Jackie Phamotse: Famous influencers are selling sex | Hockey Club, ANC, Slay Queens, Dubai
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- Опубліковано 27 чер 2022
- @JackiePhamotse : Jackie Phamotse is a writer, businesswoman, social activist and philanthropist. Her debut novel BARE: The Blesser's Game, was published in 2017 and was awarded the African Icon Literary Award in Lagos, Nigeria in 2018.
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Host: @EngineerYLShow
Guest: @JackiePhamotse
Cinematography: Breed Collective
Production: Sphe Mlaba
This was such a great interview👏🏾🤍
I appreciate this Kamo 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
She said "I don't want you to believe me, i want you to think" I felt that....
Do you think it’s true what she says happens in these societies?
I felt that as well
I felt it too
@@EngineerYLShow fo sho
@@EngineerYLShow She is telling the truth 🤞🏽🤞🏽
i have been listening to Jackie for years and, read her books. listening to her reminds me of the words my aunt told me in 2009 as a first year at Wits, she said "Study Keep your head down..forget about Brazilian weaves. you will see your age mates in Uni driving big cars, but forget about them" Mntase, I did exactly that. im now 31 single a jnr executive making close to R2mil p.a with an international MBA. not one of those things obtained from a man. not one. ndinemali nendlu. Funda, Study and work towards your dreams.
Tee ! This a beautiful testimony 🫶🏿♥️
This is s beautiful testimony my sister , Amen 🙏 I'm inspired truly✨✨
Yeah , I'm not looking anymore at my friend's it's better to save even if it looks like I'm missing out ...I'll just focus till I get my own things ...I want to put driver's licence on my 4 head while my freind is xomiselaring me with milkshake from star bucks at least I have a driver's licence🤣🤣🤣❤️✨
How do we contact u. I need a job
You did wonderful, congratulations. Now you got to find a man to make your family, time is no longer on your side, 4 years left to hit 35. Keep safe.
I am here for Jackie I love her courage and maturity. We must go to school, and develop ourselves.
This is key
In my early 20s I dated a guy who was part of the "club" and he told me all about this lifestyle and these fetishes I was so shocked I broke up with him my friends said I was stupid for letting him go but they didn't understand that I knew that I was just not capable of meeting these needs. Till now they regret on my behalf laphoke I'm quite happy with my 9 to 5 and the independence I have.
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Big ups to you for leaving him with your dignity and psychological health intact. Imagine if that was locked in your memories.
Amen. I went on a few dates years ago in my early 20s with a man who had unusual requirements for a girlfriends. I walked away after the 2nd date. There is nothing in the world that I wanted so badly I would degrade myself. Earning your own money is so empowering.
@@banyana6515 the freedom of earning your own money is like nothing else💕
@@PrincessVelaryon Glad you walked away sis. Women must be careful in these streets. Predators everywhere.
I have heard her speak about this multiple times yet I sill listen and it gets more eye opening each time.
There are so many layers to it. Do you have her books?
i just love jackie...shes not shy to speak her truth and mind
She is!
It’s the lifestyle audit for me, pulled my eyes wide open - you spitting facts Jackie - the math isn’t mathing
Most of the people on social media esp influencers hate Jackie because they think she is throwing shade at their "infuencer/luxury lifestyle" forgetting that she actually is speaking from experience and also most of the youtuber's storytimes have validated all of this and how most of them get sold by their friends at groove. Yes many may be doing it legit but most girls have come forward and actually have told very disturbing stories about what they actually have went through.
100%
I can listen to Jackie speak the whole day . I love her❤
She is a critical thinker of note.
Anything with Jackie I will listen because yeah man she's phenomenal👏🏽. I've learnt so much through this woman!!! Her fierceness and honesty inspires me alot!! So much love honestly♥️😍I stan a quuen this one!!!
A queen indeed!!!
I love her💕❤️♥️😍💗
@@princessnyuswa5003 me too😍😁she's just amazing.
I watched this entire interview. I enjoyed it. Lungelo is a great interviewer. I wish the Camera would show your face and expressions while the guest speaks - that would be sooo dope. You are good at this .
Definitely working on more cameras! Thank you so much. We are growing through Gods grace. 🙏🏿
I wonder how much time she spends doing her research. This is quite educational and eye opening. Great episode.
She is on her 9th published book and it is a best-seller. This should definitely give you a glimpse into her research skills 😅🔥
@@EngineerYLShow she's very good lol
Woza nazo Sis Jackie, let them be exposed to the fullest! Kudala bebenza ngathi badla isoft life getting well compensated by ama endorsements kanti no ba busy ngamanyala! Selling their souls to satan!
