The part when you said giving 100% isn’t always going to “equal” 100% it’s going to sway based on what you’re going through really helped me! And that part was so great. This episode was so heart wrenching at the end.. ugh my heart breaks for that man. He sounds so wonderful, I pray for him that he lives a happy rest of his days without his special lady until they meet again. Wow.
My favourite quote is “do onto others as you want done onto you” I was raised by parents that thought me to be an independent strong woman and as a single mom of twin boys I’ve been teaching them about being a gentlemen and take care of their woman in every way! Every morning they wake up and crawl into my bed and say “ good morning mom” “I love you” and “you’re the best mom ever you know that” and that’s when I realized that no matter how many bad days or frustrating days that I have it is all worth it ❤
When she said “I’ve had the great love of my life”, YES. Perfect description. I think even Terri Irwin has said that about Steve’s passing in interviews.
We both have NICU warriors! My son was born at 28 weeks and 2 days. We spent 72 days in the NICU before we got to go home. My son just turned 2 Nov 2nd and he was diagnosed with Autism back in June. My son is starting to explore sounds more but as of now he doesn’t speak either and we are working on sign language but it is SO hard. Every episode of you guys I watch I find more reasons to just keep on watching. I love your content and it really shapes my attitude for the day. Just after the first 4 episodes and now I’m actively thinking about what I say and how I say it. I nag and I try not to as well as my children’s father was gone obnoxiously long the other night when we had plans and I went to go off and thought about what you guys say and I reeled myself back in and realized I was only having anxiety because I care that he is safe because shit happens and I couldn’t get a text back. Instead of going off I just texted and was like hey love, hope you’re okay! Text me when you can… and I got a way better response than I would have.
I love your content. I’m struggling SO hard in my life currently. I feel like I have no voice of reason or an emotionally mature enough person to hear me out and give constructive advice. I literally listen to you for 6 hours straight while I’m at work. I just want to grow and be my best self I can be and it’s hard in a world where everyone seems so content with just surviving. I find so much value in your conversations and I’m so grateful I found you.
So I hope you guys get a laugh out of this. I have been going through it the last 5 days or so and I only just started listening to your podcast, although I had been watching your tiktoks for a bit. Because I have been so distracted it has taken me a full three days to realize that Chris was calling Khrys his "peace" and not his "piece" and now I can't stop laughing at my foolishness. You are both fantastic and I very much enjoy your content. Have an awesome day.
Though I appreciate the phrase “treat others the way you want to be treated” because it implies a reciprocal relationship of respect, I have also experienced that I tend to treat myself the worst in many scenarios (such as negative self talk, not cleaning up after myself, not feeding myself) and I also can’t assure that my behaviors will be returned to me by others. So I like the phrase “treat others the way THEY want to be treated” because that means I will always be serving the other person in the most loving way and removes the expectations of a return. In that way, I’m always operating within my values, with integrity, and even when I feel low about what I deserve, my behavior towards others should not change. In fact, I find that I can be more motivated to do my household duties if I frame it that my fiancé does not want or deserve to live in a messy house, even though I might feel like just laying in bed and letting things pile up. Just something I’ve heard and reflected on in my self improvement journey and thought I’d share. Also I wanted to say that I really appreciate this podcast! I found you on TikTok and I’m starting from the beginning of all your episodes and discussing what you do with my fiancé. Though we don’t agree with your perspectives on everything, the discussions you help start is so beneficial in our lives as we lay the foundation of a marriage! We have already changed some of our habits for the better because of how you model love and service to each other.
i want to start by saying i love you guys and your podcast/tiktoks it all! i just wanted to mention that sometimes those who breastfeed farther than a year can have their hormones not regulate until around 6 or more months after the women stops breastfeeding. For me, my PPD didn't kick in until a month after i stopped breastfeeding, had my hormones checked multiple times and they were still erratic as they were within the first year after having my son. Your point on most PPD does turn into just depression after a year does happen a lot, but it also depends on how long the woman chooses to breastfeed as well because of the way that breastfeeding changes your hormones. other than that small bit, i loved this episode and as always think you guys have great feedback for common problems in relationships/marriages. Your traditional marriage and how you look at what is needed to make a long term relationship is amazing. keep being amazing and helping those who need it. you make a difference for a bunch of people, me included.
