic that you would all be so demeaning to another human
I was going to say it if someone else didn't. The poor lady was crying, but she was not hysterical I thought she was pretty composed considering she walked in a triple homicide. She answered all the questions and did it more than once.
I know that it’s a dispatcher’s job to keep callers calm, but that dispatcher did a terrible job. The housekeeper was being very articulate and clear and the dispatcher kept acting frustrated. Sure keep them calm, but don’t condescendingly tell them to calm down when they just found a group of murder victims and are upset about it.
Ohh my God,.I was literally gonna commit that. That shit is way too common. They always seem annoyed when someone is calling for help and it's like, of course the person is distressed.
I thought the same, geez lady, back off a notch.
I really wonder why so many dispatchers are so terrible and act so condescending and douchey?! It’s really strange and it happens in SO many true crime shows and documentaries it’s wild. I just don’t understand how you could treat people like that in such intense and most times completely traumatizing and sometimes LAST MOMENTS for the callers 😢 it’s awful
Exactly what I’ve commented.
The caller has just found 3 actual D E A D bodies & the “couldn’t care less” call taker tells her to calm down & all probably while she’s chewing gum ! 🤦♀️🙄.
In my state working as an emergency dispatcher is a 50k per year salary.
It's hellish, traumatic work that doesn't pay nearly well enough for what it is.
Feel free to take her job if you think you're up to it. To most of these people anything that puts food on their own table is their biggest concern.
Rather than getting angry at the person: get angry at the system that made them the way they are.
That 911 operator is so unbelievably rude. That housekeeper WAS calm, and made perfect sense. As morbid as this sounds, that caller would be a DREAM caller for ever single 911 operator.
The housekeeper sounded so polite, concerned, and kind. I hope wherever she is, she's doing alright.
911 dispatcher really needs to get her hearing sorted. That poor housekeeper having to keep repeating herself and being told to calm down when she was clear as crystal in her explanation was just awful for her.
911 dispatchers are usually in a room together that is noisy. That's why most of them can't hear the callers clearly. So, while we can hear what was said clearly- they cannot.
@@jessm1895The agitation in her voice was uncalled for regardless
The dispatcher doesn’t have subtitles
One consistent element of American true crime uploads (& shows), is the snippet of a b****y, female 911 operator, talking to a shocked witness, really poorly.
@@xladyfayre that sounds like a really stupid system, either way that's not the fault of the traumatised woman calling who's giving the information as calmly as possible.
Several officers experienced PTSD after dealing with the crime scene. Meanwhile, the 911 operator tells the civilian who discovered it to be calm as she tries to convey what she is seeing.
25:20 I’ll be experiencing PTSD from this terrible Photoshop job. Seriously, what is up with that?! Why is this channel showing Photoshopped imagery??!
@@anti-ethniccleansing465 Just went back and looked and yeah, that's weird. Either a crappy PS or the world's finest AI, but if this is a stitched-up family portait from individual images it needs explanation. Why do that, and who did that?
@@anti-ethniccleansing465left dog looks like a stuffed animal
you are as beautiful as a friend of mine was only different. here's her story, her name was Vicky she was a center fold to look at while her hubby was a short chubby man but they had a love that couldn't be ripped away, now these two had a scam going in the bars around the towns, they would go in she would sit at a table looking all seductive, men would see her and think i would like some of that and send a drink to her table the whole time her hubby would be sitting at the bar after about 45 min she would have maybe a case of bud and Millier on her table so he would get up walk over to her give her a big wet one sit down and start drinking, she wasn't a drinker, reactions were hilarious! now the bad part Vicky was 8 months with what would've been a boy, her hubby and i were at work that day when she was followed home from a bowling ally we dont know if she opened the door or when he knocked called out come in, but that animal attacked her he cut her throat and he took meat clever and he chopped off her legs, why because he had a leg fetish was his excuse and got turned on when she walked in front of him security cams caught the men trespassing as he had her legs in hand to throw into the river case solved however 50 years usually turns out to be at the most 15, and her hubby has since passed away from endless sorrow because he lost his whole world that day,
Not defending the 911 operators demeanor but lots of occupations like that have incredible burn out rates that just make people stuck in that profession just not care, I worked in a call center last year and I was just loosing my mind with the rapid fire nonsense and just the worst possible situations ever. I recall dealing with a woman who couldn’t access her money due to some legal order and she was a single mother of 5 children under 7 while taking medication for her heart problems, she didn’t have the cash to get her medication because of this and just kept rounding back to “what am I going to do?” No answer I gave her was enough but the answer was the same, call the legal entity that enacted the legal order and sort out a payment plan so that they will release her funds and not do this garnishment they did. The curt behavior and requesting description of a scene is to get as much information without leaving room for over complication. Still the operator can definitely have been a lot more helpful in this regard
the way alan hruby's aunt refused to say his name, only referring to him as "the killer"---that shook me
Why? I completely understand. When my own father walked out it was the moment I stopped calling him dad, father or any other form but merely used his first name, he wasn't amused so I pointed out neither was I with his behaviour. He shut up.
