I myself am quite a quiet person. The number of people I've just been chilling with that have just randomly started venting to me is really surprising. I usually just try to comfort them, and then they keep going. I dont mind it, but im just pointing out how much people will iust talk if you only let them. I've seen some of the quietest people I know even do it. Just sit down and listen to someone. You really learn a lot from anothers perspective.
Just like I said one time, a thought of wisdom that came into my head. My "friend" said something really mean and my response was "no, no, its ok, even if you were "joking" it still came from somewhere." because all thoughts and comments come from somewhere even if we don't realize where exactly. For the past 2 weeks I have been in a depressed mood because people did not accept me. They perceive me the wrong way. I know I make them jealous in some way shape or form but its disgusting when people start hating because of their own situations. I'm like- "then why don't you just go and pick yourself up and become better than me." Instead of spreading hatred why don't you take all that energy and spend it practicing. You wanna be better than me right? Well then work for it. Talent isn't the only factor, I also worked my ass off for what I have.
How do you know when someone is hating out of jealousy? I've been told sometimes this could be the case, but in my life I don't see anything they would be jealous about. Especially when they barely know me.
Well sometimes people are jealous about what they don't have. And since you've been yourself for so long you don't really see it as much if there is something that comes naturally to you. You usually can tell if it's jealousy because if you interact with the person they will be fake nice to you or make very dry conversation.
“Comparison is the thief of joy” talked really deeply to me. I’m not often insecure, but sometimes when I start to feel that way I get jealous of what other people achieve and are good at, even though I know I’m good at stuff too. I really hate that I’m like that and am working to change, and I really needed to hear that right now man. Thank you
The worst is when "friends" have ulterior motives or when theyre jealous they will keep you along doing strings of microagressions and lies to keep you down
Your ability to speak with and to people is extremely impressive. Came across your page recently when you were below 10k subs and its been insane to see your channel grow. Keep doing what your doing bro, youtube made the right person famous❤
Nobody can disturb your peace. You are on that level trust me. You said it yourself. The people change what they say and think because they don't run their own life bro. They don't even know what they are thinking about so you should laugh at anybody as soon as you keep this in mind.
As a 14 year old whos dealing with a bad home life (parents specifically)your videos have taught me how to humble myself and deal with most of my issues. Im glad i found your channel and i hope you continue to flourish so others can find you❤
Bro the only thing that is little is their conciousness and we shouldn't be angry at them anyways. We should lead our lives and love them too so that they get that it is better to support each other. Somebody gotta end the cycle of anger.
As my guy gametime said, the Lord blessed you with an amazing gift, so you may bless and help others with wisdom when we are lost in this twisted world. Keep up the good work man! Thank you, helping me personally rn. God bless ✌️
The more I watch the more I hurt but also send a relief im not crazy at all it help me accept n believe what im seeing it’s a lot going on mane thank u so much I let a mf disturb my peace but I always trust my conscious accept people for who they show u who they are the first time but your videos help me get through
I feel this on a very deep level about comparison especially when it’s done by our caregiver, not always done intentionally but made the grave mistake of thinking that’s what a good parent was suppose to do to instill competitiveness in their child or as a way to follow/bond with other parents that did the same thing…
God bless you man. I just found you yesterday but your advises are so good and not overly edited dopamine explosion video. Its like actually talking to someone and getting advise. Great video mate thanks.
I just found you channel and I'm both really glad I did and kind of regretful because these are all things I needed to hear and learn a lot younger. I was a very lost and confused young man for all of my childhood and even now I'm still a lost and confused young woman in my adulthood. But I'm happy that I'm finally learning all the things I missed out on and I'm glad your channel is here for me to come to for some support and wisdom (even if its from a complete stranger). Keep rocking, I love your videos!