I just started watching your tictok and love the content, and it helps my day today. Helps me be a better man to my wife and our marriage. I know that I can not change the way she looks at things, but I can change the way I approach things. Thank you.
I love the insights, the intellectual back and forth, and the support you provide others by being REAL with what yall say. You're both the shit and cute as fuck together. I hope you both have only good things come to you, and that wonderful opportunities come to you both because of all you are doing. Much love
I'm taking a lot of info out of your podcast, but it's the little things that really make me happy. "I'm sitting on a couch in air conditioning eating shredded cheese out of a bowl like it's cereal." I feel that in my soul.
I'm with Peaches. My husband is in his 50, I'm in my 30s, and if he goes next week, I'm done for good. I could never love anyone the way I love him. I will be his wife till the day I die regardless of whether he's still alive.
My former best friend is going through one of the worst relationships situations ever. I really wish I was still in contact with her, so I could show her this podcast. You're a couple she needs to see and listen to more. You two are amazing.
chris i absolutely love your shirt. i recently bought the peace shirt and the tattoos shirt, i kept the peace shirt and gave the tattoo shirt to my best guy friend.
I love that Khrys always corrects herself when she calls Chris "dude" or "bro." That was SUCH a hard habit for me to break, too. I would hate it if my husband called me the same (and it took him having that conversation with me for it to really 'click') - I completely understand and respect the desire to change that habit! It's relatable AF, and I respect TF out of you for it, Khrys!
I cant wait to be able to subscribe to yalls Patreon so that i can see all the content yall make. Regardless of what yall talk about, wven if you think its all over and small, i think something can always be taken from it. So id love to see what other kinds of content yall make!
I don’t agree that man can’t have the same bond a mom does I’ve always been very in tune with my kids, very attentive, and very patient more so than mom, but I think you are right in the broad spectrum of men
Where is episode 4? If I ever see a painting of a ginger cow in a field of yellow flowers with a perfect blue sky and fluffy clouds I am so sending it your way!
Man this made me cry b/c our lives are so crazy my hubby doesnt get to video game much if at all and it makes me feel bad. He has taken up some games on his phone, but I know its not the same for him. He actually just gave up his xbox subscriptions. Our son is 10 wheelchair bound with Spina Bifida and a slew of other Dx. We lead our lives very similar to ya'lls as close as we can what works for us.
The part where you thought your kid was going to be nonverbal and autistic for the rest of his life at the age of two, I felt that. Mine mostly spoke gibberish and some words like letters and numbers and some other small single worded things, right up until he went to Pre-K at the ripe age of four. Coming up this summer he'll be five with a full year of Pre-K and he's speaking full sentences and singing things now. The improvement is crazy, the professionals have even said covid social distancing has had such an impact that he wasn't the only one they were seeing like that. It's now my firm belief that children need a lot of social interaction with other children their age, before school. Unfortunately for me, even if covid hadn't happened, he still would have had a lack of socialization with other kids his age. I tried relentlessly to no avail to make that happen even at all before school but I was consistently brushed off by everyone I reached out to. I know people don't owe me a thing but when it impacts your child it's a whole other level of bitter I suppose. Especially when you try to get together with those people and their children of a similar age, and they give you the run around and you see them post on social media how they're hanging out with other moms and their kids and they're getting that socialization you practically begged for. Not even for you, but for your kid. It just sucks, and people suck. People really don't care, even if they know your child is struggling and socialization with their children could help.
Hi guys just watching podcast 5 the first email finished paused it too write this , I'm worried about this lady , it seems like stealth d.v to me , any one of those things by themselves not so much . He is keeping finances tight so she can't do nothing, (financial abuse) not major but still , borderline physical abuse being him coming home throwing tantrums ( maybe because she not wanting to be intimate, or she upset he always out) .not supporting her emotionally in anyway in fact quite the opposite she has to do all by herself for child and house and when he says if you don't like it leave he knows full well that she can't afford to due to holding the Financials as tight as he is she will have no money to leave. Has me worried for her
Chris, my daughter has BPD and has struggled with relationships because of it. She's 21 and still learning. Could you suggest some references or things that have helped you to recognize when you are having those days when you need to self care and how you turn those around?