@@Ainaes-Feline I don't think you understand what they're saying. Shook doesn't mean they were shocked, it means they felt like it was a poignant moment
@@denisehagwood4542 Then they should use a different proper word then instead of dumb ass slang.
@@neoasurawhat they said was perfectly fine…
@@neoasurayou’re just a dumbass
An 18 year old with Botox, veneers & a receding hairline creates a very uncanny valley sort of effect. I wouldn’t guess that he was 18. But I have no idea how old he looks. It’s bizarre
I thought he was older until I heard his voice
Voice of a 9yo, Face of a 39yo
Yet he didn't get a nose job! His teeth look like they glow in the dark
What I find puzzling enough is that people call him a teenager even though the fact that the titular age of 18 is when a person morally becomes a legal adult by voting and should've grown out of their youthful hormones, not to mention the fact that this particular individual was gifted enough to get straight into University of Oklahoma at such a tender age.
This sometimes makes me question at what point in time you are officially considered a predominant adult in terms of trading laws. 🤔
@@user-wk9dh7yv9v 18 is spelled eighTEEN, he's still a teen and brains don't develop until mid 20's. 18 is just when we decide it's time for you to partake in certain adult things and trust you won't fuck up.
As soon as I heard that 911 dispatcher I came straight to the comments.I’m glad I’m not the only one that thought she was pretty rude and sounded like she didn’t wanna be bothered.For a lady that just found 3 bodies I think she was pretty calm and articulate.They really need to do better.
Same
Agree
Same, made me mad and wanted to make sure i wasnt triping
She was calm even after the dispatcher kept telling her to be calm! Gotta give her credit, I would’ve been screaming at the dispatcher, or hang up to get another dispatcher without hearing problems!
The Housekeeper was very calm. Dispatch has become a complete joke talking to people with total disrespect and zero compassion
I hope the dispatcher receives better training. The housekeeper on the phone was speaking as calmly as anyone could (especially in that tragic situation), she spoke slowly and very clearly. I felt bad that she had to keep repeating herself.
She was sooo annoying, rude n dismissive af dafuq
@@ivanasukjadic1423wtf. 🤡
Most dispatchers are terrible at their job.
@@ivanasukjadic1423187 people would disagree with you on that one idiot
@@ivanasukjadic1423Rubbish. Then she would have said ‘I cannot hear you well, please repeat that’ and NOT’keep calm’. The 911 dispatcher was either poorly trained or too thick to deal with anything outside of her script! Either way, very badly done.
That housekeeper is such an amazing, strong woman. She was so polite and maintained the conversation. That dispatcher is rude as hell. I can't imagine being so clear after finding someone was murdered, let alone 3 people.
dispatcher has to relay information to the police and first responders. With 3 dead people, they need as much information as they can get, as fast as they can get it. In life threatening situations, literally every single second is valuable. Its in everyone's best interest that they figure out whats going on ASAP. And there are new emergencies coming in all the time. Each one potentially just as serious as the last. You cant put them on hold or call them back later. You have to be blunt to get it done.
Being blunt doesn’t make them suddenly stupid and hard of hearing…she needs to find a new career
The 911 dispatcher needs to be FIRED!!! She did a horrible job and should never be able to be in that line of work again!!! Does anyone else feel the same way???
Yes
The 911 operator was terrible. Where do they find these people?
@@Atmatan_Kabbaherno thanks, I'll blame that dispatcher and her CHOICE to treat someone in distress like that. (: we all have a choice in how to conduct ourselves, wage disparity or not. this isn't a McDonald's.
You can still criticise the dispatcher. Just because a job is tough, doesn't mean they're free from any type of criticism. A lot of jobs in the medical field are traumatic, underpaid, and physically and mentally demanding: you can still be professional regardless. And surely they are trained when it comes to trying to calm someone down, instead of making the person feel worse than they are, like they're inconveniencing their day. The pity party of "oh my job is so hard and underpaid" doesn't mean anything when it comes to that.
@@Atmatan_Kabbaher
Amazing how many of us reacted in the same way regarding that dispatcher!
lmfao this is why people mock the true crime community "fuck the dispatchers circumstances" in replies to a comment criticizing the dispatcher for a lack of empathy. can't make this up 🤡🤡🤡@@fuzzyferretlady
@@fuzzyferretladyboth both is good
It’s refreshing to see family members NOT trying to defend their crazy murderous nephew/grandchild/cousin etc. They all seem(ed) like very lovely down to earth people. May they rest in peace.
He murdered the very people that could've defended him, family usually defend their murderous family member when they murdered someone outside the family, because they can't even comprehend someone they know could do something horrible, and to protect their own egoes and reputation.
@@arielvillarruel6281 I know, that’s why I said “nephew/grandchild” bc I’m referring to his aunts, uncles and grandparents, who did not defend him. They usually do.
