Not a Happy Story...
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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
- At any moment, the life of someone you dearly love or your own life can be snuffed out in a heartbeat. With this harsh reality in mind, it is important that you let those who you love know how much they mean to you and that you cherish every moment in time. If you enjoyed this video and would like to see more you can contribute a little to my work and watch extra content and all early releases first here on my Patreon plus exclusive videos
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Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened.
Although you have your own free will to live your life how you want and he will never force anything on you, please dont let your biggest regret in life be that you never asked to know him becauae he is the way, the truth and the life and nobody gets to the father without him.
Godbless and thankyou for all of your content over the years. And your son sounds like a fine young man
Thanks mate
I really miss yor nephew!I had a similar experience,walking back from a party with 3 men,I was lagging behind them and i thought i could hear them talking about killing me as we approached a pitch black park we had to pass through.I shrugged it off and as we entered the park,i saw 3 girls as clear as day walking diwn the street nd calling me to come now,come with us!This ice cold chill fell over me and i ran after them.i saw a light on in a hall,i went in its was a church night service,and who did i see,the 3 girls sitting in the isles!😮i walked up to them and told them I'd just seen them calling me down the road???they said theyd been sitting in church for the last hour and hadn't left.I believe your son saw an angel relaying your heart message to him,thats what gave him that will to pull him through,its up to us whether or not we hear whats being sent ❤ Arohanui Clay
Mate that made me tear up, thank you for sharing, water safety isnt covered enough in schools and its mainly mainly based around rips at the beach.
Thankyou for all of these vids clay, they help more people than you realise. Keep going strong brother
“In the blink of an eye” how true are these words! 5 years ago almost to the day I lost my daughter, grief gets easier with time but man it sure is tough when you’re going through it.
You held yourself well during those early days mate. She was blessed to a dad like you in her short life. I can not even begin to know how hard that losing her was for you and your family.
100% bro, well said. Sorry for your loss you hit the nail on the head with your comments. Family is everything. I've always had that tingling feeling after dispatching a pig? Its something i don't like doing but is part of the process.
Very sad bro. Thank you for sharing. Very emotional.
It's not good when things like this happen its a huge loss for all and the impact will be felt for a long time. Your son did what he could do within that situation. And full credit to him for doing so. I can so relate to this story on a personal level, as i had something similar happen in May / June of 2008 with my Father, it's something i think about to this very day in regards to why did he do what he did. And there is no real answer that I've found within myself . I can only guess he (My Father ) reached a point of no return i honestly don't know. i still remember that day like it was only yesterday, finding him sitting in his chair. It does make us really think about how life can change in a heart beat. It really does as you just don't know, you really don't, life throws us some real curve balls at times. And it effects us all in different ways, and we all deal with it differently. Love the content it's informative and supportive to a lot of people. it's a sharing platform.... Thank you.
That was a terrible thing. Sorry for such a great loss. If you have love ones , tell them you love them , be good to everyone . Because life is not a guarantee . Aloha
Thanks for telling the story, your a good man buddy, merry Xmas 👍👍👍
Hey Clay I'm a fisherman out of nelson on the tasman viking for yen years I run into mcyale at the airport we both missed out flights this story hits me hard been following u since before covid and he was the man like u much love clay
That sounds like him. He was for ever missing flights, trains and busses. He lived in a different time reality
So sorry clay I remember that time it was a really very emotional time 😢 it was so hard to have heard what happened and to hear it again it just made me tear up and and I could see the emotion in your face and I really feel for you I do all the love ❤️ buddy spend a magical time with your family at Xmas 🎄lots of hugs 🤗 and cuddles with them . Much appreciated for sharing that really sad time . 🤠Colin ❤️🤗🤗🎄
Wise words, mate, and a sad story. We all need to love and look after our loved ones because every wave, hug, kiss, and goodbye might be the last. Best wishes to you all.
Love you brother, man dont know what it was but this story hit me hard, bought me to tears, i havnt cried in years, really healing to here this story brother, in this depth, you truly are an amazing being bro, real angel, thank you for all that you do bro
Sometimes we just need a catalyst to release our own grief. Tears are healing
Great message clay. 100% agree with you.
Correct 😢 100% ❤
Aint that the truth, unforeseen circumstances befall us all. We dont know what tomorrow holds.
The spirit of others can live on in us and give us new strength.
Love the story’s! As a surfer that doesn’t know his biological father, this was extremely moving. Thanks for sharing bro🤙🏽
brilliant to hear about the jab status. 👍
I hope one day you track him down. This would be important for many reasons for you.
Aloha from Hawaii, sorry for your lost
we all are not promised. Tomorrow, one minute person you love is there, and then next minute there, Gone life is never Fair and we will
never stop morning for them
awesome love the way u talk and how open and everything you are. I live a isolated life to be honest
I remember Mikkail on your CTS channel, seemed a lovely guy, such a shame... them boys were/ are a credit to you.... Great video dude!! Merry Xmas to you snd yours, from a blowy NW of Ireland..
Thank you kindly
Powerful talk and story ! Every day is a gift,live it !
Cheers bro always worth a check in here always something to learn from others experiences. Say hi to Muzza from Jono if ya remember. Pretty sure i worked with him welding in the port years ago when living up those ways. Keep up the good work 🫡
I remember this clay.good to reflect on these things.i also the story of smash.still heartbroken about that.hope all is well anyway mate
Mauri ora bro. Keep safe happy and healthy. Enjoy summer eh, we rocking your cd on the way down the coast!
