9 Undeniable Truths That Make Men Attractive To Women
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In this video, we dive deep into the 9 core qualities that truly make men attractive. These aren't just surface-level tips; we're talking about the foundational traits that naturally draw people in and make you stand out.
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One thing I'm pretty tired of actually is when women say they need a man to be "grounded" in order to contain their emotional turbulence. Ladies, you're grown ups. We aren't your daddy. You can handle your own emotions just fine. It's not our responsibility to manage your emotions on top of our own. If you can't, there's the door.
Nothing but contradictions.
Just dont be a non-negative Donny Don't.
Dont be this, or the opposite, but also dont not be this and don't also not be the opposite.
Dont problem solve or volunteer help, but also be responsible for her emotions. But remember not to problem solve or try to volunteer to help her.
Leave her to figure it out herself. But also dont do that, because that's insecure and toxic. But trying to do the opposite is also insecure and toxic.
You're assuming there's one out there who will understand that...Oooop....there are, they're just taken and the guys who got em ain't letting them go ;)
Grounded doesn't mean repressed. It means working through your emotions, and keeping your boundaries with hers.
@@xochj excellent point, so many narcissist-leaning comments here, probably clueless Trumpers
Callouses on your hands, for a guy, sometimes are necessary. Some of us have jobs that cause or require callouses
Because I'm old school, I can relate. Buy some good gloves, use them, lotion, nail brush and hand cleaner, keep those nails under control. A light clean smooth touch, lingering in the dark makes it worth it.
Guitar players need callouses.
Sarah I'm not taking a "STANCE" against you here. I like some things you said in the video. However I really don't believe that for most women attraction goes beyond a lot of money, or looks, and I would even throw height in there. If you have all three I sincerely believe that is the MOST attractive man on the planet to all women, Including yourself. Trying to solve all her problems I agree with you on that. Sometimes just being attentive and sincerely listening is what most women like. The "COURTNEY" lady would disagree with that. She says the opposite. Thanks for the video, I feel like you give for the most part practical advice men can actually use.
As a man, I would feel controlled/manipulated if I was pushed to be more soft (i.e. remove callouses). Being idealistic, I would hope there is mutual respect for differences between male and female characteristics. That being said, if I thought the advice was genuine and not selfish then I would listen to the constructive criticism.
Ladies want “soft” men to talk to, but “hard” men to boink.
If you're over 35, it's money that makes you attractive.
Lots and lots of money.
Women are always after the BBD (bigger better deal). Not enough money, she finds somebody with money. Not Good looking enough, finds somebody more attractive. No winning.
Whew!
That was close.
For a second there I was worried I might accidentally be attractive. 😅☻🤡💩
That's what all kids use as an excuse to not work on themselves. I'll do you a favor and let you in on a little secret that all women know but that younger guys don't get: Men only begin to grow up at 35. Below that age, they're still just kids that don't take accountability or responsibility for their own lives and their actions and they are not reliable, offer zero stability and simply cannot be trusted - and THAT is what makes them so unattractive to women. It's not your lack of money. It's your lack of maturity and masculinity. You're welcome.
Truer words have never been spoken
Yeah 😞 Im 40 an it’s over. I got stuck in just trying to keep muh head above the mud and never could afford school. I’m old now not sure what I should do with the next miserable 40years
My wife said she believes that men are meant to work some form of labor. Either work, or recreation. She said if a man doesn’t have callouses he most likely won’t care to take care of any issues that may arise, protect her, etc.. she has no respect for a man without working hands. (She is very high class, I own a contracting company. She’s not a blue collar girl lol)
Being emotionally grounded comes from observing your thoughts, emotions, judgement and reactivity. This includes witnessing negative emotions like fear and sadness without running away. This is not just the way to embodying the Devine Masculine it is the pathway to enlightenment/liberation/salvation/kingdom of heaven.
We are all imperfect...men and women.
this video’s take really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in ebook magnetic aura from Borlest
Sarah, thankyou for all you do for us men. I agree with what you say here, but I also might add that this is also applicable to women aswell
It isn't always the outside what matters.The soul who you are is the attraction.If it isn't move on and find the right person for you.If not stay alone.
