Meeting my 14 year old son... I can't believe this is happening

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  • @DJDJ-qt7jd
    @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +11918

    To my Son Brad and my Grandson Blaze.
    Knowing and living the whole story, this reunion, captured with the love, feeling and respect for each other brings tears of warmth and joy every time I watch your videos. This time round the tears are of joy, warmth, and healing.
    I am grateful that you have found each other in my lifetime, and healed and filled a massive void in my heart.
    My love to you both, you are both strong people and this is only the beginning of your beautiful journey.
    Blaze, I have missed and loved you since you were born, and the day you came to this world we were blessed with your presence. Now I too can have the pleasure of seeing you as a person rather than my memories of you as a tiny wee baby. You are much loved and the most special person xxxx. My door and my heart is forever open to you ❤❤❤
    Brad, I am proud of the young man you are, and always taken by your ability to forgive, no matter how much pain you have endured. I love you forever. Now that you have Blaze back in your life enjoy and live every precious moment.
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +2881

      Love you mum! ❤️

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +358

      @@whosyourbrad 🥰🥰

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +396

      @@whosyourbradlove you to babe, ❤❤❤ 😊😊😊

    • @HolyNationOfficialMain
      @HolyNationOfficialMain 3 місяці тому +296

      This is an example of this profound truth: forgiveness and love wins. Always. There is an amazing mystery in forgiveness…there is a profound love on the other side. I believe it is a deeper, unique, love given as a gift to those who fully forgive and allow God to heal and give a fresh start. What a beautiful example of forgiveness, love, a clean slate - and new beginning. I wrote a book on forgiveness and this is so beautiful. Many struggle with letting the past go - if they only knew what was waiting on the other side. May the Lord bless you immensely…I think you already know HE has. ~Kim Chadwell

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +113

      @@HolyNationOfficialMain Thank you for your encouragement 😊

  • @valdos9318
    @valdos9318 3 місяці тому +9853

    him loving photography just like his dad, even though he hadn't seen him while growing up. I'm crying

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +37

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @pupgaming5072
      @pupgaming5072 3 місяці тому +45

      Evidence for nature instead of nurture, although I still believe its nurture not nature

    • @Kurotama11
      @Kurotama11 3 місяці тому +129

      @@pupgaming5072it’s a healthy combination of both tbh, like most things in life
      I wonder why it is that humans seem so keen to split things and apply them as if they can’t coexist?? Religion and Science….Political parties…..levels of acceptance

    • @pupgaming5072
      @pupgaming5072 3 місяці тому +3

      @@Kurotama11 whilst yes, it could be both at the same time it's possible it's only one, or even neither. But at the end of the day, theres plenty of evidence for both cases (e.g. feral children being evidence for nurture) so you can believe what you want

    • @Kurotama11
      @Kurotama11 3 місяці тому +22

      @@pupgaming5072 “plenty of evidence for both cases” by default means both are true in their respective rights tho, doesn’t it??
      So why so adamant to *pick a side* ?

  • @ixedtea5302
    @ixedtea5302 3 місяці тому +4900

    The "Dad!" shows the pure happiness from both parties! Crying is perfectly normal in such a situation!

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +9

      ❤❤❤

    • @phamissy
      @phamissy 3 місяці тому +4

      Engene?😭

    • @gilnahnu
      @gilnahnu Місяць тому +1

      so cute I’m crying 😭😭💗

  • @leedsdevil
    @leedsdevil 3 місяці тому +12510

    I have no idea why the algorithm brought your video to my attention, but this reaffirms that good things do still happen in this world. Best wishes to you both for a lifetime of love and happiness.

  • @mayyace
    @mayyace 3 місяці тому +2985

    People don't realise how hard custody battles are. If a parent is telling you about their child that they don't have custody of, you shouldn't automatically assume that they don't love their child. This is beautiful. I'm so happy for you, guys! ❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +213

      Thank you for the kind words! 💛🥹

    • @mayyace
      @mayyace 3 місяці тому +51

      @@whosyourbrad Your son is very lucky to have such an amazing dad that never forgot about him.

    • @mayyace
      @mayyace 3 місяці тому +51

      @@whosyourbrad I don't believe in fate but him coming back into your life ON YOUR BIRTHDAY is crazy fate.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +39

      @@mayyace that was the craziest moment ever for me!!! Such a special moment.

    • @mayyace
      @mayyace 3 місяці тому +10

      @@whosyourbrad I'm so happy for you both! I can't wait for more content from the both of you!

  • @Janie-i8d
    @Janie-i8d 3 місяці тому +3444

    Met my Dad at 14 years old ! Best Day of my life !!! I am 69 now and miss him so much.

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +49

      ❤❤

    • @USER-ZB2YT
      @USER-ZB2YT 3 місяці тому +69

      I'm sorry for your loss.. Rest in peace🕊

    • @5icko3dits
      @5icko3dits 3 місяці тому +17

      @@HorsesAreMyLife-Horses what?

    • @HorsesAreMyLife-Horses
      @HorsesAreMyLife-Horses 3 місяці тому

      @@5icko3dits nothing nvm!

    • @Blunpobuns
      @Blunpobuns 3 місяці тому +1

      @@5icko3dits dirty mind😔

  • @dreamincolor14
    @dreamincolor14 3 місяці тому +9338

    I love that he called you Dad right away

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +1621

      I was in tears 🥹💛

    • @EthanLomas
      @EthanLomas 3 місяці тому +49

      Give money to mother and child. He OWES them

    • @bentrally
      @bentrally 3 місяці тому +867

      @@EthanLomas Way to ruin the mood

    • @ohhaiJess96
      @ohhaiJess96 3 місяці тому +1

      @@EthanLomas🤡

    • @dikkedoei7057
      @dikkedoei7057 3 місяці тому

      She left, she doesn't deserve anything, her choice was made ​@@EthanLomas

  • @lilzuplada1564
    @lilzuplada1564 3 місяці тому +3357

    Blaze just gained a community of people that loves him unconditionally. How amazing is that?

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +35

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @EthanLomas
      @EthanLomas 3 місяці тому +25

      Love is free!!! Money is a true sign of “love”

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +114

      @@lilzuplada1564 💛

    • @audreyltheseira4345
      @audreyltheseira4345 3 місяці тому +7

      ​@@whosyourbradwould love to join Blaze's channel. Love & Blessings from Perth Australia ❤

    • @cantdecidethename8606
      @cantdecidethename8606 Місяць тому

      @@whosyourbrad im ur 100th like on that comment lol

  • @sxhizornsmn
    @sxhizornsmn Місяць тому +318

    it’s crazy to think how something like this couldn’t have happened like 50 years ago. the internet, man. it really can be a good place sometimes

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd Місяць тому +3

      🌹🌹😊

    • @InBeats-o4q
      @InBeats-o4q 21 день тому

      i don't think so. 50 years ago boys don't exist but only real mans who don't leave pregnat womans alone.

  • @MarieSallaupHalse
    @MarieSallaupHalse 3 місяці тому +4859

    Not sure why this ended up in my recommended section, but I'm happy it did.