Love from Pennsylvania brother. God waited until I had trained my attention span to stomach 10 minutes videos and then placed your channel onto my lap. Your channel is holy in every sense of the word. You aren't dropping short-form nonsense, you aren't using clickbate. You combine a thought provoking title with 10 minutes of straight from the heart facts and experience. God bless.
Thank you I’ve been watching your videos for awhile now and I’m currently going through a “break” because of something I that hurted the person I love and what you describe in this video was me and I never meant to hurt anyone I really didn’t I just wanna be a better person
I found your account about a couple days ago and your words are very powerful and understanding. I could watch your videos and repeat for weeks. Thank you 🙏
I see you on my recommended all the time never seen a video till now, I clicked because you look swag, But the information you provide is amazing genuinely helping people with cognitive intelligence, Your videos are purposeful and that's what I appreciate.
I've never seen a channel just say it exactly how it is the way you do on your channel, I was gonna say person but to be real I know a handful of people in life who do say it how it is and they're some of my favourite people, whenever I'm going through anything I don't want advice or necessarily support/comfort, what I really need to hear is an objective truth, just say it how it is. Yeah most words of hate come from jealousy, and if someone's jealous that must mean there's something good about you right? It's different from pained anger, sometimes we get angry because we've been hurt by other people, you'll notice that that type of anger doesn't attack anyone's personal traits, raw anger is all threats but no personal attacks. So when someone gets angry and starts attacking your personal traits that's a sign of insecurity, it makes it a lot harder to take them seriously as person because of how much they lack control, it's different from that raw anger.
I find it very hard to tell my friends that I’m having a great time at a concert, or I got a cool gift. It’s hard to talk about yourself in a humble way where another person won’t feel jealous and hate you for having fun. Talking about yourself constantly is a plague that could make someone not care at all. I’ve experienced this with a friend that would continually talk about there problems and situations for months on end. I would send a text in a group chat showing something that I did over the weekend or whatever. Next thing you know, my friend would send a text right after mine about his “horrible life” and changing the subject so fast. At first I was ok with him venting a little and I felt bad, but eventually I felt annoyed. I’ve tried everything to help his problems, but what can I do? I’m not a psychiatrist! I then told him straight up, as his friend, that it is getting repetitive and I don’t want to hear about his problems. Now adays, he’s not talking about it because he knows that I don’t want to know. By the way, my other friends feel the same in the group chat, so it wasn’t just me lol. I mean all sympathy towards him, but the moral of the story is to not be selfish and make people catch the plague. I wanted to share this because of 3:53 - 5:06
Every one in my life told me that Im that quiet person , and people just hate for ro reason but that they way of life.... and my advice is just look them in the EYES you will know ALL ! and by the way you got a great name .... my family name is Shimoni 😇
Listening to you speak man its like having post nut clarity, made me realised some things which has bothered me. Thank you. to you and youtube algorithm.
There's a difference in being anti social or have social anxiety and being a social person in social situations; being comfortable around people but CHOOSE or be that more quiet person. I can be very introverted or extroverted depending on who you are or how you are treating me. I love friends to the death and my wife is my light but everyone else get a version of me that is more broody or quiet until otherwise. I work with customers and the public so I still am a sociable person and am comfortable with it, but in my free time I'm a goth, martial artist, musician and someone trained in para military mindset. I have me and mine to protect and reading people's intentions is something I use to protect my privacy and my loved ones.
This guy's content has single headedly changed the way I think and act the past few days. I wouldn't describe myself as "woke", but I'm definitely more informed. Bless you bro.
One way I get people to stop talking to me is I say "I noticed something about you" "What" "You talk alot" "Oh well that's because blah blah blah". . Usually after they finish explaining why they talk a lot, they avoid talking to me. Works like a charm.
@@gintoki_sakata__ they are unbearable. I listen and talk when it's my turn to speak. These people don't know the meaning of that concept and won't put a sock in it.