Self-sacrifice is usually learned by default outside the first world. Parents should avoid overindulgence unless they want to raise a child similarly to every incestuous royal heir throughout history.
i had an uncle the same way oh after his dad died he got his 93 year old mother to sign a will he had drawn up giving him everything, now his sisters were con artists to and they were millenaries off the backs of others! yet having about 20 mil in the back wasn't good enough for him he wanted his mother homeless, he tried selling her house out from under her feet! and he wanted her to die alone and that didnt work because i did the things he should've been doing instead of scheming, until the day she died and until the day he died, i know an old man who was greedy he knew the situation the woman he married had been married serval times before, her daughter were finding her men that had money and they were using her like a piggy bank but her last hubby Bob had her sign an agreement she was in her 70s I dont remember how old he was that he handles the finances and the income, so her 4 children hit a dead end, i was her pastor, one evening she was watching tv she said he walked in and handed her a large wad of cash and said you will need this for my funeral expenses I'm going to go now, she said he walked into the bedroom took off his clothes and got into bed and died, she called me instead of 911 wanting me there so i had to call her children didnt like me they didnt even tell me she had passed away, i didnt realize what was going on until i saw people raiding her home they stripped everything right down to the wheelchair ramp the put the house up for sail,
They were a wonderful family.
Let this be a lesson to all parents. No matter how much you love your kids, if you TRULY love them, teach them from an early age the necessary life skills of responsibility, accountability, and working hard for things earned rather than being handed everything to you on a silver platter with no consequence. Don't enable your kids' worst traits lest they grow up to be entitled narcissists.
Rest in peace, Katherine. Your too-short life is the biggest tragedy in this whole mess.
Mind your huisness the world isn't full of psychos for a reason
@@LilLingLing6789your comment makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. This kid’s narcissism is a direct consequence of his being handed everything without being taught boundaries and respect. The true victim is his sister who didn’t play a role in his being spoiled beyond reason.
Agree with every word.
Actually the parents handed him to the police several times as well as cut him off financially. They didn’t let him get away with his rubbish.
@cherrytraveller5915 It was too late to set boundaries - that should have been done when he was a child, not a young man. The parents irresponsibly raised that boy and got their daughter killed in the process.
How much more calm could that poor housekeeper be with the operator? Omg
Literally 😭
The fact that they tried to cut back on their own expenses before cutting off their son's and that they immediately called the police on him when they found out what he did really says a lot about them.
Cases like these are so heart breaking and I truly hope he rots in prison
Couldn't agree more.
By the same token, they made the rod for their own back by raising him as an entitled spoilt child.
Learning and appreciating the value and privileges money brings is paramount to a child, regardless of the income.
@_bluephoenix_ whatever... I had an amazing family and spent the first half of my life being a hell raiser. My family always chastised me and held me responsible for my screw ups. You probably play both sides of the issue. Encourage young people to do whatever they want then blame the parents when their kids self destruct...
@@Harry_Stylus quite the opposite- I encourage anyone to respect their elders and show self respect by using self control. Whether parents are a positive or negative influence , these qualities can be achieved personally.
You seem to have learned your lessons the hard way, and it's great you have the insight to recognise that. Had your parents not been responsible you may well have ended up like this dude. So, what's your point again?
@@_bluephoenix_ so you're blaming the victims. Despite them holding him responsible for his actions... cool 🤡
The dispatcher said "calm down" more times than that poor housekeeper had to repeat the address. First off: the housekeeper was pretty calm and polite, even replying "yes, ma'am" and she had just walked into a house with 3 ice-cold dead bodies.
Yeah, my son is a dispatcher and I tell him all the time...WTF is it with dispatchers demanding to calm down? He said they need all the info asap so they can give FR a picture of what is going on. You want to send the right responder. What I find crazy is when they keep asking the victim questions after they were told suspect is still in house....They are like, "Hello, hello...are you still there?"😂
She needs a new job. She clearly can’t handle it
I’m an Oklahoman originally. That dispatcher is indicative of the poor education system and idiocy of dumb people who think they have power
Regardless of what exactly the housekeeper was describing, the police were needed immediately. Three ice-cold bodies on the floor? Yeah, get the police.
FR…most of the dispatchers we hear on these videos need a good slap with how stupid/rude/mean/incompetent/judgmental/etc they are.
The way he smiles in pictures is a clue to the sound of his voice.
Dear Heavens, that dispatcher is wasting so much time asking the same two questions over and over.
"so they aren't breathing?'
no, ma'am
"did you check to see if they are breathing?"
yes
"so are they breathing?"
no
"MA'AM YOU NEED TO CALM DOWN!!!!!"
A literal monster. I feel so bad for the housekeeper that had to find their bodies. The trauma of that.
I agree. Hope she's doing ok. 😢
Not to mention having to deal with an utter dipsh*t of a 911 operator.
And they must have been rotten after 4 days.
The fact that you mention the psychological impact that seeing the crime scene (and the actual crime itself) has had on the housekeeper, the people in the town and the police is important. Nobody seems to think about the effects of all the violence we see around us every day and how it's really giving people PTSD. Thank you for handling it with such diligence.
Our brains literally do not distinguish between fact and fiction: it distinguishes _experiences_ and all experience is equally valid to the human mind.
It's only on retrospection that we attempt to come to Concensus.
The reason no one talks about this is because if you open up this can of worms, we need to start talking about the fact that violent media _really does_ affect humans negatively, and too many gamers are afraid to have that discussion.