  • @nigelbond4056
    @nigelbond4056 3 місяці тому +4505

    No father should be torn apart from his son. This is so heartwarming 👌

    • @lettus143
      @lettus143 3 місяці тому +269

      Agree. Knowing how young he was though in sure the mother's family thought they were doing what was best for their child, too. It's unfortunate for him, but I'm so glad he got his happy ending. This is such a critical age for a young man to have a father figure, too.

    • @isagoldfield7393
      @isagoldfield7393 3 місяці тому +28

      My son & his father are so close & do things a lot together. Camping, kayaking, hiking, sometimes basketball 🏀…my son is not very sporty😊now he’s teaching himself how to drive♥️♥️♥️

    • @jtb357
      @jtb357 3 місяці тому +180

      You don't know the full circumstances. Better not judge. The were very young.

    • @fallenangel_899
      @fallenangel_899 3 місяці тому +130

      Don’t jump to conclusions when you don’t know the full story

    • @lucijak3444
      @lucijak3444 3 місяці тому +119

      No, in many cases they should. Many fathers are abusive. But yes. This guy is obviously a very loving father and as long as they are like that, they shouldn't be but life happens i guess:/

  • @StarletOfDavid
    @StarletOfDavid 2 місяці тому +333

    As a mum of a kid being the same age around your son. His dad lives on another continent too. I would ask you to not only make it a vacation thing, write post cards whenever you can, send him trivial things like a new pencil case and annual planner when it’s the new school year, show him how to shave his beard once you’re on visit, pay interest in his school education and grades. My sons father always visits him once a year and my son is always smitten and so thankful - and it always breaks my heart, cause I know there won’t be much contact in between a birthday and Christmas card and that visit. 😢

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 2 місяці тому +3

      💜💜💜

    • @DT-no2uk
      @DT-no2uk 27 днів тому +4

      That is some beautiful advice. I hope your son’s father changes his ways. Your son has a smart and loving mum. 🌼🌸❤

    • @mattyd3079
      @mattyd3079 26 днів тому +3

      I think this story of the absent father of 14 years being welcomed with open arms is one in a million, almost a fantasy.

  • @KardoNewman
    @KardoNewman 3 місяці тому +3778

    The algorithm is finally picking up on the little bit of hope and faith i knew i had left in this world 😭

  • @doodles3075
    @doodles3075 3 місяці тому +3349

    We have a similar story.
    My daughter became pregnant with my grandson, and his dad had to go back to Ghana. He never actually got to see his son.
    Then, as we went into the 1st lockdown(covid), my grandsons mum found his dads sister on facebook. Within an hour I had a message asking if his dad could speak to his son( my grandson lives with me). We decided we would set it up the next day.
    Early next morning I put UA-cam on and called my grandson to watch a video of a man donating food parcels to the Ghanaian police to hand out...
    I then explained that this special man was infact his dad...
    That 1st facetime was very special ...
    This was in the March in the October we went to Ghana to finally meet his dad. He also got to meet some very special people who were turning up just to say hello.
    He hasn't been able to see his dad since then, until last week when I got a phone call at 7.30 am out of the blue from his dad to say his plane had landed in the UK
    So at 5pm on Saturday we had his dad ringing our doorbell, I've never seen so much shock and excitement in one 15yrds face!

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +84

      ❤❤❤ what a beautiful outcome ❤❤❤

    • @amarylily
      @amarylily 3 місяці тому +46

      ❤❤❤❤ I’m so happy for you all!!!!

    • @thecutest4282
      @thecutest4282 3 місяці тому +43

      That's why premarital sex is wrong.

    • @okcool7477
      @okcool7477 3 місяці тому

      ​@@thecutest4282what a great way to ruin the vibe 🥰

    • @_seekingthetruth_1447
      @_seekingthetruth_1447 3 місяці тому +191

      ​@@thecutest4282Dude... Just move the hell on. You speak of something that anyone else could see could have unintended consequences. Most just let that inside voice remain inside. Then, there are people like yourself that just can't help yourself. Try to do better and mind your own business if all you're going to do is bring people down.

  • @tursneyhuman622
    @tursneyhuman622 3 місяці тому +3108

    Met my biological Dad when I was 18, I knew him as a family friend but no one ever told me the truth

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +42

      ❤❤❤

    • @rainy5517
      @rainy5517 3 місяці тому +157

      That's really brutal... I hope you reunited and are happy

    • @kafitty
      @kafitty 3 місяці тому +67

      We weren’t told that a family friend’s daughter was actually my brother’s half-sister until we were in university. And then we found out about his half-brother! 🙃

    • @thepinktreeclub
      @thepinktreeclub 3 місяці тому

      i see, shes for the streets

    • @Staroy
      @Staroy 3 місяці тому +1

      @@kafitty weird way to phrase it, why not just your half sister?

  • @TSOMTSOMTSOM
    @TSOMTSOMTSOM 2 місяці тому +60

    I was 18 when I last saw my dad. I’m now 45. It hurts every day. I hope he’s well. Just balled my eyes out watching this. Embrace every moment. Such a beautiful story.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  2 місяці тому +3

      So sorry to hear 😞 Thank you for being here with us! 🙏🏽💛

  • @juliestewart5707
    @juliestewart5707 3 місяці тому +1590

    Having a child when you’re young changes your entire life. The struggles are enormous. We need to support young parents better. Congratulations 🎊

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +117

      thank you so much!

    • @cherylspohr9821
      @cherylspohr9821 3 місяці тому +45

      You are so right!! I had a child at 16 and thankfully our families were loving and supportive. Unfortunately my baby daddy had a lot of growing up to do so it was very difficult for me.

    • @SkiesareGrey-un8gv
      @SkiesareGrey-un8gv 3 місяці тому +11

      ​@@cherylspohr9821What did you think was going to happen when you let him hit it raw at the very young age of 16? He was still a child, so were you. Boys grow emotionally even later I mean.

    • @Bunnidove
      @Bunnidove 3 місяці тому

      Shut up ​@@SkiesareGrey-un8gv

    • @emmoo2701
      @emmoo2701 3 місяці тому +93

      ⁠@@SkiesareGrey-un8gvAs you literally just said yourself, kids often make dumb decisions, there’s no need to be so rude. Sounds like she dealt with the consequences as well as she could.

  • @NekoHanyouHanaru
    @NekoHanyouHanaru 3 місяці тому +1088

    I’m in the group of “I don’t know why this was in my recommended” but I’m so happy it was. I wish nothing but safety and love for you and your family. ❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +18

      🥹💛

    • @a1ntcry1noveru
      @a1ntcry1noveru 3 місяці тому +1

      Same! But then I saw mats who I used to watch, and I’m wondering if UA-cam did some magic algorithm thing that way lol

  • @The360Guy
    @The360Guy 3 місяці тому +922

    I was with Brad at the birthday dinner where he got the message! I remember he seemed a bit quiet for a while but clearly he was just in shock haha. What an amazing story! So glad you guys are re-united and clearly Blaze got the content creator genes. All the best from London.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +149

      @@The360Guy the best weekend of my life 🙏🏽💛🥹

    • @littledog3553
      @littledog3553 3 місяці тому +9

      ❤❤❤

  • @iloveme2999
    @iloveme2999 Місяць тому +9

    This might come across as a little corny, but as a 16-year-old, I've struggled to have a solid relationship with my father. Watching the bond you and your father share, especially after being apart for some time, truly warms my heart. It’s inspiring to see how strong your connection remains despite the distance.
    Seeing this kind of relationship displayed in a UA-cam video is uplifting and gives me hope that family bonds can thrive under challenging circumstances. It reminds me of the importance of connection, love, and resilience. Thank you for sharing this beautiful moment.. it really resonated with me!💓!