It's called emotional immaturity buddy which those people lack. To be a mature adult, you wouldn't act like them and be around better people. Therapists actually talk about emotionally immature people like that
he says "thank you for the support", like bro you are my support
real
actually
UA-cam algorithm thanks and thanks most high for blessing this young man with this wisdom and him for sharing this wisdom
thank you very much💯
I say the same brother
I love how there's never cuts in your video, it seems so much more genuine. You just out here having a conversation
yes indeed❤️
I agree, underrated comment ❤
"you were given 2 ears and 1 mouth, use them in that proportion" 10 seconds in bro already going hard 💯🔥🔥🔥
I myself am quite a quiet person. The number of people I've just been chilling with that have just randomly started venting to me is really surprising. I usually just try to comfort them, and then they keep going. I dont mind it, but im just pointing out how much people will iust talk if you only let them. I've seen some of the quietest people I know even do it. Just sit down and listen to someone. You really learn a lot from anothers perspective.
i really liked the beginning, "you have two ears, one mouth. use it in that proportion" just perfectly sums it up
Just like I said one time, a thought of wisdom that came into my head. My "friend" said something really mean and my response was "no, no, its ok, even if you were "joking" it still came from somewhere." because all thoughts and comments come from somewhere even if we don't realize where exactly. For the past 2 weeks I have been in a depressed mood because people did not accept me. They perceive me the wrong way. I know I make them jealous in some way shape or form but its disgusting when people start hating because of their own situations. I'm like- "then why don't you just go and pick yourself up and become better than me." Instead of spreading hatred why don't you take all that energy and spend it practicing. You wanna be better than me right? Well then work for it. Talent isn't the only factor, I also worked my ass off for what I have.
How do you know when someone is hating out of jealousy?
I've been told sometimes this could be the case, but in my life I don't see anything they would be jealous about. Especially when they barely know me.
Well sometimes people are jealous about what they don't have. And since you've been yourself for so long you don't really see it as much if there is something that comes naturally to you. You usually can tell if it's jealousy because if you interact with the person they will be fake nice to you or make very dry conversation.
“Comparison is the thief of joy” talked really deeply to me. I’m not often insecure, but sometimes when I start to feel that way I get jealous of what other people achieve and are good at, even though I know I’m good at stuff too. I really hate that I’m like that and am working to change, and I really needed to hear that right now man. Thank you
The worst is when "friends" have ulterior motives or when theyre jealous they will keep you along doing strings of microagressions and lies to keep you down
It's worse when it's family
Your ability to speak with and to people is extremely impressive. Came across your page recently when you were below 10k subs and its been insane to see your channel grow. Keep doing what your doing bro, youtube made the right person famous❤
I appreciate you❤️
i just found your channel through recommendations and i could listen to you talk all day.
I appreciate you 💯
Nobody can disturb your peace. You are on that level trust me. You said it yourself. The people change what they say and think because they don't run their own life bro. They don't even know what they are thinking about so you should laugh at anybody as soon as you keep this in mind.
absolutely
As a 14 year old whos dealing with a bad home life (parents specifically)your videos have taught me how to humble myself and deal with most of my issues. Im glad i found your channel and i hope you continue to flourish so others can find you❤
Bro the only thing that is little is their conciousness and we shouldn't be angry at them anyways. We should lead our lives and love them too so that they get that it is better to support each other. Somebody gotta end the cycle of anger.
‼️
You’re a very intelligent young man keep going! Don’t let anyone tear you down! ❤
As my guy gametime said, the Lord blessed you with an amazing gift, so you may bless and help others with wisdom when we are lost in this twisted world. Keep up the good work man!
Thank you, helping me personally rn.
God bless ✌️
The more I watch the more I hurt but also send a relief im not crazy at all it help me accept n believe what im seeing it’s a lot going on mane thank u so much
I let a mf disturb my peace but I always trust my conscious accept people for who they show u who they are the first time but your videos help me get through
I feel this on a very deep level about comparison especially when it’s done by our caregiver, not always done intentionally but made the grave mistake of thinking that’s what a good parent was suppose to do to instill competitiveness in their child or as a way to follow/bond with other parents that did the same thing…
God bless you man. I just found you yesterday but your advises are so good and not overly edited dopamine explosion video. Its like actually talking to someone and getting advise. Great video mate thanks.