Stop walking on egg shells The Buddha and the borderline. Those two were fresh in my mind. But ultimately therapy and being able to understand the way your brain works is going to be the best teacher. We emotional brain think over logic brain thinking most of the time
Feel so validated and felt as a single mom with Autistic son who is also 8. Dad not in the picture, except for short visits. Thank you for all you guys do and supporting families so hard. It’s badass 🙌🙏🔥
If you guys ever need any extra help editing, hit me up! I'd be more than willing to help I love this content and I can already feel the impact this is going to have on my interpersonal relationships and my future.
Next months I'll turn 30. My ex is 54. We been together for almost 8 years before I ended it. I don't know how old Kryss is. But is it better for me when I ever want to start dating again. To look for some one older. Or more close to my own age??
I think that’s something only you can answer. What you want from your relationship. What you want from a partner. Experiences you’ve had or want to have. Ultimately this all comes down to you.
@@2bebetter thank you so much for you answer. Then i will add that to my personal growth list. because currently we still live together even though we are 2 years broken up. I'm currently working with a lawyer to get him to move. When i live by myself with the kids. I'm gonna work alot on becoming a better me. Then I'll work on that list aswell
On one hand I agree with dating in your tax bracket because I know how many women are but on the other hand I don’t think it’s fair. I’m not a woman looking for money & all its material things. But I do want stability & I want the ability to stay home. I’m a nurse & make decent money & also know what I bring to the table just as a person & would hate to think I’m being looked past because of my tax bracket. I would also have no problem doing a prenup
The backwards biblical phrase was taken from Buddhism and is ‘do not do unto others as you would not want done unto you’. The biblical version assumes because you do nice things to others, you’d want that same treatment in return, but that is selfish and not accepting of others as they are. Unspoken expectations in the bible need to be spoken.
When Khrys said could you imagine being 35 and people say you look 19. Im 23 no one knows what my age is bevause I'm 4 foot 10. Im assumed to be 16 all the time 😂
The gentleman's late wife made her husban trauma bonded to her dying wish. She was only trying to most likely say what your perspective was because she couldn't have put it into words. How unfortunate. I believe he will heal. He is a good man.
This isn't relevant, but I think it's funny my husband is a car mechanic and doesn't fill up my cars gas tank even after he's used it and it's almost on empty. Lol. Ugh!
I feel like he kept his promise because he did try with that woman and her kids. Just because it didn't work doesn't mean that he didn't try to put himself out there and complete his wife's wishes
Your hormone are big contribution in post partum depression, But i regulate a year after birth or a year after ur dont breast feeding as well. ( take 6 month to a year after breastfeeding to be hormonal balance) just insight on that
on the last one. If its the same country that i live in then the legal terms around that is living together not so much the relationship. I know someone who went through something similar but it was the man in the relationship that was the scumbag. Esentially the law recognises a relationship that is more than six months of living together as a kind of marriage. The fact that she went through sudden hardship and then immediately asked to just move in with you was the red flag. Personally im of the opinion that you should not live together unless that is the next step in your relationship. Ive seen those relationships get ugly fast. I do not care what her situation is, you can help her get a new place etc but if they are pressuring you to let them live with you i would be calling them out on that and possibly ending the relationship if they can not respect that boundary.
Hey just started listening this week. I went through your links on here to follow yalls ticky tocks today and like 12 fake accounts useing yalls content followed me i block the accounts.
i am really sorry about the wording on this. im not trying to be rude. Khrys what are your hoould hold job you have to do. other from the cooking. i am trying to be better and i know i should be doing more around the home so im going to start.