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd Місяць тому

      💜💜💜💜🌹🌹🌹

  • @richie644
    @richie644 3 місяці тому +1018

    Can’t believe I came across this video.. haven’t seen my son for 10 years now… I felt this, I dream of one day getting that message.. will never lose hope. Thank you 😢

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +34

      ❤❤❤❤ never lose hope ❤❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +73

      🫶🏾

    • @padopaw
      @padopaw 3 місяці тому +21

      not to be insensitive but why not be the one to message your son?

    • @poppymason-smith1051
      @poppymason-smith1051 3 місяці тому +41

      ​@@padopaw probably isnt allowed to due to how it may have played or in court.

    • @Aur315
      @Aur315 3 місяці тому +5

      You shall receive it, continue to picture that message esp before you sleep, continue to visualize that end result and it will occur , do it while you are falling asleep for a few days, you will receive that message . Chances he may want to commmunicate..but maybe message him if you can , also pray, people sleep on it.

  • @naomipask1809
    @naomipask1809 3 місяці тому +336

    It is so lovely to see a teenage Dad who fought to be in his child’s life. The fact that he is still so invested in his son is heartwarming. The videos from family and friends shows just how proud of being a Dad he is and just how loved Blaze is.

    • @Lewis-py8jl
      @Lewis-py8jl 3 місяці тому +1

      Don’t like this comment as it is currently at a perfect 100 likes

  • @kitoera
    @kitoera 3 місяці тому +605

    I'm 28 years old and have been estranged from my own father. He had contacted me through facebook a while ago and i was somehow terrified to respond. Afraid of rejection and not living up to expectations i didn't reply. This 13 yo kid took the leap and had more courage than i could ever have. It's so lovely to see this beautiful reunion. It fills my heart all the way and has given me some courage to let go of my own fear and just reach out.

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +50

      💜💜💜💜 yep, let go and reach out 😊😊😊😊

    • @lyricsbytamy
      @lyricsbytamy 3 місяці тому +35

      It's not too late to reach out still!

    • @Jenny-ii3cd
      @Jenny-ii3cd 3 місяці тому +16

      what's to be afriad of. just meet him he will not judge you. however you are meet him. you never know about life. when is our last breath. have no regrets. life won't give chance again nad again

    • @Jenny-ii3cd
      @Jenny-ii3cd 3 місяці тому +18

      trust me when you ignored him. it hurted him

    • @Catyluss
      @Catyluss 3 місяці тому +9

      reach out. trust me. you wont regret it.

  • @tinamarie8061
    @tinamarie8061 3 місяці тому +34

    This man has the most attractive diverse friend group on the planet! He & his son are stunning! It’s like pure light, joy, good vibes and Gods love exudes from them! Totally awesome ❤

  • @mikebrannen5921
    @mikebrannen5921 3 місяці тому +557

    So great to see this. I was around 16 when I reached out to my father and was told to never call again. Luckily I have the most amazing step father that raised me and guided me at that age. So glad to see you creating memories and and sharing love. I love being a dad its the best gift on the planet.

    • @1Dragonist
      @1Dragonist 3 місяці тому +65

      So sorry that happened to you. I'm glad you have a great step dad. ❤

    • @wandalucas7838
      @wandalucas7838 3 місяці тому +31

      Hugs to you and I am so sorry. It sounds like you have a wonderful stepfather and for that always be grateful.

    • @lillieberger2883
      @lillieberger2883 3 місяці тому +30

      I’m sorry that happened to you. Not everyone deserves to be a parent.

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +5

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @CotyWilliams-j2k
      @CotyWilliams-j2k 3 місяці тому +27

      That bastard missed out,not you.And your step father definitely won here ❤

  • @carolwilder2289
    @carolwilder2289 3 місяці тому +442

    This came across my feed! I can emotionally connect with you both. My son had a son young @ 18 yrs old. The last time I seen Wyatt, he was 3. He was 8 when his mom took him out of his dads life. 6 months ago...Wyatt came back to the state to be with his dad!! My son was as scared as I was! Omg! They are best 'mates' and inseparable! God Bless you both!💕🙏💕

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +11

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +57

      Wow! I'm so happy for your son to reconnect too, send our love! 🙏🏽💛

    • @odemonet
      @odemonet 3 місяці тому +14

      This came across my feed today! What an amazing story, and what an amazing son you have. I couldn’t be happier for you and your entire family! ❤️ congratulations!,,

    • @JamesOzmun
      @JamesOzmun 3 місяці тому +5

      @@carolwilder2289 thank you for sharing. Like Brad & Blaze, your story inspires me with hope for when I begin to find my dad. I am very happy for you and your son to have your grandson in your life again. 🤙

  • @lisahinkle3867
    @lisahinkle3867 3 місяці тому +287

    I was adopted as a baby. Six years ago I got to meet my mom dad siblings et. three months later my father died in an accident. I love all of my family adopted, chosen and bio.

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +3

      ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Laura_heart
      @Laura_heart 2 місяці тому +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm so glad you got to meet your biological family and that you're in a great relationship with them❤

  • @ChrisM-qo1jc
    @ChrisM-qo1jc 4 дні тому +2

    I also don't know how I ended up here but wow this story is a million times better than anything that's out there. I'm so happy he reached out to you and the feelings to meet up was mutual. I can't even express how happy this makes me

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  4 дні тому

      @@ChrisM-qo1jc thank you so much 🥹💛

  • @da96103
    @da96103 3 місяці тому +651

    At first, I thought it was Cristiano Ronaldo making a confession.

    • @Iamtheone-x8w
      @Iamtheone-x8w 3 місяці тому +26

      Fr😂

    • @heyjude2109
      @heyjude2109 Місяць тому +3

      😂 Bro, wear Specsavers!

    • @nicolesaidi
      @nicolesaidi 26 днів тому +1

      LMAO😂

    • @MayMoment_
      @MayMoment_ 18 днів тому +1

      To be fair, it wouldn't surprise me if he has a few kids running around who don't know he's their dad.
      Dude flew all over the world as the number 1 football player on earth. Definitely a few illegitimate kids

  • @mollymo6229
    @mollymo6229 3 місяці тому +864

    My uncle lost in court to be able to see his son and he has not seen him since 2 years old. His mom unfortunately lied to their son saying that he never cared for him but my uncle got many pictures of him taking care and looking after him as a toddler as his mom worked her job. I hope one day his son contact him to meet him again!