I keep growing with your videos
You're on fire bro keep it up
You are very real.That is what is lacking in the social media space.Keep keeping it real 🙏🙏🙏
I've taken what this guy says to heart
A video I needed 🔥
You're a very strong-minded, and mentally powerful guy Shimon, tysm for all of this, this really helps out gratified fans like me. ✌❤
I just found you channel and I'm both really glad I did and kind of regretful because these are all things I needed to hear and learn a lot younger. I was a very lost and confused young man for all of my childhood and even now I'm still a lost and confused young woman in my adulthood. But I'm happy that I'm finally learning all the things I missed out on and I'm glad your channel is here for me to come to for some support and wisdom (even if its from a complete stranger).
Keep rocking, I love your videos!
I finally found something to listen 👂 to UA-cam I appreciate you brother thanks for this motivation words love brother ❤
Love from Pennsylvania brother. God waited until I had trained my attention span to stomach 10 minutes videos and then placed your channel onto my lap. Your channel is holy in every sense of the word. You aren't dropping short-form nonsense, you aren't using clickbate. You combine a thought provoking title with 10 minutes of straight from the heart facts and experience. God bless.
“Because comparison is the thief of joy.” How true is this man, you helped me so much, thank you.
God bless you and all of your endeavors.
Bro ur the best youtuber of all time. Ive watched all of ur vids and I love them cause u have helped me alottttt! Ur gonna be a star
Ur so cool and wise, this vid made me realize many things n im thankful for that🙏🙏
Thank you I’ve been watching your videos for awhile now and I’m currently going through a “break” because of something I that hurted the person I love and what you describe in this video was me and I never meant to hurt anyone I really didn’t I just wanna be a better person
I found your account about a couple days ago and your words are very powerful and understanding. I could watch your videos and repeat for weeks. Thank you 🙏
I see you on my recommended all the time never seen a video till now, I clicked because you look swag, But the information you provide is amazing genuinely helping people with cognitive intelligence, Your videos are purposeful and that's what I appreciate.
Damn you a legend
all you my g
Excellent advice and music choice
I've never seen a channel just say it exactly how it is the way you do on your channel, I was gonna say person but to be real I know a handful of people in life who do say it how it is and they're some of my favourite people, whenever I'm going through anything I don't want advice or necessarily support/comfort, what I really need to hear is an objective truth, just say it how it is.
Yeah most words of hate come from jealousy, and if someone's jealous that must mean there's something good about you right? It's different from pained anger, sometimes we get angry because we've been hurt by other people, you'll notice that that type of anger doesn't attack anyone's personal traits, raw anger is all threats but no personal attacks.
So when someone gets angry and starts attacking your personal traits that's a sign of insecurity, it makes it a lot harder to take them seriously as person because of how much they lack control, it's different from that raw anger.
I find it very hard to tell my friends that I’m having a great time at a concert, or I got a cool gift. It’s hard to talk about yourself in a humble way where another person won’t feel jealous and hate you for having fun. Talking about yourself constantly is a plague that could make someone not care at all. I’ve experienced this with a friend that would continually talk about there problems and situations for months on end. I would send a text in a group chat showing something that I did over the weekend or whatever. Next thing you know, my friend would send a text right after mine about his “horrible life” and changing the subject so fast. At first I was ok with him venting a little and I felt bad, but eventually I felt annoyed. I’ve tried everything to help his problems, but what can I do? I’m not a psychiatrist! I then told him straight up, as his friend, that it is getting repetitive and I don’t want to hear about his problems. Now adays, he’s not talking about it because he knows that I don’t want to know. By the way, my other friends feel the same in the group chat, so it wasn’t just me lol. I mean all sympathy towards him, but the moral of the story is to not be selfish and make people catch the plague.