It's a lifestyle audit for me. Hayi azihlangani. I love Jackie, I bought and read all her books except Mercy. I'm still waiting for Amazon. As a young lady if you've got ears, you'll listen.
Hope you find Mercy. It’s a gem of a read.
I also appreciate you watching and joining the family
Jackie is articulate and as expected as a writer, is a deep thinker that's well-spoken.
She's awesome. Have you read her books?
"I don't want you to BELIEVE me,I want you to THINK"... -JackiePhamotse
Jackie encourages critical thinking
Jackie. You saved my life. Let me just say that.
Same
Testimonies guys
This is incredible. Do you mind sharing your story?
She's educating our society. Remember there are so many young people who look up to these fake successful individuals and they hope they will one be like them. Unfortunately most young people end up failuers because of looking up to the wrong people. I like Jackie and may she continue teaching our society the real truth about some of our celebrities.
Indeed
Thanks Jackie.sum of us see ure intentions, ure passionate about your people and country.
I just love how Jackie's brain works.
Highly intelligent.
After listening to this interview I realize not all that glitters is gold. Si gala mahala nje 😢
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Let them be upset omanyaleni! As they're getting exposed kudala bekhohlisa abantu kanti babusy ngamanyala!
Ziyakhala
#Think360
Self education is definitely the best education. There is a lot of self education she does and that's one reason i love about you J' , our so called educational institutions are very much working against us.
Jackie, Thank you I admire your courage to speak the truth👋❤
She doesn’t call herself activist but I see her as true activist she is wise and brave may lord be with her!
Indeed!
Okay let's respect housewives building a home is work
It is a lot of work, I also disagreed with Jackie on that point hence I asked for the explanation.
No it's not hard work. It's a responsibility for everyone to do. Jackie is right, I cannot make a billion and you want half of that because you made umgodu nepapa. I have always had this argument when I see people losing their hard earned wealth to someone just because they fixed a sandwich and dusted the house. And yet the helper's salary is less than R10k and she does a better job than the woman in the house, of course minus the sex which isn't better than anyone out there.
@@awgatsheni6598 you do know they do more than dust the house
°Prepare children for school, help with homework, go to school events and meetings, pick up kids and drop them off etc
Taking care of infants late night when the dad is sleeping so he can wake up early
They spent more time with the kids more than dad, raising children to have good values
Plan all the family events like children's birthdays parties
Food is always fresh , 3 meals per day plus lunch
@@violetmohlala8976 that's exactly what you're meant to do as a mother. You can not be celebrated for doing what you're meant to do. You're the only (animal) in the entire species that want recognition and reward for a natural process. All animals in the entire maternal group do this diligently without an ego that requires attention.
I was about to say that...why shame mothers who chose to raise their kids instead to other people raising them..that did not sit well with me at all.. also not everyone is cut out for the corporate world..
Every young person needs to watch this interview; very insightful. I thoroughly enjoyed this🔥👏
I fully agree Siya. It is eye-opening
Where are the lies? Iqinso is truly hard to swallow.👏🏽
Facts!!!!
Wuuu, this one I must watch again and again because the gems and insight Jackie is sharing ishuuu! This was really good.
I love the question you asking. You good.
Thank you so much Kagiso 🙏🏿
Wow, I liked how she breaks down the women married rich scenario, yey this just show you how easy it is to be replaced whn ur not part of the process of building the wealth, ladies wake up☝
Yes!
She makes some valid points, but there is nothing wrong with being a stay-at-home mom. A person with a job title, such as an architect, is a job, but it does not define who you are or make you less inadequate, intelligent, or incapable of raising a family.
I agree. There are women who prefer this and it keeps their family warm and happy.
Also it can be exhausting to try and do everything at once.
Love your work Jackie
You are so strong Jackie i wish i can find a beautiful, strong, dedicated woman like u in my life
Thanks to sis Jackie for educating us...
Enlightening.
Shout to Jackie I watched all your interviews,You is brave I love you
She is a force to be reckoned with.
I personally like Jakie God bless you Mme
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I love you so much Jackie
I love Jackie so much she is so well spoken and informative, I really enjoyed this interview.