Good on ya bro. Safe travels
Thankyou for sharing clay ❤❤
Stay strong mate, Life is a mystery, enjoy and share love.
Big Hugs xxx such a terrible thing to get over and you probably never will .. the Hawk was Michaele . Birds I believe are spiritual signals .. lots of love to you and your family from our family xxx Merry Christmas to you x
Us pig hunters say, where there is a hawk, there is pork, but in this case, there was death unfolding at that very point in time. Thanks Aly x
Thanks for sharing. A touching story
great words mate, i hope the bro check club/ clay tallstories is going to take a month off soon and come back to us in February!!
Cheers mate
Gidday mate bloody hell you got me all teared up telling that story mate, that's alot to trauma for a young man to carry he's lucky he has a father like you.
Been dad has nothing to do with blood mate it's like my dad to my brothers they've no blood connection to me but to my they are my brothers and my sister and my dad is their father.
Only problem is unlike you mate who encourage your kids to always live their true life an to go what they love. My dad is the complete opposite he's a bitter old dying man who isn't even living now he's just alive.
But my father has never encouraged his grandchildren or us kids, he's always been very negative,
Thankfully us kids mostly turned out better.
What happened to you that day I believe was formed by the deep connection you have with your son,.
It's so tragic what happened to Mikal he was definitely talented.
Life is a trail that eventually we get to the end of,
What we do along the way and how we act makes us better or worse.
I've always believed that we get back what we put out. So I'm always kind and encouraging.
Much love and you've done an exceptional job as a father mate and a friend and a mentor to many many others.
Just like my own father I have made plenty of mistakes with my own children. The only difference is that when my children have come to me with any grievances from my own wrong doing I always validate it, even if I can't remember it. That is something that is important to do. It's never to late to evolve. Maybe your das has an experience to push his evolution along a bit before he dies.
@thebrocheckclub1777 +I hope so mate, I think because he's been this hardcore fencer and gardener etc to now he can't even take a piss without needing his asthma pumps.
I'd love to learn any knowledge of my dad, my step dad is more of a father to me and has so much knowledge.
Still love me dad the moments I make him smile are worth all his grumpiness lol.
We are all here for you and everyone else brother. Cheers Clay. Some things stick with you man. Not a bad thing, just a bit painful ay. Thanks bro
I appreciate that
Never truer words spoken, stay safe brother
much love brother...birthdays are better than Christmas bull laxy
Thank you for sharing.
There's a New Zealander sitting in London, that is really enjoying your videos bro!
Gday mate. I lived in Europe for 13 years. I know what it's like living abroad. There is a part of yourself that always stays back in NZ.
@@thebrocheckclub1777 So true brother. It's hard to put your finger on what exactly the word for it is. Whatever it is, it's a deep feeling that should be followed. Comes from the heart and/or the gut I reckon.
There's more then one reason you created the bro chech club 😊 Good on ya Clay
100% clay, looking forward to launching our mens support blog website. Had a few hickups and life situations that got in the way but still on track, in due time.
you are such a great father clay
So very true a good is worth so much more then anything else
Aroha mai my bro much luv condolences
Hey Bro, you know I like your style but this one should be shown in schools to all year 10s ! ☝👍👍
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SOLID BRO 🙏🙏🙏
That's deep mate. Glad you sharered but just be hard to talk about
Both my sons almost drowned as kids due to their lack of fear of the water, luckily like your son their was someone able to help at the time....and just a mention for my good mate muzza who got so sick of me being a gummy bugger he paid for me to get some false teeth 😊 where would ya be without your great mates aye Clay 😀
Now that's a mate. Nice one Muzza.
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Ty 🥲
Do you think a whole plant base diet helps with heart health? Its so confusing. You hear online red meat butter, eggs etc are the best foods for heart health. Does the whole plant base diet work well 4u?
You are right. It is confusing. There are so many conflicting views. All I can say is study the longitudinal scientific meta-analysis studies that have hard endpoints and do not, I repeat do not listen to you tubers who do not site these studies. There are plenty of anecdotal studies with soft end points that will back the bias of carnivore and keto supporter's and that is where I came unstuck with my heart health 3 years ago.
@@thebrocheckclub1777 do you reckon plant base would be the go?
@@thebrocheckclub1777 at the moment, I'm not entirely carnivore. I'll just have abit of everything in moderation. Plenty fish though, fresh veg..I'm 41..
Yes
@@thebrocheckclub1777 but I do enjoy a decent either steak or lamb chop with raw onions.. 😋😋
chur clay, love from the far north
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You always come across as a devout atheist, but those notions of fore-knowledge are typical of the activity of The Holy Spirit. Perhaps God has ideas on your life that you just won't recognise 😉
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Chur bro,arhhh why ,i lost my son 1 month ago , he was 31 ,life is so so short as it is , ,i miss my son , life goes on with or without the ones you loves .Chur chur peace.now go fix something lol.
That's hard brother. Sorry for your loss.
@@thebrocheckclub1777 chur bro thanks
You're a bloody good bastard clay
Hey bro
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Yeah the bro , proud Ur unvaccinated. Shit kills
My 22 year old neice Tessa got pericarditis after it and is still not well. I have mates who were otherwise well that have all suffered multiple illnesses that other wise they never had after the jab. I am not anti vaccine...I am just anti anything that has not been throughly tested.