So I've been going through and watching every video available, and I am on your email list etc. I can't afford Patreon, but I did want to send you guys something. I can't find the PO Box address on the website or tik tok. Is it only available to your patrons? If so, is there any way that you could send me an email or message with the address? I haven't finished making them, but I am sure you will love the gift. I have been making them as I watch your videos (well when I'm not taking notes that is)
He should be able to put everything he owns including businesses and possessions into trusts, so he doesn’t technically own anything would stop anyone getting his shit
so I have an ex. Let's call him Rob, one of our mutual friends messaged, looking for old photos as if he hadn't known I'm a basic nomad my entire life. why would I keep them all with me? we let go when we were 21, we are 36 now. the problem of us reconnecting is that he has a child, a son. he used to tell me that he will never have a child. was it a poor attempt to make contact with me? or was I making it all up?
The part when you said giving 100% isn’t always going to “equal” 100% it’s going to sway based on what you’re going through really helped me! And that part was so great. This episode was so heart wrenching at the end.. ugh my heart breaks for that man. He sounds so wonderful, I pray for him that he lives a happy rest of his days without his special lady until they meet again. Wow.
Yeah he is a good dude. And that story is hard to tell.
My favourite quote is “do onto others as you want done onto you” I was raised by parents that thought me to be an independent strong woman and as a single mom of twin boys I’ve been teaching them about being a gentlemen and take care of their woman in every way! Every morning they wake up and crawl into my bed and say “ good morning mom” “I love you” and “you’re the best mom ever you know that” and that’s when I realized that no matter how many bad days or frustrating days that I have it is all worth it ❤
When she said “I’ve had the great love of my life”, YES. Perfect description. I think even Terri Irwin has said that about Steve’s passing in interviews.
We both have NICU warriors! My son was born at 28 weeks and 2 days. We spent 72 days in the NICU before we got to go home. My son just turned 2 Nov 2nd and he was diagnosed with Autism back in June. My son is starting to explore sounds more but as of now he doesn’t speak either and we are working on sign language but it is SO hard. Every episode of you guys I watch I find more reasons to just keep on watching. I love your content and it really shapes my attitude for the day. Just after the first 4 episodes and now I’m actively thinking about what I say and how I say it. I nag and I try not to as well as my children’s father was gone obnoxiously long the other night when we had plans and I went to go off and thought about what you guys say and I reeled myself back in and realized I was only having anxiety because I care that he is safe because shit happens and I couldn’t get a text back. Instead of going off I just texted and was like hey love, hope you’re okay! Text me when you can… and I got a way better response than I would have.
I love your content. I’m struggling SO hard in my life currently. I feel like I have no voice of reason or an emotionally mature enough person to hear me out and give constructive advice. I literally listen to you for 6 hours straight while I’m at work. I just want to grow and be my best self I can be and it’s hard in a world where everyone seems so content with just surviving. I find so much value in your conversations and I’m so grateful I found you.
So I hope you guys get a laugh out of this. I have been going through it the last 5 days or so and I only just started listening to your podcast, although I had been watching your tiktoks for a bit. Because I have been so distracted it has taken me a full three days to realize that Chris was calling Khrys his "peace" and not his "piece" and now I can't stop laughing at my foolishness. You are both fantastic and I very much enjoy your content. Have an awesome day.
That’s funny. That actually made me LOL. That is gold.
@@2bebetter I was hoping you'd find it funny and not insulting. I needed that laugh at myself today and thought i'd share.
Though I appreciate the phrase “treat others the way you want to be treated” because it implies a reciprocal relationship of respect, I have also experienced that I tend to treat myself the worst in many scenarios (such as negative self talk, not cleaning up after myself, not feeding myself) and I also can’t assure that my behaviors will be returned to me by others. So I like the phrase “treat others the way THEY want to be treated” because that means I will always be serving the other person in the most loving way and removes the expectations of a return. In that way, I’m always operating within my values, with integrity, and even when I feel low about what I deserve, my behavior towards others should not change. In fact, I find that I can be more motivated to do my household duties if I frame it that my fiancé does not want or deserve to live in a messy house, even though I might feel like just laying in bed and letting things pile up. Just something I’ve heard and reflected on in my self improvement journey and thought I’d share. Also I wanted to say that I really appreciate this podcast! I found you on TikTok and I’m starting from the beginning of all your episodes and discussing what you do with my fiancé. Though we don’t agree with your perspectives on everything, the discussions you help start is so beneficial in our lives as we lay the foundation of a marriage! We have already changed some of our habits for the better because of how you model love and service to each other.