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +6

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @PurpleSirens
      @PurpleSirens 3 місяці тому +84

      This is becoming a huge problem in the west. Some women are abusing their rights as mums and just make dads vanish. I’m a woman but I see it happening more and more in my community. It’s messed up💔

    • @adriadri3624
      @adriadri3624 3 місяці тому

      ​@@PurpleSirensProblem in west it happens often in other countries west had huge influence in other places too especially those stupid hook up cultureA

    • @hahe-m5g
      @hahe-m5g 3 місяці тому +36

      @@PurpleSirensIts honestly more common to have deadbeats fathers

    • @PurpleSirens
      @PurpleSirens 3 місяці тому +43

      @@hahe-m5g yeah that too, but I’m actually seeing this happening to fathers who don’t deserve this. It’s not fair to justify this by saying there’s more deadbeat fathers. Equality remember

  • @Dan-xx5jq
    @Dan-xx5jq 3 місяці тому +2769

    You have to be grateful that his mom did a great job to raise him to be who he is! Congratulations!

    • @nattamused9074
      @nattamused9074 3 місяці тому +811

      I thought the same thing. She was almost entirely not included in this story, which is sad. A young teenage mother who gives life to her child nowadays is extraordinary enough, and on top of that, she obviously did a fantastic job! He’s emotionally intelligent, well spoken, and brave!

    • @haso-jy6sh
      @haso-jy6sh 3 місяці тому +20

      I agree

    • @ngs5554
      @ngs5554 3 місяці тому +308

      Did either of you watch the video? The mother took his son away from him. That’s not a good mother.

    • @nattamused9074
      @nattamused9074 3 місяці тому +1

      @@ngs5554 According to the very little information given, she, as a minor, chose to give birth to her son instead of aborting him. Win #1. Then, again, as a child herself, she chose to go home to her support system and raise him. Win #2.
      What do you suggest she should’ve done?
      If your opinion is that she should’ve left her family to stay near her son’s biological father, (a teenager himself who was not ready to provide her the support a teen mother NEEDS) then you simply do not understand the needs of a young first time mother.
      The most important thing for the health, safety, and wellbeing of a newborn infant, is the health, safety and wellbeing of his mother. She obviously sought out the best help she could get, with her family.
      I am not faulting or blaming him for choosing the support of his own mother, that was his choice. He could have chosen to stay near his son, but he didn’t. That’s OK! He was only 16! It’s completely understandable!
      But please don’t say she wasn’t a good mother just because she made the very best choices she could for herself and her son. That’s all she could do. She couldn’t make his father’s choices for him.

    • @super-cc3ow
      @super-cc3ow 3 місяці тому +1

      @@nattamused9074she also could have told him

  • @M4PLETREEZ
    @M4PLETREEZ 2 місяці тому +23

    No idea why the algorithm gave me this, and I’m so happy it did. This is likely one of the best feelings in the world, if not the best. You both act like you haven’t spent a day apart, and that really makes me happy. So happy for you and your son 💛

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 2 місяці тому +1

      💜💜 in heart they were never ever apart ❤

  • @AriatiArmen
    @AriatiArmen 3 місяці тому +410

    I don’t know why i am crying, My son doesn’t see his biologic father since he was born. when my boy asked me who is my dad, i couldn’t hold my tears but i told him everything and my boy he is 12 now. I am so happy for you both. ❤

    • @hanaagovic-cc7wq
      @hanaagovic-cc7wq 3 місяці тому +15

      You are such an amazing mother! Good job❤

    • @AriatiArmen
      @AriatiArmen 3 місяці тому +51

      @@hanaagovic-cc7wq Thank you for your kind words. It’s hard to explain to the child knowing that the man you think he loves you so much turned out he doesn’t want the baby nor me. my life was tuned into hell at that time, i was too young and too stupid. But i fight alone for my sweetheart 12 years old son. With high school grades i have, i couldn’t do much at that time but i work my ass off for my boy even he was in my belly then he born ( he is 12 years old next month ) . and because of my son i am stronger than ever!! To all single moms or single dads in the world!! You all are amazing 😻

    • @kishniethuyakontha54
      @kishniethuyakontha54 3 місяці тому +3

      It's always good to have both parents while you are growing and single parent means lot of hard work where I live in but I guess being late is ok than never.Be happy and thanks his mum for you ❤

    • @USER-ZB2YT
      @USER-ZB2YT 3 місяці тому +4

      @@AriatiArmen Im glad you're doing better now

    • @Aisha-sh2un
      @Aisha-sh2un 3 місяці тому +2

      Same here . My son is 18

  • @tikasinaga1284
    @tikasinaga1284 3 місяці тому +448

    Am happily crying for 2 strangers

    • @abigailadu6183
      @abigailadu6183 3 місяці тому +12

      Same🥹.
      Such a wholesome video❤

    • @sharronjones1017
      @sharronjones1017 3 місяці тому +8

      Happy tears❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +14

      Thank you guys 💛

    • @droptherapy2085
      @droptherapy2085 3 місяці тому +2

      In a way we're all familiar I think

    • @WarmongerYT
      @WarmongerYT 3 місяці тому

      ​@@whosyourbradWas there a reason that after going to court for 1 year, that u went twelve years never trying to see or even message or call your son? & Also it sounds like your Son's Mother/his Mom has done a great job at raising a respectable, polite young Man. ❤. Surely with it being all these years later his Mom& you can get along for the sake of your son & put your own feelings aside. That's what my ex/my 2 children's Father & I do.

  • @lilly-ee2sp
    @lilly-ee2sp 3 місяці тому +197

    I've know Brad for 6 years! He is the only friend I made for the entire time that I lived in BCN. Happy tears are streaming down my face watching this video! Such a special and magical moment I've just witnessed! It's every single parents kids dream to meet their other parent! Most kids don't get that chance! Talk about devine timing, receiving such a messsage on your birthday!
    Miracles and happy endings exist, you and Blaze are living proof! Bless you two! -J

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +36

      I love you! Одна команда 💛

  • @athaliahmakanuey597
    @athaliahmakanuey597 3 місяці тому +13

    What a beautiful story. I lost my dad to a heart attack when I was 14 years old. Seeing Blaze gain his Dad back at such a crucial time in his life is so amazing. This story had me crying. Wishing you both the best in the world.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +1

      So sorry to hear 😞 Thank you so much for the support, sending love 🫶🏾

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому

      💜💜💜

  • @AndreaLB
    @AndreaLB 3 місяці тому +665

    I hate how people think they have the right to judge people they don’t know!!!! NEVER take any negative comments to heart. Just don’t read them. I’m so glad you’re finally getting to see your son!!!!! Enjoy every moment. That first hug will last your lifetime. You’ll always feel it. Congratulations to you both!!!

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +33

      ❤❤❤ thank you for encouraging my Son and MY grandson in this journey. This story is about the wonderful outcome after years of heartache. These are 2 very special people sharing a moment of joy that will be everlasting, for them most importantly and for the wider family and friends.
      I agree with your comment wholeheartedly about how people think they have the right to judge, this short story is one where you can only rejoice in the outcome, the long story is way to painful to dwell on. ❤❤❤❤

    • @rhondablake4286
      @rhondablake4286 3 місяці тому +4

      Amen! It is their life no one should be judgy of the story they are sharing.