9 hundred thousand dollars?
9 million...you aren't worth sh*t with 900K lol
If we combine these suggestions with all the other previous videos it becomes a very large mind boggling checklist of behaviours.
Give a woman an unlimited credit card and You will be the most attracted person she’ll ever meet.
Being a older man i do see the importance of getting rid of unwanted body hair sometimes i have to or look like cobaka as for calis ✋ thay feed us keep the light on and make every thing work.wen i shake a Man hand's with Cali's i know his careter.i my not agree with but i know whare he come from
Seen my dad clean up hands that kept big trucks rolling long before he would tuch my Mom Thay had 8 children married 65 years before Mom passed i have a lot of respect for these kind of ✋
Excellent advice, thank you! 😀
I’ll definitely get the ear hair taken care of and the callouses 😁
Hi. With how you treat your family. This can be very delicate… my mother was a Narcissist and tho I have done the work in therapy, family contact is fraught with their issues(I don’t play).
ABSOLUTELY💯, I Absolutely agree with you as a female.. In videos directed to the female audience they say the same thing.. "How you treat your family " what if my dad was an A-hole to my mother, and he went on to date his step-niece for every one and my mom to see. So no I don't talk with him.
Emotional, intellectual, and even basic intelligence, in combination with working through personal issues, are at a premium today in both sexes. Women seeking men with these nine characteristics would possess all of these. I will not offer my opinion on the quality of the women's population since my evidence is only anecdotal. Men want to believe that women want to participate in an emotionally and physically intimate, loving, trusted relationship.
Want to believe, yes. Actually believe, on the other hand...
I don't want to argue with you, I just want to comment on the part where you said "Men want to believe that women want to participate in an emotionally and physically intimate loving, trusting relationship" I actually want all of that and he rejected me that and then friend zoned me.. Do you have any advice? I asked him if I did or said something that offended him.. He always says no.. Nothing.
Thanks! I'll appreciate it if you could give me some feedback.
@@LoNoOr37 insufficient information to make a good and reasonable judgment call. Would need more than just "I want all those things and he friendzoned me but says I didn't do anything wrong, help!"
If you want to volunteer more info, you will probably get a better answer than what I'm about to give. Which is...
Two obvious possibilities:
He's just genuinely not into you that way, for whatever reason, or he's being less than truthful with you, and then you're going to have to figure out why. And if you still want to pursue or not.
To be clear, he's aware of your wanting more, he's declined the offer, but allows you to still linger on. Does he know that you're still hoping against hope that he changes his mind? If so, and he lets you stay in the friendzone, he's keeping you as a "in casw of emergency break glass" backup option. If he's not aware, then you're going to have to figure out if you want to push for more from him, again, or let him go and move on. You do yourself no favors hoping for a person to change their mind after they've said no already.
@LoNoOr37 i should have said some men. Most of the what you describe arises from fear, which is the root of emotionally unavailable people. Being vulnerable and living with courage is hard. Here, you should tell him exactly what you want and why. If it is not emotionally safe for you then drop the friendship.
@@LoNoOr37 there's not enough info to draw a full nuanced conclusion. You know the circumstances better than any of us. That said:
You say he's friendzoned you, does he know you're still sticking around hoping for him to change his mind? Or did he just not take you up on your offer, but has remained friendly with you?
Very important distinctions. One is potentially manipulative the other is ignorance.
If he knows, then you need to cut if off. Move on. He's possibly saving you for in case of emergency or a one night stand or something.
If he doesn't know you still want more, then it's up to you to bring that up to him. He disinclined to your request already. If you're still lingering on and he isn't aware of it, then you have two choices: continue lingering with a vague hope, or be very blunt and direct about what you still want.
Either he accepts or he doesn't, and doubles down. Is he honest? Is he lying? If so why might he lie about you doing something wrong? No way to know with the little you've given as explanation.