I wanted to share this because of 3:53 - 5:06
Thank youu ❤️
Every one in my life told me that Im that quiet person , and people just hate for ro reason but that they way of life....
and my advice is just look them in the EYES you will know ALL !
and by the way you got a great name .... my family name is Shimoni 😇
I fw this channel sm
“i will oppose your will.” oh dude that’s the funniest thing i’ve heard this week
Im glad i found you
LOVE 🙏🙏🙏
You look like you could be Jimi Hendrix's son no cap🎸 Great videos by the way
u using aphex twin as background noise this is peak😭😭😭 ily
Thank you for the support? No, thank you 🤙🏿
5:53 is fire
💯💯
next uncle iroh
💯
Listening to you speak man its like having post nut clarity, made me realised some things which has bothered me. Thank you. to you and youtube algorithm.
i love you bro
This was actually one of the 48 laws of power; did you read it? Maybe you'll get some ispiration!
"All in the same breath"
Shimon I’m depressed and my family is abusing me idk what to do can you help me bro I’ve been watching you for a long time.
Please upload your videos on podcast services I listen to your videos every night
I’m from atl so I put “lil” in front of everything😂 “man look at that lil ass elephant” *elephant is obviously large in size*
great vid, instant sub
Thank you
6:14 that’s narcissism my father does that
Thank you! I have been telling myself listen more. Speak less!
great
I'm probably the quietest person on the planet and I don't know shit about reading people.
Sometimes things feel like a sick joke.
There's a difference in being anti social or have social anxiety and being a social person in social situations; being comfortable around people but CHOOSE or be that more quiet person. I can be very introverted or extroverted depending on who you are or how you are treating me.
I love friends to the death and my wife is my light but everyone else get a version of me that is more broody or quiet until otherwise. I work with customers and the public so I still am a sociable person and am comfortable with it, but in my free time I'm a goth, martial artist, musician and someone trained in para military mindset. I have me and mine to protect and reading people's intentions is something I use to protect my privacy and my loved ones.
My thing is that nobody really knows how to trade in his alone they all just wait for the answers that what you are paying for. Signals
💯
This guy's content has single headedly changed the way I think and act the past few days. I wouldn't describe myself as "woke", but I'm definitely more informed. Bless you bro.
There ain't no way, that the people who i have looked up to, even tho they treated me like shit, were actually in admiration of me.
One way I get people to stop talking to me is I say
"I noticed something about you"
"What"
"You talk alot"
"Oh well that's because blah blah blah". .
Usually after they finish explaining why they talk a lot, they avoid talking to me.
Works like a charm.
What about the opposite?
So you're unbearable.. Nice
@@gintoki_sakata__ they are unbearable. I listen and talk when it's my turn to speak. These people don't know the meaning of that concept and won't put a sock in it.
facts
u gonna make it big one day bro jus stick to youtube
I appreciate you family
True
what if you are the person with insecurities and you admire the people around you? pls make a video on how to be truly comfortable with yourself
Don’t be too quiet or nobody will talk to you
onna money
🤞🏾❤️
two introverts will never talk lol but I get the idea
Vibe w u bro
@8:50 😂❤
It's called emotional immaturity buddy which those people lack. To be a mature adult, you wouldn't act like them and be around better people. Therapists actually talk about emotionally immature people like that
right on buddy
How do i find the sounds/music in the background, it's so relaxing
Music is “Stone in focus”
so you just gotta keep mewing
The tribe is on the rise - later then ;D
Song?
you gotta tell the background song name
Stone in focus
Hey Shimon , I have send you the sample thumbnails
You mean mewing?
If I don't get a big section or clip with Bobby Fuckin Lee!!! I AINT WATCHING!!!!!!!!!!!!😤
Learned this by accident, I rarely speak, if not at all.