i love the font that you use when you have to clarify something during editing. it matches y'all's vibe so much and it's so cool!
i want to start by saying i love you guys and your podcast/tiktoks it all! i just wanted to mention that sometimes those who breastfeed farther than a year can have their hormones not regulate until around 6 or more months after the women stops breastfeeding. For me, my PPD didn't kick in until a month after i stopped breastfeeding, had my hormones checked multiple times and they were still erratic as they were within the first year after having my son. Your point on most PPD does turn into just depression after a year does happen a lot, but it also depends on how long the woman chooses to breastfeed as well because of the way that breastfeeding changes your hormones. other than that small bit, i loved this episode and as always think you guys have great feedback for common problems in relationships/marriages. Your traditional marriage and how you look at what is needed to make a long term relationship is amazing. keep being amazing and helping those who need it. you make a difference for a bunch of people, me included.
I just started watching your tictok and love the content, and it helps my day today. Helps me be a better man to my wife and our marriage. I know that I can not change the way she looks at things, but I can change the way I approach things. Thank you.
I love them I really aspire to have a relationship like theirs 🫶🏼
"I'm not a hippie"
- Describes hippie vibe😂😂
God I love her laugh. I love how in love these two are! Really want a relationship like these two have.
I love the insights, the intellectual back and forth, and the support you provide others by being REAL with what yall say. You're both the shit and cute as fuck together. I hope you both have only good things come to you, and that wonderful opportunities come to you both because of all you are doing. Much love
I'm taking a lot of info out of your podcast, but it's the little things that really make me happy. "I'm sitting on a couch in air conditioning eating shredded cheese out of a bowl like it's cereal." I feel that in my soul.
Also, streamdecks are the way to go with this stuff. (obviously by know yall know that but)
I'm with Peaches. My husband is in his 50, I'm in my 30s, and if he goes next week, I'm done for good. I could never love anyone the way I love him. I will be his wife till the day I die regardless of whether he's still alive.
Omg I have found my “petty as fuck” family!! 😂
I love you guys! I’m currently binge watching to get caught up!
My former best friend is going through one of the worst relationships situations ever. I really wish I was still in contact with her, so I could show her this podcast. You're a couple she needs to see and listen to more. You two are amazing.
They can't say no if you ask for ur own body part(s) back if it's for spiritual/religious reasons (in the states)
chris i absolutely love your shirt. i recently bought the peace shirt and the tattoos shirt, i kept the peace shirt and gave the tattoo shirt to my best guy friend.
You guys are amazing you both have a really good open mind. have you always had that thought process or has it taken a long time to develop
I love that Khrys always corrects herself when she calls Chris "dude" or "bro." That was SUCH a hard habit for me to break, too. I would hate it if my husband called me the same (and it took him having that conversation with me for it to really 'click') - I completely understand and respect the desire to change that habit! It's relatable AF, and I respect TF out of you for it, Khrys!
I want to read the email!!
I cant wait to be able to subscribe to yalls Patreon so that i can see all the content yall make. Regardless of what yall talk about, wven if you think its all over and small, i think something can always be taken from it. So id love to see what other kinds of content yall make!
I love the part about the jeep 🤣🤣
In response to episode #4, in the State of Tennessee, the Grandparents have no rights, to the grand children.
I don’t agree that man can’t have the same bond a mom does I’ve always been very in tune with my kids, very attentive, and very patient more so than mom, but I think you are right in the broad spectrum of men
Where is episode 4? If I ever see a painting of a ginger cow in a field of yellow flowers with a perfect blue sky and fluffy clouds I am so sending it your way!
Im canada, if you live common law is 6 month to 1 year, of living togethor and shared expenses. you can contest cost of living ect.