Either way it's up to you to decide whether to stick around and rely on gambling and the sunk cost fallacy, or to take the L, have the funeral and move on.
Maybe you get him this time. Maybe he says no again. You'll never know if you just accept the friendzone and choose to stay there, being hopeful and resentful in equal amounts.
Rip the bandaid off and be done with it.
Or don't. It's your life, we can't live it for you.
this format really suits me
Be yourself and respect yourself.
Sarah. I think you are spot on. 53 year old man who has a quality women in his life and only would ever want a quality women. These behaviors/habits you identify attract that type of woman. If you choose to exhibit traits other than this you can expect to attract no women or women of low quality. Sarah, I hope good men are listening and learning. You are speaking nothing but truth. Keep up the good work!!
What do you do with a woman that won’t see those changes unless she identifies them
Great video! Thank you!
Palm trees have a deep root system and their thin width allows them to bend and sway in high winds. The oak has a shallow root system and falls over easily.
As an atheist, I disagree with your "higher power" statement. Instead of having a false belief, self-accountability is more in line with what you're looking for. Most atheists I know have a high degree of accountability.
I think she meant more of a purpose in life. To be noble.
I've watched Sarah for awhile now, she explains and describes things as a woman sees them, (of course), but not always in a way that a man can understand them. Emotional stability is a man trying to figure out what they are trying to say, and that requires the effort to make an actual connection.
the oak is rigid, and will break apart. grass is limber, and will flex with the wind.
and what I've found is a large percentage of people select their beliefs based on what allows them to avoid accountability. whether it is the "there is no god, therefore no sin" or the "god forgives my sin" variety of avoidance.
Hmm number 3 is challenging, what is a man supposed to do who's life revolved around the Christian faith for decades, read the Bible everyday and prayed, went to church every Sunday but has since lost his faith?
My story is I work in IT and felt guilty for wanting to study and grow in career, ended up leaving because of it
Losing faith = having a brain (or let’s say waking up finally)
I love your insights Sarah... Would love to be able to talk with you.
Palm trees survive hurricanes, they do not topple easily, often the only things left standing after a major storm. This is not a good analogy. Oak trees crush houses during storms. Palm trees are strong and flexible.
I totally agree with everything you said!
1. The general, 'masculine' cosmos and the special, 'feminine' Earth (Gen 1:1);
2. The Earth, as its own general subject, and its special kind of material wealth: its abiding maximal abundance of open liquid water (v. 2);
3. That water, in general, and its cycling (the water cycle, vs. 3-10);
4. The water cycle, in general, and its beneficiaries: biological life (vs. 11-12);
5. Biological life, in general, and its special category, animal biology (vs. 20-25);
6. Animals, in general, and its special category, humans (vs. 26-29);
7. The general human and the special...woman (Genesis 2:7-25).
This pairing sequence is itself paired with the fact there are ONLY FIVE names that Genesis 1 reports that God gives to five things. And, these things seem to be the Earth's own prime three dynamic, feminine subsystems of its water cycle:
1. the thermally regulative day/night cycle ('day' and 'night', v. 5);
2. the thermally regulative atmosphere (special, home-centric sky, 'shamayim', as in Gen 1:8 and Gen 2:4b - NOT 'ha-shamayim', phenomenologically general sky, as in Gen 1:1 and Gen 2:4a);
3. the land/sea surface thermal exchange system ('earth' and 'seas', v. 10).
If these three sets of things are what these verses are reporting, then it finds analogy in Adam's later naming Woman (Genesis 2:23). ((( I think she, likewise, names him ))). For, these things are the Earth's own basic, feminine subsystems for handling the Sun's radiation for benefit of life on Earth.
This is why Genesis 1 says that God saw that the light (v. 3) was good. For the 'light' is in the prior context of the Earth and its wealth of water. It is not (repeat, not) physical light unto itself that God called good. It is the relation which the light has for the potential for water-based life on Earth.