Thank you Gugu 🙏🏿
I love this interview its informative and a real eye opener, big up to Jacky may God continue to bless her, grant her wisdom to speak up be the voice of truth & courage
Wow, so different, so original, so insightful, so sobering, keep on doing the good work Jackie, that voice counts and I like how the interviewer also gives you the space to be and to express yourself, not many interviewers do that, so big ups to you too Lungelo👊💪🎉
Ngiyabonga. Thank you so much
Just got introduced to this space, im loving this channel ❤
Great interview. Jacky u r inspirational ❤️
She’s a gem.❤️
Honestly sum men treat woman who wake up and do something differently
That’s true I experienced that first hand being unemployed to self employed
Hey new subie. Thoroughly enjoyed this interview 👌
Hi Boniswa! I’m so happy. You will certainly enjoy this podcast. New episodes every Tuesday at 18h00
Love her! Fantastic interview
Super smart, gift of the garb, her mind blew me away, Can we ......SWV
Highly informed and intelligent. Do you have her books?
@@EngineerYLShow, No I don't but would like to have,
I love Jackie a lot 😊
What a queen she is 🫶🏿♥️
She's absolutely spot on!
It's the lifestyle audit for me!!!!
Le mali engaka, where does it come from?!
I always follow your videos ,is all about taking of yourself and self 😍
Yhuuu that life style audit break down really got to me, we can be so naive as ordinary people we idols these people yet all that glitters is not gold
True!!!
Repeated story but still feel like yesterday. You gotta love Jackie to hate her 🤷♂️😊
I don’t think this subject gets old because it remains a reality
@@EngineerYLShow You are right it doesn’t, it feels like a new story everyday is hence I said you have to love Jackie in order to hate her.
It was a great interview 👏👏👏
Great content, new subbie 🔥
❤️❤️🙏🏿🙏🏿
Genuine
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U know too much Jackie, I feel u. This world is full of unbelievable things
She is a gem of knowledge. Do you have any of her books?
Waze wakhuluma Jackie… wow… all true sis……. Kodwa ke kusekude phambili if women still feel attacked ngokuba ama housewive….. kanti kuvuswa bona….😂😂😂😂😂😂😂thank u Jackie and Lungelo
Thank you Nonny 💫
This was really a great interview 🫶🏾
Thank you kindly my brother. ❤️
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Enkosi sisJackie nawe bhuti Lungelo for conducting this interview.
Thank you my brother
Jackie ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Queen 👌
Great interview ❤
Welcome Veronica, I hope you subscribed and shared with others so that we all learn :)
She speaks the truth 👌
And often misunderstood
Yerrr wild
Difficult to believe?
If there is one person that can tell the truth,that person is definitely Jackie.Bayahlabeka abantu abazaziyo imikhuba yabo.Some of the things that Jackie talks about we can see them but choose to ignore them.
Iqiniso asilithandi Manzini
i love the ideology of 'this is a moving ship'.
It really is!
Damn I just got woke...Yooh uhlakaniphile nangu umuntu we need more people like this emzansi
She’s a genius indeed 👌
Jackie is wrong for bashing house wives! Being a mother and raising kids is just as hard as being in board room
What’s your opinion?
We are working and still raising kids, what's special being a housewife? Some even good maids being housewifes! The pain comes when she got divorced and has nothing even a certificate to his name! Men are not to be trusted! There's nothing giving pleasure than being independent and self-love
this was really informative, no wonder they trying to shut her down
Hectic!!
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I totally enjoyed this interview, a certain situation led me to this interview. I totally agree with her on the influencers but i disagree on the housewife issues. Housewives are also important and its not everyman who divorces his eife because she has no job, because there are some men who don't want their wives to work, they want wives to stay at home 😮 raising children is also a job you are not a domestic. Other men are respectable and respect and love their wives regardless of them being housewives.
Let's communicate effectively with normal, human interaction...have strong opinions on the table; not social media! Change the narrative....
Fair. Isn't social media the platform that the world is on though? We cannot have global conversations without using social media.
@@EngineerYLShow let's please try and not support these people for the sake of our children...the problem is , is that we still allow children to participate in this nonsense! Mobilize effectively in the communities with human interaction ..
@@EngineerYLShow I've learned nothing from this interview. What's the solution?
I’m really shocked by what I’m hearing, I must live in a bubble because this has shaken me.
Highly informative !!!
Shuuu it sounds so dark!😳
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The lady that opened up our eyes to this disgusting industry. We have her to thank.
Her flu has beeeeeen lingering. Ayipheli na? Shame😣😣
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I really like your Channel but the clarity of the sound please work on it
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Lol 😂 interviewer is great like dude I stan
Thank you 🙏🏿
Our sisters need to listen from 42:42 of this video. They really need to hear this.