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому

      @@rhondablake4286 thank you ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @lyricusx2900
      @lyricusx2900 3 місяці тому +22

      Yep I'm judging because this man abandoned his kid because he was in his feelings. He didn't even tell his friends he had a kid until after the little boy reached out. He lived his best life and threw his kid away and didn't even look back if this kid didn't reach out he'd still be in the trash.

    • @アキコ2003
      @アキコ2003 3 місяці тому +4

      Agreed, those people have sad existences. Stuck online in the virtual world

  • @keanusolan2844
    @keanusolan2844 3 місяці тому +546

    Whilst it is clearly awful that he was taken away from you when you were so young; credit must given to his mother's family who seem to have raised a grounded young man. Wish you all the best.

    • @i_am_gohan9232
      @i_am_gohan9232 3 місяці тому +72

      If they kept him away from his son how could you give them any credit? What they did was evil.

    • @katherinebattle3780
      @katherinebattle3780 3 місяці тому +39

      ​@@i_am_gohan9232exactly women do this shit all the time and it's disgusting 💀

    • @hahe-m5g
      @hahe-m5g 3 місяці тому +169

      @@katherinebattle37801/10 ragebait try harder next time

    • @MehrubaAfroz
      @MehrubaAfroz 3 місяці тому

      ​@@katherinebattle3780 borh men and women who aren't meant to be parents do this. My father's family kept me away from my mom and brainwashed me into thinking she had cheated on my father and abandoned us, when the truth was was father is physically and mentally abusive and schizophrenic. I'm currently living with my mom now and have cut off all contacts with him. Don't just go around blaming women for everything

    • @s-9817
      @s-9817 3 місяці тому +144

      ​@@i_am_gohan9232 if they were both 16, how do you want the mom to stop her family from moving away? He knew where they were and had other choices to keep in contact without spending money but he choose to let it be until his own son learned about it. Nobody imprisoned his son in a dessert island in the middle of nowhere

  • @keksfresse8553
    @keksfresse8553 3 місяці тому +209

    Props to you for being so vulnerable on camera. You're not a "crybaby" at all, you're just expressing your emotions in a so healthy manner :)

  • @vargaspaulino
    @vargaspaulino 2 дні тому +1

    You made my Cry Broth.... well done, you have not idea how many people are in the same shoes.

  • @kremmiz1
    @kremmiz1 3 місяці тому +349

    I don’t know how this came into my feed, but I’m so happy it did! In a world filled with negativity, finding this little slice of beauty on the internet is just so wonderful. I hope this relationship (and all of those who support you both- wow! What a blessing) continues to flourish and deepen. 🙏🏽❤️

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +29

      Thank you so much, I'm glad it brought some light to your day because it definitely did for us. Thanks for the support 🥹💛

  • @dreamincolor14
    @dreamincolor14 3 місяці тому +209

    The happiness this kid felt when he probably like read that message from his dad being like I know you don't know me but I love you

  • @sophiaunger8189
    @sophiaunger8189 3 місяці тому +370

    I'm 14 now and I'm what life would be like without my dad, he is one of the most important people that I have and I can't imagine doing it without him. I don't know why the came up on my feed, but was ment to be seen!!!!

  • @happyfeet5530
    @happyfeet5530 19 днів тому +2

    Hes so cute. My daughter met her dad at 11. It was so touching and heartwarming. She didnt know he was flying in. I let him in and walked around the corner with her little brother and she was so excited. Then boom her dad wapks around the corner! It was one of her best days ever. That was her first time meeting both of them ❤

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 19 днів тому

      💜💜💜💜🌹❤️

  • @dianaandthebookhunt
    @dianaandthebookhunt 3 місяці тому +319

    Blaze is your little copy. It's wonderful to see you've build this community of friends all over the world that your son can look forward to meeting. Well done, Dad! Here's to many adventures together 🩷

    • @angeloc7486
      @angeloc7486 3 місяці тому +11

      How is he a copy of him? His mother raised him.

    • @dianaandthebookhunt
      @dianaandthebookhunt 3 місяці тому +53

      @@angeloc7486 Well, there's a thing called genetics that is very evident in facial features?! Also, their interests seem to allign. There's no shade thrown to the mom here. Cudos to her for raising the boy. Why does everything have to be a negative? This boy finally got to have his dad in his life. Be happy for them ...

    • @DangerHob
      @DangerHob 3 місяці тому +16

      He sounds JUST like his father. (His voice, not just his accent) It's so awesome!!

    • @lovelylife2171
      @lovelylife2171 3 місяці тому

      @@angeloc7486DNA

    • @lovelylife2171
      @lovelylife2171 3 місяці тому

      @@DangerHobYES

  • @127sys
    @127sys 3 місяці тому +240

    As a 16 year old I can’t imagine going through court for visitation, that must’ve been a crazy time & I’m glad you’ve reunited after everything 💐

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +2

      ❤❤❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  Місяць тому

      Thank you!

    • @sesidonkor
      @sesidonkor 28 днів тому

      I only realised I'm the same age he was after I read this comment. Sometimes I forget I'm 16 now. Very true, I also can't imagine going to court at this age. I'm not even a legal adult.

  • @sometimesitbelikedat2529
    @sometimesitbelikedat2529 3 місяці тому +371

    I met my biological dad for the first time when I was already 18. Our meeting didn't go this way. I'm now 33 with a family of my own, and I rarely talk to that dude. But I'm glad you got to meet your son and you had an instant connection with him. Healing isn't for everyone, I guess, but I'm glad to see one of the instances where it worked.

    • @miovicdina7706
      @miovicdina7706 3 місяці тому +43

      This should be talked about more. People, understandably, only post the happy end stories on UA-cam.
      It creates false impressions and false hopes for others in a similar situation.
      Thanks for sharing your story briefly.
      All the best for you for your future with your own family.❤

    • @javakat343
      @javakat343 3 місяці тому +17

      I'm sorry for your loss. You deserved better

    • @sometimesitbelikedat2529
      @sometimesitbelikedat2529 3 місяці тому +24

      My thinking kinda went from, "Woulda been nice if I had a father figure to teach me these things" to "I'm now a father as well. We're (me and that dude) practically on the same level now. No need to consult someone I barely know about things I can learn for myself." There's a lot of resentment there, for sure, but yeah. Seeing this video warms my heart and it reminds me that not everyone who grew up without a father like me will grow to become a resentful individual. Brad is a good dad, and Blaze is a good kid, and they'll figure things out together. This is beautiful.

    • @unmellowyellow
      @unmellowyellow 3 місяці тому +13

      @@sometimesitbelikedat2529Honestly, your dad’s loss. It sounds like he has no relationship with your children, and trust me, it is HIS loss ❤ Love to you and your family 😊

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому

      @@sometimesitbelikedat2529💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @xzy.mp4
    @xzy.mp4 18 днів тому +1

    this healed something in me, thank you and i am genuinely happy for the two of you 💕

  • @kennethwilliams3182
    @kennethwilliams3182 3 місяці тому +154

    Social media is finally good for something.., god is good. Congratulations, guys!