We had discussions about humans being desensitized to violence decades ago, and we've seen firsthand the result of what happens: more violence becomes the norm.
Yeah well. Nowadays people shout ptsd for about the most ridiculess thing .
Finding three people butchered ARE traumatic off course.
But then we meet the person who scream ptsd because the neighbour scared him when he cut the grass,kind of...
Yes. Underrated comment. I've seen so much shit in my life that I can't unsee it. And I'm not even an ambulance worker. There's not much you can really do about it though. Apart from keeping God In your heart.✳️
@@Atmatan_KabbaherThere’s been a ton of research done on this subject that has already concluded your line of thinking is wrong. Humans regularly stabbed, shot, tortured and raped other people far before violent media ever came into existence. Humans now are overall much less violent than they used to be.
The experience of actually walking into a house and seeing, smelling, and potentially touching a dead body is much different than seeing an image of a dead body on tv. If you’re unable to distinguish these things, you have very one dimensional thinking.
@@TG-hp8ogRidiculous* I hope you’re not an adult native English speaker with how poorly written your comment is. 😳
I had to pause so I can come comment about that horrible dispatcher. My goodness!
My God that 911 dispatched was awful.
Its as if like answering that call was so annoying. If I am the supervisor that time and heard her, she will be out the door in no time.
I love that you classified the HRubys as the housekeeper’s clients rather than her bosses. Most maids/housekeepers don’t get identified under such respectful terms.❤
Stewpid
Being someone's employee isn't a disrespectful term though.
@@chrismaxwell2274 she wasn't their employee though, was she? I thought most housekeepers were contractors and thus their customers are their clients
@@erikscream shhh.. adults are talking
😂@@hvm5210
It always floors me that emergency dispatchers are so rude… do you think people are calling for fun especially when they sound distressed??? I wonder what undiscovered angle these people are looking at this from. God forbid that they are ever in a position to walk into a murder and told to calm down when trying to get help.
Emergency dispatch has a really insane turnover rate and burn out, dispatch was doing her job but she probably checked out mentally and emotionally
Hey, 911 operator, PAY ATTENTION
The dispatcher just made everything worse for the caller.
That 911 dispatcher was terrible! The death penalty is too easy. Spending the rest of his days in prison thinking about what he did to his family will hopefully make him miserable!
fraid not. a narcissist little boy like this? as far as he can tell he's been screwed over by his whole family, they let him down, all that's rightfully his wasn't given to him as he deserved. they're all the same, they never change, it's always someone else's fault...
I agree about the 911 operator. She said they are cold. Cold = Dead. Also, I could totally understand the poor woman on the phone.
Idt he feels
The 911 dispatcher was absolutely horrible to that poor housekeeper
How do some of these people get these jobs!
I'd like to know how they look at themselves in the mirror. The dispatcher was so unprofessional and insensitive. I hope that came out during this incident and she was asked to resign, or got fired. It's a tough job, but come on - right?
except for my bad hearing sometimes, I would gladly take such a job, only to ensure that the people who call are met with empathy. often these 911 calls in the case of death are one of the most traumatizing and difficult moments for victims and such a moment should be met with empathy. I get that they need to get straight to the point to be able to send help, but getting information, while calming down the person and showing empathy at the same time is perfectly possible.
A racist equity hire? Maybe.
My daughter is a 911 dispatcher, and I always reiterate to pay attention and listen, rehash, and listen.
Siblings can be so different and parents can also make huge mistakes in raising them. Children and teenagers rarely know how to handle money, especially when it is always there. Parents have to set limits, regardless of whether they are rich or poor
They cut him off and handed him into the cops when he committed fraud. Don’t judge those parents too hard. You can do everything perfectly and still end up with it going wrong
@@cherrytraveller5915 thats right, parenting is so difficult
@@SuperBotanica It can be. You can be text book parents who do everything that they are supposed to do and still have it go sideways. There have been cases of people that have lost their lives to their children who did everything right. Greed can do funny things to people and it is amazing what people will do for money.
@cherrytraveller595 they cut him off 18 years too late - you can't expect to put boundaries when there were never any rules- his parents only got serious because they became broke. There is nothing wrong with calling out someone's poor parenting - raise a monster, and someone always gets hurt ALWAYS
Adrien coming through with the shade. “Without a mobile phone he can’t even brag about his meals behind bars either” 😂
The entitlement of some kids is absolutely mindboggling
It's his parent's fault. Gave him everything. What do you expect?
Shitebags. He even sounds really precious.
@@zukosmom3780. No. They wouldn’t “expect” a psychopath. He was their kid. And don’t blame them.
After the five thousand dollar theft charge, the parents should have gotten him into serious mental health counseling. That might have stopped this.
@@BigBadJerryRogersI guess he was too old for being institutionalised against his will
This is such a tragic and sad story. I think Alan’s family preferring to not go through a lengthy legal process with enforcing the death penalty, but rather have him serve 3 life sentences for his awful, disgusting, selfish and unforgivable crime is just. He needs to spend the rest of his miserable life thinking about what his did to 3 people who loved him the most, and to know that he will never experience the life he had and be free ever again. I hope his family & friends will be ok in time.