It’s a truth that stings…
Love most of her interviews, but I don’t like her comparing a wife to a domestic. That is more about reflecting feminist attitudes than about the perils of the blessed lifestyle.
Interesting take. Hope to get Jackie back soon.
Please work on your camera quality and audio, 😢. The interview was amazing but the lighting n sound disappointed
How about you watch our latest videos and not jump to the comment section based on ONE video.
This is the my first time watching your channel, this is literally MY FIRST VIDEO.
Deep deep
Reality 🙏🏿
Mina ever since I watched this lady from somewhere yhu I un-followed&un-subscribed from a lot of them vele because the maths wasn't mathing hhai. I realized that nooo marn these most of these influencers are influencing us with kaka
And the influence imposes a lot of pressure because you end up seeing your own life as being unworthy
We need to understand ParaSocial Relationships. People need to know that.
Please explain.
Jeerrrr these wives go through a lot. Not fair!
Jacky you forgot the baby strollers😭😭🤣🤣
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Jackie has articulated this exceptionally well! Its a global pandemic.
I am a South African living in the UAE, which most know it for Dubai. What she is saying is not a far cry in Dubai and in the GCC as well. What's so sad is that amongst the Expat community, too many behave as if they're VIPs, Influencers and what not. They boast about Dubai as if they are living the lavish life.
In All honesty, 90% of expats are on Employer sponsored visas which has a number of benefits depending on your industry and expertise in your field. Unfortunately, If you are from a Western country (E.g US,Canada, Uk and etc) you're likely to be rolling in the big bucks in contrast to someone from an African country or Asian country (excluding China, Singapore, Korea and Japan)
What's the most sickening is the discrimination amongst nationals where persons from of European origin, Latin America would be of preference than a black African for example.
How has your experience been as a South African in the UAE? Do you witness the abuse of women as per Jackie is articulating
@@EngineerYLShow No, everything is very much done in private, you only hear stories of what happens underground. Remember, discrimination, so only those of the preferred community gets to get down and dirty with the elite. Latina and East European women are of preference.
Man this sounds like a cult. It is from the pit of hell.
Soft life...
But Jackie is assuming that this people are wearing genuine brands but we know they are mixing, with some wearing fakes. But her price estimation is over estimation. Gucci is not overly priced. And there are ways to lease to those cars without paying the excessive monthly instalments.
Please explain further. Are you saying there is no men funding some of the influencers (girls and boys) ?
Kshibile la🙆🏾♂️🙆🏾♂️🙆🏾♂️
Exactly 😆
This sounds more satanic and diabolic than fetish.
I definitely think there is some level of spiritual misalignment. Why do you say Satanic though?
Has she experienced all this?
Respect✊ i really hope the jail thing is a lie 😢
She’s likely going…
Post Coca Cola but your lifestyle is insanely lavish
Whose lifestyle ?
Them influencers sisters
@@EngineerYLShow Mihlali Ndimase
I love Jackie... But uhlezi ephethwe umkhuhlanye yena
Wow 😂
Funny I was thinking the same thing but thought it's coincidental, it could also be her body needs sone rest seems like she is a hard worker.
I think she’s got sinuses problem and the garden can make them worse.
She's got sinuses bethuna
Even if you are handsome or beautiful and use it to sleep around with multiple people. You are equally wrong.
Why do you say so Koketso, interested to find out your in depth opinion?
@@EngineerYLShow although this might be an unpopular view I genuinely believe whether money or looks, if you use anything to hypnotize or cause people to act out of character you are no different from any of these cultists. Money, beauty , intelligence,talent... all these are gifts to serve humanity or others not a means to manipulate your fellow human beings to get what you want. And also sex is sacred but nowadays it's a play thing no wonder we have multiple problems because we are connected to multiple people spiritually.
The problem is when you put your misplaced opinion as a fact.
May you explain further...
thoroughly enjoyed everything about this video💯💣💥Keep up the good work and I sincerely pray that God sincerely continues to bless your hustle🕯🥺officially joined the new subbie gang, glad I stumbled on your channel and trust that you have found a faithful subbie in me😊mark my words when I say-"you can only go up from here" so remain amazing and focused❤
Hi Nonto. It means a lot to me that you took your time to say such kind words to me. Ngiyabonga kakhulu 🤍
This was a very very insightful interview, loooved the line of questioning! Quiet different! Props to you Lungelo! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🤌🏾
Thank you Siyamthanda. I wanted to show the depth of Jackie’s mind.
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