  • @blazepate
    @blazepate 3 місяці тому +434

    What an emotional roller coaster this video is. The buildup, the production, messages from your friends. It still doesn’t even feel real. I Can’t believe it actually happened. All it took was one message and 2 years later it finally happened. A day that was 14 years in the making. Thank you for everything and the time we had together dad. I hope to see you again someday soon ❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +64

      Forever love! 💛

    • @barbaraJohnJohn-e5b
      @barbaraJohnJohn-e5b 3 місяці тому +29

      @blazepate Love you my great grand son

    • @EthanLomas
      @EthanLomas 3 місяці тому +5

      Words are cheap!!! Give them money that he owes them. I’m disgusted

    • @Suresurely
      @Suresurely 3 місяці тому +15

      Blaze, it was so brave of you to send that message, well done ❤

    • @RehabProjectSRCB
      @RehabProjectSRCB 3 місяці тому

      ​@@EthanLomasYou have no idea of any of the circumstances that went on between that family. Don't be judgemental and negative.

  • @ScoobyDoozy
    @ScoobyDoozy 3 місяці тому +138

    A beautiful story about second chances, & taking chances. Blazes’ Mum family ought to be congratulated on raising such a kind, sincere, & genuine young man. He’s got his head screwed on.
    And now, Blaze has a Dad, and his family, to help guide & love Blaze on his path to becoming a young man.
    Irregardless of the history during young & turbulent times, to see that the sole focus of all these adults, on both sides, is on Blaze & the path going forward, is a rare but bloody beautiful sight to see.
    Cheess to Blaze, and to all the love & care in his yesterdays and his tomorrows.

  • @saintXVII
    @saintXVII 3 місяці тому +53

    Watching this video as an Italian, it made me laugh so hard when the Italian friend popped up in the most Italian way. Blessings to all in this video, y’all look very nice people.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +11

      Love that guy so much 😂 One of my best friends in Italy 🇮🇹

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +2

      We love our Italian family lol ❤

  • @wansleyleah
    @wansleyleah 3 місяці тому +232

    This is incredible, and I can totally understand how you feel. I was forced to allow my oldest two children go into an adoption situation when I left their biological father who was very abusive to me, and I have waited for all these years ever since for them, to be in contact with them again. I am not in contact with my son yet, as he only recently turned 18, but I've been in limited contact with my daughter through IG for a couple years now, and every post from her, ever message from her makes my heart light up with so much pride. I love my kids, and I look forward to hopefully getting reunited to them in person one day. So happy for you to experience the feeling of reconnection.

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +19

      ❤❤❤❤❤ I hope for you this reunion of your family comes soon ❤❤❤

    • @anselnova
      @anselnova 3 місяці тому +6

      GOD BLESS YOU AND EVERYONE SO MUCH I LOVE YOU.🤍

    • @kimberleywilliams7802
      @kimberleywilliams7802 3 місяці тому +3

      You made such a hard choice but you loved your kids. Thank you for sharing your beautiful story, you're amazing!

  • @CotyWilliams-j2k
    @CotyWilliams-j2k 3 місяці тому +141

    I'm 35 i got pregnant at 17 my son is now 17,the donor and his family never i mean never wanted anything to do with my son i waited some years thinking maybe since id grown and matured id try to give that male the same grace,the coward refused to talk to me and instead sent his red headed step child wife to message me and say i was lying because he'd never date a "colored girl" that was my last attempt,so seeing this and how your family and you wanted your son is so amazing and you finally getting your son in your life is the best i love this

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +14

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤ sending you hugs ❤

    • @CotyWilliams-j2k
      @CotyWilliams-j2k 3 місяці тому +24

      @@DJDJ-qt7jd thank you,I've never publicly said this story to anyone but it just got me in my heart seeing this,I'm so happy for them especially the son

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +10

      @@CotyWilliams-j2k i just feel for both you and your son.. we were blessed that our family finally got reunited. Take care ❤❤

    • @samporter2146
      @samporter2146 3 місяці тому +9

      Also sending you hugs . It was very brave of you to try contact for your child's sake . ❤

    • @AlvenaNelson
      @AlvenaNelson 3 місяці тому +10

      I feel so heartbroken for you to have come across such a cruel person!
      And the flying monkeys..so narcissistic…I am so glad you didn’t endure that man..and your child didn’t…you saved your child and yourself by the sounds of things..
      Sending you love and hugs ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @lupinashton8913
    @lupinashton8913 3 місяці тому +64

    Cherish him. Be good to him. I unfortunately never got to meet my father in person he passed shortly after I talked to him for the first time after turning 18 (over the phone) hearing how he wanted me and couldn’t because of his addiction. He was in another state and passed due to an overdose. If I could I would flown to meet him I unfortunately won’t ever get that chance was denied it from that extended family. This brought tears to my eyes. Don’t let him go. Y’all got this. Happy for y’all’s journey

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +17

      Heart breaking, I'm sorry 😞 💔
      Thank you so much for sharing your story as well as supporting ours, love from the two of us!

  • @crxmdx9199
    @crxmdx9199 22 дні тому +2

    You look young enough to be his older brother, let alone his dad!! This is very heartwarming! Each day is a blessing! Take advantage of them!

  • @T-H-B
    @T-H-B 3 місяці тому +262

    Embrace him, love him, and tell him often. I don't know why I got this video up in recommended, but I'm crying happy tears for you.
    I lost my own son, he died - I got the first 15 years, you get the rest of your life. Both is a blessing. I'm so happy for you both.

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +16

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  Місяць тому +3

      so sorry to hear. 😔 Thank you for the support 🥹

  • @wendyhaws4540
    @wendyhaws4540 3 місяці тому +70

    Every child should be as wanted as your son. You are awesome. You both are so blessed. I'm so glad this turned up in my feed, not sure how it did. God bless you both.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +5

      Thank you so much for seeing the love I and everyone else has for Blaze, thank you for the support!❤️

  • @shamelessmaya
    @shamelessmaya 3 місяці тому +94

    Being able to hear this directly from you and now seeing the reunion is an absolutely a blessing! Thank you for inviting us into your life and sharing this journey with us. We love you Brad and Blaz!!!

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +6

      So much love for you, Maya & Max!

  • @isowiesow9035
    @isowiesow9035 3 місяці тому +66

    I really teared up when blaze was walking while saying "City vibez" you see how HAPPY he is!❤🥲 his face expression and the way he walked.. uhgg someone give me a tissueee

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +3

      ❤❤❤ lol, every time I watch it tear up, ❤❤❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +11

      Yo, I cried so many times editing that part lol 🥹

  • @mooniex825
    @mooniex825 3 місяці тому +68

    I lost my dad early this year to a kidney disease. This video showed me the significance of a dad in his child's life, and the importance of a dad. I'm glad someone reunited with his dad. Some of us can only wait til that glorious morning ❤

  • @elenawilliams32
    @elenawilliams32 3 місяці тому +57

    What a great lad, he's obviously been raised very well. What a great start to being in each others lives.