Man this made me cry b/c our lives are so crazy my hubby doesnt get to video game much if at all and it makes me feel bad. He has taken up some games on his phone, but I know its not the same for him. He actually just gave up his xbox subscriptions. Our son is 10 wheelchair bound with Spina Bifida and a slew of other Dx. We lead our lives very similar to ya'lls as close as we can what works for us.
Where is the checklist broadcast? Me and my wife wants to listen and put in the work. Thanks. Love these 2!
Khrys- where did you get that shirt????
Gas stations are the WORST! I only fuel up in my uniform in early EARLY morning. That’s why it pisses you off…. They are terrible.
The part where you thought your kid was going to be nonverbal and autistic for the rest of his life at the age of two, I felt that. Mine mostly spoke gibberish and some words like letters and numbers and some other small single worded things, right up until he went to Pre-K at the ripe age of four. Coming up this summer he'll be five with a full year of Pre-K and he's speaking full sentences and singing things now. The improvement is crazy, the professionals have even said covid social distancing has had such an impact that he wasn't the only one they were seeing like that. It's now my firm belief that children need a lot of social interaction with other children their age, before school. Unfortunately for me, even if covid hadn't happened, he still would have had a lack of socialization with other kids his age. I tried relentlessly to no avail to make that happen even at all before school but I was consistently brushed off by everyone I reached out to. I know people don't owe me a thing but when it impacts your child it's a whole other level of bitter I suppose. Especially when you try to get together with those people and their children of a similar age, and they give you the run around and you see them post on social media how they're hanging out with other moms and their kids and they're getting that socialization you practically begged for. Not even for you, but for your kid. It just sucks, and people suck. People really don't care, even if they know your child is struggling and socialization with their children could help.
I’ve noticed there isn’t an episode 4??
Only referring to peaches as a “fluffy ginger cow” from here on out, purely with love 🖤
Yesssssss omg I love this 💚💚
Sun gazing is healthy
Idiocrasy IS A GREAT MOVIE
Post partem depression can last up to 3 years and there's a higher chance of that happening for women with mood disorders and gestational diabetes.
Thank you so much, the 100% part was everything for me
I’m glad you get value from us
Wait yall are jeep people too?! I knew I liked you guys!
We had a wrangler that I sunk a LOT of money into. And then traded it in. I still have a jeep though
@@2bebetter nice we have a wrangler . My husband is always doing something to it. Its our Rock crawler.
Lol I want to be in the convo as it’s going
Hi guys just watching podcast 5 the first email finished paused it too write this , I'm worried about this lady , it seems like stealth d.v to me , any one of those things by themselves not so much . He is keeping finances tight so she can't do nothing, (financial abuse) not major but still , borderline physical abuse being him coming home throwing tantrums ( maybe because she not wanting to be intimate, or she upset he always out) .not supporting her emotionally in anyway in fact quite the opposite she has to do all by herself for child and house and when he says if you don't like it leave he knows full well that she can't afford to due to holding the Financials as tight as he is she will have no money to leave. Has me worried for her
Chris, my daughter has BPD and has struggled with relationships because of it. She's 21 and still learning. Could you suggest some references or things that have helped you to recognize when you are having those days when you need to self care and how you turn those around?
Stop walking on egg shells
The Buddha and the borderline.
Those two were fresh in my mind. But ultimately therapy and being able to understand the way your brain works is going to be the best teacher. We emotional brain think over logic brain thinking most of the time
Feel so validated and felt as a single mom with Autistic son who is also 8.
Dad not in the picture, except for short visits.
Thank you for all you guys do and supporting families so hard. It’s badass 🙌🙏🔥
If you guys ever need any extra help editing, hit me up! I'd be more than willing to help I love this content and I can already feel the impact this is going to have on my interpersonal relationships and my future.
That is soooooo strange I just had a women I was helping at work and I too am almost 30 and she also said that she thought I was 19 🤣😂
Next months I'll turn 30. My ex is 54. We been together for almost 8 years before I ended it. I don't know how old Kryss is. But is it better for me when I ever want to start dating again. To look for some one older. Or more close to my own age??
I think that’s something only you can answer. What you want from your relationship. What you want from a partner. Experiences you’ve had or want to have. Ultimately this all comes down to you.