I thought they’d want the death penalty to protect themselves from him
Didn’t think I would see such a beautiful smile while scrolling through the comments
I really hope that dispatcher got freaking fired. That was freaking ridiculous.
I watch a fair bit of these crime shows and I have noticed that many of these 911 operators could really use some extra training. The housekeeper gave all the pertinent information very clearly right away, yet the 911 operator did not seem to be listening. She sounded annoyed and, telling people who just found three dead people to "calm down", when the person is understandably emotional, is not helpful and disrespectful. RIP Hruby family and hoping for peace for their employee, and probably their friend.
And the caller didn't need to calm down. The operator needed to step up her game.
Absolutely. I've heard so many shitty, disinterested, and unconcerned 911 dispatchers in these true crime stories.
Like no shit, it's a stressful job. But people shouldn't go into a career like that if that's their attitude.
This ignorant incompetent dispatcher is a total disgrace !!! Where is she now ,,the lead detective ??
Right? She gave all the perfect information, the 911 operator actually interrupted her and was being so condescending.
Alan had a face only his parents could love! And yet he murders them in cold blood.
Truly a narcissist. 🤬
It was actually his ugliness that motivated him. He wanted that DNA wiped from the population.
Right? His mouth is a slit.
@@wanderingseth indeed 🤮
@@francelinamommyof3 bet it'll work just the same in prison though 😆 he really will get his just desserts
@@wanderingseth So you condone violence behind bars???
The guy looks like he was that evil kid with the hat, Isaac, from "Children of the Corn" 😂
Thank you! Just scrolling through the comments to see why this guy looked so creepily familiar
"Calm down Ma'am "
Lady , you be calm after finding 3 dead bodies! Wtf. America needs to get better 911 call operators. The way they talk to clearly traumatised people is (time and time again) absolutely disgusting and lacking any empathy at all.
Seriously.
Alan looks like a 14 year old boy and a 40 year old man at the same time. Makes me think of someone whose life is simultaneously too easy and too hard.
Guy had every advantage in life; he could have worked hard and done anything… but he just wanted to not work at all and live like an emperor. When that’s your expectation your life is guaranteed to be a horrible disappointment.
Perfectly said...
yeah that was my whole thing just get a job show them you're trying to be independent. Literally killed for NOTHING I'm sure they would have given him the money just to stay alive.
And his voice sounds like a 7yr old girl
Balding at 18
He was destined for failure because he wanted to live like an NBA star at the age of 18 not feasible
This went way deeper than him being a spoiled rich kid not wanting to give up his spending there was something deeply dusturbing about him
I agree. He is with out a soul.
Sociopath
@@kristencobb230Id say he is a psychopath. 100% narcissistic and callous. He doesnt give a shit about anyone but himself, at any moment of time he is all about how he himself feels and he feels the inherent right to do whatever he wants when he pleases. He is soulless
Narcissist maybe,immature for sure and confused sexuality possibly. I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND killing your own family over money.
Glad you talked about Picher Oklahoma. I live near there. It's a deep story. Lots of horrible things the Lead digger did. He knew he was poisoning the town. I wish someone would do a story about it. 😕
His little gremlin face. I can’t even.
It’s always so aggravating to hear 911 operators telling people to calm down, especially when you can understand the caller perfectly fine….
Yeesh. That 911 call was grating to hear. The housekeeper was clear and as calm as possible considering the circumstances but the operator was awful.
Yes…the caller has just found 3 actual D E A D bodies & the “couldn’t care less” call taker tells her to calm down & probably while she’s chewing gum ! 🤦♀️🙄.
In my state working as an emergency dispatcher is a 50k per year salary.
It's hellish, traumatic work that doesn't pay nearly well enough for what it is.
Feel free to take her job if you think you're up to it. To most of these people anything that puts food on their own table is their biggest concern.
Rather than getting angry at the person: get angry at the system that made them the way they are.
@@Atmatan_Kabbaher nope
@@Atmatan_Kabbaherposting the same comment over and over is still not going to convince anyone.
@@tracyH1250 Weird, I seem to be getting a ton of people liking my comments and posting to agree with me.
It's okay to be dumb, just don't do it in public please.
I live 20 minutes away in a town called Tatums.. that case ROCKED this whole area
This literally happened in my Home town! i remember this day, I was working at the Ford Dealership bodyshop when all the sudden the police helicopters and news helicopters started flying over the dealership and headed for local neighborhood. Everyone was puzzled why every police officer from every county was in this area. When all of us found out it literally shocked everyone in Duncan, no one thought that this could happen in this small town. ( But also side note he also had drug problem along with his spending that never really got mentioned till after the trial! Also he killed the family dogs too with his family, which pissed me off like bro what did the dogs do to you? )
A child raised without restrictions and given pure indulgence won't turn out well. It's a recipe for narcissism. ❤
And as this story proves, it's sometimes a recipe for MUCH WORSE.
Sometimes kids are given to much
So true. parents want to be their friends instead of parents. They have plenty of friends...they only have 2 or even 1 parent.