  • @ashroberts1549
    @ashroberts1549 3 місяці тому +27

    Absolutely sobbing at this. My dad chose to have me but was never actually there. Never put in the effort to build a suitable life for his children.
    I am so happy Blaze has you as a father.
    Much love to your whole family

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +2

      ❤❤❤❤ thank you

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +2

      Thank you! 💛

    • @WarmongerYT
      @WarmongerYT 3 місяці тому +2

      Was there a reason that after going to court for 1 year, that u went twelve+ years never trying to see or even message or call your son? & Also it sounds like your Son's Mother/his Mom has done a great job at raising a respectable, polite young Man. ❤. Surely with it being all these years later his Mom& you can get along for the sake of your son & put your own feelings aside. That's what my ex/my 2 children's Father & I do.

  • @ankiking
    @ankiking 3 місяці тому +50

    Even though I feel it is your job as a parent to keep in touch, I am so glad Blaze reached out and made the connection. Best of luck!

  • @blusky366
    @blusky366 3 місяці тому +37

    Oh my, I wasn’t watching the screen & I thought it was still the father speaking until he mentioned messaging his dad. They sound so alike! ❤ this was so uplifting & gave me hope that bad situations that seem hopeless can turn into good endings. 🙌🏻🙏🏻

  • @siennamiel-wb7nl
    @siennamiel-wb7nl 3 місяці тому +196

    I’m glad he’s reaching out at 14 and not 21

    • @r..1240
      @r..1240 3 місяці тому +1

      Why

    • @aaabbbuuu777
      @aaabbbuuu777 3 місяці тому +1

      @@r..1240so he can get that beer 🍺 and za 🍃

    • @lusinebaghyan8864
      @lusinebaghyan8864 3 місяці тому +17

      ​@@r..1240 7 more years with each other, that's huge.

  • @TurquiseFlames
    @TurquiseFlames 17 днів тому +2

    I reached out to my own father around the same age, and was turned away. You and Blaze are so lucky to have each other and im so happy for him to have his father and a whole community around him

  • @ariqis
    @ariqis 3 місяці тому +91

    iv never seen a dad care that much about his son thats so sweet im ur sons age

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +5

      💜💜😊😊

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +8

      💛

    • @Vickangelll
      @Vickangelll Місяць тому +2

      Thats sad

    • @iolip5780
      @iolip5780 23 дні тому +1

      If he care that much , he would be in his life. BS

    • @Scamander1417
      @Scamander1417 22 дні тому

      ​@@iolip5780You clearly didn't watch the video. So much bitterness?

  • @mooncoos
    @mooncoos 3 місяці тому +28

    Every son needs his dad. I can see your son feels whole inside. How amazing.

  • @abbys104
    @abbys104 3 місяці тому +88

    This is what we need more of. Pure, wholehearted, natural, positive, unscripted, real content.

  • @meepenjaap7999
    @meepenjaap7999 14 днів тому +1

    This story had me BAWLING. All the best to both of you and be gentle to the the two teenagers who had to face an unbelievable reality.

  • @OlderThanTime09
    @OlderThanTime09 3 місяці тому +33

    It seems to me that you had a great way of thinking about your son and your situation with him as a young parent. I am glad he saw that love and care in your message to him and your choices and did not hold any negative feelings. How amazing that he got to see you on YT too? He got to know you and see you in a different way than anyone could have imagined when we were kids (I am very close to your age). All your friends and other family's messages were so sweet! It must have made him feel so included in your life right away! This was so beautiful. It is NEVER too late.

  • @Katherine_02
    @Katherine_02 3 місяці тому +55

    This is so beautiful and I'm absolutely thrilled for you both! My father and I were separated when I was 3 months old. We didn't reconnect until I was 28. He passed when I was 39. I'll forever be thankful for the time we had together! This makes me so happy! ♥️🙏🏻

  • @asiyah-nour
    @asiyah-nour 3 місяці тому +79

    I was adopted, my adoptive parents gave me hell so I never really felt like I had a real family. I found my mum after 13 years. Some hiccups as she is still learning how to be a mother and I’m still learning how to have a mother. But it was the best thing I did finding her. Cried this entire video. So proud of you both. God never puts two souls together for no reason. The birthday was not a coincidence. Praise be to God. May he continue to guide you both Ameen. 💕💕💕🥺🥺

  • @WoohooSah
    @WoohooSah 19 днів тому +1

    So beautiful the way you two just fell in (dad and kiddo) love at first sight. Second sight, because I'm sure you felt that way on the day he was born. But those smiles, and the light in your eyes were everything. Congratulations on your reunion!

  • @Lylo-mj8ek
    @Lylo-mj8ek 3 місяці тому +45

    Outstanding! The Lad is as gorgeous and energetic as his Father. Peace and Love be with you both in your new journey together. ❤❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +4

      Thank you so much! 🥹🙏🏽

  • @diandiaz9026
    @diandiaz9026 3 місяці тому +27

    It’s so obvious in this video that the staff has told so many people about him throughout his life, and that so many people are loving this child, even though they be either never met him or met him when he was very little, so I’m happy that this is happening so great!

  • @brianneml2979
    @brianneml2979 3 місяці тому +59

    Honestly if you didn’t get emotional I would have worried about you. This was beautiful. Wishing you both a beautiful journey ahead.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +7

      @@brianneml2979 thank you so much for watching and sending us your wishes 💛🥹

  • @CulpritChronicles
    @CulpritChronicles 2 місяці тому +2

    Wow!!! He is your mini twin! I am so glad you two got to meet and see each other again!! Thank you for sharing!

  • @belle132
    @belle132 3 місяці тому +35

    Seeing the video montage of people who love Blaze that he didn't know about... It really got me. Haha. Cheers to the Dads out there that actually want to have relationships with their kids. Wishing you both all the best, Brad and Blaze!

  • @tophertours
    @tophertours 3 місяці тому +37

    Brad, this is so brave of you to share the world your story. I'm literally speechless. It tears me up, but it's heart warming and full of love. I'm also very glad Blaze took the courage to send you a message, and coincidentally on your birthday. Your hearts know you both are ready and destined to reconnect and build a beautiful family. To Blaze, your dad is such an amazing, warm and friendly person I've met even just twice in the streets of Barcelona while he was doing photography. So proud of you guys!

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +3

      Thank you so much for the kind words and support, it means a lot! 💛🙏🏽🥹

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 2 місяці тому

      @@tophertours 💜💜💜❤️

  • @benburns5995
    @benburns5995 3 місяці тому +26

    Hi Brad, can't imagine the joy you are experiencing in reuniting with your son Blaze. After so many years apart it is awesome that Blaze reached out and found his dad.

  • @derekwalters4980
    @derekwalters4980 3 місяці тому +19

    You've got a good lookin' boy, I can totally see you in him. I will say this, his mom seems to have done an excellent job raising such a lovely young man, so good job to mom and the family that raised him. Now it is a new day, the boy needs to have his dad in his life, and I believe his dad needs him in his life as well.