For, tellingly, the Genesis 1 account does not report that God names gravity, or light unto itself, or even water. Only of day-and-night, as such, and the atmosphere, and of land and sea. These are:
(i) of continual regular rotation of the Earth, which moderates that 'directional' radiation for all parts of the Earth (Gen 1:4-5);
(ii) the Earth's atmosphere, which further moderates that radiation to the surface (Gen 1:6-8);
(iii) the continual thermal exchange of land and sea, which constitutes the thermal moderating system of Earth's thermally binary surface (Gen 1: 9-10).
Nothing against you Sarah, but there is a lot of science on this and the ONE factor that matters to women is physical attractiveness. That's it! Especially for hook ups. Women chase the Chad, doesn't matter if he's a jerk or a narcissist. Next comes social status and money! For long-term "provider" role. That's it.
All the other stuff that female dating coaches claim is basically nonsense. They probably believe it but in reality it's: looks and status (+ future resources). Women are even more shallow than men. Again, this is new for this age.
Not equally valid when people dated in their high school or village only.
Ok sure..but if your woman keeps coming to you and venting about the same problems over and over then she needs to solve them or STOP using me as an emotional tampon for things you do not wish to change.
Thanks Sarah!
The guys who need this advice, don't know what to do with it, and those who do know what to do with it, don't need it. Just in case you were wondering why this video gets 1 like for every 1000 (!!!) subscribers in the first two days.
Right. Spock from star trek. Got it. But I wasn't really following the sales pitch for that scrubby thing. Why does it either have to be that scrubby thing, a dirty lofa or a soapy hand? Wash cloths do exist. I promise you. Got one drying on my bathtub right now.
yeah, any time they go to the "you have to buy more products to be clean" argument, I tune out.
Men already walked away....
Are you talkin' bout my brothers ear hair? Thank God, he has a forest growing on his ears. I'm trying to make her laugh. It is tough. I'll keep working on it.
Right sized ego: you act appropriately for not having - looks or money….
Hello my wild flower , great to see you back Sarah. Your hair is getting longer and looks awesome. Love from Adelaide South Australia 🇦🇺 ❤️
best!!!
When you see that we're with you, and our eyes are glossed over, it's because we're sick and tired of hearing your bull crap and are just too god damned GENTLEMANLY TO SAY SO !!!!
Removing callouses from your hands? That's hilarious
…..all these experts on the dating sphere or whatever its called…be giving all this advice and then tell men to be themselves….look either improve all the aspects of your life or stop complaining….do. The work or shut up….there I save all you guys that need advice a lot of time…
just stick with the Six Sixes Of Dating. Def undeniable.
I'm only familiar with 4 sixes.
@@bathrat the 6 6s is fairly well known; there had been several youtubes, and several youtubers on it
it should really 'ring home'
@@barrysmith1202 by all means, don't list them.
@@bathrat Right. Anyone can find them; but, only one in several hundred guys can get them going. Usually referred to as One Per-centers
It’s shocking how Magnetic Aura on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!
I'd love to believe that all the "emotional intelligence" etc. is important. However what it all comes down to is Cold, Hard, Cash
Uhhh - MONEY!!! DUH!!!
Lol "it goes beyond looks. It goes beyond money." But if you dont have much of those, the rest dont matter anyway. She's never going to be like "yeah he's a middle class 4 but omg he's so emotionally grounded" to her friends. He won't ever get a chance with her.
Famous = they love you
Not famous = they don't love you
Next topic
Seriously, you should stop listening to those men with microphones and their negative echo chambers.
You are describing a feminine man
What? I'm sorry, were you speaking? I was lost in your big brown eyes.
The entire "woman experience " is way overrated.
9:40 Can you elaborate more on anger and being frustrated with family that don’t want to help themselves while they disrespect your boundaries, wait on you to do all the work and all while being rational and trying to stay calm inside so that you don’t let it control you and hopefully you don’t become a future monster to a future girl. I know it’s not healthy to won’t things down inside but I feel justified I sticking up for myself and get frustrated when it seems no one is listening that I get upset and now all they focus on is how I am speaking g versus my actual message that they’re deflecting to hold self accountability. Thoughts?