My grandfather used to tell my grandmother and mother this - about me. “You’re spoiling him”
Grandmother was very wealthy and felt terribly that my “father” was useless and better yet, gone, so she spoiled me to the moon.
I pulled up but it turns out he was correct. It inflicts weird damage.
Be well
Absolutely agree. Sometimes the loving thing to do is to say 'No'. And money of itself is not a substitute for love.
I was just watching, "Betrayed and murdered by a best friend." I love the way you tell these cases, always emphasizing the lives of victims over the criminals. I keep a playlist going all day long. I'm officially addicted.
Welcome to the club!
Yep join the club!!😊
Welcome to Coffeehouse Crime :) ☕
OMG!! I’m so glad I’m not alone with the addiction .😊
was just watching, "Betrayed and murdered by a best friend." I love the way you tell these cases, always emphasizing the lives of victims over the criminals. I keep a playlist going all day long. I'm officially addicted.
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This is what happens when you don't raise your kids with discipline and just say "no"
I'm so tired of entitled teens (& adults). Is it me on low sleep, or was that 911 operator rude?! I feel so bad for the family 😢
This person didn't seem 'angry' at all, she asked if it was her just her perception or was she objectively rude...which she was. I can only imagine how traumatic a job is being an emergency dispatcher...a job that is not for everyone, arguably not this woman.
@Atmatan_Kabbaher I can't imagine the stress that this job holds. I have respect for all emergency/medical professionals. With that said, we're just pointing out the tone in this particular operator. It's not the tone you want to hear during such a stressful situation.
@@Atmatan_Kabbaher They were crap at their job, really crap.
The 911 operator was awful.
She was awful.
The housekeeper was pretty calm.
“Money is a terrible master, but an excellent servant”
couldn’t be more true in this story.
I cant stand some of these 911 dispatchers
I must say, your closing statement really captured the essence of this situation. Excellent distillation🎯
I always feel comforted by the way Adrian talks about the victims with so much respect & compassion. Unlike the dispatcher pushing the poor housekeeper to calm down. 🙄
I'm so tired of hearing about killers telling people what they are going to do, and no one doing a damn thing. Not taking it seriously is not an excuse. This could have been prevented more than once.
do yourself a favor never call out come in or answer the door unless you know who's there! i lost a friend of mine she was married to a man she loved with a passion, but one day while her hubby and i were at work she was followed home by a monster a freak that deserved to have what he did to her done to him, her murder cut her throat and he used a meat clever to remover her legs it didnt matter that she was 8 months he had a leg fetish! the nightmare begins when you are standing there with your best friend who sees his whole world has been ripped away from him and seeing her there is like someone branded that picture into your soul, the man was caught on security cams trespassing, throwing her legs in the river! you can know someone for half a decade and think wow what a decent person but later find out they were totally the opposite, i had another buddy who seemed like a womans dream but he wasn't, i found out the man was stalking his own woman, she worked as a bar tender, and if he thought some guy hit on her or gave her a large tip he would wait until he guard was down, he was a master at manipulation she a master at hiding his abuse, new years eve 200 was the night her nightmare ended, when he pulled out a gun threatening to kill her and himself, he was heard screaming at her then one gunshot was fired into a wall by luck it didnt go through and hit someone outside, he then out of manipulation, and it makes no difference if he knew there was another round in the chamber or not he put the gun to his own head and pulled the trigger! shes married now with children and hes just a forgotten nightmare laying in a grave 20 miles out of town
Someone DID tell the family via his sister, in fairness. Someone tried, it's just that the victims themselves thought their son/brother killing them all was laughable.
Right?? Like I would call that in SO fast.😳
So, what should the Police do? Arrest him on rumours and hear sayings against the will of his own family?
Agree 😊
Thanks for sharing this with us - I loved your comment about how he had no phone so couldn’t share photos of his jail meals with people. That was brilliant. I also agree with other who said the 911 dispatcher was bordering on rude - hopefully that town has canned her after hearing how obnoxious she was to someone distraught by seeing dead bodies.
This is what can happen when you have money and just give your kids unlimited access to spend it however they please without teaching them to respect the money. Basically the lesson of the day is if you have serious money and have kids avoid creating spoiled brats. I feel like this case was preventable.
The dispatch part is almost physically painfull to get through.The 911 person needed to be at best repermanded.And at the very least re-trained....
I already knew I was going to absolutely despise this brat, but when it got to part of stealing from his grandmother I won’t lie I felt some serious homicidal rage. As I’m quite close with my grandmother and do what I can to take care of her like she did me growing up
Yes agreed! That dispatcher is in the wrong job! That poor lady just found 3 people dead and the dispatcher sounds irritated that she is dealing with someone who is traumatised. There is no excuse for her behaviour.
Sounds like he literally had the mind of a child. Unable to process the gravity of his actions.
That 911 dispatcher was horrendous at her job.
that was infuriating. like she couldnt have been more clear or calm considering the situation
To kill your own family for luxury is just sickening and pathetic. He lost it all and got a life sentance for it. Very sad for his family and the housemaid. Once again a superb video Adrian.