@@2bebetter thank you so much for you answer. Then i will add that to my personal growth list. because currently we still live together even though we are 2 years broken up. I'm currently working with a lawyer to get him to move. When i live by myself with the kids. I'm gonna work alot on becoming a better me. Then I'll work on that list aswell
On one hand I agree with dating in your tax bracket because I know how many women are but on the other hand I don’t think it’s fair. I’m not a woman looking for money & all its material things. But I do want stability & I want the ability to stay home. I’m a nurse & make decent money & also know what I bring to the table just as a person & would hate to think I’m being looked past because of my tax bracket. I would also have no problem doing a prenup
The backwards biblical phrase was taken from Buddhism and is ‘do not do unto others as you would not want done unto you’. The biblical version assumes because you do nice things to others, you’d want that same treatment in return, but that is selfish and not accepting of others as they are. Unspoken expectations in the bible need to be spoken.
I love how her name is spelled.
My goodness she is gorgeous
Yes she is!
When Khrys said could you imagine being 35 and people say you look 19. Im 23 no one knows what my age is bevause I'm 4 foot 10. Im assumed to be 16 all the time 😂
Kryss im so sorry in one of your TikTok videos i did say preach queen. I will never use that again for you ☺️
The gentleman's late wife made her husban trauma bonded to her dying wish. She was only trying to most likely say what your perspective was because she couldn't have put it into words. How unfortunate. I believe he will heal. He is a good man.
This isn't relevant, but I think it's funny my husband is a car mechanic and doesn't fill up my cars gas tank even after he's used it and it's almost on empty. Lol. Ugh!
I feel like he kept his promise because he did try with that woman and her kids. Just because it didn't work doesn't mean that he didn't try to put himself out there and complete his wife's wishes
Ok now i wanna see the jeep
It’s gone. I traded it in lol
Your hormone are big contribution in post partum depression, But i regulate a year after birth or a year after ur dont breast feeding as well. ( take 6 month to a year after breastfeeding to be hormonal balance) just insight on that
Yep
on the last one. If its the same country that i live in then the legal terms around that is living together not so much the relationship. I know someone who went through something similar but it was the man in the relationship that was the scumbag. Esentially the law recognises a relationship that is more than six months of living together as a kind of marriage. The fact that she went through sudden hardship and then immediately asked to just move in with you was the red flag. Personally im of the opinion that you should not live together unless that is the next step in your relationship. Ive seen those relationships get ugly fast. I do not care what her situation is, you can help her get a new place etc but if they are pressuring you to let them live with you i would be calling them out on that and possibly ending the relationship if they can not respect that boundary.
Hey just started listening this week. I went through your links on here to follow yalls ticky tocks today and like 12 fake accounts useing yalls content followed me i block the accounts.
i am really sorry about the wording on this. im not trying to be rude. Khrys what are your hoould hold job you have to do. other from the cooking. i am trying to be better and i know i should be doing more around the home so im going to start.
I’ll make sure a video is made for this. A text response is too much for me to type out
@@2bebetter thank you so much. 😀
I'm a gamer but if my kid needs me thats what is important if I'm playing a game that can't be interrupted my husband can handle it
So I've been going through and watching every video available, and I am on your email list etc. I can't afford Patreon, but I did want to send you guys something. I can't find the PO Box address on the website or tik tok. Is it only available to your patrons? If so, is there any way that you could send me an email or message with the address? I haven't finished making them, but I am sure you will love the gift. I have been making them as I watch your videos (well when I'm not taking notes that is)
He should be able to put everything he owns including businesses and possessions into trusts, so he doesn’t technically own anything would stop anyone getting his shit
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so I have an ex. Let's call him Rob, one of our mutual friends messaged, looking for old photos as if he hadn't known I'm a basic nomad my entire life. why would I keep them all with me? we let go when we were 21, we are 36 now. the problem of us reconnecting is that he has a child, a son. he used to tell me that he will never have a child.
was it a poor attempt to make contact with me?
or was I making it all up?
I can’t decide if you guys are toxic or helpful.
i love yall sm pls adopt me