  • @weescotsguy66
    @weescotsguy66 3 місяці тому +28

    I had a similar story only I reached out to my son just as the Internet social media was getting going, my son was 14 and he is now 30, a grown married made, I was at his wedding to a beautiful wife and during his 30th surprise birthday I was invited by his wife, it was probably one of the best thing in my life after his birth so emotional.

  • @Vonnie24
    @Vonnie24 3 місяці тому +34

    From the bottom of my heart, congrats on your baby boy. Everything else doesn't matter. Prayers of closeness to you both. Second chances are a blessing

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +1

      ❤❤❤ thank you for your beautiful message, yep, nothing else matters.❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +3

      Thank you!! 🙏🏽💛

  • @Olamchesed
    @Olamchesed 17 днів тому +2

    Thanks for sharing this heart warming story, many blessings

  • @robertshrewsbury5067
    @robertshrewsbury5067 3 місяці тому +10

    I love that your friends joined in on including Blaze. Best wishes in your years ahead.

  • @kinley.-.
    @kinley.-. 3 місяці тому +48

    I have no clue who either of these people are, this video just randomly came up in my UA-cam feed. I’m so glad it did though because it’s such a heartwarming story, it was so sweet seeing all of Brad/the dad’s friends saying hello to Blaze. I had to hold back tears, it’s so beautiful to see the connections humans can have with each other… i hope to make many friends like that 🥺

  • @catherineloftus1376
    @catherineloftus1376 3 місяці тому +12

    Father and Son reunited, amazing, wonderful life changing experience for both of you. Well done for his Mamma bring a polite mature and grounded young Man. 👏

  • @HANA_n15
    @HANA_n15 16 днів тому +1

    As someone who has a bad relationship with my dad, this really warmed my heart.
    Really changed my perspective that there are many fathers out there who love they're children unconditionally. 🥰

  • @mione134
    @mione134 3 місяці тому +20

    Beautiful. Keep building your bond. I dont know the circumstances or the situation that kept you both apart for 14 years. But I'm glad you both are reconnecting and building a relationship. You both deserve it.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +6

      Thank you 💛🥹

    • @lauramitchell6725
      @lauramitchell6725 3 місяці тому +6

      He said in the video that the mom took the baby away at three months old and he was in court for a year (and he was only 16 years old himself.)

  • @oneavx
    @oneavx 3 місяці тому +8

    This video fills my heart with so much love and joy. Blaze’s message on starting the conversation reminded me of how i connected with my dad and that side of my family at 16. Sending so much love and strength to the both of you 💙

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +1

      wow! so beautiful to hear that you also reconnected with your family. Sending love and thanks from Blaze and I! 🥹

  • @dianemarieevans9145
    @dianemarieevans9145 3 місяці тому +22

    I think you are one of the Luckiest Guys out there. Your Son looks amazing and he truly was so happy to see you. I wish you nothing but the best in your future enendeavors. Love one another to the fullest extent you can. Loved & enjoyed your story.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +3

      @@dianemarieevans9145 I definitely feel lucky & extremely grateful 🥹
      Thank you so much for the kind words 🙏🏽

  • @truebluedreams
    @truebluedreams 3 місяці тому +75

    I hate how circumstances kept you both separated for so long. It must've been so hard to go through for both you as a father and Blaze as a kid, likely thinking he just didn't have a dad around. The world can be so cruel. But this! This was beautiful. I hope he can see how you fought for him and how you thought of him, always!

    • @kpoppy9635
      @kpoppy9635 3 місяці тому +30

      But I wonder why he and the mom didnt keep in contact?
      Although logistics such as living in another country can make it difficult to see each other, you can keep connected more than ever with technology...why wait 14 years to re-connect and why did the son need to reach out first?

    • @siqxyre8473
      @siqxyre8473 3 місяці тому

      @@kpoppy9635many mothers bar the child from contacting their dad

    • @Nabee_H
      @Nabee_H 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@@kpoppy9635 Either dad gave up or mom actively refused to allow son to see dad. A lot of women are spiteful after breakups and don't allow fathers to see their kids.

    • @kpoppy9635
      @kpoppy9635 2 місяці тому +2

      @@Nabee_H yet he can see his kid now.
      Idk what changed from back then other than the father having the money to travel.

    • @truebluedreams
      @truebluedreams Місяць тому +2

      @kpoppy9635 well the video made it sound as though he wasn't allowed to see his child, which might have meant he was blocked on social media and whatnot as well. He might have been waiting for the day his son became old enough to seek him out on his own since dad couldn't.

  • @tigerlord600
    @tigerlord600 3 місяці тому +23

    im 18 in 5 days now, and ive been watching UA-cam a few hours a day since I was 8, and this was definitely one of the best videos I've watched. This is beautiful, this video was a pure sense of euphoria, and I will keep this saved for when I want to look back to such an amazing story. Thank you Brad. Proud of you Blaze

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 місяці тому +4

      ❤❤❤❤ have a wonderful 18th birthday. Thank you for the beautiful message.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +3

      Thank you so much 🥹

  • @summerbsmith7808
    @summerbsmith7808 3 місяці тому +22

    Amazing my bro. The growth you have had as a man, and to see Blaze as a young man is totally heart warming. Couldnt be happier for you both. Also cant believe just hoe much Blaze looks like a young Bradskii!
    Love you both so much. Blaze, welcome back to whānau!!

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 місяці тому +3

      Love you so much! Sumskii, thanks for being here all these years and thanks for being part of this video 🥹💛

  • @vonplatschi7631
    @vonplatschi7631 21 день тому +1

    The algorithm showed me your story and I'm happy for you guys. I really wished the person who brought me into this world would step up to his role as a father. But not everybody can be happy like you two. I'm thankfull that you prove me not all dads are like the one which I have

  • @isagoldfield7393
    @isagoldfield7393 3 місяці тому +11

    There’s nothing like a father & son bonds♥️♥️♥️

  • @zavariahwilliams9838
    @zavariahwilliams9838 3 місяці тому +26

    I LOVE TO WATCH VIDEOS LIKE THIS, I AM AT THE 15-MINUTE MARK WHERE YOUR FRIENDS ARE TALKING TO BLAZE, AND I AM TRYING TO KEEP THESE TEARS FROM ESCAPING MY EYES, THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL. MY MEETING WITH MY BIO PARENTS WAS NOTHING LIKE THIS, BUT GOD, AND SO I MEAN IT FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART I AM SO HAPPY THAT YOU AND YOUR SON HAVE THIS BEAUTIFUL EXPERIENCE AND FUTURE JOURNEY. GOD BLESS YOU BOTH

  • @cherylspohr9821
    @cherylspohr9821 3 місяці тому +8

    Happy for all of you! Brad, I would love to see an interview with your mom explaining what she remembers what happened to you in court. How do they (the childs mother, grandparents & court) justify denying a parent to see their child? No contact at all seems cruel. I hope laws have changed. You had the perfect attitude about getting your own life in good shape so you could be ready for him! Others need to learn from that so please keep sharing.