The 911 operator is terrible at her job and needs additional training or a new job. You're going to scoldingly tell someone to calm down when they just walked in on three murdered people?
I wonder what kind of mcdonalds they were feeding this guy.
This is the best true crime channel on youtube and I have watched so many of them. I love how respectful and factual Adrian is.
Thank you!
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Thing is i doubt he'd have got any insurance payouts because once they'd realised he'd been cut off financially it would have been obvious who the perpetrator was. Selfish, immature narcissist. R.I.P to family 🙏💜
Not to mention extremely stupid. He's definitely not a criminal mastermind...lol!
Right? Like how the hell did he think he would be getting away with this and getting the money? There was absolutely zero chance it would have worked out. And they said he was planning it for a long time. So he had tons of time to realize how stupid it was and still went for it. Idiot.
He's proved not to be very bright. If he'd spent so much time in social media, he should have realised that their parents's means of income was cut significantly and compromised due to the very place he was thriving in. And would have cut on his life style or look for alternatives. Even if it was for pragmatic reasons at the very least
I'm sorry for the grandmother.
Incredible that these people always think they'll get away with it
Call handlers should be told to never tell a distressed person to “ Calm Down”
Omg was this the dispatcher’s first day on the job!!! That poor woman was traumatized and doing her best and spoke clearly.
sounds like shes had too many days on the job and has just totally checked out. that was awful
So he actually talked about killing his family to his friends and no one took him seriously including his now dead sister.
What the hell is wrong with people? Who actually wants to hang out with a guy who has this mindset?
His sister’s best friend said that when she heard they were shot, she automatically knew it was him. There was an American Greed episode on him.
I get tired of people using 'just a joke' as an excuse. If someone says something like that report it to police immediately.
@@blarpleberry1777 So you want edgy teens joke using up police resources that could be allocated to prevent real crimes? You're dumb or what?
The hard thing is though, when it comes from someone who you think you know very well, someone you’ve been so close to for years, who you think could never be capable of that kind of violence, who would never hurt a fly… your brain almost has a level of cognitive dissonance going that won’t let you accept it as true. Because it just does not align with what you think you know. So you do end up brushing it off as a joke. Sometimes I agree with you there are so many red flags beforehand and it’s like how the hell could you ignore that and think they were joking. But in some cases there aren’t any red flags at all or nothing has happened to make it seem like they could snap like that.
@@blarpleberry1777Okayyyy so when a bunch of innocent ppl get detained bc they made a joke, then what?? Yeah, ppl should really look into others who constantly talk about stuff like that but I wouldn't get carried away. You'll be crying wolf way more than you're successful.
Very sad story. I knew his younger sister.. RIP to the Hruby family.
Love watching your videos! You truly have a gift of story-telling and your subject matter is always interesting. Thank you for all the coffee house crime videos.
He wasn’t crying due to remorse for his actions. He was crying because he got caught and wouldn’t be going on another shopping trip anytime soon.
I think his shopping days are over. I hope he can't inherit.
Idk man he can probably work hard for some smokes in prison and buy a Gatorade at the prison store
He was "Bill Clinton sorry".
25:45 Gotta love Adrian’s own opinion and jargon here.
“Many still find it hard to believe that the boy they once thought was an innocent college student albe it a money hungry narcissistic prick could have the potential to murder his own flesh and blood.”
Think you hit the nail spot in Adrian❤😅
I’m from Oklahoma City, and I was attending the University of Oklahoma at the same time this was going on… so crazy.
Great channel, pleasant narration and very thorough. You deserve all the subscribers!
I will never understand the rudeness of these 911 dispatchers 🙄
Shoot thought it was just me, especially with home invasions
In my state working as an emergency dispatcher is a 50k per year salary.
It's hellish, traumatic work that doesn't pay nearly well enough for what it is.
Feel free to take her job if you think you're up to it. To most of these people anything that puts food on their own table is their biggest concern.
Rather than getting angry at the person: get angry at the system that made them the way they are.
its a hugely stressful and emotionally draining job, i imagine that wears people down after a time and leads to conversations like this
still a wild way to talk to someone in tears whose just found three corpses but thats probably how it happens
@@Atmatan_Kabbaherhow on brand mentioning money....
@@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780what “brand” are you referring to? The person made a decent point.
Dispatch is a job where you constantly deal with trauma on a daily basis. It would be impossible not to be affected by that and to compensate that with a measly 50k salary is just a slap in the face.
Would you want to go that job? I know I wouldn’t.
Is the rudeness excusable? Not really, but there IS a reasonable explanation for it.
“And without a mobile phone, he can’t even brag about his meals behind bars either.” Adrian! Sir! 🤣🤣🤣
I could not believe the emergency call. That phone operator was so callous, are they breathing….. of course they’re not cos they are bloody dead!
“250 miles west of that hell hole” caught me off guard and gave me a giggle
The dispatcher was HORRIBLE. I hope she's no longer assisting with 911 calls. 😳
This is so sad & scary. You can be a good loving parent & your kid still grow up messed up.
You are not correct here.
In order to raise a narcissist child there should be a specific upbringing pattern.
Even if the person has genetic antisocial traits it's still possible to raise a child where child avoids forming narcissistic personality disorder.
So of course parents play a role in the way he grew up.
@@laniakeas92 to be more direct, they spoiled him rotten & did not make him accountable. Monsters like this occur when there aren't really any boundaries in their upbringing. I DO have sympathies for the family. They probably saw a boatload of potential in the daughter & decided to positively focus on her & just give the son whatever he asked for @ 1st just to keep him out of their hair. And whenever a kid/adolescent gets whatever they want, that is a boundary-less upbringing, thereby ticking most of the boxes of narcissism & possible sociopathy. It sucks. Poor parents didn't realize this...& probably not being really exposed to this type of psychopathy before...they just didn't know. Sad all around.
@user-mg6wn4hs5t couldn't have said better, thank you.
@@laniakeas92 I have no clue what they were thinking as parents. As a parent myself, they definitely made choices that I wouldn't have madd as a parent but I also see how easy it would be to be blinded by love for your child. I've seen all coffee house videos & alot more and seen cases where parents were straight up abusive to nearly perfect and the kid still turn out crazy. As a parent THAT Is what I'm saying is scary. I never said parents don't have a play in how they turn out though, I'd have to be delusional 😅
@@deionashanklin2224 putting no limits for a child is not really love imo.
I don't think that dispatcher should be working there anymore. She couldn't seem to hear anything the woman was saying, which was still clear enough to hear. Does an awful job of trying to help her calm down and sounds more condescending because obviously someone who just walked into a triple homicide is going to be emotional.
A lot of awful kids are badly raised by their parents, but in this case it sounds like the parents were fine, it’s just that the kid was irreversibly selfish. So glad he’s never getting out of prison.
It is extremely rare, but it seems like these sort of people are just born wrong fundamentally, unfortunately.
I mean, if the sister can turn out to be a perfectly "normal college student", why can't, or won't he?
Been dealing with some of the worst vertigo I've ever had. I appreciate that you make these videos in a way where I can listen but not have to look at my screen for very long
oj that sucks! Take care of yourself!
One of my co workers was in hospital for the past 2 days bc of vertigo.!!!! UA-cam has some good exercises you can do. They have helped me.
I love coffeehouse crime videos !!! Easy to listen and so well spoken
Oh no! I’m sorry love, I hope things get better for you soon. I’m sure it’s awful 😔
What were you watching this from high up in a ladder or something? 😅
@@illmatixx_5346 I wish lol. I still have vertigo from a head injury a few years back
someone fire that 911 operator. she was absolutely vile. hope maid is doing far better these days.
Thought the dispatcher was a little rude. The housekeeper just found 3 people dead. And I thought she spoke clear. Dispatcher came over rude and spoke like she wasn’t bothered or fed up.
Top notch content! Subscribed!
It’s so surreal to see my state covered, and then the college I went to. For every Alan that gets arrested, there are dozens of dudes exactly like him at OU. The rich dude bro culture on campus that enables men like him was *insane*. When I saw what dorm he was at, I was not surprised, at all.
Literally why I stopped going to OU. I went to college with this kid and the SAE thing was going on, football players beating their gfs, we had to lock down bc abunch of frat guys dressed up in black face and all and ran around yelling chants and breaking peoples windows- the dorms had to all go in one room on each hallway and they locked the doors. Not to mention all the frats known to drug people and it’s just whatever. Nothing was ever done and they just swept it under the rug.
WTF is wrong with the americans?
what are u saying every man there is a potential murderer?! wow. Rich and spoiled doesn't always end in murder... some actually grow up, grow out of it.
@@sydneyjohnson8741 your lack of reading comprehension and projection is not my problem.
@sydneyjohnson8741 the broader the base of the pyramid, the higher the peak of entitled and selfish behaviour. There's other factors too.
Man that 911 operator was as sharp as a bowling ball. This is so sad. The parents created a monster RIP peace. I do hope they take care of this scumbag in prison.
I don't think it was the parent's fault. He was a sociopathic Narcissistic psycho
@meganmosch8826 The parents gave him anything he wanted from a young age. This is what happens when you don't ever tell kids no. But you are partially right.
You can tell how emotionally distant this person was from their immediate family by how many family photos there are without him present.
adrian I like you and your stories. And you have a voice that keeps us interested in the stories and what come next
Everytime I see a new Coffeehouse crime video it's instantly a good day. It's definitely one of those channels that makes going on UA-cam still worth it, so thanks Adrian... And also a late congrats on your coffee brand. You deserve all the success that's coming to you
He adds a lot of false infos and put fake pics..
your day isnt good till you hear about a murder on youtube?
Wtf
The fact that the father could “tolerate” the sons behaviour against himself could be what allowed the sons behaviour against the grandmother…
"...and without his mobile phone, he can't even brag about the meals he's having in his jail cell!"
Thanks for that, I really needed something to erase the disgust I felt about this creep.
He definitely doesn't need or deserve a mobile phone, and no one is interested in what he had for breakfast, or what colour his socks are.
Adrian my guy!! Keep doing what you doing man! I love this channel 👌🏻
The extended family will probably never get over this. I wish them peace going forward.